Wigs Off Podcast

XO here, It's been sometime now and I just needed to rip off the band aid and get back in the headspace of recording. I've definitely struggled with whether I wanted to release this episode or not but here it is. I recorded alone this time which is new for me & honestly I felt super vulnerable and I still don't know how to feel about it. i.e The ramblings of me! Feel free to hit me up on IG, FB @WigsOffPodcast or at WigsOffPodcast@...

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In this episode  Xo & AK come together unscripted to discuss a few things on Xo’s mind. 

Is Imitation really a form of flattery?

Theft or Imitation?

Is your mind or thoughts really a powerful weapon?

Thoughts become things! 

Are you staying stuck because of your own mindset is holding you back?

Can you speak obstacles into existence?

Can habits become the reason you’re stuck?

Is this microwave era of instant gratifica...

The art of self care Sundays, staying hydrated and minding ya own damn business. "Living Stress Free"

On the 7th day she rested, more so figuratively than literally....... any day that i have a day off or some free time to spend on myself is a "self care Sunday". self care days should consist of rejuvenating, empowering and healing. all self care practices should include a full night of sleep, according to my doctor, thats when all...

The Great Compromise

Everything in life is a compromise, it is selfish to think that you'll never need to compromise in a relationship? Is it unfair to ask of people what you do not have yourself? Should you have to comprise anything at all? Is it settling if you do compromise?

What are your list of deal breakers? 

Does their relationship with their family matter, could you date or marry a “Mama’s boy”?

Is lying a deal breaker, whi...

Update: Wigs Off sincerely apologizes for the audio issues we experienced during this episode. We will try our best to fix it as best as we can! Make sure to stay connected with our social media for updates! 

IncogNegro

"Code Switch"

Code-Switching- the practice of alternating between two or more languages or a variety of languages in conversation

Incognito- having ones true identity concealed.

Do you ever feel like you have to t...

Daddy Where Were You?

Absent Parent.

Does the absence of a father in a household really matter? 

Can a queen be a queen without first having the proper love from a king “her dad”.

Does it really take the love from a dad to shape future healthy relationships with men?

If You Love Me, Say It!

"Give me my flowers while I can still smell them". 

The Kobe Bryant helicopter tragedy definitely took some time to process; In the time it took to process, I had to admit to myself that it was perfectly ok to grieve the lives of people I’ve never met and that we’re are all connected whether we think so or not. 

I found my self being bombarded on every social media outlet with the tragedy over and over again...

Expiration Date 

Knowing When to "Let Go!

Everything tangible has a self life, so can the same be said for work, friendships, relationships etc. 

How do you know when a thing has gone past its  expiration date?

Signs that said thing is done

No longer adds value to your life

Causes you more strife than happiness

If you have continuously question why this thing is still present in your life

Beg the Question 

Can a relationship truly ...

Ep. 10 Cash App Me If It’s Real Pt 2. 

The cohost end season one with a follow up of their most debated topic, should women give men money?  In this follow up, do the cohost have the same opinion on the matter as part 1. We delve into the other side of the debate. Supporting a man vs. Sponsoring a man.. Support is to assist or hold up a responsibility. Sponsor is to provide for without seeking anything in return.  Is there a differ...

Why isn’t mental health openly discussed in the black community? Is uncle Joe really crazy or does he have some sort of mental illness? i.e. Schizophrenia, bipolar.  Can depression be prayed away? Why doesn’t the church talk about partitioners seeking medical help? Even the bible states prayer without works is dead! Do the cohost believe in seeking help and has either host ever had therapy? Why does therapy seem more taboo for men ...

Priority- The fact or condition of being regarded or treated as more important. As you get older your priorities shift but when you are dating should your priorities shift with your partners or should each partner have separate priorities and maintain copacetic relationship priorities? Does your priorities always have to align with your partners? Can a person be a be a good mate if they cannot seem to prioritize their life? Can a p...

(Wife with no ring) "Where's the ring sis" Women are inherent nurturers, so when in relationships naturally want to assume the "wife" role,  but does assuming that role too soon or at all, damn you to being a perpetual girlfriend? Why are some women always the girlfriend and never the wife? Can men become complacent with what the girlfriend is offering and never think twice about taking the relation ship further?  Benefits/ Perks.....

Why You Mad Sis? Why can't black women express themselves without being called the Angry Black Woman? Why is it that Men are considered Leaders if they assertive, but women are considered bitter or angry? Do words really have power? Can your words become someone else's narrative? Who's responsibility is it too correct this behavior? It's no one else's fault that you are intimidated by them. Who can change this angry black woman tro...

Cash App Me If It's REAL! How soon is too soon for a boyfriend/ girlfriend to start asking for money? Is there a rule of thumb when it comes to money and dating? Is there a scale of an acceptable amount when asking a partner for money? How much is too much? Should a male ever feel comfortable asking his girlfriend for money? Does casual dating or a committed status play a role in partners sharing money? Are men obligated to financi...