261 | The Empty Chair Endeavor (Part One) with Greg and Cathy Buffkin

Greg and Cathy Buffkin join me on the podcast today to share the story of their son Ryan—a funny and tenderhearted young man who brought joy and laughter to everyone around him. As we get to know Ryan through their memories, we also learn about the hidden struggles he carried and the heartbreaking loss they experienced when he died by suicide in the fall of 2015.

With honesty and grace, Greg and Cathy open up about the complicated grief that comes with suicide loss, including the misconceptions that often surround it. They speak directly to the false belief that suicide is the unforgivable sin, offering reassurance that Ryan knew the Lord and is with Him now. Our conversation is both tender and powerful, offering hope, truth, and the comforting reminder that God’s love never lets go—even in our deepest sorrow.

In this conversation, you’ll hear:

• Stories of Ryan’s life and personality
• The events leading up to his death
• The discovery of deeply painful truths after his passing
• How Greg and Kathy have processed their grief over the past ten years
• The impact of sibling loss on their surviving daughter
• Gentle, faith-filled advice for parents grieving a suicide
• A reminder that God’s love reaches even into our darkest places

This episode is tender, honest, and full of hope. If you’ve lost a child—or know someone who has—Greg and Cathy’s story will remind you that you are not alone and that God is present, even in the pain.

Resources & Links:

• While We’re Waiting – Support for bereaved parents
• Scripture References:
  • Romans 8:1 – “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.”
  • Romans 8:38-39 – “Nothing in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
  • Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him…”

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