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your podcast present show. Yes we are here, Yes we
are we are back. What is here? A few of
us are here. My mind is we all have senioritis.
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Vacation itis. Is that what you call it? Yeah, that's right.
We only have a couple of days, Penny. Don't realize this,
but we're going on vacations. We shouldn't tell people. We
just here's the thing though, and the people are gonna
be like, you guys, just go back from vacation work,
that was work. No, people don't get that. I was
talking to one of my friends. She's going on a
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trip for work and she's going to France, right, and
people like, oh my god, you get to go to France.
I'm so jealous. No, I'm working in France. My office
is in France for the week. And the thing is
is when we were in Mexico, we had a great time,
but we still got up to do the show. We
still had to do a lot of social We still
had to be on at all times. We're dealing with
the bubble. We had events to do, parties to host.
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It wasn't like, oh, it's weekend and we got our weekend.
You know, I left my family to go and at
three actually earlier, earlier our central time. Yeah. Yeah, So
we're not going to say we didn't have a good time.
We listen, we have a great job. Some jobs have
these types of perks to them. Next week is vacation
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for clearing our minds, vacation for ourselves, of which I've
made the decision. I am not looking at my phone
for the entire time, not what I am so with you,
I am going to put mine aside and do the
same thing. Guys. How do you guys put down social media?
How do you not? Well, okay, I will go through
social media, but I'm not going to look at work emails.
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If somebody texted me about work, I'm not going to
answer it. I'm sorry. I've got to unplug. I agree,
Elvis is very good unplugging on I was out of
the room, I was unplugged. What are you talking about
talking about vacation and unplugging and being able to unplugging?
You got I don't know how you do it, because
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it takes me three to four days on a vacation
to unplug. I'm unplugged while I'm at work. You know what,
you come to a point in your life where you
make a decision where's my Work's my balance? About how
much your time in my brain do I need to
dedicate to work versus myself. You know, if you're doing
better at home, you do better at work. And look,
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we all have our off days at work. God knows
I do. But you gotta unplug. So if you're okay,
I'm on vacation, but part of me having a good
time on vacation is documenting my vacation, I gotta get
a Snapchat story out. But you will have this thing
where you're afraid if if you're a Snapchat story runs out,
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you're no longer relevant. It recycles every hour. There's been
days where I've gone three days before even updating a
Snapchat story and saying whatever, three days, they'll be fine
without us. I mean, it's crazy. I have something in
my prep today about the seven day Digital cleanse is
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seven digital detalk. We could make money off of this.
We could open up a place and everybody comes without
their cell phones. Seven day digital cleans. How much time
do we have? We got? We got ten minutes. I
got this from pop Sugar online. When it gets to
the point here, you can't go twenty minutes without checking
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your phone or sleep with it under your pillow, it's
intervention time, all right. These are actual digital detox retreats.
You go tech free and you work on your personal
wellness all right, Monday on and follow everyone who isn't
your real friend. Delete the apps you don't use, unsubscribed
to all the email lists you never read anyway. Tuesday,
turn off your push notifications. Yeah, Wednesday, fight the urge
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to look at your phone first thing in the morning. Okay, Thursday,
make your charging station, move it to somewhere outside your bedroom,
and stop looking at your phone an hour before you
go to bed, an hour before you go to bed.
I see what they're doing. Friday. Friday, when you go
out to dinner, leave your phone at home. We do
that everyone, everyone. In a while, Alex, we'll leave our phones.
And I had the best dinner on Sunday night that
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I went out and I went to dinner with a
friend and I walked downstairs from my apartment and I go, oh, crap,
I forgot my phone. Like you know what, I'm just
gonna leave it there, and I went, I had such
a good conversation. The thing is is Nate lives in
a sixth floor walk down, so he didn't want to walk.
Can you imagine you're going out to dinner, you walk
down six floors and then say, oh funk, I forgot
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my phone? Are you really going to walk up six
more Saturday? Don't post or look at social media all day.
That's that's where you get me right there, Sunday, leave
your smartphone off. It's just one day Sunday. That's a
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tough challenge. But but have you ever asked yourself, scary,
why do you need to snapchat stories? Why do you
need to do that? Um? I asked myself often because
and I think the answer is I feel like I'm
missing out on other people's lives and and updates on
what's going on. Okay, why do you need to see
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their lives? How does that enrich yours? Maybe it gives
me ideas for a new restaurant to try, maybe new activities.
Maybe I missed the birth of someone's child. I don't know.
I mean I feel like I miss out on life
events because everyone is so heavily invested in putting their
life events, life's events on social media. So like, if
I go out a few days without seeing of my
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my Facebook news feed and I have on Facebook, I'm like,
oh my god, I'm listening out on all these posts.
I'm missing out on the announcement of this. Or why
do you feel the need for you to have to
share everything? Like why is it so important that if
you miss one day or you know, your your feed
runs out? It's like, oh my gosh, what we're gonna do?
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I can't answer that question. Yeah, that's a very good question.
It's one thing to want to see what everyone else
is doing. With Danielle's question, well, why do you have
to show them everything? That's the question because I want
to brag? Why Okay, why do you need to brag?
But I'm just I'm searching within myself, right, Well are
you feel Yeah, it's because when you were in high school,
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you weren't the popular kid, and now you are the
popular kid, and so you feel like you want to
revel in that. I think, but there's but every former
social media is bragging. If you think about any time
you post a picture of your why do you need
to brag? I think we as humans need to show you. No, you,
Why do you need to brag? Why do you need
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to show everyone every step of your day? Um? Maybe
because I feel like I'm not noticed during my day.
Sometimes maybe I feel like I walk around invisible. But
wait a minute, what Scary is saying is so true
when people are asked this question. There's irrelevancy. You feel
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more relevant. That's the word I was looking for and
engaged in the world around you. When you post constantly,
I feel irrelevant. If I don't, I feel yeah, O
my god, you just just like a crazy epiphany right
here on this podcast. I really feel that way. I
honestly feel that that might be the answer that I've
been looking for all this time. Bobby, I don't do
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it in a selfish way or a I don't do
it like maliciously or wow, wow, that's crazy ning Ning,
I'm tired if if if it runs out, sometimes I
don't even realize, and sometimes they're going snapchaut and I go,
let me see what my story has left, and I go, oh,
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there's nothing there that I'm like. The sands are like
exiting the hour glass, and then the hour glass is empty,
and you've got to refill it by adding another snapchat,
even if it's a good night and a picture of
If social went away tomorrow, I would applaud. I'd be
so happy. I can't stand. You know, I like social media.
I like my posts to be entertaining. So I like
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it to be, uh, something that somebody finds interesting. Rob Shooter, Shooter,
I didn't even know finish your thought. Then we're gonna
ask Rome. I think we're talking about social media, Rob,
and why we do it. I like my stuff to
be entertaining. I like somebody to learn something to laugh
because I pretty like when I look at you it
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was a photo with your big teeth. Rob shooters in
the business of information, the business of sharing what exactly?
But we're asking Scary, why do you feel it necessary
to always have a snapchat story going at all times?
Why do you always have to share with people? As
a child's popular, maybe in his teen chairs and so
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he's kind of loved and calmed me all through they
did something wrong? Now are you like me? Where? I mean,
I will post and I have a good time posting,
and I you know whatever. But if it were a
way tomorrow, I wouldn't be upset. I enjoyed posting. I
get very angry when people reply. I just I just
want to say stuff and then dare to ask me
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something back. Then after after talk, I just like to
put it out there, like like does the feed like
a Twitter? And you would you be lost without a
day sharing because then I just got back to what
we all did, which say, in your head, just keep talking,
but I want my fingers. You are your own social
made up along I'm like my own head. You're doing
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your business. Your whole business is on NOO. I read
all your stuff like celebrities tell you more on Twitter
and Facebook than they ever tell you in person. If
I asked Kim Kardashian the questions that she answers on
slapped in the face, I could never in front of
the publicists say to her, oh did you have actually vagina?
But but you'll tell me on Twitter she did. I
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don't want to leave my apartment just so it may
be safe to assume scary you. You share the same
on air traits as the Kardashians, where you share things
we're not even asking about. You'll volunteer them for some
reason you feel the world needs to know. But I
don't want I don't want to share those things. I
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don't want you to know that I just like man
escaped or something that your fingers. You're the one that's
doing it. I'm not hacking in. You're the one that's
telling they Are you telling me maybe I should be
more selective? And why are you telling me that you had,
you know, a steak for dinner? Why why are you
telling me that? So then maybe I should post less
but increased the I love to post my dinner because
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they're my creations. I make them. But I rarely posed
a plate of food from a restaurant unless I made it.
Post my kids, they're my creations. There you go, you
just made yourself naated. The photographs of you are so
loved to tell you. The one day when I was
proud of I post things I'm proud of my hair.
My hair looked amazing. You didn't look amazing. Very interesting.
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Mine are never quite truthful. The last night I posted
a picture of myself that implied I went to the
met Ball implied. I didn't say I did that last
year a little bit. What happened is German TV, I
don't speak German, hired me to stand outside the met
Ball asked people questions and for the white stat I
was wearing jeans were was awful. That's why anyone goes,
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I know, but if you were invited. I went one
day with Jayla. Remember I used to work for Jennifer.
Oh my god, wait with and I think she forgot
that it was a museum because she's like, this place
is amazing. It was like, I was like, that's next time. Yeah,
it's really just amazing. Last night covered up though, with
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a first red carpet together and it wasn't hoochie hoochie fabulous.
Jailer was Jennifer interesting thought she looked looks fabulous. That's
too Taylor Swift toasted it that last year. Wasn't invited
this year because Katie Perry was. Then see how much
you learn you and your drama. There was so much.
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You see. That's Rob's business of sharing the back the
back story, but applied. I am not in the business of,
you know, snapchat story my story in my dinner. You know.
I just do that because it's I love your docky stuff.
Max had a haircut. Oh yes, oh I love that
chat his own style. I do like a donkey store,
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so scary I don't feel badly about your snapchat addiction, right,
but don't you kind of wonder sometimes if you could
scale back or if you could, yeah, give up for
a few days. I probably I probably should, and I
will take that under advice. Would you miss it? I would?
And that's a problem because sometimes it's out of boredom.
Like I was sitting in traffic so the other day.
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So I took a selfie of myself right traffic and
I'm like traffic jam. And then I took the car
emojis and I outlined my entire head with the cars
going around while you're driving. I was in the back
of an uber. When I'm bored, I have a drink.
It's such a better solution, not when you're drive in
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but vodka. See. I love watching your personal social interaction
because because Rob takes pictures of his his his family,
his dogs, this guy on the subway, your apartment. I
love the subway and live the hot bottom. Can I say,
walk in front of me night if you will pass
right now, I'll take a picture in media bottom. That's
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great hat with great hat. You take creep you creep pictures.
Dare the Sunday Thank you people, in the bets. There's
a butt crack shown in front of them. You gotta
take a picture. It just happens. Come on, well, this
has been a lot of fun. I'm glad I broke
in and then Rob Shooter broke It's Rob coming in tomorrow, Pune,
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I don't know, come in tomorrow. When do you want
to come in? Night? If I can say that your house,
I'll come through the whole show. See, I don't ask you.
Can you come in after seven? I'll be here at
my kids school. No Kardashians, no naughty. It'll be fun, fun, fun,
We'll have naughty. I want to bring this conversation back
up tomorrow because we have the digital dtoks we're talking
about earlier. Such a thing that's actually quite interesting. Digital. Okay,
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we'll see you tomorrow. The fifteen Minute Morning Show