In this episode, Giles speaks with Emeritus Professor Patrick Parkinson, one of Australia’s most respected voices in family law. Patrick is the former Dean at the University of Queensland and has been a leading contributor to national law reform for several decades. This is a thoughtful and wide-ranging conversation about families, conflict, parenting, community, and how the law can support people at their most vulnerable.
Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
01:00 What an Emeritus Professor actually does
03:30 Early life and the calling to family law
07:45 Academic path from Oxford
12:10 Lessons from living behind the Iron Curtain
17:20 The emotional realities behind child sexual abuse cases
25:05 When children express strong views in parenting disputes
32:40 Understanding family violence and coercive control
42:00 How marriage and relationship stability are changing
49:20 The creation and purpose of Family Relationship Centres
57:30 Why supporting parents before separation matters
1:04:00 Loneliness, disconnection, and rebuilding community
1:10:50 Advice for law students and young lawyers
1:17:20 Closing reflections
About the Guest
Patrick Parkinson is an Emeritus Professor at the University of Queensland and one of the most influential family law academics in Australia. His work has shaped how courts, governments, and support systems think about parenting, separation, and child protection.
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