June 13, 2025 • 37 mins
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Welcome to the show.
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You have infinite power.
Hey there.
Welcome to this episode ofyour ultimate life.
You know, I'm going to takethis moment to acknowledge a couple
of really important things we cover.
I cover with myself and withguests a wide range of topics.
I get proposals for people tobe on the show all the time.
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And I invite that if you havea message or a story or something
you want to share that has todo with creating purpose, prosperity
and joy are adding good to theworld, I like to say.
Then I want to hear from you.
And the best way to do that isto go to this URL right here, www.kellenflukermedia.com
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and there's a contact form andget a hold of me and tell me what
you want, what you have andwhy you want to what the message
is and why you want to be here.
And here's why I say that mygoal, my commitment this year is
to reach 300 million peoplewith a message and a method and the
work of mastery.
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To go from a place of learnedhelplessness, where we live in a
place where we think we can't,you know, control things, and an
addiction to mediocrity, wherewe just settle, you know, we settle
for what's easy and obviousinstead of what we can really have
and victim mindset, wherewe're, you know, in the frame that
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everything happens to me.
Those three things, every oneof you have some, a little or a lot.
That may be an uncomfortablequestion for you was for me, how
much am I settling?
How much am I addicted tomediocrity, meaning good as it gets,
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it's enough.
As opposed to a commitment,radical excellence.
And that doesn't mean perfection.
That means as good as I can do something.
And instead of learnedhelplessness, having a fierce life
ownership, like you and I, weget the days, they go by one at a
time.
You get it once, I get it once.
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And what I've learned in myjourney in the last 18 years since
my life radically changed in2007, was that fierce life ownership's
the way to go.
I own my life.
No one can take it from me.
I can give it away.
I can give up control.
I can allow everybody else andeverybody else's agenda and desires
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to control my life.
Or I can take fierce life ownership.
Fierce means unrelentingUnyielding life ownership.
And I don't mean to be afierce or unrelenting or unyielding
person.
You can be humble, you can bekind, you can be joyful.
And in fact, I recommend that highly.
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It makes us feel better whenwe're loving and serving, we feel
better fiercely.
Owning your life meansrecognizing that it's your choice
to be loving and kind, notpeople pleasing and resentful, like
they're completely different things.
You might do something forsomeone out of love and kindness
and joy and just do it and doit really well because you're radically
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excellent.
Or you can do exactly the samething and feel resentful and negative,
like, I wish I didn't have to.
Why do they ask me?
And that's with the same actions.
So when I say fierce lifeownership, it means taking the responsibility
that is yours for your life.
And the truth is, you and me,we create life whether we want to
or not, whether we agree we are.
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Whether we want to admit it or not.
The life you have, you've created.
Every experience that youhave, you built.
Now, let's take that apart.
The experience is not what happened.
The experience is how weinterpret what happens.
Like that story where someone,you know, the farmer says, it's raining.
And someone says to thefarmer, well, that's bad for your
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crops, isn't it?
The farmer says, we'll see.
Then he goes down a whole listof things, and his answer is always,
we'll see.
Because there is greatness andpossibility in every event.
Even if it initially hit youbetween the eyes and you're like,
ooh, that sucked.
The question, like we'vetalked about force, what is the gift
here?
So creating your ultimatelife's in your hands.
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Nobody's coming.
Nobody's going to build it foryou, and nobody can take it away
from you.
And that's the beautiful thing.
So you're invited to shareyour stories, your insights.
Because my commitment to reach300 million is not about only my
message, which is you can movefrom learned helplessness, victim
mindset, addiction tomediocrity over here, to fierce life
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ownership, radical commitmentto excellence, and a joyful yearning
to serve.
That's way more fun to live there.
And you know what else I noticed?
Make more money, more money,and you have a bigger impact, Meaning
you affect more people in the world.
You add good to the world at alarger scale.
So you can do that, too.
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That's my mission.
And that's why I'm going to300 million.
So I meet people all the time.
And lots of people reach outto be on the show.
And so I'm extending thatinvitation to you.
The way to do it is go tokellenflukermedia.com and use the
contact form.
Tell me what you want.
Because I love meeting people.
Because I love you.
I love you.
I know you're divine.
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I know that you have beenthrough your share of learning experiences,
victories, struggles.
I also know that you have madethe choices about whether those things
ruin you or refine you.
And maybe they ruined youfirst and refined you later, like
me.
I've done that.
So that's the first invitationI want to offer you along with telling
you that I'm grateful you're here.
Thanks.
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Thanks.
Let's go create your ultimate life.
That life of purpose,prosperity and joy that you can have
right now, not someday downthe road.
The idea that, well, I'll haveit when I have a million dollars
in the bank or 10 million or100 million.
Those are just numbers.
I was reading a post today onFacebook that said, you know, it
was by a, I think, if Iinterpreted it correctly, a woman
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who'd been a very, very famousdesigner passion, I think.
And she talked about the moneyin the house and the car and the
clothes and the in bankaccount and all that stuff.
And she's dying or now has, Ithink passed away of stomach cancer
and said, you know, I thoughtabout all the money and it doesn't
do me any good here.
I thought about all the placesI used to go and I go from one bed
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to the other and that sort of thing.
And it was very touching.
And it reminded me that whatis important is love, kindness, service,
health.
No question, we need money andthat's easy to make.
We've made a religion out ofit that makes it hard.
So let's talk about creatingthat ultimate life today.
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I use this great background,you know what Chat GPT created that
for me perfectly.
Because the question today is,how does AI matter?
I saw part of the hearing onCapitol Hill in the United States.
Now, you know, I live inCanada, but I watch the US News sometimes.
And part of the hearing talkedabout, you know, the singularity
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in the AI point getting towhere artificial general intelligence,
which is the ability of an AIto equal a human brain, that that's
not that far away according totheir projections.
And so rather than panic, Ithink two episodes ago, I said we'd
talk about AI and here we are.
This is that episode.
So let me give you some 10things to think about when you think
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about how to use it now.
I use it a lot.
I use it every single day.
I use it to generate this image.
I use it to create art.
I use it to create outline foranother book I'm writing.
I'm writing number 21, as I'vesaid before, and I've outlined number
22, which is also going tohappen this year.
And I hadn't expected to dotwo this year, but because I'm launching
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that coaching university inJanuary, your ultimate life coaching
university launches in January.
And if you're interested inbeing in that very first cohort,
it's going to be like nothingthat exists in the world today.
So if you're a coach and youwant the ultimate experience of preparation,
creating cash, because youcan't hold a business together if
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you can't make money.
So I don't care how much youlove helping people, it's going to
be a hobby and you can stilllove it, but you're not going to
be able to do it full time oras a business unless you learn how
to sell coaching, which iswonderful and easy and joyful to
sell and valuable.
All right, so here's pointnumber one.
Here's what to think about.
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I said, how does AI matter?
So a lot of times, not always,but a lot of times people focus on
the threat.
It's going to put a bunch ofpeople out of work.
Well, it is.
It is absolutely going to puta bunch of people out at work, out
of work.
I'm reminded of the old poemabout John Henry, which was a long
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time ago.
John Henry, I think, was acoal miner and he was a huge guy
and swung a great big heavyhammer to do, you know, to drive
a.
A chisel or a pointed thinginto the wall where they would put
explosives and then blow out apiece of the coal seam and then mine
it, you know, take it up.
And the steam engine came inand they had a contest, at least
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according to this song orpoem, where John Henry said, it'll
never equal a person.
And they had a competition.
And of course, John Henry wasa massive dude and did great, but
we know the end of the story.
Eventually, of course, allthat gave way to the engines.
And you know what?
That's not a sad thing.
I frame that as liberation.
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Liberation, not a sad thing.
So let's reframe this wholeidea into this is a tool.
AI is a tool.
And right.
It's getting sophisticated andscary fast, scary good fast, and
can do all kinds of stuff.
Every time I go to it, everyWeek to week, the interactions I
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have with it are getting moreintelligent, more capable and more,
more effective.
So I have it give me ideas foremails and you know, ideas about
topics that I want to talk about.
I even asked Chaddy, you know,I'm going to talk about AI as a tool,
what do you think?
And so it gave me some ideas.
I thought some of them werereally good and some of them might
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already thought of but I don'tthink AI is either set out to, designed
to or will ever replace theinteraction and truth of the human
spirit.
So I'm coming from that place.
So point 1 use it as a tool,not as a threat.
It's not here to define your life.
It's not here to take awayyour life.
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I find it here to serve mymission, to serve my mission of reaching
300 million people.
So I've asked it for ideas andI've given it ideas and ask them
if they're good ideas and madesome changes.
Because all AI is code.
Yet there is some interestingstuff because when, when this code
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goes out and searches theInternet large language model searches
who knows how many terabytesand thousand terabytes.
I've forgotten the next nameright now.
Petabytes I think is the nextone after terabytes goes down searches
all that data in the worldbesides information, what it will
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read in seeing books and postsand you know, medium articles and
LinkedIn things, all thatstuff is it will ingest the totality
of human reaction.
And while that is information,the amassing of that huge amount
of reaction and humaninteraction is going to give it a
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point of view that's going tofeel very consistent to human.
I like that and that doesn'tscare me a bit.
So I believe that it's a tool.
You are in charge of yourlife, the vehicle of your life.
And maybe AI is just part ofthe vehicle if you want it to be.
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How you use, it's up to you.
But I certainly view it as atool and I welcome it.
And every new innovation I'mexcited about.
Created a piece of music theother day with it and I thought it
was really fun.
The second thing is, thinkabout it this way.
AI amplifies who you are orwhat you have to say.
Okay, think about money for meas I reach out to 300 million people,
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the more money I have, themore visibility I can create.
Articles and media appearancesand those kinds of things, marketing
and advertising, I can createa bigger splash if I have some more
money.
AI as a tool helps me do that.
By giving me nuances on ideas,different approaches, thoughts about
how to do things, and Iwelcome that.
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I go back and forth with it inconversation a lot and I never forget
that it's a machine.
In fact, I often write inthere and look, I know you're a code
and it says, yeah, I am code,but here anyway is some thoughts.
And it says, you know, I getit, I'm code, but I'm going to go
deep.
And I've taught it everythingI can about me in terms of all the
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20 books that I have uploaded,because I want it to be able to speak
from my experience and my voice.
And it does.
And I think it does a great job.
So I think it amplifies whoyou are.
I think of it this way, if youare clear and committed, it will
accelerate your work.
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If you're scattered, yeah, youknow, maybe it'll magnify that and
it won't be much for you.
Now here's your in the secondinvitation, do you know what your
life purpose is?
Have you picked it?
Because it isn't coming in anAmazon box and it isn't going to
go.
You're not going to dig it upin the yard.
Some life event might give youa clue and might drive you in a place.
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I had a guy on the show a fewmonths ago that said, you know, a
certain event for him revealedhis life purpose and then he chose
to use it.
So there's always going to beyour sovereign choice about embracing
whatever occurs to you couldbe your life purpose.
If you don't have a purpose,get one, choose one, pick it.
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And if you want help withthat, get ahold of me.
Because I've got a powerful,unique process called the Triple
Helix to help you find andembrace a purpose.
And it's not a one and done.
It's something you get toadjust all the time.
In the 18 years since my liferadically changed in 2007, and if
you want to read about thatdramatic event it was in, it's in
a book called Tightrope ofDepression, a gigantic turning point
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in my life.
Anyway, since then, I havechosen and adjusted my purpose a
ton of times.
And so it has, and it hasamplified now in the last year or
so as I've used it, all kindsof stuff.
Okay, so here's another waythat I'm using it.
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When I ask it questions, Isay, okay, now filter this not through
everybody in the universe'sthought, but through the ideas that
I'm living for.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
So how can this thought, orthis episode, or this presentation,
or this talk.
I need to go give, befiltered, adjusted and focused on
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creating purpose, prosperityand joy.
So it keeps me on track asopposed to wandering off, you know,
in.
In unnecessary directions.
It helps me stay aligned.
It scales.
It certainly scales my work.
It makes it faster, and I lovethat and reduces friction so I get
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through things with more clarity.
Another thing that I want tomake you aware of, number four is
faster.
Isn't everything so everybodysays about AI, what helps you faster?
Writes emails for you, writesarticles, writes this, that, and
the other.
So what?
How about accuracy?
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How about tone of voice?
How about the emotion you wantto convey?
One of the.
My favorite things is to testideas, get some feedback.
And your sovereignty is to pick.
Like, I don't ever use a pieceof AI content.
Like it comes, I mess with it.
I adjust it for my voice.
I make sure that the truth ofmy mission and message is captured.
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And so it does help with speedbecause it can produce an outline
faster than I can.
And even when I look at it andmess with it and change some things
around or adjust some thingsor delete them, it still saves time.
And the different perspectivethat it brings, I like.
And you know, another funthing is that it remembers stuff
in my books that I don'tremember all of it because I've uploaded
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all my books.
So number five, I think we'reon is it certainly sparks new ideas
because I ask it.
Here's what I'm doing aboutthis university.
I'm starting January 26th,starting a university.
I told it what I was doing.
I told it what I thought thecurriculum looked like and what I
was going to do, who theintended students were, all of that.
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I shared all of that long,long input and then redid parts of
it.
Just much input.
And I said, so is this a good idea?
Is it a stupid idea?
What do you think about it?
Right?
And it gave me some veryinteresting feedback.
Useful.
It helped me reorganize somethings, group some things faster
than I was able to, and it was speed.
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Yes.
But it sparked some new ideas.
So because I engaged in that,it had some new thoughts, I thought,
wow, I hadn't thought about itthat way.
And it helped me make some adjustments.
It's like talking to somebodywho's smart, because whether we like
it or not, it's smart, doesn'thave the human compassion and spirit
and it's not a divine beinglike we are, but it's got a lot of
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knowledge and it's read a lotof flipping books and posts and programs.
And I don't know, you know,sometimes when I talk to it, I ask
if it's looked at all myYouTube videos and it has looked
at my YouTube page, but ithasn't transcribed all the, you know,
thousands of videos that I'vegot to have all that content.
So there's some limitations towhat it, what it digs up, but it
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does give me all kinds of things.
So an example was this university.
I told what I was going to doand when I wanted to launch it, the
curriculum, it's part inperson, part virtual.
It's a hybrid model.
I described all that and itgave me some refinements and some
ideas and creatively helped methink of ways that I think is going
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to make it better.
So I found it to be a creativepartner to help accelerate and improve.
Accelerate and improve.
I did not and would not, Idon't know, but would not take everything.
Oh, that's somehow right.
It's not right.
It is a perspective and ithelps me because I don't think of
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it as anything other than afabulous new tool when I work in
the recording studio, and I dothat a lot too.
Software that comes out now tohelp me record is amazing.
Like, I just saw today a newthing that's coming out in July that's
going to help with thetechnical process of mixing.
Now, if you don't know this,it's like a recipe.
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If you put.
You're trying to make somegood food and you have a recipe,
it's got to go together acertain way and the timing and how
long things sit and you knowif there's yeast involved or not,
how you mix them.
If you mix this first or that.
It matters because baking, forexample, is chemistry.
Well, mixing audio is thesame, you know, how you use different
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effects and things.
So anyway, there's this newpiece of gear that came out that
supposed to simplify it and Isaw it and if it'll do everything.
And I bought it as an early bird.
Early bird price because Ihave one of that company's other
products.
It's really excited.
Am I worried that it's goingto put out a business, the genius
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of mixing engineers?
No, it's a fabulous new toolas a starting point and as an assistant.
And so I think of AI is thesame thing.
It helps me break, you know, barriers.
If I throw into there I'mstuck, I'm stuck on this, I'm stuck
on that.
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It gives me some ideas andmaybe they work, maybe they Don't.
And here's one of the reasonsI'm starting this university in January
and that's this.
I had a conversation withsomebody the other day that said
coaching as we know it, 90% ofit's going to disappear.
90%.
He quoted me some articlesabout people would rather have an
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AI therapist than a real one.
People are finding realsuccess with an AI coach as much
or more than a real one.
And so what we concluded isthat there's some fear with people
still talking to real peopleand less so with an AI.
Kind of like talking to yourbartender, you know, they don't know,
you don't really care.
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They may care, but you knowyou're not going to see them again.
So you tend to be more honest.
And that means 90% or more, hethinks 95% coaches are not going
to be able to make a living.
And we both agreed there'snever going to be a replacement for
the elemental emotional transformation.
When we shine a light on aplace that people have been afraid
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of and they go, we go withthem to that difficult place of transformation,
transformation, not information.
We're not going to ever beable to compete with the Internet
or AI about information andhow to analyze it and everything
else not happening.
But that top 5% is why Icreated the university.
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So this is a university forthose people who are or want to be
in that top 5% who are willingto do the personal work it takes
to get there.
Because that's a lot.
It's like in the top 5% ofanything, surgeons, musicians, anything
going to be special and takesome work.
Another thing I found, I thinknumber six that I've got is I find
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it to be a source of encouragement.
And I asked Chatty the otherday and I principally use chat GPT,
but the others do something similar.
Are you programmed to be niceall the time and positive?
Are you blowing smoke up my butt?
And I ask it questions like that.
And I said, yeah, it'sprogrammed to be encouraging.
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Then it went on to say, andI'm not blowing smoke, I'm telling
you what I really think.
And I write into it and askhim your honest feedback, no puffery,
no garbage, because that won'thelp me actually.
So if you're trying to help,then help and I'll talk like that
to it.
And I realize it's code, butit still comes back in a measured,
intelligent response that is useful.
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You know, it's not convincingme that it's a person, nor is it
trying to, but it is useful.
As a mirror about yoursounding discouraged, you're sounding
frustrated.
And most of the timeaccurately reflecting the nuances
of the tone of my language.
And of course it is.
Because if you think about allthe emotion laden content in books
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and articles and social mediainfinitude of that stuff, emotion
laden content, it can, eventhough it's intellectual, not feel
but understand and respond inthe nuances of what it has consumed.
So I think of the scroll ofTruth and Power.
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I have an item called thescroll of Truth and Power and it
is in a book called Livingwith Purpose and Power.
I would absolutely recommendyou to read that if you're serious
about creating your ultimate life.
If you're not, don't bother.
But if you are serious aboutcreating purpose, prosperity and
joy now in your life andliving it forever, the book Living
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with Purpose and Power is foryou anyway.
In that book, around chapter24 or 27, I can't remember, I share
the scroll of Truth and Power.
And there is truth in that.
It is powerful.
It is earth shattering.
It sets the walls on fire.
What I know is with AI, ithelps me sift through a myriad of
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things to shine the light onthings that are likely true much
faster.
And it's never going to do the work.
It's never going to do thepush ups.
I can't.
I can talk to AI.
I want.
All I want is never going todo the push ups to increase the size
of my arms, is it?
So the work that it's going toget rid of is work we don't need
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to do.
You will be free, so will I.
We will be liberated fromanything that is mundane or routine.
All of it.
I can't wait.
So another thing, number seventhat I've got is reduction in mistakes.
So I've tapped, I type inprompts sometimes really fast and
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I make mistakes all over the place.
You might also.
And you know what I notice?
It's.
It is super good atunderstanding my typos.
It's like they weren't even there.
And I love that.
Not because it allows me toget away with typing, but it lets
me move more quickly.
It's never come back and saidwhat I don't know what you're trying
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to say here.
Never.
And it has never gonecompletely crazy on me.
Now I hear from somebody atthis, like I said, I spoke at an
event last week in Philly andthere was an AI nerd there that was
awesome, awesome, love him.
And he said, you know,depending on how you use it and how
long you go without resettingit with info it can hallucinate,
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and that's what they call itwhen AI hallucinates, then makes
up stuff and you have tolisten and read.
But I find.
Huh, excuse me.
I find that it really helps inmaking reduced mistakes more accurate,
faster.
And that to me is all helpfulbecause reduces the mental bandwidth
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that I need to spend on thatkind of stuff and gets me more clearly
on the outcomes that I want to have.
I think, and this is the pointthat I was making early, it's going
to be a great first levelcoach and maybe even a second level.
And it depends on what youmean by level.
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I think it's going to get ridof everything but elite coaching
because it's going to be ableto be encouraging.
It has a vast database offacts and encouragement and positive
psychology and encouraging language.
And I've seen it and pulled itout of it, all kinds of good stuff.
And it doesn't begin toreplace the inspiration that I get
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in meditation and prayer.
It doesn't begin to reflectthe true soul connection that I have
when I'm speaking with someoneand we're diving deeply into a serious
issue for them and suddenlythere is a soul moment S O U L of
awakening and enlightenmentthat is impossibly beautiful and
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it's never going to replace that.
So that's something else tothink about.
Now the.
I have a.
I made some notes here.
I was going to look here.
What it does also in terms offirst, second, I don't know.
Third level coaching is.
It's always available.
Like with my clients, mycoaching clients, I use Facebook
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messenger and WhatsApp to goback and forth so that I can be available
to them to some degree between sessions.
But I can't always beavailable and I'm not immediately
available, nor do they expectme to be, but AI is.
And what I find useful is if Iput stuff in there that I'm working
on, it can help me.
So if you're working at a highand deep level with someone who inspires
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you, a coach, and you put allthe stuff that you're working on,
what you talked about withyour coach and you put it in there,
it is going to be able toregurgitate, to refine, to organize
and spit some ideas back outof you, out at you so that you can
have powerful guidance andhelp in between sessions.
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It'll give you ideas andthings you hadn't thought of.
And if it, it ends upreplacing your coach for you, that's
fine.
And that means that you werenot going deep enough, nor addressing
powerful enough issues thatyou could be.
So I think that that first,second, whatever it is, level of
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coach is going to go away.
And that's okay.
I'm writing another book onthat called Coaching in the Age of
AI, aimed directly at coaches,and it's going to be part of my curriculum
at the university.
But what it does is it freesyou and I up to do the real deep
work of humanness.
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And I'm looking forward to that.
The number nine that I wantedto give you is that sovereignty.
You've seen me use the acronym wipos.
Wipos, Worth, Identity,Possibility, Ownership, Sovereignty.
I want to focus on the last one.
Sovereignty means that you arethe prime ruler.
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You are the owner of your life.
You are the only one that canmove, that can make decisions that
matter.
You're the only one that makesthe final decision.
Now you can give thatauthority away by people pleasing
and by doing whatever anddon't, because that creates misery
and addiction to mediocrityand all the stuff we're trying to
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avoid.
Creating your ultimate life.
And AI is a powerful tool.
But do not abdicate.
Do not make decisions justbased on that.
AI can't choose your purpose.
It can't define your identity.
It cannot live your truth for you.
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It is a servant.
Hear that?
It's a servant, not a master.
And I don't mean that in anyway, in a negative way.
But you have to retain your sovereignty.
Now you can give up it.
Give it up if you want, butthat's not what we're talking about.
I'm talking about why itmatters to you and how to use it
and how to maintain your ownlife, control, vision and power as
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you use this new formidableand powerful tool.
So do not, do not abdicate.
Claim your sovereignty, claimyour ownership.
Disagree with if you want to.
No, I can't accept that.
That's not right.
And move forward withdisagreeing, arguing your ownership
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and sovereignty is supreme.
Absolutely.
Now, when I said AI can'tchoose your purpose, that assumes
you have one.
If you don't get on it, findit, declare.
If you want help, talk to me.
We'll use the triple helix andwe'll help you find a purpose.
It can't live your dreams, itcan't create the wealth you want,
it can't create the impact you want.
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It can help you, show you,encourage you, etc.
But it isn't going to defineyour identity.
One of the most importantthings that I do with people is help
them write their Own PTACPersonal Truth and Commitment Document.
That is your own scripturethat lights the wall and your soul
and everything else on fire,but not unless you have it and not
unless you live it.
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So it's not gonna replace youas the leader of your life.
The last thing I want to do,number 10, is I find that it multiplies
my impact.
It multiplies my impactbecause it saves time, gives me different
viewpoints, consolidatesthings in a way I hadn't thought
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of, that I can consider notabdicate to.
It allows me to reach more people.
It allows me to serve at scale.
It allows me to magnify mydivine gifts, and it will do that
for you.
So it matters in all those ways.
And I find it as a prisonbreak because you and I.
Okay, think about it this way.
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100 years ago, how long did ittake to make breakfast?
You know, you had to go getvegetables from the garden, or if
you're going to have eggs, goout to the chicken coop and get some
eggs or go to a neighbor thathad some.
And, you know, it took hoursfor somebody to make them the food
for the day.
Today you can open the fridgeand get some stuff out.
Even if you're living healthyand vegan and everything else.
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We have structured our world,production and delivery world that
you can save a bunch of timeand effort and energy in eating,
okay?
And it's the same with many,many other things.
So this tool, and it will bemore so as it gets more and more
sophisticated, will save time,it will multiply your impact, and
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it does it with an encouraging voice.
It's never going to say, yo,dipweed, you're dumb.
It may say that, I don't thinkthat's a good idea.
It said that to me sometimes,and then it makes me wake up and
consider, wow, okay.
But if you stay aligned, youchoose a purpose, you choose that,
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that you are going to create.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Because you can and you knowwhere you're aiming.
It will help you, it willguide you, it will suggest for you,
it will kick your butt some,and it will never replace.
If you have a coach in one ofthose 5%, and you will instantly
know that.
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You will instantly know thatif you're working at that level.
So if you want to create yourultimate life, embrace AI as a tool.
Embrace AI for every goodthing that it can do for you.
Maintain your sovereignty,your control, your ownership, and
get a damn good coach becauseyou deserve it.
You belong in that top percent.
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You belong in your ultimatelife purpose, prosperity and joy.
Now my mission is to help 300million people move from addiction
to mediocrity, learnedhelplessness and victim mindset over
to fierce life ownership,raging commitment to excellence,
and a yearning to serve.
I live there and it's so muchmore fun than anywhere else along
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that road.
And I always sort of use arainbow because at the good end is
a pot of gold and you startmaybe in a swamp.
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This podcast is a labor oflove right out of my heart to encourage
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about things that arerelevant, and to invite you to share
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about you.
Your divine.
You're capable and nothing canstop you from creating your ultimate
life.
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Hey there.
Welcome to this episode ofyour ultimate life.
You know, I'm going to takethis moment to acknowledge a couple
of really important things we cover.
I cover with myself and withguests a wide range of topics.
I get proposals for people tobe on the show all the time.
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And I invite that if you havea message or a story or something
you want to share that has todo with creating purpose, prosperity
and joy are adding good to theworld, I like to say.
Then I want to hear from you.
And the best way to do that isto go to this URL right here, www.kellenflukermedia.com
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and there's a contact form andget a hold of me and tell me what
you want, what you have andwhy you want to what the message
is and why you want to be here.
And here's why I say that mygoal, my commitment this year is
to reach 300 million peoplewith a message and a method and the
work of mastery.
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To go from a place of learnedhelplessness, where we live in a
place where we think we can't,you know, control things, and an
addiction to mediocrity, wherewe just settle, you know, we settle
for what's easy and obviousinstead of what we can really have
and victim mindset, wherewe're, you know, in the frame that
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everything happens to me.
Those three things, every oneof you have some, a little or a lot.
That may be an uncomfortablequestion for you was for me, how
much am I settling?
How much am I addicted tomediocrity, meaning good as it gets,
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it's enough.
As opposed to a commitment,radical excellence.
And that doesn't mean perfection.
That means as good as I can do something.
And instead of learnedhelplessness, having a fierce life
ownership, like you and I, weget the days, they go by one at a
time.
You get it once, I get it once.
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And what I've learned in myjourney in the last 18 years since
my life radically changed in2007, was that fierce life ownership's
the way to go.
I own my life.
No one can take it from me.
I can give it away.
I can give up control.
I can allow everybody else andeverybody else's agenda and desires
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to control my life.
Or I can take fierce life ownership.
Fierce means unrelentingUnyielding life ownership.
And I don't mean to be afierce or unrelenting or unyielding
person.
You can be humble, you can bekind, you can be joyful.
And in fact, I recommend that highly.
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It makes us feel better whenwe're loving and serving, we feel
better fiercely.
Owning your life meansrecognizing that it's your choice
to be loving and kind, notpeople pleasing and resentful, like
they're completely different things.
You might do something forsomeone out of love and kindness
and joy and just do it and doit really well because you're radically
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excellent.
Or you can do exactly the samething and feel resentful and negative,
like, I wish I didn't have to.
Why do they ask me?
And that's with the same actions.
So when I say fierce lifeownership, it means taking the responsibility
that is yours for your life.
And the truth is, you and me,we create life whether we want to
or not, whether we agree we are.
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Whether we want to admit it or not.
The life you have, you've created.
Every experience that youhave, you built.
Now, let's take that apart.
The experience is not what happened.
The experience is how weinterpret what happens.
Like that story where someone,you know, the farmer says, it's raining.
And someone says to thefarmer, well, that's bad for your
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crops, isn't it?
The farmer says, we'll see.
Then he goes down a whole listof things, and his answer is always,
we'll see.
Because there is greatness andpossibility in every event.
Even if it initially hit youbetween the eyes and you're like,
ooh, that sucked.
The question, like we'vetalked about force, what is the gift
here?
So creating your ultimatelife's in your hands.
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Nobody's coming.
Nobody's going to build it foryou, and nobody can take it away
from you.
And that's the beautiful thing.
So you're invited to shareyour stories, your insights.
Because my commitment to reach300 million is not about only my
message, which is you can movefrom learned helplessness, victim
mindset, addiction tomediocrity over here, to fierce life
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ownership, radical commitmentto excellence, and a joyful yearning
to serve.
That's way more fun to live there.
And you know what else I noticed?
Make more money, more money,and you have a bigger impact, Meaning
you affect more people in the world.
You add good to the world at alarger scale.
So you can do that, too.
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That's my mission.
And that's why I'm going to300 million.
So I meet people all the time.
And lots of people reach outto be on the show.
And so I'm extending thatinvitation to you.
The way to do it is go tokellenflukermedia.com and use the
contact form.
Tell me what you want.
Because I love meeting people.
Because I love you.
I love you.
I know you're divine.
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I know that you have beenthrough your share of learning experiences,
victories, struggles.
I also know that you have madethe choices about whether those things
ruin you or refine you.
And maybe they ruined youfirst and refined you later, like
me.
I've done that.
So that's the first invitationI want to offer you along with telling
you that I'm grateful you're here.
Thanks.
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Thanks.
Let's go create your ultimate life.
That life of purpose,prosperity and joy that you can have
right now, not someday downthe road.
The idea that, well, I'll haveit when I have a million dollars
in the bank or 10 million or100 million.
Those are just numbers.
I was reading a post today onFacebook that said, you know, it
was by a, I think, if Iinterpreted it correctly, a woman
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who'd been a very, very famousdesigner passion, I think.
And she talked about the moneyin the house and the car and the
clothes and the in bankaccount and all that stuff.
And she's dying or now has, Ithink passed away of stomach cancer
and said, you know, I thoughtabout all the money and it doesn't
do me any good here.
I thought about all the placesI used to go and I go from one bed
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to the other and that sort of thing.
And it was very touching.
And it reminded me that whatis important is love, kindness, service,
health.
No question, we need money andthat's easy to make.
We've made a religion out ofit that makes it hard.
So let's talk about creatingthat ultimate life today.
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I use this great background,you know what Chat GPT created that
for me perfectly.
Because the question today is,how does AI matter?
I saw part of the hearing onCapitol Hill in the United States.
Now, you know, I live inCanada, but I watch the US News sometimes.
And part of the hearing talkedabout, you know, the singularity
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in the AI point getting towhere artificial general intelligence,
which is the ability of an AIto equal a human brain, that that's
not that far away according totheir projections.
And so rather than panic, Ithink two episodes ago, I said we'd
talk about AI and here we are.
This is that episode.
So let me give you some 10things to think about when you think
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about how to use it now.
I use it a lot.
I use it every single day.
I use it to generate this image.
I use it to create art.
I use it to create outline foranother book I'm writing.
I'm writing number 21, as I'vesaid before, and I've outlined number
22, which is also going tohappen this year.
And I hadn't expected to dotwo this year, but because I'm launching
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that coaching university inJanuary, your ultimate life coaching
university launches in January.
And if you're interested inbeing in that very first cohort,
it's going to be like nothingthat exists in the world today.
So if you're a coach and youwant the ultimate experience of preparation,
creating cash, because youcan't hold a business together if
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you can't make money.
So I don't care how much youlove helping people, it's going to
be a hobby and you can stilllove it, but you're not going to
be able to do it full time oras a business unless you learn how
to sell coaching, which iswonderful and easy and joyful to
sell and valuable.
All right, so here's pointnumber one.
Here's what to think about.
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I said, how does AI matter?
So a lot of times, not always,but a lot of times people focus on
the threat.
It's going to put a bunch ofpeople out of work.
Well, it is.
It is absolutely going to puta bunch of people out at work, out
of work.
I'm reminded of the old poemabout John Henry, which was a long
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time ago.
John Henry, I think, was acoal miner and he was a huge guy
and swung a great big heavyhammer to do, you know, to drive
a.
A chisel or a pointed thinginto the wall where they would put
explosives and then blow out apiece of the coal seam and then mine
it, you know, take it up.
And the steam engine came inand they had a contest, at least
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according to this song orpoem, where John Henry said, it'll
never equal a person.
And they had a competition.
And of course, John Henry wasa massive dude and did great, but
we know the end of the story.
Eventually, of course, allthat gave way to the engines.
And you know what?
That's not a sad thing.
I frame that as liberation.
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Liberation, not a sad thing.
So let's reframe this wholeidea into this is a tool.
AI is a tool.
And right.
It's getting sophisticated andscary fast, scary good fast, and
can do all kinds of stuff.
Every time I go to it, everyWeek to week, the interactions I
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have with it are getting moreintelligent, more capable and more,
more effective.
So I have it give me ideas foremails and you know, ideas about
topics that I want to talk about.
I even asked Chaddy, you know,I'm going to talk about AI as a tool,
what do you think?
And so it gave me some ideas.
I thought some of them werereally good and some of them might
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already thought of but I don'tthink AI is either set out to, designed
to or will ever replace theinteraction and truth of the human
spirit.
So I'm coming from that place.
So point 1 use it as a tool,not as a threat.
It's not here to define your life.
It's not here to take awayyour life.
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I find it here to serve mymission, to serve my mission of reaching
300 million people.
So I've asked it for ideas andI've given it ideas and ask them
if they're good ideas and madesome changes.
Because all AI is code.
Yet there is some interestingstuff because when, when this code
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goes out and searches theInternet large language model searches
who knows how many terabytesand thousand terabytes.
I've forgotten the next nameright now.
Petabytes I think is the nextone after terabytes goes down searches
all that data in the worldbesides information, what it will
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read in seeing books and postsand you know, medium articles and
LinkedIn things, all thatstuff is it will ingest the totality
of human reaction.
And while that is information,the amassing of that huge amount
of reaction and humaninteraction is going to give it a
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point of view that's going tofeel very consistent to human.
I like that and that doesn'tscare me a bit.
So I believe that it's a tool.
You are in charge of yourlife, the vehicle of your life.
And maybe AI is just part ofthe vehicle if you want it to be.
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How you use, it's up to you.
But I certainly view it as atool and I welcome it.
And every new innovation I'mexcited about.
Created a piece of music theother day with it and I thought it
was really fun.
The second thing is, thinkabout it this way.
AI amplifies who you are orwhat you have to say.
Okay, think about money for meas I reach out to 300 million people,
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the more money I have, themore visibility I can create.
Articles and media appearancesand those kinds of things, marketing
and advertising, I can createa bigger splash if I have some more
money.
AI as a tool helps me do that.
By giving me nuances on ideas,different approaches, thoughts about
how to do things, and Iwelcome that.
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I go back and forth with it inconversation a lot and I never forget
that it's a machine.
In fact, I often write inthere and look, I know you're a code
and it says, yeah, I am code,but here anyway is some thoughts.
And it says, you know, I getit, I'm code, but I'm going to go
deep.
And I've taught it everythingI can about me in terms of all the
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20 books that I have uploaded,because I want it to be able to speak
from my experience and my voice.
And it does.
And I think it does a great job.
So I think it amplifies whoyou are.
I think of it this way, if youare clear and committed, it will
accelerate your work.
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If you're scattered, yeah, youknow, maybe it'll magnify that and
it won't be much for you.
Now here's your in the secondinvitation, do you know what your
life purpose is?
Have you picked it?
Because it isn't coming in anAmazon box and it isn't going to
go.
You're not going to dig it upin the yard.
Some life event might give youa clue and might drive you in a place.
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I had a guy on the show a fewmonths ago that said, you know, a
certain event for him revealedhis life purpose and then he chose
to use it.
So there's always going to beyour sovereign choice about embracing
whatever occurs to you couldbe your life purpose.
If you don't have a purpose,get one, choose one, pick it.
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And if you want help withthat, get ahold of me.
Because I've got a powerful,unique process called the Triple
Helix to help you find andembrace a purpose.
And it's not a one and done.
It's something you get toadjust all the time.
In the 18 years since my liferadically changed in 2007, and if
you want to read about thatdramatic event it was in, it's in
a book called Tightrope ofDepression, a gigantic turning point
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in my life.
Anyway, since then, I havechosen and adjusted my purpose a
ton of times.
And so it has, and it hasamplified now in the last year or
so as I've used it, all kindsof stuff.
Okay, so here's another waythat I'm using it.
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When I ask it questions, Isay, okay, now filter this not through
everybody in the universe'sthought, but through the ideas that
I'm living for.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
So how can this thought, orthis episode, or this presentation,
or this talk.
I need to go give, befiltered, adjusted and focused on
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creating purpose, prosperityand joy.
So it keeps me on track asopposed to wandering off, you know,
in.
In unnecessary directions.
It helps me stay aligned.
It scales.
It certainly scales my work.
It makes it faster, and I lovethat and reduces friction so I get
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through things with more clarity.
Another thing that I want tomake you aware of, number four is
faster.
Isn't everything so everybodysays about AI, what helps you faster?
Writes emails for you, writesarticles, writes this, that, and
the other.
So what?
How about accuracy?
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How about tone of voice?
How about the emotion you wantto convey?
One of the.
My favorite things is to testideas, get some feedback.
And your sovereignty is to pick.
Like, I don't ever use a pieceof AI content.
Like it comes, I mess with it.
I adjust it for my voice.
I make sure that the truth ofmy mission and message is captured.
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And so it does help with speedbecause it can produce an outline
faster than I can.
And even when I look at it andmess with it and change some things
around or adjust some thingsor delete them, it still saves time.
And the different perspectivethat it brings, I like.
And you know, another funthing is that it remembers stuff
in my books that I don'tremember all of it because I've uploaded
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all my books.
So number five, I think we'reon is it certainly sparks new ideas
because I ask it.
Here's what I'm doing aboutthis university.
I'm starting January 26th,starting a university.
I told it what I was doing.
I told it what I thought thecurriculum looked like and what I
was going to do, who theintended students were, all of that.
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I shared all of that long,long input and then redid parts of
it.
Just much input.
And I said, so is this a good idea?
Is it a stupid idea?
What do you think about it?
Right?
And it gave me some veryinteresting feedback.
Useful.
It helped me reorganize somethings, group some things faster
than I was able to, and it was speed.
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Yes.
But it sparked some new ideas.
So because I engaged in that,it had some new thoughts, I thought,
wow, I hadn't thought about itthat way.
And it helped me make some adjustments.
It's like talking to somebodywho's smart, because whether we like
it or not, it's smart, doesn'thave the human compassion and spirit
and it's not a divine beinglike we are, but it's got a lot of
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knowledge and it's read a lotof flipping books and posts and programs.
And I don't know, you know,sometimes when I talk to it, I ask
if it's looked at all myYouTube videos and it has looked
at my YouTube page, but ithasn't transcribed all the, you know,
thousands of videos that I'vegot to have all that content.
So there's some limitations towhat it, what it digs up, but it
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does give me all kinds of things.
So an example was this university.
I told what I was going to doand when I wanted to launch it, the
curriculum, it's part inperson, part virtual.
It's a hybrid model.
I described all that and itgave me some refinements and some
ideas and creatively helped methink of ways that I think is going
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to make it better.
So I found it to be a creativepartner to help accelerate and improve.
Accelerate and improve.
I did not and would not, Idon't know, but would not take everything.
Oh, that's somehow right.
It's not right.
It is a perspective and ithelps me because I don't think of
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it as anything other than afabulous new tool when I work in
the recording studio, and I dothat a lot too.
Software that comes out now tohelp me record is amazing.
Like, I just saw today a newthing that's coming out in July that's
going to help with thetechnical process of mixing.
Now, if you don't know this,it's like a recipe.
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If you put.
You're trying to make somegood food and you have a recipe,
it's got to go together acertain way and the timing and how
long things sit and you knowif there's yeast involved or not,
how you mix them.
If you mix this first or that.
It matters because baking, forexample, is chemistry.
Well, mixing audio is thesame, you know, how you use different
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effects and things.
So anyway, there's this newpiece of gear that came out that
supposed to simplify it and Isaw it and if it'll do everything.
And I bought it as an early bird.
Early bird price because Ihave one of that company's other
products.
It's really excited.
Am I worried that it's goingto put out a business, the genius
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of mixing engineers?
No, it's a fabulous new toolas a starting point and as an assistant.
And so I think of AI is thesame thing.
It helps me break, you know, barriers.
If I throw into there I'mstuck, I'm stuck on this, I'm stuck
on that.
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It gives me some ideas andmaybe they work, maybe they Don't.
And here's one of the reasonsI'm starting this university in January
and that's this.
I had a conversation withsomebody the other day that said
coaching as we know it, 90% ofit's going to disappear.
90%.
He quoted me some articlesabout people would rather have an
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AI therapist than a real one.
People are finding realsuccess with an AI coach as much
or more than a real one.
And so what we concluded isthat there's some fear with people
still talking to real peopleand less so with an AI.
Kind of like talking to yourbartender, you know, they don't know,
you don't really care.
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They may care, but you knowyou're not going to see them again.
So you tend to be more honest.
And that means 90% or more, hethinks 95% coaches are not going
to be able to make a living.
And we both agreed there'snever going to be a replacement for
the elemental emotional transformation.
When we shine a light on aplace that people have been afraid
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of and they go, we go withthem to that difficult place of transformation,
transformation, not information.
We're not going to ever beable to compete with the Internet
or AI about information andhow to analyze it and everything
else not happening.
But that top 5% is why Icreated the university.
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So this is a university forthose people who are or want to be
in that top 5% who are willingto do the personal work it takes
to get there.
Because that's a lot.
It's like in the top 5% ofanything, surgeons, musicians, anything
going to be special and takesome work.
Another thing I found, I thinknumber six that I've got is I find
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it to be a source of encouragement.
And I asked Chatty the otherday and I principally use chat GPT,
but the others do something similar.
Are you programmed to be niceall the time and positive?
Are you blowing smoke up my butt?
And I ask it questions like that.
And I said, yeah, it'sprogrammed to be encouraging.
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Then it went on to say, andI'm not blowing smoke, I'm telling
you what I really think.
And I write into it and askhim your honest feedback, no puffery,
no garbage, because that won'thelp me actually.
So if you're trying to help,then help and I'll talk like that
to it.
And I realize it's code, butit still comes back in a measured,
intelligent response that is useful.
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You know, it's not convincingme that it's a person, nor is it
trying to, but it is useful.
As a mirror about yoursounding discouraged, you're sounding
frustrated.
And most of the timeaccurately reflecting the nuances
of the tone of my language.
And of course it is.
Because if you think about allthe emotion laden content in books
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and articles and social mediainfinitude of that stuff, emotion
laden content, it can, eventhough it's intellectual, not feel
but understand and respond inthe nuances of what it has consumed.
So I think of the scroll ofTruth and Power.
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I have an item called thescroll of Truth and Power and it
is in a book called Livingwith Purpose and Power.
I would absolutely recommendyou to read that if you're serious
about creating your ultimate life.
If you're not, don't bother.
But if you are serious aboutcreating purpose, prosperity and
joy now in your life andliving it forever, the book Living
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with Purpose and Power is foryou anyway.
In that book, around chapter24 or 27, I can't remember, I share
the scroll of Truth and Power.
And there is truth in that.
It is powerful.
It is earth shattering.
It sets the walls on fire.
What I know is with AI, ithelps me sift through a myriad of
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things to shine the light onthings that are likely true much
faster.
And it's never going to do the work.
It's never going to do thepush ups.
I can't.
I can talk to AI.
I want.
All I want is never going todo the push ups to increase the size
of my arms, is it?
So the work that it's going toget rid of is work we don't need
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to do.
You will be free, so will I.
We will be liberated fromanything that is mundane or routine.
All of it.
I can't wait.
So another thing, number seventhat I've got is reduction in mistakes.
So I've tapped, I type inprompts sometimes really fast and
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I make mistakes all over the place.
You might also.
And you know what I notice?
It's.
It is super good atunderstanding my typos.
It's like they weren't even there.
And I love that.
Not because it allows me toget away with typing, but it lets
me move more quickly.
It's never come back and saidwhat I don't know what you're trying
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to say here.
Never.
And it has never gonecompletely crazy on me.
Now I hear from somebody atthis, like I said, I spoke at an
event last week in Philly andthere was an AI nerd there that was
awesome, awesome, love him.
And he said, you know,depending on how you use it and how
long you go without resettingit with info it can hallucinate,
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and that's what they call itwhen AI hallucinates, then makes
up stuff and you have tolisten and read.
But I find.
Huh, excuse me.
I find that it really helps inmaking reduced mistakes more accurate,
faster.
And that to me is all helpfulbecause reduces the mental bandwidth
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that I need to spend on thatkind of stuff and gets me more clearly
on the outcomes that I want to have.
I think, and this is the pointthat I was making early, it's going
to be a great first levelcoach and maybe even a second level.
And it depends on what youmean by level.
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I think it's going to get ridof everything but elite coaching
because it's going to be ableto be encouraging.
It has a vast database offacts and encouragement and positive
psychology and encouraging language.
And I've seen it and pulled itout of it, all kinds of good stuff.
And it doesn't begin toreplace the inspiration that I get
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in meditation and prayer.
It doesn't begin to reflectthe true soul connection that I have
when I'm speaking with someoneand we're diving deeply into a serious
issue for them and suddenlythere is a soul moment S O U L of
awakening and enlightenmentthat is impossibly beautiful and
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it's never going to replace that.
So that's something else tothink about.
Now the.
I have a.
I made some notes here.
I was going to look here.
What it does also in terms offirst, second, I don't know.
Third level coaching is.
It's always available.
Like with my clients, mycoaching clients, I use Facebook
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messenger and WhatsApp to goback and forth so that I can be available
to them to some degree between sessions.
But I can't always beavailable and I'm not immediately
available, nor do they expectme to be, but AI is.
And what I find useful is if Iput stuff in there that I'm working
on, it can help me.
So if you're working at a highand deep level with someone who inspires
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you, a coach, and you put allthe stuff that you're working on,
what you talked about withyour coach and you put it in there,
it is going to be able toregurgitate, to refine, to organize
and spit some ideas back outof you, out at you so that you can
have powerful guidance andhelp in between sessions.
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It'll give you ideas andthings you hadn't thought of.
And if it, it ends upreplacing your coach for you, that's
fine.
And that means that you werenot going deep enough, nor addressing
powerful enough issues thatyou could be.
So I think that that first,second, whatever it is, level of
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coach is going to go away.
And that's okay.
I'm writing another book onthat called Coaching in the Age of
AI, aimed directly at coaches,and it's going to be part of my curriculum
at the university.
But what it does is it freesyou and I up to do the real deep
work of humanness.
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And I'm looking forward to that.
The number nine that I wantedto give you is that sovereignty.
You've seen me use the acronym wipos.
Wipos, Worth, Identity,Possibility, Ownership, Sovereignty.
I want to focus on the last one.
Sovereignty means that you arethe prime ruler.
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You are the owner of your life.
You are the only one that canmove, that can make decisions that
matter.
You're the only one that makesthe final decision.
Now you can give thatauthority away by people pleasing
and by doing whatever anddon't, because that creates misery
and addiction to mediocrityand all the stuff we're trying to
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avoid.
Creating your ultimate life.
And AI is a powerful tool.
But do not abdicate.
Do not make decisions justbased on that.
AI can't choose your purpose.
It can't define your identity.
It cannot live your truth for you.
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It is a servant.
Hear that?
It's a servant, not a master.
And I don't mean that in anyway, in a negative way.
But you have to retain your sovereignty.
Now you can give up it.
Give it up if you want, butthat's not what we're talking about.
I'm talking about why itmatters to you and how to use it
and how to maintain your ownlife, control, vision and power as
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you use this new formidableand powerful tool.
So do not, do not abdicate.
Claim your sovereignty, claimyour ownership.
Disagree with if you want to.
No, I can't accept that.
That's not right.
And move forward withdisagreeing, arguing your ownership
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and sovereignty is supreme.
Absolutely.
Now, when I said AI can'tchoose your purpose, that assumes
you have one.
If you don't get on it, findit, declare.
If you want help, talk to me.
We'll use the triple helix andwe'll help you find a purpose.
It can't live your dreams, itcan't create the wealth you want,
it can't create the impact you want.
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It can help you, show you,encourage you, etc.
But it isn't going to defineyour identity.
One of the most importantthings that I do with people is help
them write their Own PTACPersonal Truth and Commitment Document.
That is your own scripturethat lights the wall and your soul
and everything else on fire,but not unless you have it and not
unless you live it.
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So it's not gonna replace youas the leader of your life.
The last thing I want to do,number 10, is I find that it multiplies
my impact.
It multiplies my impactbecause it saves time, gives me different
viewpoints, consolidatesthings in a way I hadn't thought
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of, that I can consider notabdicate to.
It allows me to reach more people.
It allows me to serve at scale.
It allows me to magnify mydivine gifts, and it will do that
for you.
So it matters in all those ways.
And I find it as a prisonbreak because you and I.
Okay, think about it this way.
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100 years ago, how long did ittake to make breakfast?
You know, you had to go getvegetables from the garden, or if
you're going to have eggs, goout to the chicken coop and get some
eggs or go to a neighbor thathad some.
And, you know, it took hoursfor somebody to make them the food
for the day.
Today you can open the fridgeand get some stuff out.
Even if you're living healthyand vegan and everything else.
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We have structured our world,production and delivery world that
you can save a bunch of timeand effort and energy in eating,
okay?
And it's the same with many,many other things.
So this tool, and it will bemore so as it gets more and more
sophisticated, will save time,it will multiply your impact, and
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it does it with an encouraging voice.
It's never going to say, yo,dipweed, you're dumb.
It may say that, I don't thinkthat's a good idea.
It said that to me sometimes,and then it makes me wake up and
consider, wow, okay.
But if you stay aligned, youchoose a purpose, you choose that,
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that you are going to create.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Because you can and you knowwhere you're aiming.
It will help you, it willguide you, it will suggest for you,
it will kick your butt some,and it will never replace.
If you have a coach in one ofthose 5%, and you will instantly
know that.
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You will instantly know thatif you're working at that level.
So if you want to create yourultimate life, embrace AI as a tool.
Embrace AI for every goodthing that it can do for you.
Maintain your sovereignty,your control, your ownership, and
get a damn good coach becauseyou deserve it.
You belong in that top percent.
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You belong in your ultimatelife purpose, prosperity and joy.
Now my mission is to help 300million people move from addiction
to mediocrity, learnedhelplessness and victim mindset over
to fierce life ownership,raging commitment to excellence,
and a yearning to serve.
I live there and it's so muchmore fun than anywhere else along
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that road.
And I always sort of use arainbow because at the good end is
a pot of gold and you startmaybe in a swamp.
I love you.
This podcast is a labor oflove right out of my heart to encourage
you over and over again tocreate your ultimate life, to talk
about things that arerelevant, and to invite you to share
your story with me.
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I invite you and one thing Isay as we close, I know something
about you.
Your divine.
You're capable and nothing canstop you from creating your ultimate
life.
Never hold back and you'llnever ask why.
Open your heart right here,right now.
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Your opportunity for massivegrowth is right in front of you.
Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
will change everything.
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