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July 27, 2025 • 14 mins

The Control Clarity Strategy: How to Stop Stress Eating in its Tracks


Show Notes

Feeling overwhelmed and turning to food for comfort? You're not alone. In this episode, I share my proven 5-minute Control Clarity Strategy that stops emotional eating and stress eating in its tracks. This simple but powerful technique has helped hundreds of my weight loss clients break free from the overwhelm-to-food cycle and regain control of their eating habits.

Whether you're struggling with emotional eating, stress eating, or just feeling overwhelmed with life, this episode gives you a practical tool you can use immediately. I'll walk you through exactly how to separate what's draining your energy from what gives you power, so you can focus on what you can actually control and stop letting anxiety drive your food choices.

Perfect for women over 35 who want to lose weight without restrictive diets, this method addresses the mindset piece that's often missing from traditional weight loss approaches. You'll learn how to reset your mental state in just 5 minutes and get back in the driver's seat of your weight loss journey.

What You'll Learn

  • The #1 reason why overwhelm leads to emotional eating and how to break this cycle
  • My proven 5-minute Control Clarity exercise that stops stress eating immediately
  • How to identify what you can and cannot control when feeling overwhelmed
  • The psychological trick that instantly reduces anxiety and food cravings
  • How to use this method daily to maintain weight loss motivation
  • Why focusing on actions (not outcomes) is key to sustainable weight loss
  • The connection between feeling powerless and emotional eating patterns
  • How to create boundaries that support your weight loss goals
  • The mindset shift that puts you back in control of your food choices
  • How to plan your meals when you're feeling overwhelmed instead of stress eating

Key Moments

Opening: The Overwhelm-to-Food Cycle I explain why so many women get stuck in survival mode and turn to food when overwhelmed, especially since 2020 when stress levels increased dramatically.

The Control Clarity Method Introduction I introduce my signature 5-minute exercise that separates what's draining your energy from what gives you power - perfect for stopping emotional eating before it starts.

Setting Up Your Control Clarity Exercise Step-by-step instructions for the simple paper-and-pen exercise that requires just 5 minutes and can be done anywhere.

The Brain Dump Phase How to quickly get all your worries and stressors out of your head and onto paper in an organized way.

Identifying What You Cannot Control Examples of common things that cause anxiety but are completely outside our control - from other people's opinions to external circumstances.

Focusing on What You CAN Control Specific examples of what you can control related to food, exercise, sleep, boundaries, and your responses to situations.

The Powerful Release Ritual Why physically tearing up and throwing away the "cannot control" list is psychologically crucial for letting go of anxiety.

Taking It Further with Meal Planning 

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