April 3, 2019 • 15 mins
We ask Brody if we can remember when he was WRONG. Nate asks a simple question , what is love??
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
What would you talk about on your on your podcast
Firm Elvis Presents Morning Show. I don't want to take
the lead on this one. Well you should take a
scary should take the lead because we hadn't had a minute.
(00:23):
The planet we're gonna talking about said, I'm just gonna
hit it. I think we should talk about the fact
that Rody won't admit that he's wrong in Gandhi's right.
He's really upset about this. I don't why there's a
here's the problem. I get it's a bit that you
don't think I ever say I'm wrong, no, no, no,
but what I'm actually right? It's going to be a
(00:45):
problem in the room. I don't want to learned in
school that you never put yourself before someone else in
a sentence. I don't know what school you went to, Danielle.
I learned the same thing in my school. But you know,
grammars my thing. What you can't do? And listen to
the Book and Boys podcast. We've had this conversation hundred times.
You can't say me and went to the store. You
can't say me and Garrett are go into the movie
Gandhi and Me. Okay, when you stop, when you end
(01:06):
the sentence, all right and I. If the sentence makes
sense without the other person, that's how you know it's correct.
So you would say, oh, Nate went to the movies
with Scary and me. You could also say Nate went
to the movies with Me and Scary. You can't say
me and Scary went to the movies with Nate and
you hold on. You wouldn't say Nate went to the
movies with Scary and Eye because you wouldn't go to
the movies with I. That's the rule. But you would
(01:28):
say Nate and I went to the movies. The Eye
is what it's before the action, and me is after
the action. I wrote, hey, there, can you please check
on something for me and Gandhi? That's correct? He said
it was correct, and I said it's not correct. He
take out Gandhi. Now say the sentence without Gandhi's name.
Can you please check on something for me? Right? Right?
We're not arguing about whether or not she can use me.
(01:50):
We're arguing about whether or not the me should come first.
I'm saying it should be Danielle and me, not me
and or she's saying it should be Gandhi and me. Right,
So both are acceptable. That's wrong because you wouldn't say
and I. You wouldn't say, but I would think Gandhi
and me makes more sense than me and God. Okay,
I was always taught you never put yourself first. Hold on.
(02:13):
That's politeness. But grammatically, let's say, for instance, I'm going
to the to the store right with Nate, right, and
then at the last minute I remembered Scary, Hey, I'm
going to the store. Nate's going to the store with me,
and Scary right. It's still grammatically correct to add him.
And that's not incorrect to add him. It's just I
added him last. It's not incorrect grammatically, So it's right
(02:34):
or wrong. You can say him wrong, just to be honest.
Why I needle him more? I get that because I'm
not shape. No, I'm not. I'm not bent that a
shape at all. I just don't want you to be like, oh, look,
he won't admit he's wrong if I'm right. See that's
the problem. When i'm wrong, I'll tell you i'm wrong,
But then it's frustrating when I'm right and you go, oh, look,
(02:55):
he's just saying he's right to be right when I'm right,
then it's like you don't give me credit for being right,
because you're just saying I'm being right to be right.
But God is just stirring the pot. I still done
on this. That's the rule. I don't agree with either
Idi and Danielle. But okay, play the clip from our
Bookken Boys podcast right now. Play the clip. Don't do yourself.
(03:21):
I want everyone in the room could be a judge
on this one. Scary it's on the Brooklyn Boys page.
Is scary wrong on this clip? All right, let's let's
let's let's go to the bigger question. While he looks, well,
that's the last thing. It was, the last thing you
can admit that you were wrong about. I thought people
in this room like me. You know, I love you, Brody.
(03:45):
Oh my goodness, it's just fun to cooke fun. And
I'm gonna say I have tried very hard to like you.
I say I have tried very hard. I very much
love Brody. I don't just like him like I love him.
But I think that that one of the things about
me that everyone should just get used to is if
I love you, I'm going to bother you. That's my
thing too, is you can you know I like you?
(04:07):
When I joke with you, and that's how I know
that somebody likes that's love. Needling is for me. I
think it's love to be honest, you don't tolerate you.
When I do a podcast with you? What is love?
What is love? That's what I was gonna say. How
(04:28):
did your face? It's a hataway lyric? What is love
to you? T What is love to me? What do
you mean? I mean? And uncle tech? Seriously? Like what
one thing? I mean? Your daughters? What does love mean
to you? With Jada Annell? This is a real question. Yeah,
this is a real question, like a legit, like give
you a real answer. Yes, yes, all right, um, I
(04:51):
think you know, uh love, love has got very it's
got it's got very, very, very many levels. I think
that when you fall in love for the first time,
you you you feel like, oh my god, I love
And then when you realize that you're gonna now propose
to someone and move on or move in with someone,
all of a sudden you've loved at a different level.
(05:13):
And then I think, all of a sudden you think, wow,
I can't possibly love anymore. And then you will have
children or something big will happen and you can't believe
that your heart grows that much bigger. I think through life,
I don't really know if we completely tap at our
love level. I think that we look back and we
(05:34):
go wow, I thought I seriously loved you then. But
now you fast forward all of these years and all
of these trials and tribulations and happiness and happy times together,
and then you finally stand there and you look down
the path and you go wow, I thought then, but
I can I love you now? And then you really
feel this at the end. See that's how I mean.
(05:56):
My definition of love is different. I think everybody's interpretation
is different, but mine is. Once you know that thing
person exists, you can't live without it, and you can't
not do it, be a part of it, have it
in your life in any way, shape or form. You know,
It's funny when you have your first kid, you think
you know there's all this love inside of you, and
(06:16):
then you honestly think, there's no way in hell I'm
going to be able to have another child and have
this much love for them, Like, there's no way. I
don't have enough room in my heart. How is that possible?
You think? I ask any parent and that's why the
younger kids get and then you have that child and
you realize, oh my gosh, I have this much room
for another one, and I love you just as much,
(06:39):
and it's just just burst. It's incredible. It's very interesting
to see your face when you say that, because you're
a parent. Garrett's a parent, Great's a parent, Brodie's parent.
What do you love? Gandhi? But I do I love that? No.
I would say my definition of love is putting somebody
else before my self, no matter what, even if it
(07:01):
affects me negatively, if it's doing something I don't want
to do, if it's inconveniencing me, I still put that
person first and I'm not resentful of it. I feel
like that's my version of love. That's good. Okay, So
what is that in your life right now? Can you
tell us my sister I definitely love her unconditionally, My
family for sure, my friends, there's some conditions there, a
lot of them. I also like Gandhi just said her version,
(07:22):
like everybody has a different version, Gandhi. I love that. Yeah,
I I personally what Danielle was just describing about how
she's like my heart is exploding and it's amazing. That's
how I felt yesterday when I was playing with this
little puppy. I thought I was gonna squish it to death.
Like I was, like, I love you so much. I've
never loved anything. Get her away from the puppy exactly.
They took it from me. But it's fine, Okay, scary,
(07:44):
it's a new car, I know. I actually was listening
to what Danielle was saying, and I'm like, oh, that's
how profound. I never never thought of that before. Just
like that. You never thought people love their kids. No,
I never thought. I never thought your heart can be full.
And then you're like, oh my god, there's no more
room for anymore love because I'm I'm comparing it to
my stomach. You actually worry, You actually scary. You actually
(08:05):
worry about it, right. I don't know about you, but
you worry about, oh my gosh, am I going to
be able to love this one as much as I
love this one thing? You really think that at first,
and then it comes and you're like, how can you?
How can a gas tank? Or like your your stomach
is full of food. It's like I can't eat another,
but you really can't. Person you can't explain. But then
all of a sudden, another person comes around, and then
you're like, I'm gonna have an You're not expecting that
(08:28):
next level. You you feel like, wow, I've capped out,
and then there's another level. Hence I thought I loved
you then, but I realized, oh my god, I love
you so much. Now. This is the first room I've
ever been in where all of the people with children
were really loving the fact that they all had children.
Because I'll tell you what, all the people that I've
worked with before like if I could put them back in,
(08:49):
there are moments where you want to put them back in.
Of course, most parts cried. The first time I cried
the first night I brought my son home. I thought
my life was over. Honestly I did, because I was like,
this is how do they let you out of the hospital,
Like this, I'm gonna sue the hospital. What a bunch
of a holes. I was. Ali was actually like coddling
me because I was crying on the bed because I
(09:10):
was like, there's no way out of this. There's no way, like, hey, mom, dad,
take the kids, see you later, Like this is your responsibility.
After that hurdle and a box of tissues. I was good,
but I cried the first night. But after you realize
it's like push come to shove. It's like you and
no one else you're responsible for someone you turn a corner.
(09:31):
That sounds terrifying. How could you hate what you spawned?
Though Gandhi was talking about first like no, Gandi said,
people were regretful that they had kids. Yeah, they're like, oh,
don't ever do this ruined my life and ruin your
just saying is that just what people say to get
by or something? You know, It's like it's like a thing,
very convincing about it. Yeah, would you say, you watch
the news there are people who just they don't want
(09:53):
their kids, They don't like their kids. Any animal on
the planet can have children, but only special people can
be parents. That's the saw. That's that's a very profound staff.
I mean, a dog can have puppies, doesn't make it
a parent. Like just because you had sex unprotected and
the baby came out doesn't make you a parent. You
have to there's a there's an old saying there's a
reason that the woman takes nine and a half months.
(10:14):
It's to get the parents ready. Not as much as
the baby. But you have to you have to, like
you guys know, you're not a parent for like six
eight months. The first six eight months, you're hoping like
your brothers and sisters are gonna come by, like like
they take your niece, Like they take your niece and
nephew back when you're done with them. I gotta have
any siblings. Nobody was coming, But you're like, okay, so
when are they coming? Like she's crying, I want to
(10:35):
go to bed. Who's taken her? It takes a while,
said to realize, like, oh no, this is yours. It's
it's so you guys, remember when you were five or
six years old and you needed your parents to carry
her over the puddle or to hold your hand when
it was lightning out right, you're that person for somebody else.
That's when that can't do anything. When you realize that
(10:56):
the people that were always taller than you, now you're
the taller person. That's the part. And then and then
you think about that you created this. Then you realize
what your parents did for you. Then you realize what
they went through and you yelled at them. Then then
you realize everything. You apologize like an anvil falls out
the window and at some point you call your mom
(11:16):
and dad and you go, I'm so sorry. I see
that's funny you say that because my brother I have
an older two older brothers, and my middle brother has
two kids, and he has a much closer relationship with
my parents. Now, granted, it's free babysitting for him, but
I feel like he's achieved a level I haven't yet achieved.
Because I'm not a parent, I don't know what they
went through having me as a kid. Right, I feel
(11:38):
like I'm pretty good at being able to put myself
into those shoes because I think my parents all the
time for everything. I'm like, I don't know how you
guys did this or why you guys did this, and
I'm not kidding you. And I know dogs are not
like children. I am aware of that, but I used to, right,
I used to look at my dog and be like,
I do everything for you. I walk you, I worry
about you, I like look through your ears. I do
all kinds of weird stuff. And if one day he
(11:59):
just like packed up a little knapsack and walked out like,
well I'm not done here, I'll see you later, I
would be like, hold the funk on. I don't know
how people do it. I think I think Danielle Brody
Great Tea, and myself can agree. Trying to talk to
Nate Scary and Gandhi right now about about having kids
in love for the kids, it's gonna go in one
(12:19):
year out the other. You might absorb it, but you
won't understand it. It's one of those things that you
don't get until you're actually in it. You know when
I cried the well, two things I cried the most
when I was trying to breastfeed and it was like
a piranha same here. Oh my gosh. That was they
were anyway. But the second thing was after you, after
you add a second child, you said, I swear to gosh,
(12:40):
it's like, what the funk do I do? Now? We
came over the but we came over that now, not
with that. When we came over from the hospital and
I'm standing there and I remember my oldest wanted to
go outside and play and it was too cold for
the baby. So I started crying and my husband's like,
what's about her? Oh no, he might think I do.
(13:01):
And he's like, you'll figure it out, and you do.
You figure it out. Adding another one is no big exponentially,
one to two is a massive jump. I'm sorry you
go next, but two to three is not that big
of a jump other than two people have to look
at three people as you have to split your attention.
But by the third one you kind of know what
(13:21):
you're doing. You have the clothes, you have the toys,
and and you're used to and you're not no, wait
that on the prairie. But it is a little easier
to go from two to three than one to two.
One to two is is earth shattering, right, Remember the
first time you had great sex, like you lost your virginity,
but you had great, great grazins coming. Can you relate
it to the time. We need a smoother transition to transition.
(13:47):
Speaking of having a second child, great sex, we go
back to one child like birth order. I think, and
I could be wrong about this, but I think after
I get to know somebody, maybe for like a day
or two, I can tell what they are in the
birth order, Like I can point out the only child
from across the room, like wait, so, Gandy, you know
you know where Brody is, obviously because we've talked about it.
(14:08):
Can you go around the room and scary off because
when he stops playing it on this phone, he's going
to join in the conversation to talk about how many
child can you going around the room and like kind
of pick out Danielle's oldest, Nate, youngest, h scary, I
would say youngest, the oldest, middle, I'm the oldest. Would never,
(14:30):
I wouldn't have get that. Yeah, okay, t middle Somewhere
I feel like you're older and younger. No, I'm the
leader of the pack, the oldest. Of course, I've got
two younger sisters. And maybe my power is I can
only tell the only time. Your superpower does not superpower,
superpowers terrible nothing. What are you your youngest? Youngest? Yeah? Yeah,
(14:55):
you were two? Seven fifteen minute Morning Show
What would you talk about on your on your podcast
Firm Elvis Presents Morning Show. I don't want to take
the lead on this one. Well you should take a
scary should take the lead because we hadn't had a minute.
(00:23):
The planet we're gonna talking about said, I'm just gonna
hit it. I think we should talk about the fact
that Rody won't admit that he's wrong in Gandhi's right.
He's really upset about this. I don't why there's a
here's the problem. I get it's a bit that you
don't think I ever say I'm wrong, no, no, no,
but what I'm actually right? It's going to be a
(00:45):
problem in the room. I don't want to learned in
school that you never put yourself before someone else in
a sentence. I don't know what school you went to, Danielle.
I learned the same thing in my school. But you know,
grammars my thing. What you can't do? And listen to
the Book and Boys podcast. We've had this conversation hundred times.
You can't say me and went to the store. You
can't say me and Garrett are go into the movie
Gandhi and Me. Okay, when you stop, when you end
(01:06):
the sentence, all right and I. If the sentence makes
sense without the other person, that's how you know it's correct.
So you would say, oh, Nate went to the movies
with Scary and me. You could also say Nate went
to the movies with Me and Scary. You can't say
me and Scary went to the movies with Nate and
you hold on. You wouldn't say Nate went to the
movies with Scary and Eye because you wouldn't go to
the movies with I. That's the rule. But you would
(01:28):
say Nate and I went to the movies. The Eye
is what it's before the action, and me is after
the action. I wrote, hey, there, can you please check
on something for me and Gandhi? That's correct? He said
it was correct, and I said it's not correct. He
take out Gandhi. Now say the sentence without Gandhi's name.
Can you please check on something for me? Right? Right?
We're not arguing about whether or not she can use me.
(01:50):
We're arguing about whether or not the me should come first.
I'm saying it should be Danielle and me, not me
and or she's saying it should be Gandhi and me. Right,
So both are acceptable. That's wrong because you wouldn't say
and I. You wouldn't say, but I would think Gandhi
and me makes more sense than me and God. Okay,
I was always taught you never put yourself first. Hold on.
(02:13):
That's politeness. But grammatically, let's say, for instance, I'm going
to the to the store right with Nate, right, and
then at the last minute I remembered Scary, Hey, I'm
going to the store. Nate's going to the store with me,
and Scary right. It's still grammatically correct to add him.
And that's not incorrect to add him. It's just I
added him last. It's not incorrect grammatically, So it's right
(02:34):
or wrong. You can say him wrong, just to be honest.
Why I needle him more? I get that because I'm
not shape. No, I'm not. I'm not bent that a
shape at all. I just don't want you to be like, oh, look,
he won't admit he's wrong if I'm right. See that's
the problem. When i'm wrong, I'll tell you i'm wrong,
But then it's frustrating when I'm right and you go, oh, look,
(02:55):
he's just saying he's right to be right when I'm right,
then it's like you don't give me credit for being right,
because you're just saying I'm being right to be right.
But God is just stirring the pot. I still done
on this. That's the rule. I don't agree with either
Idi and Danielle. But okay, play the clip from our
Bookken Boys podcast right now. Play the clip. Don't do yourself.
(03:21):
I want everyone in the room could be a judge
on this one. Scary it's on the Brooklyn Boys page.
Is scary wrong on this clip? All right, let's let's
let's let's go to the bigger question. While he looks, well,
that's the last thing. It was, the last thing you
can admit that you were wrong about. I thought people
in this room like me. You know, I love you, Brody.
(03:45):
Oh my goodness, it's just fun to cooke fun. And
I'm gonna say I have tried very hard to like you.
I say I have tried very hard. I very much
love Brody. I don't just like him like I love him.
But I think that that one of the things about
me that everyone should just get used to is if
I love you, I'm going to bother you. That's my
thing too, is you can you know I like you?
(04:07):
When I joke with you, and that's how I know
that somebody likes that's love. Needling is for me. I
think it's love to be honest, you don't tolerate you.
When I do a podcast with you? What is love?
What is love? That's what I was gonna say. How
(04:28):
did your face? It's a hataway lyric? What is love
to you? T What is love to me? What do
you mean? I mean? And uncle tech? Seriously? Like what
one thing? I mean? Your daughters? What does love mean
to you? With Jada Annell? This is a real question. Yeah,
this is a real question, like a legit, like give
you a real answer. Yes, yes, all right, um, I
(04:51):
think you know, uh love, love has got very it's
got it's got very, very, very many levels. I think
that when you fall in love for the first time,
you you you feel like, oh my god, I love
And then when you realize that you're gonna now propose
to someone and move on or move in with someone,
all of a sudden you've loved at a different level.
(05:13):
And then I think, all of a sudden you think, wow,
I can't possibly love anymore. And then you will have
children or something big will happen and you can't believe
that your heart grows that much bigger. I think through life,
I don't really know if we completely tap at our
love level. I think that we look back and we
(05:34):
go wow, I thought I seriously loved you then. But
now you fast forward all of these years and all
of these trials and tribulations and happiness and happy times together,
and then you finally stand there and you look down
the path and you go wow, I thought then, but
I can I love you now? And then you really
feel this at the end. See that's how I mean.
(05:56):
My definition of love is different. I think everybody's interpretation
is different, but mine is. Once you know that thing
person exists, you can't live without it, and you can't
not do it, be a part of it, have it
in your life in any way, shape or form. You know,
It's funny when you have your first kid, you think
you know there's all this love inside of you, and
(06:16):
then you honestly think, there's no way in hell I'm
going to be able to have another child and have
this much love for them, Like, there's no way. I
don't have enough room in my heart. How is that possible?
You think? I ask any parent and that's why the
younger kids get and then you have that child and
you realize, oh my gosh, I have this much room
for another one, and I love you just as much,
(06:39):
and it's just just burst. It's incredible. It's very interesting
to see your face when you say that, because you're
a parent. Garrett's a parent, Great's a parent, Brodie's parent.
What do you love? Gandhi? But I do I love that? No.
I would say my definition of love is putting somebody
else before my self, no matter what, even if it
(07:01):
affects me negatively, if it's doing something I don't want
to do, if it's inconveniencing me, I still put that
person first and I'm not resentful of it. I feel
like that's my version of love. That's good. Okay, So
what is that in your life right now? Can you
tell us my sister I definitely love her unconditionally, My
family for sure, my friends, there's some conditions there, a
lot of them. I also like Gandhi just said her version,
(07:22):
like everybody has a different version, Gandhi. I love that. Yeah,
I I personally what Danielle was just describing about how
she's like my heart is exploding and it's amazing. That's
how I felt yesterday when I was playing with this
little puppy. I thought I was gonna squish it to death.
Like I was, like, I love you so much. I've
never loved anything. Get her away from the puppy exactly.
They took it from me. But it's fine, Okay, scary,
(07:44):
it's a new car, I know. I actually was listening
to what Danielle was saying, and I'm like, oh, that's
how profound. I never never thought of that before. Just
like that. You never thought people love their kids. No,
I never thought. I never thought your heart can be full.
And then you're like, oh my god, there's no more
room for anymore love because I'm I'm comparing it to
my stomach. You actually worry, You actually scary. You actually
(08:05):
worry about it, right. I don't know about you, but
you worry about, oh my gosh, am I going to
be able to love this one as much as I
love this one thing? You really think that at first,
and then it comes and you're like, how can you?
How can a gas tank? Or like your your stomach
is full of food. It's like I can't eat another,
but you really can't. Person you can't explain. But then
all of a sudden, another person comes around, and then
you're like, I'm gonna have an You're not expecting that
(08:28):
next level. You you feel like, wow, I've capped out,
and then there's another level. Hence I thought I loved
you then, but I realized, oh my god, I love
you so much. Now. This is the first room I've
ever been in where all of the people with children
were really loving the fact that they all had children.
Because I'll tell you what, all the people that I've
worked with before like if I could put them back in,
(08:49):
there are moments where you want to put them back in.
Of course, most parts cried. The first time I cried
the first night I brought my son home. I thought
my life was over. Honestly I did, because I was like,
this is how do they let you out of the hospital,
Like this, I'm gonna sue the hospital. What a bunch
of a holes. I was. Ali was actually like coddling
me because I was crying on the bed because I
(09:10):
was like, there's no way out of this. There's no way, like, hey, mom, dad,
take the kids, see you later, Like this is your responsibility.
After that hurdle and a box of tissues. I was good,
but I cried the first night. But after you realize
it's like push come to shove. It's like you and
no one else you're responsible for someone you turn a corner.
(09:31):
That sounds terrifying. How could you hate what you spawned?
Though Gandhi was talking about first like no, Gandi said,
people were regretful that they had kids. Yeah, they're like, oh,
don't ever do this ruined my life and ruin your
just saying is that just what people say to get
by or something? You know, It's like it's like a thing,
very convincing about it. Yeah, would you say, you watch
the news there are people who just they don't want
(09:53):
their kids, They don't like their kids. Any animal on
the planet can have children, but only special people can
be parents. That's the saw. That's that's a very profound staff.
I mean, a dog can have puppies, doesn't make it
a parent. Like just because you had sex unprotected and
the baby came out doesn't make you a parent. You
have to there's a there's an old saying there's a
reason that the woman takes nine and a half months.
(10:14):
It's to get the parents ready. Not as much as
the baby. But you have to you have to, like
you guys know, you're not a parent for like six
eight months. The first six eight months, you're hoping like
your brothers and sisters are gonna come by, like like
they take your niece, Like they take your niece and
nephew back when you're done with them. I gotta have
any siblings. Nobody was coming, But you're like, okay, so
when are they coming? Like she's crying, I want to
(10:35):
go to bed. Who's taken her? It takes a while,
said to realize, like, oh no, this is yours. It's
it's so you guys, remember when you were five or
six years old and you needed your parents to carry
her over the puddle or to hold your hand when
it was lightning out right, you're that person for somebody else.
That's when that can't do anything. When you realize that
(10:56):
the people that were always taller than you, now you're
the taller person. That's the part. And then and then
you think about that you created this. Then you realize
what your parents did for you. Then you realize what
they went through and you yelled at them. Then then
you realize everything. You apologize like an anvil falls out
the window and at some point you call your mom
(11:16):
and dad and you go, I'm so sorry. I see
that's funny you say that because my brother I have
an older two older brothers, and my middle brother has
two kids, and he has a much closer relationship with
my parents. Now, granted, it's free babysitting for him, but
I feel like he's achieved a level I haven't yet achieved.
Because I'm not a parent, I don't know what they
went through having me as a kid. Right, I feel
(11:38):
like I'm pretty good at being able to put myself
into those shoes because I think my parents all the
time for everything. I'm like, I don't know how you
guys did this or why you guys did this, and
I'm not kidding you. And I know dogs are not
like children. I am aware of that, but I used to, right,
I used to look at my dog and be like,
I do everything for you. I walk you, I worry
about you, I like look through your ears. I do
all kinds of weird stuff. And if one day he
(11:59):
just like packed up a little knapsack and walked out like,
well I'm not done here, I'll see you later, I
would be like, hold the funk on. I don't know
how people do it. I think I think Danielle Brody
Great Tea, and myself can agree. Trying to talk to
Nate Scary and Gandhi right now about about having kids
in love for the kids, it's gonna go in one
(12:19):
year out the other. You might absorb it, but you
won't understand it. It's one of those things that you
don't get until you're actually in it. You know when
I cried the well, two things I cried the most
when I was trying to breastfeed and it was like
a piranha same here. Oh my gosh. That was they
were anyway. But the second thing was after you, after
you add a second child, you said, I swear to gosh,
(12:40):
it's like, what the funk do I do? Now? We
came over the but we came over that now, not
with that. When we came over from the hospital and
I'm standing there and I remember my oldest wanted to
go outside and play and it was too cold for
the baby. So I started crying and my husband's like,
what's about her? Oh no, he might think I do.
(13:01):
And he's like, you'll figure it out, and you do.
You figure it out. Adding another one is no big exponentially,
one to two is a massive jump. I'm sorry you
go next, but two to three is not that big
of a jump other than two people have to look
at three people as you have to split your attention.
But by the third one you kind of know what
(13:21):
you're doing. You have the clothes, you have the toys,
and and you're used to and you're not no, wait
that on the prairie. But it is a little easier
to go from two to three than one to two.
One to two is is earth shattering, right, Remember the
first time you had great sex, like you lost your virginity,
but you had great, great grazins coming. Can you relate
it to the time. We need a smoother transition to transition.
(13:47):
Speaking of having a second child, great sex, we go
back to one child like birth order. I think, and
I could be wrong about this, but I think after
I get to know somebody, maybe for like a day
or two, I can tell what they are in the
birth order, Like I can point out the only child
from across the room, like wait, so, Gandy, you know
you know where Brody is, obviously because we've talked about it.
(14:08):
Can you go around the room and scary off because
when he stops playing it on this phone, he's going
to join in the conversation to talk about how many
child can you going around the room and like kind
of pick out Danielle's oldest, Nate, youngest, h scary, I
would say youngest, the oldest, middle, I'm the oldest. Would never,
(14:30):
I wouldn't have get that. Yeah, okay, t middle Somewhere
I feel like you're older and younger. No, I'm the
leader of the pack, the oldest. Of course, I've got
two younger sisters. And maybe my power is I can
only tell the only time. Your superpower does not superpower,
superpowers terrible nothing. What are you your youngest? Youngest? Yeah? Yeah,
(14:55):
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