Your Money, Your Rules | Money Mindset, Money Management, Abundance Mindset, Budgeting, Spirituality

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Have you ever stopped to calculate how much money you’ve manifested in your lifetime? If you had me guess, it’s in the millions. The real question isn’t if you can manifest money, it's whether you’re manifesting from love or fear.

In this episode, I dive into the difference between manifesting money from a fear-based place and love-based place.  Fear creates...

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Have you ever been celebrating, enjoying a beautiful moment or spending money only to have your brain suddenly interrupt with scarcity thoughts like, “You shouldn’t be spending this money,” or “You're having too much fun"?

That quick shift from joy to panic isn’t random, I believe it’s your nervous system revealing its limits around how much abundance i...

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Have you ever wondered how the banking system actually works?

In this episode, I'm sharing the hidden history of money and how our banking system was deliberately designed to benefit a few at the expense of the many.

I debated on creating this episode because I feel like it can feel so heavy AND I wanted to share from the lens of empowerment. The old fear-bas...

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In this episode, I share what it means to move beyond the conventional definition of a “wealth mindset.” Instead of focusing only on strategies or numbers, I explore how your feelings, nervous system, and self-trust are the real foundations of abundance.

We’ll also explore why nervous system regulation is essential for wealth creation. When you’re living in fight...

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Do you find yourself exhausted from second-guessing every financial decision? That cycle of overthinking doesn’t just drain your energy, I believe it quietly erodes your self-trust and keeps you handing your power over to others.

In this episode, I’m sharing how to break that cycle by learning to trust your intuition.  Your body carries wisdom that your logical m...

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Have you ever noticed that no matter how much money mindset work you do, things don't feel like they're truly shifting? That’s because financial blocks aren’t always in your mind, they can also be stored in your body.

In this episode, I dive into Dr. Bradley Nelson’s book The Emotion Code and explore how unprocessed emotions, especially from childhood, ...

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Resistance isn't really about procrastination, "laziness", or self-sabotage, more often than not, it’s your body’s way of protecting you. Whether it shows up as avoiding money tasks, feeling paralyzed by financial decisions, rushing through difficult seasons of life, or numbing out with distractions, resistance carries an important message.

In thi...

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In this intimate episode, I share a raw and vulnerable journal entry about a moment where I almost compromised my values for money. I share what it felt like to be pulled by the allure of financial gain while my body was sending very different signals.  I also share the process I used to come back to my knowing.

Money itself isn’t the enemy, it’s neutral, it just i...

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You can have the thriving business, the healthy bank account, and all the financial boxes checked and still feel like it’s never enough. That empty, restless feeling isn’t about money at all. It’s about the words we use to speak to ourselves and about ourselves.

Language carries energy. The way we talk about money can either keep us in fear or open us to trust, lov...

Do you feel guilty when you spend money even when you can afford it? In this episode, I unpack the reasons why we feel money guilt and shame, how your nervous system was conditioned to equate spending with danger, and practical ways to rewire your money mindset. 

You’ll learn how childhood money conditioning shaped your nervous system, why guilt has become a default response, and practical tools to rewire your relationship with mone...

Have you ever noticed how your brain latches onto financial worries while completely overlooking the money and abundance already in your life? You’re not imagining it. Your Reticular Activating System (RAS) which is the part of your brain that filters information was designed to scan for threats. Helpful for survival, not so helpful when it comes to money and remembering your abundance.

Your brain is incredibly adaptable. With pract...

Why do some mortgage experiences feel seamless while others turn into nightmares? It’s not just about interest rates; it’s about the lender guiding you through the process.

In this episode, mortgage expert Jacqueline “Jax” Crider shares what most borrowers overlook: not all lenders are created equal. With 20+ years of experience and a law degree, Jax explains why the right mortgage partner should challenge your assumptions, uncover ...

What if money wasn’t something to chase, control, or fear and instead it is something that could feel like love?

In this episode, I unpack the energetic truth that changed everything in my own financial journey and that is: money operates on the frequency of love, not fear. After years of relating to money through scarcity, stress, and performance, I began to explore what it meant to build wealth from emotional safety, self-trust, a...

I'm peeling back the layers in this episode on why I let my CFP go and how I use financial planning with clients now.

This episode is for the woman who senses there's more to money than logic and spreadsheets. Who's done the planning, hit the milestones, and still feels disconnected. I invited you on my journey of choosing soul alignment over fear and how letting go of the traditional path allows me to serve clients a...

In this episode, I challenge the outdated narrative surrounding retirement and the concept of financial freedom.  Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’ll finally rest when I retire”?  I dive into how the traditional retirement model can feel restrictive, especially for women, and how it reinforces a scarcity mindset. 

Traditional retirement models are built around the assumption that work is something to endure, not something ...

What if your thoughts are sabotaging your money mindset and financial freedom? 

In this episode, we explore the concept of mental wealth and how our thoughts either drain our energy and creativity or lead to an abundance mindset. Just like unconscious spending leads to financial debt, mental habits such as overthinking, worry, and self-doubt can create emotional debt that limits your capacity to grow and invest. 

You will learn how t...

Are you in a cycle where you feel that there's just not enough—time, money, love, or energy? That if you let go or slow down, everything might fall apart?

In this episode, I dive into the deeper roots of scarcity mindset—a survival pattern shaped by childhood experiences, generational money trauma, and cultural conditioning. 

You’ll discover how scarcity shows up in everyday patterns like overworking, guilt around spending, and ...

Ever feel that knot in your stomach when it’s time to talk about your prices or invite someone into your offer? 

In this episode, I'm sharing my perspective on what it means to sell, especially for heart-centered women in business. Because selling isn’t about pressure or persuasion. It’s about helping someone say yes to themselves. When you shift your beliefs, perspective and energy around sales, they will stop feeling like a c...

Ever feel like the more financially secure you become, the more cautious you get? This feeling is not about being “responsible.” It’s a subtle, sneaky way our nervous system tries to protect us from change, uncertainty, and deeper levels of visibility and growth.

In this episode, I'm exploring how our own financial comfort can impede our growth.  When we’ve built something valuable, we can start playing smaller, saying no to al...