Dearest sex and love nerds, today we’re talking about the D in BDSM 🖤 with a wholesome and yummy interview with a local Pro Dom in Melbourne. Meet Sir James!
Topics we explore in this episode:
- Anecdotes and lessons learned from kink and sex work
- Legal limitations for sex worker advertising and operating
- Stigma and misconceptions around sex work
- Tackling shame and helping partners find their kinky interests
- How to be a fabulous first-time client
- Tips for adding domination into your dynamic at home
- How to be an active, supportive submissive
Who is Sir James? Sir James (He/Him) is a Pro Dom working out of Melbourne at Fetish House in Oakleigh. He’s a strong rugged man, specialising in services including Masculine Domination, Manhandling, Impact, Bondage, couples coaching, and more.
Where to find more Sir James
Twitter: https://twitter.com/SirJamesMedia
Fetish House Profile: https://fetishhouse.com.au/fetish-providers/james/
Email: SirJamesFetish@gmail.com
Content and Creators mentioned in this episode:
- Resource: Sex Menu
- An awesome tool made by Dr. Stephen de Wit (Sex Therapist)
- This sex menu outlines a wide range of activities and gives you the space to rate your interest out of 5, whether to you to give or receive a certain act, if you’ve done it before and a space for notes
- Filling this in is a great opportunity to get in touch with what interests you in the world of touch, sex, pleasure, and BDSM right now
- Really fun to do alone for personal knowledge or with partners! Also makes for great sexy homework
- Fetish House
- The only custom-designed and built venue in Melbourne specialising in fetish, fantasy and BDSM
- Versatile selection of available professionals, including Dominatrixes, Masters, submissives and more!
- We love their extensive Etiquette Guide
- Tryst
- Recommended listings page for independent escorts, with photos and lots of information on services, pricing and more
- Everything Harder than Everyone Else by Jenny Valentish
- A fabulous new book focusing on ‘why some of us push our bodies to the extreme’, including a substantial interview with Sir James in the context of BDSM
Connect with us! Our Website: www.wonderfullydone.show Facebook: Wonderfully Done Twitter: @donewonderfully Listen on Spotify! Support the show! Leave us a review wherever you listen Join our newsletter here Ask an anonymous question here
Lots of love, Lauren and Vix 💋
Popular Podcasts
Stuff You Should Know
If you've ever wanted to know about champagne, satanism, the Stonewall Uprising, chaos theory, LSD, El Nino, true crime and Rosa Parks, then look no further. Josh and Chuck have you covered.
Las Culturistas with Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang
Ding dong! Join your culture consultants, Matt Rogers and Bowen Yang, on an unforgettable journey into the beating heart of CULTURE. Alongside sizzling special guests, they GET INTO the hottest pop-culture moments of the day and the formative cultural experiences that turned them into Culturistas. Produced by the Big Money Players Network and iHeartRadio.
Crime Junkie
Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.