WTF Do I Do Now?

WTF Do I Do Now?

F*ck his cheating, infidelity and hidden p*rn use. You deserve better. We're diving into what Betrayal Trauma really is and how to heal. I'm not here to tell you to give him chance after chance. I'm here to help you love yourself more than him so you can move on. Hosted by Mandy, a certified trauma-informed and women's empowerment life coach who left the relationship, this podcast is to raise awareness and educate society about the research behind betrayal trauma, infidelity, and the harms of p*rn. You can follow along for more resources on TikTok and Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@wtfdoidonowcoaching?lang=en https://www.instagram.com/wtfdoidonowcoaching/ Email: mandy@wtfdoidonow.com

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September 11, 2025 29 mins

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June 12, 2025 21 mins

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June 1, 2025 25 mins

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May 15, 2025 25 mins

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Click here for a p*rn addiction recovery resource with Mari and Thomas

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In this episode, we dive into why hidden and repetitive porn use and cheating is emotional and psychological abuse, what an abuse cycle is, and what trauma bonds are

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Connect with Her Voice Matters here:

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This episode was originally featured on The Skin I'm In Podcast where Mandy is interviewed! You can connect with Chanel from The Skin I'm In below

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In this episode, we dive into why we can't think our way out of betrayal trauma (i.e. read books, listen to podcasts, research, try to diagnose him, etc.) and why it lives in our body too!

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The #1 question I get from women is "How do I heal this trauma?". Ask any trauma therapist/specialist and they'll say Nervous System Regulation. 

I cannot emphasize enough how much of a priority this should be! 

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In this episode, I interview Gareth Leonard about his experience healing from his porn addiction in his marriage and how he's helping other people heal from addiction

Connect with Gareth on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gareth_leonard/

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