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January 20, 2023 69 mins

In this episode of Whiskey'd & Uncensored, we discuss 6 tips to help improve your sexual experiences in the bedroom. Whether you're looking to spice things up or simply want to improve your overall sexual satisfaction, these tips will provide valuable insight and practical advice. Some of the key topics covered include communication, exploring new positions and techniques, and how to create a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere and of course they typical left fiend commentary we all love!

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Unknown (00:13):
What's going on everybody? Welcome back to
another episode of whiskey anduncensored. My name is Eddie
Lopez and I'm gonna be the hostof this debauchery where we sit
around Converse anything sexrelated sex, trans relationship,
gossip and just the good oldbullshit. All while having fun
and drinking some whiskey.

(00:35):
Today I got on the other end, Ihave Miss Sheena gray, which I
still think she is stilldrinking. I think she is on her
diet plan right now. Right?
You're still prepping for yourshow or getting ready to prep
for your upcoming show here. Isthat correct? Transitioning into
prep, transitioning into prep?
Well, you enjoy that while Ienjoy this Knob Creek.

(00:57):
Not my best not my favorite, ornot the best but not my favorite
either. But it's on the shelf.
So I'm going to drink it.
But before webefore we get into this, I
I had a meal the other night. Itold you I was gonna bring this
back up. It was a meal so good.
That it almost made me want toslap my mama. So I bought myself

(01:20):
an instant pot. And I mademyself a whole chicken teriyaki
meal. And let me tell you, itwas absolutely fantastic. And I
know they say the way to a man'sheart is through his stomach.
And I would like to knowif I cooked it myself, does that

(01:43):
mean I'm in love with myself? Iwould believe love yourself. Oh,
I do love myself. But after thatmeal, I fucking love myself.
Knowing damn well that it is arepeatable meal that I can just
gouge out on. Let me ask you,have you ever had food? That was

(02:08):
almost as good as six?
No, no, not even close. Like,when you bid into something or
you just save or something likeGod damn, this is fucking good
and just had their juicesflowing. I enjoy it as food. But
not more, not more than six.
I mean, when it'd be a littlebit disappointing if I could

(02:30):
really replace your deck withfood. I mean, I wouldn't be
managing. I mean, eggplants arebigger than me. So I mean, those
are foods that can be replaced.
We're almost six but yeah, but Iget it. No, but there are times
where I feel like sometimes thatshit. This was fucking
phenomenal. And I can just fallasleep because typically after

(02:54):
sex, what, what is it you fallasleep. So after this, I felt
like I had the itis I gavemyself the itis where I was
ready to pass out go to bed andnot care about anything. But the
rest of the evening because Ihad a full stomach or full
belly. And I was feeling reallygood. Like, I didn't care about
anything else at that point. SoI was just curious. If you

(03:16):
happen to have food that madeyou almost thought it was better
than sex, but I might be theonly one home.
All right. So before we get intotoday's conversation, which is a
rather interesting one, can Iask you a few general questions
to see howit's going to fare out in this

(03:38):
conversation that we're going tohave? Do you feel that you are
on top of your six game? I mean,I would say that you can take or
most people continually getbetter. As you get older you
learn more things, differenttechniques, you get more
confident.
So I think I could be betterthan what I'm at now. As far as

(04:00):
top of what my game has been sofar to ensure Yeah, I mean, I
can rock that. I can say I feellike I'm in my prime time. I
think there's a particular agewhere they say guys are in their
prime I noticed that younger agelike in your 20s I believe what
I could personally say I feelwhat no you don't think the 20s

(04:21):
are like their patronswhat have they learned? Oh no no
no 22 year old learn how to dothey got the stamina that's for
sure because that's where I wasgetting ready to seminar but
they don't know what to do withit you're just being stabbed it
up. Just pounded away HmmYeah, cuz I can say that. If, if
I had to work on anything,that's definitely one of the

(04:45):
things I wouldwould enjoy to work on would be
my stamina because, you know,you get in a moment where next
thing you know you're poundingaway. You're just having a good
Oh, good sex session thatYou feel like you're fucking out
of breath within a few minutes.
If I can be able to control thatstamina portion of it, I think

(05:06):
I'd be the stamina or yourbreathing. It doesn't that fall
under the same thing, staminaand breathing, necessarily if
you if you're pumping away andI'll send you out of breath,
like you just got gassed out.
No, that's fine. I kind of putthat together as part of stamina
like,like, you just did all that.
Cool. Yeah, but that's kind of aturn on to though to hear so

(05:28):
many huffing and puffing. Yeah,like the deep breathing and all
that together. But you just, ifyou just back their eyelids,
like, somebody might be done,you might have to check in like,
you're breathing a little toohard, motherfucker. You're good.
So do you feel like you can dothings better? Sure. Absolutely.

(05:49):
What do you what do you thinkyou can do better? Um, well, I
guess stamina could be a thingas well for a chick as far as
writing or whatnot. Bunnies orold?
Knees? Oh, I mean, I think we'reall at that point. Now where you
squat down a little too low andyou ain't getting back up. So

(06:10):
caution when you go intoweddings and stuff. You decide
you want to get to work andstuff. I might go down, but I'm
not coming back up. So that tellyou that story? No, you have a
story waiting.
I mean, you might as well tellit now.
Your knees locked. Chatsworthis.

(06:32):
So my, my knees are bad come outof place. Okay. The bottom part
comes disconnected from the top.
Well, once I know I know is thata wedding reception. I had just
moved down here to Florida, andthen went back home to go to a
friend's wedding. And wasn'tdrunk and had like one glass of

(06:54):
wine. And legit. So one glasslike little eight ounce glass or
like, glass was like a littleJohn cup. That's like the Yeah,
that's a whole book and bottlein there in that one? Yes.
It had just started. It was onelast line. Okay, so, um, we were

(07:16):
doing the wobble, and somehow. Iknow. Ironic, right? So somehow
I turn and when I turned thebottom part of my leg and turn
on my knee came out of placelike it had before. But this
time I ripped everything in myknee. And then did you have to
go to the hospital after awedding?

(07:38):
Listen, I didn't want to leave.
So I stayed. And my ex was like,we need to go. And I was like,
I'm not leaving. I want to seeeverybody. I don't want to leave
yet. So we stayed and we playgames. And then
I wake up the next morning andmy knee is like four times the
size that it was supposed to be.

(08:02):
Yeah, I can walk on my leg Ican. It was a whole fucking shit
show. Did you have to go get adrained or just let it swell and
come down. I went back and forthto the doctor a few times. I was
supposed to have surgery on it.
But like most of my stories, Idid not refuse what the doctor
said we get. So this is a greatPSA announcement. Ladies and

(08:24):
gentlemen, once you get close toyour 40s Do not try to drop it
like it's hot, because you haveseven years ago. Okay, so 30s by
30 If you're in your 30s Shitstarting to break down when you
hit your 40s it's already brokendown. So when you get to that
point of dropping that shit,like it's hot, you ain't coming

(08:45):
back up, it's gonna get coldreally fast. So.
But, but back to the question,if I felt like, you know, or if
you felt like I could do thingsbetter. I know, for me, I feel
like I can always do somethingbetter. But I think I do things
rather exceptionally well. Sountil that this strong word

(09:08):
until the Google reviews comein. I'm gonna keep it as is.
And then if I get a better whatis exceptional is quite a word
there. No, the mouth does a lotof substitution for other lack
of things that I may fall shorton. So whatever I can't do

(09:29):
to perfection, I will substituteand slide in with the mouth and
things are totally forgotten.
Believe it or not, it's likemagic.
It's like the magic eraser.
Let me tell you if I had aGoogle review on what my mouth
can do, let me tell you thereviews I'd have five stars

(09:52):
including myself even by myselfI stars like I'm pretty fucking
impressive.
I'll toot my own goddamn horn ifI have to
No. Are you shy about anything?
No, not if I'm comfortable withthe person. There's body parts
or whatnot thatinsecure about I guess, but as
far as we can shy Oh, really?

(10:16):
Well, I think I've actuallymentioned this before on
previous episodes is that Idon't know if it's a shy thing,
but I know I'm not one to liketo send like, Digg photos or
whatever, it's I know, it's avery unsolicited thing, you got
to work on that. I know, it'snot an unsolicited thing. Nobody
wants to the unsolicited dickphotos. But it is one that I do

(10:40):
not personally enjoy doing.
That's one thing in my sexualrealm that is not I'm not a fan
of like, I cannot bring myselfto do the photos, a whole video
thing. It's just, I just feel souncomfortable.
Just looking at myself doingthat, right. So I don't know,

(11:00):
well, don't look at yourself.
And you know, you can't help itfor your enjoyment. But if
you're putting it on video,you're looking at yourself,
because you want to make sureeverything is looking right.
Things are looking bigger.
Things are looking bigger in thescreen than it really is appears
you know, in person, you know,that type of shit. So yes, so
thethe I personally like to receive
Oh, good to know now, I don'tknow, here's what's gonna.

(11:27):
Here's, here's what's gonnahappen now. Because you
mentioned this everyone that'sgoing to look Yeah, well, price,
Google search it and price startsetting for you to say you like
to receive these. So you justopened just saying.
Okay, well, some guys will stillbuy. You don't want to send it

(11:48):
to you. So we're here you go.
You're probably right. Exactly.
Um, people will find you peopleare people are tech savvy, your
information is out there. So youwill start to tell you might
start receiving phone callsright after this podcast airs.
So let me ask you, do you do youfeel that the bedroom tactics
become stale as the relationshipcontinues? And easily in ages?

(12:12):
Yeah, absolutely.
All right. Give me some give megive me an example here. Well, I
think a lot of people just getinto the when you're having sex,
like the same thing over andover, like, you know what's
going to start with thisparticular foreplay, then you're
going to move to this position,then you're going to be flipped
over and it's going to be thisposition, then you're going to

(12:33):
be flipped back over. And you'regoing to end at this position.
Yep, I can. I think that happenswith a lot of guys like,
early very early on. No, no, Ithat I can completely agree.
Like I think and I think thatwould have been my point as well
is that if it becomes verypredictable, then shake gets

(12:55):
still really fast. And thenthat's when you start running
into issues, right? You startedlooking at? Well, if this is the
same shoe, what are other peopledoing I'm curious about what are
other people financially doingthat are keeping their partners
interested? SoI think that's where people I
mean, sometimes that can bewhere people cheat to not
because the relations chipshorrible, or they're not in love

(13:18):
with their partner or whatever.
But they're curious. Well,others
well, not even bad. Just thatfeeling. I mean, obviously
there's a different feeling whenyou're having sex with something
that's a bunch ofI don't know what chemistry is
even the right word that I'mlooking for. But like that, I

(13:39):
mean, you've had one nightstands or whatnot so that we
know I never had a one nightstand in my life.
I don't know what type of guyyou think I am. Come on now.
Okay, anywayscan be something there's some
you know, hotness and less theto that, right? Yeah, sure. So

(14:04):
once you get caught up intosomething that's the same
bullshit over and over and overand over. Yeah, and you're like,
I need something to kind ofspice this up. But you should be
able to spice it up with theperson you're with. Absolutely
agree. What about solo six? Doyou feel like sometimes solo six
can be? Well, it's not sex ifyou're solo. Masturbation is

(14:26):
sex. That is considered solosix, you're you're pleasuring
yourself. That is you'resexually getting yourself off.
So are there I don't preferright. Well, I mean, obviously,
some obviously anybody prefersto have sex with somebody else.
But are there times where youmight be so frustrated with your
partner that you're going tojust rub one out, or what's a

(14:51):
tear for females? Is it rub oneout as well? I mean, Flick,
flick it a fewtimes I don't know, what's the
what's the proper term? Do youflick the mouse? Is that what is
that term? So say rubber? Well,you know, for my female

(15:11):
listeners that are up to that,I'm interested to know what do
you guys call it? Do you call itrub it out? Flick it out? You
know, nobody says, I have noidea. I mean, obviously, you're
not licking yourself. So youcan't say look it out. So unless
you're that flexible, thatwould, that would be something
to see. I would love to seesomebody who's actually that
that inflexible, I've seen someflexible really what

(15:36):
I have seen some flexible aspeople but I don't know if
that's something that I havecome across just yet if somebody
can actually do that tothemselves. So
I know what you're Googlinglater.
I might be Googling this now.
During this call, see if thisactually happens.

(15:58):
i For me, it wouldn't be out ofa frustration thing. If I'm mad
or frustrated or upset with mypartner, my sexual desires not
going to be there.
But for me, it's more of aestimations more of a focus
thing. I guess we'll look atmasturbation different because I
can see if you're pissed off ifyou get into a heated argument.

(16:21):
And also you don't want anythingto do with your partner at that
time. I can see that as a stressreliever and once you bust that
nut and have that post nutclarity, you're like, okay, at
least for a guy you kind of likeforget what you were mad about
us like I move them out of townnow now that I got not I got

(16:42):
that pent it up and out the waylike sometimes that solos solo
sex can really be better attimes because you could tend to
say things you don't want to youknow argument that you might
regret later on right? And allof a sudden you go to the
bathroom to the shower cool offrub one out and you know you

(17:02):
come out like hey, what's whathow was your day while the other
one still might still might besteaming from the conversation?
Because we know women will holdthose conversations for
a very long time. Any anything aguy says in combat all women are

(17:24):
exactly the same. We all processeverything except Yeah, do
everyone Yes. Yeah. Do every oneof us like the same everything
is different. You go intodifferent territory there that
that is a different game, right?
Not all Dick sucking is thesame. I can attest to that. Some

(17:46):
are absolutely great. Some aregood, some are bad, and some are
blocking terrible. And so and Ithink I've had terrible I think
what how can you be terriblemoving your head so damn fast
and vigorously and having yourteeth exposed and just rubbing

(18:07):
that shit raw. Like you're not Dbarking a tree. And I have had I
have had those. I have had thoseexperiences where or it's like,
a like, think of a vegetablepeeler going against a potato or
a carrot? That's like thesensation of a bad fucking

(18:27):
blowjob. Right there is whereyou're just you're getting that
shit just scrape the fuck offhim. So then do you vocalize?
Likeno, you know, and that's the
thing I know they say is great,great to talk and communicate.
But to me I feel like sometimesthat's gonna hurt someone's

(18:49):
feelings because especially ifthey think you're into them and
you're into the momentmost guys will take you for the
team. One is because they'regetting head. But for the most
partno, they're not going to say
nothing. I mean, I know we mightsay we want to talk about

(19:10):
things. But in the heat of themoment it's not nothing's been
said it'll be said afterwardprobably but in the heat of the
moment. Because I canparticularly tell you one case
that I had is it was the motionit was just continuously just
just like literally, Jackrabbiting on top and it just

(19:32):
like oh my god, this ishorrible. Oh my god, stop,
please stop. I'm thinking thisin my head. I didn't say this
out loud. Because I know damn.
Well, if I would have saidsomething, it would have hurt
someone's feelings the way mytone would have came out. So I'm
like, Alright, just let me letme focus on something different.
Let me just fine to the pain.
Let me just get this over with.

(19:52):
If I can get over quick enoughthen it'll be done and then
she'll think she did a great jobgot me off and then I'm like,
okay, so it's time to go.
Go now, My back's a little sore.
So I'm not gonna haveintercourse because I could be
potentially bleeding. It isgoddamn time right now. And we
don't want to risk any potentialdiseases. But yeah, so
conversations usually during themoment, not so much. Maybe after

(20:14):
and you're only going tosomebody after. If you're in a
relationship relationship withthat person, not like a fling or
just when I stand like women,typically there's no point. So
yeah, yeah. But anyways, thewhole the whole point of these
initial questions just as kindof get your baseline is because

(20:36):
today's topic I found ratherinteresting was I got six tips
on how to become way better inbed, and how to feel like you're
the fucking man or yet the womanyou know it depending on who's

(20:56):
the more dominant one type typesituation, this relationship do
you have? Before we get into theactual topics itself? Do you
have an idea? Do you what do youthink Jimmy discussed as far as
making somebody way better inbed? I mean, I personally think
it's making sure that yourforeplay your oral game is on

(21:17):
point. Okay, we're good therescore thing.
Excellent.
So the the number one tip fromthis is a panel of experts

(21:39):
is to try some sex toys. AndGood God, have we not talked,
you know, effortlessly in sextoys? I mean, obviously, I have
affiliation partnerships withlike, three or four sex shops,
you know, so and all links willbe that's a great focus anyway,
actually, all links will beYeah, all links will actually be

(22:03):
in the show notes of thispodcast. So if you're listening
to this and are interested inany sex products, and are
curious about sex products, gocheck out the sex notes, you can
click on the links, and you willactually have a massive amount
of information and discountsavailable to you. So those notes
or those links scuze. Me will bein our show notes. But yes, the

(22:26):
number one item is trying newsex toys. particularly high
quality sex toys, like I believeI had a podcast where we
actually went into discussingdifferent things and you
definitely do not want to have apoor quality made sex toy or

(22:47):
something that irritates youwrong materials. Everyone's
going to have their everyone'sbody itself is going to have
various reactions, right. So youdon't want to risk something
utterly going wrong if you'reusing a
poorly made toy, correct. Imean, have you ever played with

(23:08):
a bad toy thatgave you some kind of reaction
or, or just broke in the middleof your solo pleasures made me a
couple of pleasures ever? Notoys are new for me. They're
new. Okay. Well, welcome to theworld.

(23:29):
Thank you.
I mean, they they're fun, butthey also intensify pleasure,
right? That's, that's the wholeintent of having a sex toy is to
intensify the pleasure it canhelp climax reach. You can reach
climax a lot faster is butsometimes you don't want it to

(23:50):
be too fast. Because you know,you want the sexual experience.
I don't think it to last longer.
I don't. Yeah, I don't I mean, Iguess depending on what you're
using. I mean, when you saytoys, it's not just using like a
fucking rabbit or a dildo,right. There's totally a wide
variety. So the feathers the allof that brings a completely

(24:14):
different experience floggersthe writing crops, the
handcuffs, the hard tie said thelubes the actual extra dildos,
the butt plugs. Yeah, so I mean,there's it's but I mean, but can
you can contest that it doeshelp stimulate and get you to

(24:36):
climax sooner if not multipletimes. So if this is something
that nobody is using or trying,I can't stress enough at least
try it because if it's notsomething that you're into, at
least you gave it an attempt andit will bring you closer as a
couple but should also open youreyes.

(25:00):
eyes to a lot of differentpossibilities.
All right, which brings me intoTip number two is to talk dirty
to each other. You like you likeyou some dirty talk?
What Darren that journey actbefore the X, you know, help

(25:23):
steam it up, you know, get youall worked up before. I mean any
dirty talk is dirty talk right?
Doesn't matter when it is justit's dirty talk. I mean, I like
sexting. I like sexting with thedirty cop and the pictures that
I'm not receiving. AndI like it daring to. Yeah. Yes.
So I really do it during but Ilike to hear it. Ya know?

(25:50):
Yeah, so with talking dirty. Aman can actually control is
woman's orgasm. By knowing whatto say in do you know, making
her orgasm longer, more intense,and potentially squirting
orgasms. Sowords are not going to make the

(26:11):
typical I mean, if if you saythe right words, you just never
know you might turn them on.
Alone. You might just turn themon by words alone but a baby.
This place is so good.
It's worth a million dollars.
And oh, skeet skeet skeet skeetskeet at you just never know
somebody might really positivereinforcement. Aaron, sex is a

(26:34):
great thing. Yeah. So there yougo. I mean, it will. And as
you're confirming that it will,you know, turn you on even more,
I mean,that this I have a couple of
favorites, instead dirty talk.
It definitely helpswomen get out of their head,
right. So when you starting totalk dirty to them, and not

(26:55):
having them think about theeveryday things that are going
on in their life. Things theygot to take care of what did
they do today? Today, everyoneget their homework done that
type of stuff. Sodirty talk, you know, they can
focus on that, oh, let's let'slet's talk about this. And it
puts them more in a relaxedstate. I mean, does it not? Do

(27:16):
you feel like you're morerelaxed when you feel like
somebody's really taking thetime to
get naughty with you. I mean, inmy own current personal
experience, I'm already relaxed.
So that's my main issue. Butlike I said, for me, it's the
positive reinforcement. And forso you tell me to continue doing
that? And I'm like, Oh, yeah.

(27:39):
Okay.
We're liking something thatyou're doing. Okay. So that so
the, the affirmation is kind ofturned you on as well, like, you
know, as one of my lovelanguages.
Okay. And I know, we recentlytook that test of the different
which color we were betweenreds, yellows, blues, and

(28:01):
greens, which was veryinteresting and found out that
I'm a red, obviously, with a bigmix of yellows. So if you guys
haven't had a yellow and blue,it's red and yellow, red and
yellow. It was more red than itwas yellow, blue was at least
like I had nothing to blue. Butfor now, remember the colors?

(28:24):
Yeah. So for anyone that'sinterested in a good book, or
audio book to read is surroundedby idiots. It definitely is a
way to understand how people arewired. And it possibly can help
in your sex life, to understandexactly the personality of your
partner and how you need tohandle them and possibly even

(28:48):
manhandle them and put them intheir place in in bed, so you
just never know. Alright, soyeah, nevermind, go ahead. No,
no, go ahead. But you can't youcan't do a cliffhanger you that
is like the worst thing in theworld to tell somebody. I tell
you what, you know what?
Nevermind. So you always,always, always need to finish
out your statement that you aregoing to stay. So anyways, um,

(29:09):
if you have a because I'm veryread on that list. Right? So if
you have like a strong woman orindependent woman and blah,
blah, blah, you hear a lot ofguys. They're like, wow, she's
too Alpha. She said, rah, rah,rah rah, but our I don't want a
woman like that. But if you kindof manhandle a woman like that,

(29:32):
and let us fall back in ourfemininity, especially in the
bedroom.
Squirt, squirt, squirt, baby,squirt, squirt, squirt, I
recommend 10 additive.
So there you go, guys. If youguys have you a stubborn ass
woman that isone of the traits one

(30:00):
those traits for red are fuckingstubbornness. So this absolutely
falls into that realm. If youhave a stubborn ass woman and
you can dominate harass in thebedroom, she will fucking not
bow down leading up to it.
Like the domination leading upto it. Okay, then you go down on

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the couch. Yeah.
You suck my dick when I tell youto woman, there you go. That's
maybe not the one I tell you to.
If you want to try to reallydominate me, whatever, I suck
your dick every time you turnaround. Anyway. Anyway, so. So
tip number three guys, that wasTip number two, make sure you
talk dirty to each other, and itwill help you guys out in the

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bedroom. I promise. Number threeis one that we probably all can
work on. It's probably not thebest or everyone's favorite but
is to communicate with yourpartner. And I know right before
we were getting into topics whenwe were having our conversation
you were talking aboutdiscussing and telling your
partner things you like but yes,communication with your partner

(31:10):
will help you in bed with yourpartner and help you in the long
run. Things for communicatingwith your partner or to discuss
your likes, dislikes, fantasies,and what feels good to you. You
know, what do you like? What doyou dislike, continue to do this
do not do this anymore. Thistype of stuff your partner may

(31:30):
enjoy to hear. However, there isa fine line though, right?
Correct me if I'm wrong, if yousay something, but and try to
critique them don't give it in aof a way that you're going to
piss them off or make them feelstupid or whatever, right? You
don't want to insult them. Youjust kind of want to give them

(31:52):
that edge. You want to give themthat guy say hey, I know you're
trying this, but do this and seeif this works out for me too.
This might feel a bit better.
What are your What are yourthoughts in response to that? Do
you rather would you ratherchose somebody or, or like I was
mentioning earlier have theconversation after the fact.
Like a bad job is being done. Ifwe're in a room. If you're in a

(32:15):
relationship, I think you shouldbe able to say something in the
moment. Like is sexism in sexualactivities. It's not something
to suffer through. Like if itdoesn't feel good to be like,
hey, moved in this position, youcan even transition into
something different withoutbringing that particular thing
up. And when the other personlike

(32:37):
isn't in a heightened state orwhatever, right. Like if the
dinner just burned and the dogdoes shit on the floor probably
won't be like Hey, remember whenyou were sucking my dick the
other night? He did a horriblejob.
Right? Like I would not be thebest time and the best way to do
it. Like your your your did.
Sucking job is as bad as thisshit smells on the floor

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a fight? Probably never gonnaget your dicks at the gate. If
you've mentioned that guy thather blow job is as bad as this
shit smells on the floor. Neveragain, you might as well just
call that shit quits. I mean, Ithink you do have to be very
careful. And they depends on thecouple in their relationship and
how they're capable ofcommunicating, right? I mean,

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I've had somebody in the past belike Barbie doing that. And so
if you're doing somethingsexual, like why are you doing
that? Yeah, the sexual one.
Okay. Yeah, it's a particular,whatever with a blow job. So, to
me, I was like, Okay, fine. Iwon't ever fucking do it again.
Never had a complaint before,but I won't ever do it again.
Then years later, there was thequestion of why don't you ever

(33:50):
do that anymore?
It's like, well, your tone. Itdefinitely wasn't a Huh, why are
you doing that? Right, exactly.
To come at me a certain way,then I'm going to be like,
alright, well, I'm not going todo that anymore. So
if you can't exactly nope, theBailey's in the way anyways.

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I know, I think but I thinkpeople hopefully are getting
better at communicating andhaving that from the get go.
Because it does if you havesomebody that you're comfortable
with and you know, you cancommunicate to it makes suck so
much better. Yeah, butabsolutely. I mean, if you're
mature to have sex, you'remature to talk to your partner.

(34:37):
Right? That's the thing. So Ithink that it to add to this as
well, since it's talking aboutlike ways to spice it up or
whatever. I mean, there might bea couple things that I enjoy
that I haven't communicated yetthat they're like kind of tucked
away until they're needed.
Right?
detail so I'm youGot interest you got you got two

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ears perked up, like, what areyou really being reserved about
that you can potentially I'm notbeing reserved, but there's a
couple things that I like. Butif I'm liking everything that's
going on anyway, so why not holdthose for a little while until
maybe things start to get alittle bit more? Oh, your
ammunition to spice things, orwhatever. And then I'd be like,

(35:23):
Oh, what about this? I gotcha.
Okay, well, then, I mean, thatcould be useful. That can be
very useful. Good to know. Allright. Well, there you go, guys,
potentially your partner orwhatever, could have something
in the chamber for when you getfucking boring. Like, what we
asked you haven't fuck me asguys in the next, you know? You

(35:46):
add that to your list? Oh,nevermind. I'll have that later.
What's that? Yeah, you know, yousaid list and it might already
be in here. I don't know. Sowe'll go through the checklist.
And then if it's not, I'll bringit up. Alright. So number four
on the list of ways to make yoursix better, is watch a 60

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videos. And it's not justnecessarily porn as immediately
everyone's considering just sexyvideos itself. Because why?
Number one is hot to watch otherpeople engage in sex.
And to you definitely get turnedon.

(36:32):
And you can learn new positions.
So watching sexy videos togetheras a couple can really help the
relationship or the the sexplay. Are you not? Like you
write in and say something whentalk about sex videos? Are you
not wanting to watch videos withyour partner? You're not a
you're not a fan?

(36:54):
Why not? Explain. So what's yourdifferent my thing? So this is
where probably thepart where the communication
with your partner comes intoplay. Like, listen, I like to
watch videos. And this is kindof what turns me on and watching
other people and then turns meon. And then we want to get onto
us. Maybe this is a conversationhave which partner?

(37:15):
Right? I mean, I get it, thereare things that we like and
don't like. I mean, I I mean,I've been in a relationship
where Porn was like the devil,like, if you are watching porn.
It's like cheating, which Icompletely disagree with. But

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there are and I get it, thereare females that really really
resent a man or their man ortheir significant other to watch
adult films. men feel that samesome men feel the same way.
For a woman to a woman lays yourwatch for Yeah, not to no

(37:58):
relationship at all, whateveryour rules are, in your own
relationships, but obviouslyneed to be communicated like to
be communicated. Yeah, I mean,now I know they say porn. And
there's been a lot of studiesthat porn does a really put a
hindrance on a lot of folks, sexlives or one's sex life per se.

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Like there's too much highexpectations of what they watch
compared to what it is in reallife. But I guess it also really
comes down to somebody'spersonality, like how they're
going to perceive porn, right?
They say it can affect men. Andwell, I think they talked about
affecting men more than theytalked about how it will affect
women. But this will go in acompletely different

(38:46):
conversation. But porn candefinitely affect people's
productivity, all kinds ofthings. So
I have what was there was aseries on Netflix that I
actually watched something,maybe it's the dark web or
something dark web, where theyit was porn actually was one of

(39:09):
the topics or whatever, and howsome folks actually just lost
themselves in porn and couldn'thave relationships with females
because they expected these highexpectations of what the porn
stars did and could not relatein real life. Like this is what
happens sexually in real life.
So I guess it boils down tosomeone's personality, but I
guess I've watched shit. I'vewatched fucking porn.

(39:36):
Early I started watching porn ata very early age secretly with
the satellite dish my parentshad that when I found out that
they can find you know all thesefree porn stations around the
world and stuff like that, but Idon't think as long as I've been
watching porn it and it's not aneveryday thing, but you'll watch

(39:59):
it butI don't see my I don't I guess I
don't have that personalitywhere I feel like it's ever
affected my,my sexual activity with the
female, and everyone's probablydifferent, but I don't see as
much porn as I've watched and Ithink I've gotten a few times
you've reached the end of theinternet of porn.

(40:19):
That it has affected me JesusChrist. No, I joke, but there's
a lot of shit that I probablyhave not watched. Like, I've
listened to a few of Berkshire'spodcasts. And when he talks
about some of the stuff hewatches on porn, because his
quote unquote, Governor has beenbroken, because he's watched
porn so much. Some of the shithe's like, just scrolling

(40:40):
through, like, Give me somethingjust give me something. Give me
something. So I'm like, I'm notthat I'm not.
I'm not that bad. Right? So whatI'm like, damn, Bert, how much
porn Do you watch but he's butsome of the stuff that he
watches. And he'll describe himlike,
I don't know if I can get intosome of that shit. Because I'm
like, That's not that's out ofmy my comfort zone watching

(41:01):
porn. Some of that stuff is notfrom me, like I'd rather watch.
Just a the shit that will getyour adrenaline pumping. And
next, you know, you're done. Notthe shit where you're shitting
on someone and you'rehumiliating them and they're
just eating the shit and thattype of porn. That's okay. That

(41:23):
type of porn is not me. Butthere there is a niche for this
porn and it's crazy. Likethere's a niche for everything
important. But anyways, we'regoing we're going way left field
on this topic of how to havebetter sex. Obviously porn
anyway, said sexy videos. So Imean, obviously, there's other
stuff that can turn you on thatdoesn't have to be straight.

(41:46):
Yeah, absolutely. You know, youcan watch some of the Instagram
reels and watch what some ofthese. Some of these girls are
getting by with somehow,without, but yeah, I got flagged
the other day for posting up thedamn
cop girl who got ran the trainon and I put a photo of that
little meme that they have outthere with five guys is hiring

(42:07):
and she raised it up, you know,I can start immediately. So I
find it funny that everybody'sso upset over that. I don't know
what we're all adults. I don'tunderstand why everybody's
except because they're policeofficers. I don't know. All I
know is my my post got flaggedit was going against community
standards. I'm like, what, likethis is all around the internet

(42:29):
right now. How's this goingagainst community, but whatever.
Sometimes we get someinsensitive people that are
running these algorithms or aremonitoring this stuff. So
whatever. But anyway, so numberfour is watching sexy videos
with your partner ladies andgents, and it will help you out,
I promise you, it will help youout because I have watched
videos with ladies and you cansee how they can get turned on.

(42:54):
And if you're doing things rightand you're touching at the same
time, while you're watching someof these videos, you can tell at
the same time that a female isactually getting excited. Am I
wrong? Like because if you'rewatching say promise that it's
going to work. I've neverenjoyed it. So this will be

(43:17):
we'll have to go back to numberthree later on communication
with your party.
So all right, so let me weigh inon those photos. So all right,
so we will move on to the fifthtopic Ladies and Gents the fifth
topic is still sticking with thesexy videos however, number five

(43:39):
is to listen to sexy videos butwithout watching meaning put
something on turn your laptoparound halfway close it just
listen to the words listen tothe dirty talk that's being said
rightWhat are you laughing I hear
this I just find this hilarious.

(44:02):
I mean it's I will teach you howto dirty talk right so you're
like okay, and I get it when Iread this part of the article it
said to mimic what the actorsare saying right like the guys
are saying this to girls sayingthis and you saying this out
loud? You can kind of test thewaters of what can and can't be

(44:25):
said Right? Like yeah dirtyslits what I like like and then
you look at her to see if let'ssee exactly how she's gonna
react to the dirty slot right?
You never know in the moment shecould possibly be turned on she
could have possibly you call mea dirty sled daddy go ahead
maybe tell me what you want howyou want me to talk to you. You
know that type of shit right? Soyou don't know I mean this could
have some valid points is tolisten to it. And but not

(44:51):
watches and you already sayingone you don't want to you're not
wanting to watch it for maybeYou might want to just listen to
it and you were talking aboutthe hot and heavy breather.
Right? So at this point, youmight as well just listen to
some porn and see what's turningyou on. When I watch porn, I
don't listen to it. So you justwatch porn just volume down and

(45:12):
just watch the motions.
Yeah.
Okay.
Cuz if I hear the girl, it turnsme off.
No, I mean, I hear that femaleIt turns me off. And I'm like,
Nope. I'm out. Have you everbeen in a threesome?
Yes. With the female? Yes. Anddid that turn you off? I mean, I

(45:37):
was pretty intoxicated. Okay, soit didn't turn you off. Switch
here, essentially, just to sayto say it didn't turn you off.
So there was something about thesituation that we're like, but
you were intoxicated. So itdidn't matter. Right? Right.
So what you want to get drunkand listen to people?

(45:58):
I mean, if if you want yeah,sure, if you want to listen to
folks, because I'll tell youwhat, listen, I have
I have been in hotel roomsactually, fuck that. When I was
in the military going through mybasic training, or actually my
tech school. We were supposed tohave our dormitories separated.

(46:19):
And somehow not gonna saysomehow but obviously we know
girls are dirty little girls andthey're gonna sneak over to the
guy side of the dorm. Right?
Give me an alert now right butthe girls will sneak over to the
guys side of the dorm. Guysaren't gonna sneak over here
because the commanders are Exosare going to be on that side of

(46:39):
drone watching for guys to sneakover. So girls, it's easier for
the girl to sneak over withoutgetting caught and in trouble.
But what I'm getting at was thatI had a room that was next to
mine or they call them bunkmates or roommates not was not a
roommate situation butsquad mates flatmates or

(47:00):
whatever. Anyways, there was onenight it was one of the weekend
nights where we had you knowfree liberty on the base and
just had to be back in in our inour barracks area dorm rooms or
whatever by a certain time.
Well, I'm back in my room,suppose like follow the rules.
And next thing you know, I'mhalfway asleep and I started

(47:23):
hearingnot gonna fucking lie. My ears
perked up. I'm like, Okay, thisshould just get interesting. So
I actually sat there andlistened to whoever was in the
next room just getting railedcuz I thought it was gonna get
off. I was I didn't know becauseI thought I had the guy that I

(47:43):
had to share the room with wasjust Rican because that's a
whole nother story. I'm gonnafucking do not wanna take a
shower so it would not have beensexy for me to try to get off
thinking of this girl gettingrailed and next room what my
fucking roommate is smell likeask because he refused to take a
shower. So it was a badsituation but this night this

(48:05):
situation actually just made mynight better like hi, I could do
this so of course and I startclosing my eyes and again you
listen to the sound listen tothe visuals there in the
females. Of course I mean thatthe females and right hearing
her spot attorney on Oh, it wasbecause I'm not so but my oh my

(48:25):
god Shut up. But just listen to,but it just going back to like
number five says listen to sexyvideos. But even just listening
to sounds of someone having sexlistening to sexual sounds,
sensual sounds that can reallykind of keep things up. Like I

(48:45):
can go to a hotel room.
And I've been to a few hotelrooms where the walls are fairly
thin and you can hear couplesjust going at it. So obviously
I'm gonna sit up and listen. SoI'm like, Okay, I might as well
listen shit somebody's having agood time. I'm not but
somebody's in there having agood time. And I may or may not

(49:08):
have at that point had the solosex moments listen to other to
other folks because it is it tome that is fucking hot. It is it
is fucking hot. Listen to otherfolks have sex and you're not
seeing them but you know and soit just heightens your entire
imagination of somebody else'sin there just fucking in that

(49:31):
shoe. Right? But then you kindof put yourself in that
situation right? Like okay, letmy imagination just run while
listening to someone else and mebeing part of this or whatever.
So, but yes, listening to sexyvideos. We can put even put on
that we can even add on to thatslash sounds, ambient sexual

(49:51):
sounds so that can possibly helpimprove. So if anybody wants I
can let you know when I'mtraveling. If you want to book
it hotel room that I met and youcould be in another room. There
you go. You can get your sexualsounds from when I'm traveling
because there will be sexualsounds because anytime I travel
there is by far more sex in ahotel room. And I know we'd had

(50:15):
tried to have conversation aboutthis before, but that episode
didn't work out as well but moresets in a hotel room than
probably a normal house wouldhave. So if you want to book a
room next to me, you're morethan welcome to and you can
possibly get yourself off.
Listen to the sounds of moaningand screaming, so correct. No,

(50:36):
the sounds not doing anythingfor you. I mean, literally, I'm
actually kind of turned onlistening to you talk about how
the sounds were turning you on.
Oh, okay. Well, then they meanwell, how are you really feeling
right now?
It's all nice and juicy rightnow.

(50:58):
Ah, you guys to see right now.
She's she's blushing pretty goodright now, guys. So She is
blushing.
at your hotel comments the truththough? She's blushing and
gushing. Sowell, what should be a shirt?
blushing and gushing? Wait,let's go back. What do you what
do you mean, my hotel commentsaren't true.

(51:22):
They try to call it I don't knowif in your current situation
that they're accurate. Or how'sthat? How's it not accurate?
We think we have more sex in ahotel room than we do. Let's say
in your house. Well, we alsohaven't we've only been in we
traveled what? Twice in a hotelroom. So it's we haven't had

(51:43):
that experience. Like, we're,we're about? We're about to be
in Tennessee. So we will we'llreport back after that trip.
We've stayed in two Airbnbs andone hotel. Okay, so it's still
very, yeah, yeah. And one ofthose was with another couple.
So I mean, anyways, we'regetting we're going beside the

(52:05):
point. We'll report back afterwe get back from Gatlinburg
after a week,after IV IVs ice packs,
all that good stuff.
Alright, so the sixth and finalway forward to end this podcast
tonight is to let strangerswatch.

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You heard that right? To letstrangers or friends people
watch you have sex can reallystimulate both partners. And
your relationship. Do you agreeor not? I don't know about the
whole friends thing. Becausethat can make things awkward.

(52:52):
I've had things go weird andawkward afterwards with friends.
ButI mean, I wouldn't mind watching
or being watched. Which is oneof my obviously we all know and
I've discussed it many times onpodcasts that I always have.
That's why I enjoy having thewindows open. It's because it's
the adrenaline, the adrenalinerush of possibly getting caught

(53:15):
not fully getting caught wherethey possibly can call the
police on you. But then again,somebody might actually catch
you and ask you to stop and justwatch in admiration, right? It's
the naughty, dirty, excitingelement to having sex in the
clear view of a stranger's eye.
So don't do the like,oh, sorry, no.

(53:37):
What about like a sex clubsituation? I have been to a sex
clubtwice, but not to participate.
It was because I was going inthere for a business meeting,
meeting up with someone veryweird. It was a it was a
colleague that I was workingwith. He was his business
manager was having a partythere, whatever. And we had to

(53:58):
go back there multiple times tohandle some stuff. But I would I
wouldn't be above going to oneof those clubs and just checking
out and actually experiencingit. I'm not above that. I I
actually think I would be supercurious to go to a sex club and
actually see now what Iparticipate in all the

(54:19):
activities. I might be too shyat that point because it would
be a new experience, but Idefinitely would go and check it
out. Just to see because I knowfrom the little experience that
I had going to one where itliterally took five minutes of
me being in there because theytagged you they had they tag you

(54:40):
as a single male, single femaletag you as a couple, literally
five minutes of my colleague andhis manager discussing I still
just sitting there waiting,having a drink, and I got walked
up to so many times and heySee, you're single guy. What are
you doing here by yourself?

(55:03):
Blah, blah, blah, do you want tocome take a walk? And I'm just
sitting like, holy shit, what isit really this easy in the sex.
And in granted,it might not always be that way.
But it was just to me and likeHoly fuck. And I was on the
dance club side at the time,because there was two sides to
this club, it was adance club side where the DJs

(55:23):
are, everyone's having a goodtime where you had to have so
much party so much of yourclothes on compared to the other
side where it was whatever youcan take the tour back there,
there was like multiple themedrooms.
You had couches, you had loungechairs, you had beds and stuff

(55:43):
that people could do whatever onyou could watch, you can sit. So
yeah, I've, since we didn't staythere very long, I did not get
to get the full experience. Andnow I wouldn't mind going back.
But I went back and looked atsome of the prices. If you try
and go back to that single guythat he spoke of things, they
really determined that becauseit was almost 100 200 bucks for

(56:05):
a single guy just to go, it ischeaper to go as a couple
diningroom because obviouslyyou're bringing a female into
this location to get in. Somaybe we can have this
conversation afterwardsafterwards. And like, hey, let's
just go check it out. And becurious at what's really
happening behind this. Andat this point, you can

(56:25):
participate. You pay for the youknow, both sides or whatever you
can participate you can watch,because obviously I wouldn't
mind watching like I like Imeant generally like listening
and watching to me that shedoes. I've watched
friends actually have sex. I'mnot sure if you've ever watched
your friends have sex, but I'vewatched my friends have sex. And

(56:46):
I'm like, All right now. Younever watch any of your friends
have sex? Like if y'all went ontrips or not like that? Yep.
Okay, well, I have and it'svery, it'll turn you on, right?
It'll get you all like workedup. Okay. But me I don't the
going back to sex club thingslike, oh, I don't want to get
involved in shit with friends.
Like I said, that just makessituations funky. And I keep my

(57:08):
personal experience, even ifeverybody's there with friends.
It seems like the guy typicallyalways tries to step out of that
afterwards. And well, that's howthe calls the pulling you to the
side at parties. So for mepersonally, I sure that's a
limit.

(57:32):
That's fair enough, because butthat's also kind of where you
got to have that understandingand conversation before you kind
of start going into this right.
Like you have this solid stableunderstanding of each other.
Right.
So before your friend startedhaving such a really listen,
here are the rules. After forafter I watched this, though, I

(57:58):
mean, I think it was kind of aon unspoken type rule like you
kind of respected. And it mightbe not everybody.
And I think I was getting I wasgetting really good. I might be
one of those. It might beeveryone's how everyone's built
differently. Because it's arespected like, right, if you're

(58:18):
if your friends are going toallow you to watch them have
sex, or maybe even participate.
You kind of respect thatboundary like, Okay, this is
this will only happen when we'retogether, right? Just enjoy
this, you know, don't do don'tdo anything on the outside. You
don't want to mess it up, right?
Because if you enjoyed it andhad fun, it was just for the
experience. You don't want tomess that up, right? If you

(58:41):
enjoyed it, you want to kind ofdo it again. And
again, this wouldn't besomething that's on the regular
right. So this is something thatevery so often Blue Moon, like
going out drinking, like hey,let's go back to whatever and
just have a good time. So myrole is no friends. I get it and
I amgoing back to the sex club or

(59:03):
whatever. Like I think goingthere watching all that stuff's
pretty cool. So you've been iswhat you're saying? I haven't
been Oh, okay. Well, then we'llhave to find out the hours. I
know. There's a few. I knowthere's a few in Tampa and
there's a few actually out hereto send me. Some of them require
memberships though, but Oh, Iknow a few friends that are

(59:25):
actually members of some ofthem. So maybe I could reach out
to them. Find out how I can getaccess to it's just a check it
out. Like I said, it's curious.
It's always going to becuriosity. And then if
if you don't like it, then whatyou just walk away and just
don't do it again. But it's thefact that you take your partner
and explore and check it out.
Right? But that's one of the bigthings too, because what if one

(59:47):
partner is there and they'relike, Okay, I don't like like
I'm not filling this at all.
Like I thought I was gonna likeit but I don't like it. I think
you have that have a partnerthat she
Still enough, cool enough to notbe like, Well, I am enjoying it.
So we're staying or Yeah, no,no, no, I agree, you definitely

(01:00:07):
have to be, you guys gotta be onthe same page to make anything
to work, you guys gotta be onthe same page. So, if the
partner is ready to leave,obviously you're like, hey,
let's Alright, we're out.
Because if you want to be ableto do it again, you have to be
able to falters like I am out.
And then maybe months down theline, hey, let's go try this
again, and try it and see if wecan, you know, change your

(01:00:29):
perspective. So, but back toback to letting the strangers
watch. easy things to do. I cangive you a few points on this is
hotels, hotels are going to bethe easiest place to do this
type of stuff to get your yourtoes wet, opening up the windows
pressing against the hotelwindow, because sometimes it's

(01:00:50):
nothing's harder than pressingyour, your your partner against
the window, her body up againstthe window and potentially being
caught. Maybe catching an eye,you know, or thinking that
somebody's watching. You canwear, you can wear a mask if if
your partner is shy about heridentity, or his identity, or
whatever the situation may be.
put on a mask, cover your face,so that way you can't be easily

(01:01:14):
identified, right? Becausehere's what's going to happen if
by any chance you find someonethat is kinky enough or is
turned on by it by watching youobviously what they're gonna do,
they're gonna pull out theirfucking phone, possibly, and
record. So, you know, that couldbe that could be a turnoff for
somebody, like knowing thatthey're being watched, but

(01:01:36):
somebody's also enjoying it andrecording it. But you can't
control that because you'retaking the risk. You are taking
the risk of letting peoplepossibly watch but at least it's
at least they're not calling thecops. And they're just recording
right? And maybe they're justgoing to get themselves off.
Because technically you can'tpost these videos on these porn

(01:01:56):
sites. A lot of these porn sitesaren't going to let them post
these videos if it's not them orgot consent that they recorded
somebody right? So it's most ofthe time you probably going to
find out that it was for theirpersonal ticket and abusing for
the person who's because they'renot going to make nothing off of
it because it is against the lawto record somebody and try to
post it and make money off ofit. So just but if you if you
decide to remember why you seethat they're recording Yeah,

(01:02:20):
absolutely. Absolutely. Yeah,absolutely. But unless you're
really that deep in the moment,were you like me, my mum was
done most of the time kind ofget through it. You know, what
if you want tobut but then if you get close to
that point, right? You graduatefrom there you go out to the
balcony, just make sure that ifyou go to the balcony, do not
overdo it. Because there arestories actually, I just watched

(01:02:43):
a reel where this coupleobviously you could tell they
were probably having sex butobviously because it's really
not showing that they're havingsex they fucking fell over the
real the rails because the railI guess they were pressed up
against the rails whatever andthe rail gave way so they
fucking fell and it was onlylike two two floors whatever but
still, that's a fall that'sstill a good fucking fall if

(01:03:07):
you're one halfway makingfalling and he's laying on your
side or whatever. But yeah, soif you're gonna take it if
you're gonna take it to theextent to let strangers watch if
you don't want friends to be ina room or if you want somebody
possibly watching a hotel, goout to the balcony enjoy the
balcony but do it in a way in aclassy way right you don't want

(01:03:30):
to do it where there's going tobe children around because to me
that is that's a no no right youdefinitely want to only do it
potentially we're at night wherepeople are pretty much asleep
and possibly somebody might beout on a balcony smoking a
cigarette having a cup of coffeeor having a beer or drink or in
the hand or whatever just to thepoint where it just don't do it

(01:03:53):
where kids are going to bearound that's that's just common
sense man just be smart about itbut have fun but be smart. So
let strangers watch number sixon the list. Anything you want
to add to this list that youthink are
yes, I thought it would be onthere but I guess it wasn't

(01:04:14):
have a bucket list.
X bucket lists have a bucketlist that is a that's actually
that is actually a good idea tohave a bucket list where you can
share between each other thatcould be a turn on watching
somebody actually put items in abucket list and watching it pop
up on your other and say heyyour partner just added or

(01:04:36):
someone whoever you're sharingit with just added something to
the list just to see what theycould that could almost be as
turned on as what dirty textingor whatever. Like hey, I just
saw you add this to the list.
What's up let's when can we makethis possibly have been type
stuff? No. I think it can usescenarios fun and if you're a
pleaser, and it gives you it'slike a little guide sheet. Yeah,

(01:04:56):
so teachYeah, absolutely so so that's a
good one. There's there's yourbonus one guys, there is your
bonus, making a bonus six lists.
So I have a disclaimer on someof this.
Why is this amazing? Girls arewell guys and girls are so

(01:05:18):
completely different. So some ofthose like, if you're going to
be taking your lessons fromporn, you gotta be really
fucking careful with that.
really careful with that. Well,I mean, yeah, you gotta use your
own discretion like, gotta besmart. If you're if you're doing
shit and you're knowing it's notgoing to be in someone's comfort
zone Don't be that idiot, rightjust know your partner before

(01:05:40):
you kind of start bringingthings up just ease into shit
slowly don't just bam we'regonna Yeah, we're we're gonna
stick this up your ass andyou're gonna like you're gonna
climax It doesn't work that way.
You got to work it into youknow, the scenario. Work is slow
and then just go from there. Butyeah, just don't immediately.

(01:06:02):
Surprise.
Yeah, fear checks like reservedor whatever. I mean, Colin are
the names that you hear in thedirty talk on horns? Probably
not a good idea. So we can'tjust automatically assume
females like to be called Dirtysluts. Let me hear let me let me
see that. What it was obviouslythat asked gigolo, my dick. You

(01:06:26):
know, dirty little whore. Oh,no, I like that. Well, not for
me.
Okay, I had a guy say to me onetime or not one time. He said it
multiple times.
My dirty little calm slot. Yeah.
30.
Okay. Anyway, referred tohimself as Daddy. And I'm like

(01:06:49):
those two things together. I'mlike, no, no. And then I was
like, Hey, we ain't gonna fuckno more. Like I can't do this.
Then I was like, You shouldprobably stop calling chicks
dirty little cups. slots. Can Icall it dirty talk? I was like,
it sucks. Me and my little comedumpster to me.
Yeah.

(01:07:10):
All right. Well, you can getaway with a lot more if you
liked each other, though. Sosure, sure. Absolutely. Yeah,
you don't you don't do that onyour first Tinder blind date
flip. Right? No. So I mean, somemight I mean, some might there
might be. There might be thescenario I just told you. Oh,
you know what? We'll have toYeah, we will have to come back

(01:07:33):
into your little Tinder firstdates. Your first one nightstand
hookups at some point we willtalk about this later.
Diary of Tinder Yeah, right.
Exactly.
All right. So we'll go ahead andwrap this up we've actually

(01:07:53):
became a longer episode than Iwas expected to become but
that's good though. So anythingelse you want to bring up before
enclosing and then we get out ofhere? No, I think what I just
said was way more thanso Okay, so with that being said
guys, we hope you guys enjoyedthis episode of getting the six
tips on how to become way betterin bed. And if you enjoyed this

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wrapped up. As always, we endthe show. Enjoy your life. Drink
your whiskey, and we're outguys. Peace
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