October 19, 2022 • 60 mins
In this episode we get to discussing getting into new relationships that may have the same name as an ex. Could you do it?? Could you move past any past negativity or bad memories associated with the name?? Let us know, via contact info, we'd love to hear your thoughts!
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If you're having sex, hopefully should be calling them
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by their name other than God,God can't be everybody's
boyfriendor Jesus name or some players
right there. We're probablygonna get shut down for that one
guy then we're gonna get shot.
Lightning please strike me now Igot a new job starting weeks do
not strike me down nowwhat's going on everybody
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welcome back to another episodeof whiskey and uncensored. My
name is a Lopez and I'm going tobe the host of this debauchery
where we talk anything taboo,crazy life stories all while
drinking whiskey. Today I'm onthe OG classic of crown and
coke. I just felt like having achronic coke. I haven't done
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coke in my whiskies in a verylong time. But I figured the
best way to finish off this OGbottle was to add it with a
splash of coke. So today I havemy guest Sheena with us today.
And she is on coffee.
Yeah, she is on coffee. Sohopefully everybody had a good
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weekend. How was the weekend foryou? Ma'am? I know we had some
fun this weekend. We did have afun weekend. A lot of car shows
extra one. The car shows Yeah,let's go. But let's go to this
car show. I woke up early in themorning to go to a car show. And
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the the name of the car show iscalled Cars and Coffee cars and
coffee. Mind you I am not toomuch of a morning person. So I
am needing coffee. So I get upeven though we had coffee at the
house buthad a cup of coffee with Avon so
I'm thinking I'm gonna go out toa show possibly in there's gonna
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be some kind of coffee standsome kind of coffee booths,
booths, and there was no coffee.
Not a damn bit of coffee. Webarely found anything to eat up
there because it was so damnearly by the time we get out
there. But the survived. Isurvived Yes. And the car show
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was was pretty damn cool. I gotto see a lot of badass cars,
some souped up cars and classiccars. So it was a it was a it
was actually rather large for acar event for a car meeting car
show whatever you want to callit. But there really wasn't no
judging. It was just kind oflike a gathering of all the you
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know, the hobbyist enthusiast ofcars really. So what was your
what was one of your favoritecars out there? The Lexus?
Tell everybody what's up, Alexiswe talking about here?
To prepare me for that. I don'tremember exactly what when it
is.
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Come on. You're supposed to be acar person here. And I know
you've told me under the bus.
Right, right.
Well, I'll tell yousome of the ones that I fell in
love with obviously, was theCorvette the new C eights. There
were some badass CAS out there.
And of course, obviously, somebeautiful Lambos and there was a
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ton of Lambos out there, man. Itwas yeah, it was my young kid
inside my inner kid justscreaming of all the supercars
there was one. I only saw one.
McLaren out there, which waswhich was pretty dope to see.
But to me that that entire shapeof that car reminds me of a
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Lambo, actually, so it wasparked next to all the Lambos so
it could have you know, most ofthose that they were just
walking by would have justthought it was probably there's
another Lambo. But me walking byI knew was a McLaren. So I had,
I had to make sure I looked atthat bad boy. So
I like the McLaren better thanthe Lambos. Me personally.
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I mean, it's a tight one. Imean, that one that was there
was was a pretty sexy car. Sothose were those were my
favorite. Obviously some of theclassic muscle cars that were
out there were really lit Yeah.
Some of the restored old schoolChevy big block trucks are out
there. And they were lookingpretty good too. So it's a kudos
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kudos to that good little carshow that got put on so and
so Lexus LC 500 Oh, you lookedit up just to redeem herself.
SoFrom my understanding this show
is actually done once a once amonth is what the kids said.
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Yep. Once a month so if anyone'shappens to be down in the west
palm area we were done in WestPalm, aren't we? Yeah, took the
Palm Beach outlets, the PalmBeach outlets on once a month.
But is it a particular daythough?
Obviously, well, which son isusually the first Sunday last
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Sunday? Any Sunday? Or is itjust scheduled on Thursday? I'll
get it soon. There's got to belike a social media page for it
to announce when therebut yeah, if anyone's ever
happened to be in that west palmarea make sure you guys go check
it out. It was actually a youknow, a good a good turnout. It
was not bad. 10 bucks if youwanted to actually get into the
event area itself or there wasplenty of parking on the outside
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of it. You can just park andwalk that's kind of what we did.
But But yeah, so we did that.
We checked out what pop stroketargeted one a Tiger Woods is a
influences. The CO ownersdesigns a lot of those courses
out in Port St. Lucie, and let'shear it one. You had a very
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marginal winner. Oh.
Boy, it was like seven point no.
Well, okay. We had the Oh, wegot we got the all day pass.
They gave us all the pets thatwe were able to play both
courses that were their firstcourse. Sure. I gave you seven
whatever. I had a marginally theseven. Second game. Let's hear.
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I have no idea. 13 anyone listentill the final score. 13
strokes, 13 strokes. I spankthat ass.
He was me against all three.
That was there. So again,victorious in any competition I
encounter. And matter of fact,this competition. This
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competition that we're on rightnow with the your each of the
head on this one. I'll give youthat it ends tomorrow. I think
so. Maybe I need two days left.
I think it ends tomorrow. Butmaybe I'll go ahead and go to
the gym and have softballtomorrow. But I'm not sure if
I'm gonna make it because myshoulder is just killing me so
and your loss. I'll try to maybego to the gym early and maybe
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try to get in the workout andboost up by points. But softball
would have helped solidify thewind for sure. But if that's the
case, it is what it is. But Ihad enough wins from the
weekend. Sodid you want to add thrown?
Yeah, so we got to do some xDorian, which your job which was
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pretty cool. Shout out to themfor the invite. It took a little
bit with those boards that wewere throwing against those
boards. It just those axes werenot sticking to but once we
realized how to throw a littlebit more, I'm just really
sticking we started doing reallywell. But yeah, I think I was
kicking your ass in that too. Sobecause at one point, we
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immediately had our own littlescore going on. And I think I
was sticking it to you in the Xwith the axis. So yeah, so I
think I gave you that when wewere competing against one
another. Yes, you are. But wedid well, against that. Yeah,
well, we did the teamcompetition. That was
interesting, because, you know,I wasn't sure how we were going
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to fare out. But we ended updoing we ended up coming through
pretty good. And well, wefinished third, we finished
third. And we could have made itto the finals. Like I posted
this on Facebook earlier thisweekend. We could have finished
in the finals, but that last xor that second to the last X
that I threw did not fuckingstick and it was a bull's eye
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shot and it did not stick and itfell out. So it kind of just
shot our shot or shot and fuckedus up. So that one was on me, or
actually that should have beenI'll say that one's on the board
because the board should have orthe action is stuck to the
board. So but yeah, overall funweekend, did a lot of stuff. So
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yeah. So to transition into thekind of the topic that we're
going to have, we're going to betalking about today, which, you
know, is rather interesting. AndI know a lot of folks actually
encounter you know, situationsas this. Could you ever date
someone that has the same nameas a previous ex? I mean, we all
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have our memories we all haveour thought process of you know,
exes you know, some things willtrigger memories. But before we
get too far into it, what areyour initial thoughts on dating
somebody with the same name asan ex Could you do it? But could
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you pass away? No.
You can personally not do it.
Give me some reasons. Give mesome reasons why you couldn't.
If we're going off of my exhusband, just the name in
general, just likeblack, just because of
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the dating light swiping morallike,
no. Yes. Well, it's funny said,because that was, you know, when
I started putting some jottingsome notes down when I knew we
were going to talk about this,but yeah, I know for a fact. I
mean, I dated a few girls thathave have had the same names and
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continue to date the girls withthe same name as I've gotten
older. Maybe just because true,some memories are triggered or
whatever, or some feelings areunprocessed feelings or whatnot.
But, and yeah, as to your point,as far as the dating apps, I'm
not gonna lie when, when I wason those things, if I saw a
particular name that I didn'tlike, even if they could look
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gorgeous, they could apply thebest personality did not even
give him a chance justautomatically swipe, swipe,
swipe. Nope, not happening. Butyeah, there are names where it
just, some of them are just toosensitive, like, Nah, I couldn't
do it. But for the most part, Ithink, some relationships, you
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got to give it a chance. Right?
You never know, it could be thatthat other person could be the
other one, even though it hadthe same name. I mean, what are
some of the triggers for youthat you would be like? No, I
mean, some some indications thatwould give you that note to that
other person would say anything,even though their name had
nothing to do, or they didnothing wrong to you. It's just
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the name. I mean, my my exeshave pretty basic names. So I
was kind of cutting myself shortanyways, I guess. So there were
Michael and Michael and Matt. Sothose are pretty common names.
But I mean, my marriage wasended pretty badly. And I just
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don't think that I would.
So just the just fine, becomfortable with all just a
negative connotation.
Yeah.
I just, I mean, I get it,especially if something ended
badly. There are times where ifyou happen to date somebody,
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like you said, a microman. Youmay turn, especially if it ended
bad, you may tend to compareyours. The relationship a lot.
Like you can possibly I justdon't want to hear the name. So
it's just the name triggeritself. You don't want to hear.
Yeah, just don't want to hearthe name. I don't want to hear
our names together. Okay. Imean, yeah, that makes a lot of
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sense. I mean, some peopleprocess well, actually, a lot of
people process thingsdifferently. For everybody. I
should say, not a lot of you,but everybody process everything
differently. But do you thinkthough? Like I was just
mentioning, though, do you thinkif you had somebody with the
same name, you would potentiallycompare things that your ex did
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that, you know, you didn't like,now you're comparing it to the
current new person? And notreally, not really give them a
fair chance? Me personally, no.
See, I I think I would I think Iwould, I would be that person
and be like, Listen, this is nothow the previous so as I don't
want their names out there,because I could have possibly
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dated one of the girls if Ithrow a name out. But the
previous so and so didn't dothis. And but yet you do a one
did it this way? Yes. Yeah. Andthat can really cause that can
cause a strain, actually, youstart comparing a lot of stuff.
I mean, I think that evenhappens now to this day, even
without having the same name.
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Some folks who didn't completelyprocess all their emotions and
feelings on it from the previousrelationship, you know, brought
some of that will tend to carrythat baggage over. Right. So and
you start to do a lot ofcomparisons. I think I did that
rather a bit in one of myprevious relationships where I
happen to compare a lot with myex wife to that current
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relationship, and it got broughtup a few times. And it's, and it
wasn't that I did intentionallyagain, I think it just was just
a reaction that I would say, Oh,this is not how I you know, and
then you kind of go back Iprobably shouldn't have said
that. You know, when you're withsomebody or you are vocalizing
that, yeah, like, you know,yeah, absolutely. If I happen to
say something like, Oh, I didthis before with and then you
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like,email that you kind of bite your
tongue after why you like, Fuck,I didn't mean it like that. But,
you know, again, going back towhat I was getting ready to say
was that you sometimes you'rewith somebody for such a lengthy
periodYou'd have time, right? And you
just have, you're always goingto have these memories, you're
going to have positive memories,you have negative memories, you
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know. So well like my previousmy last ex, Matt,
it'd be really weird for me tobe in a relationship with
somebody else they mapis, although there's nothing
romantic between us, and wenever ever could be together. We
were together for a very longtime. So, I mean, when you're
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with somebody for a long time,they're part of your family.
Yeah, like,unless something just crazy
fucking happens. They'retypically not completely erased,
so that I just think that'd befucking weird. Really weird.
Could it be that you thinkemotions will be brought up in?
If you happen to do that? Let'slet's talk about it. Let's say,
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Matt, if you dated anotherperson named Matt, do you think
by having this new relationshipwith this? Let's call it new
Matt. All sudden,the the feelings would come
back. I mean, you can mixfeelings, right? Like, like,
wait a minute, which mat am Ireferring to at this point? I
mean, that could be apossibility the other person
would never know. Right? Well,true. But so with the new the
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new person call in my name?
Well, and this is where I wasgonna say there could be a pro
and con to this right? At leastone of the pros is that you will
never call out the wrong nameduring sex, right? I mean, that
could be a possibility. If youhappen to get a tattoo named on
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you, like an idiot of anotherperson, II might benefit on
bench finding somebody with thesame name. Or that way. You
don't have to try to readjustthis or have to explain it and
you can already you know, lieyour ass off. I premeditated
that I would meet someone namedAlexis, you know, I premeditated
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that would meet you. So this iswhy I already have your name on
me. I knew this was faith, forfaith, not faith, but faith.
I don't even know what level ofIQ would be like, Oh my God,
that's so sweet.
Now,as far as cons, the six could be
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worse. So then you're gonna endup comparing, right? Like, well,
the previous well wait a minute,the name doesn't even matter.
The name doesn't matter. But,but it's no, but it will as
you're in your brain. You'regonna be like, Nah, the previous
Steve was fucking better. Hisdick was bigger, you know? Now
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I'm stuck with little Dickstein,compared to compared to Big Dig,
Steve.
I mean, I can be sad for theguys. Little titty, Betty now
from the big titty, Betty, it'sgonna happen, it's always gonna
be in your head. So I mean, youat some point, you're gonna have
to just kind of be able todisassociate yourself from those
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names without having to crossthe lines. There probably has to
be space, right? Yeah. can gofrom one. You couldn't go from
one straight to the other havingthe same name. I don't think
it'd be weird. Yeah, I mean,that was a month later you dig
in another jack. And I'd beweird. But if that's the case in
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but if let's think about socialmedia, then at this point, you
won't have to really explain meand Jack them together. You
know, you don't have to.
I mean, if you just come byJack, you're good to go. People
won't think that you're jumpingaround guys like a jet, you
know?
I mean, you could have a wholenother thing. How early? Do you
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post somebody? That could be awhole nother conversation. But
what do you think how, how soondo you post, according to girls,
God or girl's gotta eat podcast,they call it the hard launch.
When you start posting thephotos and the name and talking
about this person that'sconsidered your hard launch. So
you can do like a soft launch,which is like maybe a little
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teaser pic. But when you'reconstantly posting that you're
doing things with them. That'sconsidered the hard line. What
do you think? What's theirtimeframe? I don't remember a
timeframe that they actuallymentioned. What do you think
your timeframe is? What is yourappropriate timeframe?
I don't think I have a rule onit. Okay.
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Does that help at all? Just thatwas valuable input there. Really
helps out the people listeningright now.
I don't think I have a rule onit.
I don't know if you look throughmy Facebook. Like previously,
you probably wouldn't even knowthat anybody existed.
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So you just don't post anybodyat all. I see the trend.
Okay, no, no, even though it'sengaged, no posting from Sheena.
Got it. Got it. So the otherperson, the other person will
constantly post the photos andthings like that.
Interesting. Interesting. noted,noted, it's not that I won't
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ever post I'll post but mybiggest thing is I do not want
to, like you just said, I don'twant the whole like,
which I'm not going to post adrama on my Facebook anyway. So
something that ended it doesn'tnobody knows on Facebook
anyways, butyeah, I don't know. Did you see
the people that are like, happyand dedicated one day, and then
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like, a couple of weeks later,they're living, especially
females. They're living theirbest life and they're doing them
and then the next week, they'rein love with the next person.
And it just keeps going throughthat rotation over and over and
over again, all the motivationalquotes are being posted all the
sudden, to the anytime you startseeing motivational post,
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somebody got fucked over. Andthey're upset. Why is it so
many? I mean, I post a lot ofmotivational shit. That's just
me, butit is it like, she remembered
who she was. That's like thenumber one thing you see on a
girl's Facebook? Oh, yeah. Aftershe gets a breakup, yeah, all of
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a sudden, they're, they'rephilosophers to everybody's at
that point. But the quotes overthere asked, and funny,
hilarious to me, I'm gonna dome, boo, I'm gonna do me. But
here's a photo of my ass and alittle bit of my lips hanging
out. And that's what I'm goingto do. So, hi, mind. So how do
you how would this let's go backto the conversation of dating
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someone with the same name. Ifthere was a way to deal with it,
to try to get through it? Do youthink given them a nickname?
Like let's say if they have anickname? Would you just rather
call them by their nicknamethen? So you wouldn't have to
think of the name? Would that besomething easier to get by?
Like, iffriends call them instead of
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Richard to call him Dick wasdid.
But how often are you callingyour person by their actual
name?
You typically have a pet namefor them. It's very rare that
you're calling them by theiractual name. If you're having
sex, you hopefully should becalling them by their name.
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Other than God, God can't beeverybody's boyfriend.
Or Jesus demo some players,right? They're probably gonna
get shut down for that one guy,then we're gonna get shot.
Lightning, please strike me now.
I got a new job starting acouple of weeks. And that struck
me down now. But yes, that can'tbe.
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That's a whole nother topic. Imean, even saying,
Oh, I wonder if Indian girlscalled Buddha just Oh, Buddha or
Buddha? Or, you know, I wonderif that's the thing.
I got some I got some femaleIndian friends I need. I just
don't know how to bring that up.
Yeah. How do you ask for a whenyou're getting smashed, you say?
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Do you see Jesus? Do you sayLord, what do you say?
I'm curious. But anyways,anyways, back to the nicknames.
So if you have a nickname, wouldyou but you're saying you're
talking about like, you'recalling people bae. Boo, baby,
you know that that was if you'renot calling them by the first.
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When you're going into socialgatherings though you and you're
going to introduce them.
Obviously, if you don't want toif the names already causing
some sensitive issues, or if hedoesn't have a nickname, maybe
you can establish a nickname forHey, can we just I know this is
your name, but obviously youknow my situation in my past?
Can we just come up with a nameor I can introduce you to folks
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and just be cool with it? Whatdo you what do you think on
that? That's kind of weird.
That's fucking weird. You wouldtry to negotiate a name so you
would have to say the name thatbrings you bad memories? No.
No, that's their name. So somedude told me they're like okay,
which is it would be extremelyrare for it to happen to me but
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my name but if somebody okayname Sheena. But when I
introduce you to people, we needto have a different name.
Really? Fuck you. My name is myname. I don't know I'm just
thinking of ways to kind of helpa situation if you happen to
come across somebody and youreally are digging this person
and that but that name just Yes.
You should be mature enough toget through it and get past it.
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But again, everyone's gonna dosomething differently. Can you
potentially if you if youdecided to go that far?
even get to know them to thepoint that you're introducing
them to other people and thenyou need to just suck it the
fuck up. Yeah, I mean, it's itwon't be fair to that person,
right because they didabsolutely wrong. But and this
person could have completelydifferent skill sets,
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personalities, they actdifferently. So that's it's just
well I would hope so if itdidn't work with the first one
hopefully you're not going forthe exact same thing with the
same name and everything thenyou have a completely different
maybe mental issues. Maybe youhave a type do you have a type?
Do I have a type? Yeah, what areyour types? That's not what the
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do this show does not stay on.
This show branches off and goesinto little random tangents. So
what are your types? Ma'am? Iguess I have a little bit of a
type which is typically bald. Nocheck.
But continue. Typically baldtypically. Tall. Okay, and
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that's about it. No,that's not very
well damn. So that could havebeen the rock. I mean, the
rocket bone and tall.
The eye here. Are you lookingfor fat guys? Dad bods slender
guys. Muscular guys so justtaught me to go into my actual
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they tall ID bought sorry Bradfrom the daily BM you are out
love fuckingI have a checklist but this your
your checklist? Let's go throughit. Would you like me to open
that? Let's go through if yougot a checklist on your phone.
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Yes, you got a mintlet's go through your your man
requirements. Where's that? Ohmy God. You're ready. Yeah.
Let's see what you get.
It's pretty personal for me. Weput it out there but all right.
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Someone motivated, dedicated,driven. So they can't be a lazy
slob. Somebody with a job?
Right? Yeah, I mean, bemotivated and driven, right? not
lazy. So that means you can havea job and still be very fuckin
lazy and have no motivation.
True. Valid point. Okay,continue. Yeah. I'm someone that
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works out. Because I think withthe way my lifestyle, it'd be
difficult to be yoked withsomebody else that
doesn't work out at all, or isit active? So let me stop you
right now. I think, Dan Oh, mymommy on the second one. I think
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I remember asking you one timeshe wanted to work out and you
said no. He said, Fuck nah.
That's my thing. So how can youhave this? You're gonna bring
this list? I'm gonna challengethis fucking list because I
think I asked you to work outlast time with me a couple
times. Yeah. And he was like,fuck.
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That's my thing. So how can youpossibly have on your list?
Explain. Let's reverse because Iabsolutely did not say Fuck no.
It's not at all to the middlebucket. Now you ain't working
out with me player. You ain'tmine a man, whatever. You ain't
throwing no shade. I said youdon't know cloud on me out there
in the gym. So let's listen. Sowe're challenging number two
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right now, or use or numberthree, whatever that was.
That was number two.
I skipped over my number two,but that that's the one I said
for number two.
For me working out it's a verypersonal thing. Okay. It's a
Yeah. I don't know. So are youwanting somebody who goes to the
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gym and motivates themselves butnot with you? Is that what
you're saying? Which could youwork out with somebody? Do you
think you can actually mergeyourself to work with somebody?
Yes.
Wow, that was like a hesitantYeah, I can. Yes. Yes. I tell
you.
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I can't fake that.
The work is that we have got toask these questions. We're gonna
do those again later. Sorry. No,we haven't done well. But yeah,
the fact that I'm just sayingyou've talked about working out
and working out, Jim block thesewhat you do.
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Thank you very much. No, I haveworked out. I have worked out
with females. And it's not a bigdeal. But I feel bad sometimes
because the cost of weightchanges. Obviously there's a big
difference when it comes toloading and unloading weights
because obviously you're notgoing to be lifting the same as
thatWait as I am to the few are we
got problems. So may we haveproblems? I mean, do you have
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problems?
I try this and I try to messwith somebody that's lift
females lifting more than me ifshe's lifting more than me
yet, we can't talk. Maybe that'swhy I didn't want to get to the
gym with you. Maybe I didn'twant to hurt your feelings.
Like you're taking mycall make me spit that on my
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mic. You that's not good.
Okay, yeah, we'll go with that.
Sure. Alright, so working out.
It's a very personal thing forme. So, I don't know. Are you
the type of girl that will havejust the headphones on and just
have that bitch looking face?
Yeah, resting. bitchface.
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Don't cut Okay. Okay.
I don't need you to reachsomething for me. I don't need
you to move something for me. Idon't need you to talk to me. So
eye contact with me. Well, thenlet me ask this then. Are you
dressing? Like I'm going to thegym to workout 12 year old kid
that can't dress? Are you goingin there with some revealing
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clothes to go work out? That'sgoing to possibly get attention?
Because you know, it's all aboutthe outfits, right? So if you're
going to be wearing a particularoutfit that you know are going
to grab attention. You can't bemad at somebody that's just
trying to come and talk to youif they happen to see you in the
gym on a regular maybe they wantto be your friend. Maybe they're
not trying to holler maybe theyjust want to be friendly with
you. And maybe even workoutcould be a new workout buddy for
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you to give one workout at a Idon't think we were in there at
the same time. What I don'tthink we can be friends in the
gym, me and you.
I'm not there to talk and makefriends. I'm there to grow my
muscles. Well,I didn't say you had to sit and
talk about you. Network. It'spart of networking, as you know
business to network with peoplebecause you never know the
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network the people that you canconnect with in the gym. There
are similar interests in the gymalready. You got that rapport,
you got somebody Bowflex workingout, you never know. I'll report
back to you tomorrow morningabout the people I talked to.
I mean, I talked to this guy andthis guy and I know Okay, go
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ahead.
Sure. Go ahead. Continue to listnow, please.
So we can challenge it some Oh,goodness. Okay. So a lot of my
list is kind of a reflection ofme in my life, I guess. Right?
So the next thing was reading oropen to learning and expanding
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so somebody that's not juststagnant and illiterate.
Basically.
Somebody that graduated gradeschool check. All right, cool.
Well, exactly. A bit of adifferent level. But do you like
pictures or words pick one ifyou don't know how to read it?
Please pick point at thepicture.
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Okay.
Somebody that feeds their body?
Well, I mean, fat guys feedtheir body. Well, I mean, look
at Oh, yeah, well as innutritionally Well, I mean, fat
guy see? A pork chop friedchicken. That's not feeding your
body. Well, well, they thinktheir body's feeling pretty
well.
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Anyway, challenge this list. Goahead. Now that was nonsense.
willing to travel enjoys theoutdoors capable of so why don't
you you're starting to growthrough the list here. I want to
be able to check each one ofyour little spots. Were willing
to travel and outdoors enjoysthat's called a bum because they
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a bum a homeless guy. They'reoutdoors and outdoors. They are
enjoying it right? Well, theymight not be doing it but
they're having to enjoy it. Sothat could be a bomb. So right
now I have a visualize a bomb asyour particular type of guy
here. Send the bombs motivatedand dedicated and driven. He's
motivated not to work.
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But continue Okay, so travels,travels and enjoys the outdoors.
Okay, continue on. You got Yeah.
capable of communicating.
Massive funding. Be good. I'mgood. I'll let that one go.
Okay. All right. Please domasculine
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Hold on, hold on. And now we gota problem with that one trigger
word that right there you'regonna have a lot of problems
with these. This new generationof masculinity, but I think your
your show, Shawn and sex coveredthat one really well, the whole
the whole issue of masculinitylike he covered that topic very
(34:56):
well. That was a very goodepisode of his podcast, but yes,
There is a big problem withmasculinity in our country right
now. So we'll leave it at that.
Because we can get really down arabbit hole with there. But
okay, so that one could be alittle questionable for you. But
continue. For me the definitionof what the masculinity is.
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That's actually like, at the topof the list number one, but
anyways, the next one was tall,athletic. And then I have a
couple that are like, my nonnegotiables. So there's a
silence aside list here. Yeah,my non negotiables. So
absolutely no baby mama drama.
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Preferably somebody with zerochildren, because I just don't
want to do it. So at your age,though, that's kind of hard to
find across right. Nobody would.
Alright. Yeah, that's that's atough one. Yeah. I mean, if
there's only100 so far on this list, but
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continue.
So the next one, which is nocigarettes, just grow. And wait,
wait, where are cigars? I saysno cigarettes. So we're not.
We're not referring to cigars.
We're not referring to for 20.
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Right. We're not referring juststraight. Straight up
cigarettes. Okay. Just trying tomake sure. Oh, no, listen, I do.
Take mine. Um, so that way I cango back and challenge some of
these eyes. But go ahead. I'm,I'm mostly okay. My last one is
doesn't drink daily and doesn'tdrink to get drunk. So basically
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non alcoholic.
So the daily drinking, I get itthe drunk drinking. Yeah, that's
fine. But that kind of puts alot of some of your masculinity
like guys that who actually liketo drink sometimes.
who like to be some of the machoman, you know, some of the macho
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men like to drink? So wait, butmasculinity and macho are two
different things. Sodrinking on a regular basis
makes you a masculine men. Idisagree. I drink on my show
regularly. What would you thinkof that? Does that not fall on
your list then? Because youknow, that is part of the show
drinking, shooting the shit?
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That's not what I said. I saiddrinking daily and getting
drunk. I mean, my record withYes, my past experiences have
been with alcoholics. So that isnot a situation I want to put
myself back into. I gotcha. Thatcould be a big deal, too. If you
have the same name, first nameor whatever.
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And you start arguing with thenew person, and all of a sudden
that you never finished, youfelt like you never got to
finish an argument in regards tosomething similar. And you guys
are arguing about next thing,you know, you're bringing that
old relationship argument andbringing it forward. And then
this new guy or girl is likewhat the fuck has happened here?
I just got ambushed with shitthat we never even really had
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conversations about. And yet,you're just going off on me
because this just this argumenttriggering an old previous
argument. But therefore be anhonest and I think you said this
before. If this person is goingto do those things, they're
going to do it regardless ofwhat the person's name is. So
yeah, so if we go and havearguments with our new person,
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in regards to arguments with ourold person that can really that
could potentially end arelationship if I'm honest, I
mean, that could really causethat new person who's gonna
listen to you're obviouslyyou're bringing back shit and
and you just haven't gottenover. Yes, we had the same name,
but obviously, there's stilljust issues that you did not
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completely deal with. time ago.
Yeah, absolutely. Deuces andgive the new guy a chance. Not
the new guy basically didn'thave a fight chance. So but the
ones that are you know, nobodywants to argue but it's gonna
happen every late everyrelationship will have
arguments. I mean, you'redealing with a woman right? So.
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silence I'm just kidding. Socome on. Let's hear the voice.
Let's see what you got to say.
And you got it. You bid your lipwhen I said that. So yeah, no,
I'm just gonna let that want tolet that marinate.
Typical right, bring that shitback at a later time. There we
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go. Exactly what I'm referringto.
When we will store that. Wait aminute. I think we have I think
we've talked about as a point inprevious episode, which is that
you don't stores theAs you said, you don't store
things in memory banks. Youjust, I'm gonna marinate on that
right now. And I'll when thetime
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when that time comes, right, Ithink that stupid I'm gonna
bring that shit up in your face.
So no.
Okay.
So I did write one note down,that that would be beneficial if
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you attempted to do therelationship with or the same
name, right? Just don't go tothe same places that triggered
memories don't go to restaurantsdon't go to some of your
favorite spots, right? Like, Imean, you know how sometimes
songs can actually triggercertain memories, right? So
places like restaurants,restaurants, parks, you know,
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venues, bars, some of thosethings that will actually
trigger a memory, it can begood. I mean, you can have good
memories, obviously, but it'sstill gonna trigger something
right, you're gonna have you'regonna have feeling some kind of
way. It's like, if you want toavoid those, and you know that
it would trigger something, justdon't go. Don't do it. Save
yourself the headache. And just,it sounds like this imaginary
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person that we're talking about,needs to like, do some personal
growth. Well, I'm sound likethey shouldn't be in a
relationship period. Well, I'mjust saying, like I said, I just
I was writing all these littlenotes down, jot things down on
things that, you know, if youdid go into a relationship with
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somebody with the same name asan ex, how could you get past
it? Or if you couldn't get pastit? What were some of the pros
and cons, just some of thethings that was jotted down. So
it's not like it was animaginary person, I would just
think in general. And this ishow you could ya know, move past
it. So, all right, I'm gonnashow what somebody's name is.
I'm not going to not near therestaurants I like to go to.
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But you'd kind of did. In thebeginning, when you said, when
you were on the dating apps, youwere swiping left. So you kind
of Yeah, I want to be withsomebody with same name. But
you. So what is it yes or no?
If you saw the tall, bald headedperson on Tinder, and it was the
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same name as your ash, like,ooh, it's this my profile. Looks
like he can read. He looks likehe can. He's masculine. He looks
like he's an outdoorsy person.
He's got pictures of fish in hisprofile. He's got you know,
that's outdoorsy, right? He'straveling, he's traveling to
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oceans and lakes and stuff, youknow, I mean, he's outdoorsy and
travels, would you have? Wouldyou have swiped right or left?
And it happens to be the samename?
And the question, see, yeah, sothat's a very good question,
then it's like, are youswiping on this, just the same
person, but it could be acompletely different
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personality? And to you, youdon't know that? There's so many
people out there, you don't knowuntil you get that person to
try? And that could be that oneperson and you can, but if you
know what the hang up for you?
Why would you even try? But ifif they happen to swipe on you
as well, you could have had amatch that you didn't know that
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you missed the opportunity on,you know, the what is it the
FOMO the fear of missing out?
Yeah, never know, could be theone FOMO FOMO. There is so
anyway, so just to wrap that up,though, I mean, like I said,
that was kind of something thatI jotted down when i i
originally episodes I wanted tochat about when we first started
the show and it just never gotaround to it. But
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if anyone was able to date therewhen you are you said you have I
have I have dated a few girlswith the same name and it all
ended in the same that's whytheir exes. So their exes,
right? So eventually replayed itthe same way. No, no, it just
something's just didn't work. iThere's now there are certain
(44:03):
names that I probably will nevergo back to and date, no matter
how fine no matter if we youknow, click very well. But
that's me, I have my own fuckingissues that I got to work with
through some of the names andyou know, there's gonna be a lot
of hurt with some of my names,or I don't have very many, but
there are a couple that Idefinitely would not
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touch again, that just becauseof the name itself and the
memories and, and the shit thatwill get triggered in my own
head in my own personal head. Soya know, when gotcha, but for
the most part, I'd be okay. Iwould kind of learn how to deal
with it. But But yeah, there area couple of there's a few names
that I would definitely notrevisit. So, but anyways, so
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let's go ahead and we got about10 minutes before we start
wrapping things up. Let's goahead and get back into some hot
seat questions that we haven'tdone in the last couple episodes
because some of our Did you seeon
Call me on my show, ma'am. Yes,you did because I just can't do
on the mic pretty damn loud.
Yeah, I'm sorry. I am boring youright now this conversation
(45:11):
hopefully my listeners don'tthink I'm boring right now.
Geez.
All right. Question. Has anyoneever walked in on you
masturbating? No. Never had aparent your kid walk in on you,
guy that would be embarrassingif your kid walked in on you
masturbating? I mean, nobody.
Nobody's ever. I can't say that.
(45:33):
I've had anyone walk in on mewhat? Masturbating but I've had
someone come home when I wasn'texpecting to come home and
you're talking about franticbeing trying to pull everything
up, you know. But you get toohard on put away.
So yeah, I remember a few times,actually. But one time
(45:57):
specifically, when I wasyounger, back in the day when we
had the old school satellitedish TVs. We had the illegal box
that went in the back that gaveus all the channels and all that
good stuff. Plenty of porn. Idid it. I wasn't paying
attention. I guess I was in thegroove of things. No pun
intended. But I was in thegroove. And next thing I knew I
(46:20):
hear the garage opening. Do youtalk about panic? Because there
was a few things I had to do, Ihad to take out that box that
was in the back of thatsatellite box and switch out to
the legit box where it blocksall those channels out, right?
Because the ground is opening. Ididn't have time to do all this.
I had I had to immediately actfast. Remember, I'm a teenager
(46:41):
at this point, I had to switchout the satellite channels,
switch to my salad real fast.
pull my pants up, run to thebathroom and like I'm just
pooping or something and hope toGod that the satellite changed
in or it wasn't a process ofchanging and just didn't get
stuck on that damn porn channel.
Because that door open up and itwas like Hello. Where are you
at? I'm like, Oh my god. This isembarrassing, because I couldn't
get walked in on. But yes, so Ican say I didn't get walked in
(47:03):
but pretty dang close. Prettydamn close. So and it's happened
to me at least twice. When othertime was when I was older. So.
But what's the biggest lieyou've told to get out of a
date? I don't think I've everlived to get out of a day.
Come on, man. Come on. You'venever went on a date that it was
(47:27):
not going well. You trying toget out of a day? Yeah. To get
out of it. To get out of it.
Let's I mean, you can get a datewhile you're already in there.
Yeah, I mean, yeah. A lot to getout of it. Like somebody got
sick. Oh, no, I got to go to theemergency room. My mom got hit
by a car. My you know?
(47:48):
Ever I don't lie. I mean, I toldyou I suck at lying. Like I
just, I just don't do it. I suckat it so bad. Wow. So you you're
trying you're legitimately goingwith that you're an angel on
dates. You never had a Tinderdate go bad that you wish didn't
happen. I've had a shift on aTinder date. So wish never
(48:10):
happened. Okay, so and youdidn't try to get out of those
dates. You were like, Oh, youjust actually just dreaded
through them and be the niceperson just went through the
night? Yeah.
I just went through the night.
And thenlike, yeah, oh, I had a few that
were Yeah, no.
(48:33):
I mean, Am I just supposed to bemean and bitchy and be like,
Okay, I gotta fucking go. Yeah.
Why not? I mean, never had asexual experience where, you
know, someone was just randomlysaying stupid shit to you or
whatever. And, and, like, Igotta go. I mean, that's, you
(48:53):
know, say you gotta leave orsomething like that, like, or
the dick is not good orsomething like, I gotta go. I
forgot I left my stove on orsomething. I don't know.
I mean, okay, so, I've had acouple encounters where Yeah, it
was less than desirable.
(49:13):
Your responses are sucking rightnow.
I know. I'm sorry. Jesus Christ.
All right. I don't have anythingexciting to say on that. I don't
think Alright, so this nextquestion probably fits you
better because I know you havesome some of this. What's your
worst case of road rage?
(49:38):
My worst case of it? Yeah. Imean, I've never hit anybody.
What's your car? No. Yeah. No,like rear end somebody or hit
somebody, like a personphysically outside of a car hit
somebody with a bowI have some pretty intense road
rage.
(50:00):
So what triggers you? Whatpisses you off to give you road
rage? People don't know how tofucking drive well that's just
they don't go so are wereferring to like slow people in
the fast lane? Which is myfucking dead peers let's use the
roundabout near my house theresigns at every entrance to the
(50:20):
roundabout that says Do notblock the fuck around about
peoplethey block it I just need to go
around it go that wayare you just sitting in it for
no good fucking reason we needto be the road hearing where
(50:42):
and if you're coming into aroundabout one last thing
if you're coming into aroundabout and there's somebody
going around it the personthat's in the roundabout has the
right away yes like you can'tjust fucking T bone somebody
alright guys we got we found outour soft shot road rage
(51:04):
Are you a person that lays onyour horn then which are road
rage? Are you fucking laying onthe horn for somebody?
I don't lay on it.
But you do beYeah. Then if they don't go
now how would you feelsomebody's honking the horn at
you for like not moving on anddoing like would you get pissed
(51:25):
off? Yeah, exactly.
You wouldn't want somebodyhonking at you because unless
I'm really not paying attentionif you did not immediately
immediately go obviously I giveit a couple of like three or
four seconds and I'm gonna beatthe horn right
okay, it's a long fucking timeI'm courteous given I don't have
I don't have road rage like somepeople are like BB go bitch
(51:50):
you don't have a right I don'tthink just want to glaze over
that I haveI get annoyed that's what I
that's what I get annoyed I getannoyed when people do not get
out your way what if you seesomeone coming up on your ass in
the fast lane? Move the fuckover don't stay in the lane and
(52:11):
be a dick and next thing youknow you speed up and go the
same speed as a person in theright hand lane Don't be a
fucking asshole. But that's myannoying pet peeve is when
people just and you don't Idon't see an appropriate time to
house yeah, okay, I just I justsaid I get annoyed I don't get
(52:31):
raged I'm not pulling out mygun. Get the fuck out the way
which I should probably justscare people every now and then.
That's why I don't have a gun inmy car. But but no I just that's
my time to be to know I don'tknow I don't I still won't be
best somebody I just I will Iwill write up pretty close on
(52:53):
your athlete. If I'm coming inyou know the fast lanes is to do
illegal shit. You're gonna begoing fashion in the fucking
speed limit. So if you seesomeone coming in, don't be a
dick and do the speed limit.
Obviously people are drivingfaster exactly move over. But I
get that if they don't moveover. And then I then have the
only time I'll will you'll see aI don't know if it's any bit of
road rage but is we're also I'lljust get pissed off I'll swerve
(53:16):
to the right lane and thenswerve back into the left lane
just bucking and I should breakevery now and then. But I don't
I'm not that much of a dick. Butjust just to show you just want
to label just want to label roadrage.
I'm just annoyed. I'm annoyed.
That's the I don't consider thatroad rage. Just a bit annoying
me on the road. I'm not yellingWell, I'm just basically just
(53:39):
saying Get the fuck out the way.
But you know that to me thatthat road rage that's just
everyday travels.
My rage is like you want to getout and just brutally fight just
for some stupid shit. Butno, don't get away. You know?
Just get I mean, get out of theway somebody just coming up on
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your ass that's I wanted to pay.
If my car wasn't part of like mycareer or whatever. I wanted to
have downlow the front of it.
Move bitch get out the way.
I mean, you can still get there.
Nah, it's not very professional.
I mean, no way looking at yourcar, right? So.
(54:25):
Oh, that's not true. Oh, okay.
Nobody's looking at my car. Imean, not in a professional
conversation piece. But not thatit becomes a conversation up
late 80% of the time.
Okay, fine. Sure. Don't feeljealous. Don't
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I mean, it's a nice car, but Idon't think that you know, you
put a move which by the waywould be a horrible thing. But
you got to put it. You got it.
You got to put it in reversethough. So that way when
someone's looking at it throughthe rearview mirror, they can
read it properly.
So, so that way it really does.
It's not so bad, right? Youknow, it's gonna be somebody
reads it head on. They're like,What the hell is that say? And
(55:07):
you'll be you already drive pastthem so they won't have time to
read it. So all right, lastquestion of the night and we'll
go ahead and wrap things up.
What is something inedible thatyou tried? Once to eat?
Something that is not edible,right that I have tried to eat?
That's you have tried to eat?
That's a weird fucking question.
(55:30):
That's part of the game. weirdquestions, right? That's like
what they ask you when you'repregnant. Have you been craving
dirt? What? Yeah, yeah.
That's a weird question. That'sa weird question. They did. They
asked mewhen my kid eat dirt mud high
with the Hill, right? Like ifyou have certain deficiencies
when you're pregnant, you'llcrave that shit, I guess. Oh,
(55:52):
okay. No, I don't Iwait, what's the question? What
is something inedible that youat least try to eat once? I can
tell you two things. The onlything I can think this is Dick,
but go ahead ah,ah. I mean, you technically
(56:18):
couldbe it could Lorraine the Bobbitt
that shit. Put it on a barbecue.
I mean, technically, you couldeat it. Jeffrey Dahmer ate human
body parts so it is ratherapparently edible. So
speaking though, probably towatch that Dahmer series.
(56:40):
Sidenote, I've heard a lot ofgood things about it. So I feel
like I need to watch this. It'sstill like in the top 10 or
something in Netflix. So I thinkI need to go get that like cue
maybe maybe this weekend orsomething. Put that in the queue
to watch. But anyways, so digit. That is a little thing that
you can eat apparently, so neveraccidentally tried the plastic
(57:04):
fruits that are on tabledisplays like you think it's an
actual real fruit and excellentgrab it and bite into his
fucking plastic deck of themath like come on. So you call
me dumb ask because I've donethat shit. Like I'm thinking it
wasn't.
It was an actual fruit. Igrabbed that bitch bite into it.
It was a fucking plastic fuckingfruit.
(57:24):
I can read and I can you know beoutdoors and travel. But yes, I
grab in edible fruit and try tobite into that shit. Okay, so
yes, it's happening. panties.
You can try to you know, pullthe pants down with your teeth.
And you know, chew up your I'mtrying to eat some people. Some
people do some weird shit. Ididn't say I didn't say there
butI pulled them down before and
(57:46):
shoot on them while I'm pullingthem down. So that way I can get
a better grip but panties soOkay, plastic fruit and panties.
That's it. That's what I can saywith that one.
You're talking about fuckingcop. Like, Dahmer style. Yeah,
exactly.
(58:11):
Just choke on it. No, you don'tanyways, alright, so we're gonna
go ahead and wrap things upguys.
Hopefully this episode comes outdecently. And hopefully it
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If you're having sex, hopefully should be calling them
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welcome back to another episodeof whiskey and uncensored. My
name is a Lopez and I'm going tobe the host of this debauchery
where we talk anything taboo,crazy life stories all while
drinking whiskey. Today I'm onthe OG classic of crown and
coke. I just felt like having achronic coke. I haven't done
(00:59):
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best way to finish off this OGbottle was to add it with a
splash of coke. So today I havemy guest Sheena with us today.
And she is on coffee.
Yeah, she is on coffee. Sohopefully everybody had a good
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weekend. How was the weekend foryou? Ma'am? I know we had some
fun this weekend. We did have afun weekend. A lot of car shows
extra one. The car shows Yeah,let's go. But let's go to this
car show. I woke up early in themorning to go to a car show. And
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the the name of the car show iscalled Cars and Coffee cars and
coffee. Mind you I am not toomuch of a morning person. So I
am needing coffee. So I get upeven though we had coffee at the
house buthad a cup of coffee with Avon so
I'm thinking I'm gonna go out toa show possibly in there's gonna
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be some kind of coffee standsome kind of coffee booths,
booths, and there was no coffee.
Not a damn bit of coffee. Webarely found anything to eat up
there because it was so damnearly by the time we get out
there. But the survived. Isurvived Yes. And the car show
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was was pretty damn cool. I gotto see a lot of badass cars,
some souped up cars and classiccars. So it was a it was a it
was actually rather large for acar event for a car meeting car
show whatever you want to callit. But there really wasn't no
judging. It was just kind oflike a gathering of all the you
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know, the hobbyist enthusiast ofcars really. So what was your
what was one of your favoritecars out there? The Lexus?
Tell everybody what's up, Alexiswe talking about here?
To prepare me for that. I don'tremember exactly what when it
is.
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Come on. You're supposed to be acar person here. And I know
you've told me under the bus.
Right, right.
Well, I'll tell yousome of the ones that I fell in
love with obviously, was theCorvette the new C eights. There
were some badass CAS out there.
And of course, obviously, somebeautiful Lambos and there was a
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ton of Lambos out there, man. Itwas yeah, it was my young kid
inside my inner kid justscreaming of all the supercars
there was one. I only saw one.
McLaren out there, which waswhich was pretty dope to see.
But to me that that entire shapeof that car reminds me of a
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Lambo, actually, so it wasparked next to all the Lambos so
it could have you know, most ofthose that they were just
walking by would have justthought it was probably there's
another Lambo. But me walking byI knew was a McLaren. So I had,
I had to make sure I looked atthat bad boy. So
I like the McLaren better thanthe Lambos. Me personally.
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I mean, it's a tight one. Imean, that one that was there
was was a pretty sexy car. Sothose were those were my
favorite. Obviously some of theclassic muscle cars that were
out there were really lit Yeah.
Some of the restored old schoolChevy big block trucks are out
there. And they were lookingpretty good too. So it's a kudos
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kudos to that good little carshow that got put on so and
so Lexus LC 500 Oh, you lookedit up just to redeem herself.
SoFrom my understanding this show
is actually done once a once amonth is what the kids said.
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Yep. Once a month so if anyone'shappens to be down in the west
palm area we were done in WestPalm, aren't we? Yeah, took the
Palm Beach outlets, the PalmBeach outlets on once a month.
But is it a particular daythough?
Obviously, well, which son isusually the first Sunday last
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Sunday? Any Sunday? Or is itjust scheduled on Thursday? I'll
get it soon. There's got to belike a social media page for it
to announce when therebut yeah, if anyone's ever
happened to be in that west palmarea make sure you guys go check
it out. It was actually a youknow, a good a good turnout. It
was not bad. 10 bucks if youwanted to actually get into the
event area itself or there wasplenty of parking on the outside
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of it. You can just park andwalk that's kind of what we did.
But But yeah, so we did that.
We checked out what pop stroketargeted one a Tiger Woods is a
influences. The CO ownersdesigns a lot of those courses
out in Port St. Lucie, and let'shear it one. You had a very
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marginal winner. Oh.
Boy, it was like seven point no.
Well, okay. We had the Oh, wegot we got the all day pass.
They gave us all the pets thatwe were able to play both
courses that were their firstcourse. Sure. I gave you seven
whatever. I had a marginally theseven. Second game. Let's hear.
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I have no idea. 13 anyone listentill the final score. 13
strokes, 13 strokes. I spankthat ass.
He was me against all three.
That was there. So again,victorious in any competition I
encounter. And matter of fact,this competition. This
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competition that we're on rightnow with the your each of the
head on this one. I'll give youthat it ends tomorrow. I think
so. Maybe I need two days left.
I think it ends tomorrow. Butmaybe I'll go ahead and go to
the gym and have softballtomorrow. But I'm not sure if
I'm gonna make it because myshoulder is just killing me so
and your loss. I'll try to maybego to the gym early and maybe
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try to get in the workout andboost up by points. But softball
would have helped solidify thewind for sure. But if that's the
case, it is what it is. But Ihad enough wins from the
weekend. Sodid you want to add thrown?
Yeah, so we got to do some xDorian, which your job which was
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pretty cool. Shout out to themfor the invite. It took a little
bit with those boards that wewere throwing against those
boards. It just those axes werenot sticking to but once we
realized how to throw a littlebit more, I'm just really
sticking we started doing reallywell. But yeah, I think I was
kicking your ass in that too. Sobecause at one point, we
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immediately had our own littlescore going on. And I think I
was sticking it to you in the Xwith the axis. So yeah, so I
think I gave you that when wewere competing against one
another. Yes, you are. But wedid well, against that. Yeah,
well, we did the teamcompetition. That was
interesting, because, you know,I wasn't sure how we were going
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to fare out. But we ended updoing we ended up coming through
pretty good. And well, wefinished third, we finished
third. And we could have made itto the finals. Like I posted
this on Facebook earlier thisweekend. We could have finished
in the finals, but that last xor that second to the last X
that I threw did not fuckingstick and it was a bull's eye
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shot and it did not stick and itfell out. So it kind of just
shot our shot or shot and fuckedus up. So that one was on me, or
actually that should have beenI'll say that one's on the board
because the board should have orthe action is stuck to the
board. So but yeah, overall funweekend, did a lot of stuff. So
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yeah. So to transition into thekind of the topic that we're
going to have, we're going to betalking about today, which, you
know, is rather interesting. AndI know a lot of folks actually
encounter you know, situationsas this. Could you ever date
someone that has the same nameas a previous ex? I mean, we all
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have our memories we all haveour thought process of you know,
exes you know, some things willtrigger memories. But before we
get too far into it, what areyour initial thoughts on dating
somebody with the same name asan ex Could you do it? But could
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you pass away? No.
You can personally not do it.
Give me some reasons. Give mesome reasons why you couldn't.
If we're going off of my exhusband, just the name in
general, just likeblack, just because of
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the dating light swiping morallike,
no. Yes. Well, it's funny said,because that was, you know, when
I started putting some jottingsome notes down when I knew we
were going to talk about this,but yeah, I know for a fact. I
mean, I dated a few girls thathave have had the same names and
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continue to date the girls withthe same name as I've gotten
older. Maybe just because true,some memories are triggered or
whatever, or some feelings areunprocessed feelings or whatnot.
But, and yeah, as to your point,as far as the dating apps, I'm
not gonna lie when, when I wason those things, if I saw a
particular name that I didn'tlike, even if they could look
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gorgeous, they could apply thebest personality did not even
give him a chance justautomatically swipe, swipe,
swipe. Nope, not happening. Butyeah, there are names where it
just, some of them are just toosensitive, like, Nah, I couldn't
do it. But for the most part, Ithink, some relationships, you
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got to give it a chance. Right?
You never know, it could be thatthat other person could be the
other one, even though it hadthe same name. I mean, what are
some of the triggers for youthat you would be like? No, I
mean, some some indications thatwould give you that note to that
other person would say anything,even though their name had
nothing to do, or they didnothing wrong to you. It's just
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the name. I mean, my my exeshave pretty basic names. So I
was kind of cutting myself shortanyways, I guess. So there were
Michael and Michael and Matt. Sothose are pretty common names.
But I mean, my marriage wasended pretty badly. And I just
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don't think that I would.
So just the just fine, becomfortable with all just a
negative connotation.
Yeah.
I just, I mean, I get it,especially if something ended
badly. There are times where ifyou happen to date somebody,
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like you said, a microman. Youmay turn, especially if it ended
bad, you may tend to compareyours. The relationship a lot.
Like you can possibly I justdon't want to hear the name. So
it's just the name triggeritself. You don't want to hear.
Yeah, just don't want to hearthe name. I don't want to hear
our names together. Okay. Imean, yeah, that makes a lot of
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sense. I mean, some peopleprocess well, actually, a lot of
people process thingsdifferently. For everybody. I
should say, not a lot of you,but everybody process everything
differently. But do you thinkthough? Like I was just
mentioning, though, do you thinkif you had somebody with the
same name, you would potentiallycompare things that your ex did
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that, you know, you didn't like,now you're comparing it to the
current new person? And notreally, not really give them a
fair chance? Me personally, no.
See, I I think I would I think Iwould, I would be that person
and be like, Listen, this is nothow the previous so as I don't
want their names out there,because I could have possibly
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dated one of the girls if Ithrow a name out. But the
previous so and so didn't dothis. And but yet you do a one
did it this way? Yes. Yeah. Andthat can really cause that can
cause a strain, actually, youstart comparing a lot of stuff.
I mean, I think that evenhappens now to this day, even
without having the same name.
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Some folks who didn't completelyprocess all their emotions and
feelings on it from the previousrelationship, you know, brought
some of that will tend to carrythat baggage over. Right. So and
you start to do a lot ofcomparisons. I think I did that
rather a bit in one of myprevious relationships where I
happen to compare a lot with myex wife to that current
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relationship, and it got broughtup a few times. And it's, and it
wasn't that I did intentionallyagain, I think it just was just
a reaction that I would say, Oh,this is not how I you know, and
then you kind of go back Iprobably shouldn't have said
that. You know, when you're withsomebody or you are vocalizing
that, yeah, like, you know,yeah, absolutely. If I happen to
say something like, Oh, I didthis before with and then you
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like,email that you kind of bite your
tongue after why you like, Fuck,I didn't mean it like that. But,
you know, again, going back towhat I was getting ready to say
was that you sometimes you'rewith somebody for such a lengthy
periodYou'd have time, right? And you
just have, you're always goingto have these memories, you're
going to have positive memories,you have negative memories, you
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know. So well like my previousmy last ex, Matt,
it'd be really weird for me tobe in a relationship with
somebody else they mapis, although there's nothing
romantic between us, and wenever ever could be together. We
were together for a very longtime. So, I mean, when you're
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with somebody for a long time,they're part of your family.
Yeah, like,unless something just crazy
fucking happens. They'retypically not completely erased,
so that I just think that'd befucking weird. Really weird.
Could it be that you thinkemotions will be brought up in?
If you happen to do that? Let'slet's talk about it. Let's say,
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Matt, if you dated anotherperson named Matt, do you think
by having this new relationshipwith this? Let's call it new
Matt. All sudden,the the feelings would come
back. I mean, you can mixfeelings, right? Like, like,
wait a minute, which mat am Ireferring to at this point? I
mean, that could be apossibility the other person
would never know. Right? Well,true. But so with the new the
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new person call in my name?
Well, and this is where I wasgonna say there could be a pro
and con to this right? At leastone of the pros is that you will
never call out the wrong nameduring sex, right? I mean, that
could be a possibility. If youhappen to get a tattoo named on
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you, like an idiot of anotherperson, II might benefit on
bench finding somebody with thesame name. Or that way. You
don't have to try to readjustthis or have to explain it and
you can already you know, lieyour ass off. I premeditated
that I would meet someone namedAlexis, you know, I premeditated
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that would meet you. So this iswhy I already have your name on
me. I knew this was faith, forfaith, not faith, but faith.
I don't even know what level ofIQ would be like, Oh my God,
that's so sweet.
Now,as far as cons, the six could be
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worse. So then you're gonna endup comparing, right? Like, well,
the previous well wait a minute,the name doesn't even matter.
The name doesn't matter. But,but it's no, but it will as
you're in your brain. You'regonna be like, Nah, the previous
Steve was fucking better. Hisdick was bigger, you know? Now
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I'm stuck with little Dickstein,compared to compared to Big Dig,
Steve.
I mean, I can be sad for theguys. Little titty, Betty now
from the big titty, Betty, it'sgonna happen, it's always gonna
be in your head. So I mean, youat some point, you're gonna have
to just kind of be able todisassociate yourself from those
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names without having to crossthe lines. There probably has to
be space, right? Yeah. can gofrom one. You couldn't go from
one straight to the other havingthe same name. I don't think
it'd be weird. Yeah, I mean,that was a month later you dig
in another jack. And I'd beweird. But if that's the case in
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but if let's think about socialmedia, then at this point, you
won't have to really explain meand Jack them together. You
know, you don't have to.
I mean, if you just come byJack, you're good to go. People
won't think that you're jumpingaround guys like a jet, you
know?
I mean, you could have a wholenother thing. How early? Do you
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post somebody? That could be awhole nother conversation. But
what do you think how, how soondo you post, according to girls,
God or girl's gotta eat podcast,they call it the hard launch.
When you start posting thephotos and the name and talking
about this person that'sconsidered your hard launch. So
you can do like a soft launch,which is like maybe a little
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teaser pic. But when you'reconstantly posting that you're
doing things with them. That'sconsidered the hard line. What
do you think? What's theirtimeframe? I don't remember a
timeframe that they actuallymentioned. What do you think
your timeframe is? What is yourappropriate timeframe?
I don't think I have a rule onit. Okay.
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Does that help at all? Just thatwas valuable input there. Really
helps out the people listeningright now.
I don't think I have a rule onit.
I don't know if you look throughmy Facebook. Like previously,
you probably wouldn't even knowthat anybody existed.
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So you just don't post anybodyat all. I see the trend.
Okay, no, no, even though it'sengaged, no posting from Sheena.
Got it. Got it. So the otherperson, the other person will
constantly post the photos andthings like that.
Interesting. Interesting. noted,noted, it's not that I won't
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ever post I'll post but mybiggest thing is I do not want
to, like you just said, I don'twant the whole like,
which I'm not going to post adrama on my Facebook anyway. So
something that ended it doesn'tnobody knows on Facebook
anyways, butyeah, I don't know. Did you see
the people that are like, happyand dedicated one day, and then
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like, a couple of weeks later,they're living, especially
females. They're living theirbest life and they're doing them
and then the next week, they'rein love with the next person.
And it just keeps going throughthat rotation over and over and
over again, all the motivationalquotes are being posted all the
sudden, to the anytime you startseeing motivational post,
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somebody got fucked over. Andthey're upset. Why is it so
many? I mean, I post a lot ofmotivational shit. That's just
me, butit is it like, she remembered
who she was. That's like thenumber one thing you see on a
girl's Facebook? Oh, yeah. Aftershe gets a breakup, yeah, all of
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a sudden, they're, they'rephilosophers to everybody's at
that point. But the quotes overthere asked, and funny,
hilarious to me, I'm gonna dome, boo, I'm gonna do me. But
here's a photo of my ass and alittle bit of my lips hanging
out. And that's what I'm goingto do. So, hi, mind. So how do
you how would this let's go backto the conversation of dating
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someone with the same name. Ifthere was a way to deal with it,
to try to get through it? Do youthink given them a nickname?
Like let's say if they have anickname? Would you just rather
call them by their nicknamethen? So you wouldn't have to
think of the name? Would that besomething easier to get by?
Like, iffriends call them instead of
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Richard to call him Dick wasdid.
But how often are you callingyour person by their actual
name?
You typically have a pet namefor them. It's very rare that
you're calling them by theiractual name. If you're having
sex, you hopefully should becalling them by their name.
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Other than God, God can't beeverybody's boyfriend.
Or Jesus demo some players,right? They're probably gonna
get shut down for that one guy,then we're gonna get shot.
Lightning, please strike me now.
I got a new job starting acouple of weeks. And that struck
me down now. But yes, that can'tbe.
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That's a whole nother topic. Imean, even saying,
Oh, I wonder if Indian girlscalled Buddha just Oh, Buddha or
Buddha? Or, you know, I wonderif that's the thing.
I got some I got some femaleIndian friends I need. I just
don't know how to bring that up.
Yeah. How do you ask for a whenyou're getting smashed, you say?
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Do you see Jesus? Do you sayLord, what do you say?
I'm curious. But anyways,anyways, back to the nicknames.
So if you have a nickname, wouldyou but you're saying you're
talking about like, you'recalling people bae. Boo, baby,
you know that that was if you'renot calling them by the first.
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When you're going into socialgatherings though you and you're
going to introduce them.
Obviously, if you don't want toif the names already causing
some sensitive issues, or if hedoesn't have a nickname, maybe
you can establish a nickname forHey, can we just I know this is
your name, but obviously youknow my situation in my past?
Can we just come up with a nameor I can introduce you to folks
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and just be cool with it? Whatdo you what do you think on
that? That's kind of weird.
That's fucking weird. You wouldtry to negotiate a name so you
would have to say the name thatbrings you bad memories? No.
No, that's their name. So somedude told me they're like okay,
which is it would be extremelyrare for it to happen to me but
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my name but if somebody okayname Sheena. But when I
introduce you to people, we needto have a different name.
Really? Fuck you. My name is myname. I don't know I'm just
thinking of ways to kind of helpa situation if you happen to
come across somebody and youreally are digging this person
and that but that name just Yes.
You should be mature enough toget through it and get past it.
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But again, everyone's gonna dosomething differently. Can you
potentially if you if youdecided to go that far?
even get to know them to thepoint that you're introducing
them to other people and thenyou need to just suck it the
fuck up. Yeah, I mean, it's itwon't be fair to that person,
right because they didabsolutely wrong. But and this
person could have completelydifferent skill sets,
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personalities, they actdifferently. So that's it's just
well I would hope so if itdidn't work with the first one
hopefully you're not going forthe exact same thing with the
same name and everything thenyou have a completely different
maybe mental issues. Maybe youhave a type do you have a type?
Do I have a type? Yeah, what areyour types? That's not what the
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do this show does not stay on.
This show branches off and goesinto little random tangents. So
what are your types? Ma'am? Iguess I have a little bit of a
type which is typically bald. Nocheck.
But continue. Typically baldtypically. Tall. Okay, and
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that's about it. No,that's not very
well damn. So that could havebeen the rock. I mean, the
rocket bone and tall.
The eye here. Are you lookingfor fat guys? Dad bods slender
guys. Muscular guys so justtaught me to go into my actual
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they tall ID bought sorry Bradfrom the daily BM you are out
love fuckingI have a checklist but this your
your checklist? Let's go throughit. Would you like me to open
that? Let's go through if yougot a checklist on your phone.
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Yes, you got a mintlet's go through your your man
requirements. Where's that? Ohmy God. You're ready. Yeah.
Let's see what you get.
It's pretty personal for me. Weput it out there but all right.
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Someone motivated, dedicated,driven. So they can't be a lazy
slob. Somebody with a job?
Right? Yeah, I mean, bemotivated and driven, right? not
lazy. So that means you can havea job and still be very fuckin
lazy and have no motivation.
True. Valid point. Okay,continue. Yeah. I'm someone that
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works out. Because I think withthe way my lifestyle, it'd be
difficult to be yoked withsomebody else that
doesn't work out at all, or isit active? So let me stop you
right now. I think, Dan Oh, mymommy on the second one. I think
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I remember asking you one timeshe wanted to work out and you
said no. He said, Fuck nah.
That's my thing. So how can youhave this? You're gonna bring
this list? I'm gonna challengethis fucking list because I
think I asked you to work outlast time with me a couple
times. Yeah. And he was like,fuck.
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That's my thing. So how can youpossibly have on your list?
Explain. Let's reverse because Iabsolutely did not say Fuck no.
It's not at all to the middlebucket. Now you ain't working
out with me player. You ain'tmine a man, whatever. You ain't
throwing no shade. I said youdon't know cloud on me out there
in the gym. So let's listen. Sowe're challenging number two
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right now, or use or numberthree, whatever that was.
That was number two.
I skipped over my number two,but that that's the one I said
for number two.
For me working out it's a verypersonal thing. Okay. It's a
Yeah. I don't know. So are youwanting somebody who goes to the
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gym and motivates themselves butnot with you? Is that what
you're saying? Which could youwork out with somebody? Do you
think you can actually mergeyourself to work with somebody?
Yes.
Wow, that was like a hesitantYeah, I can. Yes. Yes. I tell
you.
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I can't fake that.
The work is that we have got toask these questions. We're gonna
do those again later. Sorry. No,we haven't done well. But yeah,
the fact that I'm just sayingyou've talked about working out
and working out, Jim block thesewhat you do.
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Thank you very much. No, I haveworked out. I have worked out
with females. And it's not a bigdeal. But I feel bad sometimes
because the cost of weightchanges. Obviously there's a big
difference when it comes toloading and unloading weights
because obviously you're notgoing to be lifting the same as
thatWait as I am to the few are we
got problems. So may we haveproblems? I mean, do you have
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problems?
I try this and I try to messwith somebody that's lift
females lifting more than me ifshe's lifting more than me
yet, we can't talk. Maybe that'swhy I didn't want to get to the
gym with you. Maybe I didn'twant to hurt your feelings.
Like you're taking mycall make me spit that on my
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mic. You that's not good.
Okay, yeah, we'll go with that.
Sure. Alright, so working out.
It's a very personal thing forme. So, I don't know. Are you
the type of girl that will havejust the headphones on and just
have that bitch looking face?
Yeah, resting. bitchface.
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Don't cut Okay. Okay.
I don't need you to reachsomething for me. I don't need
you to move something for me. Idon't need you to talk to me. So
eye contact with me. Well, thenlet me ask this then. Are you
dressing? Like I'm going to thegym to workout 12 year old kid
that can't dress? Are you goingin there with some revealing
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clothes to go work out? That'sgoing to possibly get attention?
Because you know, it's all aboutthe outfits, right? So if you're
going to be wearing a particularoutfit that you know are going
to grab attention. You can't bemad at somebody that's just
trying to come and talk to youif they happen to see you in the
gym on a regular maybe they wantto be your friend. Maybe they're
not trying to holler maybe theyjust want to be friendly with
you. And maybe even workoutcould be a new workout buddy for
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you to give one workout at a Idon't think we were in there at
the same time. What I don'tthink we can be friends in the
gym, me and you.
I'm not there to talk and makefriends. I'm there to grow my
muscles. Well,I didn't say you had to sit and
talk about you. Network. It'spart of networking, as you know
business to network with peoplebecause you never know the
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network the people that you canconnect with in the gym. There
are similar interests in the gymalready. You got that rapport,
you got somebody Bowflex workingout, you never know. I'll report
back to you tomorrow morningabout the people I talked to.
I mean, I talked to this guy andthis guy and I know Okay, go
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ahead.
Sure. Go ahead. Continue to listnow, please.
So we can challenge it some Oh,goodness. Okay. So a lot of my
list is kind of a reflection ofme in my life, I guess. Right?
So the next thing was reading oropen to learning and expanding
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so somebody that's not juststagnant and illiterate.
Basically.
Somebody that graduated gradeschool check. All right, cool.
Well, exactly. A bit of adifferent level. But do you like
pictures or words pick one ifyou don't know how to read it?
Please pick point at thepicture.
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Okay.
Somebody that feeds their body?
Well, I mean, fat guys feedtheir body. Well, I mean, look
at Oh, yeah, well as innutritionally Well, I mean, fat
guy see? A pork chop friedchicken. That's not feeding your
body. Well, well, they thinktheir body's feeling pretty
well.
(33:28):
Anyway, challenge this list. Goahead. Now that was nonsense.
willing to travel enjoys theoutdoors capable of so why don't
you you're starting to growthrough the list here. I want to
be able to check each one ofyour little spots. Were willing
to travel and outdoors enjoysthat's called a bum because they
(33:51):
a bum a homeless guy. They'reoutdoors and outdoors. They are
enjoying it right? Well, theymight not be doing it but
they're having to enjoy it. Sothat could be a bomb. So right
now I have a visualize a bomb asyour particular type of guy
here. Send the bombs motivatedand dedicated and driven. He's
motivated not to work.
(34:13):
But continue Okay, so travels,travels and enjoys the outdoors.
Okay, continue on. You got Yeah.
capable of communicating.
Massive funding. Be good. I'mgood. I'll let that one go.
Okay. All right. Please domasculine
(34:34):
Hold on, hold on. And now we gota problem with that one trigger
word that right there you'regonna have a lot of problems
with these. This new generationof masculinity, but I think your
your show, Shawn and sex coveredthat one really well, the whole
the whole issue of masculinitylike he covered that topic very
(34:56):
well. That was a very goodepisode of his podcast, but yes,
There is a big problem withmasculinity in our country right
now. So we'll leave it at that.
Because we can get really down arabbit hole with there. But
okay, so that one could be alittle questionable for you. But
continue. For me the definitionof what the masculinity is.
(35:18):
That's actually like, at the topof the list number one, but
anyways, the next one was tall,athletic. And then I have a
couple that are like, my nonnegotiables. So there's a
silence aside list here. Yeah,my non negotiables. So
absolutely no baby mama drama.
(35:42):
Preferably somebody with zerochildren, because I just don't
want to do it. So at your age,though, that's kind of hard to
find across right. Nobody would.
Alright. Yeah, that's that's atough one. Yeah. I mean, if
there's only100 so far on this list, but
(36:02):
continue.
So the next one, which is nocigarettes, just grow. And wait,
wait, where are cigars? I saysno cigarettes. So we're not.
We're not referring to cigars.
We're not referring to for 20.
(36:23):
Right. We're not referring juststraight. Straight up
cigarettes. Okay. Just trying tomake sure. Oh, no, listen, I do.
Take mine. Um, so that way I cango back and challenge some of
these eyes. But go ahead. I'm,I'm mostly okay. My last one is
doesn't drink daily and doesn'tdrink to get drunk. So basically
(36:45):
non alcoholic.
So the daily drinking, I get itthe drunk drinking. Yeah, that's
fine. But that kind of puts alot of some of your masculinity
like guys that who actually liketo drink sometimes.
who like to be some of the machoman, you know, some of the macho
(37:06):
men like to drink? So wait, butmasculinity and macho are two
different things. Sodrinking on a regular basis
makes you a masculine men. Idisagree. I drink on my show
regularly. What would you thinkof that? Does that not fall on
your list then? Because youknow, that is part of the show
drinking, shooting the shit?
(37:28):
That's not what I said. I saiddrinking daily and getting
drunk. I mean, my record withYes, my past experiences have
been with alcoholics. So that isnot a situation I want to put
myself back into. I gotcha. Thatcould be a big deal, too. If you
have the same name, first nameor whatever.
(37:51):
And you start arguing with thenew person, and all of a sudden
that you never finished, youfelt like you never got to
finish an argument in regards tosomething similar. And you guys
are arguing about next thing,you know, you're bringing that
old relationship argument andbringing it forward. And then
this new guy or girl is likewhat the fuck has happened here?
I just got ambushed with shitthat we never even really had
(38:13):
conversations about. And yet,you're just going off on me
because this just this argumenttriggering an old previous
argument. But therefore be anhonest and I think you said this
before. If this person is goingto do those things, they're
going to do it regardless ofwhat the person's name is. So
yeah, so if we go and havearguments with our new person,
(38:34):
in regards to arguments with ourold person that can really that
could potentially end arelationship if I'm honest, I
mean, that could really causethat new person who's gonna
listen to you're obviouslyyou're bringing back shit and
and you just haven't gottenover. Yes, we had the same name,
but obviously, there's stilljust issues that you did not
(38:57):
completely deal with. time ago.
Yeah, absolutely. Deuces andgive the new guy a chance. Not
the new guy basically didn'thave a fight chance. So but the
ones that are you know, nobodywants to argue but it's gonna
happen every late everyrelationship will have
arguments. I mean, you'redealing with a woman right? So.
(39:23):
silence I'm just kidding. Socome on. Let's hear the voice.
Let's see what you got to say.
And you got it. You bid your lipwhen I said that. So yeah, no,
I'm just gonna let that want tolet that marinate.
Typical right, bring that shitback at a later time. There we
(39:47):
go. Exactly what I'm referringto.
When we will store that. Wait aminute. I think we have I think
we've talked about as a point inprevious episode, which is that
you don't stores theAs you said, you don't store
things in memory banks. Youjust, I'm gonna marinate on that
right now. And I'll when thetime
(40:07):
when that time comes, right, Ithink that stupid I'm gonna
bring that shit up in your face.
So no.
Okay.
So I did write one note down,that that would be beneficial if
(40:27):
you attempted to do therelationship with or the same
name, right? Just don't go tothe same places that triggered
memories don't go to restaurantsdon't go to some of your
favorite spots, right? Like, Imean, you know how sometimes
songs can actually triggercertain memories, right? So
places like restaurants,restaurants, parks, you know,
(40:49):
venues, bars, some of thosethings that will actually
trigger a memory, it can begood. I mean, you can have good
memories, obviously, but it'sstill gonna trigger something
right, you're gonna have you'regonna have feeling some kind of
way. It's like, if you want toavoid those, and you know that
it would trigger something, justdon't go. Don't do it. Save
yourself the headache. And just,it sounds like this imaginary
(41:09):
person that we're talking about,needs to like, do some personal
growth. Well, I'm sound likethey shouldn't be in a
relationship period. Well, I'mjust saying, like I said, I just
I was writing all these littlenotes down, jot things down on
things that, you know, if youdid go into a relationship with
(41:30):
somebody with the same name asan ex, how could you get past
it? Or if you couldn't get pastit? What were some of the pros
and cons, just some of thethings that was jotted down. So
it's not like it was animaginary person, I would just
think in general. And this ishow you could ya know, move past
it. So, all right, I'm gonnashow what somebody's name is.
I'm not going to not near therestaurants I like to go to.
(41:51):
But you'd kind of did. In thebeginning, when you said, when
you were on the dating apps, youwere swiping left. So you kind
of Yeah, I want to be withsomebody with same name. But
you. So what is it yes or no?
If you saw the tall, bald headedperson on Tinder, and it was the
(42:12):
same name as your ash, like,ooh, it's this my profile. Looks
like he can read. He looks likehe can. He's masculine. He looks
like he's an outdoorsy person.
He's got pictures of fish in hisprofile. He's got you know,
that's outdoorsy, right? He'straveling, he's traveling to
(42:32):
oceans and lakes and stuff, youknow, I mean, he's outdoorsy and
travels, would you have? Wouldyou have swiped right or left?
And it happens to be the samename?
And the question, see, yeah, sothat's a very good question,
then it's like, are youswiping on this, just the same
person, but it could be acompletely different
(42:53):
personality? And to you, youdon't know that? There's so many
people out there, you don't knowuntil you get that person to
try? And that could be that oneperson and you can, but if you
know what the hang up for you?
Why would you even try? But ifif they happen to swipe on you
as well, you could have had amatch that you didn't know that
(43:16):
you missed the opportunity on,you know, the what is it the
FOMO the fear of missing out?
Yeah, never know, could be theone FOMO FOMO. There is so
anyway, so just to wrap that up,though, I mean, like I said,
that was kind of something thatI jotted down when i i
originally episodes I wanted tochat about when we first started
the show and it just never gotaround to it. But
(43:38):
if anyone was able to date therewhen you are you said you have I
have I have dated a few girlswith the same name and it all
ended in the same that's whytheir exes. So their exes,
right? So eventually replayed itthe same way. No, no, it just
something's just didn't work. iThere's now there are certain
(44:03):
names that I probably will nevergo back to and date, no matter
how fine no matter if we youknow, click very well. But
that's me, I have my own fuckingissues that I got to work with
through some of the names andyou know, there's gonna be a lot
of hurt with some of my names,or I don't have very many, but
there are a couple that Idefinitely would not
(44:23):
touch again, that just becauseof the name itself and the
memories and, and the shit thatwill get triggered in my own
head in my own personal head. Soya know, when gotcha, but for
the most part, I'd be okay. Iwould kind of learn how to deal
with it. But But yeah, there area couple of there's a few names
that I would definitely notrevisit. So, but anyways, so
(44:47):
let's go ahead and we got about10 minutes before we start
wrapping things up. Let's goahead and get back into some hot
seat questions that we haven'tdone in the last couple episodes
because some of our Did you seeon
Call me on my show, ma'am. Yes,you did because I just can't do
on the mic pretty damn loud.
Yeah, I'm sorry. I am boring youright now this conversation
(45:11):
hopefully my listeners don'tthink I'm boring right now.
Geez.
All right. Question. Has anyoneever walked in on you
masturbating? No. Never had aparent your kid walk in on you,
guy that would be embarrassingif your kid walked in on you
masturbating? I mean, nobody.
Nobody's ever. I can't say that.
(45:33):
I've had anyone walk in on mewhat? Masturbating but I've had
someone come home when I wasn'texpecting to come home and
you're talking about franticbeing trying to pull everything
up, you know. But you get toohard on put away.
So yeah, I remember a few times,actually. But one time
(45:57):
specifically, when I wasyounger, back in the day when we
had the old school satellitedish TVs. We had the illegal box
that went in the back that gaveus all the channels and all that
good stuff. Plenty of porn. Idid it. I wasn't paying
attention. I guess I was in thegroove of things. No pun
intended. But I was in thegroove. And next thing I knew I
(46:20):
hear the garage opening. Do youtalk about panic? Because there
was a few things I had to do, Ihad to take out that box that
was in the back of thatsatellite box and switch out to
the legit box where it blocksall those channels out, right?
Because the ground is opening. Ididn't have time to do all this.
I had I had to immediately actfast. Remember, I'm a teenager
(46:41):
at this point, I had to switchout the satellite channels,
switch to my salad real fast.
pull my pants up, run to thebathroom and like I'm just
pooping or something and hope toGod that the satellite changed
in or it wasn't a process ofchanging and just didn't get
stuck on that damn porn channel.
Because that door open up and itwas like Hello. Where are you
at? I'm like, Oh my god. This isembarrassing, because I couldn't
get walked in on. But yes, so Ican say I didn't get walked in
(47:03):
but pretty dang close. Prettydamn close. So and it's happened
to me at least twice. When othertime was when I was older. So.
But what's the biggest lieyou've told to get out of a
date? I don't think I've everlived to get out of a day.
Come on, man. Come on. You'venever went on a date that it was
(47:27):
not going well. You trying toget out of a day? Yeah. To get
out of it. To get out of it.
Let's I mean, you can get a datewhile you're already in there.
Yeah, I mean, yeah. A lot to getout of it. Like somebody got
sick. Oh, no, I got to go to theemergency room. My mom got hit
by a car. My you know?
(47:48):
Ever I don't lie. I mean, I toldyou I suck at lying. Like I
just, I just don't do it. I suckat it so bad. Wow. So you you're
trying you're legitimately goingwith that you're an angel on
dates. You never had a Tinderdate go bad that you wish didn't
happen. I've had a shift on aTinder date. So wish never
(48:10):
happened. Okay, so and youdidn't try to get out of those
dates. You were like, Oh, youjust actually just dreaded
through them and be the niceperson just went through the
night? Yeah.
I just went through the night.
And thenlike, yeah, oh, I had a few that
were Yeah, no.
(48:33):
I mean, Am I just supposed to bemean and bitchy and be like,
Okay, I gotta fucking go. Yeah.
Why not? I mean, never had asexual experience where, you
know, someone was just randomlysaying stupid shit to you or
whatever. And, and, like, Igotta go. I mean, that's, you
(48:53):
know, say you gotta leave orsomething like that, like, or
the dick is not good orsomething like, I gotta go. I
forgot I left my stove on orsomething. I don't know.
I mean, okay, so, I've had acouple encounters where Yeah, it
was less than desirable.
(49:13):
Your responses are sucking rightnow.
I know. I'm sorry. Jesus Christ.
All right. I don't have anythingexciting to say on that. I don't
think Alright, so this nextquestion probably fits you
better because I know you havesome some of this. What's your
worst case of road rage?
(49:38):
My worst case of it? Yeah. Imean, I've never hit anybody.
What's your car? No. Yeah. No,like rear end somebody or hit
somebody, like a personphysically outside of a car hit
somebody with a bowI have some pretty intense road
rage.
(50:00):
So what triggers you? Whatpisses you off to give you road
rage? People don't know how tofucking drive well that's just
they don't go so are wereferring to like slow people in
the fast lane? Which is myfucking dead peers let's use the
roundabout near my house theresigns at every entrance to the
(50:20):
roundabout that says Do notblock the fuck around about
peoplethey block it I just need to go
around it go that wayare you just sitting in it for
no good fucking reason we needto be the road hearing where
(50:42):
and if you're coming into aroundabout one last thing
if you're coming into aroundabout and there's somebody
going around it the personthat's in the roundabout has the
right away yes like you can'tjust fucking T bone somebody
alright guys we got we found outour soft shot road rage
(51:04):
Are you a person that lays onyour horn then which are road
rage? Are you fucking laying onthe horn for somebody?
I don't lay on it.
But you do beYeah. Then if they don't go
now how would you feelsomebody's honking the horn at
you for like not moving on anddoing like would you get pissed
(51:25):
off? Yeah, exactly.
You wouldn't want somebodyhonking at you because unless
I'm really not paying attentionif you did not immediately
immediately go obviously I giveit a couple of like three or
four seconds and I'm gonna beatthe horn right
okay, it's a long fucking timeI'm courteous given I don't have
I don't have road rage like somepeople are like BB go bitch
(51:50):
you don't have a right I don'tthink just want to glaze over
that I haveI get annoyed that's what I
that's what I get annoyed I getannoyed when people do not get
out your way what if you seesomeone coming up on your ass in
the fast lane? Move the fuckover don't stay in the lane and
(52:11):
be a dick and next thing youknow you speed up and go the
same speed as a person in theright hand lane Don't be a
fucking asshole. But that's myannoying pet peeve is when
people just and you don't Idon't see an appropriate time to
house yeah, okay, I just I justsaid I get annoyed I don't get
(52:31):
raged I'm not pulling out mygun. Get the fuck out the way
which I should probably justscare people every now and then.
That's why I don't have a gun inmy car. But but no I just that's
my time to be to know I don'tknow I don't I still won't be
best somebody I just I will Iwill write up pretty close on
(52:53):
your athlete. If I'm coming inyou know the fast lanes is to do
illegal shit. You're gonna begoing fashion in the fucking
speed limit. So if you seesomeone coming in, don't be a
dick and do the speed limit.
Obviously people are drivingfaster exactly move over. But I
get that if they don't moveover. And then I then have the
only time I'll will you'll see aI don't know if it's any bit of
road rage but is we're also I'lljust get pissed off I'll swerve
(53:16):
to the right lane and thenswerve back into the left lane
just bucking and I should breakevery now and then. But I don't
I'm not that much of a dick. Butjust just to show you just want
to label just want to label roadrage.
I'm just annoyed. I'm annoyed.
That's the I don't consider thatroad rage. Just a bit annoying
me on the road. I'm not yellingWell, I'm just basically just
(53:39):
saying Get the fuck out the way.
But you know that to me thatthat road rage that's just
everyday travels.
My rage is like you want to getout and just brutally fight just
for some stupid shit. Butno, don't get away. You know?
Just get I mean, get out of theway somebody just coming up on
(54:01):
your ass that's I wanted to pay.
If my car wasn't part of like mycareer or whatever. I wanted to
have downlow the front of it.
Move bitch get out the way.
I mean, you can still get there.
Nah, it's not very professional.
I mean, no way looking at yourcar, right? So.
(54:25):
Oh, that's not true. Oh, okay.
Nobody's looking at my car. Imean, not in a professional
conversation piece. But not thatit becomes a conversation up
late 80% of the time.
Okay, fine. Sure. Don't feeljealous. Don't
(54:45):
I mean, it's a nice car, but Idon't think that you know, you
put a move which by the waywould be a horrible thing. But
you got to put it. You got it.
You got to put it in reversethough. So that way when
someone's looking at it throughthe rearview mirror, they can
read it properly.
So, so that way it really does.
It's not so bad, right? Youknow, it's gonna be somebody
reads it head on. They're like,What the hell is that say? And
(55:07):
you'll be you already drive pastthem so they won't have time to
read it. So all right, lastquestion of the night and we'll
go ahead and wrap things up.
What is something inedible thatyou tried? Once to eat?
Something that is not edible,right that I have tried to eat?
That's you have tried to eat?
That's a weird fucking question.
(55:30):
That's part of the game. weirdquestions, right? That's like
what they ask you when you'repregnant. Have you been craving
dirt? What? Yeah, yeah.
That's a weird question. That'sa weird question. They did. They
asked mewhen my kid eat dirt mud high
with the Hill, right? Like ifyou have certain deficiencies
when you're pregnant, you'llcrave that shit, I guess. Oh,
(55:52):
okay. No, I don't Iwait, what's the question? What
is something inedible that youat least try to eat once? I can
tell you two things. The onlything I can think this is Dick,
but go ahead ah,ah. I mean, you technically
(56:18):
couldbe it could Lorraine the Bobbitt
that shit. Put it on a barbecue.
I mean, technically, you couldeat it. Jeffrey Dahmer ate human
body parts so it is ratherapparently edible. So
speaking though, probably towatch that Dahmer series.
(56:40):
Sidenote, I've heard a lot ofgood things about it. So I feel
like I need to watch this. It'sstill like in the top 10 or
something in Netflix. So I thinkI need to go get that like cue
maybe maybe this weekend orsomething. Put that in the queue
to watch. But anyways, so digit. That is a little thing that
you can eat apparently, so neveraccidentally tried the plastic
(57:04):
fruits that are on tabledisplays like you think it's an
actual real fruit and excellentgrab it and bite into his
fucking plastic deck of themath like come on. So you call
me dumb ask because I've donethat shit. Like I'm thinking it
wasn't.
It was an actual fruit. Igrabbed that bitch bite into it.
It was a fucking plastic fuckingfruit.
(57:24):
I can read and I can you know beoutdoors and travel. But yes, I
grab in edible fruit and try tobite into that shit. Okay, so
yes, it's happening. panties.
You can try to you know, pullthe pants down with your teeth.
And you know, chew up your I'mtrying to eat some people. Some
people do some weird shit. Ididn't say I didn't say there
butI pulled them down before and
(57:46):
shoot on them while I'm pullingthem down. So that way I can get
a better grip but panties soOkay, plastic fruit and panties.
That's it. That's what I can saywith that one.
You're talking about fuckingcop. Like, Dahmer style. Yeah,
exactly.
(58:11):
Just choke on it. No, you don'tanyways, alright, so we're gonna
go ahead and wrap things upguys.
Hopefully this episode comes outdecently. And hopefully it
doesn't echo too much becausewe're in a room here. Or at
(58:32):
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