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May 7, 2024 44 mins

Join us as we welcome Ian Winer, class of 1996, managing director of investor relations at Disruptive, as he shares his unique story of commitment, transformation, and resilience. 

Ian recounts his journey to West Point, a path paved thanks to his skills on the rink playing ice hockey and his affinity for the Academy's core values that resonated deeply with his personal aspirations. Ian offers a perspective on the challenges and triumphs of cadet life, reflecting on the enduring mentorship he received from then Major Jim Knowlton and Colonel Jim Blake, and the indelible bonds formed with teammates under his coaches.

Ian opens up about the unforeseen twist in his military career, an injury that rendered him non-commissionable just before his commissioning. This emotional pivot led him to the fast-paced world of finance at Goldman Sachs.  Hear how he navigated the shift from military structure to the frenetic rhythm of Wall Street. 

Ian speaks candidly about his battle with substance abuse and the path to recovery. His story is a testament to the power of support networks and the value of service, demonstrating that even the toughest challenges can be overcome with gratitude, routine, and a helping hand from fellow graduates. As Ian emphasizes the importance of seeking assistance during a crisis and celebrates the support systems available to veterans, we're reminded of the strength found in a community and the transformative journey toward a life of purpose.

 

Key Quote:

“It's all work. It doesn't necessarily come easily.  But if I get back to kind of what I learned at West Point, if I get back to not making excuses for, for behavior that's not okay,  if I get back into that, um, that is what keeps me sober. And so, and then it's at night. It really is thinking about the day and thinking about like,  What did, how did I act today? What did I do? What did I do right? What did I, you know, kind of,  uh, you know, and it goes back to that quote from Hamlet, you know, to thine own self be true. And that is really what sobriety and my life boils down to now. Am I being true to myself? You know, am I, am I being honest with myself?”

 

Episode Timestamps:

(00:00) - Life at West Point

(09:40) - West Point to Wall Street Transition

(27:31) -  Ian’s Recovery and Support

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