Wicked Psychotherapists
What do therapy, ’80s and ’90s nostalgia, today’s hottest shows and movies—and a surprising number of Adam Sandler films—have in common? Tanya Dos Santos and Erin Gray—two licensed psychotherapists with a wicked New England twist—are here to spill the tea and the therapeutic insights. On The Wicked Psychotherapists Podcast, Tanya and Erin break down the mental health themes that matter most—anxiety, identity, burnout, self-worth, relationships, and resilience—through the lens of pop culture. From the rad classics of the ’80s and ’90s to today’s buzziest series and films, nothing is off-limits… especially when it somehow connects back to Adam Sandler. Yes, we said it. From revisiting old favorites to analyzing newer Sandler movies—and exploring the six degrees of separation of Adam Sandler—this podcast blends humor, nostalgia, and psychological insight in a way that’s smart, entertaining, and refreshingly real. Whether you’re comfort-watching a childhood favorite, bingeing something new, or wondering why a goofy comedy hit you right in the feelings, we’re here to help you connect the dots between what you watch and how you feel. Expect: Candid therapy talk with heart and humor Pop culture deep dives with a mental health lens ’80s, ’90s, and today’s movies and shows (yes, including lots of Adam Sandler) A dose of nostalgia, a dash of sass, and a lot of wisdom 🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday. 💬 Don’t forget to leave a review, share with your people, and follow us on Instagram and YouTube @WickedPsychotherapists. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care, and listening does not create a therapist–client relationship. Stay Wicked… and keep your mind well.
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Why are Hallmark movies so comforting—and why do so many of us come back to them again and again?
In this re-released episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dig into the psychology behind Hallmark movies and explore what makes them so emotionally satisfying. From predictable storylines and familiar characters to themes of safety, belonging, and redemption, the...
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In this rereleased episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, hosts Tanya and Erin revisit the 1986 classic Stand By Me—a film that continues to shape how we understand friendship, growing up, and emotional resilience.
Through a therapist’s lens, they explore the psychological themes woven throughout the story, including childhood trauma, grief, identity development,...
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This week we slip into Adam Sandler’s middle era — the years where comedy meets identity, family meets frat boys, and basketball shorts somehow become a personality trait. We’re not reviewing Grown Ups 2 as much as using it as a gateway into Sandler’s evolution: the humor that aged with him, the themes that stayed constant, and the way he reflects real-life t...
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This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya break down the emotional heartbeat of The Outsiders — a story about loyalty, grief, and the desperate need to belong.
We dig into the psychology behind Ponyboy, Johnny, and the Greasers, exploring how trauma, class struggles, and found family shape identity and resilience.
From the pain of loss to the power...
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This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya dive into the hellishly funny world of Little Nicky — Adam Sandler’s misunderstood son of Satan.
We’re unpacking family dynamics from the underworld, sibling rivalry that could literally end the world, and what it means to grow up labeled “the weird one.”
From exploring Nicky’s identity struggles to the surp...
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This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya are heading to Salem for a wicked good time with Adam Sandler’s Hubie Halloween 🎃
We break down all the laughs, the heart, and the surprisingly deep psychological layers behind this misunderstood hero. From empathy and bullying to the power of kindness, we explore why Hubie might just be the most emotionall...
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In this re-release of a powerful episode, Erin is interviewed by Tanya about her journey with breast cancer.
Erin shares how the diagnosis and treatment affected her emotionally, how it shaped her perspective as a psychotherapist, and some of the personal experiences she encountered along the way.
This episode shares personal experiences and is not a substitut...
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This episode is a re-release of one of our most popular conversations! Tanya and Erin dive into the world of high school, reflecting on how those formative years shaped who we are as adults.
From discovering your identity and navigating friendships to learning life lessons that stick long after graduation, this episode explores the lasting impact of high scho...
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Join Tanya and Erin on Wicked Psychotherapists as they break down the romantic comedy Just Go With It (2011).
From surprise streaming finds to the hilarious (and sometimes outrageous) twists in Adam Sandler and Jennifer Aniston’s chemistry, they unpack the movie’s quirky plot, lovable characters, and hidden lessons about relationships, authenticity, and self-...
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We all know grief after death or major loss—but what about the other kinds of grief we rarely name? In this re-release of one of our most powerful episodes, Erin and Tanya explore the hidden and lesser-known griefs that quietly shape our lives.
From lost opportunities and shifting identities to friendships that faded and versions of ourselves we never got to b...
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Season One of The Wicked Psychotherapists is back—raw, unfiltered, and totally FUBAR.
Join licensed psychotherapists Erin Gray and Tanya Dos Santos as they unpack the chaos of life, relationships, and mental health with their wicked New England twist.
From 80s and 90s nostalgia to today’s pop culture trainwrecks, every episode blends humor, therapy insights, a...
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Dive into the captivating world of the Balloon Boy Hoax with Tanya and Erin.
In this episode, they unravel the layers of this sensational event that gripped global audiences in 2009.
Explore the Heaney family's eccentric dynamics, the media's role in amplifying the story, and the lasting impact of this bizarre incident. Perfect for true crime enthus...
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In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Tanya and Erin continue dissecting Adam Sandler's filmography by diving into his recent movies 'Murder Mystery' and 'Murder Mystery 2' on Netflix.
They discuss the evolution of Sandler's comedic style, the chemistry between Sandler and Jennifer Aniston, and the psychological themes with...
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We react to Happy Gilmore 2 — the surprise Netflix hit!
*There Are Spoilers*
Adam Sandler is back as Happy in Happy Gilmore 2 — and we’re reacting to Netflix’s wild new sequel.
From over-the-top golf chaos to surprisingly heartfelt moments, this one had us laughing, cringing, and talking way too much about hip ligaments.
🎬 Spoilers ahead! Watch Happy Gilmore 2 ...
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In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dive into Adam Sandler’s Grown Ups and dig into the psychology behind nostalgia, childhood friendships, and the lifelong patterns we carry into adulthood.
From the Gen X childhoods we remember to the pressures of parenting in a digital age, we explore how early bonds shape us—and how even a silly waterpark scene ...
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In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya dive deep into the cult classic Office Space and unpack the very real mental health themes hiding in plain sight—burnout, toxic work environments, corporate dysfunction, and the pressure to “find meaning” in your 9 to 5.
Whether you've ever hated your job, dreamed about smashing your office printe...
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What if your entire life was secretly being broadcast to the world—would you know it?
This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya dive deep into the psychological layers of The Truman Show, that eerily ahead-of-its-time 1998 film starring Jim Carrey in one of his first serious roles.
We break down how this classic predicted the rise of social med...
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This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Gen X psychotherapist Erin and her “Xennial” co-host Tanya (that sweet spot between Gen X and Millennial) dig into the hilarious emotional chaos of Meet the Parents and Meet the Fockers. Think: lie detectors, lost cats, ninth-place trophies — and a whole lot of family dysfunction.
Why do people-pleasers like Greg fall apar...
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Can therapy really look like what we see in Anger Management with Adam Sandler and Jack Nicholson? In this laugh-out-loud episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya—two licensed therapists—take a wicked deep dive into the film’s chaotic version of “treatment.”
We’re talking unethical therapy, people-pleasing personalities, power dynamics, and the real ...
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In this hilarious and heartfelt episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya keep the Adam Sandler streak alive by diving headfirst into the outrageous 2011 comedy Jack and Jill.
From twin dynamics to emotional dysregulation, sibling rivalry, and unresolved grief, we unpack the psychological gems hidden beneath the slapstick chaos.
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