In this heartfelt episode of Women Mastering Midlife, host Victoria Byrd welcomes fertility and life coach Abbe Feder, founder of InCircle Fertility and host of the Women's Wellness with Abbe Feder podcast. Together, they explore the deeply emotional and often invisible journey of infertility, IVF, midlife motherhood, and the identity shifts that come with them.
From the raw reality of eight IVF rounds and an ectopic pregnancy to navigating grief, isolation, and the societal pressure to stay silent, Abbe shares how she transformed pain into purpose. She now helps other women advocate for themselves through infertility, loss, and pregnancy after trauma with a deep understanding of the gaps in our healthcare system and the emotional toll of being unheard.
This episode dives into:
Abbe's personal story of infertility, IVF, and ultimately, the birth of her twins
How women are conditioned to not “bother” their doctors and why that must change
The emotional cost of fertility struggles in a motherhood-focused culture
What pregnancy after infertility really feels like
The identity shift from "infertile woman" to motherhood—and the guilt that can come with it
Why social media is both a gift and a trigger in the fertility journey
How Abbe is supporting women today through coaching, advocacy, and real talk
This is a must-listen for any woman navigating fertility, midlife identity, or looking to support others through it with more empathy and honesty.
Connect with Abbe Feder:
🔗 Website: www.incirclefertility.com
📸 Instagram: @incirclefertility
🎙 Podcast: Women's Wellness with Abbe Feder
📧 DM her on Instagram or book a consult via her website
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