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July 4, 2025 38 mins

Why do most people stay stuck their entire lives—never living their divine potential?

In this gut-punch solo episode, Kellan Fluckiger tears down the hidden addictions to mediocrity, silent self-sabotage, and the learned helplessness that keeps you small. Discover how to own your power, turn your struggles into someone else’s survival guide, and finally soar.

🔥 Inside you’ll discover:

  • Why chasing cash alone leaves you empty.
  • The 3-part blueprint: Purpose, Prosperity & Joy.
  • How your toughest moments become your ultimate gifts.
  • A daily choice that makes joy inevitable—no matter your past.

👇 What are YOU finally done staying stuck in?

👉 Ready to build your story into a book, keynote, or business? Join the Dream Build Write It Challenge — next round starts Sept 29: dreambuildwriteit.com

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(00:02):
Welcome to the show.
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(00:23):
Create.
You have infinite power stuckto soaring, like blasting off and
flying in the sky effortlesslyand beautifully.
Do you know what a peregrinefalcon is?
I saw a television episodewhere somebody misunderstood that
and called it a penguin falcon.

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A peregrine falcon is one ofthe most beautiful and powerful creatures
in in the world.
It is the fastest creature onearth when it does the dives.
It's recorded to dive it inexcess of 200 mil an hour.
And it flies so high that itcan reach those kinds of speeds.

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And it's interesting becausethe speed of free fall is about 125
miles an hour.
So as a person jumps out of anairplane with a parachute and falls
free fall, you can acceleratefaster and faster, but there's a
limit.
And the reason there's a limitis because the air, the resistance

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of the air prevents the bodyfrom speeding up anymore.
And so the limit of a freefall person out of a plane, for example,
is about 125 miles an hour.
However, a peregrine falcon ina dive to catch some prey exceeds

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200, 208 or 210 miles an houror something like that.
You can look it up and itdefies that resistance of air by
the shape that it's able totake and so forth.
And you know what the otherincredible thing is about that?
It's vision.
The bird's vision is so goodthat from thousands of feet up, it

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can see the prey clearly anddistinctly and then goes into a dive
at blistering speed in orderto accomplish its goal, which in
this case is eat.
So now I want you to thinkabout soaring.
I want you to think about theidea of soaring in your life.
Soaring way up where you havean eagle eye view or a falcon's eye

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view of everything that'spossible for you.
How do we get up there?
How do we create our world sothat if you need to dive immediately
and it great speed to takeadvantage of some opportunity and
instead of diving, let's callit acting.
If you need to react or act orrespond to some situation or opportunity

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that's right there for you andyou need to do it at lightning speed,
what happens most of the timeis we do several things.
We start to think about it andthen we overthink.
We then start to drag indoubts and fears about oh, you know,
what if I fail?
What if somebody sees me?
What if it's wrong?
Is this really the right timefor me?

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Is this the right thing?
Is this the right moment?
Is this the right everything?
Right?
And we create that momentumbarrier, the barrier to our movement.
That's kind of like theresistance of air.
And so instead of like when afalcon gets in that pose of just
total streamline straightdown, it gets way above the speed

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normally available with theresistance of air.
What we do when we overthinkand over plan and everything else
is we're spreading out, right?
And so we limit our ability toreact, we limit our focus, we limit
our power, our creativity andeverything else because we've dragged

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in all these doubts.
Now, I'm going to be done herewith the analogy of the falcon.
Maybe, maybe I'll bring it in.
But this is the fourth episodein this whole four series thing from
stuck to soaring right now.
There's been a couple ofguests in between, but the first
one was the hidden cost of settling.

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And if you.
And, you know, settling for,you know, mediocrity.
It's interesting because I hadthree interviews on national radio
stations in the last couple ofweeks that asked that question, why
addiction to mediocrity isspoiling our lives.
And I got a chance to talkabout that live on the air on three
so far.
And there's another one comingup, very large radio stations.

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And that's fantastic.
And it's fun to do.
Actually, there's been four.
It doesn't matter.
But that was the episode thatwas first.
Go back and find that.
The second one was the powerof choice, which is our ability to
reclaim our agency or choice.
And the third one was buildingresilience, turning setbacks into
setups.
And this fourth one is now.

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This fourth one is now youbuilding a future you love.
How do you build a future you love?
What do you do to create that thing?
And so I want to talk with youabout that today.
And I'm looking, I made acouple of notes.
And so I want to get thatright here in front of me.
Good.
So let's talk about what yourultimate life means to you.

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Because for the falcon, itmeans food, right?
Now, when you see anopportunity, it means some kind of
success or service ornotoriety or cash.
You know, it's like an investor.
I know a.
A few months ago there was aperson creating or had created a
company, but was looking forcapital to raise for a particular

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company that's growing wildly.
And I know that they're goingto be successful.
And at that moment I didn'thave availability of capital to invest
in the amount required or Iwould have done it.
And since then, of course,it's done exactly what I, what I
thought taken off.
Now, how often do you see anopportunity, you hesitate and then

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you, and you wait and youdon't do it.
And so then later you say, oh,coulda, woulda, shoulda, I could
have been a contender.
That's a line from some famousmovie about someone lamenting about
the opportunities that passedthem by.
So I want you to think aboutwhat is for you the ultimate life.
For me, it's purpose,prosperity and joy.

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Now, I've been down all theother roads, been down all the other
roads of big cash, bigposition, big notoriety, and they
were not fulfilling just for amoment, big name in one particular
industry.
When I was an executive, I wasnot happy, big deal for a minute.

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But it had nothing to do withthe fulfillment of soul.
And we live in a time rightnow when people are really looking
for meaning and fulfillment.
The big chase of cash is notthe answer.
And intuitively and in ourhearts we know that.
So I define it as purpose,prosperity and joy.
And because I've been workingon this now for 18 years, I have

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several things I'd like tooffer you.
The first is a blueprint.
Now you're going to defineultimate life any way you want.
Often when I ask people that,they talk about freedom, which is
beautiful, they talk aboutmeeting more money, they talk about
time.
And sometimes those are equated.
Well, if I had more money,then I would have more time because
I wouldn't have to work sohard or do so much.

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But I want you to take aminute, maybe an hour, and sit down
and write down exactly whatyour ultimate life looks like.
I define it as purpose,prosperity and joy.
And let me tell you why.
After many years of chasingthe brass ring and reaching it, chasing

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money and reaching it, chasingposition and reaching it, and then
having internal demons andstruggles that I'm not going to rehearse
here because it's in otherepisodes and in my book, Tightrope
of Depression.
I, you know, had a wake upcall that started me over and that

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opportunity, I'm so grateful,I, I don't even know how to describe
the gratitude I feel for thatwake up call.
Because now, since 2007, thelast 18 years now, or almost 18,
I've been blessed with theopportunity to pursue real happiness.

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Purpose, a driving purpose, isthe first key to real fulfillment.
A purpose beyond I Gotta makesome money to get through the weekend.
Because even after you makemoney to get to the weekend and then
you party and then you do itagain and again and again, that's
when you realize it's not hot,it is hollow.

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And it doesn't mean anythingunless you tie it to a larger purpose.
You were built for more, andyou know that in your heart.
So my purpose, one that I havelanded on and own fiercely, is to
help you realize who you areas a divine being.
Help you create impact andincome with your gifts and your skills

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and your life experience.
Like the most valuable thing,where you can make the most money
and have the most fun isn'tsomething you learned in school or
a trade place or anything else.
The most valuable thing youhave is your life experience, your
divine gifts and the skillsyou've learned.

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So it's not that the skillsaren't important, but they're not
the defining thing.
How many doctors or lawyers doyou know who are burned out, who've
made the cash and want to getout, want to do something, quote,
meaningful, and that'sphysicians that have spent their
lives healing.
So.
And I personally know some,and maybe you do too.

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There is a deeper soul purposeS O U L and you can ignore it.
You're free to do that.
And that leaves us with longing.
So the first key is find andchoose a purpose.
Find a.
Choose my purpose this year,and my year ends October 14th for
reasons that I've told inother episodes.

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My end is also in the bookTightrope, if you want to read it.
But my purpose is to reach 300million people.
Why such a ridiculously large number?
Because we have thetechnology, with the Internet and
with our ability to reach the world.
And because I'm driven by this purpose.

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Our time is now.
There is a rising up in theworld of this yearning to do good,
to solve the personal.
I mean, the perennial problemsof hunger and literacy and water
and freedom and rights andhonesty and all of the rest.
And yeah, there's a boatloadof people living against that and

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looking out for their own needs.
And that doesn't mean anythingexcept there's more and more opportunity
for you and I to do what we'recalled to do.
I'm called to talk to you.
I'm called to help you realizewho you are, a divine being, what
that means.
You have infinite capabilityif you want to use it.

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One of the ways I express thatthat's so much fun is I help people
write books.
Not just any book, but thebook of their own journey.
Now, that journey doesn'tmatter very much until you've made
a choice to be the best personyou can be and you've gone on that
development work.
But this thing right here,dream buildwriteit.com is a website

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where twice, maybe three timesa year, I'll hold these book challenges
to help you discover thatstory within you, write the book
and then turn it into aproduct or service to serve and make
money with.
See, Making money, There'snothing wrong with that.

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In fact, there's somethingvery right about it if you're providing
value, deep and meaningfulvalue that comes from your soul.
Experience Stuck to soaring.
Now, many people get stuckaround the idea that they're not
good enough.
Many people get stuck aroundthe idea they don't have much, that
they don't have a story thatnobody would read it, that everybody's

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already said everything thatneeds to be said, and a host of other
things that sound about the same.
Right this minute, I'm halfwaythrough the six month period that
it takes to do all that.
I ran a book challenge in January.
As I record this, it's mid June.
And so we're halfway throughthat six month process.

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And right now I've gottenthree of the first draft manuscripts
of the nine people that wentwith me on that journey.
They're magnificent.
And every single person istalking about how much they have
changed in doing this work ofdeclaring a purpose, owning it, living

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into it, and then writingabout it from their own life experience.
The most important gift youand I have is the answer to the question,
how did you get where you areif you're successful?
And I don't mean you make allthe money you ever thought of or
any of that.
What I mean is, if you'rehappy and successful in that you're

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happy and that you havemastered or are mastering your own
growth and journey, and you'reliving with love and kindness like
you know you want to if you'resuccessful, you know, right this
minute, people look at you andsay, wow, I wish I could have do
be whatever you are, you know that.
And you can downplay it andpretend it's not true, but it is

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true.
And so the most valuable giftyou can have, because as soon as
people see that about you orme or anyone else that's doing that
work, they say, wow, I wish Icould have, you know, or be like
so and so you actually.
And then right behind thatthey say, yeah, but I could never
do that because.
And then there follows a wholebunch of yeah, but Yebit, yeah, but,

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yeah, but, yeah, but this.
Yeah, but that.
And they describe all thearguments for their own weakness
and their own limitations andwhy, oh, it's not the right time
and they don't have any support.
Going on that journey of selfdiscovery is the most important thing
you're ever going to do.
Writing about it andexpressing the truth, it's not a

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memoir kind of thing, butexpressing the truth of the choices,
resilience, growth and powerthat you've chosen to get where you
are, that's the most beautifulthing you can share because it unlocks
the journey.
No one can look at you andsay, yeah, I couldn't do that because
you shared all there is aboutthat journey.
And for the people that are inthat challenge, for the six months

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that we're halfway throughright now, it's been so revelatory.
I just got an email thismorning from one of the, you know,
one of the members justexpressing the depth of that change
in discovery and theirexcitement about creating a product
that will share their journeyand learnings with others who are
similarly motivated.

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There's an infinite need.
And so I don't care if someonehas written about death or resilience
or forgiveness or love orgrieving or any one of a hundred
or a thousand topics.
And you can say, well, that'salready been written.
It has not been done in your voice.
So if you don't have yourultimate life, if this moment you're

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not living a life of purpose,prosperity and joy, I have something
for you.
Go to your ultimate life.
Yourultimatelife, ca.
Yourultimatelife, ca.
And get the blueprint tocreate this ultimate life.
There are five parts to that.

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It is available to you righthere, right now.
So go get it and move fromstuck to soaring.
So the first element of myultimate life, I say purpose.
The second one, purpose,prosperity and joy.
The second is prosperity.
And here's what's interesting.
Prosperity means money.
It means cash.

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It means selling products orservices which you're already doing.
You're either anything from ahigh powered attorney to a barista
at Starbucks, to a, you know,whatever, whatever an accountant,
to a sound healer, to, youknow, someone in international relations.
All those skills are beingsold in the marketplace.

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And they're only half yourpower, hear me?
They're only, only half your power.
And so you're creating lessthan half of the value you're, you
could in the world.
And value means money.
The secret is to learn tocombine the skills that you've learned,
whatever they are with theexperiences you've had, because it

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exponentially magnifies your value.
Here's how I know that when Ihelp people write books, which wasn't
a skill I thought I had, butI've uncovered it in that journey
since 2007, in my own journeyof growth and everything else.

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I began writing, and now Ilove writing, and I love helping
others write and tell theirstories and reach and yearn and serve.
And you know what happens whenwe do that?
We start helping.
We start making a difference.
When we start making adifference, we start getting paid,
paid and paid well paid,powerfully paid big.

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And so prosperity is a natural outcome.
Prosperity is a naturaloutcome of owning your purpose.
So I'm talking about purpose,prosperity, and joy.
And prosperity is a naturaloutcome of owning your purpose.

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So when you choose yourpurpose, which you can easily find
by looking at your lifeexperience and seeing what you've
learned, and you start to useit to serve prosperity.
Cash is a natural outcome.
It's not twisted, it's notdifficult, it's not complicated.

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It doesn't involve squirmysales or any of that stuff that we
all hate.
Nobody likes that.
Either to be sold to or to tryto sell.
You're not doing that.
You're serving.
You're lifting the burden,enlightening the hearts, blessing
the lives and feelings of others.
That's what you're doing.
People pay for that.

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They pay big money for that.
I know, because that's what I do.
And I know many other peoplethat are doing the same thing.
And I know that you can if youwant to.
I'm not saying how you can,how you have to do that.
One of the beauties of thischallenge that I run is not only
do we write a book, but I workwith each person in there to figure

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out what is the most fun wayfor you to get paid.
For you to monetize is thebuzzword, right?
For you to present what youhave in such a way that you get paid.
It might be speaking, it mightbe a product, it might be a service,
it might be in some kind of ajob, but your ability to do it, and
therefore your ability to getpaid big bucks is directly related

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to how deeply you own and cantalk about that journey.
So purpose and prosperity arethe two things.
Now, prosperity means way morethan just cash, although that's a
big piece of it, because, yes,we need money.
And the more money you have,guess what?
The bigger your reach is, right?

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The more people you can reach.
Because, you know, creatingreach sometimes, often Takes cash,
investment.
I've just invested in being onsome radio shows.
It was great.
And I've been on some largeones in North America.
And it was fun and it was good.
And I've also reached millionsof people doing that with the messages

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that I have.
And to do that costs a littlemoney, but there are other ways,
no cost, low cost, that I usedto use and I still use when you're
starting and when you don'tyet have a bunch of money to invest
in reach.
So prosperity grows and youget paid and the money helps you

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do more.
And you're called to do more.
You want to.
It's not like you owe it.
You feel like you want to.
What I've noticed that always happens.
It's funny when a person, youor me or anybody overcomes some serious
obstacles.
Maybe you had a loved one die.
Maybe you had a crimecommitted and someone close to you

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was killed.
Maybe you have sufferedterrible things as a youth and you
had abuse, maybe something smaller.
Maybe there were difficultiesof any kind.
And those kinds of thingseither ruin us or they refine us,
right?
And I've talked about thisbefore, and you know it.
But when we let them ruin us,we shrivel, we shrink, we don't do

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anything meaningful and powerful.
When we make a choice to ask adifferent question, which is, what
is the gift here?
What can I learn from this?
How can I grow from this?
How can I serve from this?
Then a whole world opens up toyou that's not open.
If we just complain, it's notfair, it's not right.

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It's not just that may be true.
But if I wait, or you wait toserve with what you've learned, with
those struggles, you're goingto be waiting forever.
If you wait for, quote,justice to be done before you're
satisfied, you're finished.
Because no matter what justiceis done to someone who hurts you,

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it's never going to clean outyour soul.
The only thing that can cleanout my soul or yours is forgiveness.
And that doesn't mean making aperson an attacker, emotionally or
physically.
It doesn't mean making themright or okay.
That's separate.
Forgiveness is the allowancefor humanity and for anyone to be

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human, yourself included.
My most difficult thing wasself forgiveness.
But it is a choice to nolonger allow things in the past,
no matter who did them, tohave power in the present.
And there are steps andprocesses to do that, just like there's
steps to getting a degree inbusiness or law or anything else.

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So if you want to be have thefreedom, the prosperity, as it were,
of complete forgiveness towhere you're at peace and there's
nothing fussing you ever onany day.
Imagine that.
Are you holding any grudges?
Are you holding any visions of negativity?
Are you holding any fears thatyou're not good enough or that you
can't cut it, or that youweren't made out for this, or that

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your place is to be invisibleand to just sort of serve others?
And your value is in beingsilent and sacrificing all that kind
of stuff.
It's, it's good to be nice,it's good to be of service.
But codependency is a viciouscrime against your soul.

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Not setting boundaries andclaiming your own power and ability
to love and serve on yourterms is a crime against your soul.
And you're not only robbingyou, but all those others that you
could serve from love and joy.
Because most of the time whenwe serve from obligation, we have
a resentment feeling.
We have a feeling of who'sgoing to ever recognize me, who's

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going to, you know, who'sgoing to build me up, who's going
to, whatever, that kind of feeling.
When you serve from love, youdon't have that feeling because love
never runs out.
It's available in infinitesupply 24 7.
One of the keys is to learn toaccess that.
It's there, it's available.
You and I were conceived in love.

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We were built from love.
We were put here out of love.
Our opportunities, includingthe difficult things that don't seem
fair, are an opportunity forus to grow and be more, become more
powerful, more useful, moreloving, more kind of more service.
So defining your ultimate life.

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I use purpose, prosperity and joy.
And we've talked aboutpurpose, we've talked about prosperity.
Now I want to talk about joy.
Joy is kind of the.
It's a choice.
Joy is a choice.
I can choose to be happy nomatter what's going on around me.
Now, it might be hard to do ifI've raised myself or adopted the
habit of complaining aboutthings being negative or angry or

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blaming or, you know, pointingat others and other situations, people,
circumstances, government,God, economy, society, everything
else.
If I choose to point at those.
What I've done is I've learnedto be helpless.
I have, I dove, I have dived.
Which way?
What.
How do you say that?
I dove into the soul suckingswamp of learned helplessness.

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That's a place of soulsucking, you know, powerlessness,
where we believe mistakenlythat we have no power, that we cannot
Control or create life like we want.
Yes, you can.
And you can start right now.
One thing that I've created tooffer is that www.yourultimatelife

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ca, not even Canada.
So ca, that's a.
That's an offering.
It's free.
Doesn't cost you anything.
Another thing I have is I'vewritten 20 books.
Every one of them is aboutsome aspect of this.
I wrote about my own journeyand tightrope of depression.
My journey from darkness,despair and death to light, love

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and life.
It talks about the miraculousstuff that happened in 2007, the
year I turned 52, afterdecades, 52 years of misery and suffering
that I had the key to anddidn't know it.
And I am convinced that one ofthe most important things that we're
here to do is to learn and totake control.

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And you know what's interesting?
It seems like in order tolearn that, we got to go through
these difficulties because howmany times have have you told someone,
you can just do this, this andthis, and you know, it works and
they don't.
And so they don't do it andthey don't try it.
And you're like, ah, you'rehurting yourself over and over again,
right?
Parents feel that way about kids.

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You're hurting yourself, oh,no, you don't have to go through
this.
And we do, and we do it overand over again until you use your
agency or I use mine.
And it's like, oh, I do get tocontrol this.
This is mine.
I got the levers.
I don't have to be unhappy.
I can have joy.
I can live in joy all the time.

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Sometimes that's harder to dothan others.
If you're struggling, excuseme, with money or with health, or
if you're struggling with, youknow, a relationship or a betrayal
or an illness, or havinglived, you know, with, with negative
self image for all your life.
However you got it, I don't care.

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The key is, however you gotthat, you have the ability to change
it right here, right now.
Www.yourultimatelife.ca is one place.
All the books that I'vewritten, Tightrope of Depression,
down from the Gallows, WalkingWithout Fear, Forgiveness, Meeting

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God at the Door.
The results equation, thestory arc.
And the most recent one isLiving with Purpose and Power, which
is a book that I wrote abouthow to do exactly what I'm talking
about.
Everything that I know, Ididn't hold anything back.
Every secret, every tool Ihave poured into that book.

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It's funny, I'm recording This.
Now, on a certain day, itdoesn't matter, it's a Monday.
And you'll see it whenever itis, in the right order of things.
But I just got off a call withsomeone and they were asking me about
this purpose, prosperity andjoy, and asking me about how I get
ready for the day.
Now, you know, there's ashower and teeth and all the rest.

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Sure.
But I have a special process,a daily creation process.
Now, you know what that is, right?
You eat breakfast, whateveryou eat.
Maybe it's coffee, maybe it'scereal, maybe it's, you know, veggie
smoothie, I don't know.
You get dressed, you take careof your body.
So you do a preparationprocess already.

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My discovery is that creatingmy heart and soul every day on purpose,
creating my heart and soulevery day on purpose is the best
prep I can do.
Now, I include in thatexercise and shower and all the rest,
but choosing who I'm going tobe, full of love, full of forgiveness,

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full of energy, full ofencouragement, I choose that again
every single day.
Why?
Because I want to.
I have decided who I want to be.
And that goes back to thepurpose part.
You get to pick your purpose.
The clues to that are yourskills, your natural gifts, and your

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life experience.
And you get to mine the skillsthat you have, the gifts, natural
gifts you have, and the lifeexperience, especially the rough
ones, the tough ones, the hardones, the injustices, pain of loneliness,
right?
The ravages of adversity.
All that kind of stuff is thefertile ground from which you get

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to choose your purpose.
Now, this is your call.
So this is an invitation tofind your purpose and then choose
it and lean into it and loveit and dedicate your heart to it.
And here's why it's worth it.
It's you.
It will make you the happiest,it will make you the most money,

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and it will be the most fun.
And that might seem like abold claim, and it is.
But here's what else I know.
I can show you how to do that.
I can show you because I'vedone it for myself repeatedly, and
reinforced it and refined it.
Everything I teach is battletested, not only in my own life,

(31:22):
but in the lives of clientsand those that I help and serve.
And I do it because I love it,no matter what I did.
In my executive world, nothingeven remotely is as much fun as helping
you.
Learn to love yourself, learnto recognize your awesome person.

(31:44):
You know, you have theSuperman or superwoman cape on of
some kind.
And I don't think you're usingit all.
Maybe you have glimpses, maybeyou're using it sort of.
But there's another layer.
And the reason that'simportant is your own purpose.
Prosperity and joy.

(32:04):
The kind of difference you canmake in the world, the kind of money
you can make, you can get paid well.
And that allows you to do more.
Right?
It allows you to do more, bemore, say more, help more, lift more,
bless more.
So one invitationwww.yourultimatelife.ca another invitation

(32:30):
is to.
I'd love to talk to you.
If you.
If what I'm saying hereresonates with you and you want to
talk about it and understandhow, exactly how to do the things
that I've learned with nowdecades of work, I'm happy to share
it with you.
I've written it in books.
I teach it openly to clients.
There's no secrets.
I hold nothing back.

(32:52):
You don't need.
I don't need to hold anything back.
The road is not trivial.
The refinement that comes fromthe refining fire of just life itself.
It's tough, it's hot.
And it can be a struggle.
The wounds of you're not good enough.
You're invisible.
You don't count.
You know, you're a people pleaser.

(33:13):
You got to do this.
That those wounds are deep andthey're going to stay there unless
you get rid of them.
But the good news is gettingrid of them is possible.
The other good news is nobodycan keep you from making that jump,
that leap, that joy.
Nobody can keep you from that.
You own this.
I use the acronym wipos.

(33:34):
W I P O S wipos, and it standsfor worth.
Understanding your real worth.
Infinite.
I is your identity, owning thefact that you're a divine being.
You were created by God with apurpose, with talents, and sent here
for a reason.
Now, you can ignore that andyou can fight with it, or you can
find it powerful.

(33:55):
P stands for possibility.
Possibility because of who youare as a child of the divine.
Your possibility is infinite.
But most people live with ablanket over it.
Most people live burying theirlight, barely getting by, working
for the weekend.
And working for the weekendeven means if you make half a million
in a good job, I don't care.

(34:15):
You know you're not satisfied.
And if you are, and you'vealready discovered this and you're
living your ultimate life, geta hold of me.
I want to talk to you.
I want to have you as a gueston the show because I love having
guests who are also spreadingthe message and I get to meet many
of those and they're the onesthat I have as guests.
And you know what?
They're sharing their ownjourney to the very same destination.

(34:41):
So that invitation, if youwant to be here on the show, go to
kellenfluecigermedia.comKellenflueckegermedia.com There's
a contact form and let's talk.
You are divine.
That's your identity.
So your worth is infinite.
Your identity is a divine being.
Your possibility is you cancreate anything you want.

(35:04):
The O in whipos or wipos w I Po s is ownership.
We give away our lives, wehand over, control the circumstances
in other people.
What a tragedy.
Let's end that right now.
Let's end that this moment.
Take fierce ownership of your life.

(35:25):
And if you want help withthat, that's something I love to
do also.
And S is sovereignty.
Sovereign king, queen regent,you're the sovereign of your own
life.
If you've been handing awaythe direction, the ownership, the
sovereignty means you decideownership, you own it.

(35:46):
But you may be giving thataway to others and living their script.
It's time to stand up and bethe sovereign.
So this is the fourth one inFrom Stuck to Soaring.
And we talked about thoseother three topics and this is your
opportunity to just soar.
It's opportunity to be all ofthose things.

(36:10):
You don't need anybody'spermission to serve.
You don't need anyone'spermission to love.
You don't need anyone'spermission to forgive.
That is a sacred act in yourown heart, forgiving yourself or
others.
Your story through thiswilderness of life, this battleground

(36:30):
of development, this canyon ofstruggle, your story through that
is the most powerful thing you own.
Your story is somebody'ssurvival guide.
Now, you can sit on it or youcan share it.
I would love to hear it eitheron this show or in a book or in some

(36:51):
other way because somebody'sdesperate to hear it right now.
Now, I've given you a coupleof invitations and I'm going to give
you one final one.
If you want help, you don'tknow how to get your story organized
and created into a service ora product or a book or something.
Go to www.dreambuildwriteit.com.

(37:17):
it's on the screenwww.dreambuildrite it somebody's
waiting for you and we canturn your story into a movement.
So at this conclusion of thisfourth episode of From Stuck to Soaring.
Listen.
Go listen back to him.
Listen to the guests.
We've had in between.
They're doing this.

(37:37):
You can too.
It is my mission and purposeto serve you and to help.
I love you.
I'm absolutely committed toyour growth and moving forward to
create your ultimate liferight here, right now.

(38:03):
Your opportunity for massivegrowth is right in front of you.
Every episode gives youpractical tips and practices that
will change everything.
If you want to know more, goto kellenflukermedia.com if you want
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