July 30, 2024 • 9 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I love Elvis Duran in the morning show. Hey, can
we talk about sex for a minute. I got a
couple of questions for you. Okay, we talking about sex, right,
We're not gonna get you dirty or anything, just sex
in general. Okay. Number one, the friends with benefits thing.
Has anyone in this room ever had a friend with benefits?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yes, yes, yes, and no? Did it work out for
both of you?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Is it usually a problem? I think it's go ahead.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I think at some point, one person's gonna catch a feeling.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Yeah, you're you're in two separate lanes, and sometimes one
lane is gonna go faster than the other and forget
the other one.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
The rom coms I watched, somebody always gets feelings.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
But having a frame of benefits is actually kind of
great if that's all you need and all you want.
But you gotta both be on board, because if one
starts to get a little too you know, into you, yeah,
or you get into them, it's not friends of benefits anymore,
it's something else. Right. Another question in your you're in
a relationship, do you ever like just have board sex
(01:13):
like there's nothing else to do? You know, It's like
there's nothing on TV, there's nothing nowhere to go? All right,
let's I guess we'll just have sex.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I think that happens so much during COVID. Aren't there
like a bunch of COVID babies because everybody was just
stuck at home not doing anything?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I guess, yeah, absolutely right. Yeah, it's like what do
you do? But okay, now that now that we're out
of the house and we we we can actually go places,
see movies, go shopping. Yeah, there's things to do. Go
for a walk, you know, go to the mall. Do
we still go to the mall? Yes? Sometimes sometimes, Yeah,
just stay let's just have sex.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Let's just stay home and have sex.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
If you pitch it that way, it sounds so terrible.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Well I don't mean for it to be terrible, but
it's just, you know, just it's it's bored sex. Yeah,
like every time you're you're going let's say you go
on vacation, you're your horny and you have sex. For
some reason, you go on vacation and you get horned of.
I don't know why, because you're out of your element.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Maybe yeah, excitement and adrenaline.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
But just at home, Eh, what do you wanna do?
I'm gonna go clean the garage. Nah, let's have sex.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
I think people do that.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
You have a choice. We can clean the garage or
we can have sex.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Which would you rather do?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
What are you You're gonna pick clean the garage?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Imagine someone picking that.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Oh my gosh, yeah right, I'm gonna be in the
garage if you need me.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'd be so insulted.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Go but honey, I've been trying to clean the garage
for months.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Only jet like that.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Wow, all right, bored sex? Okay, that's that's That's all
I have for sex. Anyone want to talk about sex anyways?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I always want to talk about it. But then I
think with this show, at some point we get to
a place where we shouldn't be saying things that we say.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Well, it's obviously obviously we have to edit some things.
We can't get to.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Graphic Froggy's not here right now.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Space.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yes, it could be a safe space. It could be
all right, Well, I offered it to you, you know,
I offered a safe space for sex.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Comed Okay, Can I ask a question? Sure, in a relationship,
whether you're married or not, and you guys see each
other all the time, how often do people do it?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I think it's different with every relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
And I see the average.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
What what year is this, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah, it was president when I had sex.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
And then I also think it depends on you know,
where you are at that moment, because I think sometimes
you have more sex than you doubt other times. Do
you know what I mean? Depending on where what's going
on at the time.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Well, are you asking for a friend?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
No, I'm just I'm very interesting because I'm always in
a long distance relationships. I think it's a completely different ballgame.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Oh yeah, and that guy, every time you see each other,
you better be doing it. Well.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Then I just wonder about you know, oh, people who
live together all the time time, how much are you
getting it on what's going on over there? Do you
get bored? And then it's I think people's sex drive changed,
you know, over over time. And then maybe one person
still wants a lot and one doesn't. In that case,
what do you do.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Well, there's an issue, you need to talk about it.
You can't just let it fester, as they say, you know,
open up their relationship. Yeah, about what I.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Said, do you open up the relationship.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Well, I have a conversation about it. Hey, you know
I love you. I want to be with you, but
I need to have sex if you're not going to
give me sexy. Do you have a list of names
I can't have? Can you approve any of the people?
Hold on, I've been writing some names.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Yet they'll give you my name of every ugly person
you know well that you would not be attracted to, like.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Number three here on the list. How's that? Hey? I
got Alan on line twenty. Let's go talk to Alan.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Hey, Alan, how are.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
You damn good? How are you doing doing?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay? So Alan says he's had or had a friend
with benefits for like two and a half years. Right,
that's a long we'll call it a relationship, but it's
it's what it is. It's a friend with benefits relationship
for two and a half years.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
But something that's very unique in this relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Actually, wow, really for two and a half years. But
there's something very unique about this friend with benefits you
had for two and a half years. What's that sure?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
So I didn't know his name okay, the entire time,
didn't even know his name. My friends called a ups
because I would literally schedule an appointment drop off the package.
And it was about two years in. It was Christmas,
and he said Merry Christmas, Corey, and I realized he
thought my name was Corey and not Alan.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Two and a half years in.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
So then I took that opportunity to say, well, thank you,
but I actually don't know your name. And so then
he told me his name was Mauricio.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
So final that years his name was Mauricio nice.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Do we believe that his name was Mauricio?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, right, sure, I do, I think so. He looked
he's got the profile.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
He looked like, okay, all right, all right, I don't
know they're okay, there's something. There's someone listening right now,
going okay, that's kind of hot. You had a friend
of benefits for two and a half years, never knew
their name, so obviously it was a very just what
it was, mechanical thing, right and it and okay, there
you go.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
My question about this.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
We've got questions going ahead.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
What kept you from ever wanting to pursue a relationship
with supposedly Mauricio.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Honestly, I was just young professional. I didn't have time.
I was focused on my career in Miami. So it
was just the transactional need of what I was getting
from him.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
There you go, it's Miami. Let's profile again, is horny
in Miami? You know, it's just the way it is. Well, Alan,
thanks for sharing with us, And if you see Mauricio again,
just tell him he said Hi, give him my number.
I'm kidding. Have a great day. Thanks for listening. Rob
Online nineteen was a friend with benefits with your ex.
(07:13):
Just tell us the story, Rob, But what's the story?
And welcome to the show. By the way, Hey.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
How's it going. Basically, I reconnected with an old girlfriend
and you know, we agreed we didn't want anything serious,
and we friends with benefits for you know months. And
a few months in I realized, you know, I'm starting
to have feelings for this girl, and I didn't want
to scare away, so I kept my feelings to myself.
And then a few months later, she just comes out
(07:39):
and says she loves me. She didn't want to scare
me away.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
She rolled the dice and took a chance.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
And so what happened, Well, we dated for about two
years and then just kind of grew apart.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Shes okay, I know, but was it a fun two years.
You have a good time with each other.
Speaker 5 (07:55):
I will cherish every moment.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
That it was, just like is so you were just
doing each other, just to do each other? And then
what man? I think? I like you. I love that.
So no regrets whatsoever? None. I love that. All right, Rob,
thank you so much. Brother, there's hope for us all. Now,
what up, Scary? Well are we still in our sex
(08:18):
safe space? I have a question. Well, yeah, if you
put it that way, and I'm like, oh my god,
here lisaid, we're in the safe space.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
So I just want to ask, am I the only
one who thinks about each one of you guys all
doing it? And if so, who else? Who have you
thought about doing it? Like Elvis for instance? Do you
think of all the people on the show doing it?
Speaker 1 (08:38):
No? No, no, no.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
No, I have not. Now you're making me do it?
Speaker 1 (08:43):
I know.
Speaker 6 (08:43):
No has to be well, picture of someone else in
this people that you know in this room.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
No, No, with each other.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
I think it's because we're so close.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
We're like like brothers and sisters, not like that.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Okay, I'm weird.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
I think if people have been talking about it, it'll
pop into my head, like with the image of what
you're saying is. But it's not like I don't think
about it like go home, like no, I wonder what.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
But now I'm saying, you're thinking about it this morning.
I don't really like the optics here, but thanks anyway,
Brandon and Danielle and Shell Dion. I, oh my gosh,
oh my gosh, oh my god, is it good. Yeah, yeah,
I love Elvis Duran in the morning show. Hey, can
we talk about sex for a minute. I got a
couple of questions for you. Okay, we talking about sex, right,
We're not gonna get you dirty or anything, just sex
in general. Okay. Number one, the friends with benefits thing.
Has anyone in this room ever had a friend with benefits?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yes, yes, yes, and no? Did it work out for
both of you?
Speaker 3 (00:25):
No?
Speaker 1 (00:26):
Is it usually a problem? I think it's go ahead.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I think at some point, one person's gonna catch a feeling.
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Yeah, you're you're in two separate lanes, and sometimes one
lane is gonna go faster than the other and forget
the other one.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
The rom coms I watched, somebody always gets feelings.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
But having a frame of benefits is actually kind of
great if that's all you need and all you want.
But you gotta both be on board, because if one
starts to get a little too you know, into you, yeah,
or you get into them, it's not friends of benefits anymore,
it's something else. Right. Another question in your you're in
a relationship, do you ever like just have board sex
(01:13):
like there's nothing else to do? You know, It's like
there's nothing on TV, there's nothing nowhere to go? All right,
let's I guess we'll just have sex.
Speaker 3 (01:24):
I think that happens so much during COVID. Aren't there
like a bunch of COVID babies because everybody was just
stuck at home not doing anything?
Speaker 1 (01:30):
I guess, yeah, absolutely right. Yeah, it's like what do
you do? But okay, now that now that we're out
of the house and we we we can actually go places,
see movies, go shopping. Yeah, there's things to do. Go
for a walk, you know, go to the mall. Do
we still go to the mall? Yes? Sometimes sometimes, Yeah,
just stay let's just have sex.
Speaker 2 (01:49):
Let's just stay home and have sex.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
If you pitch it that way, it sounds so terrible.
Speaker 1 (01:54):
Well I don't mean for it to be terrible, but
it's just, you know, just it's it's bored sex. Yeah,
like every time you're you're going let's say you go
on vacation, you're your horny and you have sex. For
some reason, you go on vacation and you get horned of.
I don't know why, because you're out of your element.
Speaker 3 (02:12):
Maybe yeah, excitement and adrenaline.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
But just at home, Eh, what do you wanna do?
I'm gonna go clean the garage. Nah, let's have sex.
Speaker 3 (02:23):
I think people do that.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
You have a choice. We can clean the garage or
we can have sex.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
Which would you rather do?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
What are you You're gonna pick clean the garage?
Speaker 3 (02:31):
Imagine someone picking that.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Oh my gosh, yeah right, I'm gonna be in the
garage if you need me.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
I'd be so insulted.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Oh my god.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Go but honey, I've been trying to clean the garage
for months.
Speaker 3 (02:42):
Only jet like that.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
Wow, all right, bored sex? Okay, that's that's That's all
I have for sex. Anyone want to talk about sex anyways?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I always want to talk about it. But then I
think with this show, at some point we get to
a place where we shouldn't be saying things that we say.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Well, it's obviously obviously we have to edit some things.
We can't get to.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
Graphic Froggy's not here right now.
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Space.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
Yes, it could be a safe space. It could be
all right, Well, I offered it to you, you know,
I offered a safe space for sex.
Speaker 3 (03:12):
Comed Okay, Can I ask a question? Sure, in a relationship,
whether you're married or not, and you guys see each
other all the time, how often do people do it?
Speaker 2 (03:22):
I think it's different with every relationship.
Speaker 3 (03:24):
And I see the average.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
What what year is this, Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Twenty twenty four.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
Yeah, it was president when I had sex.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2 (03:37):
And then I also think it depends on you know,
where you are at that moment, because I think sometimes
you have more sex than you doubt other times. Do
you know what I mean? Depending on where what's going
on at the time.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Well, are you asking for a friend?
Speaker 3 (03:48):
No, I'm just I'm very interesting because I'm always in
a long distance relationships. I think it's a completely different ballgame.
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Oh yeah, and that guy, every time you see each other,
you better be doing it. Well.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Then I just wonder about you know, oh, people who
live together all the time time, how much are you
getting it on what's going on over there? Do you
get bored? And then it's I think people's sex drive changed,
you know, over over time. And then maybe one person
still wants a lot and one doesn't. In that case,
what do you do.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
Well, there's an issue, you need to talk about it.
You can't just let it fester, as they say, you know,
open up their relationship. Yeah, about what I.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Said, do you open up the relationship.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
Well, I have a conversation about it. Hey, you know
I love you. I want to be with you, but
I need to have sex if you're not going to
give me sexy. Do you have a list of names
I can't have? Can you approve any of the people?
Hold on, I've been writing some names.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
Yet they'll give you my name of every ugly person
you know well that you would not be attracted to, like.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Number three here on the list. How's that? Hey? I
got Alan on line twenty. Let's go talk to Alan.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (04:54):
Hey, Alan, how are.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
You damn good? How are you doing doing?
Speaker 1 (04:58):
Okay? So Alan says he's had or had a friend
with benefits for like two and a half years. Right,
that's a long we'll call it a relationship, but it's
it's what it is. It's a friend with benefits relationship
for two and a half years.
Speaker 4 (05:11):
But something that's very unique in this relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
Actually, wow, really for two and a half years. But
there's something very unique about this friend with benefits you
had for two and a half years. What's that sure?
Speaker 4 (05:22):
So I didn't know his name okay, the entire time,
didn't even know his name. My friends called a ups
because I would literally schedule an appointment drop off the package.
And it was about two years in. It was Christmas,
and he said Merry Christmas, Corey, and I realized he
thought my name was Corey and not Alan.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Two and a half years in.
Speaker 4 (05:47):
So then I took that opportunity to say, well, thank you,
but I actually don't know your name. And so then
he told me his name was Mauricio.
Speaker 1 (05:56):
So final that years his name was Mauricio nice.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
Do we believe that his name was Mauricio?
Speaker 4 (06:02):
Yeah, right, sure, I do, I think so. He looked
he's got the profile.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
He looked like, okay, all right, all right, I don't
know they're okay, there's something. There's someone listening right now,
going okay, that's kind of hot. You had a friend
of benefits for two and a half years, never knew
their name, so obviously it was a very just what
it was, mechanical thing, right and it and okay, there
you go.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
My question about this.
Speaker 1 (06:27):
We've got questions going ahead.
Speaker 3 (06:29):
What kept you from ever wanting to pursue a relationship
with supposedly Mauricio.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Honestly, I was just young professional. I didn't have time.
I was focused on my career in Miami. So it
was just the transactional need of what I was getting
from him.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
There you go, it's Miami. Let's profile again, is horny
in Miami? You know, it's just the way it is. Well, Alan,
thanks for sharing with us, And if you see Mauricio again,
just tell him he said Hi, give him my number.
I'm kidding. Have a great day. Thanks for listening. Rob
Online nineteen was a friend with benefits with your ex.
(07:13):
Just tell us the story, Rob, But what's the story?
And welcome to the show. By the way, Hey.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
How's it going. Basically, I reconnected with an old girlfriend
and you know, we agreed we didn't want anything serious,
and we friends with benefits for you know months. And
a few months in I realized, you know, I'm starting
to have feelings for this girl, and I didn't want
to scare away, so I kept my feelings to myself.
And then a few months later, she just comes out
(07:39):
and says she loves me. She didn't want to scare
me away.
Speaker 1 (07:44):
She rolled the dice and took a chance.
Speaker 5 (07:45):
And so what happened, Well, we dated for about two
years and then just kind of grew apart.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Shes okay, I know, but was it a fun two years.
You have a good time with each other.
Speaker 5 (07:55):
I will cherish every moment.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
That it was, just like is so you were just
doing each other, just to do each other? And then
what man? I think? I like you. I love that.
So no regrets whatsoever? None. I love that. All right, Rob,
thank you so much. Brother, there's hope for us all. Now,
what up, Scary? Well are we still in our sex
(08:18):
safe space? I have a question. Well, yeah, if you
put it that way, and I'm like, oh my god,
here lisaid, we're in the safe space.
Speaker 6 (08:25):
So I just want to ask, am I the only
one who thinks about each one of you guys all
doing it? And if so, who else? Who have you
thought about doing it? Like Elvis for instance? Do you
think of all the people on the show doing it?
Speaker 1 (08:38):
No? No, no, no.
Speaker 3 (08:40):
No, I have not. Now you're making me do it?
Speaker 1 (08:43):
I know.
Speaker 6 (08:43):
No has to be well, picture of someone else in
this people that you know in this room.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
No, No, with each other.
Speaker 3 (08:51):
I think it's because we're so close.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
We're like like brothers and sisters, not like that.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Okay, I'm weird.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
I think if people have been talking about it, it'll
pop into my head, like with the image of what
you're saying is. But it's not like I don't think
about it like go home, like no, I wonder what.
Speaker 1 (09:05):
But now I'm saying, you're thinking about it this morning.
I don't really like the optics here, but thanks anyway,
Brandon and Danielle and Shell Dion. I, oh my gosh,
oh my gosh, oh my god, is it good. Yeah, yeah,
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