And Just Like That: Self-Love & Sisterhood

This week on Worth the Weight, Sarah and I close the book on And Just Like That—series finale or not. From Carrie’s tomato-doll “party of one” to Miranda’s spiral, Seema’s revelation, and Charlotte’s relentless optimism, we dig into the messy truths midlife women actually live. Was it rushed? Absolutely. Did we love parts anyway? Shockingly, yes.

✨ If you haven’t already, be sure to follow us on our new socials so you don’t miss anything

Instagram/Threads: ⁠⁠⁠@worththeweightshow⁠⁠⁠

TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠@worththeweightshow⁠⁠⁠

YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠@worththeweightshow⁠⁠⁠

Substack: ⁠⁠⁠WorthTheWeightShow.Substack.com⁠⁠

👀 Got a dating dilemma? A ghosting mystery? An “is-it-me-or-is-he-just-delusional?” situation? Send it in!

We’re answering listener questions on the pod, and we want yours. Whether it’s a green flag you’re second-guessing , a walking ick 🥴, or a text you need decoded —spill it. We’ve got thoughts. Probably too many. 😏 ⁠⁠Submit your dating questions⁠⁠

Episode Transcript

(00:10):
Hi. So Sarah, it's the it's the end
of an era. We made it.
We made it. And just like that, we made it.
Obviously, the series finale very clearly was not supposed to
be the series finale. This might be an unpopular
opinion because I was on Threadsand I'm on, you know, TikTok and

(00:32):
everybody's complaining. I liked this episode.
I felt that they tied the stories up very neatly.
It's called party of what? She goes into a restaurant.
It's just her. And she gets seated and the
Hostess walks back and then returns to the table with this
big doll. And she puts the doll opposite

(00:53):
Carrie in the booth. And Carrie's horrified.
And she's like, what is that? She's like, this is Tommy tomato
so you don't have to eat alone. And for me, what was so great
about that scene was here's Carrie very comfortable eating
by herself. Really a call back to the single
and fabulous episode. If Charlotte does say to Carrie

(01:14):
at one point, you are fabulous, she's like, oh, well, that was
never in question. She is.
She's single, and she's fabulous.
And it was a call back to when that episode aired, when Carrie,
you know, gets the picture takenfor New York Magazine, and she
ends up looking terrible. And it was kind of a hatchet
job. And Carrie, at the end of that
episode, goes out to a cafe. She's decided she's going to do

(01:35):
this very daring thing of eatingalone.
So it was a nice kind of bookendto that.
That was one reason why I liked it.
But Carrie, when she's relaying it to the girls, says single
with a side of shame. Then Carrie is walking with
Charlotte. She it's it's a very vulnerable
moment where she says for the first time she's thinking, what

(01:58):
if I end up alone? And Charlotte, bless her heart,
Charlotte always wants to be theoptimist.
But no, you're going to meet somebody and you're going to
meet this fabulous man. Obviously, what we would have
rather heard was what if you do?And I, I get it.
It's true to the character. For Charlotte to be like, no,

(02:20):
you're going to find somebody. And.
Right. And Kara's like, you know what?
You know, I don't know. I really don't know if I'm going
to find somebody. And This is why when you sent me
that review of the episode, the author said that Carrie seemed
sad. And what this author doesn't
seem to understand is being single by choice doesn't mean

(02:41):
you don't have moments of reflection.
And note that I said reflection and not regret.
Women are even they're they're fictional characters.
They're not allowed to be complex and layered.
You do have those moments of I'mlonely and am I really OK with
ending up alone or living alone or being on my own?

(03:03):
That's perfectly normal. But it was a very honest moment.
I thought for Carrie, it was a very authentic moment because I
think it probably resonated witha lot of women, a lot of single
women, especially single women our age.
And then Miranda's planning Thanksgiving and one by one,
everybody's canceling and she's very, very upset about it.

(03:26):
She has dinner with Steve and itwas a good way to wrap up that
relationship where they're they're on good terms and
they're talking about Brady and how he's going to have a baby.
And Steve says there's no way we're not going to know our
grandkid. And Miranda's like, I absolutely
agree. But then Steve does something
kind of fucked up when Miranda, you know, tells him that she's

(03:50):
met Mia, the mother of Brady's baby.
Eve says, is she pretty? And Miranda's like, why would
you ask that? And I was like, oh, that's a
really good conversation. Why did you just drop that?
And there's something about thatthat felt like it's really
important to a man to know that his son can date a really

(04:12):
attractive woman because this iswhat men consider success,
right? Am I?
Am I off base there? Well, I wouldn't.
I wouldn't think so. It's it felt like a typical
Steve question. I wish they had explored it.
Go ahead for you to say. I think it's a.
Typical person question, except that I think a woman would have

(04:35):
asked what does she look like? Right.
Like if Steve had met me and Miranda hadn't, I think Miranda
would have asked what does she look like?
Like, think you can predict whatyour grandkids gonna look like?
Right, right. And it would have been nice if
that conversation continued. And I wonder if the conversation
did and they just cut it. Yeah, probably.
It probably did. It did.
It felt very unfinished. Seema is having Thanksgiving

(04:59):
with Adam and I love this character.
I wish we got to know him better.
He and Seema are happy, but she learns in this episode he
doesn't believe in marriage. And he doesn't.
Believe in Thanksgiving either. Doesn't.
Well, who should? Yeah, right.
Like we really shouldn't believein Thanksgiving.
And so that gives Seema pause. She's talking to Carrie about

(05:23):
it. And she's I've been thinking
about this since I was a little girl.
But again, great conversation where Seema says, but was I just
programmed to think about it? And I thought, yeah, we are
totally programmed to have thesethoughts.
The fact that my father never said when you get married, when
you have kids, I, I think playeda huge role in why.

(05:44):
In fact, I am not married and I do not have kids because I never
felt that pressure. And I agreed with Seema that
women are, to use the pun that Carrie made, groomed.
I don't really care for that word in this conversation, but
we are groomed to believe we're supposed to want to get married
and have children. Seema says, you know, I I've

(06:07):
been dreaming about that day andCarrie's basically asking her,
do you have to get married? I was like, well, should she
compromise on that? Do you think she should
compromise on that? I think it depends on what she
actually wants, and the episode didn't really clarify that.
Right. Because there wasn't time.
Right. We see Seema having Thanksgiving

(06:30):
with Adam's sister and family. And so later on in the episode,
Carrie is talking to Adam as he's planting something in her
garden. And she said, so I heard you
don't believe in Thanksgiving and, you know, some other
traditions. And Adam says, oh, Seema told
you I don't believe in marriage.And Carrie's basically trying to

(06:51):
say to him, listen, I I just don't want my friend to get
hurt. Is Seema just a Thursday?
Because he said Thanksgiving is just a Thursday.
And he says absolutely not Seema.
Seema is everyday. Seema is a lifetime.
She's special. So what if you do want to get
married and the person you're with doesn't and everything's

(07:12):
great except for that one thing?What do you do?
Like what? What would you do?
What are your thoughts on that? Why?
I was in this position when I was in my 20s and my response
was, well, I'll be getting married.

(07:37):
And did you break up with them? No, we got married.
That's how that ended for me. Now for you.
Why was marriage important for you?
For the contractual reasons, I'mjust a practical person in this

(08:03):
way. I didn't want to spend
potentially years and years of my life with someone only to
have them abandoned our life consequence free if it came to
that. I understand marriage is not a
guarantee that you're going to live happily ever after, but
it's. A little bit harder to leave.
There are consequences. It should it There should be

(08:25):
consequences, Yeah. If you waste my time like that,
absolutely. It should be painful, right?
You asked and I'm answering. I and I love you for your
honesty and your candor. So how did that conversation go?
If you if you want to share, youdon't have to.

(08:46):
Honestly, and I don't even mean to pun here, but literally just
like that. I, I don't remember how it came
up, but yeah, it was just an exchange in which it ended with
me saying, well, personally I can tell you I will be getting
married at that point. When we were dating it was like
it wasn't even reasonable to be talking about it as an

(09:09):
eventuality. So it was pretty easy for me to
say, well, I'm get married. Right.
I can tell you that much. Right.
We'll see if it's. You know, and you or not, but
and you set that boundary very early.
It was very early. Yeah, that's great.
I love that it. Was probably within 2-3 months.
Right. And this is I always, This is
why I tell women, let's stop with this bullshit of like the

(09:32):
man has to propose. And no, there's more at stake
for women, especially actually women who want, if you want to
have children, which you don't have to do, But if you want to
have children, no, you should bedeciding how that relationship
is going to go. Right, because once you have
children, you'll have to decide everything else.
Right, right. But I mean, listen, if you want

(09:54):
to have kids and he's I'm not ready, dude.
I don't care because I'm having kids, right?
And I want to do it during this time frame in my life so that I
can go back to work when they're, say, 10 or whatever.
I don't want to be trying to go back to work at 50 or 60, right?

(10:15):
So yeah. Unless that, unless that is your
plan, right? Yeah, yeah.
As an example. Yes, right.
So yeah, I, I just believe in having your timeline and putting
your timeline out there wheneveryou feel like it.
And if they get scared off, fuckthem.
You have to be honest and share your goals as they are then,
right? I mean, goals do change.
And I, I get that because prior to this example we're

(10:38):
discussing, I ended my previous relationship because that guy
didn't want to have kids. And at the time I, I was pretty
sure I did. I don't have kids, which is why
I bring this up. But all you can do is just share
your truth as you know it to be that, right?
Right. And you just have to hope that
people will evolve with you in compatible ways.

(11:01):
Right and the right and here's the thing, the right person will
the person who's on the same page, the person who recognizes
I've got a really good thing here, I'm not going to fucking
lose it. Yeah, right.
They will. They will stick around something
else that happened. So they go to this big bridal
fashion show. And this is where Seem is
talking to Carrie about Adam notwanting to getting married.

(11:25):
And so Seema asked Carrie why did you get married?
And Carrie says another moment of self-awareness.
I wanted to feel chosen. Oh, yeah, And I, I think, you
know, for women who want to get married, I would argue that's
one of only two reasons. The other is the one I said,

(11:48):
right. You you want an insurance
policy. Right.
But that idea of wanting to be chosen and where that that comes
from wanting to be white male adjacent, don't you think like
some sort of benefit to it? You want to be chosen by when

(12:10):
you you want to be chosen by a man.
Right. And you want to be chosen by the
right man. Is it is it that she want to be
chosen by the right man, or did she want to be chosen Carrie?
I think. I don't know, I think.
I loved it. I feel like that line probably
resonated with a lot of the women in the audience and and
hopefully planted a seed with them and made them think, is

(12:33):
this why this is one of my goals?
Because I really do think if youdo want to get married and you
do want to have kids, or if you do want to have a relationship,
ask yourself why. What are the reasons behind
that? I think it's important to know
why. Right, because like Seema said
she was, she was told this was sort of what she was supposed to

(12:55):
want. And so you really do have to
check in with yourself and say, OK, what is my motivation here?
Why am I doing this? If if this isn't listen, I want
to have a partner. I want to grow old with
somebody. I want to have someone to share
my life with, that's great. But if it's, I don't want to end
up alone or, you know, I need someone to take care of me or

(13:19):
any, anything else, then I just feel like you need to, you need
to examine your, your motives for why you want this, because
if you don't want it for the right reason, it's, it's not
going to work or you're going tofind yourself in something that
isn't going to be fulfilling. I.
Don't know that one reason is necessarily better than the
other. I guess I I don't want to be

(13:40):
judgmental of women who feel like they also want to be chosen
because that's a powerful pull for so many and I think wouldn't
be fair to put the onus on the individual to resist it, even
though of course it's rooted in patriarchy.
Right, correct. So I don't want to put the onus
on individual women to say like,I'm stronger than that.

(14:04):
If that's if that is the reason,that's good enough for me.
But I do think it's important toexamine your motives just in
case you're ever in a position where you have to defend them.
If you find yourself in a conversation where you're dating
somebody, things are going well,the topic of marriage comes up
and they come back with why I don't really believe in it.
And you want that. They are going to want to know

(14:26):
why. Right, right.
Basically, it's about being ableto to formulate a good argument,
a strong argument for why it's important to you.
Yeah, right. So it, that definitely made me
reflect. And it just made me wonder, how
does she feel about her relationship with Big, You know,
listen, she, she, she made out in the end.

(14:48):
For sure. Right.
But was that relationship what she wanted it to be?
So I like that moment. Now Lisa is at work with her Co
worker Marion and it's a. Man's name too.
It's a it's a man's name, too. And they're talking about this
documentary and Michelle Obama might narrate the whole thing.

(15:11):
And they hug and he's like, let's go to get dinner.
And she's like, no, we can't do that.
And he says, OK, well, what about what about a drink?
She's like, no, we can't do thateither.
And I felt like this was a really honest conversation.
Lisa says, you know, you're married.
I'm married. And he says we don't want to

(15:32):
mess up what we each have. And I do wonder, how often does
that happen? Because just because you're
married, just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you
don't find yourself attracted toother people, Right?
Right. And I think the true test or one
of the tests of marriage is whenI'm in those moments, because
you probably will be how how do you navigate it?

(15:53):
What do you do? But also, what is?
What does it mean? Yeah, it's just the newness.
It's the newness that you miss and I liked that, Lisa said.
Basically, we're we're not goingto do this because I do think
that's probably a conversation alot of people have.
You know, as a married person, my hot take is if you're having

(16:14):
this conversation, it's already gone too far.
I can see that. But that's my opinion.
I don't know. I don't think it's as black and
white as that, because here's Lisa and she's trying to do this
project and her husband's so focused on himself and he
clearly doesn't take take it seriously.
And I think Lisa was feeling very underappreciated.
And then he's around the house pouting and she's having to

(16:35):
mother him a bit and boost his ego.
I am sympathetic to the circumstances.
It doesn't change my opinion, OK?
And I and I, you know, would be saying this for a man or a
woman. I'm not holding Lisa to a higher
standard here than Marian, I don't think.
I, you know, there are peaks andvalleys in every relationship
and everything isn't always going to be perfect.

(16:57):
And you're going to have those moments of wanting that newness,
wanting that rush and underappreciated, wanting
attention because you know, their, their, their focus is
elsewhere. And so I don't what what I.
I know what's happening here. I get it.

(17:19):
What? What?
Well, I can simply turn my emotions on and off.
I see. I, I literally can just, you
know, I could just simply not act on an urge and I don't
really get why other people can't.
Really. OK.
But I understand that they can't, and that's the important

(17:39):
thing, right? Yes, I do think that is where
why we're coming at this differently.
But I will say Marian almost seemed like, well, what do you
mean we can't go to dinner? What do you mean we can't?
What do you mean? What do you mean?
You know what she means? You know why she's she's being
apprehensive. Well, 'cause maybe Marian's like
me, maybe he too can just simplyturn it on and off.

(18:02):
Maybe, but we will never know because we didn't see enough of.
Marian, I know. So I liked that.
And then, of course, she goes home and she sees her husband
and she recites the vows and sheacknowledges, yeah, the, the IT
isn't always going to be great, but this is who I love and this

(18:23):
is who I chose. And I feel like that is what
marriage is about, right? You know it it other than in
cases of abuse or any kind of infidelity.
Herbert also just wanted to feelchosen.
Just conflict over. Right.
He just wanted to feel chosen because he had lost.
He had lost this election. He wanted to feel chosen.

(18:47):
And she made him feel chosen. Now that you've brought that up,
I, I OK, yes, I do understand the pull of that.
And that's when things got better with him.
He wanted to feel chosen when Lisa and Charlotte were talking
about marriage at the wedding Expo.
And she's like, if you knew thenwhat you know now, would you
still marry Harry and Charlotte,You know?

(19:07):
Oh, absolutely. That reminded me of when Miranda
in one of the movies when her and Steve weren't having sex
because she was working so much.She's like, I mean, what couples
have sex every day? And Charlotte's like, well,
she's like every day. She's like, well, not every day,
but, you know, frequently, you know.

(19:30):
I forgot about that and I wish Iwould have remembered that as we
were watching Harry struggle. Well, post cancer, right?
But see, that brings up another issue, the the Harry and
Charlotte thing, where Harry wasso worried about not having sex
anymore, where Charlotte, whereas Charlotte wasn't.
Yeah. Now, I don't know how much of

(19:51):
that had to do with menopause. And your libido can take a hit.
Doesn't always, but it can. But men don't lose their sex
drive the way the way women do. So I, I think Charlotte was just
sort of resigned to, yeah, this,this, you know, this might
happen. And that was perfectly OK for
her. Because eventually in a
relationship, you're not going to be having sex as often as you

(20:12):
used to, right? You're just not.
That's conventional wisdom. Yeah, I guess Samantha Jones may
disagree, but we'll never know. Right.
But you know, you have kids, youhave a job, whatever.
There are things that are going to to affect that.
And Charlotte seemed very at ease.
She seemed fine with it, whereasHarry didn't see I didn't.
Interpret it as she seemed fine with the idea of no more sex, I

(20:36):
just thought she was being more patient and assumed it would,
you know, come back when it comes back.
Maybe. OK, maybe.
But, you know, You know what, though?
I mean, the show didn't explore this at all.
But I also, in the back of my mind wondered like, well, maybe
Charlotte's just a more creativeproblem solver than we give her

(20:57):
credit for. And and maybe she has an
agreement with Harry. Like maybe they've already
talked about this and they have decided like it's some
hypothetical worst case scenario, if one of us needs to
see a sex worker, that's what they're for.
Yeah. Do you think that that's more
common in relationships? Because listen again, there are

(21:18):
times there are things that happen to us, whether it's
mentally or physically. Yeah.
Where sex is not an option. Right.
And. It's I don't To me, it seems
stupid to end a whole marriage over it, like a whole lifetime
right over that. Yeah, yeah.
Sex workers are literally 4. Right, right.
But would you be like, it has tobe a sex worker, it can't be

(21:40):
someone you meet online. None of that bullshit.
Yeah, yeah, you're not getting agirlfriend.
Please. I'm not an idiot.
I agree. I think that you should have
that kind of talk of how how would we handle this would
because you're not going to expect your your partner to just
go without. I don't think that's fair.
Nope, right. I don't think that's fair or.

(22:01):
Is it fair to coerce someone who's not into it?
Right. Right.
Exactly. Yeah, exactly.
So I liked how their story endedup.
I really liked Miranda and Joy. Poor Miranda.
She I was so, so excited for Thanksgiving and everybody
bailed on her except Carrie. Carrie was a good friend and she

(22:21):
brought. 1000 pies. She brought 1000 pies.
And Joy calls Miranda to say shecan't come to Thanksgiving
because Sappho, one of her dogs,swallowed something.
And now they're at the vets. And Miranda assumes that she's
lying. And she comes up with this whole

(22:42):
whole narrative in her head, which we tend to do.
Carrie says, Are you sure? Are you sure she's lying?
Like, are we sure? Like, do you think maybe, maybe
we're overreacting a bit? And so Miranda calls Joy, and
turns out Joy was not lying. And she goes in there and Sappho
ate a Lego in the park. Miranda's like, Oh my God, OK,

(23:06):
I'm here. She bails on her family.
Really. She bails on Brady and the baby
mama's obnoxious friends. And what incredible, what an
incredible moment for Carrie, right?
Like what, what growth in that character for her to be the
voice of reason, right? Look how far we've come from her
stalking Mr. Bing and his mom atchurch in Season 1 and stalking

(23:30):
Natasha for 4/4 or five seasons,right?
We're seeing all these moments of growth from Carrie, and I
would have loved to have seen another season of this.
Yeah. But she, you know, she,
Miranda's sitting there with joyand Joy's terrified.
And, you know, everything he told me was fine.
But then they had me sign this thing.
And Miranda says, hey, you know,that's, I think that's pretty
standard. And there was just something

(23:51):
about that moment. It was just such a moment of
vulnerability. There's Miranda who was she has
was already like pre rejecting in her head and this is what's
happening and this isn't really she's not comfortable with the
discomfort, right? Like she can't sit with it and
she's there and her partner justshe was just there.

(24:13):
I don't know what about that really touched me other than
they just seem to have such a great relationship.
Like there's, they're so loving of each other.
I think it's that it was deliberately unglamorous and in
that way very representative of what a successful relationship
can do for you. Both of them are overcoming a

(24:33):
fear in that moment, right? Miranda and her fear of
rejection. Joy is afraid of I don't know
what Joy is afraid of LEGO's commitment, I don't know.
I think what we would have foundout about Joy is Joy's afraid of
losing. Like an abandonment issue,
something because right, Like she's, she's terrified, as we

(24:55):
all would be in that moment, butit's compounded by her
discomfort around kids and family.
So Carrie comes home after Thanksgiving.
She comes back to her very, very, very big house and she
doesn't take her shoes off because Duncan's not there
anymore. So fuck that guy.
And she puts on the karaoke machine.
She's standing in the kitchen atthe counter and she's eating the
pie. She seems to really be enjoying

(25:18):
this moment where it's just her.She, it was a moment of
authentic comfort being on her own.
And she goes over to the epilogue that she wrote for the
book. She deletes it and she writes.
The woman realized that she wasn't alone, she was on her

(25:38):
own. I thought that was great.
What did you think of that? I thought it was fitting.
Right. Yeah, I still don't want to read
this book. You couldn't pay me to read this
book. What a nightmare this book is.
But as a plot device, Right? Yeah.
And that's kind of my take on the episode as a whole.

(25:59):
The show did for us what it could in that we didn't know
what was getting cancelled. So my hot take on the series
finale is that it was not good, but I did enjoy it.
Yes, I enjoyed it as well and I will say that Mario Canton who
plays Anthony, his Instagram post was something about it
being goodbye for now. Yeah, OK.

(26:23):
I mean, that's, that's perfect, right?
Yeah, he says on the final night.
For now. Mm hmm.
Like what does that mean? I wouldn't mind him getting his
own show him and Giuseppe. I'm sure he wouldn't either.
Yeah, no, that's that's that's apitch perfect response.

(26:44):
That's a guy with a publicist right there.
Or just enough years to know what to say.
Right. So we do have that scene with
him and Giuseppe, right, Right. And so he's planning on telling
Giuseppe that he doesn't think he wants to get married because
he thinks Giuseppe's looking fora mother on there.
They have the pie that Carrie dropped off.

(27:04):
And Giuseppe said, So you think I proposed to you because I'm
looking for a mother? And Giuseppe takes the pie, and
he shoves it Anthony's face. And so you're at first you're
like, oh, no. But then they just start
laughing. I did a bonus episode about
emotional availability and emotional How do we know if

(27:26):
we're emotionally unavailable? And one of the questions that I
said to ask yourself is how do you deal with discomfort, those
moments of not knowing where things are going with Anthony
and Giuseppe, it could have gonea different way, but instead
they just kind of laughed it laughed it off.
We didn't mention rock, but thatwas another storyline.

(27:49):
Right. That was a great moment.
So they're looking at the photostogether and when when they when
Charlotte says, oh, I thought you'd want me to delete them.
Rock says, oh, no, that's that'sjust a character.
And then they said I'm going to be a lot of different people.
Yeah. And I liked that.
How did you interpret that? Line It made me wonder if the

(28:10):
writers listened to our episode last week.
This whole episode was written to please us.
All of these hastily wrapped up storylines right with the
laughing at the pipe and oh, I was forgiven.
That was playing a character like people are just behaving

(28:31):
angelically and we're seeing thebest possible outcomes so that
we could call it finish. We also have to talk about the
crowd at Thanksgiving 2. For two reasons, yes.
Number one, why would you eat a full plate of cheese if you're
lactose? Right, right.
Why would you do that? Epcot Why?

(28:54):
And if you're going to do that, why?
Why are you not carrying Lactaid?
Right Epcot? Right.
OK also I agree with Charlotte. I think there is something there
between, well, there was something there between Carrie
and Mark, and then the writers made him act like a fucking
creep just so I guess, so we could see Carrie come to terms

(29:19):
with being alone. Right, right.
But, but that was the point, right?
That was the point to be like, hey, she has an opportunity and
she's saying no, no, I'm not I, I don't, I don't need that.
I don't. I don't want that, right?
Right. But again, they had to turn him
into a creep. He was never a creep before.
Right, but God, just Victor Garber plays a play.
A great creep. Oh, they turned him into a

(29:40):
creep, right? It didn't even take that many
lines, but man did he turn. Into a creep.
He, you know he doesn't need them.
Now we know what you thought about Epcot.
What did you think about the other friend?
Oh my God, I hated all of them. Yeah, it seems to be just a joke
about kids today, am I right? Ken Jen Zers, yeah.

(30:01):
I guess I I agree with what the the Vulture reviewer said about
this part of the episode in which the criticism was wish we
hadn't spent as much time with these people.
We are wasting precious moments.Correct of the.
Series finale on these fucking people.
These fucking kids. Which I say not because they

(30:22):
were annoying, although they were, but just because we know
we've never seen them before. We weren't going to see them
again, right? With the exception of Mia,
right? So yeah, there's one more thing.
OK. And this is the last thing.
OK, but thank God Shoe escaped from that closet she was in.

(30:43):
Shoe the cat. You're free, baby.
Oh, shoe, we hardly knew you. She was in a.
Closet. She was in a closet.
All right, if you have a second,please rate US five stars on
Spotify. And if you want the bonus
content and the behind the scenes content and the tea
that's a little too spicy for the public feed, that has more

(31:04):
to do with drama that might be going on in our personal lives,
usually my personal life. Then go to patreon.com/worth the
Weight show and subscribe. You'll get the bi weekly bonus
episodes, dating advice, post the behind the scenes stuff,
patreon.com/worth the weight show follow us on Instagram,
TikTok and YouTube at worth the weight show.

(31:27):
Please make sure to follow us onYouTube.
That's really important. We're we're starting to build a
really nice community there on YouTube.
So make sure to follow us at worth the weight show.
Dating questions, send them to [e-mail] or go
to dataologycoach.com and just submit them through the website.
Any final thoughts there? You know what?
I'm just glad Sappho made it. Shu made it.

(31:48):
Frankly, we all made it. We all made it.
We all made it through. All right.
Bog witches, warlocks days. Value your time, decenter men,
and center yourself. Goodbye, bye.