January 1, 2025 • 6 mins
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Gandhi noticed grand gestures of love after coming back from vacation. When was the last time you showed love for someone?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Happy holidays. Here's one of our favorite moments of twenty
twenty four from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Something that Gandhi told me after we got back from
our vacation a couple weeks ago. You said that your
heart was full of joy because you witnessed so many
grand gestures. I'm using your words. You noticed grand gestures
of love. Yes, and it made you feel as if
(00:30):
the dying art of romance wasn't dead.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
What did you see that rehashed your belief that love
still exists in this world?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Where do I even begin? I felt like it was
just everywhere, and I loved it.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
So.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I have one friend who's in a new relationship and
she wanted to get a note to this guy that
she's dating before a big event. She drove to meet
up with his father to give the love note so
that his father could hand deliver it in another state
when he got there. I thought it was so sweet.
Friend wanted to go to the top of the Empire
State Building to tell someone that she was in love.
They did that. It was amazing. Yeah. Another friend of
(01:07):
mine hiked did a little hike for a whole romantic day,
looking at leaves and trees with a new person also,
and I was just like, you know what, all I
hear all the time is about how the dating pool
is full of poop, and I don't believe it. I
think that there are still these lovely things and lovely
people out there who care about love, who are trying
to show people that they love them without just making
(01:28):
it all about you know, transactional things. It's an I
love you here it is and it was so great
to see. I loved it.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Well. They got me to think it. Oh what about
people who are in relationships and they basically are, as
they call it, making the sausage every day? Hear me
out right? You know the term making sausage means Jesus,
it's just this mechanical thing. You make a sausage, then
you make another sausage. If you are into sausage making
videos and who is it? Yeah, you know what I'm
(01:58):
talking about. So some people are in relationships where there's
just making sausage every day. It's the same thing every day.
You get into routines with the people that you're with
in this relationship. You wake up to the same time
every day, you do the same thing every day and
ever you get to get home from work, you do
the same thing and you go to bed. When's the
last time he actually looked over at them. He looked
them in the eye and went, Oh, my god, I
really do I really do love this person I'm with,
(02:21):
And I feel like maybe maybe we've kind of forgotten
about us, the two of us, with this crazy world,
this hurricane of a world that's ripping around around us,
it's still the two of us in the eye of
this hurricane, and we're here for each other. Let's do
something for each other. Let's do the top of the
(02:42):
Empire State building like Gandhi was talking about. Let's go
on a hike with just us. It's more than a
building that's really tall. It's more than a hike on
a trail in the woods. It's about you and me connecting.
Let's go do it.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I really think you owe it to you, yourself actually
and your relationship to think that through, because you owe
it to them, and you o it to yourself, like
I said, do it.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I think about that all the time because you hopefully
start dating your partner because you think there's something magical
about them and wonderful, and you put an effort in
the beginning, and then for whatever reason, people just stop
putting in that effort, and that magical person who is
still magical, maybe even more magical than they were before,
is just they're like not appreciate it. Probably both ways.
(03:24):
It's not necessarily one way, but both ways. And I
think that's when it opens up the door for someone
else who might treat them like they are magical to
slide in. But I think that that happens a lot,
and I think that sort of is what kills a
lot of romance and stuff in life.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I think people need to realize also that relationships change,
that it's never going to stay exactly the way it
was when you guys first met. You have kids or
things happen or whatever. You got to grow together, and
then you know, just keep appreciating each other. And it's
not always it's not always easy. Things get in the way,
but sitting down at the end of the day saying like, gosh,
(04:01):
this is the person I want to come home to
every single day and I still do and let them
know that it's very important.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
You know, there's something I want to say and I
want to move it to the next level because you
know us, we just can't. We can't just leave it
as simple and move on. Let's say you're in a
relationship with someone and it's not going well. You're in
the middle of a crazy, awful storm with them, and
of course when those things are going on, the positive
(04:30):
interaction is depleted, it's gone, it evaporates. It's all about
just struggling to get along with them, just live with
them whatever. Maybe this is the time, even though it
could be over, Actually this is the time to look
in the eye and go, oh, look, I know that
things aren't great for us, but I do love you,
(04:56):
and I just got to tell you I appreciate everything
that we've been through. And who knows, this could be
the end, but you need to know I love you.
Something to think about.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yeah, yeah, that definitely is, because you.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Know what, I always get pissed off when relationships between
this bond and and then it's gone. Well, does that
mean it was it wasn't really worth anything when you
were in it. They're not your friend anymore. No, I
don't think so, because what Danielle said, you know, things change.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
I get that, and you fell in love with them
for some reason. There was something that attracted you to
that person in the first place. It always amazes me
how quickly people get over. Like if you're with somebody
in this relationship for like ten years, just say and
then all of a sudden things go south, and then
five minutes later you're like with this other. It always
amazes me how hearts can change that quickly. I mean,
(05:46):
I know, maybe things have been going on that we
didn't know about, but it's just like, there's some reason
you were there and if you could just find out
why and connect back to it, if you can, that's incredible.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Or your bags could be back to you're out to
freaking side, but still but still. My point is this,
no matter what the state of your relationship, you owe
it to each other to at least acknowledge the respect
you have or had for each other and say thank you,
Y
Happy holidays. Here's one of our favorite moments of twenty
twenty four from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Something that Gandhi told me after we got back from
our vacation a couple weeks ago. You said that your
heart was full of joy because you witnessed so many
grand gestures. I'm using your words. You noticed grand gestures
of love. Yes, and it made you feel as if
(00:30):
the dying art of romance wasn't dead.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Yes.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
What did you see that rehashed your belief that love
still exists in this world?
Speaker 3 (00:40):
Where do I even begin? I felt like it was
just everywhere, and I loved it.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
So.
Speaker 3 (00:44):
I have one friend who's in a new relationship and
she wanted to get a note to this guy that
she's dating before a big event. She drove to meet
up with his father to give the love note so
that his father could hand deliver it in another state
when he got there. I thought it was so sweet.
Friend wanted to go to the top of the Empire
State Building to tell someone that she was in love.
They did that. It was amazing. Yeah. Another friend of
(01:07):
mine hiked did a little hike for a whole romantic day,
looking at leaves and trees with a new person also,
and I was just like, you know what, all I
hear all the time is about how the dating pool
is full of poop, and I don't believe it. I
think that there are still these lovely things and lovely
people out there who care about love, who are trying
to show people that they love them without just making
(01:28):
it all about you know, transactional things. It's an I
love you here it is and it was so great
to see. I loved it.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
Well. They got me to think it. Oh what about
people who are in relationships and they basically are, as
they call it, making the sausage every day? Hear me
out right? You know the term making sausage means Jesus,
it's just this mechanical thing. You make a sausage, then
you make another sausage. If you are into sausage making
videos and who is it? Yeah, you know what I'm
(01:58):
talking about. So some people are in relationships where there's
just making sausage every day. It's the same thing every day.
You get into routines with the people that you're with
in this relationship. You wake up to the same time
every day, you do the same thing every day and
ever you get to get home from work, you do
the same thing and you go to bed. When's the
last time he actually looked over at them. He looked
them in the eye and went, Oh, my god, I
really do I really do love this person I'm with,
(02:21):
And I feel like maybe maybe we've kind of forgotten
about us, the two of us, with this crazy world,
this hurricane of a world that's ripping around around us,
it's still the two of us in the eye of
this hurricane, and we're here for each other. Let's do
something for each other. Let's do the top of the
(02:42):
Empire State building like Gandhi was talking about. Let's go
on a hike with just us. It's more than a
building that's really tall. It's more than a hike on
a trail in the woods. It's about you and me connecting.
Let's go do it.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
I really think you owe it to you, yourself actually
and your relationship to think that through, because you owe
it to them, and you o it to yourself, like
I said, do it.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
I think about that all the time because you hopefully
start dating your partner because you think there's something magical
about them and wonderful, and you put an effort in
the beginning, and then for whatever reason, people just stop
putting in that effort, and that magical person who is
still magical, maybe even more magical than they were before,
is just they're like not appreciate it. Probably both ways.
(03:24):
It's not necessarily one way, but both ways. And I
think that's when it opens up the door for someone
else who might treat them like they are magical to
slide in. But I think that that happens a lot,
and I think that sort of is what kills a
lot of romance and stuff in life.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I think people need to realize also that relationships change,
that it's never going to stay exactly the way it
was when you guys first met. You have kids or
things happen or whatever. You got to grow together, and
then you know, just keep appreciating each other. And it's
not always it's not always easy. Things get in the way,
but sitting down at the end of the day saying like, gosh,
(04:01):
this is the person I want to come home to
every single day and I still do and let them
know that it's very important.
Speaker 2 (04:08):
You know, there's something I want to say and I
want to move it to the next level because you
know us, we just can't. We can't just leave it
as simple and move on. Let's say you're in a
relationship with someone and it's not going well. You're in
the middle of a crazy, awful storm with them, and
of course when those things are going on, the positive
(04:30):
interaction is depleted, it's gone, it evaporates. It's all about
just struggling to get along with them, just live with
them whatever. Maybe this is the time, even though it
could be over, Actually this is the time to look
in the eye and go, oh, look, I know that
things aren't great for us, but I do love you,
(04:56):
and I just got to tell you I appreciate everything
that we've been through. And who knows, this could be
the end, but you need to know I love you.
Something to think about.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yeah, yeah, that definitely is, because you.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Know what, I always get pissed off when relationships between
this bond and and then it's gone. Well, does that
mean it was it wasn't really worth anything when you
were in it. They're not your friend anymore. No, I
don't think so, because what Danielle said, you know, things change.
Speaker 1 (05:26):
I get that, and you fell in love with them
for some reason. There was something that attracted you to
that person in the first place. It always amazes me
how quickly people get over. Like if you're with somebody
in this relationship for like ten years, just say and
then all of a sudden things go south, and then
five minutes later you're like with this other. It always
amazes me how hearts can change that quickly. I mean,
(05:46):
I know, maybe things have been going on that we
didn't know about, but it's just like, there's some reason
you were there and if you could just find out
why and connect back to it, if you can, that's incredible.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Or your bags could be back to you're out to
freaking side, but still but still. My point is this,
no matter what the state of your relationship, you owe
it to each other to at least acknowledge the respect
you have or had for each other and say thank you,
Y
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