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(00:02):
Welcome to the show.
Tired of the hype about livingthe dream?
It's time for truth.
This is the place for tools,power and real talk so you can create
the life you dream and deserveyour ultimate life.
Subscribe, share, create.
(00:24):
You have infinite power.
Hi there.
Welcome to your ultimate life.
This podcast dedicated onlyand solely to help you create a life
of purpose, prosperity and joythat you create by serving with your
gifts and talents.
Now, this is a different viewthan we normally have, and I did
it on purpose.
(00:45):
I'm going to give you severalviews here of the studio just to
show you a little bit abouthow all this works, because today's
episode is about movement,about mastery.
Remember, we did an episode onthe message, and I'm promising you
more episodes on the messagebecause the message is the fundamental
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power.
If you don't know where you'regoing, then all the tools in the
world won't help you.
So it's message, method, mastery.
Remember that message?
Method mastery.
That's for you, too.
Let's say you help me build a garden.
The message is, me, I suck atthat, but you're going to help me
build a garden.
And then the method would behow I can learn to do that.
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And the mastery would begetting good at it.
So I have that, too.
The message was a few episodesago, the method was a couple episodes
ago.
And today we're going to talkabout mastery.
How to go from mediocre to powerful.
How to get to be in mastery atwhatever you want.
So this gives you a picture.
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So here's the microphone thatyou're hearing.
This is the one.
There's an iPhone back there.
I'll show you the view therein a minute.
I've got camera over here thatI use sometimes.
And there it is.
And that's on this side.
Okay.
And it's just to give adifferent view.
You see the speakers thatwe've got?
And the final view that I'llshare with you is the one from the
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iPhone behind.
And this one is on WI fi.
So it takes a second to get in.
It's broadcast from the phone.
There you are, from the phonethrough the wi fi.
And so I've just put this upand you can see there the camera
that I use for the good one isright there.
(02:35):
And I use a dslr, a very, verygood camera with some really good
glass.
And that's why the episodesare so sharp.
Now we'll switch back to thenormal camera and get back to where
we are.
So there you can see theiPhone behind and the other two cameras
are here on the sides.
Now, why did I show you that?
What do you care?
Well, you know what?
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I'm really surprised at howmany people are interested in doing
their own kind of podcastingand content creation.
So I showed you that becausethis is an episode about mastery.
One of the things that youwould have noticed if I go back to
the thing with the wifi, soit's going to take a sec for me to
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appear.
You'll see behind the screensthere, I've got stuff on the walls
and that is called Sonax, andit's a sound, absorptive material
so that it sounds good and Idon't get a lot of echo or resonance
from the corner of the room.
Another thing that's fun is inthis view right here, which is this
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camera over here, you'llnotice a bunch of palm trees.
What is that?
Well, you know what that is?
You know what that is?
I'll show you how fun that is.
This.
It's actually the green screenthat's behind me, but I've used this
software to replace it with afunny palm tree picture that I have.
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That's the same software thatI use to create these kind of views.
My point in showing all thatwas mastery.
I have become a master at the visual.
You know, the camera thatyou're looking at me through is fabulous.
It's a good.
It's Canon and a good dslr,and I've always invest in really
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good glass, so it's always sharp.
I don't like, you know, out offocus or fuzzy or pixelated stuff.
And it's not really necessary anymore.
You can do powerful, goodcontent with good gear, and it's
not that difficult.
So I'm surprised, I guess Iwon't even say surprised anymore
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at the number of people thatreally want to do podcasting.
I just talked to somebody theother day this week that's just starting
a podcast.
They've got two or threeepisodes, and they wanted to know
all about how I do this andhow I do that.
And it was fun and powerful toshare all that with you, with them.
Now, remember, we're talkingabout message method mastery.
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And there I didn't even havemy last light on to get the face
lighted properly.
I had it turned off because Iwas looking at something down there.
Anyway, message.
You're divine, you're capable.
If you're interested in doingthe work, you can find a very powerful
offering to the world to makeall kinds of cash, add good to the
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world, and create the Life youwant purpose, prosperity and joy.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Do you have a life purpose?
Does it drive you?
Does it light you up?
Every time I do one of theseepisodes, I at least mention 300
million.
I'm working to get 300 millionpeople to understand the message
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of WIPOs.
Your worth, your identity,your possibility, the ownership and
sovereignty that you have ofyour life.
90% of people don't takeadvantage of that.
Sort of live in this response mode.
You don't have to be one.
My purpose is to help 300million people own that and do something
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with it.
If you want help.
Kellenflueckegermedia.com thatURL that's on the screen is a contact
form.
Reach out.
That's all I'm doing ishelping people.
Beautiful, fabulous peoplelike you take advantage of their
personal gifts and talents.
Now I've got this littleglitch and it's already glitched
twice.
(06:34):
I don't know what's going.
Three times.
I don't know what's going onwith that.
I reset everything and I'mjust not going to worry about it.
I'm going to go ahead andrecord this episode and it'll glitch.
Sometimes it reminds me of theold Max Headroom program that used
to be on, I don't know, Ithink it was in the 80s and about
a guy that got sucked up intoa computer.
So let's get right to it today.
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Mastery.
Mastery.
Mastery.
If you have a message, then Iinvite you to come on the show.
I invite you to get a hold of me.
Kellenfluecigermedia.com let's talk.
Let me understand what yourmessage is.
Because one of the things Ilove as much as anything about my
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work, my mission is to helpyou get your message crystallized,
powerful and available.
Many people say to me, I knowI love helping people.
I say how well I help.
Be their best self.
That's pablum.
That's nothing in what area?
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And it always comes from theirlife story, their life events.
I just talked to somebody theother day who really works with women
who are exiting narcissisticrelationships where they've been
abused emotionally andsometimes otherwise.
And therefore they're anexpert at that.
They had that, they'veexperienced it, they got over it,
they learned, they got past it.
And now they offer that help.
I have a guy that's a cancersurvivor many, many years, couple
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of decades, he offers that help.
I have a guy that loves toform non help people, form nonprofits
and do Fundraising, it comesfrom his own passion.
So the gift that you have,that you're best at isn't some weird
thing you're gonna go find inthe Amazon.
It's going to be what's inyour life.
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What have you experienced,what have you gone through that makes
you committed to do a thing?
Me, I've struggled withdepression, mental illness, addictions,
self sabotage, trashing mylife over and over again, sabotaging
careers, failing it threetimes at marriage.
And now I've created theultimate life.
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We just celebrated our 17thwedding anniversary.
I'm planning on 17,000 moreyears with an eternal companion,
wonderful, happy joy.
So I've learned that I used tostruggle living other people's lives,
their story, what they saidthey wanted, etc.
No more.
No more.
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So I'm a master at that now.
I've written 20 books.
I'm just starting number 21.
Not just starting, beenworking on it for a little bit and
I'm a master at that.
I can help you do that.
I've created many, manyproducts, info products, online products,
how to products.
I can help you do that.
I create and sell them regularly.
So I add good to the worldusing my life experience and the
(09:31):
gifts that I have.
And now my passion is to helpyou do that.
Because you're just as smartas I am, you're just as capable,
your story matters as much andyou can help people just like I can.
Now my journey has brought meto the place where I'm saying 300
million people.
And people say to me, what thefrick, 300 million?
It's not just 300 million.
300 million this year.
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I have a client right now who,when we started working together,
he was depressed.
He considered sometimes endinghis life, thought he'd never get
ahead, had terriblerelationships, you know, just did,
you know, laundry list of stuff.
And today he is powerful,capable, and he and some business
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partners are getting ready toapproach within the next year or
two, probably two, a $400million buyout of his company.
Now, I don't know about you,but can you imagine?
Why can't that be you?
He isn't any smarter thananybody else.
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$400 million buyout.
And it isn't that cash is theanswer to everything, because it's
not.
But purpose, prosperity andjoy is yours.
And here's what it takes.
It takes the message.
It takes you accepting themessage that you are worthy, you're
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worth it, you're a divine being.
That is your identity.
You're that you can't evenchange that no matter what you do,
and because you're a divinebeing, your possibilities are infinite.
And the next piece is you ownyour life.
You own it unless you give itaway, that is.
That was a hard one for me tolearn because I believed for many
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years, decades, that my onlyredemption came from doing what somebody
told me to do.
My parents.
And I believed him.
So I did that.
That was my mission.
My duty is to make them happy,to live the way they imagined.
Well, whether they meant itbadly or not doesn't even matter.
They have no idea who I am.
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And I, you know, who I am andwhat I really want to and can do.
And that is a failing thatmany parents make.
My.
My blessed wife that I'mmarried to now.
She happens and I don't thinkthere's any accidents that she was
raised this way and then I gotto be.
I had the ultimate absoluteprivilege of her saying yes to marrying
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me.
She was raised in a familywhere whatever she wanted to do was
encouraged.
And she's done all kinds of stuff.
She's had half a dozen careers.
She worked at Disney World,she's a makeup artist, she's a degree
designer.
She designed computer orwebsites and learned computer programming,
studied architecture, traveledthrough Europe and a bunch at many
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times.
And no, they weren't rich insilver spoons.
She earned it all.
She paid her way throughcollege painting silk scarves, silk
painting which she learnedfrom a Japanese kimono painting master.
I'd never experienced anythinglike that until suddenly to touch,
to be with someone who hasthat and understands it and can model
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that for me, liberated me.
And I'm about liberating you.
If that's a struggle.
People are stuck behind theidea that they're no good.
They got nothing to offer.
Their story doesn't matter.
Jihoo would listen to me.
That's just absolute nonsense.
It's nonsense.
I love you to pieces.
It's nonsense.
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Your gift to the world is asimportant as mine.
Are you using it?
Are you using it?
Think about that and sit on it.
So that's the message.
The message is your worth,your identity, your possibility,
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your ownership, right?
And your sovereignty.
You own your life and nobodycan tell you what to do with it.
Now there are circumstanceswhere you're struck with an illness,
so externalities force you orme to do something.
You know my story about dyingand being in a hospital for a month
and taking two years to learnto walk again in recovery.
(13:51):
And six and a half years nowlater, my lungs still aren't recovered
and I Was told they probablynever will fully recover.
So I have that.
I now have some arthritis inmy right leg and so forth.
So I use a cane sometimes.
Those are simply parts of the boundary.
It's like saying I used to be6ft and a half, 6ft 1 half inch tall
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and now I'm 5, 11 and a half,I shrunk an inch.
Those are just externalities.
We all have them and we canchafe or we can work with them.
So in all love, I'm tellingyou, those are irrelevants.
Irrelevants.
Now, the method a coupleepisodes ago was all of the things
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that I said about listen toepisode 952.
I gave you 10 differentmethods to capitalize to identify
and capitalize on your giftsif you want to.
Now you're free to stay stuckwhere you are.
But the thing reason I'mpounding on this is because so many
people that I talk to, they'renot happy in their job, they don't
feel fulfilled and they havealready quit and they're out trying
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to do something and then theysay, I don't know what my purpose
is, I can't really find it.
Or I think I know what it is,but I don't know how to make any
money at it.
Or I'm afraid that book orthat story or that product has already
been made 15 times and nobodywill listen to mine.
You know what?
Standard stuff, not true.
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Not true for you and not truefor anybody else that says it.
You're unique and you'repowerful and the only thing that
matters is you deciding to getoff your butt and go get it done.
And my specialty, my absolutegenius, world class specialty, is
to help you identify yourmessage, figure out how to serve
people with it, figure out howto find the people that need you,
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create the business in cash tomake it happen, and then joyfully
go get it done.
Yeah, so I'm starting a right now.
In fact, today or yesterday,in the next day or two, if you hear
this on the day of release,I'm starting a challenge.
I'm going to help people writea book, get the book published, get
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an Amazon bestseller, get aproduct created and learn how to
market it.
That's a six month workshop.
You want that?
Let's talkkellenfluecigermedia.com get the
contact form.
It's not too late.
Let's get on it.
If you don't want it, I'mokay, I love you, but do what you
want to do.
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No excuses.
No, I can't, it's too late.
I'm too old.
I don't have time.
It's not my season.
I'm too young.
I'm too not experienced enough.
Nobody cares.
I'm not interesting.
I don't know how to get onvideo like you do.
Kellen, it doesn't matter.
Okay?
I'm done with that.
We're talking today.
The third part is mastery.
So after you understand mymessage, which is that you're great
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and that you are destined tochange the world if you want to.
You and the methods.
I've given you a boatload inepisode 952.
The third episode is Mastery.
Mastery.
And here's what I know aboutmastering different things.
I have mastered studio work.
I create world class music.
And I know how to mix andmaster and get it out to the world.
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So I'm a master at that.
Okay?
I play the piano and havesince I'm five.
I'm a master at pianoperformance, a master accompanist,
a master composer, etc.
I've worked on vocals now withthe A list vocal coach for 10 years.
So I'm a master vocalist.
And I'm not saying that sayyay me.
I'm saying there are thingsthat you can, you already are, or
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you can master if you want to.
But let's talk about what it takes.
What does it take to be a master?
And I don't mean the best inthe universe, because who knows that
anyway?
That's all subjective, buteasily at mastery level.
So that you can make adifference in the world and make
money.
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Make a difference in the worldand make money and have more fun
than you can imagine.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Make a difference in the world.
Make money and have more funthan you can imagine.
Is that what you want?
I think so.
I'm challenging you to say yes.
I'm challenging you to get ahold of me.
Kellenfluecigermedia.com, usethe contact form.
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Let's talk.
One of the ways that I do thatis I have these guests that you've
seen, and I do that because Iwant to hear their stories.
And so do you, because you go,wow, if they can do it, maybe I can.
Cancer survivors and abusesurvivors and people that are visionaries
and book writers.
I just talked to another guythe other day who is creating a platform,
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a whole platform to helppeople understand a different way
to use their gifts to get goodat stuff.
I talked to another guy theother day, Sam, a few episodes ago.
He uses sound.
He makes sound with his voice.
And I Don't even know exactlyhow that works to heal trauma.
And he's good at it.
He's got testimonials runningout his ears.
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So there's all these thingsand you're one of them.
But mastery takes work.
So let me share.
You share with you the secretsof mastery.
The secrets of mastery.
Frustration isn't one of them.
Impatience isn't one of them.
Both of those are ones Ifought like hell with.
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I was impatient.
I wanted everything.
Now frustrated when thingsdidn't work as fast or as well as
I wanted those.
Ate my lunch over and flippingover and over again.
Tears, sad.
I'm not good enough.
It'll never happen.
Why the frick can't I find theright, this, that, and the other.
You know what?
The answer to those questionsdon't even matter.
It's like saying, why did Iget sick?
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I just.
I'm getting over a cold right now.
The very last stages of a cold.
It's messed me up for a week.
I couldn't practice.
I had to cancel my vocallesson on Tuesday with recording
this on a Saturday.
But then Tuesday, had tocancel my vocal lesson with my A
list Hollywood vocal coach.
Why?
Because I couldn't sing verywell and want to waste the time.
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Right.
Did it.
Did I want that?
Did I ask for it?
No, of course not.
So that all happens to all of us.
Frustration, setbacks,grumpiness, blah, blah, blah.
But you know what?
You know for sure?
You see that sunset going down?
I took this picture from anairplane way up high so you could
just barely see the last pieceof sun going down out the window
from the airplane.
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It's beautiful.
But you know, we know it'sgoing to come up in the morning.
I knew.
I know.
And so do you.
The sun's coming up in the morning.
So tomorrow, in 24 hours, Icould take that picture again if
I was in the same plane in thesame place, right?
It's going to be there.
So one of the things I want togive you is all the encouragement
and examples I can.
And I have dozens if you wantto know what they are.
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Let's talk.
So many people come and theysay to me, well, my particular thing
is so weird and so different.
This all won't work for me.
And that's bullshit.
How do you know?
I dare you to talk to me andlet's find out, because I know.
I've never had someone talk tome where we can't figure out passion,
prosperity, purpose,prosperity and joy.
We can figure it out.
I don't know if you're goingto do the work, right.
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To get the frameworks andtools and, you know, make the steps
to make it happen, that's upto you.
But the mastery part, here'swhat I needed.
I needed to make declarations.
I needed to decide, this iswho I am, this is what I'm going
to do.
And then I needed to create.
I call it a dcp.
Daily Creation Process.
It's way a million trilliontimes more powerful than a morning
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ritual.
Morning ritual is a clichething that lots of us used to do.
And we struggle.
Oh, I got to play it.
I can't.
If that's what you're doing, fine.
That's your morning ritual.
A daily creation process isintentional, focused.
You never skip it, and you doit on purpose.
Here's the funny part.
You're doing a daily creationprocess, whether you know you're
doing it or not.
Your daily creation processmight suck.
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It might leave you notenergized, powerful, focused, clear,
excited.
It may leave you barelyfunctioning or, you know, bunch of
coffee.
Okay, now, I could face theday kind of stuff.
That's not the way to have mastery.
So one of the most importantthings I learned and I now share
is how do you create yourselfso that you're on fire every day?
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Wouldn't that be nice?
Like, you've had days whereyou were super energized, super focused,
super, super successful, Right?
Of course you have.
What if you could have thatevery single day?
What if you could have it on demand?
What if you could have it evenduring the day when things went south
and you didn't have to say,well, I'll just tough today out?
Nope, tomorrow gets better.
No, what if you could justflip a switch and do a thing and
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get right back into the groove?
In flow, in focus?
Yeah.
What if you could do that?
Well, you can.
You.
Right here, right now.
Kellenfluecigermedia.com usethe contact form.
Let's talk.
Here are the secrets to mastery.
One you decide for sure.
You're going, I'm going tothat mountaintop.
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I am going to master my craft.
Now, mastery doesn't meanyou're going to be Michelangelo or
Leonardo da Vinci.
They were unique, but so are you.
Your version and method ofmastery is going to be yours.
And it's going to be just asgood as anyone else's for the right
people.
One of the things I had to learn.
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So I'm thinking, oh, mymessage will help everybody in the
universe.
I mean, if everybody in theworld understood that they were divine
and that they could createtheir own life.
Wouldn't that change the world?
And the fact is, maybe it would.
But my voice, my approach, mymessage, my method pushes some people
away because I'm a littlenoisy or the experiences of my background.
(23:31):
Sometimes when people find outI've been an addict and attempted
suicide years ago, but I did,it's like, oh, wow, okay, they're
not my people.
Somebody you maybe are therefor them.
I had somebody that I wasinterviewing for a podcast, and I'm
not going to say who the otherday, and they were talking about
forgiveness, and they talkedabout learning to forgive themselves.
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And then I asked, because Ialways do, and this is after the
show, you know, what kinds ofthings they were talking about, where
they had struggled and they'dlisted some, and to them it was very
serious.
But they had been married fordecades, one wife, very successfully,
and, you know, were worriedabout forgiving things that to me
seem important but small, andthey certainly are on the road to
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mastery.
No diminishing.
And I thought how blessed I was.
And I described to thisindividual some of the things that
I had to forgive myself for.
You know, suicide attempts,being a rotten dad, failing at three
marriages, just on and on and on.
And it could hardly speakbecause he hadn't actually thought
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about that level of.
Of forgiveness.
But you know what?
The God and creator of us allincludes all of it.
So I don't care where you've been.
Another principle of mastery.
It's never too late.
You have to start now.
Well, you don't have to do anything.
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You can start right now.
It doesn't matter where you've been.
It doesn't.
It is never too late to matterand have a big impact.
Now, another principle ofmastery is persistence.
You're going to have to keep going.
Everybody knows the story ofEdison and either 1,000 or 10,000
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efforts to make a light bulband said, I didn't fail a thousand
times.
I learned a thousand ways notto make a light bulb.
Okay?
It's how he chose to look at it.
Now you can say, well, he did that.
So he didn't feel terribleabout his failures.
No, he created the light bulb,period, end of story.
That we all use.
So Mic drop.
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So persistence is a principleof mastery.
To me, one of the mostimportant things is giving yourself
permission to go at it.
I had to overcome that.
I believed I sucked, andeverything that I'd done made it
too late, etc.
Permission goes right alongwith forgiveness.
Forgiveness means fixingwhatever you Can.
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And then dropping the energyof failure, Ending the energy of
failure, giving yourselfpermission to roll.
Probably the single mostimportant thing.
Well, there's two or three.
That vie for first place wasgetting good coaching.
No Olympic athlete ever got tothe podium without a coach.
No vocal performer ever gotwhere they were without a coach.
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Whether it's a formal coachingrelationship or an informal one,
There was a coaching container.
This is what I love.
I coach.
I coach high performers.
I coach people who havethumped their fist and said, I'm
going to that beautiful sunset.
I'm climbing that mountain.
I'm bringing that product,that book.
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My blood, sweat and tears isgoing to happen.
I'm that guy.
And the reason I'm the coachfor that guy is because that's me.
I have done that over all thedifficulties and broken glass and
struggles and everything.
Yeah.
Been there, done that successfully.
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I know what it is and what it takes.
And that's why I love it so much.
Because the liberation youfeel when you set some old fear aside,
when you stop believing insome old gobbledygook story, there's
nothing like it.
It's magnificent.
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You know what I'm talking about?
Magic.
Magic.
Beyond magic.
Well, you can have that.
It's yours.
I was just exchangingvoicemails with someone this morning
who wants to write a book, andthey're a little worried about writing
their own story becausethey're afraid, vulnerability.
Somebody's going to thinkthis, that, and the other.
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You know what?
Maybe they are.
There are ways to do all ofthat, that create the power for your
reader without pointingfingers and throwing stones at other
people that did whatever they did.
So I love you.
My yearning is to help youhear the message of your worth, your
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identity, your possibility,the ownership and the sovereignty
that you have over your lifeto find and adopt the methods, frameworks,
tools, processes to identifyand develop your gifts and the mastery
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I am in that work.
And I love it.
I've never done anything morefulfilling, more fun, more joyful
in my life.
Now I said finding a coach wasone of the most important things.
As a final thing, I'm going totalk about two other things.
Number one is in your dailycreation process.
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It has to be founded on something.
Okay.
Daily creation process.
If I don't know what my sportis in the Olympics, then my warmup
and my exercise routine isgoing to be random and.
Or useless.
Right.
If I'm going to be one ofthose Tour de France guys whose thighs
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are as big around as myshoulders, I have to know I'm going
to cycle.
If, on the other hand, I'mgoing to be a pole.
A pole vaulter, the exercisesfor the cyclist are completely wrong.
So you have to know whereyou're going.
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Now, there are some thingsthat are the same.
Part of my daily declarationis, I am infinite and eternal.
So are you.
But I remind myself of thatevery day.
I am a son of Almighty God.
So are you son or daughter?
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I am a disciple and friend ofJesus Christ.
I choose that.
Maybe you have that.
And maybe you have some otherguiding star.
I am love pouring over yoursoul like warm sunshine to create
miracles in the moment.
One question I love to askpeople when I talk to them is, how
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do we create a miracle for you today?
And one of three things happens.
One.
Oh, that's very nice.
Yeah.
You know, maybe you can wave awand and create a bunch of stuff
for me.
And that's how they hear it.
Another group are shocked byit, and they think I'm a little bit
silly, only I'm serious, andthey don't know exactly what to say.
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And so then we dig in a little bit.
The third group take itseriously, and they're like, wow,
let's do this.
Let's talk about this.
How would I do that?
Those are sometimes powerfuland fruitful conversations.
Meaning the walls are on fireand people are weeping and it's like,
yes.
So when I say I'm love pouringover your soul like warm sunshine
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to create miracles in the moment.
I mean that.
And I don't know what yourdeclarations are.
I'm giving you a small exampleof mine, a little piece.
It's over 3,000 words.
Another one is, I amforgiveness with compassion, grace
and patience for everyone,including myself.
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Why would I say that?
Well, I needed to put that inthere because I needed that.
I needed to forgive and Ineeded forgiveness.
Maybe we'll get forgivenessfrom other people and maybe we won't,
but we can forgive everyoneand we can change who we are.
So we become vessels of power,a beacon of light, vessel of love
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and conduit of power is theway I describe that.
A conduit of power, masterycomes with effort, and you have to
know where you're going.
So I would give you an invitation.
Three invitations, actually.
Number one, I'd love to hearyour story, your life story, your
journey, your desire.
Like, what are you trying tocreate in the world and why?
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Excuse me.
See, I said I was at the tailend of this cold.
What are you trying to createin the world and why?
Number two, what's stoppingyou from the absolute pinnacle of
expression might not be whatyou think.
And number three, how can Iserve you?
I'm inviting you to thinkabout that.
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If you have a story you'd liketo tell or to increase your reach,
I'd like to talk to you.
If you'd like help creatingyour products or your books or identifying
your story or how you can makethe difference in the world you want,
I'd like to talk to you.
That's my area of expertise.
The third, the next, I don'tknow the next.
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So I'm inviting you, if youneed help to get a hold of me, if
you want to have.
If you have a story you wantto tell, love to see you here on
the show.
All of the ways to do that, goto kellenfluekigermedia.com and use
the contact form so we can talk.
That's all I do is talk tocool people just like you.
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Why would I do that?
Because I'm committed to reach300 million this year with the message
of your own divinity and yourpossibility and your sovereignty.
To give you the methods tomake it happen and help you with
the mastery so that you moveforward and create your ultimate
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life.
Never hold back and you'llnever ask why.
Open your heart in this timearound, right here, right now, your
opportunity for massive growthis right in front of you.
Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
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will change everything.
If you want to know more, goto Kellen Flukeigermedia.
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You have infinite power.
Hi there.
Welcome to your ultimate life.
This podcast dedicated onlyand solely to help you create a life
of purpose, prosperity and joythat you create by serving with your
gifts and talents.
Now, this is a different viewthan we normally have, and I did
it on purpose.
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I'm going to give you severalviews here of the studio just to
show you a little bit abouthow all this works, because today's
episode is about movement,about mastery.
Remember, we did an episode onthe message, and I'm promising you
more episodes on the messagebecause the message is the fundamental
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power.
If you don't know where you'regoing, then all the tools in the
world won't help you.
So it's message, method, mastery.
Remember that message?
Method mastery.
That's for you, too.
Let's say you help me build a garden.
The message is, me, I suck atthat, but you're going to help me
build a garden.
And then the method would behow I can learn to do that.
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And the mastery would begetting good at it.
So I have that, too.
The message was a few episodesago, the method was a couple episodes
ago.
And today we're going to talkabout mastery.
How to go from mediocre to powerful.
How to get to be in mastery atwhatever you want.
So this gives you a picture.
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So here's the microphone thatyou're hearing.
This is the one.
There's an iPhone back there.
I'll show you the view therein a minute.
I've got camera over here thatI use sometimes.
And there it is.
And that's on this side.
Okay.
And it's just to give adifferent view.
You see the speakers thatwe've got?
And the final view that I'llshare with you is the one from the
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iPhone behind.
And this one is on WI fi.
So it takes a second to get in.
It's broadcast from the phone.
There you are, from the phonethrough the wi fi.
And so I've just put this upand you can see there the camera
that I use for the good one isright there.
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And I use a dslr, a very, verygood camera with some really good
glass.
And that's why the episodesare so sharp.
Now we'll switch back to thenormal camera and get back to where
we are.
So there you can see theiPhone behind and the other two cameras
are here on the sides.
Now, why did I show you that?
What do you care?
Well, you know what?
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I'm really surprised at howmany people are interested in doing
their own kind of podcastingand content creation.
So I showed you that becausethis is an episode about mastery.
One of the things that youwould have noticed if I go back to
the thing with the wifi, soit's going to take a sec for me to
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appear.
You'll see behind the screensthere, I've got stuff on the walls
and that is called Sonax, andit's a sound, absorptive material
so that it sounds good and Idon't get a lot of echo or resonance
from the corner of the room.
Another thing that's fun is inthis view right here, which is this
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camera over here, you'llnotice a bunch of palm trees.
What is that?
Well, you know what that is?
You know what that is?
I'll show you how fun that is.
This.
It's actually the green screenthat's behind me, but I've used this
software to replace it with afunny palm tree picture that I have.
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That's the same software thatI use to create these kind of views.
My point in showing all thatwas mastery.
I have become a master at the visual.
You know, the camera thatyou're looking at me through is fabulous.
It's a good.
It's Canon and a good dslr,and I've always invest in really
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good glass, so it's always sharp.
I don't like, you know, out offocus or fuzzy or pixelated stuff.
And it's not really necessary anymore.
You can do powerful, goodcontent with good gear, and it's
not that difficult.
So I'm surprised, I guess Iwon't even say surprised anymore
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at the number of people thatreally want to do podcasting.
I just talked to somebody theother day this week that's just starting
a podcast.
They've got two or threeepisodes, and they wanted to know
all about how I do this andhow I do that.
And it was fun and powerful toshare all that with you, with them.
Now, remember, we're talkingabout message method mastery.
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And there I didn't even havemy last light on to get the face
lighted properly.
I had it turned off because Iwas looking at something down there.
Anyway, message.
You're divine, you're capable.
If you're interested in doingthe work, you can find a very powerful
offering to the world to makeall kinds of cash, add good to the
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world, and create the Life youwant purpose, prosperity and joy.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Do you have a life purpose?
Does it drive you?
Does it light you up?
Every time I do one of theseepisodes, I at least mention 300
million.
I'm working to get 300 millionpeople to understand the message
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of WIPOs.
Your worth, your identity,your possibility, the ownership and
sovereignty that you have ofyour life.
90% of people don't takeadvantage of that.
Sort of live in this response mode.
You don't have to be one.
My purpose is to help 300million people own that and do something
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with it.
If you want help.
Kellenflueckegermedia.com thatURL that's on the screen is a contact
form.
Reach out.
That's all I'm doing ishelping people.
Beautiful, fabulous peoplelike you take advantage of their
personal gifts and talents.
Now I've got this littleglitch and it's already glitched
twice.
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I don't know what's going.
Three times.
I don't know what's going onwith that.
I reset everything and I'mjust not going to worry about it.
I'm going to go ahead andrecord this episode and it'll glitch.
Sometimes it reminds me of theold Max Headroom program that used
to be on, I don't know, Ithink it was in the 80s and about
a guy that got sucked up intoa computer.
So let's get right to it today.
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Mastery.
Mastery.
Mastery.
If you have a message, then Iinvite you to come on the show.
I invite you to get a hold of me.
Kellenfluecigermedia.com let's talk.
Let me understand what yourmessage is.
Because one of the things Ilove as much as anything about my
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work, my mission is to helpyou get your message crystallized,
powerful and available.
Many people say to me, I knowI love helping people.
I say how well I help.
Be their best self.
That's pablum.
That's nothing in what area?
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And it always comes from theirlife story, their life events.
I just talked to somebody theother day who really works with women
who are exiting narcissisticrelationships where they've been
abused emotionally andsometimes otherwise.
And therefore they're anexpert at that.
They had that, they'veexperienced it, they got over it,
they learned, they got past it.
And now they offer that help.
I have a guy that's a cancersurvivor many, many years, couple
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of decades, he offers that help.
I have a guy that loves toform non help people, form nonprofits
and do Fundraising, it comesfrom his own passion.
So the gift that you have,that you're best at isn't some weird
thing you're gonna go find inthe Amazon.
It's going to be what's inyour life.
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What have you experienced,what have you gone through that makes
you committed to do a thing?
Me, I've struggled withdepression, mental illness, addictions,
self sabotage, trashing mylife over and over again, sabotaging
careers, failing it threetimes at marriage.
And now I've created theultimate life.
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We just celebrated our 17thwedding anniversary.
I'm planning on 17,000 moreyears with an eternal companion,
wonderful, happy joy.
So I've learned that I used tostruggle living other people's lives,
their story, what they saidthey wanted, etc.
No more.
No more.
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So I'm a master at that now.
I've written 20 books.
I'm just starting number 21.
Not just starting, beenworking on it for a little bit and
I'm a master at that.
I can help you do that.
I've created many, manyproducts, info products, online products,
how to products.
I can help you do that.
I create and sell them regularly.
So I add good to the worldusing my life experience and the
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gifts that I have.
And now my passion is to helpyou do that.
Because you're just as smartas I am, you're just as capable,
your story matters as much andyou can help people just like I can.
Now my journey has brought meto the place where I'm saying 300
million people.
And people say to me, what thefrick, 300 million?
It's not just 300 million.
300 million this year.
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I have a client right now who,when we started working together,
he was depressed.
He considered sometimes endinghis life, thought he'd never get
ahead, had terriblerelationships, you know, just did,
you know, laundry list of stuff.
And today he is powerful,capable, and he and some business
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partners are getting ready toapproach within the next year or
two, probably two, a $400million buyout of his company.
Now, I don't know about you,but can you imagine?
Why can't that be you?
He isn't any smarter thananybody else.
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$400 million buyout.
And it isn't that cash is theanswer to everything, because it's
not.
But purpose, prosperity andjoy is yours.
And here's what it takes.
It takes the message.
It takes you accepting themessage that you are worthy, you're
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worth it, you're a divine being.
That is your identity.
You're that you can't evenchange that no matter what you do,
and because you're a divinebeing, your possibilities are infinite.
And the next piece is you ownyour life.
You own it unless you give itaway, that is.
That was a hard one for me tolearn because I believed for many
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years, decades, that my onlyredemption came from doing what somebody
told me to do.
My parents.
And I believed him.
So I did that.
That was my mission.
My duty is to make them happy,to live the way they imagined.
Well, whether they meant itbadly or not doesn't even matter.
They have no idea who I am.
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And I, you know, who I am andwhat I really want to and can do.
And that is a failing thatmany parents make.
My.
My blessed wife that I'mmarried to now.
She happens and I don't thinkthere's any accidents that she was
raised this way and then I gotto be.
I had the ultimate absoluteprivilege of her saying yes to marrying
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me.
She was raised in a familywhere whatever she wanted to do was
encouraged.
And she's done all kinds of stuff.
She's had half a dozen careers.
She worked at Disney World,she's a makeup artist, she's a degree
designer.
She designed computer orwebsites and learned computer programming,
studied architecture, traveledthrough Europe and a bunch at many
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times.
And no, they weren't rich insilver spoons.
She earned it all.
She paid her way throughcollege painting silk scarves, silk
painting which she learnedfrom a Japanese kimono painting master.
I'd never experienced anythinglike that until suddenly to touch,
to be with someone who hasthat and understands it and can model
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that for me, liberated me.
And I'm about liberating you.
If that's a struggle.
People are stuck behind theidea that they're no good.
They got nothing to offer.
Their story doesn't matter.
Jihoo would listen to me.
That's just absolute nonsense.
It's nonsense.
I love you to pieces.
It's nonsense.
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Your gift to the world is asimportant as mine.
Are you using it?
Are you using it?
Think about that and sit on it.
So that's the message.
The message is your worth,your identity, your possibility,
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your ownership, right?
And your sovereignty.
You own your life and nobodycan tell you what to do with it.
Now there are circumstanceswhere you're struck with an illness,
so externalities force you orme to do something.
You know my story about dyingand being in a hospital for a month
and taking two years to learnto walk again in recovery.
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And six and a half years nowlater, my lungs still aren't recovered
and I Was told they probablynever will fully recover.
So I have that.
I now have some arthritis inmy right leg and so forth.
So I use a cane sometimes.
Those are simply parts of the boundary.
It's like saying I used to be6ft and a half, 6ft 1 half inch tall
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and now I'm 5, 11 and a half,I shrunk an inch.
Those are just externalities.
We all have them and we canchafe or we can work with them.
So in all love, I'm tellingyou, those are irrelevants.
Irrelevants.
Now, the method a coupleepisodes ago was all of the things
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that I said about listen toepisode 952.
I gave you 10 differentmethods to capitalize to identify
and capitalize on your giftsif you want to.
Now you're free to stay stuckwhere you are.
But the thing reason I'mpounding on this is because so many
people that I talk to, they'renot happy in their job, they don't
feel fulfilled and they havealready quit and they're out trying
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to do something and then theysay, I don't know what my purpose
is, I can't really find it.
Or I think I know what it is,but I don't know how to make any
money at it.
Or I'm afraid that book orthat story or that product has already
been made 15 times and nobodywill listen to mine.
You know what?
Standard stuff, not true.
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Not true for you and not truefor anybody else that says it.
You're unique and you'repowerful and the only thing that
matters is you deciding to getoff your butt and go get it done.
And my specialty, my absolutegenius, world class specialty, is
to help you identify yourmessage, figure out how to serve
people with it, figure out howto find the people that need you,
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create the business in cash tomake it happen, and then joyfully
go get it done.
Yeah, so I'm starting a right now.
In fact, today or yesterday,in the next day or two, if you hear
this on the day of release,I'm starting a challenge.
I'm going to help people writea book, get the book published, get
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an Amazon bestseller, get aproduct created and learn how to
market it.
That's a six month workshop.
You want that?
Let's talkkellenfluecigermedia.com get the
contact form.
It's not too late.
Let's get on it.
If you don't want it, I'mokay, I love you, but do what you
want to do.
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No excuses.
No, I can't, it's too late.
I'm too old.
I don't have time.
It's not my season.
I'm too young.
I'm too not experienced enough.
Nobody cares.
I'm not interesting.
I don't know how to get onvideo like you do.
Kellen, it doesn't matter.
Okay?
I'm done with that.
We're talking today.
The third part is mastery.
So after you understand mymessage, which is that you're great
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and that you are destined tochange the world if you want to.
You and the methods.
I've given you a boatload inepisode 952.
The third episode is Mastery.
Mastery.
And here's what I know aboutmastering different things.
I have mastered studio work.
I create world class music.
And I know how to mix andmaster and get it out to the world.
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So I'm a master at that.
Okay?
I play the piano and havesince I'm five.
I'm a master at pianoperformance, a master accompanist,
a master composer, etc.
I've worked on vocals now withthe A list vocal coach for 10 years.
So I'm a master vocalist.
And I'm not saying that sayyay me.
I'm saying there are thingsthat you can, you already are, or
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you can master if you want to.
But let's talk about what it takes.
What does it take to be a master?
And I don't mean the best inthe universe, because who knows that
anyway?
That's all subjective, buteasily at mastery level.
So that you can make adifference in the world and make
money.
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Make a difference in the worldand make money and have more fun
than you can imagine.
Purpose, prosperity and joy.
Make a difference in the world.
Make money and have more funthan you can imagine.
Is that what you want?
I think so.
I'm challenging you to say yes.
I'm challenging you to get ahold of me.
Kellenfluecigermedia.com, usethe contact form.
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Let's talk.
One of the ways that I do thatis I have these guests that you've
seen, and I do that because Iwant to hear their stories.
And so do you, because you go,wow, if they can do it, maybe I can.
Cancer survivors and abusesurvivors and people that are visionaries
and book writers.
I just talked to another guythe other day who is creating a platform,
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a whole platform to helppeople understand a different way
to use their gifts to get goodat stuff.
I talked to another guy theother day, Sam, a few episodes ago.
He uses sound.
He makes sound with his voice.
And I Don't even know exactlyhow that works to heal trauma.
And he's good at it.
He's got testimonials runningout his ears.
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So there's all these thingsand you're one of them.
But mastery takes work.
So let me share.
You share with you the secretsof mastery.
The secrets of mastery.
Frustration isn't one of them.
Impatience isn't one of them.
Both of those are ones Ifought like hell with.
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I was impatient.
I wanted everything.
Now frustrated when thingsdidn't work as fast or as well as
I wanted those.
Ate my lunch over and flippingover and over again.
Tears, sad.
I'm not good enough.
It'll never happen.
Why the frick can't I find theright, this, that, and the other.
You know what?
The answer to those questionsdon't even matter.
It's like saying, why did Iget sick?
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I just.
I'm getting over a cold right now.
The very last stages of a cold.
It's messed me up for a week.
I couldn't practice.
I had to cancel my vocallesson on Tuesday with recording
this on a Saturday.
But then Tuesday, had tocancel my vocal lesson with my A
list Hollywood vocal coach.
Why?
Because I couldn't sing verywell and want to waste the time.
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Right.
Did it.
Did I want that?
Did I ask for it?
No, of course not.
So that all happens to all of us.
Frustration, setbacks,grumpiness, blah, blah, blah.
But you know what?
You know for sure?
You see that sunset going down?
I took this picture from anairplane way up high so you could
just barely see the last pieceof sun going down out the window
from the airplane.
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It's beautiful.
But you know, we know it'sgoing to come up in the morning.
I knew.
I know.
And so do you.
The sun's coming up in the morning.
So tomorrow, in 24 hours, Icould take that picture again if
I was in the same plane in thesame place, right?
It's going to be there.
So one of the things I want togive you is all the encouragement
and examples I can.
And I have dozens if you wantto know what they are.
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Let's talk.
So many people come and theysay to me, well, my particular thing
is so weird and so different.
This all won't work for me.
And that's bullshit.
How do you know?
I dare you to talk to me andlet's find out, because I know.
I've never had someone talk tome where we can't figure out passion,
prosperity, purpose,prosperity and joy.
We can figure it out.
I don't know if you're goingto do the work, right.
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To get the frameworks andtools and, you know, make the steps
to make it happen, that's upto you.
But the mastery part, here'swhat I needed.
I needed to make declarations.
I needed to decide, this iswho I am, this is what I'm going
to do.
And then I needed to create.
I call it a dcp.
Daily Creation Process.
It's way a million trilliontimes more powerful than a morning
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ritual.
Morning ritual is a clichething that lots of us used to do.
And we struggle.
Oh, I got to play it.
I can't.
If that's what you're doing, fine.
That's your morning ritual.
A daily creation process isintentional, focused.
You never skip it, and you doit on purpose.
Here's the funny part.
You're doing a daily creationprocess, whether you know you're
doing it or not.
Your daily creation processmight suck.
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It might leave you notenergized, powerful, focused, clear,
excited.
It may leave you barelyfunctioning or, you know, bunch of
coffee.
Okay, now, I could face theday kind of stuff.
That's not the way to have mastery.
So one of the most importantthings I learned and I now share
is how do you create yourselfso that you're on fire every day?
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Wouldn't that be nice?
Like, you've had days whereyou were super energized, super focused,
super, super successful, Right?
Of course you have.
What if you could have thatevery single day?
What if you could have it on demand?
What if you could have it evenduring the day when things went south
and you didn't have to say,well, I'll just tough today out?
Nope, tomorrow gets better.
No, what if you could justflip a switch and do a thing and
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get right back into the groove?
In flow, in focus?
Yeah.
What if you could do that?
Well, you can.
You.
Right here, right now.
Kellenfluecigermedia.com usethe contact form.
Let's talk.
Here are the secrets to mastery.
One you decide for sure.
You're going, I'm going tothat mountaintop.
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I am going to master my craft.
Now, mastery doesn't meanyou're going to be Michelangelo or
Leonardo da Vinci.
They were unique, but so are you.
Your version and method ofmastery is going to be yours.
And it's going to be just asgood as anyone else's for the right
people.
One of the things I had to learn.
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So I'm thinking, oh, mymessage will help everybody in the
universe.
I mean, if everybody in theworld understood that they were divine
and that they could createtheir own life.
Wouldn't that change the world?
And the fact is, maybe it would.
But my voice, my approach, mymessage, my method pushes some people
away because I'm a littlenoisy or the experiences of my background.
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Sometimes when people find outI've been an addict and attempted
suicide years ago, but I did,it's like, oh, wow, okay, they're
not my people.
Somebody you maybe are therefor them.
I had somebody that I wasinterviewing for a podcast, and I'm
not going to say who the otherday, and they were talking about
forgiveness, and they talkedabout learning to forgive themselves.
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And then I asked, because Ialways do, and this is after the
show, you know, what kinds ofthings they were talking about, where
they had struggled and they'dlisted some, and to them it was very
serious.
But they had been married fordecades, one wife, very successfully,
and, you know, were worriedabout forgiving things that to me
seem important but small, andthey certainly are on the road to
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mastery.
No diminishing.
And I thought how blessed I was.
And I described to thisindividual some of the things that
I had to forgive myself for.
You know, suicide attempts,being a rotten dad, failing at three
marriages, just on and on and on.
And it could hardly speakbecause he hadn't actually thought
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about that level of.
Of forgiveness.
But you know what?
The God and creator of us allincludes all of it.
So I don't care where you've been.
Another principle of mastery.
It's never too late.
You have to start now.
Well, you don't have to do anything.
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You can start right now.
It doesn't matter where you've been.
It doesn't.
It is never too late to matterand have a big impact.
Now, another principle ofmastery is persistence.
You're going to have to keep going.
Everybody knows the story ofEdison and either 1,000 or 10,000
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efforts to make a light bulband said, I didn't fail a thousand
times.
I learned a thousand ways notto make a light bulb.
Okay?
It's how he chose to look at it.
Now you can say, well, he did that.
So he didn't feel terribleabout his failures.
No, he created the light bulb,period, end of story.
That we all use.
So Mic drop.
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So persistence is a principleof mastery.
To me, one of the mostimportant things is giving yourself
permission to go at it.
I had to overcome that.
I believed I sucked, andeverything that I'd done made it
too late, etc.
Permission goes right alongwith forgiveness.
Forgiveness means fixingwhatever you Can.
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And then dropping the energyof failure, Ending the energy of
failure, giving yourselfpermission to roll.
Probably the single mostimportant thing.
Well, there's two or three.
That vie for first place wasgetting good coaching.
No Olympic athlete ever got tothe podium without a coach.
No vocal performer ever gotwhere they were without a coach.
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Whether it's a formal coachingrelationship or an informal one,
There was a coaching container.
This is what I love.
I coach.
I coach high performers.
I coach people who havethumped their fist and said, I'm
going to that beautiful sunset.
I'm climbing that mountain.
I'm bringing that product,that book.
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My blood, sweat and tears isgoing to happen.
I'm that guy.
And the reason I'm the coachfor that guy is because that's me.
I have done that over all thedifficulties and broken glass and
struggles and everything.
Yeah.
Been there, done that successfully.
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I know what it is and what it takes.
And that's why I love it so much.
Because the liberation youfeel when you set some old fear aside,
when you stop believing insome old gobbledygook story, there's
nothing like it.
It's magnificent.
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You know what I'm talking about?
Magic.
Magic.
Beyond magic.
Well, you can have that.
It's yours.
I was just exchangingvoicemails with someone this morning
who wants to write a book, andthey're a little worried about writing
their own story becausethey're afraid, vulnerability.
Somebody's going to thinkthis, that, and the other.
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You know what?
Maybe they are.
There are ways to do all ofthat, that create the power for your
reader without pointingfingers and throwing stones at other
people that did whatever they did.
So I love you.
My yearning is to help youhear the message of your worth, your
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identity, your possibility,the ownership and the sovereignty
that you have over your lifeto find and adopt the methods, frameworks,
tools, processes to identifyand develop your gifts and the mastery
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I am in that work.
And I love it.
I've never done anything morefulfilling, more fun, more joyful
in my life.
Now I said finding a coach wasone of the most important things.
As a final thing, I'm going totalk about two other things.
Number one is in your dailycreation process.
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It has to be founded on something.
Okay.
Daily creation process.
If I don't know what my sportis in the Olympics, then my warmup
and my exercise routine isgoing to be random and.
Or useless.
Right.
If I'm going to be one ofthose Tour de France guys whose thighs
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are as big around as myshoulders, I have to know I'm going
to cycle.
If, on the other hand, I'mgoing to be a pole.
A pole vaulter, the exercisesfor the cyclist are completely wrong.
So you have to know whereyou're going.
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Now, there are some thingsthat are the same.
Part of my daily declarationis, I am infinite and eternal.
So are you.
But I remind myself of thatevery day.
I am a son of Almighty God.
So are you son or daughter?
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I am a disciple and friend ofJesus Christ.
I choose that.
Maybe you have that.
And maybe you have some otherguiding star.
I am love pouring over yoursoul like warm sunshine to create
miracles in the moment.
One question I love to askpeople when I talk to them is, how
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do we create a miracle for you today?
And one of three things happens.
One.
Oh, that's very nice.
Yeah.
You know, maybe you can wave awand and create a bunch of stuff
for me.
And that's how they hear it.
Another group are shocked byit, and they think I'm a little bit
silly, only I'm serious, andthey don't know exactly what to say.
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And so then we dig in a little bit.
The third group take itseriously, and they're like, wow,
let's do this.
Let's talk about this.
How would I do that?
Those are sometimes powerfuland fruitful conversations.
Meaning the walls are on fireand people are weeping and it's like,
yes.
So when I say I'm love pouringover your soul like warm sunshine
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to create miracles in the moment.
I mean that.
And I don't know what yourdeclarations are.
I'm giving you a small exampleof mine, a little piece.
It's over 3,000 words.
Another one is, I amforgiveness with compassion, grace
and patience for everyone,including myself.
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Why would I say that?
Well, I needed to put that inthere because I needed that.
I needed to forgive and Ineeded forgiveness.
Maybe we'll get forgivenessfrom other people and maybe we won't,
but we can forgive everyoneand we can change who we are.
So we become vessels of power,a beacon of light, vessel of love
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and conduit of power is theway I describe that.
A conduit of power, masterycomes with effort, and you have to
know where you're going.
So I would give you an invitation.
Three invitations, actually.
Number one, I'd love to hearyour story, your life story, your
journey, your desire.
Like, what are you trying tocreate in the world and why?
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Excuse me.
See, I said I was at the tailend of this cold.
What are you trying to createin the world and why?
Number two, what's stoppingyou from the absolute pinnacle of
expression might not be whatyou think.
And number three, how can Iserve you?
I'm inviting you to thinkabout that.
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If you have a story you'd liketo tell or to increase your reach,
I'd like to talk to you.
If you'd like help creatingyour products or your books or identifying
your story or how you can makethe difference in the world you want,
I'd like to talk to you.
That's my area of expertise.
The third, the next, I don'tknow the next.
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So I'm inviting you, if youneed help to get a hold of me, if
you want to have.
If you have a story you wantto tell, love to see you here on
the show.
All of the ways to do that, goto kellenfluekigermedia.com and use
the contact form so we can talk.
That's all I do is talk tocool people just like you.
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Why would I do that?
Because I'm committed to reach300 million this year with the message
of your own divinity and yourpossibility and your sovereignty.
To give you the methods tomake it happen and help you with
the mastery so that you moveforward and create your ultimate
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life.
Never hold back and you'llnever ask why.
Open your heart in this timearound, right here, right now, your
opportunity for massive growthis right in front of you.
Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
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will change everything.
If you want to know more, goto Kellen Flukeigermedia.
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