FULL SHOW: The Day We Celebrate John Williams

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:04):
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He's funny, he.

Speaker 4 (00:06):
Straightforward with me, but he's very witty.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
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Breeze's just awesome.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
I just love you guys.

Speaker 6 (00:19):
It's a good morning show.

Speaker 7 (00:21):
We have a listener on the line. Good morning, listener,
good morning, good morning. It is okay if we say
your name, yeah, absolutely, good morning, Kristen.

Speaker 2 (00:32):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (00:32):
I already know why she's calling and uh and what
she's asking everything, and I already have my answer for you,
but I'm gonna leave it, leave it be until everyone
else can hear your story. So you are so excited
you're getting married right, yeah, next summer and it should
be the most happiest time of your life getting married.
So how did you guys decide to get married? What's

(00:53):
the ceremony going.

Speaker 2 (00:54):
To be like?

Speaker 8 (00:55):
So we actually had it on a cruise ship wedding.
My fiance has already been married before. The idea of
doing a full traditional wedding and being in front of
all those people and doing that stresses me out. So much,
so we were actually just going to do a courthouse
wedding and just kind of get it over and be
done with. But then we heard that you can do
weddings on cruise ships and it was kind of perfect

(01:16):
for us because everything's all pre planned. We picked a date,
picked a ship, we just kind of show up and
whoever wants to come can join us. So we're pretty
excited about the idea of that.

Speaker 7 (01:26):
And that's what it is, cruise ships, you know it is.
If you can make it, we'd love to have you anyway.
So but there is a fly in the ointment as
they sell, and what is that?

Speaker 8 (01:36):
That would be my sister in law. Okay, so yeah,
we have we butted heads the time or two in
the past, but we worked through it and we try
to be as civil with each other as possible. But
she's already starting to make comments about how expensive it
is and she's going to have to start fundraising and
selling peak pictures and doing this and that to be

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able to afford it.

Speaker 2 (01:58):
Comes far self self feet pictures. I love it.

Speaker 9 (02:03):
She has a plan.

Speaker 7 (02:03):
She must really want to be there, so she's already
given you grief. Oh my god, it's going to cost
me a lot of money to go on the cruise ship.

Speaker 2 (02:09):
Blah blah blah.

Speaker 7 (02:10):
So how is it as of today, Like, what's the
latest conversation you had?

Speaker 8 (02:15):
So we haven't even had a conversation. I have a
Facebook group put together with all the information in one
central locations going on, and what they need to do
is leaving comments. She has expressly about.

Speaker 9 (02:25):
It, right, she's leaving comments on the Facebook page.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
Okay, well, I mean maybe there should be a direct conversation.

Speaker 2 (02:32):
What's that, Daniel?

Speaker 10 (02:33):
I mean, do we want to give our opinions yet?

Speaker 11 (02:35):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (02:35):
Absolutely?

Speaker 12 (02:35):
Well.

Speaker 10 (02:36):
I feel like it's your wedding and you need to
do your wedding the way you want to do it.
And unfortunately not everyone's going to agree. And if she
can't afford to be there, then you just have to
understand and you have to be understanding about it and
she has to just not come. And that's it. I mean,
I think, you.

Speaker 9 (02:52):
Know, yeah, I think the mistake came by telling people
you were getting married. Should have been a secret you.

Speaker 13 (03:00):
Did.

Speaker 2 (03:00):
No, that is not real that is not real life advice.

Speaker 9 (03:04):
No, because of course people are gonna people always complain
about destination weddings or having to spend a ton of
money on weddings. They just do. And if you want
something private for yourself, you should definitely do what you want.
Just don't tell them come back and throw a tiny party.

Speaker 7 (03:16):
Hey, so you haven't had a direct conversation.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
I think you should first of all.

Speaker 8 (03:23):
And yeah, no, yeah, that's the plan. I just needed
to complain about it a little bit.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
But I don't and I get that. But here's the thing.
I so agree with Danielle, not as much Gandhi.

Speaker 9 (03:32):
I said, she should do what she wants, don't you want?

Speaker 8 (03:35):
It is your wedding, and you know, and so for
the wedding, we plant ceremony import Oh so they.

Speaker 10 (03:42):
Can go to the ceremony before the cruise ship.

Speaker 7 (03:44):
Takes off, Yes, and so they can get off. That's good,
I know, But it's your wedding. This phone line is
not doing well. Here's the thing. It is your wedding.
You should do what you want. But there's another thing
to consider. She is your sister in law and you're
stuck with each other, so there needs to be there
needs to be a conversation. You need to connect with
her because, let's face it, you want to get along.

(04:05):
You don't want to cause or you don't want them
to think you're trying to cause problem.

Speaker 10 (04:09):
Maybe she thinks she's being funny and she doesn't realize
she's really hurting your feelings.

Speaker 8 (04:15):
That's probably what it is, which means it's not what
it is. It's not nearly as funny as she thinks
she is.

Speaker 2 (04:24):
Well, look, let me ask you this and you can
be candid with us.

Speaker 7 (04:28):
Is there a chance that you knew she wouldn't be
able to go, so that's why you did it this way?

Speaker 10 (04:34):
I mean, Okay, now I'm changing my mind about what
I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
Lady, you plan to have.

Speaker 8 (04:45):
The ceremony in Coort, so she's come to the ceremony
but not have to come on the cruise with us.

Speaker 9 (04:49):
Okay, there's a problem there.

Speaker 2 (04:52):
Look, I get that. I get that.

Speaker 7 (04:53):
You know and you want not only at the wedding,
but you want the people surrounding you post wedding and
out at sea to be people that you like and
get along with.

Speaker 2 (05:01):
But always keep in mind in.

Speaker 7 (05:04):
The back of your head, you guys are stuck with
each other forever, unless there's a divorce down the road.

Speaker 2 (05:08):
You know what I'm saying. You guys.

Speaker 7 (05:10):
You guys, you guys are your sisters in law until
the end of whatever, so keep that in mind and
you know, be a little gentle. But at the end
of the day, it is your wedding, It is your
day and your trip. So best of luck.

Speaker 8 (05:25):
Wow, yeah, I know, thank you very much. I appreciate
your guys. Wise with someone and put on this.

Speaker 7 (05:31):
Well, well, thank you, and you know what, congratulations Christy.
At the end of the day, you're kicking off a
marriage and you want it to be right and uh,
but you know what, sometimes you know, you know, you
can always throw her overboard. No kidding, don't don't do that.
Thank you, Kristin and all the best of you. And again, congratulations,
thank you, Thank you.

Speaker 8 (05:52):
Guys. I love listening to you so much.

Speaker 2 (05:53):
We thank you. Take care. Yeah, that's a tough one.
What was that name.

Speaker 14 (05:56):
Well, we had a situation with somebody that was going
to come to our family or it was gonna come
to our wedding that we didn't want there. So we
found a way to start a fight that made them
decide to not come in.

Speaker 2 (06:07):
The first Wow.

Speaker 9 (06:10):
Mature.

Speaker 7 (06:10):
By the way, I can't even go to detail, but
your family has a lot of dry what's that scary?

Speaker 15 (06:15):
I always get suspicious when people do destination weddings. I'm like,
they just want like twenty people there.

Speaker 2 (06:20):
It doesn't matter. It's what they want.

Speaker 10 (06:21):
Yeah, it's their their decisions.

Speaker 2 (06:23):
Scary, it's what they want, which is great.

Speaker 6 (06:25):
Maybe they do a dinner when they get that. For
the people who couldn't make it, don't tell anyone.

Speaker 7 (06:29):
No, you gotta they're gonna find Outand can you live
in the real world? For you doing way too much coffee.

Speaker 9 (06:35):
I think plenty of people get married in secret all
the time and then they come home and they're like, hey,
I got married, let's have a party.

Speaker 2 (06:39):
That is a way to do it. Yeah, that is
a way to do it.

Speaker 9 (06:42):
Avoid the drama. I like, that's the real world.

Speaker 10 (06:44):
My favorite is when you go to like the Bahamas
or whatever, and it's just the bride and groom and
you can tell that the whole bridal party is like rented,
like everybody's from the islands.

Speaker 7 (06:53):
Or people you meet at the bars. Why not, what
do you guys do here?

Speaker 2 (06:58):
We're here to get married tomorrow morning. We'll see you
there at ten o'clock.

Speaker 9 (07:01):
You want to be my best man?

Speaker 7 (07:02):
Come on a man a man. That's a good idea.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
He good Morning show are on live Elvis d ran
in the Morning Show.

Speaker 16 (07:21):
What now, mister Ran in the Morning Show?

Speaker 2 (07:24):
Daniel, do you know who John Williams is? Yeah, you do,
you do and you don't even know it. Okay, John
Williams did mister ninety.

Speaker 7 (07:33):
He's a he's a composer of conductor every fantastic, huge
blockbuster film you've ever seen growing up, the music.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
Was from him.

Speaker 7 (07:44):
Oh, he wrote the most incredible music, scored just amazing, amazing.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
Amazing song. But did he write the NBC Nightly News theme?
He sure did? Comedy here from NBA she Headquarters, I'm
gonna Tom broken. He wrote this. It's called the mission theme.
It is anyway.

Speaker 7 (08:07):
John Williams, Uh friends with my parents. When I was
a little kid, I met him. It was so funny.
But you know what U And actually sometimes he'll come
to New York City and they'll do nothing. But I'm
gonna go ahead and give one of the answers to
the contest away. They would do nothing but Star Wars music.

Speaker 2 (08:25):
For like an hour and a half.

Speaker 7 (08:26):
But to sit in an auditorium and listen to an
listening to an orchestra play. To me, that is pure porn,
with all the string section and the woodwinds and the
timpany and the harpist in the back and the whole thing.
To me, it's just the most powerful sound. It's second

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only to the sound of the ocean. To me, the
sound of an orchestra. And John Williams the world's best.
Now tell you what, Like I said, he scored some
of the biggest films of all time. If you think
you can figure out which films some of these songs
are from, you can win some money.

Speaker 2 (09:09):
This is the longest NBC.

Speaker 8 (09:11):
The figure out.

Speaker 10 (09:19):
It sounds a little Jurassic Parking to me.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
Don't say that that could be the answer.

Speaker 7 (09:27):
Some of the most incredible films ever he scored.

Speaker 2 (09:30):
And you're gonna guess them. You're gonna get them right.

Speaker 7 (09:32):
You're gonna win some money again called one eight hundred
two four two zero one hundred.

Speaker 2 (09:37):
Yeah, someone's just in a text.

Speaker 7 (09:38):
He wrote the music for almost every Stephen Spielberg film. Wow,
I think I just gave him them.

Speaker 10 (09:45):
It sounds like et to.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
Stop it. You're spoiling my context.

Speaker 4 (09:54):
I've seen the pattern with this guy. Wait, a minute.

Speaker 2 (09:57):
Stop it? Why you know your ruin? Until he ruined
TV shows? You're ruined contests?

Speaker 17 (10:04):
Wait?

Speaker 10 (10:05):
Can't you just see et flying with the little stop?

Speaker 2 (10:09):
All right again? Call now? Don't listen to Danielle one
eight hundred two four two zero one.

Speaker 4 (10:15):
You're gonna play Indiana Jones next.

Speaker 6 (10:18):
I hate you, I really trut What about Star Wars.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Already gave that one? Come off the NBC? Turn it off?

Speaker 6 (10:30):
Scary?

Speaker 7 (10:38):
If I was there right now, I would. I don't
know if I'm kissing you or just slap your hands?

Speaker 4 (10:43):
Did Ghani?

Speaker 10 (10:44):
Did you do this game? Did you call upiment?

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Yes?

Speaker 10 (10:46):
I apologize Gandhi, she ruined your game?

Speaker 9 (10:49):
Yeah, Nate's probably real sad. He was so excited about
this one.

Speaker 16 (10:53):
I know.

Speaker 2 (10:54):
Oh lord, Danielle, all right, let's go talk to Michelle.

Speaker 10 (10:57):
I think I heard Harry Bonner.

Speaker 9 (10:58):
Can't do anything around there.

Speaker 2 (11:03):
You're not listening to You're not listening to Danielle?

Speaker 6 (11:05):
Are you?

Speaker 2 (11:09):
God?

Speaker 7 (11:10):
Well, this game should be called repeat what Danielle just said.
All right, So John Williams incredible composer. We're celebrating his life.
Every time you watch the Steven Spielberg movie, you're celebrating
his life. Let's see if you can figure out what
films these are from.

Speaker 2 (11:26):
Scary. You gotta go back. You have to go back
to that page. You're ruining it for me.

Speaker 7 (11:30):
Here we go, all right, Uh, with every with every
film you get correct, Michelle will give you ten dollars,
and with every when you get wrong, you owe us
ten dollars.

Speaker 2 (11:38):
Okay, okay, you have no good day so far.

Speaker 8 (11:42):
By the way, yeah, I'm actually driving to work.

Speaker 2 (11:45):
Okay, well, we're having a really bad show today.

Speaker 11 (11:48):
You're you guys in the shower, so you guys are
pretty good.

Speaker 5 (11:54):
It's okay.

Speaker 2 (11:55):
You see I feel dirty that knowing someone's naked listening
to me. I'm like, oh god, I love it. Hope
we didn't say anything offensive offensive? All right, here we go.

Speaker 7 (12:02):
These are all uh scores, all songs written by music
written by John Williams. Here is movie number one.

Speaker 2 (12:18):
What a great song? Okay, what film is that?

Speaker 18 (12:23):
From Star Wars Star Wars.

Speaker 2 (12:29):
Star Wars. It was nothing but star.

Speaker 7 (12:33):
I knew that you never knew the lyrics to that song.
There you go, your ten dollars ahead, Michelle. Here is
John Williams theme song number two.

Speaker 16 (12:48):
Talk for.

Speaker 19 (12:50):
All right.

Speaker 2 (12:51):
Film? Is that from the show?

Speaker 12 (12:53):
H the guy that fights in the jungle?

Speaker 20 (12:55):
I forget his name, but the of the movie, Oh
my gosh, with.

Speaker 6 (13:00):
The hot and he's like, he's a hat.

Speaker 7 (13:05):
You're you're absolutely correct. It's Indiana Joe. Yeah, Michelle, Michelle,
you just won ten dollars by saying the guy with
the hat.

Speaker 2 (13:18):
All right, here we go. John Williams movie theme song
number three. Wow the movie?

Speaker 11 (13:32):
Is that score from Harry Potter?

Speaker 2 (13:36):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (13:38):
And on your nimbus I'm gonna help on my nimbus
two thousand fly away. All right, you've got thirty dollars.
Let's move on to John Williams movie theme number four, which.

Speaker 2 (13:48):
Is Missus f It's a beautiful moving film. What is
that from? Do you do you remember?

Speaker 12 (14:04):
Oh? That one?

Speaker 8 (14:05):
I'm not sure. Oh my gosh, I'm kicking myself.

Speaker 21 (14:08):
My cousin is a composer, so like she's probably yelling
at me right now.

Speaker 2 (14:12):
Oh man, you didn't say Shindler's List.

Speaker 7 (14:17):
I lost you lost in those Hey guys, we got
ten dollars back? All right, you're still at twenty dollars.
You don't, Okay, you'll get this next one. John Williams
composed this movie theme.

Speaker 2 (14:29):
Listen to this. I hear sleigh bells in the background.
That could be a hint. That is home alone. Yeah, excellent.
Thirty dollars.

Speaker 7 (14:47):
You're up to thirty. Here is John Williams theme song
number whatever it is?

Speaker 2 (15:01):
Yeah?

Speaker 22 (15:01):
What's it from?

Speaker 11 (15:04):
Harry Potter?

Speaker 7 (15:05):
Oh god, does anyone want to get to that's Jurassic.

Speaker 8 (15:13):
Yes, Jurassic Park.

Speaker 23 (15:14):
Oh my god.

Speaker 2 (15:16):
Yeah, you're down to twenty dollars? I think I think?

Speaker 24 (15:19):
Okay, dropped?

Speaker 2 (15:20):
Yeah, twenty yeah? Sorry, what else are you doing? You
see you sound busy? Yeah, she's pull it up.

Speaker 12 (15:26):
Oh, I just I just got to work, all right.

Speaker 7 (15:29):
Okay, okay, we'll go, we'll go faster. Okay, here we go.
John Williams movie song number seven or eight?

Speaker 2 (15:36):
Who cares that?

Speaker 25 (15:36):
Here it is?

Speaker 2 (15:37):
You'll never get this, None of us would get that.

Speaker 21 (15:47):
Good?

Speaker 2 (15:47):
Do you know it?

Speaker 6 (15:48):
Where is it from?

Speaker 26 (15:50):
Is it?

Speaker 27 (15:51):
Oh my gosh?

Speaker 8 (15:51):
Is it a Leonardo DiCaprio movie?

Speaker 28 (15:55):
Yes?

Speaker 11 (15:55):
What is it?

Speaker 27 (15:59):
The one with I'm Hanks He's flying I forget?

Speaker 2 (16:03):
Yes, Oh my god, it catch me if you can.
You gotta know, I can't believe you got that.

Speaker 7 (16:10):
Well you didn't, but you did this.

Speaker 2 (16:14):
Next one. This next John Williams score. I know you
know this one.

Speaker 28 (16:18):
Here we go, Josh Josh.

Speaker 24 (16:24):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (16:27):
Sure they used to call me that in high school.
All right, turn it off, all right. Now you're up
to one two forty dollars. Wow, okay, you're making it back.
Here is John Williams another John Williams score.

Speaker 2 (16:39):
Well, moe us this excellent. What movie is that from
the show?

Speaker 8 (16:56):
Oh my gosh, I know it.

Speaker 21 (16:58):
I'm so excited that I forgot.

Speaker 24 (17:02):
I can do it.

Speaker 12 (17:03):
Sorry, I don't.

Speaker 8 (17:06):
I know it, but I forgot.

Speaker 2 (17:07):
Sorry, a little film called Superman. All right? Okay, yeah,
you just luston.

Speaker 7 (17:12):
We got ten more dollars from all right, so you're
down to thirty and we're making some cash. Here here's
another John Williams film score. Guess it, you gotta attack.

Speaker 2 (17:31):
Okay, what film is that from? Hello?

Speaker 12 (17:36):
Is it the one with Peter Pan?

Speaker 9 (17:40):
Now it's I'm flying et phone home?

Speaker 6 (17:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 21 (17:45):
That was, yes, Yes, I think I'm so excited at
I'm forgetting everything.

Speaker 7 (17:50):
Okay, it is costing you dearly. You're down to twenty dollars.
All right, I'm gonna give you another famous not from
a film, but it's from a very very popular event
that's possibly happening as we speak.

Speaker 2 (18:01):
And John Williams wrote this theme. Listen closely.

Speaker 8 (18:14):
John Williams wrote it, what is the news show startup?

Speaker 11 (18:19):
You know NBC? I think it is or something like that.

Speaker 15 (18:24):
Oh my goodness, coatings, that's the Olympics theme.

Speaker 10 (18:29):
Could you have five dollars?

Speaker 1 (18:30):
Right?

Speaker 2 (18:31):
All right? So you got ten dollars?

Speaker 29 (18:33):
Yay?

Speaker 11 (18:34):
Okay, I forgot everything, you know what?

Speaker 23 (18:39):
You know?

Speaker 7 (18:39):
What so great, though, is to really truly appreciate John
Williams for writing all those incredible scores, right, I mean,
what an amazing talent.

Speaker 8 (18:47):
Yeah, yes, he's amazing.

Speaker 2 (18:49):
Extra credit. What is this song we're playing in the
background now?

Speaker 7 (18:55):
It's the NBC n lose the please hold it, hey Diamond,
send her ten dollars. I know she's fabulous. Look at
you're on the radio, a bunch of people screaming at

(19:15):
you and music on the phone.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
I mean, I can see how it can be a little.

Speaker 9 (19:18):
Yeah, and some of those have very similar elements to
other ones, so I get how you could get those
confused a little bit, A little bit.

Speaker 2 (19:26):
I have to agree. What a talented guy.

Speaker 7 (19:28):
Go do a search on John Williams and if ever
he's in your town, even at nineties. Sometimes they put
him in front of an orchestra and he's a conductor.
You can hear his music. Just really fantastic. All right,
thank you, excellent game, Gandhi, Frank, I want to hear
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Speaker 7 (20:19):
Now, have you ever just been mining your own business?
Maybe you're at dinner, or at lunch, or in an airport,
or you're waiting at a doctor's office liter and you
hear a conversation going on, and it's definitely a private conversation,
but you can't help it. It's right there you're listening in.
So this happened to Froggy at the airport the other day, right, Frog. Yeah,

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he heard everything and rather than getting up and walking
away and getting out of their space to give them privacy,
it's hard.

Speaker 2 (20:48):
To do that at an airport where you have to
sit down and wait.

Speaker 24 (20:51):
And so he said, and I find a power outlet.
I was trying to charge my phone. I wasn't. I
wasn't going to give up that power outlet.

Speaker 6 (20:57):
So he was.

Speaker 7 (20:58):
He listened to the whole thing, he did, Frog, You
listened to the whole thing. He started tweeting up to
the conversation and whether or not he was on her
side or his side whatever.

Speaker 24 (21:06):
Yeah, they weren't arguing when they sat down. When they
first sat down, there was no problems. She saw something
and the argument started. So I heard it from go
all the way to the end.

Speaker 7 (21:16):
So it's the anatomy of an argument. Okay, So we're
going down a road here that's very private for these people.
At the same time, they were in a public space, right,
And it wasn't anything, you know, so bad that we
shouldn't talk about it, right, I.

Speaker 2 (21:30):
Mean, do you want to tell the story? Frog?

Speaker 24 (21:33):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (21:34):
Okay, you were in the airport and you heard a
couple talking, and here's what you heard.

Speaker 24 (21:39):
Yeah. So he the gentleman had just gone to dinner
with some friends, and his recent ex just happened to
be at the dinner at some point he ended up
sitting next to her during the dinner. He did not
tell his current girlfriend until she saw it when they
were sitting in the airport. On social media, he was
tagged in a picture from the dinner table and she

(22:00):
saw it.

Speaker 2 (22:01):
Wow, right there in front of him.

Speaker 30 (22:02):
Oh.

Speaker 24 (22:03):
Yes, So she's very upset and she wants to know why.
He says he didn't say anything for two reasons. One,
he said absolutely nothing happened, and he says that he
knew she would react that way and that he was
trying to save her from getting upset about nothing. That's
why he did not tell her about his ex being
at the dinner and him sitting next to her. Oh,

(22:24):
this is tough.

Speaker 2 (22:26):
Should we take this to the court.

Speaker 9 (22:27):
Yeah, this is a tough one.

Speaker 2 (22:30):
I don't know it was tough. I think it is tough.

Speaker 9 (22:33):
Besides, I see why she would get upset, but I
also see him. Maybe if she's a little reactive and
he's saying it wasn't a big deal, nothing happened. I
didn't see the need to tell you.

Speaker 10 (22:42):
And the problem is pictures. Now the social stuff pops up,
she sees it, and he never explained it in the
first place.

Speaker 9 (22:49):
It looks ten times worse once it pops up and
you get caught.

Speaker 2 (22:51):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (22:52):
The question is if pictures weren't taken versus if pictures
were taken. So the only reason he should have said
something is because pictures were taken. Other Wise you should
have kept it quiet.

Speaker 24 (23:01):
Oh no, right, hiding anything, right, that's being dirty.

Speaker 12 (23:05):
No.

Speaker 10 (23:06):
But if you're not hiding anything, why couldn't you just say, hey, listen,
just so you know my ex was there and I
just wanted you to know because you might hear about it.
Nothing happened, but you know it's just pain in the ass.

Speaker 2 (23:16):
Plumbing and you know what, that is easy to say.

Speaker 10 (23:18):
Why can't you say that?

Speaker 12 (23:19):
Right?

Speaker 2 (23:20):
Yeah, you're right.

Speaker 9 (23:20):
You also know sometimes you're dating people who are like
overreactive to things, and you can say a million times,
nothing happened, it was nothing, and they might still be
upset about it if it was really nothing. Maybe I
see a little bit why he didn't tell about that
picture sunk.

Speaker 2 (23:33):
Do we know how long they had been separated?

Speaker 24 (23:36):
No, that I did not ask. I was not able
to ask any questions. Okay, investing.

Speaker 7 (23:41):
Okay, Let's say you go to dinner with a lot
of friends and your ex is there, and you know what,
there's no harm done in saying hi to them. You
know what I'm saying, this cold shoulder, and unless it
was like a really better divorce or whatever, there's nothing
wrong with saying hi. They're a part of your history,
they're an old friend, whatever. Okay, do we all agree
there's nothing wrong with that. Yes, it's in a public Okay.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
Now, so if I tell my current it could stir
up some negative vibes.

Speaker 10 (24:10):
You know, Well, you got to weigh the pros and cons.
If that person was to find out on their own
some way, somehow, would it be a worse reaction than
you telling them.

Speaker 7 (24:20):
I can't argue with that. I can't argue against that. Yeah.

Speaker 24 (24:24):
The worst argument he had was when he said to her, quote,
I didn't tell you because I knew you'd react like this.

Speaker 2 (24:29):
You're exact.

Speaker 24 (24:30):
This is exactly why I don't tell you things, because
you react like this. I'm like, that's a that's just
a bad argument.

Speaker 10 (24:36):
So you said you felt he was wrong in this situation.

Speaker 24 (24:38):
Oh, I think he's one hundred million, one hundred million percent.
Just be honest.

Speaker 2 (24:44):
At the end of the day, he didn't do anything wrong.

Speaker 7 (24:46):
I mean if she, if she would, what that we
know of? Okay, well that opens a hole. That's a
whole different argument. But the only thing that was on
the table was the fact that he was in a
public place with a lot of friends and she ended
up there and he didn't want to tell her. It's like,
sometimes it's easier if I just ignore it.

Speaker 2 (25:06):
It's no big deal, we'll move on.

Speaker 7 (25:08):
I also sort of see that logic a little bit,
but it didn't play out that way.

Speaker 24 (25:12):
Dishonesty.

Speaker 2 (25:14):
Hi Hi, Hi, Hi, Hi, what's up right?

Speaker 31 (25:18):
So my opinion, I would definitely feel betrayed, only because.

Speaker 17 (25:24):
You know, you're supposed to have an open.

Speaker 31 (25:25):
Line of communication with your significant others. So if you
can't feel as though you cannot tell me, just as
an s y you know so and so there can't
let you know, then there's no trust. Then maybe you
are hiding something.

Speaker 32 (25:42):
Yeah, I would have felt betrayed.

Speaker 31 (25:44):
I would have been like really, like you couldn't tell me,
I would have felt much better. Do social media?

Speaker 7 (25:52):
Okay, I know, I say social media it snags you
every time. But you know what, I yeah, I know
social media can get you every time. Listen, thank you, Denise,
thank you very much. A lot of people are weighing
in and saying the same thing. There's a trust thing.

Speaker 9 (26:04):
Yeah, of course I don't know, but don't tell.

Speaker 7 (26:07):
Uh yeah, I mean, you know, it depends on the situation. Look,
if I'm just walking down the street and I see
an ex and we sat there and talked for a second,
I moved on. If I don't tell, it's like, well,
then it doesn't bring up any weird feelings. But if
I do tell it, could you know? It all depends
on the person you're dating. Look, I happen to be
with someone who doesn't fly off the handle in a

(26:29):
jealous rage. He just doesn't. He'd be like, oh whatever,
So I don't mind telling him. But we don't know
the history behind this couple. She may or they both
may have a history of just getting crazily jealous and
causing a stir, starting a fight and then you know,
bringing it back for three days and bringing it up again.

Speaker 2 (26:50):
We don't know what their history is, so maybe there
is a history of stuff.

Speaker 9 (26:54):
I know, it's very dependent on the couple, it really is, Hi, Jessica, Yeah,
what's up?

Speaker 2 (27:00):
What do you think?

Speaker 19 (27:02):
So?

Speaker 17 (27:02):
I think that if if she's in a trusting relationship
with her boyfriend and you know, they're both trust each other,
and I mean if it's an ex, but it's an
ext for a reason. So if she's you know, that
upset about it, then obviously she either doesn't trust him.

Speaker 7 (27:16):
Or there's more going on that, right, she wasn't upset
that if it sounds like she wasn't upset that he
ran into his ex, he was. She was upset that
he didn't say anything to her, right.

Speaker 10 (27:26):
See it also runs down to if he if he
if he's hiding something that simple? What else is he
not telling me that?

Speaker 23 (27:34):
You?

Speaker 7 (27:34):
My mind works to Danielle all right, So yeah, so
you kind of see that, Jessica a little bit.

Speaker 28 (27:39):
It's like if if you.

Speaker 7 (27:40):
If you go into social media and you see your
boyfriend hanging out with an ex, alarms would go on
me off right, right?

Speaker 2 (27:47):
And he even took a picture of you. What are
you stupid?

Speaker 10 (27:49):
Yea friends called dude. I can't believe Alison saw Donnie
like what Donne?

Speaker 7 (27:56):
So maybe it's better like if you have if you
see something, say something right, right, yeah, if you see
one of those old timey bombs in the fuses, is
like you should say something. If a train's come in,
don't don't walk out in front of it, all right, Jessica, thank.

Speaker 11 (28:10):
You, thank you.

Speaker 2 (28:12):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (28:12):
So then you start asking all these sub questions like Danielle, Hi, Danielle, Hello,
and what's your question about this?

Speaker 27 (28:22):
I want to know why the current girlfriend wasn't at
the dinner.

Speaker 2 (28:26):
Well, no, he's allowed to go have dinner with friends,
right for sure.

Speaker 7 (28:30):
I mean she doesn't have to go to every single
dinner he goes to, does no?

Speaker 2 (28:36):
Or does?

Speaker 5 (28:36):
But did he know that the ex girlfriend was going
to be there?

Speaker 2 (28:40):
She didn't.

Speaker 26 (28:40):
He didn't.

Speaker 24 (28:41):
It didn't sound that way. It sounded like the ex
girlfriend being there was not planned. It sounded that way
with what I could hear.

Speaker 7 (28:48):
See, Danielle, It's not unusual what you're asking a lot
of people like to start asking all the what if
questions and you can actually what if this? And until
the end of time, like like our Danielle does the.

Speaker 2 (28:58):
Same thing I do.

Speaker 10 (28:59):
I like to know what IF's about everything.

Speaker 2 (29:01):
We started asking questions we don't have answers to.

Speaker 10 (29:03):
Elvis always looks at me and he goes, Danielle, we
don't know that, we don't know. Your answer is we
don't know.

Speaker 2 (29:08):
Yeah, I don't I know, but it does.

Speaker 7 (29:10):
It does, But Danielle, it does make the suspicious mind
come up with follow up questions and then then there's
nothing wrong with that. Look, we have to walk through
life being suspicious of things, otherwise we, you know, be dead.

Speaker 2 (29:23):
You know.

Speaker 7 (29:24):
So it's okay, don't hate yourself over it. You're great, Danielle.
And next time, next time I needed a private investigator,
I'm calling.

Speaker 10 (29:31):
You organization Danielle and Danielle.

Speaker 2 (29:37):
Yeah, d and d Danielle, thank you for listening. You
go have a great day.

Speaker 24 (29:40):
Okay, thank you.

Speaker 12 (29:41):
I love you guys so much.

Speaker 2 (29:43):
Oh, thank you.

Speaker 1 (29:44):
Elvis ter Wan in the Morning Show. This is Elvis
Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (30:00):
Hey, interesting story, and I'm not going to use any
restaurant names here because.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
You know, I'm not one hundred percent sure of what
the story is about.

Speaker 7 (30:09):
But they're saying that some restaurants in New Jersey actually
was asking nicely their employees in front of house employees
to post five star reviews online about their restaurants, and
they're if you can prove that. They say in the
sign that if you can prove with your name and
your five stars that you posted something in this online

(30:30):
that they were giving them free meals in blackout days
choosing and Amazon gift cards and stuff like that.

Speaker 2 (30:37):
It's like, it makes you.

Speaker 7 (30:38):
Wonder when you when you go look at reviews, and
we all do reviews for restaurants, you kind of wonder, like,
how how those get there? How accurate are these reviews?

Speaker 10 (30:47):
But I think of that for everything that I look at.
If the reviews are so glowing, I'm like, I don't know,
something's got to be wrong here.

Speaker 7 (30:54):
The thing I find weird about this article is I
don't think any restaurant in their right mind would threaten
an employ with their jobs if they weren't, you know,
posting reviews for their restaurant, right. I mean, they're dying
to get people to work there now, they're trying to
run a business. So I don't know what that's all about,
but it does make me wonder when I go to Amazon,

(31:15):
and when I go to anywhere and I want to
buy something, where did those reviews really come from?

Speaker 9 (31:20):
I don't know, right, Yeah, some of them you can tell,
because there will be like a hundred that popped up
on the same day and they're from little bot sites.
But for the most part, on Amazon, you have to
have actually purchased the thing to be able to then
leave a review for them. Restaurants and stuff with YELP
totally different story, but Amazon seems somewhat legit.

Speaker 2 (31:38):
Have you guys ever left a review? Yes? Yeah, I
positive or negative both.

Speaker 9 (31:44):
Which one probably ninety nine percent of the time. I
try to leave a positive because once I left a
positive and the next time I was there, the girl
came and found me and was so happy and like thankful.
But of course, you know, somebody does me dirty. I'm
gonna let them know that too.

Speaker 7 (32:00):
And by the way, back to this this article about
the restaurants, it wasn't the employees that they wanted to
do the posting. They wanted the employees to get their
customers to do it and mention and they have to
be five stars and they have to mention that employee's
name in the thing, so they get credit for it.

Speaker 2 (32:15):
Okay, So I don't know.

Speaker 7 (32:17):
Look, if I was waiting on you and you seem
like you're having a great time, I don't think I
would be embarrassed to say, hey, if you enjoyed your
experience today, I would love for you to give me
a nice five star review.

Speaker 10 (32:28):
Yeah, well that's fine.

Speaker 2 (32:30):
They do it. Uber drivers do it. Yeah, that's fine.

Speaker 10 (32:33):
But to force it and say, you know you're going
to lose your job, you know.

Speaker 2 (32:37):
I don't think anyone's losing their job over there. I
think that's just yeah.

Speaker 7 (32:40):
No, I when you're in the restaurant business, you're not.
You don't have any any space to fly or anyone
you need.

Speaker 2 (32:45):
Anyone and their working what's up? Scary.

Speaker 15 (32:47):
I feel like in a lot of situations, people incentivize
others to leave reviews to counterbalance all the negative ones.
Because if if someone is going to be prone to
leave a review on their own, a lot of times
it's a something that's negative. They have this vengeance and
they give you a one star or something. So, because
you know, businesses depend on these votes and these you

(33:07):
know they're rating to survive, sometimes they need to counteract it.

Speaker 2 (33:12):
In a certain way. I don't know, it's what I've
seen in the past.

Speaker 7 (33:15):
Well, I mean, have you ever checked out somewhere and
they give you the receipt and they say, hey, here's
a website.

Speaker 2 (33:19):
If you had a good experience, to go to this website?
Yes my name, Yeah, I'd happily do that, because you're right.

Speaker 7 (33:25):
People usually only bitch and moan when they're right when
they're using reviews because they want to complain. But if
things were great, they don't say a word. And I
guess we should be catching people doing things right on
reviews totally.

Speaker 16 (33:36):
Of course.

Speaker 9 (33:37):
I was at Cohle's and the woman in customer service
she was so friendly and sweet, and she helped me
find what I was looking for. So I asked for
her manager and just told the manager she did something
very nice. That girl lost her mind. She was so excited,
and I got a big old discount on some litch.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
Here you go.

Speaker 7 (33:54):
Great, I got Dana online twenty four I'll see what's
going on. Hi Dana, Hi guy, Well, welcome to the show.

Speaker 2 (34:01):
Are you do you work in the restaurant business.

Speaker 21 (34:04):
No, I do not, I work in healthcare.

Speaker 7 (34:07):
Okay, Well, thank you, thank you for doing what you do.
But you wanted to add on to this conversation.

Speaker 21 (34:12):
Yeah, I had just texted a little while ago that
I went to Myrtle Beach two years ago and we
went for Calibash because that's the big thing down there.
And they told us when we paid the bill that
if we wrote them a five star review online that
they would give us ten percent off the bill.

Speaker 7 (34:30):
Okay, well, well, okay, okay, Well first first things first,
did you do it?

Speaker 29 (34:37):
Yeah?

Speaker 33 (34:38):
Why not?

Speaker 2 (34:39):
Okay?

Speaker 21 (34:39):
But I mean it was interesting because we were like, okay,
well we we're obviously not from the area, so we
looked up all of these reviews online before we picked
the place, and we were like, okay, well, I guess
this wasn't overly accurate because we came to find out
that most of the places in the area offer similar
perks if you do the same thing.

Speaker 2 (34:59):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (34:59):
Okay, so you gave them a five star review? But
did they deserve it?

Speaker 2 (35:02):
Really?

Speaker 7 (35:03):
Did you do it just because of the discount or
they did they really give you a five star lunch
or whatever?

Speaker 25 (35:09):
It was really good.

Speaker 21 (35:10):
I don't know if it was necessarily five star, but you.

Speaker 24 (35:13):
Know, okay, there you go.

Speaker 7 (35:17):
So so it kind of makes you wonder, so you
did that, Dana? So because of that experience, do you
second guests? When you see five star reviews before you
go to places, you wonder.

Speaker 2 (35:27):
How real they are?

Speaker 5 (35:29):
All the time.

Speaker 10 (35:30):
All the time.

Speaker 21 (35:31):
I usually ask people that I know have been there.

Speaker 2 (35:34):
Wow, there you go? All right?

Speaker 7 (35:36):
Well, Dana, thank you for listening, Thanks for fessing up.
Ten percent discount. Okay, I'll give you a five star review.

Speaker 23 (35:45):
What no, thank you for being you.

Speaker 21 (35:48):
You guys are absolutely incredible and make my morning just
on damage you so much.

Speaker 7 (35:53):
I give you a five star review data.

Speaker 25 (35:58):
Thank you guys.

Speaker 2 (35:58):
Take care you too well. Thank you. Yeah, I'm so
glad we don't have reviews like that, dear.

Speaker 23 (36:05):
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Speaker 7 (36:46):
You know, if you're from Austin, Texas or you visited Austin, Texas,
you know there's a hometown thing they do there. Every night,
as the sun goes down, you watch the bats fly
out from under the bridge.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
I mean the bats. There's billions of them. It's the
thing everyone in town likes go do.

Speaker 7 (37:00):
Scary was in Charlotte and what Charlotte has like this
small town thing it does right, Yeah, every night, every night.

Speaker 15 (37:07):
Yeah, three miles from the South Carolina state line in Waxhaw,
everyone gathers around the pedestrian bridge to stand on top
of it and wait for the long ass cargo train
to go by, the fifteen minute cargo train. So you
stand over it with your ice cream Sunday from the
old ice cream shop and you're just watching.

Speaker 2 (37:28):
You just watch the train go by.

Speaker 15 (37:30):
Two times a day, the trains go by, and people
have been doing this for years.

Speaker 2 (37:34):
It's Waxaw tradition.

Speaker 7 (37:35):
There you go, and you were talking about another one
Gandhi When people are like tubing down a river, everyone.

Speaker 2 (37:41):
Shows up Yeah.

Speaker 9 (37:43):
So when I lived in Ohio, there was a place
it's a water park, and they have a lazy river there,
and all of the homish people would come and just
stand on the bridge and watch everybody float through the
lazy river. So we just wave at them. Yeah, they
watched us. It was great in.

Speaker 2 (37:56):
Nate where you're from in Pennsylvania. Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 14 (37:59):
We would go to allegai Any State Park just over
the border there in Salamaica, New York, and we would
go at night to the dumpsters and watch the bears
and raccoons eat tracks.

Speaker 2 (38:08):
Oh my god, sounds so romantic. Yeah, are you so cool?

Speaker 7 (38:13):
Textas now Texas at fifty five one hundred, What weird
thing does your town do? And you don't know about
it unless you roll through your town or you're born
and raised there.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
I would love to show up at.

Speaker 7 (38:22):
The dumpsters and watch the raccoons in bears eating garbage
every night.

Speaker 2 (38:26):
Let's go talk to line twenty four.

Speaker 7 (38:27):
Lendsy Lindsey, Hey y'all, Hey y'all, So where are you from, Lindsay?

Speaker 8 (38:33):
What town I'm from?

Speaker 11 (38:35):
West I'm in a small town in West Virginia. I
don't know if I want to call it out, even
though I got a lot of a lot of upries.

Speaker 7 (38:41):
Yeah, okay, all right, all right, that's okay. So tell
everyone what you guys do in your town that makes
it unique.

Speaker 22 (38:48):
Okay.

Speaker 11 (38:48):
This is a beautiful years long Appalachian tradition. Are you
guys ready? And we called it the pipe, so I
know this could go a lot of different ways.

Speaker 5 (38:58):
Don't be nervous.

Speaker 11 (38:59):
At our Corey camp out back, there was a cover
missing from like a sewish pipe, and then the pipe
had a big hole in it. So we would all
stand around every year at camp and then someone would
go inside the cabin, you know, and do their business
and then come running out and.

Speaker 29 (39:15):
We would all they would be all excited and we'd
all stand around and wait, and like first and bullet paper,
it would come, so we knew it was coming, and
then and then the turtacles would come and it was
just a good time.

Speaker 2 (39:25):
All right.

Speaker 7 (39:26):
That sounds like a hearty tradition in your town. So
this is a four h camp, let's keep that in mind.
So it is, it's not something the whole public can
come watch. So you would have someone do their business
in the cabin flush and then run down and you'd
watch whatever they produced float by in the broken popet.

Speaker 29 (39:44):
So much fun, I mean, and it's so beautiful here.
You just really make the best of what you can.

Speaker 11 (39:48):
That's what everybody does, right of course.

Speaker 29 (39:53):
All of you guys so much.

Speaker 11 (39:54):
You make the world such a better place.

Speaker 7 (39:57):
And now we must say the same to you your camp.
I love how you call them.

Speaker 1 (40:06):
Nate.

Speaker 11 (40:06):
Nate was super kind, not creepy, and he was helpful.
He coached me that I could say also maybe crap,
but not you know, the brown words. I love you
so much. I've been practicing yoga for over twenty years.
I've been teaching for over ten and thank thank you
and your country and your people, my God for such
a beautiful thing, yoga meditation to save us all. Really, yeah,

(40:29):
thank you guys much.

Speaker 17 (40:30):
So what are you doing you all?

Speaker 2 (40:32):
I love if you could combine the two.

Speaker 7 (40:34):
Watch the turtaicles float by in the pipe while doing
h yoga.

Speaker 11 (40:38):
Thank you really embrace my Appalachian life.

Speaker 2 (40:41):
Yeah you should.

Speaker 7 (40:42):
That sounds like a lot of fun in your town. Okay,
thank you very much. It's a pleasure meeting you.

Speaker 2 (40:46):
Elizabeth.

Speaker 7 (40:46):
In line twenty three, let's see what they did in
their town for for fun.

Speaker 2 (40:50):
Hi Elizabeth, Hi, good morning.

Speaker 7 (40:53):
Welcome to the show. All right, So this is something
that's very unique to your town. And is it a
yearly thing, a nightly thing?

Speaker 23 (40:59):
What is it? It's just something that I used to do,
I guess when I was a kid and some other kids.
We can't really do it anymore, so we used to
when we were younger. Go into the old psychiatric building.
So there's a Pilgrim State and there's also King's Park
Psychiatric Center, which are abandoned buildings. So they're all, yeah,

(41:20):
they were abandoned.

Speaker 2 (41:22):
With patients still all the way.

Speaker 7 (41:23):
Yeah, Elizabeth, these are old, creepy abandoned hospitals basically, right.

Speaker 23 (41:30):
Yes, exactly exactly, and some of them have like underground
tunnels on the campus and a lot of this stuff
actually since that time, probably because we were such bad kids,
have been like demolished and you know, there's more patrols
and things of that nature now so you can't probably
get away with it anymore. But there still those abandoned buildings.

Speaker 2 (41:47):
Wow wow.

Speaker 7 (41:48):
And I love that the whole town kind of shows up,
whether at least the kids would show up and break in.

Speaker 23 (41:53):
Yeah, we would go like like twenty deep, probably too
different buildings and just go different places and scarecrap out
of each other.

Speaker 10 (42:02):
Green Haunted House at Halloween.

Speaker 7 (42:04):
Yeah, I love that everyone in town knew about it.
If you if you weren't from your town, you didn't
know about it. All right, Lizabeth, thank you very much.
I appreciate it.

Speaker 2 (42:11):
Thank you. I have a great one, you too.

Speaker 7 (42:13):
Now let's go to Jordan on line twenty four. Jordan
from Pennsylvania. You know I've heard of this, Jordan. Hi, Jordan,
I think I've heard of this tradition. Tell everyone what
you what you do at school and you're.

Speaker 2 (42:23):
In your town.

Speaker 17 (42:25):
So our senior boys drive their tractors to school on
one of the last days of school.

Speaker 7 (42:32):
It's drive your tractor to school day.

Speaker 2 (42:35):
Yes, that's awesome.

Speaker 7 (42:38):
It's just like a whole parking lot filled with green
and yellow.

Speaker 2 (42:41):
It's all John Deere just hanging out.

Speaker 9 (42:44):
Do people in the town get ticked because it slows
down all the traffic or is it just kind of like, oh,
this is a fun thing, let it go.

Speaker 23 (42:51):
They're kind of used to it.

Speaker 10 (42:52):
To it here. Wow, you should do that in Florida.
Frog drive your golf cart to school day? You would
love that.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
You should all right, Thank you Jordan, Thanks for listening
to us too.

Speaker 12 (43:04):
Thanks good day.

Speaker 2 (43:06):
The text are coming summer in our town.

Speaker 7 (43:13):
H here's when a brewery in our town holds the
Popstown Annual goat Races. Everyone gets drunk, bloated on German
beer and brats, and we watch goats race each other.

Speaker 2 (43:21):
Every year.

Speaker 9 (43:23):
The love their animal races.

Speaker 2 (43:25):
This is a fabulous thing.

Speaker 24 (43:26):
Uh.

Speaker 7 (43:27):
Right there on the Mississippi River between the tiny towns
of Port Byron, Illinois and Leclair, Iowa, they have a
tug of war and they say Iowa usually wins, and
they say that the other.

Speaker 2 (43:37):
Team usually ends up in the river every year. Did
you guys see a few of these that you liked?

Speaker 21 (43:43):
Oh?

Speaker 9 (43:43):
I love the salamander migration Day in East Brunswick, New Jersey.
I would totally watch that, right.

Speaker 7 (43:50):
People say here in the state of uh, Illinois, we
get together and watch the taxes go up.

Speaker 10 (43:58):
Pubcat Day in the Bronx, you know, get together and
steal up them. It was fun.

Speaker 2 (44:05):
What about you, frog?

Speaker 24 (44:06):
Eric co three zero two says. Then their town they
all get together in the fall and due to a
pumpkin chunkin contest everybody who can throw a punk in
the furthest oh I.

Speaker 10 (44:14):
Always wanted to do that. That's so that on the
turn in Iowa they do the county chips. I always
wanted to do that.

Speaker 7 (44:22):
Too, the punkin Chunkin's right, it's north of us, it's
not far. So what did you guys used to do
with the boat ramps straight in eight?

Speaker 2 (44:29):
This was a big thing.

Speaker 14 (44:30):
People would just sit there and they'd have chairs and
they just watch people put their boats into the that's
entertainment at the boat launch because inevitably, like one out
of ten, people can't do it right, or they back
their car in too far and they flood their car.

Speaker 2 (44:44):
It's it's it's.

Speaker 24 (44:46):
They forget to put the brake on when they're backing in,
or when or the guy that's on the boat. No,
the best part is when the guy that's on the
boats like just a little more, He ReBs it a
little more to get it a further on the trailer
and it ends up in the back of the car.
The boat is over the trailer on the car. Okay,
we're good.

Speaker 7 (45:00):
Let's go tell you what When I when I was
much younger and we had a boat and we'd have
a boat, you know, we'd have a hitch to the
back of the car, the trailer. You have to know
what you're doing to back those things down those ramps
because if you turn right, that means it goes left,
or I don't it's it's backwards.

Speaker 24 (45:15):
But I've seen many marriages fail on a boat ramp
where the where the husband is trying to back the
trailer in and the wife's yelling at him.

Speaker 7 (45:21):
But it's something everyone in town had to do, you know,
you had to go watch.

Speaker 2 (45:24):
Yeah, scary.

Speaker 15 (45:25):
I saw a text from area code five oh one, Conway, Arkansas.

Speaker 2 (45:28):
Toad Suck Park.

Speaker 15 (45:30):
They have toad Suck Days and they race toads and
they have a big carnival around this event.

Speaker 7 (45:35):
They are toads, the frogs, they're toads, the toads. Get
it right, all right, That's so cool. Whatever you're doing
in your town, it's your tradition. If it's watching turds
float down on pipe, or if it's you know, pulling
people across the river in a tug of war competition,
just keep those keep those alive.

Speaker 24 (45:53):
There you go.

Speaker 9 (45:55):
I love They're just so menacing, some of them, Like
we get together and throw dry corn at people's porches
to in October in Toronto, Ohio. Okay, a chunk corner
people's houses.

Speaker 2 (46:05):
So what are you gonna do?

Speaker 7 (46:06):
If you let's say you're born in New York City,
you have you can go into the word. If you're
born in the boroughs or the suburbs of New York City,
you go into town and you ride the subways.

Speaker 2 (46:15):
I'd love to chunk some pumpkins.

Speaker 24 (46:17):
Yeah, just last week we found about the testical Festival.
I like to go to the testicle Festival.

Speaker 2 (46:21):
And what do you do?

Speaker 24 (46:22):
Are you showing yours off? Or you're looking at other words?

Speaker 2 (46:24):
Like what do you do?

Speaker 9 (46:26):
You're eating them?

Speaker 7 (46:27):
Yeah, they're not off.

Speaker 2 (46:29):
People, they don't.

Speaker 10 (46:29):
You don't eat like I don't people's I think you
eat animals? Am I right?

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Okay?

Speaker 18 (46:36):
On that guy, don't answer the phone.

Speaker 16 (46:47):
Elvis Duran the Elvis Duran phone tap.

Speaker 7 (46:50):
Every morning at seven twenty, we give you a fresh
phone tap. We love playing crank calls. Actually, you told
us you loved him, That's why they're back. Got an
email from Nicole Godfrey. See I think you have her
on the phone. Good morning, Nicole?

Speaker 24 (47:05):
Is that you?

Speaker 1 (47:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 34 (47:06):
Hi?

Speaker 27 (47:06):
Good morning, guys, rather than.

Speaker 2 (47:07):
Me reading out your email, What is it you want
to do to your friend Lauren?

Speaker 8 (47:10):
All right, Well, me and my friends this is our
first year getting a beach house down in Bema, and.

Speaker 35 (47:15):
I thought it'd be a great idea to have.

Speaker 8 (47:18):
Someone pretend to be real with her and tell her
that our house burnt down.

Speaker 2 (47:22):
Right, can you imagine? So she already you guys already
put your deposit down on the house.

Speaker 7 (47:28):
Yeah, and you want the realtor to call and say, well, hey, thanks,
but no thanks the house burnt down?

Speaker 30 (47:32):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (47:33):
Yeah, all right? So why do you hate your friend Lauren?
Why do you want to do this to her?

Speaker 34 (47:36):
No?

Speaker 5 (47:36):
I don't hate her. I just think she is the most.

Speaker 8 (47:39):
Gullible out of all the girls at the house, and
I think she'll really fall for it.

Speaker 11 (47:42):
And I can't wait to hear what you says.

Speaker 7 (47:44):
Can we go scary calling it Lauren telling her her
beach house has burned to the ground.

Speaker 2 (47:49):
It's another phone.

Speaker 30 (47:49):
Tap, well, Lauren Gissey, please, ye, hi, this is Ray
from the realty company. Okay, you've rented a house down
the shore with us for this summer.

Speaker 10 (48:01):
Uh huh?

Speaker 15 (48:02):
And I believe the address I just want to make
sure I could verify this. It's two thirteen by at
least venue in Belmar, right, that house burned down. What, Yeah,
it's terrible.

Speaker 17 (48:14):
So that just means sort of screwed a house and
not money.

Speaker 2 (48:20):
Basically, Okay, how much money did you put down here?

Speaker 14 (48:24):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (48:25):
It paid the seven hundred dollars deposit and then we
made our entertainment. Right, we are all paid five hundred,
so it was like twenty five hundred dollars already.

Speaker 15 (48:32):
Yeah, Well that money's gone and you still always to balance,
which is about one thousand dollars.

Speaker 24 (48:36):
We still have to pay for it, regardless of the
house is there or not.

Speaker 12 (48:39):
Yep, that's why why can you afford that money?

Speaker 5 (48:44):
Well?

Speaker 8 (48:45):
I could afford it.

Speaker 2 (48:46):
Are you working right obviously?

Speaker 8 (48:47):
If we uh what am I working right now? Yes?

Speaker 6 (48:50):
Money last.

Speaker 15 (48:51):
I just wanted to make sure that you weren't some
deadbeat kid out of college that wasn't going to pay
her bill.

Speaker 2 (48:56):
Obviously.

Speaker 33 (48:56):
I once on a week for a house that I
was running for the summer, I couldn't afford it.

Speaker 15 (49:01):
I just kind of figured that you're like scraping your
last pennies together to get this done.

Speaker 28 (49:05):
No, I don't.

Speaker 17 (49:05):
I don't scrape my last pennies.

Speaker 2 (49:08):
What do you do for a living? Why do you?

Speaker 28 (49:09):
Why are you kid this?

Speaker 29 (49:12):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (49:12):
I get it. You're still mooching off your father? Hello? Hello?
What is she doing right now? You think?

Speaker 16 (49:23):
All right?

Speaker 2 (49:23):
Let's call her back?

Speaker 6 (49:27):
Hellow, Lauren?

Speaker 2 (49:29):
What did I say wrong? I'm sorry?

Speaker 8 (49:31):
What do you mean?

Speaker 28 (49:31):
You're sorry?

Speaker 31 (49:32):
I don't hear your bolt.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
I didn't mean to pry into your personal life. What's listen?

Speaker 15 (49:37):
If you need some help paying the balance on the house.
I do have a side business. Little go go bar
here and lod I. I could hire you and you
could earn some extra cash and we could have this
money made up.

Speaker 9 (49:46):
And you kidding me?

Speaker 15 (49:48):
I'm just trying to offer you a way out here.
The money is old, the money.

Speaker 16 (50:00):
Living.

Speaker 10 (50:00):
Are trying to offer me a job at a What
do you think you are?

Speaker 15 (50:06):
Okay, I'll tell you what. Let me put you on
the phone with my secretary.

Speaker 2 (50:09):
Hello, Hello, Laurren.

Speaker 25 (50:13):
Yeah, Nicole, you're kick my head, aren't you?

Speaker 2 (50:20):
You've been phone tapped? Oh my god, are you kidding me?

Speaker 11 (50:25):
Our house really didn't burn down.

Speaker 10 (50:27):
It was just a joe.

Speaker 2 (50:29):
The house is fine, but the money still.

Speaker 19 (50:32):
Do just puting me that job at the go good?

Speaker 2 (50:38):
What do you want to tell Nicolelvis.

Speaker 16 (50:41):
Dan's phone tap.

Speaker 13 (50:44):
This phone table was pre recorded permission granted by all
participates the.

Speaker 1 (50:48):
Elvis Oran phone tap only on Elvis Daran in the
Morning Show.

Speaker 7 (50:53):
The question is what stupid thing are you guys fighting
about right now? Where you're in this major battle? And
then you stop and realize what you're fighting about. You're like,
how stupid?

Speaker 2 (51:03):
Are we?

Speaker 10 (51:04):
So silly? Half the time I don't remember, let's go,
oh my gosh, exactly what did that? Was so stupid?
Why did I you know?

Speaker 2 (51:11):
Exactly?

Speaker 7 (51:12):
Yeah, it's almost to the point where you're so mad,
you're mad as dogs.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
Yeah whatever that means, you're mad, mad mad.

Speaker 7 (51:19):
But then you stop and think about what it is
you're fighting about. You're like, what the f am I
thinking about? Yep, anyway, I know. On Twitter, Joshua Queen says,
we're fighting over the one hundred and thirty five dollars
I spent on a weighted blanket that's only big enough
for me. You know they have those weighted blankets. It's
a twenty five pound blanket. Andrea on Twitter says, I

(51:40):
we're mad because he went to see Ready Player one
without me. We are seriously in a two day fight
over this.

Speaker 10 (51:45):
I could see being upset if you promise to go
to a movie together and then the other person goes
and sees it without you.

Speaker 2 (51:52):
I know, but to fight about it for two days
two days.

Speaker 7 (51:54):
On Facebook, Alyssa says, we disagree about who's taking a
shower first. This morning they're fighting about it. Jess on
Facebook says, my husband and I have an ongoing fight
about if a hot dog is a sandwich or not,
but we actually get mad at each other.

Speaker 10 (52:08):
We've had the fight Caramel versus Carmel, to the point
where we go to a restaurant and my husband will
ask the waitress, what is your What do you think
it is? Is it caramel or Carmel? You tell me
what I could Really, you're gonna get somebody else exactly.

Speaker 16 (52:21):
Yah.

Speaker 7 (52:21):
So it turns into like this major, major blowout for
no reason over.

Speaker 2 (52:25):
Something so so stupid. So contact us now. I want
to hear from you. It's true. We've all been there.
It's okay, Ashley, Hi, how you doing?

Speaker 29 (52:33):
Hi?

Speaker 26 (52:34):
Good?

Speaker 27 (52:34):
Hi guys.

Speaker 29 (52:34):
I love you, guys, love for you.

Speaker 7 (52:36):
We're doing fine. So you and your husband got in
a massive fight over what.

Speaker 27 (52:41):
Me ordering What's Sick on the internet for fifty two dollars.

Speaker 10 (52:46):
That's kind of expensive.

Speaker 5 (52:48):
Okay.

Speaker 27 (52:48):
So we're in the car right now and his life
is going to be a complete nightmare. And let me
tell you, he has a nerve to go on her
computer and look at the history because something sparked his
interest that I had typed in. So that is psychotic.
There's nothing going on on her computer, so he sees
that I order flipsticks from Jeffrestar dot com and he
gets all pissed off at me.

Speaker 8 (53:09):
Okay, there's no right to look at her computer.

Speaker 2 (53:11):
Well I know, well I know, but there are two things.

Speaker 7 (53:13):
Okay, so there's a trust issue with you, but there's
there's an overspending on lipstick for him. So you both
you both have an issue right now.

Speaker 27 (53:20):
And he's laughing that is not overspending. That life show
from overspending.

Speaker 10 (53:24):
But let me ask you question. Do you have you
guys had the discussion that you weren't going to spend
a lot of money or is it you know, is
it tough right now or something like that?

Speaker 27 (53:32):
Well not to me, I mean, we have different views
on money, absolutely, but sixty two dollars that's not even
in a bracket of what I would consider overspending.

Speaker 2 (53:41):
Wow, well not for you maybe, but massively. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (53:44):
But when you said fifty two dollars lipstick, Daniel's face
was like, Oh, that's kind of high.

Speaker 10 (53:48):
You can get like a Revlaan for six nights.

Speaker 2 (53:50):
But that's not that's not that's not our thing.

Speaker 11 (53:53):
Thank you.

Speaker 2 (53:53):
That's what she if. That's where Okay we wait a
minute though. Let me be very clear.

Speaker 7 (53:57):
If Ashley has her own job, she has her own
mind to come in if she if she wants to
do what we think is overspent on lipstick, that's her program.

Speaker 8 (54:04):
That is true.

Speaker 7 (54:05):
But what I find weird is we're sitting in the
car with you as you're having a fight with him.

Speaker 2 (54:08):
I find this kind of thing.

Speaker 27 (54:09):
He's right next to you laughing. He thinks this is funny,
and whenever he laughs, it makes me more angry.

Speaker 2 (54:15):
Okay, is it okay for you? Can we well hold on?
Can we talk to him? Will they talk to us?

Speaker 27 (54:20):
Sure?

Speaker 2 (54:20):
Put him on what's his name?

Speaker 27 (54:22):
He doesn't want to talk to you because he's seeing
a baby.

Speaker 2 (54:25):
No, no, he's not being a baby.

Speaker 24 (54:26):
That'll make it better.

Speaker 2 (54:27):
No, Ashley, Ashley, Ashley, I don't.

Speaker 7 (54:30):
I don't think you're fighting fair fair here, you're calling him,
you're calling him a baby.

Speaker 10 (54:35):
Let me ask you a question, Ashley. Have you has
he spent a lot of money on stupid things as well?

Speaker 27 (54:40):
He doesn't buy anything?

Speaker 29 (54:42):
Oh okay, it doesn't buy anything.

Speaker 7 (54:44):
Well okay, Look, look it's one thing to disagree and
have an argument, but you guys got to work this out.

Speaker 27 (54:51):
Okay, you got to work it in.

Speaker 7 (54:52):
Are you got to work it out and say hey, okay,
so maybe okay, but wait, look I'll tell you when
when Alex gets mad at me for buying all my shoes,
I have to remind him. Look, you may not like
that I'm buying shoes with all that money, but it's
all that money that I made, and.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
There are shoes that are going on my feet. And
I'm sorry if you don't like it, but let's try
to understand that we we all have our lives.

Speaker 7 (55:12):
We have our lives together, we also have lives that
are independent as well.

Speaker 27 (55:16):
Okay, definitely. So then now it's not a good time
to tell me I ordered something on Brighton dot Com.

Speaker 2 (55:21):
Got gotta go all right, you guys worked it out,
love you too? She the pot. Well, no, but she
she's not fighting fairly. No, I don't. I don't think
she is. She's she's trying.

Speaker 7 (55:33):
To make him mad. I really do think that, and
I want good things for them. Hello, John, how are
you good?

Speaker 28 (55:40):
How about yourselves?

Speaker 8 (55:41):
That?

Speaker 2 (55:41):
Did you hear that? That? That fight we were just
talking about.

Speaker 28 (55:45):
It's crazy, hilarious.

Speaker 2 (55:47):
So you got into a fight with who.

Speaker 28 (55:51):
My fiance because I watched all the seasons of teen
Wolf and didn't wait for te Wolf?

Speaker 7 (56:00):
Now question, okay, question John, did you guys agree you
were going to wait for each other and watch it
together as a couple or okay?

Speaker 2 (56:06):
So here's where the fight gets from.

Speaker 28 (56:08):
Yeah, we were watching it together and she was falling asleep.
She said, don't worry, go ahead and watch it, and
of course I heard watch them all so I did.

Speaker 2 (56:20):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (56:22):
So now it's done and there's nothing you can do
to turn back the hands of time. What do you
do to move on and realize this is a silly
reason to get really mad?

Speaker 28 (56:32):
Right? So, like she was like really legitimately upset, and
I couldn't understand. I was like, listen, I'll rewatch them
with you. We have it on Netflix.

Speaker 10 (56:42):
Yeah, but that's not the same. That's not the same
because you already know what's going to happen. You'll make
little noises with your voice, like.

Speaker 24 (56:49):
If he doesn't what if he doesn't make us sense,
doesn't matter, it doesn't matter.

Speaker 10 (56:52):
You shouldn't have watched it.

Speaker 2 (56:53):
What's done is done. What's done is done.

Speaker 28 (56:55):
It's over with.

Speaker 7 (56:57):
It's time to move forward. There's nothing you can do
about it, but go ahead.

Speaker 28 (57:02):
And I got in trouble because I asked her if
she was seriously upset about it, because that was ridiculous.
And I guess that was a bad move too.

Speaker 2 (57:10):
Yeah, that was a bit okay, See, I agree with her.

Speaker 10 (57:12):
You can't tell her what to be pissed that.

Speaker 2 (57:13):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 7 (57:14):
If someone's pissed, you gotta let them be pissed. But John,
it's time to move on. And the thing is, we
have a learned We call this a learning moment, right, Yes,
we learned.

Speaker 6 (57:22):
We learned that.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
Let's be very clear.

Speaker 7 (57:24):
If we're if there's a show that we have to
watch together, we must watch together, then let's make sure
we do that.

Speaker 2 (57:30):
And so it's good, move on. Though you're good.

Speaker 28 (57:33):
Absolutely. I actually switched between TVs now so she can't
see what I watch.

Speaker 2 (57:40):
Good luck, John, that's awesome, thanks listening.

Speaker 28 (57:42):
I love you guys.

Speaker 2 (57:43):
Thanks for listening to U's give me one more. You
know what, It's just.

Speaker 7 (57:47):
We all have these fights about insignificant things, and sometimes
it means there's something bubbling under that has nothing to
do this once a week.

Speaker 24 (57:55):
This is awesome.

Speaker 2 (57:57):
Let's go talk to Dana high.

Speaker 30 (57:58):
Dana, Hi, how are you doing?

Speaker 2 (58:02):
Okay?

Speaker 7 (58:02):
So you were fighting with your boyfriend because he told
you not to go to his house last night.

Speaker 32 (58:10):
Yeah, he's been in a bad mood and I asked
him if he wanted me to come over after I
got out of work and he said no. So then
he got mad later because I went home and laid
in bed.

Speaker 2 (58:24):
I went to sleep, and he got mad that you
because you didn't show up.

Speaker 36 (58:29):
Yeah, because I didn't show up and he wanted me
to show up. He expected me to.

Speaker 5 (58:35):
Be a mind reader.

Speaker 7 (58:36):
Okay, no, no, no, no, okay, So I agree. I when
I'm in and when I'm in a sensitive spot, I
want people to read my mind as well.

Speaker 2 (58:44):
I get that. Don't like that, I know, but.

Speaker 7 (58:45):
To argue about it's one thing, but you could handle
it like this. Hey, look, I love you. I can't
read your mind. If you need me, you know I'm there.
But if you tell me you need space, I'm going
to give you space. I'm doing what you wanted me
to do. So don't get mad at me. You know,
I hope that's how you handled it. Is that how
you handled it?

Speaker 36 (59:03):
Yeah, that's how I handled it. But I think that
kind of pissed him off a little more.

Speaker 5 (59:07):
Boy, Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 36 (59:09):
Because he's like, well, you should have known that I
wanted you to come over. I'm like, well, I don't
know what to tell you because you told me not to.

Speaker 17 (59:16):
So I respected what you wanted, and.

Speaker 10 (59:19):
It becomes you don't know me by now.

Speaker 2 (59:21):
Oh no, oh my god.

Speaker 24 (59:22):
Yeah, but she asked him and he said no, so
she didn't go. I mean that's what he said exactly.

Speaker 7 (59:26):
Well, Dana, look this is Yeah, obviously he's in a
very very odd spot right now. He needs to get
out of it, and maybe in hindsight, after a few
moments and breaths, he'll be able to logically speak about it.

Speaker 2 (59:38):
But I know we only all do that.

Speaker 7 (59:40):
Look, when we get when we get highly sensitive about stuff.
Everything's a problem. We want to and if you don't
have enough problems, we want more problems to help him
ask what's really bothering it? So obviously he's going through
something kind of crazy.

Speaker 27 (59:52):
Right, Yeah, I wouldn't even know.

Speaker 36 (59:55):
I guess I have to read his mind to find
out all that.

Speaker 27 (59:58):
Well.

Speaker 7 (59:58):
See, that's so don't say that to him, to say, look,
I'm here for you, but please you tell me what
you want and I'll do it for you. That's because
I love you, and that's all you can do. There's
nothing else you can do beyond.

Speaker 5 (01:00:09):
That, exactly, and we love you.

Speaker 11 (01:00:11):
Good luck, Dana, all right, thank you.

Speaker 7 (01:00:13):
I love this text. My husband got mad at me
because I threw out his Chick fil A sauce.

Speaker 10 (01:00:17):
Oh my gosh, did you.

Speaker 2 (01:00:19):
See the one?

Speaker 24 (01:00:19):
My biggest fight, the biggest fight my husband I ever
had was because he ate my Reese's peanut butter cup.

Speaker 7 (01:00:27):
So whatever huge fight you're in, find a way to
diffuse it. Sometimes you always want to have the last dig,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (01:00:36):
Let it go.

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Speaker 7 (01:01:14):
A little while ago, you were talking about a friend
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Speaker 2 (01:01:20):
Take a second look at her relationship.

Speaker 7 (01:01:21):
She's in correct, maybe from someone else's viewpoint, and and
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back to that.

Speaker 2 (01:01:29):
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Speaker 7 (01:01:30):
I mean I don't want to, you know, I don't
want to embarrass anyone to use names or anything.

Speaker 2 (01:01:33):
No, I won't use her name.

Speaker 3 (01:01:35):
And she's a very very smart girl. I've known her
since high school, so yeah, she's a very wise person.
But sometimes when you're in the thick of a relationship
and feeling in love with someone, you fail to see
what was to.

Speaker 37 (01:01:47):
Me a really obvious red flag.

Speaker 7 (01:01:50):
Right, So what's the obvious If I may ask, what's
the obvious red flag?

Speaker 3 (01:01:54):
They've been together for over a year and he keeps
coming up with different reasons why he's yet to introduce
her to any of his friends.

Speaker 7 (01:02:01):
Okay, well we could break that down. Well, maybe he
hangs out with people he's embarrassed to hang out with,
or maybe he doesn't want them to meet her.

Speaker 37 (01:02:12):
So true, there's a bunch of different reasons.

Speaker 3 (01:02:14):
So I was very careful to not be like that
means he's blank because I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:02:18):
I don't know the guy.

Speaker 37 (01:02:19):
I couldn't tell you what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:02:20):
But I couldn't even come up with a best case
scenario where I felt like that was treating her the
way she deserved to be treated in a relationship.

Speaker 7 (01:02:29):
I get that if I had a friend coming to
me and say, hey, you know, we've been dating for
a year and I haven't met anyone that they are
friends with, but they go out with them.

Speaker 2 (01:02:38):
So I'm assuming this person goes out with the friend time.

Speaker 3 (01:02:41):
Yeah, he goes out with his friends.

Speaker 2 (01:02:43):
But she's not invited.

Speaker 37 (01:02:44):
Correct, I don't know.

Speaker 10 (01:02:46):
I mean it could be that his friends are just
scumbags and he doesn't want her around them because he
values what he has. But if that's the case, then
do you want to be with someone who has friends
that are scumbacks?

Speaker 7 (01:03:00):
You know you are who you surround yourself with. But wait,
why has she not asked him?

Speaker 37 (01:03:06):
She said she I would She said she's asked him.

Speaker 3 (01:03:08):
But she's kind of a passive personality, so she's not
like me. It wo'd be like we're doing this this
weekend or not at all. She just kind of like
lets him know and then kind of lets herself get
I think a.

Speaker 37 (01:03:21):
Little walked on.

Speaker 7 (01:03:21):
See I couldn't I couldn't you know me? I'd be
right under that hood. Man's right? Who are your friends?
Who are these friends?

Speaker 20 (01:03:28):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:03:28):
There's so many reasons that are potential, and most of
them are bad, most of them.

Speaker 7 (01:03:33):
Is there something wonky about her that he doesn't want
them to know about?

Speaker 3 (01:03:36):
I don't think so, not at all. She's like a
little bit of a silently intimidating character, So I think
that like might be possible. But if we're in a
committed relationship, you prioritize me if you pick this personality,
let me know by actually actively choosing me.

Speaker 7 (01:03:50):
But here's the thing, I don't consider this a committed relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:03:54):
No, if you can't bring me around, yeah, yeah, exactly.
If howny your.

Speaker 10 (01:03:58):
Friends not know about me, that's like a secret.

Speaker 16 (01:04:01):
They know, they know.

Speaker 2 (01:04:03):
The whole part of a relationship is you were a
part of their lives. I agree with you, So they
know she exists.

Speaker 3 (01:04:09):
Yes, she's talked to a few of them on social Oh,
he's just never allowed her or invited her, And she
has not invited herself to mesh with these friends. And
when it comes up in conversation, he's, you know, just
kind of does a great job skirting it.

Speaker 7 (01:04:25):
Okay, let's let's consider another possibility. Maybe, as sort of
on the heels of what Daniel said, there are a
bunch of scumbacks. Maybe they're not. But maybe for some reason,
he is ready for a new life. He wants a
life with new people. But then again, if he's still
hanging out with them, then that's not the case.

Speaker 2 (01:04:41):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:04:41):
Yeah, he says he has one like she says, he
has one core group, like that person you know that
always hangs out with the same friends, and that's that,
that's his social life.

Speaker 7 (01:04:50):
I have a really dear friend who has been in
a relationship for many years and has never met the family,
has never met anyone in his circle ever. Okay, continue
to move on and life is still whatever it is.

Speaker 10 (01:05:04):
And they're both happy about that.

Speaker 7 (01:05:06):
It doesn't seem that way. I think it's more of
a it's just the way it is, so we live
with it. I would I don't know. I don't want
to sit here and say, well, I would never do that.
I would never because I mean, because we're all different.
I mean we all have different different levels of patience
and whatever.

Speaker 37 (01:05:22):
But it wasn't making her feel very secure, Like.

Speaker 3 (01:05:24):
That's what started this part of the conversation is the
way she talked about it. She was feeling a little
insecure with herself and her relationship to him. So that's
why I'm like, all right, let's let's just talk about
the potential of this being a serious red flag.

Speaker 37 (01:05:37):
And maybe it's not quite as rosy as you feel
like it is.

Speaker 2 (01:05:41):
I like this text. Maybe he's a gamer and all
his friends are online. Maybe maybe all.

Speaker 10 (01:05:48):
His friends are just imaginary friends.

Speaker 2 (01:05:51):
Maybe, or maybe maybe maybe she needs to like follow follow.

Speaker 9 (01:05:59):
Him some in finals, that's the best.

Speaker 2 (01:06:02):
Answer, follow him?

Speaker 7 (01:06:03):
Where's he going with these shap let's go see what
they're doing. What if they're like, you know, some Satanists.

Speaker 10 (01:06:10):
Yeah, actually they worked for the CIA.

Speaker 7 (01:06:12):
Yeah, maybe they're they're like they're killing frogs and things.

Speaker 6 (01:06:17):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:06:17):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (01:06:18):
Hello Melissa, Hi, how are you guys doing very well?
I'm so glad you're listening. I'm so glad you're participating
in the conversation. I know that you said you were
in a relationship for two years, and yeah, I never.

Speaker 25 (01:06:33):
Ever never have a situationship.

Speaker 2 (01:06:35):
A situationship and never met his friends. All right, go ahead.

Speaker 33 (01:06:39):
Yeah, so we had met online and it was all
great in the beginning, and then I couldn't wait for
him to meet my family and friends. My sister went
on two double dates with two of my friends, but
I never met his family, never met his friends, and
it started to make me feel.

Speaker 31 (01:07:00):
Like I was a kept secret.

Speaker 33 (01:07:02):
So I ended up taking up with him on Valentine's Day.

Speaker 7 (01:07:07):
Okay, but what's your gut feeling telling you? Why do
you think? It may not be accurate? But why do
you what's your hunch? Why do you think he never
ever introduced you to his family or friends?

Speaker 2 (01:07:19):
In two years.

Speaker 4 (01:07:21):
Well, I think it was a couple things.

Speaker 33 (01:07:24):
His parents, he told me, were really strict. It was
also an interracial relationship, so I think he was a
little nervous to introduce me and have different aspects that.

Speaker 32 (01:07:40):
He wasn't used to to introduce me to.

Speaker 33 (01:07:42):
But I also think like for him, he had trouble
with commitment, Like I was looking to always define it
and he was like, oh, I feel like we're moving
to pass. But he was also older than me. He
was about six years older than me, so I'm like,
what do you mean, Like how long do you think
you know you're looking for a commitment and how long

(01:08:03):
do you think you would know? And I just felt
like I was always making pieces for him, like why
he couldn't come out to me out with friends, because
we're always invited to things that I would always show
up by myself.

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
And that's not a relationship.

Speaker 7 (01:08:17):
I mean, well it is, it's just not a very
healthy one in my opinion. I mean, and you obviously
after two years, realized that you deserved better than that,
So kaboom, you know, goodbye.

Speaker 10 (01:08:28):
Yeah you know, yeah exactly.

Speaker 33 (01:08:30):
Now I'm now I'm in a new relationship and couldn't
be happier right away. He couldn't really introduce me to
friends and family. I'm like, to me, it was such
a big deal, but it was also bare minimum, and
it just made me realize how easy it is to
just be treated respect and.

Speaker 2 (01:08:47):
Yes, there you go.

Speaker 7 (01:08:48):
Yeah, all right, Well, thank you, Melissa, and best of
luck with your new fresh I know his friends relationship.

Speaker 11 (01:08:55):
Thank you so much, guys.

Speaker 33 (01:08:56):
I love you guys so much.

Speaker 29 (01:08:57):
I hope you have a great day.

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
Oh you too, hope you do too. And finally we
talked to Shannon. Hi. Shannon, Hi, how are you guys
doing very well or doing well?

Speaker 16 (01:09:05):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (01:09:06):
I don't want to speak for everyone. If you're not
doing well, speak down.

Speaker 10 (01:09:10):
So I totally think she should leave him.

Speaker 19 (01:09:13):
I mean, I was in a relationship for four years.
I got engaged in December. It was done by June.
There were so many red flags. I wasn't allowed to
go out with the boys with him. He would go
out all the time. When I asked, so can I come, No,
I was never allowed to come. I mean I did
meet his family and everything, I mean down the line.
There was some touffle there, but he was definitely a

(01:09:35):
Mohmed's boy. But honestly, I think that it's better off.
She's better alone. There's definitely some piss in this dating
pool nowadays. I think men are dogs and you know,
if they can't bring you around their friends and show
you your family, like, I don't understand, I don't see
really anything happening there.

Speaker 2 (01:09:52):
There you go.

Speaker 7 (01:09:53):
You want someone that makes you feel secure and loved
and protected and you know, and there's there should be
no doubt that there that they're into you and they
want you to meet their family and friends.

Speaker 2 (01:10:03):
What's that Danielle Sam did?

Speaker 10 (01:10:04):
She has she ever said hey, can I come out
with you? And the guys?

Speaker 9 (01:10:07):
Yeah, she's let him know.

Speaker 37 (01:10:09):
He has just said no, I don't He's not He's crafty.

Speaker 3 (01:10:13):
He hasn't said no. It's more like, we'll make a plan.
This one won't work, we'll get there. And it's been
a year of not getting.

Speaker 2 (01:10:17):
There, which just saying no.

Speaker 9 (01:10:18):
We're just saying no basically exactly.

Speaker 7 (01:10:22):
Shannon sounds like you know exactly what it is you
want and exactly what it is you deserve. And I'm
so happy that you that it's totally totally totally uh,
your your walk in life, right? I love that I
love that, go for it and.

Speaker 35 (01:10:36):
Exactly nobody should fight for love.

Speaker 19 (01:10:38):
It should be you know, given and taken and you
should give it him return.

Speaker 7 (01:10:42):
Amen. I love it all right, Shannon, Thank you very much.
I appreciate your call.

Speaker 9 (01:10:46):
Thank you guys, we love you.

Speaker 2 (01:10:48):
Love you by bye. See there you go, so best
of luck with your friend.

Speaker 16 (01:10:52):
I know.

Speaker 3 (01:10:53):
I think the bare basement of any relationship should be
at least making you feel better about yourself than you
would without them, whatever that means to you.

Speaker 7 (01:10:59):
So if it's not well, at least in dialogue you say, look,
you're making me feel like crap about myself because you
make me feel like there's something wrong right right right,
You're not introducing me to your friends and your family.

Speaker 37 (01:11:08):
Now, if you think you deserve better, you probably do excellent.

Speaker 2 (01:11:12):
I agree.

Speaker 7 (01:11:13):
Hey, I want to bring up something and I don't
want to make anyone uncomfortable. But you know what, making
people uncomfortable is so much fun. Let's try it out, showy. Yeah,
do you have an issue with people who come up
to you, look you in the eye, and say, hey,
how come you don't follow me on Instagram?

Speaker 2 (01:11:29):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (01:11:30):
This happened to a Gandhi yesterday, we're having a conversation
about it. Yeah, some point blank, someone walks up to
you and someone do you work with?

Speaker 2 (01:11:37):
Yes, A good friend of ours.

Speaker 9 (01:11:39):
Well, here's the thing, a good friend of all of yours.
I don't know this person that well, but very nice person.
So before this this person said hello, it was a hey,
why don't you follow me on Instagram? Which is a
conversation that has had every time I see them. And
there are a couple people in the building who do
that all the time, and I it's not one. I'll

(01:12:02):
then give them the courtesy follow and then unfollow later.
But it's one of those questions that I'm like, wait,
what is this about? Do people really care that much?
I didn't think it was a big deal, Like, if
we don't know each other, what's the point of the follow?
I mean, it's not like certain celebrities who I stalk, Okay, sure,
but real life people, I don't really see the need
and I think that it's kind of just a lose
lose conversation as soon as it starts.

Speaker 7 (01:12:23):
Well, okay, I see your point of view. Now, this
person you're talking about, who we work with, we've known
for years. He's a very dear friend, a very sweet guy.

Speaker 2 (01:12:30):
Of course we follow him, you know, yeah, but I
see you you don't know him that well. But the
fact is that he kind of cornered you. Oh yeah,
and then.

Speaker 7 (01:12:38):
We had this conversation in the road during the song
a minute ago, and then's scary, says, I totally get it.
I would be very offended as well if you didn't
follow me.

Speaker 15 (01:12:45):
Well, it's more of like it's human to wonder, right,
So if I saw someone following all of you guys,
but they don't follow me on Instagram, it would just
at the very least peak my curiosity. Did I say
that I post something that pissed them off?

Speaker 2 (01:13:00):
Do they not like me?

Speaker 6 (01:13:01):
Do they have a vendetta against me? So I can
understand where this person is coming from.

Speaker 2 (01:13:06):
So you're putting.

Speaker 7 (01:13:07):
Being followed on Instagram way up that on the top
of the ladder of importance. It's just so st I
want you to want me.

Speaker 6 (01:13:16):
I want to be one.

Speaker 7 (01:13:18):
I don't want to be This is one of the
things that we told me about. Hold, you're equating.

Speaker 2 (01:13:22):
Being followed to being loved.

Speaker 6 (01:13:25):
A common theme of our show is is everyone wants
to be loved and feel loved.

Speaker 7 (01:13:29):
So if you need to look scary, I love you.
I don't follow you on Instagram neither.

Speaker 2 (01:13:35):
I want to be you.

Speaker 6 (01:13:36):
Guys all follow me?

Speaker 2 (01:13:37):
We don't know, we don't. I don't. I mean, I
don't know. About the rest of these guys, I don't.

Speaker 10 (01:13:41):
I don't follow half the people I know.

Speaker 5 (01:13:42):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 9 (01:13:43):
There are a ton of people I don't follow on Instagram.
I don't follow you on Instagram.

Speaker 6 (01:13:46):
You know you, guys, don't get out of here.

Speaker 2 (01:13:48):
Look at your phone, Look at your phone. I don't know.
I don't.

Speaker 6 (01:13:51):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:13:52):
I don't recall following you. But it doesn't mean I
don't love you. I don't under you.

Speaker 7 (01:13:55):
Guys me, you don't follow me again? With what are
to follow you? Your your your post drive me nuts?
I can't team follow back, I follow you? The hell's
going on?

Speaker 37 (01:14:08):
That's not the way it works.

Speaker 9 (01:14:09):
And furthermore, like scary if if some if you approach
someone and you say, hey, why don't you follow me,
and then they tell you, oh, I don't like your
posts or something that you did offended me or whatever
it is, Are you going to change your life so
that one person follows you back?

Speaker 6 (01:14:21):
Well, maybe I'd become a better person.

Speaker 2 (01:14:22):
Maybe, like you know, scary, scary, I'm going to say
something and it's not. It's really very kind. You're a
wonderful person.

Speaker 7 (01:14:31):
I wouldn't want you to change anything about your life
because someone doesn't follow you on instag What the hell is?

Speaker 10 (01:14:38):
And would it be something that like really bugged you
that much that you would think about it that much?

Speaker 2 (01:14:44):
It does things about it all the time, didn't.

Speaker 15 (01:14:47):
I didn't know people that have, you know, they take
social media a little bit more seriously.

Speaker 6 (01:14:51):
I know a lot of people who take would take
offense to it.

Speaker 9 (01:14:54):
You know, he says, for a friend, I'm speaking, it's
a human it's a human thing.

Speaker 2 (01:15:02):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (01:15:03):
I think we all agree we love you. You know we
love you. We don't have to prove it by following
you on Instagram.

Speaker 6 (01:15:09):
So you're going to follow me or.

Speaker 2 (01:15:11):
I haven't followed you in years? What you're talking about?

Speaker 6 (01:15:15):
Oh my god, I can't believe this. I believe my
own friends and my flesh and blood.

Speaker 2 (01:15:22):
Right, we all love you.

Speaker 4 (01:15:23):
We love you.

Speaker 9 (01:15:24):
Yeah, you shouldn't change anything for us on Instagram because
it's like you have the shore every day. Then why
does that mean that we don't love you. We still
love you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:35):
I just want to see that exactly.

Speaker 6 (01:15:36):
I'm just work together.

Speaker 33 (01:15:39):
Dan.

Speaker 7 (01:15:41):
Just keep in mind, I think just Instagram means different
things to different people.

Speaker 2 (01:15:44):
I think that's what we're getting at here.

Speaker 7 (01:15:46):
You you find Instagram acceptance to be very important, an
important part of your relationship with people.

Speaker 9 (01:15:54):
We don't.

Speaker 6 (01:15:58):
Sounds trying.

Speaker 7 (01:15:59):
You Just think about that for a second. Let's go
talk to Jasmine online twenty. Let's get a perspective from
someone who's not in the room. Hey, Jasmine, welcome to
the show. You hear what's going on?

Speaker 5 (01:16:11):
But Scary right, Yes, Oh my gosh, I'm so excited.
Good morning.

Speaker 2 (01:16:15):
We're excited you're here.

Speaker 7 (01:16:16):
So, Jasmine, you have a few people at work you
consider your friends, but you don't follow them.

Speaker 2 (01:16:21):
How is that possible?

Speaker 7 (01:16:22):
According to Scary, it's not either you are friends and
you follow, or you're not friends and you don't follow.

Speaker 5 (01:16:28):
So I just I'm a teacher, I work in a school,
and there's some things about your personal life that I
just don't need to know. There's some things about my
personal life that I don't want them to know. So
I just don't follow people who I don't need to
know that stuff.

Speaker 2 (01:16:42):
About right right?

Speaker 7 (01:16:44):
Okay, so see scary, but you like them professionally. These
are professional friends that you don't follow, and they.

Speaker 2 (01:16:50):
Don't follow you.

Speaker 5 (01:16:51):
Right, absolutely, they are professional friends. I do like them
very much, But I just don't need to know about
your personal life.

Speaker 2 (01:16:57):
Right there you go? Oh see, scary.

Speaker 7 (01:17:00):
You don't have to share everything about your personal life
with everyone.

Speaker 9 (01:17:04):
It has nothing to do with real life and real love. Nothing.
It's all fake.

Speaker 7 (01:17:08):
It's a picture of meat loaf. Yeah, I'm saying it's
it's it's the tacos you had for dinner. Really anyway, Well, look, Jasmine,
thank you for listening to us. I could have a
great day. Okay, thank you.

Speaker 5 (01:17:18):
I love you guys so much, so much.

Speaker 2 (01:17:22):
To make sure you follow follow me on.

Speaker 7 (01:17:27):
So I just said a text and it says, scary
is really two teenage girls in a man's suit. It's okay, scary,
Probably shouldn't put so much emphasis on it, but scary.

Speaker 2 (01:17:42):
You know what, Since since I love you, I'm going
to follow you. Let me go on Instagram.

Speaker 6 (01:17:47):
I can't believe you don't unless you.

Speaker 2 (01:17:48):
Unless you block me. I've never been so this is fine.
You can block me. I'm totally fine with being block.

Speaker 6 (01:17:52):
I follow you, I like all your posts.

Speaker 7 (01:17:54):
Follow that I know, but you know what the difference is,
I haven't posted now.

Speaker 10 (01:17:59):
I'm still on offense about following you.

Speaker 2 (01:18:01):
I'll get that as well.

Speaker 9 (01:18:04):
But Scarry, aren't you notorious for following and unfollowing people
all the time? Does that mean you don't love them?

Speaker 6 (01:18:10):
No, that's not true. That was only there's only seventy
five hundred slots.

Speaker 15 (01:18:13):
So when it comes to listeners to put the listeners
on a rotation, if they follow.

Speaker 10 (01:18:18):
Me, I don't even know that. I'll follow them back there.

Speaker 2 (01:18:21):
I kind of check in on them where he has
he has a system there. The whole thing.

Speaker 7 (01:18:25):
It's just you put so much thought into Instagram. I
just I don't even I don't have that much thought
for my entire life.

Speaker 6 (01:18:31):
I know that you could only do a max follow
of seven thousand.

Speaker 10 (01:18:33):
Five people, no idea.

Speaker 2 (01:18:35):
I followed like like a thousand people.

Speaker 19 (01:18:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:18:37):
I tried to follow the whole world back and.

Speaker 2 (01:18:39):
Instagram would all right, all right, all right, this is
just I'm sorry. I'm just wow. This is numbing to
my brain. I can't can't handle any of this.

Speaker 16 (01:18:54):
Elvis strong in the morning.

Speaker 2 (01:18:58):
So I don't want to get morose or dark.

Speaker 7 (01:19:01):
But let's talk about dying, shall we. Now, let's talk
about ashes. You know, you always okay, you know, when
I die, I want to be cremated. I want them
to spread my ashes where, you know, And so I
was thinking about.

Speaker 2 (01:19:14):
This last night. Where do I want my ashes to go?

Speaker 7 (01:19:17):
I mean, if you can immediately without hesitation, think of
that boom, that one place where you want your ashes
to go.

Speaker 2 (01:19:22):
That's awesome. That means you put some thought into it,
Like Danielle.

Speaker 7 (01:19:25):
Watch this watch this guy's Danielle. Where do you want
your ashes to go after you pass away?

Speaker 19 (01:19:29):
Well?

Speaker 10 (01:19:29):
Wanted at Walt disney World.

Speaker 2 (01:19:31):
Okay, wasn't there a problem with that?

Speaker 7 (01:19:35):
People were taking ashes to disney World and they were
getting a little mad about.

Speaker 10 (01:19:39):
That, I think So I think they were trying to
put the.

Speaker 9 (01:19:41):
Goboche on that. I think they have a policy against it.

Speaker 10 (01:19:43):
Yeah, I think they do a little bit by the
castle too, A little bit.

Speaker 7 (01:19:48):
We can okay, okay, so we should get like some
little container that doesn't look like an ash container, whatever
that looks like, and just just smell about just take
a stroll around.

Speaker 2 (01:19:59):
Disne the world and just spread Daniel all over the place.

Speaker 10 (01:20:02):
Gotcha a little there, like on Pixie Dusty exactly.

Speaker 9 (01:20:07):
They'll never suspect any that's it, mix.

Speaker 4 (01:20:09):
It with glitter.

Speaker 10 (01:20:10):
They'll think you're just spreading around Tinkerbell.

Speaker 7 (01:20:13):
Our friend Tom met a lot of colleagues he used
to work with at a bar here in New York City,
and they were having like a memorial drink, right to
say goodbye to a friend who passed away. And they
were in this bar he loved to frequent, and so
one of his friends said, hey, distract, distract the bartender,

(01:20:33):
And so Tom went up and distracted the bartender and
his friend took their friend's ashes and sprinkled them in
like one of the planters, the potted plant planters in
the bar, right there on the roof over the New
York City.

Speaker 2 (01:20:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:20:47):
I mean, if it's just a little couple of ashes
here and there, what's what's the harm?

Speaker 9 (01:20:51):
Right, it's a last wish. I thought there were some
like you have to fulfill a last white.

Speaker 2 (01:20:55):
Don't right? I don't know, Froggy, what are you thinking? Ashes? Where?
I know?

Speaker 29 (01:20:59):
There?

Speaker 24 (01:21:00):
You know what I would like? Mind putting an NFL
football stadium and where you know, where the Tampa Bay
Buccaneers play.

Speaker 2 (01:21:05):
I know people and.

Speaker 24 (01:21:06):
There's been stories of people who have tried to do
it at Foxborough Stadium and you get arrested. It's not
that they don't they don't want people like running around
just spreading ashes all over the place.

Speaker 7 (01:21:15):
I get it, I know, but look at look at ashes.
They really aren't that, you know, granular or anything. They
just a little bit. If I mean, maybe you get
some bone fragment in there.

Speaker 2 (01:21:26):
There could be a problem.

Speaker 7 (01:21:27):
But but if just ashes, they you know whatever, scary
ashes where all over.

Speaker 15 (01:21:32):
The Brooklyn Bridge because I'm from Brooklyn and I admire
that structure and I always have.

Speaker 2 (01:21:37):
So yeah, so the Brooklyn Bridge would be a place
for me. Okay, you know they're going to blow off eventually,
like into the ocean.

Speaker 6 (01:21:43):
Okay, Oh my.

Speaker 10 (01:21:43):
Gosh, how crazy is this. It says that the Haunted
Mansion is one of the biggest destinations for scattering ashes.

Speaker 2 (01:21:51):
Wow.

Speaker 9 (01:21:52):
Yeah, that's fascinating.

Speaker 10 (01:21:53):
Wow. But there's a bunch of laws about scattering ashes.

Speaker 2 (01:21:57):
Their laws are rules.

Speaker 10 (01:21:58):
I mean, there are surprising numbers of scattering ashes laws.
Not to mention Disney World's own rules to make this
a complicated choice. Really, there are state and federal laws
for scattering ashes.

Speaker 7 (01:22:09):
I didn't know it was against the law to scatter ash.
I mean if it's like a body that hasn't been cremated.

Speaker 2 (01:22:14):
I see.

Speaker 24 (01:22:17):
You take can you take food in the Haunted Mansion.
I don't like popcorn? Like, if you buy popcorn, you
can put some ashes in the bottom of your popcorn,
accidentally spill your popcorn at the bottom, and then they'll
never even know that you were spinning.

Speaker 7 (01:22:29):
I've never seen people eat popcorn in the Honda Mansion.

Speaker 24 (01:22:33):
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:22:34):
We have a lot of ideas, uh gandhi ashes.

Speaker 9 (01:22:37):
Where I have three places. I want to use part
of them to get turned into a tree. You know,
you can like plant them in a tree, absolutely part
for a coral reef. And then I've told you this.
I want to have a little bit sprinkled into the
food of my enemies so that I can live inside
them for just a short amount of time.

Speaker 2 (01:22:54):
Okay, Okay, I'll give.

Speaker 9 (01:22:58):
You a list.

Speaker 10 (01:22:59):
Do we have a choice of like the urn we
have because i'd like Madame Liota, like that's the like
the you know, the the crystal ball in the haunted
mansion and then a little draw on the bottom. You
can just shove me up.

Speaker 2 (01:23:09):
You know, you can design whatever you want.

Speaker 6 (01:23:11):
Daniel.

Speaker 10 (01:23:11):
Thanks.

Speaker 2 (01:23:12):
You know, don't don't limit don't limit yourself. Uh Nate.
If you thought about it, where your ashes go, Well,
it's they're.

Speaker 14 (01:23:17):
Gonna go to all the places I didn't go on
this planet. And this is actually a business I wanted
to start. Let me see if there's some viability here.
I want to start a business where I take your
ashes and if you want to be on like Mount
Everest or on Antarctica, I take him there.

Speaker 6 (01:23:32):
How about that?

Speaker 9 (01:23:34):
Like you personally takes or.

Speaker 14 (01:23:36):
Like I hire somebody and he travels and has a
backpack full of ashes and he just scatters all people.

Speaker 10 (01:23:42):
The ash Man.

Speaker 2 (01:23:42):
He's the Ashman.

Speaker 24 (01:23:43):
The Ashman and ashes go everywhere and get it back together.

Speaker 9 (01:23:49):
It's a great idea, but I have a question. They're
also like a weird rule about traveling with ashes. How
do they know how people have gotten stopped?

Speaker 2 (01:23:57):
Because they're not going to be.

Speaker 14 (01:23:58):
In one of those typical urn It'll be in like
a coffee.

Speaker 2 (01:24:02):
And by the way, ashes I don't know.

Speaker 7 (01:24:05):
I don't think they take the form of the same
ashes you see in an ash tray like these. I
mean it's more of it is granular, it is sandy
because because you're talking about bone fragment, you're talking about teeth.

Speaker 2 (01:24:15):
This is gross, but anyway.

Speaker 10 (01:24:18):
Crazy that that was once a person though, or a
pet or whatever like oh my well.

Speaker 7 (01:24:22):
Yeah, I mean you could burn you know, anything, and
it turns into something.

Speaker 9 (01:24:27):
You can't travel with them, by the way.

Speaker 2 (01:24:28):
You can't travel with ashes. Yeah, you check your ashes.

Speaker 10 (01:24:31):
You can't. You can't. I've been worried about checking my ashes.
I wouldn't want to take them as carry on.

Speaker 9 (01:24:37):
Got to do, got to check.

Speaker 2 (01:24:38):
I think you can. I think you can carry those on.
I'm not worried about I haven't thought about my ash thing.
I mean, I'm.

Speaker 7 (01:24:44):
Sure Santa Fe, New Mexico is one place, but also
maybe a nice beach in Turks and Caicos.

Speaker 2 (01:24:50):
N all right, I'm gonna think it through. These are
the thing, These are the important things we must have.
You got to write them down.

Speaker 7 (01:24:58):
If something happens today, we'd know where to take your ashes,
like if you, for instance, I have my my cat's
ashes upstairs.

Speaker 2 (01:25:06):
Never never spread them out anywhere. There's this here. Yeah,
me too, And I'm thinking kitties like bored. She must
have go somewhere.

Speaker 10 (01:25:11):
I'm with kitty on the bed sometimes in his favorite spot.
Kitty needs to sit in his spots on his little box.
I put on I.

Speaker 2 (01:25:19):
Got Lynn on line nineteen. Let's talk about it.

Speaker 7 (01:25:21):
Heye, Lynn, Even though it is, it's a morbid conversation.
Where do you want your ashes?

Speaker 19 (01:25:28):
I want my ashes flushed in the mall in the
Tri State area or you know, any mall around here.

Speaker 10 (01:25:36):
But if they get flushed, then they go into the system.
They don't stay in the mall.

Speaker 24 (01:25:41):
I don't care.

Speaker 2 (01:25:41):
I want to be in the mall.

Speaker 7 (01:25:43):
Okay, all right, yeah, there you go. You're going to
dupe you off in the food court.

Speaker 23 (01:25:52):
Oh I love the food court.

Speaker 2 (01:25:53):
Yeah right there, right there next to Panda.

Speaker 10 (01:25:56):
You know, they give you the love pandas.

Speaker 2 (01:25:59):
Yeah, the bourbon and chicken samples. I love that. That's
a perfect place my life. Yeah, there you go.

Speaker 7 (01:26:04):
All right, Dundal Lynn, get back to us and we'll
come up with a plan for you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:08):
Okay.

Speaker 7 (01:26:09):
You know, it's kind of a weird question. Some people
can't answer it because they don't have one answer. They
have several answers. The question is what is your type?

Speaker 2 (01:26:19):
Oh for talking.

Speaker 7 (01:26:20):
About dating, marrying, having sex with whatever. What type are
you attracted to? And it's not only physical, but also
you know they're the way they act. They act, yes,
and they are. Have you ever thought about it? Have
you ever categorized your type? You can actually look back
at the history of the people you've dated over the
years and you write, Wow, they.

Speaker 2 (01:26:41):
Do have this in common, can you?

Speaker 16 (01:26:44):
I don't know.

Speaker 9 (01:26:46):
Oh, They're so different, all of my exes to my
current so different, each one of them. But I would
say probably the common thread is there fun. I have
a lot of fun with them, So maybe that's my type.

Speaker 2 (01:26:57):
Yeah, okay, no, no, that's very fair. Absolutely, Danielle, did
you have a type?

Speaker 10 (01:27:01):
I mean my like you know, my ex me for Shelton,
they're so different. One was a wallflower and one is
the total opposite. So I mean they both made me laugh.
That's good. They both had brown hair.

Speaker 7 (01:27:15):
I don't know other than that, you know, I don't know,
Froggy your type.

Speaker 24 (01:27:20):
I don't really know. I'm trying to think about that.
I don't really know. I know you think I have
a type, and you're wrong.

Speaker 7 (01:27:30):
That's very telling that you said that, because honestly, that's
it's a type that you have, but you don't want
anyone to know you have it.

Speaker 24 (01:27:38):
No, But I mean like I don't really know.

Speaker 2 (01:27:40):
I do.

Speaker 24 (01:27:40):
I know for some reason, I do like darker I
like darker hair.

Speaker 7 (01:27:44):
I don't know that darker hair. He always you like
the beautiful women with they have that line for an eyebrow.
They don't have eyebrows.

Speaker 10 (01:27:51):
Lisa doesn't have that, doesn't have that.

Speaker 2 (01:27:53):
No, no, she doesn't have.

Speaker 7 (01:27:55):
So you you finally came to your senses and found
a great woman who has eyebrows.

Speaker 24 (01:28:00):
Okay, let's move on to somebody else.

Speaker 2 (01:28:05):
Interesting. Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:28:05):
My type obviously is Italian, you know, from Staten Island,
and I'm married one. You know, I grew up I
didn't have that growing up there. I had no Staten
Island Italians growing up.

Speaker 2 (01:28:18):
So when I moved to New York, I'm like, Wow,
there's something about this island that's going on. I don't
know what about you, Nate, what's your type?

Speaker 10 (01:28:25):
I have?

Speaker 14 (01:28:26):
Typically, thinking back on long term girlfriends, they've typically been shorter,
like right around five feet tall.

Speaker 2 (01:28:32):
I would say, okay, because you cut their heads off.

Speaker 14 (01:28:38):
Come on, I think a lot of their features are
smaller because it makes me look bigger in.

Speaker 34 (01:28:43):
Comparible, that make me look hot, I'm right, So I
got to try and be somewhat larger inspective.

Speaker 24 (01:28:54):
Right right around the tree, the tree looks bigger.

Speaker 2 (01:29:00):
You gotta turn your mic on. Scary, I can't hear you.

Speaker 7 (01:29:02):
No.

Speaker 15 (01:29:02):
I always went for domineering women in the past, who
would actually put me in my place, like kind of
spar with me until my comment. And I feel like
I'm happier this way where we're equal, you know. It's
it's kind of like a give and take part.

Speaker 2 (01:29:15):
Of this relationship.

Speaker 15 (01:29:16):
I don't know, right, but in the past I always
women who used me like a doormat was something that
I would gravitate toward, but to no avail.

Speaker 10 (01:29:25):
And the sasquatch look you liked for a little while,
but the moment she.

Speaker 7 (01:29:30):
Was definitely just putting him in his place, and she
just so happened she had like huge feet anyway, So.

Speaker 2 (01:29:39):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (01:29:39):
It was an interesting exercise for several friends of mine
who were talking about this. It's just you think back
over the list of people you've dated, and it takes
you admitting to yourself, Oh my god, they all did
have this.

Speaker 2 (01:29:51):
Thing in common.

Speaker 10 (01:29:52):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:29:53):
Whoa interesting how you gravitated toward that without even knowing it.
It's kind of a funny, interesting exercise to heavy yourself.
Heather is Online twenty.

Speaker 2 (01:30:01):
Four Hi Heather, good morning, Good morning. I'm glad you're
listening today. I got a question for you.

Speaker 7 (01:30:09):
Looking back, and I'm not saying you've dated a lot,
but looking back at the people you have dated, did
they have something in common? And it kind of freaks
you out when you figured it out.

Speaker 25 (01:30:19):
All of my exes looked exactly like my dad did
in his late thirties.

Speaker 12 (01:30:24):
Yoh wow, And I have dated a lot.

Speaker 7 (01:30:28):
Yeah, okay, but I mean, did you actually stop and
go why, oh my god?

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
Why did I not see this before? It's interesting.

Speaker 25 (01:30:37):
After a lot of therapy, I did figure out what.
But it was actually my best friend who brought it
up to me, and uh so we've been friends since
I was in mine, right, And she was like, you
have a type and I was like, no, I don't
want She was like, Heather, they all looked just like
your dad.

Speaker 2 (01:30:53):
Like oh, oh, I know, But I mean at the
end of the day, Heather, just because they look like
your dad.

Speaker 7 (01:30:58):
They're not your dad, so you're okay, say you're good.

Speaker 25 (01:31:02):
My dad I've been told was you know, very attractive of.

Speaker 2 (01:31:06):
Course, and it's interesting. So you kind of you sort
of unearthed something.

Speaker 7 (01:31:13):
So once anyone and everyone figures out that type that
they've been dating and all that they had in common,
now you wonder why you gravitated toward that. And that's
what you said you found out in therapy and it's
none of our business, but it's interesting. So it makes
me wonder why am I attracted to these these Italian
uh you know, guys from Staten Island. Obviously they have

(01:31:34):
something that I needed in my life. Or maybe I
don't need. That's dangerous and I don't know, so then
we start overthinking it and then we drive ourselves nuts,
you know, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (01:31:45):
Well, look, Heather, I hope you're happy in life. Now
you doing okay?

Speaker 5 (01:31:49):
Yeah, it's great.

Speaker 25 (01:31:50):
I love it all right, Thank you for talking to
you guys that listen every morning.

Speaker 7 (01:31:54):
Well, thank you, thank you very much, and have a
great day. Thanks for calling in Katie on line twenty three. Uh, Katie,
did you figure out with all the guys you date,
they all have something in common.

Speaker 20 (01:32:05):
Oh yeah, I apparently have a thing for gingers. I
love a ginger.

Speaker 6 (01:32:10):
Now did you know this?

Speaker 7 (01:32:11):
I mean you probably already knew this. This is not
a surprise.

Speaker 20 (01:32:15):
No, No, I've dated several gingers and like, just out
in public, I'll see you and walk by and I'm like, oh, hey,
good for you.

Speaker 5 (01:32:24):
To explain it.

Speaker 20 (01:32:25):
Maybe it's the whole not having a soul thing.

Speaker 29 (01:32:27):
I don't know, but I love it.

Speaker 2 (01:32:31):
They have a soul though, Prove it, Prove it?

Speaker 10 (01:32:34):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 20 (01:32:35):
I mean from my period it's not so much, but
you know, I feel they're my thing.

Speaker 7 (01:32:39):
Well look, you know, no matter what hair color, you
can find some soul as people out there. But you so,
did you ever really stop and go, Okay, maybe it's
just an attraction thing.

Speaker 2 (01:32:48):
It's not it goes no deeper than that, right, Well, yeah.

Speaker 20 (01:32:53):
It's definitely an attraction thing. But I feel like the
ones I did at least, you know, we're also kind
of like Lumberjack, big and bird. That's kind of my thing.

Speaker 5 (01:33:02):
And it's more of like.

Speaker 20 (01:33:03):
A country boy thing than I like, So I think
it has that in common as well.

Speaker 7 (01:33:06):
Okay, so now you don't have to do it here
or you don't have to process it live in front
of ten million people. But once you stop and think
you like a ginger, burly lumberjack guy, do you ever
wonder why, like why that's the type.

Speaker 2 (01:33:20):
That you like.

Speaker 20 (01:33:22):
I don't really know the ginger part, but I know,
like i'm more fatigue. I'm you know, I'm five to one,
So I think I like having a bigger guy because
it makes me feel safe.

Speaker 7 (01:33:31):
Yeap, okay, I like that. I mean it's easy to define.
All right, excellent, Thank you, Katie, You and attention all gingers.

Speaker 2 (01:33:39):
She thinks you're soulless.

Speaker 20 (01:33:41):
And well I'm so single, so there's that.

Speaker 5 (01:33:44):
Okay, there's nothing being single is.

Speaker 7 (01:33:48):
It's perfectly fine and you know that you're good there.
All right, Katie, thank you for listening. Have a good day.

Speaker 2 (01:33:54):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:33:54):
Maybe I'm overanalyzing. Is it really bad to overanalyze like
why you choose the people you choose?

Speaker 2 (01:33:59):
Or is it good? Now?

Speaker 9 (01:34:00):
I think it's important to do that. You learn about
yourself and then you learn about other people. You can
learn some of the red flags maybe that you find
unintentionally that then ruin the relationship.

Speaker 10 (01:34:09):
I think it's important and also especially if you're attracted
to like the same type that keeps hurting you or
it's not a good person, it's good to know, you know.

Speaker 7 (01:34:17):
Yeah, yeah, Why am I attracted to the person who
always hurts me?

Speaker 2 (01:34:20):
Mmm? Something to investigate.

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Speaker 1 (01:34:57):
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Speaker 2 (01:35:05):
Come on, let's tell Grandma stories. I love Grandma, you know,
I will tell you.

Speaker 7 (01:35:12):
You know, doing this show for twenty five years, every
time we've talked about Grandma's for some reason, it's fun.
I like, we remember the time we talked about Grandma's
whose boobs always popped out, Oh yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:35:24):
Or grandma's who were popular in the neighborhood we had.

Speaker 7 (01:35:29):
I remember we had a listener call once and said, look,
I love my grandmother, I love her so much, but
we've recently found out that grandma was she loved to
date lots and lots and lots of men, like lots
of men. And I said, well, look, we don't want
to slut shame grandma. That's the last thing we want
to do. There's nothing wrong with dating lots of men.
I mean, who you know, I've dated lots of men.

Speaker 2 (01:35:50):
I'm not a slut. You know what I'm saying. I
don't know anymore now stop it.

Speaker 7 (01:35:56):
No, but keep in mind grandma's You know, they have
years and years to accrue mileage, if you know what
I'm saying. Or what about the grandmother who set herself
on fire? We actually brought that up one day. Tell
us how your grandmother set herself on fire? Oh my goodness,
it was Gandhi it was dozens of people responded, yeah, Grandma,

(01:36:17):
it usually is a wig.

Speaker 2 (01:36:18):
Thing, you know.

Speaker 9 (01:36:19):
Ah, okay, okay. I was thinking a different type of
set themselves on fire like a protest.

Speaker 7 (01:36:24):
No, no, no, your grandmother was kind of famous in
the neighborhood, right, Yes.

Speaker 9 (01:36:31):
My grandmother was apparently the one who struck the fear
of God into a lot of the men around there,
because she was one of the pioneers of planned parenting
or plan sorry, planned parenthood in India. So she was
responsible for going house to house and giving people vasectomies
and they hated her for it.

Speaker 10 (01:36:47):
Oh my gosh.

Speaker 7 (01:36:48):
So if anyone saw your grandma walk into the front door,
she was about to like rip out their vez devrns
or whatever they call it, tube.

Speaker 9 (01:36:56):
A snipping so yeah, snipping, so snip snip.

Speaker 2 (01:37:00):
Yeah, here she comes, and.

Speaker 9 (01:37:02):
My Grandma's like, you have seventeen kids, you don't need
this thing anymore. What is going on? Let's have a conversation.
Oh they hated her?

Speaker 16 (01:37:09):
Wow.

Speaker 7 (01:37:11):
Feel free to text textas. I just want to read
your responses, like something great about your grandmother. It doesn't
have to be something about her catching her hair on
fire or slicing you know below this Grona Maria and
all the guys of India.

Speaker 10 (01:37:25):
Do you remember Henry Bendall in the city, the big store. Yeah,
my grandmother was a seamstress for them back in the
day when they all kicked it off. Yeah, she's got
a really cool job.

Speaker 2 (01:37:35):
That's so cool. Yeah, I love that. Did she also
get around?

Speaker 11 (01:37:38):
She did?

Speaker 10 (01:37:39):
I don't think so, Okayne.

Speaker 11 (01:37:43):
Five?

Speaker 2 (01:37:44):
I got John online five real quick. Hey John, good
morning morning. So I said something that hit a nerve
with you and your family. What was that, John?

Speaker 22 (01:37:53):
Yes, When I was younger, my granny had a friend
who went through chemotherapy, and so she started to wear
wigs with her friend, just to support her. But my
poor granny didn't know that you couldn't use curling irons
on wigs. And she set her wig on fire.

Speaker 2 (01:38:06):
Oh she's okay, right, She didn't get any burns or anything,
did she?

Speaker 16 (01:38:12):
Oh?

Speaker 22 (01:38:12):
Yeah, No, it was on like a little wig ahead thing.
She was styling and getting it ready, and she said, she,
I guess she just held it on there too long,
and all of a sudden it started smoking.

Speaker 7 (01:38:20):
And then with the wigs, John, you should see these
text messages. Here's when my grandma brought powdered sugar with
her through TSA. You know, only grandmothers travel with powdered sugar.
Oh no, And they thought Grandma was doing cocaine and
they pulled. They pulled her aside. I thought Grandma had
cocaine in a box. It's horrible my grandma. Oh my god,

(01:38:45):
they're coming in leaps and bounds. My grandma was so
mad at my dad that she told him to drop dead.
Because grandma's they can say anything to get away with it.
Oh yea, my grandma makes the best eggplant palm. I
did CrossFit with my grandma last night.

Speaker 10 (01:39:01):
Oh that's awesome.

Speaker 2 (01:39:03):
I love it.

Speaker 7 (01:39:04):
Hey, listen, John, thanks for listening. You go have a
great day, and God bless your grandma.

Speaker 28 (01:39:09):
Thanks you guys.

Speaker 2 (01:39:09):
To take it easy. George on line twenty four.

Speaker 24 (01:39:14):
George, Hey, how are y'all?

Speaker 2 (01:39:17):
We're doing great? Man, tell me about what your grandma
did in the parking lot.

Speaker 26 (01:39:23):
So my grandma beat up some lady in the parking lot.

Speaker 7 (01:39:26):
Now why did okay, why did your grandma and some
old other lady get into a fight in the parking
lot And why did your grandma whoop her ass?

Speaker 26 (01:39:36):
Because the other lady was talking smack about my cousin
and my grandma was not having that, and so she
called up and said, you can meet me in the
grocery store parking lot. And she did and she whooked
her behind.

Speaker 2 (01:39:50):
Yes, my god, oh my god.

Speaker 7 (01:39:52):
Look, we don't condone violence, but it's it's you know
what's don't mess with grandma.

Speaker 2 (01:39:56):
She's gonna kick your ass.

Speaker 9 (01:39:58):
Love that never show up up in the parking lot
when you get the invite. That is a terrible plan.

Speaker 7 (01:40:03):
Yeah, that's a good plan, especially if it's George g
George's grandma. Hey George, thank you man, thanks for listening
to us today. And it's it's great hearing about your grandma.

Speaker 26 (01:40:11):
Thank y'all.

Speaker 2 (01:40:12):
You take it easy, okay, I love.

Speaker 7 (01:40:14):
A lot of these texts are saying these wonderful things
about their grandma's. Grandma would always bring her own chicken
cutlet to the restaurant.

Speaker 2 (01:40:21):
Yes, she bring your own chicken.

Speaker 24 (01:40:24):
So how do you do that?

Speaker 2 (01:40:25):
She just cooked it up and said, you know what,
I prefer mine. I'm gonna sit here and you're gonna
do something with They.

Speaker 10 (01:40:31):
Did take salad dressings and stuff out of their purse
all the time.

Speaker 9 (01:40:35):
I put my stuff into that person.

Speaker 7 (01:40:36):
Of course, this texture says my grandmother could kill a
chicken by tapping it on its head. It would freeze,
and she would grab it by the neck and just
twist it in circles. Oh, dear God, Grandma's I know,
but they would make fresh chicken from those chickens. My
grandma used to hit us with her cane every time
we cursed, and she made us put a dollar in
a jar.

Speaker 2 (01:40:55):
Nice.

Speaker 7 (01:40:56):
My grandma always used to drop food down her shirt,
and she would always say that her boobs were hungry.

Speaker 9 (01:41:02):
Sounds like a grandma in the same nine froggie as
a grandma, like nine as Jen does.

Speaker 2 (01:41:09):
Hey, Jen, Hi, how are you? We're doing very well.
Tell us about your grandma.

Speaker 35 (01:41:16):
So I actually I'm a speech therapist. I lived with
her for the last year during COVID. She passed away
three weeks out of her ninety ninth birthday. Oh wow,
but she lived the best life and when she was
eighty we actually just were sharing this story at her week.
She was living in Yonkers and her neighbor's house got
robbed and she ran down the street after the robber screaming, can.

Speaker 5 (01:41:40):
You get over here.

Speaker 27 (01:41:42):
They really looked him at the time, but then they
found him robbing another.

Speaker 35 (01:41:47):
House a couple of days later, and they showed her
his headshot to her and she identified him and they.

Speaker 2 (01:41:56):
God rest her soul.

Speaker 24 (01:41:57):
I love that.

Speaker 25 (01:41:58):
Yeah.

Speaker 22 (01:41:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:42:00):
Making chocolate chip cookies.

Speaker 35 (01:42:01):
She counted eight chips for every cookie, so making chocolate
chip cookies was like a four hour activity.

Speaker 7 (01:42:08):
Grandma's are allowed to do it because they had a
lot of time and they Hey, thanks, Jen, thanks a lot.

Speaker 2 (01:42:14):
I appreciate that story. Of course, have a good one
you too.

Speaker 7 (01:42:17):
Another text, a Rottwiler bit my grandma and she bit
it back and got arrested for animals.

Speaker 30 (01:42:23):
Damn.

Speaker 7 (01:42:25):
My grandma would make food I didn't like to eat
for lunch. She would tell me that I can just
go eat crap and die. Here's one grandma that always
had holy water with her, so if someone pissed her off,
she sprinkled it on them.

Speaker 2 (01:42:38):
Oh my gosh, yeah, scary, it's great. My grandma was
more of a fiction's bar stealer, where she would take
home the pickle chips. She was like a savor of everything.

Speaker 6 (01:42:47):
She would take aluminum foil and hang it out on
the wash line to reuse it.

Speaker 10 (01:42:52):
My grandmother would sew her pantyhose, like if you got
to run in your pantyhose. Instead of going to buy
a new pair of pantios, she would sew it up
and save it somehow. My mother's like, what are you doing.

Speaker 2 (01:43:04):
These texts? My grandma had weed growing in her front yard.

Speaker 7 (01:43:07):
Yes, Grandma, my grandma when she was alive, she would
curse at you in Spanish if you said anything bad
about her baseball team, the Yankees. I mean, the list
goes on and on. My grandma gets into fistfights over
men in the nursing home. Oh my god, my grandma
always farts when she's walking and blames the floorboards.

Speaker 2 (01:43:28):
Thanks to Grandma. Finally we talked to Tile, Yeah, exactly. Oops.
We finally we talked to Grace. Hey, Grace, Hi, good morning,
good morning. Tell us about your grandma.

Speaker 12 (01:43:42):
So my grandmother was a typical, strict, very old school
grandma and she would sit with a machete outside the
house while my sister and I would ride bike, and anyone,
anyone that would come close to us, she would just
grab out the machete. And you know, my grandma was
hispanic that away.

Speaker 2 (01:44:03):
She would come come at them with a machete.

Speaker 35 (01:44:07):
You know what, I gotta be honest, out with a machete.

Speaker 2 (01:44:10):
Ye, Grace.

Speaker 7 (01:44:11):
I would take your grandma very seriously at that point.
No problem, Hey, listen. Thanks for listening to us.

Speaker 2 (01:44:15):
Grace.

Speaker 7 (01:44:16):
I hope you have a really great day today. Don't
let anyone mess with you. If not, Grandma's a machete
is waiting for him.

Speaker 1 (01:44:20):
Okay, all right, you two guys, if you love the
Morning Show, it's a good idea to follow our socials.

Speaker 2 (01:44:29):
How do you know what's good for me?

Speaker 1 (01:44:33):
Elvis Duran show, follow them to day Elvis dan in
the Morning Show.

Speaker 16 (01:44:45):
Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

Speaker 2 (01:44:47):
So maybe you're driving in early today or this is
the time you drive it every day. Look down? How
much gas do you have in your gas tank? You
know it's scary.

Speaker 7 (01:44:54):
Brought this up earlier where he has this car that
doesn't flash and sirens don't go off. Yeah, you just
have to keep an eye on on the on the
meter or the gas meter whatever it is called, whatever,
the gaess.

Speaker 2 (01:45:03):
Hometer, what do you call the gauge, the gauge, the
guess home?

Speaker 7 (01:45:07):
Anyway, why is it we wait until the very last
minute some of us, I know, Froggy is the worst.
It says, wait until the last minute, where you're actually
sweating and you have cramps, you're cramping knowing that.

Speaker 2 (01:45:22):
You're about to run out of gas. You're on fumes.
Why do we do that to ourselves?

Speaker 9 (01:45:25):
I like living on the edge.

Speaker 2 (01:45:28):
Bungee cord jumping is one thing, but low gas tank.

Speaker 10 (01:45:31):
My husband did it once where I had gotten my
four wisdom teeth pulled, and he runs out of gas.
As we're coming home from the procedure. He says to me,
you got a choice. You can sit in the car
and wait for me to go get the gas, or
we can walk home.

Speaker 2 (01:45:47):
And I walked home.

Speaker 4 (01:45:49):
Yeah, and after that he's still other days. Forget with fumes.

Speaker 7 (01:45:54):
We just we just take our chances, and then you know,
before you know it, you're below e and then you know.
You A lot of cars like my car says you
have so many miles left until it runs out. I
don't trust that thing. No what that think's wrong? I'll
tell you ready.

Speaker 24 (01:46:07):
The other damn in my car says, you have twenty
two miles before you run out of gas. I knew
I had to drive twenty five miles. I made it
where I was going, and then another three four miles
down the road before I got gas. That thing's full
of crap.

Speaker 10 (01:46:18):
Yeah, trying to protect you.

Speaker 2 (01:46:20):
You don't need to be waiting that long.

Speaker 7 (01:46:21):
I My question is this, why do you want to
keep putting yourself in this life where you're just living
on the edge and you're just you're putting yourself into this,
into this frantic.

Speaker 2 (01:46:33):
State for no reason. Go go stop and get gas,
lazy ass.

Speaker 10 (01:46:37):
But sometimes the gas station's like on the other side
of town.

Speaker 2 (01:46:40):
Don't get gass straight anymore?

Speaker 24 (01:46:42):
And why do people turn the radio down when their
cars low on gas?

Speaker 7 (01:46:45):
Okay, well, okay, back in the old days, if you
turn the air conditioning on, it used some of your fuel.

Speaker 4 (01:46:51):
Oh wait a minute, that's not the case anymore.

Speaker 7 (01:46:53):
No, I don't think that's the case anymore. No, No,
I don't think it is. I really Okay, maybe it
is Brody, of course, I forget he's an auto expert.
But I don't think I was told by someone who said, no,
you can run the AC all you want. But in
the old days, they said you got to turn everything
off otherwise you're going to use your gas faster.

Speaker 24 (01:47:09):
Do a google on that.

Speaker 7 (01:47:10):
Goat Brodie, Let's make sure we know what we're talking about. Anyway,
So now people turn the radio down to save gas.

Speaker 2 (01:47:16):
No, it doesn't. Oh, like like me you know.

Speaker 7 (01:47:19):
Do you ever do this when I think we've talked
about this. When you're driving and you think you need
to focus a little more, you turn the radio off.

Speaker 9 (01:47:25):
Yeah, like looking for a street sign.

Speaker 7 (01:47:27):
I turn it down, Yeah, turne Yeah, because I don't
I'm gonna miss my street if I don't turn off.

Speaker 2 (01:47:31):
But I don't turn off the Elvis drain morning shows?

Speaker 10 (01:47:33):
Have you ever done what I've done? If I've been
sitting in traffic and I know I'm low on gas,
I turned the car off and they'll turn it back
on when we're ready to move. Then I turned the
car off.

Speaker 9 (01:47:40):
I think that's worse for it, isn't it?

Speaker 16 (01:47:42):
I don't know?

Speaker 2 (01:47:43):
No, No, the car's actually my car does that?

Speaker 15 (01:47:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (01:47:45):
Oh it does?

Speaker 7 (01:47:46):
I turn that thing when you stop it stoplights, it
turns off the engine. I'm like, and I wanted to
call the dealer when I first got the car.

Speaker 2 (01:47:52):
I'm like, dude, this thing is stalling. Yeah anyway, No,
So why do.

Speaker 7 (01:47:57):
You want to put yourself under this veil of aggravation
to test the limits?

Speaker 29 (01:48:01):
Go?

Speaker 2 (01:48:01):
Get what's the what's the what does it say?

Speaker 8 (01:48:03):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (01:48:03):
To tell me in the microphone what it says? He
says it drops your average gas mileage for three miles
per gallon if you use your AC. Really, I drive
a spaceship. It doesn't do that.

Speaker 9 (01:48:13):
Also with my car, I feel like I know that
that car. I know what was going on with it.
I could tell when it was in a bad mood
or when it was going to run out of gas
until it actually ran out of gas and I was
an idiot.

Speaker 7 (01:48:24):
The other myth is that you have to warm your
car up when you get in it. I was told also,
you don't. Oh I never did, because we have we
have new electronics in the car.

Speaker 2 (01:48:31):
You just turn it on. It's on, right, Oh? Is
that true?

Speaker 19 (01:48:34):
No?

Speaker 9 (01:48:34):
No, that's why I'm with you. That's what I did.
I don't know if I was being bad.

Speaker 6 (01:48:37):
Brody looked that up.

Speaker 2 (01:48:38):
Brody prove us all wrong today, going to Google.

Speaker 10 (01:48:42):
Huh.

Speaker 7 (01:48:43):
I got in the car the other day, I turned
it on, I put in reverse, and someone went, what
you gotta let you gotta let your baby warm up?

Speaker 19 (01:48:49):
What?

Speaker 2 (01:48:50):
Really, I don't think so.

Speaker 10 (01:48:51):
I mean, it's nice to let it warm up in
the winter so that he's just not freezing car.

Speaker 7 (01:48:56):
But they say you got to get your fluids runned, Danielle,
do you or your fluid running always?

Speaker 6 (01:49:03):
It says?

Speaker 7 (01:49:04):
Experts say new cars should warm up for thirty seconds
and then start driving, because your car warms up faster
while you're driving, exactly thirty seconds.

Speaker 2 (01:49:11):
In the old days, you have to start your car
like a day before. Hey, producer Sam, However, i.

Speaker 37 (01:49:18):
Have anxiety from this discussion. But other than that, I'm great.

Speaker 7 (01:49:21):
So you don't have to let your car warm up,
but you shouldn't turn your AC on. And if you're
out of gas, fill up your gas tank. People, please
put some gas in that money.

Speaker 2 (01:49:28):
Good morning, Elisa, Dear God, what's this woman doing?

Speaker 16 (01:49:32):
And the morning Show?

Speaker 7 (01:49:36):
All right, show's done. We'll come back tomorrow and do
it again. Till next time. Say peace out, everybody, Peace out, everybody,

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