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August 8, 2025 43 mins

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Parenting is of course expensive, but are you aware of the true costs of motherhood? 

In this episode, we sit down with Cindy DiTiberio, the author of the bestselling Substack The Mother Lode (a feminist exploration of motherhood, marriage and divorce) and a New York Times bestselling collaborator and editor who has worked in publishing for over twenty years. Cindy’s writing has appeared in The Lily, Scary Mommy, Literary Mama, Mutha Magazine, and more. She was the inaugural guest on The Chamber of Mothers Book Club and collaborated with Eve Rodsky, The Fair Play Policy Institute, and Aaron Thomas on The Fair Play Guide to Prenups and Postnups.

In this episode, she talks about the unspoken financial, physical, and emotional challenges women face when they become mothers. Cindy sheds light on the sacrifices made, the often overlooked costs of unpaid labor, and the personal toll on women’s bodies. She also discusses her series 'The Math of Motherhood', which vividly captures these realities, and shares her own candid experiences with motherhood, marriage, and divorce. 

Listen in to learn about the importance of financial transparency in relationships, the value of a divorce coach, and the crucial conversations women must have to navigate these life-changing moments. 


00:00 The Hidden Costs of Motherhood

04:35 Introducing Cindy DiTiberio

07:06 Cindy's Journey: From Editor to Writer

13:24 The Math of Motherhood

20:31 The Reality of Prenups and Postnups

23:29 Introduction to Divorce Diaries

24:11 The Realities of Divorce

25:01 Challenges of Child Support

29:31 Financial Planning for Divorce

33:43 Emotional and Practical Advice

37:04 Cindy's Personal Reflections


Cindy gets real about the cost of caregiving and why women shouldn’t have to carry it all alone. Don’t miss Money Talks on August 14, where we’ll dive into how motherhood impacts your long-term finances, and how to plan ahead with confidence, not overwhelm. Click here to register for FREE and bring your questions! 


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