October 25, 2024 • 6 mins
Gandhi noticed grand gestures of love after coming back from vacation. When was the last time you showed love for someone?
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Something that Gandhi told me after we got back from
our vacation a couple weeks ago. You said that your
heart was full of joy because you witnessed so many
grand gestures. I'm using your words. You noticed grand gestures
of love. Yes, and it made you feel as if
(00:26):
the dying art of romance wasn't dead.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
What did you see that rehashed your belief that love
still exists in this world?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Where do I even begin? I felt like it was
just everywhere, and I loved it. So. I have one
friend who's in a new relationship and she wanted to
get a note to this guy that she's dating before
a big event. She drove to meet up with his
father to give the love note so that his father
could hand deliver it in another state when he got there.
I thought it was so sweet. Another friend wanted to
(00:57):
go to the top of the Empire State Building to
tell someone that she was and love. They did that.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
It was amazing.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah. Another friend of mine hike did a little hike
for a whole romantic day looking at leaves and trees
with a new person. Also, and I was just like,
you know what, all I hear all the time is
about how the dating pool is full of poop, and
I don't believe it. I think that there are still
these lovely things and lovely people out there who care
about love, who are trying to show people that they
(01:23):
love them without just making it all about you know,
transactional things. It's an I love you here it is
and it was so great to see. I loved it.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Well, they got me to think it. Oh what about
people who are in relationships and they basically are, as
they call it, making the sausage every day? Hear me
out right? You know the term making sausage means Jesus,
it's just this mechanical thing. You make a sausage, then
you make another sausage. If you are into sausage making videos.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
And who is it?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. So some people
are in relationships where they're just making sausage every day.
It's the same thing every day. You get into routines
with the people that you're with in this relationship. You
wake up to the same time every day, you do
the same thing every day, and ever you get to
get a home from work, you do the same thing
and you go to bed. When's the last time he
actually looked over at them, He looked them in the
eye and went, Oh, my god, I really do I
(02:16):
really do love this person I'm with, And I feel
like maybe maybe we've kind of forgotten about us, the
two of us, with this crazy world, this hurricane of
a world that's ripping around around us, it's still the
two of us in the eye of this hurricane, and
we're here for each other. Let's do something for each other.
(02:37):
Let's do the top of the Empire State building, like
GANI was talking about. Let's go on a hike with
just us. It's more than a building that's really tall.
It's more than a hike on a trail in the woods.
It's about you and me connecting. Let's go do it.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
I really think you owe it to you, yourself actually,
and your relationship to think that through, because you owe
it to them, and you owe it to yourself.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I think about that all the time, because you hopefully
start dating your partner because you think there's something magical
about them and wonderful, and you put an effort in
the beginning, and then for whatever reason, people just stop
putting in that effort, and that magical person who is
still magical, maybe even more magical than they were before,
is just they're like not appreciate it. Probably both ways.
(03:21):
It's not necessarily one way, but both ways. And I
think that's when it opens up the door for someone
else who might treat them like they are magical to
slide in. But I think that that happens a lot,
and I think that sort of is what kills a
lot of romance and stuff in life.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
I think people need to realize also that relationships change,
that it's never gonna stay exactly the way it was
when you guys first met. You have kids or things
happen or whatever. You got to grow together, and then
you know, just keep appreciating each other. And it's not
always it's not always easy. Things get in the way,
but sitting down at the end of the day and
just saying like, gosh, this is the person I want
(03:59):
to come home to every and I still do, and
let them know that it's very important.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
You know, there's something I want to say and I
want to move it to the next level because you know, us,
we just can't. We can't just leave it as simple
and move on. Let's say you're in a relationship with
someone and it's not going well. You're in the middle
of a crazy, awful storm with them, and of course
when those things are going on, the positive interaction is depleted,
(04:29):
it's gone, it evaporates. It's all about just struggling to
get along with them, just live with them whatever. Maybe
this is the time, even though it could be over,
Actually this is the time to look in the eye
and go, oh, look, I know that things aren't great
for us, but I do love you, and I just
(04:54):
got to tell you I appreciate everything that we've been through.
And who knows this to be the end, but you
need to know I love you. Something to think about.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, yeah, definitely is.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Because you know what, I always get pissed off when
relationships between this bond and and then it is it's gone. Well,
does that mean it was it wasn't really worth anything
when you were in it. They're not your friend anymore. No,
I don't think so, because what Danielle said, you know,
things change.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I get that, and you fell in love with them
for some reason. There was something that attracted you to
that person in the first place. It always amazes me
how quickly people get over. Like, if you're with somebody
in this relationship for like ten years, just say, and
then all of a sudden things go south, and then
five minutes later you're like with this other. It always
amazes me how hearts can change that quickly. I mean,
(05:43):
I know, maybe things have been going on that we
didn't know about, but it's just like there's some reason
you were there, and if you could just find out
why and connect back to it, if you can, that's
that's incredible.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Or your bags could be backed and you're out to
forget that is which still but still, my point is this,
no matter what the state of your relationship, you owe
it to each other to at least acknowledge the respect
you have or had for each other and say thank
you
Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Something that Gandhi told me after we got back from
our vacation a couple weeks ago. You said that your
heart was full of joy because you witnessed so many
grand gestures. I'm using your words. You noticed grand gestures
of love. Yes, and it made you feel as if
(00:26):
the dying art of romance wasn't dead.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
What did you see that rehashed your belief that love
still exists in this world?
Speaker 1 (00:37):
Where do I even begin? I felt like it was
just everywhere, and I loved it. So. I have one
friend who's in a new relationship and she wanted to
get a note to this guy that she's dating before
a big event. She drove to meet up with his
father to give the love note so that his father
could hand deliver it in another state when he got there.
I thought it was so sweet. Another friend wanted to
(00:57):
go to the top of the Empire State Building to
tell someone that she was and love. They did that.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
It was amazing.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Yeah. Another friend of mine hike did a little hike
for a whole romantic day looking at leaves and trees
with a new person. Also, and I was just like,
you know what, all I hear all the time is
about how the dating pool is full of poop, and
I don't believe it. I think that there are still
these lovely things and lovely people out there who care
about love, who are trying to show people that they
(01:23):
love them without just making it all about you know,
transactional things. It's an I love you here it is
and it was so great to see. I loved it.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Well, they got me to think it. Oh what about
people who are in relationships and they basically are, as
they call it, making the sausage every day? Hear me
out right? You know the term making sausage means Jesus,
it's just this mechanical thing. You make a sausage, then
you make another sausage. If you are into sausage making videos.
Speaker 1 (01:53):
And who is it?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Yeah, you know what I'm talking about. So some people
are in relationships where they're just making sausage every day.
It's the same thing every day. You get into routines
with the people that you're with in this relationship. You
wake up to the same time every day, you do
the same thing every day, and ever you get to
get a home from work, you do the same thing
and you go to bed. When's the last time he
actually looked over at them, He looked them in the
eye and went, Oh, my god, I really do I
(02:16):
really do love this person I'm with, And I feel
like maybe maybe we've kind of forgotten about us, the
two of us, with this crazy world, this hurricane of
a world that's ripping around around us, it's still the
two of us in the eye of this hurricane, and
we're here for each other. Let's do something for each other.
(02:37):
Let's do the top of the Empire State building, like
GANI was talking about. Let's go on a hike with
just us. It's more than a building that's really tall.
It's more than a hike on a trail in the woods.
It's about you and me connecting. Let's go do it.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:51):
I really think you owe it to you, yourself actually,
and your relationship to think that through, because you owe
it to them, and you owe it to yourself.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I think about that all the time, because you hopefully
start dating your partner because you think there's something magical
about them and wonderful, and you put an effort in
the beginning, and then for whatever reason, people just stop
putting in that effort, and that magical person who is
still magical, maybe even more magical than they were before,
is just they're like not appreciate it. Probably both ways.
(03:21):
It's not necessarily one way, but both ways. And I
think that's when it opens up the door for someone
else who might treat them like they are magical to
slide in. But I think that that happens a lot,
and I think that sort of is what kills a
lot of romance and stuff in life.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
I think people need to realize also that relationships change,
that it's never gonna stay exactly the way it was
when you guys first met. You have kids or things
happen or whatever. You got to grow together, and then
you know, just keep appreciating each other. And it's not
always it's not always easy. Things get in the way,
but sitting down at the end of the day and
just saying like, gosh, this is the person I want
(03:59):
to come home to every and I still do, and
let them know that it's very important.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
You know, there's something I want to say and I
want to move it to the next level because you know, us,
we just can't. We can't just leave it as simple
and move on. Let's say you're in a relationship with
someone and it's not going well. You're in the middle
of a crazy, awful storm with them, and of course
when those things are going on, the positive interaction is depleted,
(04:29):
it's gone, it evaporates. It's all about just struggling to
get along with them, just live with them whatever. Maybe
this is the time, even though it could be over,
Actually this is the time to look in the eye
and go, oh, look, I know that things aren't great
for us, but I do love you, and I just
(04:54):
got to tell you I appreciate everything that we've been through.
And who knows this to be the end, but you
need to know I love you. Something to think about.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Yeah, yeah, definitely is.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Because you know what, I always get pissed off when
relationships between this bond and and then it is it's gone. Well,
does that mean it was it wasn't really worth anything
when you were in it. They're not your friend anymore. No,
I don't think so, because what Danielle said, you know,
things change.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
I get that, and you fell in love with them
for some reason. There was something that attracted you to
that person in the first place. It always amazes me
how quickly people get over. Like, if you're with somebody
in this relationship for like ten years, just say, and
then all of a sudden things go south, and then
five minutes later you're like with this other. It always
amazes me how hearts can change that quickly. I mean,
(05:43):
I know, maybe things have been going on that we
didn't know about, but it's just like there's some reason
you were there, and if you could just find out
why and connect back to it, if you can, that's
that's incredible.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Or your bags could be backed and you're out to
forget that is which still but still, my point is this,
no matter what the state of your relationship, you owe
it to each other to at least acknowledge the respect
you have or had for each other and say thank
you
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