This one’s fresh off a 2000s dance party—and I’ve got a hot take for the men still standing on the sidelines. If you've ever looked around the club and thought, “Why do all these men look like they were dragged here against their will?”—same, babe.
In this episode, we’re calling B.S. on the so-called male loneliness epidemic and unpacking what women are actually tired of: doing all the emotional labor while men lurk in the shadows with zero effort and even less energy.
🔥 We’re talking:
Why effort > rhythm
Why “I’m just not a dancer” isn’t an excuse for being boring
Why the problem isn’t loneliness—it’s entitlement without effort
You want connection? Then get out of the corner. Smile. Engage. Try.
Because we’re done dragging grown men to the dance floor.
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If being picky means expecting effort and basic social energy, I’ll stay picky.
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