Paul's Take #30: How Making the Ask Can Transform Your Goals and Build Accountability

Have you ever considered that the secret to unlocking your full potential might be as simple as asking for help? What if I told you that sharing your aspirations with a trusted friend or mentor could be the game-changer you’ve been seeking?

In this episode, Paul delves into the concept of "making the ask" to achieve personal and professional goals, inspired by insights from his previous conversation  with workplace belonging expert Smiley Poswolsky . Paul emphasizes the importance of seeking feedback, accountability, and support from trusted individuals to enhance goal execution. He discusses how articulating aspirations can solidify commitment and foster resilience. The episode encourages listeners to engage with their community, seek motivation, and take proactive steps towards success, particularly at the start of the week, highlighting the significance of collaboration and support in achieving one's objectives.

 

Key Takeaways

• "Making the ask" is a strategy for achieving goals.
• Seeking feedback enhances goal execution.
• Accountability helps in pursuing objectives and staying committed.
• Collaboration and support are key to success.
• Clarifying motivations through dialogue is impactful.
• Making the ask builds trust in relationships.
• Achieving goals doesn't have to be solitary.
• Momentum and motivation help overcome challenges.
• Engage with the community for support and inspiration.
• Embrace Mondays positively with proactive actions.

 

In This Episode:

• [00:06] Introduction to the episode
• [00:30] The importance of making the ask
• [01:03] Individual vs. team execution
• [01:30] Sharing goals for feedback
• [02:10] Clarifying your intentions
• [03:09] Building momentum
• [03:45] The role of accountability
• [04:15] Overcoming challenges
• [05:12] Collaborative success

 

Notable Quotes

• [00:01:03] "Making the ask means sharing it with at least one person—a friend, a partner, a mentor, an advisor—somebody that you know and trust and has your best interest in their mind and in their heart." – Paul
• [00:03:09] "I believe trust is our greatest form of currency. I believe trust is a competitive advantage." – Paul
• [00:04:15] "Whatever hurdles exist, you're going to fight through them because you shared it and now you believe in that thing more than you did before you made the ask." – Paul

 

Resource & Links

Paul Epstein

• Join the Win Monday Community: https://www.paulepsteinspeaks.com/win-monday
• Take the Confidence Quiz: https://www.paulepsteinspeaks.com/confidence-quiz
• https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulepsteinspeaks/
• https://www.paulepsteinspeaks.com/