Wild & Sublime

Chicago-based comedian and writer Gena Gephart talks about her gross-out humor, her podcast, selling panties, and one follower’s extreme fetish. Karen responds with her Sermon on the Pubic Mound.  CW: Contains graphic description of bodily fluids in fetish play.

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Voted by the Chicago Reader as  “Best Standup of the Year for 2022” in Chicago, standup Deanna Ortiz talks about her day job doing social media in the adult entertainment industry, the philosophy of sleeping over after sex, her podcast “Crushes," and dating on the apps v.  in the wild.

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New format! In Season 5 we're having sex with comedians. Standup and storyteller Archy Jamjun talks with Karen about polyamory, the Grindr hookup app, his Thai grandfather's "arrangement," frottage, Archy's LGBTQ+ storytelling series, and racism in the gay community.

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Our Pride Edition show part two features guest host Matthew Amador interviewing sex and gender therapist Rae McDaniel on their new book “Gender Magic,” plus recurring storyteller Lily Be’s comedic story on experiencing her asexuality as a teen. Includes Karen Yates’ Sermon on the Pubic Mound. Recorded at Hungry Brain in Chicago.

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FIFTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW! October 7, 2023, at Constellation in Chic...

The first half of our Pride Edition show features a panel on how to live authentically and fearlessly as a LGBTQ+ person in these challenging times, plus a comedy set with Chicago standup musician Manny Petty. Guest host Matthew Amador. Recorded at Hungry Brain in Chicago.

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Panelists discuss "stonewalling" — when one partner checks out physically or emotionally during intense moments, refusing to talk things through — and what you can do if it's happening in your relationship. Plus Karen's Sermon on the Pubic Mound.

In this episode:

• Jason Best - Sex-positive & kink-aware therapist
• Tazima Parris - Sex coach & pleasure mentor
• Korey McWilliams - Relationship & se...

You want to explore kink but aren’t ready to engage a partner. What to do? Our panel of sexperts discuss options and how to slowly move out into the wider kinky world.

In this episode:

Elmo Painter-Edington - Somatic therapist and empowerment coach 

Diane Long - sex positive empowerment self defense teacher

Clark Hazel - nonbinary trans therapist licensed in OR and IL 

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In this insightful panel conversation we examine the impossible and shame-based standards the fitness industry sets and how this impacts our sex lives. A co-production with Comfy Fitness.

In this episode:
Comfy Fitness--online fitness studio
 Kira Macoun - Comfy Fitness founder
Carrie Drapac - Comfy Fitness founder
Caitlin V - sex coach 
Tazima Parris - Sex coach and pleasure mentor
JoJo Bear - so...

Our panel discusses new relationship energy–the fantastic feeling when you’re just starting to date and getting to know someone. What happens when it fades? Can it be addictive? We cover all the bases.

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In this lively interview with bisexual mega influencer and Men’s Health columnist Zachary Zane, he discusses Boyslut, his new book chronicling his sexual journey, as well as how to live a more shame-free, sex-positive life.

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In this episode:

• Zachary Zane - author and sex columnist 
• Boyslut, the book. Get it a...

Summary: Learn essential intimacy and communication skills when dating transgender and gender nonconforming people in this lively interview with sex and gender therapist Rae McDaniel.

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In this episode:

• Rae McDaniel - sex and gender therapist and coach 
• Gender Magic, the book. Go to Bookshop, our affiliate boo...

Fifty years since it began, surrogate partner work is being embraced again as a cutting-edge somatic therapeutic modality to help people hands-on with intimacy issues, and more people are choosing it as a career. Recurring guest Brandon Hunter-Haydon talks about his own journey and what it takes to do the work successfully.

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• Brandon Hunte...

Panelists answer a Patreon listener question about how to trust your intuition and avoid old patterns with new partners after leaving an abusive relationship.

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In this episode:

• Elmo Painter-Edington - Somatic therapist and empowerment coach
• Clark Hazel - Individual and couples therapist at Best Therapies
• Diane Long - Empowerment self-defense coach and trauma-informed...

The live Valentine’s Spectacular serves up a panel chat on increasing intimacy, an interview with The Pegging Book authors, Karen’s Sermon about the gifts of an unexpected health event, and more. Recorded at Constellation in Chicago.

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• Matthew Amador - Psychotherapist for love, sex, & gender rebels
• Tazima P...

Has your identity shifted? Do you want to tell others about it – and if so, how? Panelists answer a listener question on the value and meaning of coming out as queer (or as anything!).

In this episode:

• Matthew Amador - Psychotherapist for love, sex, & gender rebels
• Elmo Painter-Edington - Somatic Therapist & Empowerment Coach 
• Brandon Hunter-Haydon - Surrogate Partner & Intimacy Coach

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What is somatic healing, and how does it work? Karen shares a conversation with several somatic therapists on different techniques, and the possibilities for healing sexual trauma and getting back into your body.

In this episode:

• Cassie Porter - Sexological bodyworker & body-centered counselor
• Elmo Painter-Edington - Somatic Therapist & Empowerment Coach 
• JoJo Bear - Somatic Sex & Intimacy Guide

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The second half of October’s live show features an interview with kink educator Stranger on the hows and whys of switching, plus a performance by storyteller Archy Jamjun and Karen’s fourth-anniversary Sermon on the Pubic Mound.

In this episode:

• Stranger - Rope enthusiast & kink educator
• Archy Jamjun - Storyteller
• Missed the first half? Oct live show part 1 

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Season 4 kicks off with the first half of October’s live show, where panelists chat about porn – what’s good, how to find out what you like, and ways to think about its role in your life.

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In this episode:

• Peter Navarro - Somatic sex therapist
• Goddess Erica - Tantric doula & sexual empowerment coach
• Caitlin V - Intimacy & relationship coach, host of Good Sex on ...

Our most popular episode of the year! Karen talks with somatic sex educator and prolific author Caffyn Jesse about somatic sex therapy as a way to heal from trauma and expand your pleasure capacity in all parts of life. We’ll be returning to the podcast Jan. 12 - see you in the new year!

In this episode:

• Caffyn Jesse - Somatic Sex Educator
• Ecstatic Belonging - Caffyn’s new online course
• Institute for the Study of Somatic ...