While We're Still Here
Discussing dying and death isn't typically a preferred topic. The thought of bringing it up can feel overwhelming. How do we share with those in our inner circle? The more we acknowledge that 100% of us will die, the more likely we are to share our thoughts about end of life choices. We would share our wishes, fears, and concerns about end of life by starting the conversation with our people. We can work at leaving nothing unsaid with those we love. We can empower others to do the same. Let's discuss how to live for today knowing that we all will die.
Episodes
I have received fabulous feedback about Ken. I am so glad we were able to talk as much as we did so that you can hear more of his thoughts on dying and death.
11:00 "I'm gonna die someday so I don't think I want to spend my time doing that"
13:30 "Acceptance that we will die is a 'ticket to life'.
26:10 Last ice cream.
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A care home employee mentioned to me that she asks new clients "Who is Your Village?" Wow, what an eye opener for me!
I have family, friends, coworkers, etc. When it comes to my time of need, Who is My Village? Who is there to keep an eye out for me, answer a call for help, or even give me a ride?
If you've realized you have a village--Good for you! However, is there someone you know without a village? Do you need to...
Caution: Suicide and alcoholism/addiction are mentioned in this episode.
Ken is a man who gripped me right away. His energy and thought processes are such as I had not encountered previously. We enjoyed talking together so much I divided the episode into two parts. This is Part One.
12:53 Ken paraphrases an important message from a distinguished author and claims it as his way of life.
15:33 If I'm going to live, this is my cha...
My dear friend Nan died too young. She was getting her life on a safer track only to be struck down by an unexpected work injury. We weren't always friends, but the statement above changed it all, for the better.
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Nicole is the Bereavement Coordinator for Chaplaincy Hospice. She explains the services offered, community outreach, and support for families. We covered so much in this interview. Take a listen.
22:00 Who can utilize Bereavement Services?
39:30 Normalize death
61:06 Contact Tri Cities Chaplaincy and Cork's Place 509-783-7416 (ext 3006)
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/98651688-where-did-benjamin-go
Hello! During my time off I have continued learning, and the learning included the benefits of reflection. Not rumination - Reflection. Reflecting on experiences or conversations can spark an idea or emotion. These reflections may propel you forward. They could teach you a different way of thinking or behaving. They can also open a window that had long been closed. Listen to my reflection about my dear friend Nan.
After a break since July, I am happy to say I have made adjustments in my life and I want to continue our death conversations. I have an interview coming up I know you'll enjoy. This is what I want to do. I want to share with you all the things I hear about dying and death. Can we talk?
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I am not saying goodbye today. I am saying so long for now. I didn't realize how quickly this day would arrive but here I am. Please reach out to me through my email or Facebook or LinkedIn. I'll be around in one form or another. Pausing feels right. I hope you understand.
Have a question or topic you'd like to explore? I'm still here....
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Boy, what a tough few days I have had. There has been a lot of emotion churning inside me. I'll let you listen, but here are some key points in my mind that I want to get across to you:
1. We hope to always have our memories, and therefore we buy things to memorialize special occasions or events, hoping that somehow the stuff will allow us to recapture the feelings from that event or occasion - to take us back there, even ...
They're coming. We can't stop them. Change happens. How will you face change?
Winds of Change, song by The Scorpions
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Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Re...
This is not a repeat episode but a repeat topic with a bonus - more updated information for us to consider as we age and face our end of life.
While We're Still Here Episode dated 09/20/2023 "Are You Living Your Last Decade? How Would You Know That?"
https://peterattiamd.com/start-here/
https://www.selfauthoring.com/
Snail mail that is. For years now, email has replaced old-fashioned "snail mail", which itself has been shadowed by the faster communication options such as texting and so on. Nonetheless, sometimes, receiving a written letter brings familiar memories.
Listen to how Postal Service for the Dead helps us stay connected to ones we've lost.
https://sleepysue.studio/ look up workshops
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I'm learning that I keep learning everyday. I'm sharing some of that learning today and hope to inspire you all to grab learning where you can get it. I learn professionally, of course. In my life and relationships, I appreciate the opportunities to learn because, positive or negative, there are nuggets for me to take into new situations and old ones.
https://fivewishes.org
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Here are some facts that I consider to be important reminders that we have work to do before we die.
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Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the scor...
Dr. Mandar Kataria thinks so, and many professionals agree. In the grief space, being able to find my laugh again was a big step forward to healing. Recently in a webinar, a doula mentioned laughter yoga. I marked that in my notes. I looked it up and signed up for an online class. How was it? Listen in...
https://laughteryoga.org
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Susan is a woman you won't forget. Here's her story....BUT THERE IS A WARNING:
Adult topics like suicide are mentioned. Please call 988 if you or someone you share this with may be struggling and want to speak with someone who can help.
This episode has so many nuggets I don't want you to miss any of them. Here is a list of nuggets I hope you can find in this episode:
mamma bear, despair, invisibl...
I found this piece and wanted to share it with you all. Many of us are familiar with the stages of grief Dr. Kubler Ross established for terminally ill patients. What you'll hear in this episode may validate some feelings around grief.
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Standby for tears today.
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Starting with Episode 56, the episode music was added. It was composed, produced and provided by Kyle Bray specifically for this show. Reach out to me if you want the score.
The logo artwork was provided by Maddie's Plush Pouch - maddeli...
This won't be a deep dive into tissue and organ donation, more like a comparison to whole body donation. I have also included some facts that I believe are important and crucial to anyone considering this method of body disposition. Important links are included below:
Eye donation:
https://www.eyedonation.org/
Yes! I hadn't considered this as a green option for body disposition, but it checks the boxes so far as I have learned.
https://www.ohsu.edu/body-donation
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