What does it really mean to prepare for marriage or a long-term relationship? In Zessions episode 27, we explore the different phases of commitment, emphasizing that preparation isn’t tied to a specific timeline—it’s about aligning goals, values, and expectations for the future. Whether a couple is a few months in or years together, these conversations help build a strong foundation.
Key Discussion Points:
Defining "preparing for marriage" – It’s not just about wedding planning but about long-term relationship growth.
Relationship phases & timing – When is the right time to start these conversations? (Hint: It depends on the couple!)
A proactive approach – How reflecting on the past, engaging in the present, and planning for the future strengthens relationships.
Beyond the religious context – While pre-marital counseling often has a religious connotation, this discussion applies broadly to all couples.
Essential Topics for Relationship Readiness:
This episode breaks down key relational areas couples should address: Relationship origin story – Understanding how your journey began.
Family & History – How past experiences shape relationships. Values – Where personal, cultural, and spiritual beliefs fit in. Finances – Splitting expenses, financial goals, and money mindset.
Intimacy – Emotional and physical connection.
Home & lifestyle – Living preferences and shared responsibilities.
Conflict & communication – Navigating disagreements productively. Future planning – Aligning visions for life together.
Takeaway: Relationships require ongoing adjustments, and many changes often happen at once! This episode helps couples build awareness and set intentional foundations for a healthy, lasting partnership.
Listen now to start the conversation about your future together!
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https://zessio.com/product/marriage-prep/
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