Fat Body Admiration and Negotiating FWBs

Woah there, it’s the first Wonderfully Done episode of 2021!

 

The topics we cover in this episode includes:

• Showing appreciation for fat bodies without being a creepy-creep

• • Discussing the ‘curvy wife guy’ internet moment
  • Shame around appearance preferences
  • Feelings around dating and sexuality as a fat woman
  • Expressing desire respectfully
• How to approach a pal with a friends-with-benefits proposal (without being decimated from embarrassment!)

 

Creators mentioned in this episode:

 

Podcast Episode Recommendation:

 Are we allowed to have sex in space? Feat. Dr Shawna Pandya, Yvette Gonzalez and Dr Alex Layendecker

• TW: Sexual Assault approx after the 20 minute mark
• Episode of The Future of Sex Podcast interviewing three experts in space travel and sexuality
• Discussed lots of topics like:
  • None of the space agencies out there are sharing data or research on sex or masturbation!
  • What effects would space have on bodies, fluids and the mechanics of actually having sex?
• Listen to this episode on Spotify here

 

Toy Recommendation: Lelo Sona 2

• Clit sucking toy, can also be used on nipples, or you know, EXPLORE ;)
• Has a really neat range of sucking patterns
• Step up from the Satisfyer Pro 2
• Be warned, some of the patterns are pretty intense!

Show Recommendation: The Untamed

• Homoromantic Chinese fantasy drama on Netflix
• Warring family clans, centering around two men who have a great obsession and fascination with each other
• Excessively pretty men and gorgeous interiors!
• Reminds Lauren that context sets the intensity - she’ll read really explicit fanfic, but then watching this where everything is really understated, just the smallest stuff is like GASP!
• A relaxing, visually pleasing and slow watch