本期行星酒馆是一场坦白局。对谈的嘉宾是纪录片导演Chen Siyi。
两年前，Siyi的作品《我们在黑夜的海上》（Dear Mother, I Meant to Write about Death）在釜山电影节首映。她在电影中细腻地记录了母亲在患癌之后所经历的种种，以及母女在代际与生死之间的幽微时刻，获得了广泛的好评和纪录片单元的特别提及奖。
但是——今天我们不是来聊纪录片的。我们从彼此的猫开始聊，其实真正想讨论的，是成长在某个特定语境和时代的两个人，在亲密关系中遇到的一些创伤。
聊着聊着，我们发现，虽然这些经历可能给我们带来了巨大的痛苦，但每一次跟这些创伤纠缠的背后，都是一个个凝视真实自己的时刻。
如果你最近也经历了一些人生和情感上的低潮，也希望这一期节目，能给你带来一些创伤之上的联结吧。
In this episode of Planet Speakeasy, I sit down with documentary filmmaker Chen Siyi for an open and candid conversation. Chen is best known for her film Dear Mother, I Meant to Write about Death, which premiered at the Busan International Film Festival. The film intimately chronicles her mother’s battle with cancer and the emotional complexities of their relationship, earning widespread acclaim.
However, the discussion in this episode goes beyond the documentary. We talk about cats, relationships, and the countless heartbreaks that somehow — in a painfully enlightening way — nourished our lives and creativity.
If you’ve experienced heartbreak or are going through one now, we hope our conversation offers a sense of connection and understanding through our honest exchange of growing pains.
小🍠上关注Siyi
https://www.xiaohongshu.com/user/profile/5f93e4f10000000001006be6
我们在黑夜的海上
https://vimeo.com/ondemand/dearmother
提到的书
Unbound: Women's Guide to Power by Kasia Urbaniak
https://www.amazon.com/Unbound-Womans-Guide-Kasia-Urbaniak/dp/0593084519
配乐
Yanqiu - 給自己的情書 (行星酒館cover)
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