July 16, 2025 • 6 mins
Today, we talked about how we’d feel if our partners were to cheat on us with someone of the opposite sex, someone better looking, and more!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Get your hands together, and we're gonna start to party
and start.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
The Elvis Duran after Party.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Look at this, the after Party podcast is on and
there's Danielle and there's Scottie B and Scary and Gandhi
in Straight and Eate and uh.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Let's go ready to go?
Speaker 5 (00:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah, So Danielle is about to say something.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I think it's just absurd.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I can't wait.
Speaker 6 (00:32):
Go ahead, honey, Hello, I was down the shore this week,
you guys know, for the day, spent the day down there.
So a lot of the teenagers that we are all
friends with with their families were there, so they were
nineteen twenty. And I said, okay, guys, I have a question.
So I said, if somebody was to cheat on you,
now they have to cheat on you, you have no choice.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Would you rather than cheat on you with.
Speaker 6 (00:52):
Somebody hotter than you, or somebody uglier than you, or
somebody from the same sex that they.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Are different answers same sex sex.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
The guys are going to say, no, same sex is
acceptable because I'm not offended because I can't supply what
that same sex is doing.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
So it's like, okay, good.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You're all and that's not cheating as far as I'm waiting, Now,
what about me in same sex?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Wait? You see, for Elvis, if.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Alex cheated, if Alex cheated with a girl, would you.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Have that it's less offensive to you, Elvis? No, it's not.
It's this is why I said, this is absurd.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
How do you sit there and justify Okay, it's okay,
it's better if they're uglier than me, go right ahead.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
Because some people were saying, Okay, if they're uglier than me,
then I feel good about myself. I'm like, well, you
got uglier, I'm better looking. Absolute But if they're better
looking than you, then you can say, well, I kind
of get it.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
I kind of understand what.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
Okay, these really different answers.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Different answers. I was what I would rather be cheated
on with somebody who's a lot hotter than me?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yes, okay, yeah for sure, because if they.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Weren't hotter than me, then I would be like, oh
my god, their personality is that much better.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Oh that's more.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Devastating, Or they cheated on someone uglier than me, Like
the hell, what the hell did they think of it?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
What I'm thinking is, see, I'm thinking of this step further.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
It's like, well, if they cheat on me with someone
that's hotter than me, then I will I have a
chance to get them back at this point because that
they found someone hotter and now and now I'm like
yesterday's news.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I'm like the ugly old guy.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Oh man, Well, why would you want them back if
they cheated on you? Anyway?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Why are we having this conversation. I don't have a pig.
If you cheat on me, I don't care what they
look like. You're you're you're out, You're gone. That that
ruins the conversation.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
If I say that, Yeah, well, the absolute last thing
I would want is for someone i'm dating to cheat
on me with a man. I would not be happy
with that because it would just tick me off because
I'd be like, you did not disclose this ahead of time,
They didn't figure it out. Well, now you figured it out. Now,
I'm just not that should be more acceptable to you,
not to me, because you.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Because it's a guy.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
And then he can get what he wants out of
a guy. You can't give him what he wants. Oh
yes he can.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But if he wants the feeling of another man, it's
like I'm out I'm not a man. You could peg
this guy and you can keep him right, but.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I can't peg him. But I think I would be
more upset with the dishonesty through the entire relationship that
I could have been pegging him from the beginning and
kep him from cheating.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
But wait, okay, let me give you another level to
think about it in that. Okay, okay, let's say so
you're saying you're upset because you find out he's gay. Yes,
but what if he's bisexual? Still, Yes, that's a little different.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
No, I mean yeah, I would be like, well, we
could have just you could have just told me. I mean,
I don't think. I just don't think i'd be into it.
No shade to anybody who's bisexual and is into that,
but like I would not.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
My favorite was one of the kids said I would
feel like I turned them that way, and I had
to say to them, guys, it's not how it works.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Robin could cheat on me with women all day long.
I wouldn't care. It's not cheating.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
So if she hooked up with me or GANDHI can
be fine with.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
That, it's still cheating.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Is Sheldon hooked up with.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Straight guys.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Straight guys have this whole different view of it is
different woman on a woman.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I guess it's still cheating.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Guys think it's hot, and I think they think about
inserting themselves into.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
That whatever I mean, and they totally sexualized it. They
forget there could be emotion in there too that would
make them upset. Right, I can't believe we're.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Talking about this.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
I still want to know everybody's answers, because everybody did
not answer.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Yeah, you guys didn't all answer different sex.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
No, you cheat on me, you're out. It does matter.
I can't answer that because it's just it doesn't compute
with me. I can't answer that for you.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
I kind of agree with Elvis because like the hotter person, Okay,
I'm gonna get an inferior you are to your complex
over not being that attractive an uglier person, I'd be like, well,
what do they have that I don't have? And then
somebody of the same sex, I'd be kind of like Gandhia,
like you've been.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Lying this whole time. Sex and hotter guy, I'm okay.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
With, Yeah, yeah, you understand the hotter guys.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I understand it because you described it perfectly.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
Look at him.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
How you can look at it like.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I kind of understand cheated with a ten woman, you're
cool with it?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
What are you trying to say, I'm only like a
sex wow?
Speaker 7 (05:32):
That whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I would be pissed.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Of course i'd be pissed.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
But also back to something Nate was saying, if you're
cheating on me with someone who I feel is uglier
than me, and then we'll wait a minute, maybe they're
not uglier than me.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Maybe I'm really ugly.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Issue right, that is a total issue. There really isn't
but to pick which one.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
What did the teenagers say, Danielle?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
They all said different things.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
One of them said the uglier, one of them said hotter,
one of them said that they'd rather would be the
you know, with the same sex.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
That they all had different, different fakes.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So was it?
Speaker 6 (06:04):
I thought it was very interesting, So I was like, Okay,
maybe look at things I don't know. They don't ask
why I bring up these conversations down the shore with
the kids.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yeah at dinner I didn't, which sounds like you had
fun with it. So I'm around the cheeseboard.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah, yeah, no, they were awesome round the cheeseboard. It
actually was cheese and cracker. There was cheese and crackers.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
Other time we were we were just having a good
time in laughing and they were talking about their relationships.
One just found out that their ex had moved on
and it was the first time they were dealing with that,
and so we were talking about that.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
So I don't know, I kind of just brought it
up and it was like, so let's.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Say, you know, Wow, I'm gonna go down the shore
with you next time.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
For sure, they were older, they were nineteen twenty. They
weren't little kids. Sister ran after party
Get your hands together, and we're gonna start to party
and start.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm ready to party.
Speaker 3 (00:07):
The Elvis Duran after Party.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
Look at this, the after Party podcast is on and
there's Danielle and there's Scottie B and Scary and Gandhi
in Straight and Eate and uh.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Let's go ready to go?
Speaker 5 (00:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Yeah, So Danielle is about to say something.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I think it's just absurd.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
I can't wait.
Speaker 6 (00:32):
Go ahead, honey, Hello, I was down the shore this week,
you guys know, for the day, spent the day down there.
So a lot of the teenagers that we are all
friends with with their families were there, so they were
nineteen twenty. And I said, okay, guys, I have a question.
So I said, if somebody was to cheat on you,
now they have to cheat on you, you have no choice.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Would you rather than cheat on you with.
Speaker 6 (00:52):
Somebody hotter than you, or somebody uglier than you, or
somebody from the same sex that they.
Speaker 3 (00:58):
Are different answers same sex sex.
Speaker 1 (01:04):
The guys are going to say, no, same sex is
acceptable because I'm not offended because I can't supply what
that same sex is doing.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
So it's like, okay, good.
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You're all and that's not cheating as far as I'm waiting, Now,
what about me in same sex?
Speaker 2 (01:17):
Wait? You see, for Elvis, if.
Speaker 3 (01:21):
Alex cheated, if Alex cheated with a girl, would you.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Have that it's less offensive to you, Elvis? No, it's not.
It's this is why I said, this is absurd.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
How do you sit there and justify Okay, it's okay,
it's better if they're uglier than me, go right ahead.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
Because some people were saying, Okay, if they're uglier than me,
then I feel good about myself. I'm like, well, you
got uglier, I'm better looking. Absolute But if they're better
looking than you, then you can say, well, I kind
of get it.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
I kind of understand what.
Speaker 6 (01:54):
Okay, these really different answers.
Speaker 5 (01:59):
Different answers. I was what I would rather be cheated
on with somebody who's a lot hotter than me?
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Yes, okay, yeah for sure, because if they.
Speaker 5 (02:06):
Weren't hotter than me, then I would be like, oh
my god, their personality is that much better.
Speaker 3 (02:10):
Oh that's more.
Speaker 5 (02:11):
Devastating, Or they cheated on someone uglier than me, Like
the hell, what the hell did they think of it?
Speaker 2 (02:16):
What I'm thinking is, see, I'm thinking of this step further.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
It's like, well, if they cheat on me with someone
that's hotter than me, then I will I have a
chance to get them back at this point because that
they found someone hotter and now and now I'm like
yesterday's news.
Speaker 2 (02:28):
I'm like the ugly old guy.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
Oh man, Well, why would you want them back if
they cheated on you? Anyway?
Speaker 4 (02:33):
Why are we having this conversation. I don't have a pig.
If you cheat on me, I don't care what they
look like. You're you're you're out, You're gone. That that
ruins the conversation.
Speaker 5 (02:44):
If I say that, Yeah, well, the absolute last thing
I would want is for someone i'm dating to cheat
on me with a man. I would not be happy
with that because it would just tick me off because
I'd be like, you did not disclose this ahead of time,
They didn't figure it out. Well, now you figured it out. Now,
I'm just not that should be more acceptable to you,
not to me, because you.
Speaker 2 (03:04):
Because it's a guy.
Speaker 1 (03:05):
And then he can get what he wants out of
a guy. You can't give him what he wants. Oh
yes he can.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
But if he wants the feeling of another man, it's
like I'm out I'm not a man. You could peg
this guy and you can keep him right, but.
Speaker 5 (03:20):
I can't peg him. But I think I would be
more upset with the dishonesty through the entire relationship that
I could have been pegging him from the beginning and
kep him from cheating.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
But wait, okay, let me give you another level to
think about it in that. Okay, okay, let's say so
you're saying you're upset because you find out he's gay. Yes,
but what if he's bisexual? Still, Yes, that's a little different.
Speaker 5 (03:42):
No, I mean yeah, I would be like, well, we
could have just you could have just told me. I mean,
I don't think. I just don't think i'd be into it.
No shade to anybody who's bisexual and is into that,
but like I would not.
Speaker 6 (03:53):
My favorite was one of the kids said I would
feel like I turned them that way, and I had
to say to them, guys, it's not how it works.
Speaker 2 (04:00):
Robin could cheat on me with women all day long.
I wouldn't care. It's not cheating.
Speaker 3 (04:03):
So if she hooked up with me or GANDHI can
be fine with.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
That, it's still cheating.
Speaker 3 (04:12):
Is Sheldon hooked up with.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Straight guys.
Speaker 4 (04:17):
Straight guys have this whole different view of it is
different woman on a woman.
Speaker 3 (04:21):
I guess it's still cheating.
Speaker 5 (04:22):
Guys think it's hot, and I think they think about
inserting themselves into.
Speaker 4 (04:26):
That whatever I mean, and they totally sexualized it. They
forget there could be emotion in there too that would
make them upset. Right, I can't believe we're.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
Talking about this.
Speaker 5 (04:37):
I still want to know everybody's answers, because everybody did
not answer.
Speaker 6 (04:39):
Yeah, you guys didn't all answer different sex.
Speaker 2 (04:44):
No, you cheat on me, you're out. It does matter.
I can't answer that because it's just it doesn't compute
with me. I can't answer that for you.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
I kind of agree with Elvis because like the hotter person, Okay,
I'm gonna get an inferior you are to your complex
over not being that attractive an uglier person, I'd be like, well,
what do they have that I don't have? And then
somebody of the same sex, I'd be kind of like Gandhia,
like you've been.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Lying this whole time. Sex and hotter guy, I'm okay.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
With, Yeah, yeah, you understand the hotter guys.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
I understand it because you described it perfectly.
Speaker 5 (05:18):
Look at him.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
How you can look at it like.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I kind of understand cheated with a ten woman, you're
cool with it?
Speaker 3 (05:25):
What are you trying to say, I'm only like a
sex wow?
Speaker 7 (05:32):
That whatever.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I would be pissed.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
Of course i'd be pissed.
Speaker 4 (05:36):
But also back to something Nate was saying, if you're
cheating on me with someone who I feel is uglier
than me, and then we'll wait a minute, maybe they're
not uglier than me.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Maybe I'm really ugly.
Speaker 3 (05:47):
Issue right, that is a total issue. There really isn't
but to pick which one.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
What did the teenagers say, Danielle?
Speaker 3 (05:55):
They all said different things.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
One of them said the uglier, one of them said hotter,
one of them said that they'd rather would be the
you know, with the same sex.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
That they all had different, different fakes.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So was it?
Speaker 6 (06:04):
I thought it was very interesting, So I was like, Okay,
maybe look at things I don't know. They don't ask
why I bring up these conversations down the shore with
the kids.
Speaker 3 (06:12):
Why not?
Speaker 2 (06:13):
Yeah at dinner I didn't, which sounds like you had
fun with it. So I'm around the cheeseboard.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Yeah, yeah, no, they were awesome round the cheeseboard. It
actually was cheese and cracker. There was cheese and crackers.
Speaker 6 (06:26):
Other time we were we were just having a good
time in laughing and they were talking about their relationships.
One just found out that their ex had moved on
and it was the first time they were dealing with that,
and so we were talking about that.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
So I don't know, I kind of just brought it
up and it was like, so let's.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Say, you know, Wow, I'm gonna go down the shore
with you next time.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
For sure, they were older, they were nineteen twenty. They
weren't little kids. Sister ran after party
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