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January 18, 2021 57 mins

Prepare for cheerful chaos and hard love - we’re back with another round of Seven Minutes in Heaven!

 

In these special episodes we answer at least four listener questions, but each question only gets seven minutes. A quickie, if you will. ;) The topics we cover in this episode include:

  • Online sexting buds disappearing
  • Check-ins on flirt welcomeness
  • Long-term mismatched libido
  • Challenges with flirting on the spectrum

 

Creators mentioned in this episode:

 

Article Recommendation: Sexual Currency

  • Article by Swell - from Dame Wellness Dot Come
  • What is Sexual Currency? The article describe it as: ‘ Anytime we hug, kiss, rub, squeeze, and nuzzle into a romantic partner, there is an erotic charge. This comes from the sexual relationship that exists between couples..  Sexual currency is a little different from physical affection. It is sexually charged touch that has erotic meaning.’
  • Loved this article it’s a great reminder that keeping a saucy fire going in our relationships is work, FUN WORK, that we can make lots of little investments into
  • Could be particularly helpful to anyone experiencing low libido in their relationship

 

Instagram Post Recommendation: 

Topic: Relationships with different neurotypes

  • Stevie Writes shares neat things on kink, non-monogamy, Autism, sexuality and gender on their Instagram
  • Really wow concept to see specified and to really sit and consider how this affects our perceptions coming together in communications and our experience of our reality
  • The idea that our realities are all different - our perception is not reality - it is a version of it 
  • Especially loved this: ‘'Getting comfortable with the ideas that difference can be met with curiosity and not condemnation is powerful work'

Instagram Recommendation: 

@thefatsextherapist

  • Amazing trauma-informed sex therapist
  • Spoke on an Instagram Live about having a maz (masturbate) on top of your bedcovers while naked, rather than covering yourself up, staying clothed etc. By seeing ourselves in a slightly more embodied way, we can create micro-moments of body acceptance and appreciation. We challenge our dear listeners to give this a try!

 

Resource Recommendation: 

YearCompass

  • A great reflection tool to help me let go of a hard year, and set me up for the new one
  • We are both filling this out this year (Lauren has done hers already ofc)

 

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