June 16, 2020 • 14 mins
We deal with some behind the scene drama with Brody and Scotty. Elvis read a list about things a Narcissist would say, and who on the show is the least?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Fine Represents show. Let's have a fifteen minute morning show podcast,
shall we? Hello? Hello, This is gonna be interesting. So
(00:20):
the podcast is full of all your favorites. Froggy's here,
there's Danielle. They're scary, there's Gandhi, they're straightenate. Uh, there's
Dave Brody, who's actually with us today. High Brodie, Hello, Hello,
Hell there is And then Garrett is outside. The thing
is is he's in the flight the flight pattern of
(00:42):
Newark Airport. Every once in a while you'll hear a
plane flyover very close again exactly as if they're in
the podcast. Yes, all right, Uh, where do you guys
want to start? Any suggestions? Which after dinner last night
when you want out for the first time in three months? Elvis,
Oh I had I had? Oh nice veal, veal U million, Nancy,
(01:07):
it was nice cut of veal with little salad on top.
Thanks for asking. Oh here is say some something you
don't know. Every morning Brody listens to our show on
the phone while we're doing the show. Uh, we call
him and put him on hold so we can listen
to us on hold. And how's that working out? Brodie?
Is it? Is it good? So far? Yeah, it's a
good system. It works, okay, but Brody insists that we
(01:31):
call him because he doesn't want to he doesn't want
to pay for the minutes? Is that what she said? Straight?
And Nate? So every morning, Brodie, will you know, text
Scottie or myself and say hey, can you call me?
And what just the hotline? And he always insists that
we call him. Why do we think it's because he
(01:55):
doesn't want to use his minutes? But that that was
that way? Yeah, a minute, your minutes? So Brodie, how
come you would rather us call you than you call us?
That isn't true? Oh well no, no, n you just
(02:16):
said that, he insists nobody has minutes. Second of all,
four months ago when this started, Nate told me, don't
call I'm not ready. I'm doing a hundred things. So
he made up to call me, and now I text
Scotty because Nate's too busy. So today Scotty threw a
(02:39):
fit that I needed him to call me back. Well,
I've been throwing a fit for weeks. I just figured
I need to know, like, do you have some nineties
phone plan where you have to pay for Again? I
think Nate uses the hotline to dial out, so he
doesn't want me to call in so he can decide
what line I'm on. So what Brodie is saying is
(03:02):
he understands that everyone has their jobs to do. Give
him a call when it's convenient for you to call.
Otherwise it's it's it messing It messes up people's morning.
Is that? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, well, we
have a job to do, So why don't you call
us because you're not doing anything? I would if I
wasn't told not to. Well, you can, please, Scotty. I'm
(03:24):
so sorry. I asked you to call one phone number
in four hours. Why is Karen? Why is Karen so loud?
Can we back Karen down a little bit? How did
I become Karen? Scotty is the Karen? I can't? He
is a little loud. He's coming in, okay, thank you, Scotty,
Scott drunk? Where he is going on? I don't know.
(03:47):
I must make an assumption. Brody knows that everyone's like
scurrying around getting their jobs done, and if he calls
in the middle of it, it slows you down. So
that's correct. Have a moment to call him. He's fine,
we holler, I don't know. That's what I'm seeing here.
I don't know why get crazy than that we have
an answer. That's great because if Nate really thought it
(04:08):
was a minute thing, that's just so confusing on so
many levels. Like Decatalie, I don't even know if that's
a word, but I don't think it happened in this
decade that people still have minutes. I don't have minutes anymore.
Can you call me after nine o'clock? By minutes don't
count in. I have three nights and talk to my friends. Yeah.
When when, I mean, how long ago was it when
(04:30):
the minutes thing disappeared? That's been a long time we
had living with my family. It had to be, Yeah,
at least twenty years ago, because just like Garrett said
and Froggy, I remember having to wait till nine pm.
That was because that's just about like two and two,
around two three. Well, okay, I'll take you back even further.
(04:53):
Before we had cell phones, if you wanted to call
someone who wasn't in your town, it cost you money.
And so if you wanted to, like we'd have to
wait until a certain time and then the rates go down.
If I wanted to call my grandmother, in California, we
had to wait till late at night. Otherwise it costs
more per minute. That has all changed. I'm glad that
you guys remember do you remember calling cards? I used
(05:15):
to get the calling card where you dial in eight
hundred number and then you die like a forty seven
digit pin number. I just said pen number. Please don't
say pen number. Yeah, pen number on whatever, Karen digit
number in order. Karen is someone who speaks English. Oh boy,
(05:39):
I just feel like we we really kicked this off
on the wall. But so something you just did. No, see,
we were gonna go. We're gonna go an entire fifteen
minutes without the F word. Well it's okay, Hey, so Garrett,
I haven't heard any air traffic lately. This is not
voting well for the airline. And just one, no, no,
(06:02):
you get you get a one every couple couple of
minutes to an hour or so. But the long guys
from the neighborhood are out and about, so we should
hear from them in a minute. What wait, hold on,
what is this? I think it's the chopper approaching. Yeah,
my choppers here. But yeah, so we got the we
(06:23):
got the brody call thing out of the way. Okay, now,
what do we want to bring up on our fifteen
minute morning show podcast Narcissism? Okay, okay, uh we were
reading this on medium this morning. Uh. Boompomp boom Oh.
Here we go. Four things a narcissist will say to
(06:44):
invalidate you. All right? Are we in? Sounds like I
always with these lists because I'm like, they're going to
list off everything that I say, everything that I do. Know.
What's the first one? Do we really want to talk
about it? It seems like we've been so negative so far. Alright,
Number one on the list of things narcissists say. Number one,
(07:09):
I don't remember anything from last night. A narcissist would say, Hey,
everything was great for the first couple of months, and
then one night we went to hang out at his
friend's house. The evening ended up with him being aggressive
towards me, as well as cursing at me, saying things
that were absolutely obscene. The next morning, he woke up
and acted like nothing happened. Narcissists do that. They drag
you to the ground, they beat you up spiritually and emotionally,
(07:32):
and the next day they're like, what what did I do?
You know? What you did. You're a fucking asshole. That
okay number two on the list of things narcissists say.
Don't be so lame, you'll be fine, Like totally taking
the fact that you have pain in your life away
from you. Oh man, I've definitely done that before. I
(07:56):
know I have in my life at some point. Oh,
I'm sure I have. At some point, probably one of
my friends didn't want to go somewhere or do something.
I'm sure. I was like, don't be lame, let's go.
I'm sure I've done that. I'm sorry. What did What
happens to them? They you're you're you're not validating their feelings?
Is that what? Yeah? If I say that I can't
do something because of whatever reason in my mind, in
(08:17):
my heart, I don't want to do it, it doesn't
feel right, You're like, fuck, you'll be fine. You know
what I'm saying. Just be fair. I think everybody's done
it at some point. Like if you went out with
someone and you were going to drink, and you thought
you were both going to be drinking, and then they don't,
You're like, oh, lame, come on, I feel like we've
all done it. I'm not alone in this I know it,
(08:40):
number three and a list of things that narcissists will
tell you. Oh, you're making a big deal out of nothing.
Oh yeah, yeah, that's a bad one. Wow, that's terrible.
If it's a big deal to you, that's kind of
all that matters in this situation, right, You have to
take their feelings into consideration. Are so self focused. And finally,
(09:02):
I'm sorry, but I have no obligation to respond to
you that I was dating. When I was dating a narcissist,
there were days we go by without a response. We
were supposedly in a committed relationship, yet when I brought
it up, he would roll his eyes and tell me
I couldn't expect him to respond every time I reached
out to him. Yeah. No, I think in a relationship
(09:25):
with someone, you do to them. Yeah. Uh go gandhi narcissist.
I feel a lot better after hearing that list. I
thought I was going to hit all of the categories,
and I only hit one, So I'm happy about that.
But is thinking the list had anything to do with
me being narcissistic in itself? I think it might be. Yes,
(09:47):
it might, Danielle narcissistic people. I don't think that list
really described narcissistic people. I don't know that that. I
didn't think anything on the list was what. I didn't
think you were gonna say what you said, like, I
thought it was gonna be totally different things, to be honest,
because narcissist. Narcissists look at everything happening because of them
(10:08):
as they Yeah, everything that's happening, right right, Brodie, Berdie,
what are you thinking? You gotta turn your microphone on?
Microphone Hello, Afghanistan, delais, Oh are you there? Bill? He
may have to toggle toggling. I don't know. I don't
(10:33):
know what's wrong, right, yeah, I'm here. You're on the
same line, right if you're on the same feed, So
I don't get it. Okay, I'll answer for bro go ahead,
go ahead and get I don't even know what Brodie
would say. You would say something, you know, narcissists here, narcissistic,
And then I really can say anything about Brodie right now,
(10:55):
you can't say anything. You can hear you though, Hello,
Yes there you are now Brody, We're now well. I
don't know it's working on that definition. Narcissistic having an
excessive erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance. That's nate. Okay,
(11:21):
So I didn't even think about, you know, physical attributes.
I was thinking about just you know, you know, totally
selfish things. Wow, okay, Yeah, you got to defend yourself me.
I mean I do. I do take pride in my appearance.
I do turn myself today time to time. If that's
(11:42):
a narcissist, then call me a narcissist. On what do
you think, Froggy confident, I think that's narcissistic. People are great.
I don't know why you guys hate us so bad,
want you want to put us down. I mean, we're
great people. I don't know that's people in the world exactly.
(12:05):
I mean, don't we all are? Don't we are? We
all wired with a certain degree of narcissis. I think
everybody's got a little bit of narcissistic in them, no
matter whether they wanted minute or not. Right, well, and
if you don't, then you consider you a bath mat
or whatever flower you don't want. No, I agree with no.
(12:26):
Lisa's in here and she just said I don't have
any narcissistic qualities. Bullshit, that's what a narcissist would say her, right, see, Sary,
what are you thinking? Well, I don't think I'm a
narcissistic person. I just think I've been a victim of
narcissist in my whole life. I have to revaluate all
(12:47):
my friends, you know. I don't feel like there's been
people along the way and my you know, and all
this time on earth, and I'm like, wait a second,
that person was just narcissistic, because I've heard all these
phrases being used against me before, in some form or
another at some time, just saying all right, I don't know, Scary,
I think out of all of us, you do seem
(13:07):
to be the least narcissistic. You and Danielle and Garrett
all the rest of us were just who would you
label the most narcissistic? You go first, el us, go
ahead and give us that list. Me. I'll put myself
(13:29):
out there. I hold that was narcissist. My neighbors here,
hey tom oh, hey, he need the host. He needs
the host. We all need the host. The host. You
I'm very close, So I don't know. Sitting here playing
playing the who's the most narcissistic person on the show
(13:50):
game is probably a dangerous game. We shouldn't even down
that road. But you know it's good to explore. You
know how you respond to people if one says, hey,
you know what, I don't want to feel like going
because I have a headache. I'll get over it, right,
Let them have a headache. How much time left, Froggy,
because I haven't I want to start talking about the rules.
(14:11):
Thirty seconds? All right, Well tomorrow on the Big Show.
Make sure you're listening because Lisa and Froggy are about
to take a road trip and Lisa has come up
with a list of rules for the for the road trip.
I'll be value here. They are right here, I have
them on paper. I will be violating all one, two, three, four,
or five, six, seven, eight of them before we even
get out of the neighborhood. You're so ridiculous. A fifteen
(14:37):
minute morning show
Fine Represents show. Let's have a fifteen minute morning show podcast,
shall we? Hello? Hello, This is gonna be interesting. So
(00:20):
the podcast is full of all your favorites. Froggy's here,
there's Danielle. They're scary, there's Gandhi, they're straightenate. Uh, there's
Dave Brody, who's actually with us today. High Brodie, Hello, Hello,
Hell there is And then Garrett is outside. The thing
is is he's in the flight the flight pattern of
(00:42):
Newark Airport. Every once in a while you'll hear a
plane flyover very close again exactly as if they're in
the podcast. Yes, all right, Uh, where do you guys
want to start? Any suggestions? Which after dinner last night
when you want out for the first time in three months? Elvis,
Oh I had I had? Oh nice veal, veal U million, Nancy,
(01:07):
it was nice cut of veal with little salad on top.
Thanks for asking. Oh here is say some something you
don't know. Every morning Brody listens to our show on
the phone while we're doing the show. Uh, we call
him and put him on hold so we can listen
to us on hold. And how's that working out? Brodie?
Is it? Is it good? So far? Yeah, it's a
good system. It works, okay, but Brody insists that we
(01:31):
call him because he doesn't want to he doesn't want
to pay for the minutes? Is that what she said? Straight?
And Nate? So every morning, Brodie, will you know, text
Scottie or myself and say hey, can you call me?
And what just the hotline? And he always insists that
we call him. Why do we think it's because he
(01:55):
doesn't want to use his minutes? But that that was
that way? Yeah, a minute, your minutes? So Brodie, how
come you would rather us call you than you call us?
That isn't true? Oh well no, no, n you just
(02:16):
said that, he insists nobody has minutes. Second of all,
four months ago when this started, Nate told me, don't
call I'm not ready. I'm doing a hundred things. So
he made up to call me, and now I text
Scotty because Nate's too busy. So today Scotty threw a
(02:39):
fit that I needed him to call me back. Well,
I've been throwing a fit for weeks. I just figured
I need to know, like, do you have some nineties
phone plan where you have to pay for Again? I
think Nate uses the hotline to dial out, so he
doesn't want me to call in so he can decide
what line I'm on. So what Brodie is saying is
(03:02):
he understands that everyone has their jobs to do. Give
him a call when it's convenient for you to call.
Otherwise it's it's it messing It messes up people's morning.
Is that? Is that what you're saying? Yeah, well, we
have a job to do, So why don't you call
us because you're not doing anything? I would if I
wasn't told not to. Well, you can, please, Scotty. I'm
(03:24):
so sorry. I asked you to call one phone number
in four hours. Why is Karen? Why is Karen so loud?
Can we back Karen down a little bit? How did
I become Karen? Scotty is the Karen? I can't? He
is a little loud. He's coming in, okay, thank you, Scotty,
Scott drunk? Where he is going on? I don't know.
(03:47):
I must make an assumption. Brody knows that everyone's like
scurrying around getting their jobs done, and if he calls
in the middle of it, it slows you down. So
that's correct. Have a moment to call him. He's fine,
we holler, I don't know. That's what I'm seeing here.
I don't know why get crazy than that we have
an answer. That's great because if Nate really thought it
(04:08):
was a minute thing, that's just so confusing on so
many levels. Like Decatalie, I don't even know if that's
a word, but I don't think it happened in this
decade that people still have minutes. I don't have minutes anymore.
Can you call me after nine o'clock? By minutes don't
count in. I have three nights and talk to my friends. Yeah.
When when, I mean, how long ago was it when
(04:30):
the minutes thing disappeared? That's been a long time we
had living with my family. It had to be, Yeah,
at least twenty years ago, because just like Garrett said
and Froggy, I remember having to wait till nine pm.
That was because that's just about like two and two,
around two three. Well, okay, I'll take you back even further.
(04:53):
Before we had cell phones, if you wanted to call
someone who wasn't in your town, it cost you money.
And so if you wanted to, like we'd have to
wait until a certain time and then the rates go down.
If I wanted to call my grandmother, in California, we
had to wait till late at night. Otherwise it costs
more per minute. That has all changed. I'm glad that
you guys remember do you remember calling cards? I used
(05:15):
to get the calling card where you dial in eight
hundred number and then you die like a forty seven
digit pin number. I just said pen number. Please don't
say pen number. Yeah, pen number on whatever, Karen digit
number in order. Karen is someone who speaks English. Oh boy,
(05:39):
I just feel like we we really kicked this off
on the wall. But so something you just did. No, see,
we were gonna go. We're gonna go an entire fifteen
minutes without the F word. Well it's okay, Hey, so Garrett,
I haven't heard any air traffic lately. This is not
voting well for the airline. And just one, no, no,
(06:02):
you get you get a one every couple couple of
minutes to an hour or so. But the long guys
from the neighborhood are out and about, so we should
hear from them in a minute. What wait, hold on,
what is this? I think it's the chopper approaching. Yeah,
my choppers here. But yeah, so we got the we
(06:23):
got the brody call thing out of the way. Okay, now,
what do we want to bring up on our fifteen
minute morning show podcast Narcissism? Okay, okay, uh we were
reading this on medium this morning. Uh. Boompomp boom Oh.
Here we go. Four things a narcissist will say to
(06:44):
invalidate you. All right? Are we in? Sounds like I
always with these lists because I'm like, they're going to
list off everything that I say, everything that I do. Know.
What's the first one? Do we really want to talk
about it? It seems like we've been so negative so far. Alright,
Number one on the list of things narcissists say. Number one,
(07:09):
I don't remember anything from last night. A narcissist would say, Hey,
everything was great for the first couple of months, and
then one night we went to hang out at his
friend's house. The evening ended up with him being aggressive
towards me, as well as cursing at me, saying things
that were absolutely obscene. The next morning, he woke up
and acted like nothing happened. Narcissists do that. They drag
you to the ground, they beat you up spiritually and emotionally,
(07:32):
and the next day they're like, what what did I do?
You know? What you did. You're a fucking asshole. That
okay number two on the list of things narcissists say.
Don't be so lame, you'll be fine, Like totally taking
the fact that you have pain in your life away
from you. Oh man, I've definitely done that before. I
(07:56):
know I have in my life at some point. Oh,
I'm sure I have. At some point, probably one of
my friends didn't want to go somewhere or do something.
I'm sure. I was like, don't be lame, let's go.
I'm sure I've done that. I'm sorry. What did What
happens to them? They you're you're you're not validating their feelings?
Is that what? Yeah? If I say that I can't
do something because of whatever reason in my mind, in
(08:17):
my heart, I don't want to do it, it doesn't
feel right, You're like, fuck, you'll be fine. You know
what I'm saying. Just be fair. I think everybody's done
it at some point. Like if you went out with
someone and you were going to drink, and you thought
you were both going to be drinking, and then they don't,
You're like, oh, lame, come on, I feel like we've
all done it. I'm not alone in this I know it,
(08:40):
number three and a list of things that narcissists will
tell you. Oh, you're making a big deal out of nothing.
Oh yeah, yeah, that's a bad one. Wow, that's terrible.
If it's a big deal to you, that's kind of
all that matters in this situation, right, You have to
take their feelings into consideration. Are so self focused. And finally,
(09:02):
I'm sorry, but I have no obligation to respond to
you that I was dating. When I was dating a narcissist,
there were days we go by without a response. We
were supposedly in a committed relationship, yet when I brought
it up, he would roll his eyes and tell me
I couldn't expect him to respond every time I reached
out to him. Yeah. No, I think in a relationship
(09:25):
with someone, you do to them. Yeah. Uh go gandhi narcissist.
I feel a lot better after hearing that list. I
thought I was going to hit all of the categories,
and I only hit one, So I'm happy about that.
But is thinking the list had anything to do with
me being narcissistic in itself? I think it might be. Yes,
(09:47):
it might, Danielle narcissistic people. I don't think that list
really described narcissistic people. I don't know that that. I
didn't think anything on the list was what. I didn't
think you were gonna say what you said, like, I
thought it was gonna be totally different things, to be honest,
because narcissist. Narcissists look at everything happening because of them
(10:08):
as they Yeah, everything that's happening, right right, Brodie, Berdie,
what are you thinking? You gotta turn your microphone on?
Microphone Hello, Afghanistan, delais, Oh are you there? Bill? He
may have to toggle toggling. I don't know. I don't
(10:33):
know what's wrong, right, yeah, I'm here. You're on the
same line, right if you're on the same feed, So
I don't get it. Okay, I'll answer for bro go ahead,
go ahead and get I don't even know what Brodie
would say. You would say something, you know, narcissists here, narcissistic,
And then I really can say anything about Brodie right now,
(10:55):
you can't say anything. You can hear you though, Hello,
Yes there you are now Brody, We're now well. I
don't know it's working on that definition. Narcissistic having an
excessive erotic interest in oneself and one's physical appearance. That's nate. Okay,
(11:21):
So I didn't even think about, you know, physical attributes.
I was thinking about just you know, you know, totally
selfish things. Wow, okay, Yeah, you got to defend yourself me.
I mean I do. I do take pride in my appearance.
I do turn myself today time to time. If that's
(11:42):
a narcissist, then call me a narcissist. On what do
you think, Froggy confident, I think that's narcissistic. People are great.
I don't know why you guys hate us so bad,
want you want to put us down. I mean, we're
great people. I don't know that's people in the world exactly.
(12:05):
I mean, don't we all are? Don't we are? We
all wired with a certain degree of narcissis. I think
everybody's got a little bit of narcissistic in them, no
matter whether they wanted minute or not. Right, well, and
if you don't, then you consider you a bath mat
or whatever flower you don't want. No, I agree with no.
(12:26):
Lisa's in here and she just said I don't have
any narcissistic qualities. Bullshit, that's what a narcissist would say her, right, see, Sary,
what are you thinking? Well, I don't think I'm a
narcissistic person. I just think I've been a victim of
narcissist in my whole life. I have to revaluate all
(12:47):
my friends, you know. I don't feel like there's been
people along the way and my you know, and all
this time on earth, and I'm like, wait a second,
that person was just narcissistic, because I've heard all these
phrases being used against me before, in some form or
another at some time, just saying all right, I don't know, Scary,
I think out of all of us, you do seem
(13:07):
to be the least narcissistic. You and Danielle and Garrett
all the rest of us were just who would you
label the most narcissistic? You go first, el us, go
ahead and give us that list. Me. I'll put myself
(13:29):
out there. I hold that was narcissist. My neighbors here,
hey tom oh, hey, he need the host. He needs
the host. We all need the host. The host. You
I'm very close, So I don't know. Sitting here playing
playing the who's the most narcissistic person on the show
(13:50):
game is probably a dangerous game. We shouldn't even down
that road. But you know it's good to explore. You
know how you respond to people if one says, hey,
you know what, I don't want to feel like going
because I have a headache. I'll get over it, right,
Let them have a headache. How much time left, Froggy,
because I haven't I want to start talking about the rules.
(14:11):
Thirty seconds? All right, Well tomorrow on the Big Show.
Make sure you're listening because Lisa and Froggy are about
to take a road trip and Lisa has come up
with a list of rules for the for the road trip.
I'll be value here. They are right here, I have
them on paper. I will be violating all one, two, three, four,
or five, six, seven, eight of them before we even
get out of the neighborhood. You're so ridiculous. A fifteen
(14:37):
minute morning show
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