What Would Love Do?

If you have followed me for any length of time, you know that I talk about emotional availability quite often. What seems like a simple concept is actually quite complex and it can make or break a relationship.

When a man is emotionally available or emotionally mature, he doesn’t shy away from sharing his feelings or having difficult conversations. He’s open to being vulnera...

I’m not gonna lie…men only hunt for their next sexual partner. Men are NOT hunting for a relationship. If they learn from others in their life how to have a monogamous relationship, then that’s the best of both worlds – finding a sexual partner who satisfies their needs who they also want to spend time with.

So, is it any wonder why some men come on strong, fill your head with unicorns ...

Which group do you fall into: Group 1, where you lean back and enjoy your dating journey and see where things go. Or Group 2, where you worry about every little nuance of the dating process.

There’s no right or wrong answer; it’s more of a self-exploration question. When you know how you handle the dating, mating, and relating process you’ll be better able to answer this quest...

Do you ever get tired of making decisions? Between your work, friends, and children, I’ll bet by the end of the day you don’t want anybody calling your name or asking you to make one more decision.

The same is true of guys, especially those who come on strong and believe that it’s the guy’s “job” to chase a woman he likes. Well, men get tired of chasing. Even thought that’s...

Let’s talk about masculine and feminine energy for a moment. If you’re a longtime follower of mine, you know I don’t like the typical rhetoric surrounding these words when it comes to ‘energy.’ That’s because these different energies are often portrayed as being negative.

However, let’s reframe how we think of masculine and feminine energy. In my world, I think of masculine en...

I tend to give men a hard time when it comes to dating because many men (not all!) are just bad dates. This tends to come from the way they were raised, often with the understanding that “boys don’t cry” or “men are rocks; they don’t show their emotions.” In this current world, we all KNOW those are falsehoods but we also know that changing that programming in our ...

Get ready…you might not like what I have to say on this topic. If two people genuinely like each other and have respect for each other’s values, there’s no need to play the game of “making” him miss you. This strikes me as very manipulative, whether it’s the man or woman playing this game.

Being manipulative is VERY different from working on your own behavior that you don’t like o...

I’m going to make a generalization here that I find to be true based on my own dating experiences and with coaching clients: Women tend to view love from the fantasy or soap opera perspective. They think the man will ride in on a white horse, ready to scoop her away from her life of drudgery. Or their man will say just the right words at every moment or they will know what she’...

This seems to be an age-old question that never has a good or right answer. And it really depends on which perspective you have. If you enjoy the hook up or one-night stand culture, then you’ll argue it’s perfectly fine to have sex on the first or second date because it’s just casual. Neither party wants a steady relationship so why not? I get it.

However, if you’re following me, then I’...

When A Man Deeply Loves You, He’ll Say & Do THESE Things If you’re a regular listener, you know that having awesome chemistry with someone does NOT mean you’ve found your life partner. It could, but chemistry is not the deciding factor. In fact, when the dopamine and excitement of that first kiss and those […]

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5 Unique Qualities Men Find Super Hot & Attractive Men who are driven by their libido often choose women they can take advantage of. They may not consciously realize that’s what they’re doing but that’s a sign of an emotionally immature man. No matter how hot you might look and feel, an emotionally immature man […]

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