June 30, 2025 • 30 mins
Nelly & Ashanti on Marriage, Maturity & Making it Work This Time Around!
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Speaker 1 (00:09):
Oh my goodness, Nellie and.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
I thought this day would never come for the three
of us to be in the room together and get
that they're two happily married, ready to launch a show.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Beautiful child in the phone. I'm seeing videos out.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, she's she's she's showing more of him than me
these days.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Oh baby, already, don't don't start with your don't stop,
don't stop down.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
For anybody, for him? Come on, Hi, guys, how's everybody feeling?
You want a promo? Tom We got champagne because I
hear this is the end of your promo? Run for
your show tomorrow? Are you allowed to have she in paying?
Are you still knock this down? I'm still pumping.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Is that the only reason?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yes, Okay, I'm just wondering.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I could have been a gotcha?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay if she can't. If a woman can't drink, people.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
Even drink, you know that, Like I know what.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Was going on whenever, whenever, If I'm having any with
my girlfriends and somebody says they're not drinking today, everybody's like.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
She'd be like, I'm on anybody anyway, So what's happening? Show?
New show tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yes, I think this is my first time in the
presence of you two as husband and wife.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
By the way, I kind of love this.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It things different in like, I don't know, were you
different as boyfriend and girlfriend than you are as husban
She don't shut.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
The door in the bathroom no more. She just goes. Now.
It's just like, yeah, is that?
Speaker 1 (02:13):
But what about you? You close the door? No, he
does not close the door the door.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
It's like, hey, she got to see what come along
with it?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
You know, Well.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
There any surprises?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Are there any surprises about marriage that have popped up
for you guys that you didn't expect because you were
been in a relationship before, you've been in a relationship now,
but then marriage happens.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
And that.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Surprises. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
A pleasant surprise is that his temper has cooled down
a lot, really really has, Like he's he communicates yeah,
like ten years or fifteen years ago.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Zero one thousand, you know, there's no coming down.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You think marriage had something to do with that, or
you think he's just him growing growing up.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
I think it was definitely time and maturing. And I
feel like when both of us have a mutual common
respect for each other, we know, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Are you like comfortable now is that what it is?
Are you like settled into.
Speaker 7 (03:19):
This like, well, no, obviously that's her view, and I
appreciate it, No, because I understand.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
But my.
Speaker 7 (03:31):
Temper calm down a lot because she's a lot more
if I could say anything, understanding of other people's.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Considerate more, she's way more considerate.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
She's way more considerate of.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
So young was a little bit about her own world.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
No patient guy.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
That was.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
How that works together.
Speaker 7 (04:01):
Definitely, because we know, like at the end of the day,
don't it's not that big of a deal, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
And so what he's mad, he'll be over it. So
what she's mad, she'll get over it.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
In all fairness, I've had I've had a couple of
conversations with Ashanti my podcast, but we got to talk
about you.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
And you weren't even around.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, No, I wasn't there.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
So so I got her side of the spinning the block,
the being open to think she thought never in her life?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Did you think never in my life?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah? I pretty much. I said the l too.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
So you know, holding grudges is that your thing?
Speaker 7 (04:42):
That's our magic trick, you know what I mean? Like, definitely,
because we definitely feel like a lot. If we already are,
we don't trust. So when we trust and we go
in full steam like to kind of break that is.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
But what I learned is that.
Speaker 7 (05:01):
The positives way outweighed the negatives, you know what I mean.
And what you thought you needed to to be married
or to be in a relationship that was going to
carry you over the threshold, I didn't. Those things weren't
as big as what I was already getting.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Because sometimes with the things that you.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
Get, you overlook them because you're already getting them, so
you kind of you kind of expected, you know, So
you carry that into different relationships and now you're in
one where you just want to be You learned that
I just want to be appreciated at the end of
the day.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
You know what I mean. You can do this, you
can do that, but at the.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
No, I'm just saying, just want to feel loved as
a man.
Speaker 7 (05:44):
Because we don't always get heard, and then when we
when we do talk, the only time we are being
heard is when we are on a thousand.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Now you're listening to.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
Don't anybody now, I got your attention.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Now I'm listening.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
So how do you get her attention. Now as an
evolved Now.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
I can I can tell her, we can we can talk,
we can talk.
Speaker 7 (06:08):
I can say, oh, you know, I feel a certain
way about that, and I wasn't as great as communicated feelings. Yeah,
because I mean, you know the way that I grew
up my feelings. When you're always the new kid, your
opinion don't matter, dismissed. It's always somebody else's opinion that's
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over yours, whether it's watching TV, whether it's where you're
gonna eat, whether it's where you're gonna boom boom boom.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
And then you get to be older and.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
You're like, yo, I don't have to take this ship anymore.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I want to eat this, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (06:42):
And you you take that into other relationships, but unwarranted.
I'm letting certain things out on her that that that
she doesn't deserve.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
You know what I mean. So you learn how to
balance that ship?
Speaker 1 (06:54):
So much evolution here, guys, Yo, what are we going
to see on this show?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Because you a lot, but you also don't share a
lot of everything, right.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
You got to keep the balance.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, how would you do that?
Speaker 2 (07:08):
So I wonder on the show how much we're going
to say, like, I mean, obviously you got how wild
does it get? Like what's the realest moment?
Speaker 1 (07:20):
I mean, everything is real, that's the thing.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Like we have real lives, we have real careers. I'm
really a new mom, we're really newly wets that just
got married and had a child, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What I mean. So it's a lot. I felt like
we had.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
To find time for the cameras, you know what I'm saying,
because we are doing so many other things outside of that,
and I'm kind of just going along, you know what
I'm saying, Like this is a journey, you know what
I mean. So I feel like just us being organically
and authentically ourselves, we're navigating through that in real time.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
And there's people in your house with cameras.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
Yeah they're yeah, they're there. Then they're not there. Then
they might be there. Do you think they're there?
Speaker 4 (07:59):
They're in the car.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
I saw you on the camera on the i G Live.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Well she was in the bed, Yeah she was. She was.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Breastfeeding.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Come from because you know we were in Miami. I
know we was in Miami, but we came from eating.
He definitely had a Yeah.
Speaker 7 (08:22):
No, we went to the where do we go the
Salt Dude. But we went to the Salt Dude restaurant.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
We ate and we drank.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Well, I drank dank, and she doesn't drink, so I
got to drink her drink.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
You been drinking. I never drank ever, No, I don't drink.
Look so high you went up there, definitely have sick before.
I've never been drunk in your life. You have never
been drunk.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Never.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
You've never seen her drunk?
Speaker 3 (08:59):
No, not not not drunk, No, never drunk. Never drunk.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Can you imagine me drunk?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
I mean when yes, actually and a bikini and like
the Barbados. Yes, first your first and our first stint,
her first stint and I first drunk.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
No, that not the alcohol.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
But she's enrolled in the car with me or been
in the room before were contact. The second hand smoke
has probably had her a little over there, like.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
That's wa you ready to write?
Speaker 4 (09:35):
You want to put on the beat?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
How do you compare You're back in the day, boyfriend
Nelly versus your husband Nelly.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
That a lot more stamina, probably, No, I was.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
Just getting ready to say a lot more energy.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
We were just doing a lot.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
I was young, baby, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
You know what I mean? Amount of time? Oh you
mean younger? Now I can tell you know.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
When she was on the podcast, she said that she
had forgot how it went down, and she was very
pleased to be reminded.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
But see that was before we were living together every day.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
See you, it's amazing. It's different. Yeah, because then you
could save up.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
But when you live together, it's kind of like, Yo,
I got a meeting in the morning, you.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Know what I'm saying, Like, so yo, we keep it
spontaneous though, I pop up on that cracking man.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah, I'm trying to figure out. Sorry, ma, last.
Speaker 7 (10:48):
Night, listen that last night of this morning, the bathroom
is very inspirational.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
That's why that's where you get inspiration.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
You got inspiration in the shower real fast.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Yeah, we would have been real late bornerline regret asking
the question, I'm be honest, you're not gonna see that
in the show.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
You won't see that in the show.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
And yeah, yeah, all right, girlfriend of shanty back in
the day, young Nelly, girlfriend of shanty versus thrown Nelly
white a shanty.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
What is the difference? Oh no, she just tells me
what to do more.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
She does.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
She does.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
It's okay, you like she says it from a good place.
Don't you like it?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
You kind of like it?
Speaker 3 (11:34):
I mean, I'm not gonna say I like it.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
I understand you accept that.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
I understand it. I understand, babe.
Speaker 7 (11:40):
Don't put that right there, sit there right, don't move bag,
don't eat that here, try this, don't eat that.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
No, don't order that.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
D can't.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
No, don't order that.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
And then she got this goddamn app on her phone.
Let me tell you about this app.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
She got an app on this phone that I'm going
to freaking destroy it.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I don't know. I think that you wait that you
could want.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
You can go to hell with that. That's what need
to say.
Speaker 7 (12:07):
Listen, it is the worst thing that happened to anything
that tastes good.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
No, it is, by the way, by the way, it's
not only for food. It'll tell you the shampool much.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
Products, the worst thing, water everything.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
I want you to be around for a long time.
So that's like, I'm gonna be around cartinogens and it's my.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
System needs it.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
You never know, my sister, that might might be what
I'm running off of.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Look at me. Whatever I'm doing is working?
Speaker 5 (12:43):
Oh my god, oh man, well we needed to work forever.
Speaker 7 (12:48):
Well whatever you that app then took out, that's what
the energy, that's what it is probably in them.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Damn doritos.
Speaker 7 (12:54):
I can't no more give me my doritos, but probably
for three more folks is terrible.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
But it is so bad, you know what, you know,
it's so funny. We do this thing.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Here is the in real life questionnaire and now both
Nelly and Ashanti filled it out and they have all
their little.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Answers which we'll go through.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
But then there's one question on the questionnaire that says,
who is your celebrity crush? Nelly says not available, and
A that's what that means, right and not applicable either way.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
By the way, by the way, also not available.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Right.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Then you go over to Ashanti's page who is your
celebrity crush? I write nothing and it says n A no.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
We both said, Nelly.
Speaker 7 (14:03):
Your body that was give me a I got it girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
When they did that, yo, get that.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
I like this, like this makes me so happy for both.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I like you both happy and together so much more.
When when than when you were the Civil War?
Speaker 1 (14:26):
The Civil War, I liked this so much better. One
time we did an interview.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
I don't know if I told you this or he
told you this, and you said something he didn't like,
and you know who.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Got a call.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
You're gonna sit there and you're not going to challenge
the question. I thought we were straight.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
I knew you first.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
I was like, all right, you know you first knew
you first?
Speaker 2 (14:55):
Yes, yes, maybe I knew you first, Okay, all right,
yes ninety eight ninety oh, all right, thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I didn't think you said anything too bad. Probably did.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
It wasn't bad, but that's what it wasn't. That wasn't
the temper to me, it was a sign of that
he still cared about what you said, because I felt
like your feelings was a little bit hurt about what
she said.
Speaker 7 (15:19):
Well, yeah, I don't like narratives because then listen again
and it's it's like, yo, I'm a dickhead. I get that,
especially your younger version. But it wasn't all Nellie's fault.
Everything was getting put on Nelly.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Oh, I got it, and you were fighting for your
rights out here.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
It's just getting put on Nellie.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
And that just wasn't the case, and it was just like,
come on.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You're fighting for your rights.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
Yeah, and I'm like, you're not.
Speaker 7 (15:45):
Gonna dig a little more hands, You're just gonna let
that go.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
You're not You're you're a great.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Journalist, great, you know how to do this interview ship.
Speaker 7 (15:54):
You just let that slide like that, like she yeah,
because my baby get away with bad nyes and smiling
and everybody backs the fuck off, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
I might have been I might have been guilty of
that going hit a bad for me, but this is.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
A much better virtue. So you know, I don't have
to get a call for me to want to be
all right. We have a little game that we pull.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
First of all, let's let's get to show the shows
tomorrow night, right, like the yeah peacock very excited tours songs.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Yeah, we're a party at tour.
Speaker 7 (16:29):
We start the US leg now and spend the block
new song out right now.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
I mean, you guys are like you, that's the perfect
song for you, because you guys are like the poster
children of spind the block.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Yeah. It worked, it worked.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
I mean we don't suggest for everybody.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Ain't everybody, but we don't.
Speaker 7 (16:47):
Discourage for everybody. You know what I'm saying, Just don't
be afraid. If that's something that you want to try,
go for it, you know what I'm saying. But I'm
not here to give no relationship advice.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
No, so well, you're doing well, you could give relationship advice.
There's some young guy out there who hasn't gotten to
the place where you are now where you could have
somebody tell you what I tell you what to do.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Suggest what you should eat, and you take it the
way you do.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
I'm just saying, you're involved, you could give relationship You
are qualified.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
To give relationship advicece Man. For young guy.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Maybe five ten years younger, and he was thinking about
spending the block, what do you tell him.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Five ten years young? I don't know.
Speaker 7 (17:28):
I would Well, first of all, I would listen to
him to see if that's what he wants to truly
engage in. But then again, you know, you gotta hear
the relationship. Everybody's relationship is not probably going to be
with as much time and as much energy invested as
we did in the beginning. You know what I'm saying,
Like some people may think spend the block is somebody
(17:49):
that they dated, right, and yeah, you know what I'm saying, like, well,
I don't want to go back you will you never
really shouldn't if he gave you that black eye. I
don't think you should be going back to anybody else
putting their hands on you. You know what I mean,
Like abusic, a toxic, cosic, condescending, demeaning. Somebody was not
(18:11):
trying to prop you up. Somebody's disrespectful. There's a difference
between having a relationship and not seeing eye to eye
on certain things. And there's a difference between somebody that's
generally trying to keep you down or demean you are control.
Speaker 4 (18:26):
You know what I'm saying, Like that was never us.
Speaker 7 (18:29):
What was us was just trying to learn each other
a little bit more and understanding who we are because
this business was still creating her and it was still
creating me, you know what I mean. So that was
playing a huge role because she was she's she's an
alpha in her business. I'm an alpha in my business.
So now you got alphas colliding and I'm used to
(18:51):
getting what I want, She's used to getting what she wants,
and now we got to learn to get what we want.
And you know what I'm saying. And again that goes
back with having that bad herself. You know what, we
had way more good times than we had bad times.
It was just when the bad times came, the young
Nelly and the youngest Shanty was bulling.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
You know, we were bulling and it would blow up
to something unnecessarily, you know, so.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
And you learn how to manage that part.
Speaker 7 (19:18):
He ain't no sense in doing all that. It's not
it's never that bad. Yeah, it's just never that bad.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Like how bad could it really? Is it really that bad?
Is it really that bad?
Speaker 7 (19:27):
Is it that bad to where you don't want to
be seen with each other again? You don't want to say.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
The way Mom got so many little comments.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Back there, the whole peanut gallery.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
You know, I'm gonna get hurt in that chair one day.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
Oh my god, what is working on? Well?
Speaker 1 (19:44):
How long?
Speaker 4 (19:45):
How long is the anniversary coming up? How long?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
Oh yeah?
Speaker 4 (19:49):
How long is your and anniversary?
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Fifty years?
Speaker 3 (19:53):
I mean she can have comments. Let me tell you something.
She got thee she can comment on that.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Yeah, what a blessing. Definitely I'm putting Mom in the chair.
Anybody who stays mad for learn you're reading the book too.
Oh so she's going to be in the chair. I
guess she's gonna be in the We're gonna need that,
(20:22):
all right.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
So Tour Music Spinning the Blog reality show.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
We have a little segment on this.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
We've never done this with a couple. This is very exciting.
We have a segment on the show that young Ivy
does with me. Here is called check it or Let
It Slide.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
This is our couple's version of.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Check it or slide. I I'm excited. You want to
do something, I'll do something.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
Yes, go ahead, we go get you go With the
first one.
Speaker 8 (20:53):
They compliment your friend a little too hard, like, damn,
you look good.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
What do you mean to make you? Somebody else complimented him.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
No, complimented your friends, or she complimented his friend a
little too hard.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Okay, well, first, it depends on the friend. It depends
on the friend.
Speaker 7 (21:17):
If it's one of my friends that I know she's
being nice.
Speaker 3 (21:24):
If I know it's one of my friends that she's.
Speaker 4 (21:25):
Like epath, I gotta let slide be like, oh my,
that was nice.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
You boosted the morale, you know.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
If it's the handsome football play, don't.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Do no ship like.
Speaker 4 (21:41):
She's never gonna do that. She's never gonna she knows,
she knows.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
Do you check this or do you let it slide? Yeah?
You know that's not gonna happen. Now, it could be
Oh that's a nice dress. That's it. We got a
bell here, got a bell here? Check and check? Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Your partner posts a throwback of themselves from the era
that they were single, and the caption says I was outside.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Do you check it or let it slide?
Speaker 3 (22:20):
I mean, I think this has happened.
Speaker 7 (22:25):
I think this is this is maybe has happened. Maybe
not the exact caption, but it's definitely been a picture
to this insinuated that this was a time, was head
a time?
Speaker 1 (22:43):
So did you check it or did you let it slide?
Speaker 3 (22:46):
I let it slide.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
I let it slide slide in a comment, or but
I let it slide.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
I let it slide again. I mean, what can you do?
You know what I'm saying? What can you do? What
can you do?
Speaker 1 (22:57):
Do you have anything for that?
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Or what you just wanted to pass?
Speaker 5 (22:59):
So next one, I know who controls his Instagram, So
I just check.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
So that's a check.
Speaker 8 (23:11):
Check.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
You got one? Ivy go all right, go.
Speaker 8 (23:16):
Your partner publicly ranks their top five R and B
singers and you're not on it.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Check that ship. So that means we're checking.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
It, check.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Checking.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Is that for both sides? Top five rappers?
Speaker 7 (23:39):
And it's not about it's it's what rappers may make
the list.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
It's more about listen a list.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Out and you ain't on it.
Speaker 7 (23:52):
No, no, no, no no, because you know, you know how
I see certain things.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
I'm gonna bring my bread.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
You ain't gotta give me my flowers to get my bag,
bring my flowers to the gray. I don't care about
none of that. To a certain degree.
Speaker 4 (24:02):
If it's a rapper who I think she may like on.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
That list, then it's like, oh yeah, for real.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
If I have a shanty on my show and you're
not here and I say so, who are.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Your top five rappers?
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Like that's not you know, I'll tell you trip off
it like that.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
I don't you let it slide like that like that
Like that, it's.
Speaker 7 (24:26):
Like, now if it was ya, who was the top
five that had the biggest impact in mute rappers that
have had the biggest impact on the If.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
I'm not something like he says, it.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
It's impact. I know what my impact was.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
It depends on the category exactly.
Speaker 7 (24:42):
I'm not worried about lyricists. I didn't do nothing like that.
But he's just saying it exactly.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Like I know how I.
Speaker 7 (24:48):
Changed the game and how a lot of people were
singing after Nelly.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
I know the records.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I know what you let's talking ship, but from New York.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
From New York, what I'm saying, rather, it is different here.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
It's like gang banging in l A.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
It's different. Don't show another culture, you know, all right?
Speaker 1 (25:22):
I like that you talk. I like to see you
talk your ship.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Now you deserve to.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Talk your ship. Impact impact.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Your partner is texting during a deep conversation and says
I was listening.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Do you check it or do you let it slide?
You can't leave.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
That's a way of life. That is that is boy, listen.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
That was given guilty.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
I feel like I feel like we should move to
the next question.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
Quick, to the next one, Go to the next time.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
I try to check it, but it seems to keep happening.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh, I gotta go one.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
Your partner answers your phone without asking check it or
let it slide?
Speaker 1 (26:19):
I don't care.
Speaker 7 (26:20):
Yeah, I say, you gotta let it slide out. You
go check it, which you're scared of. I mean, this
is gonna be like you didn't want me to answer
to who was you expected? You know what I'm saying
like that, that's gonna go bad. So we let it slide.
No big deal in our house.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Have to Okay, you got one more, You get one more.
I'll get one more.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
Girlfriend. I think you better check it.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
If you're married, you have to let it slide.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
That's what that's one number.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Oh, come on, alright, I got one. You ready. She
gave you a little thing, you got your look at y'all?
All right? She laid your babyheads down for your.
Speaker 8 (27:06):
Partner, makes a joke about how their ex used to
do something better.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
M Yeah, you better check that.
Speaker 6 (27:13):
Ship.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Mom is definitely checking it. Everybody should check that one thing.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
I don't think I'm brave enough to say.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
No ship like that.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
You gotta be brave.
Speaker 7 (27:25):
You're trying to split up.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
You don't want to be here, you don't want to
you trying to get out of there.
Speaker 2 (27:32):
On that.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
You should check yourself.
Speaker 4 (27:34):
If you say that to.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
Your partner, your bags already packed before you say it.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Okay, your partner uses your favorite inside joke with someone else.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Do we like that one?
Speaker 1 (27:50):
I could give you a better one. So you guys
have an.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Inside joke and you're in the room and your partnership
is the inside joke with someone else, with someone else?
Speaker 3 (28:02):
I think I think it depends who it is. Yeah,
I think it depends.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
On Oh no, that this is a better one.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Okay, oh god.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Okay, And for our final and for our final, check
it or let it slide? No, Lana Shanti, your partner
receives an award and they forget to thank you in
their award speech.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
Do you check it?
Speaker 3 (28:24):
Am I?
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Let it slide?
Speaker 3 (28:25):
Am I there? Am I at the awards show.
Speaker 7 (28:28):
I'm going up there, Kanye, I'm also Kanye Kyte.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
Bring that back kind of years ago. I'm sorry, do
that again?
Speaker 7 (28:47):
Go ahead, tell him what it is because yeah, yeah,
we know you messed up.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
That's all right, mama, You know that that was amazing.
Speaker 5 (29:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Absolutely, you can't wait to see the show tomorrow. Tell
everybody what they need to know. Tell them tomorrow for
the show tomorrow stream on Peacock.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Yeah, man, shout out to Peacock.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
We belong together all eight episode and the tour.
Speaker 7 (29:30):
Tour US is starting the next couple of weeks. Spin
the blockings out right now. We got Apple Bombs back.
Speaker 3 (29:37):
To thank all the ladies that's out there supporting doing
that thing. Definitely a record coming out.
Speaker 5 (29:44):
Called you up, very excited about that, called me up.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
Yes.
Speaker 7 (29:55):
After he called me up, he called you first, right, Yes,
And I'm gonna do the remix called FaceTime.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
I'm gonna do the remake.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Whatever you did, it worked, well done, sir done. Leave
a shot to everybody.
Oh my goodness, Nellie and.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
I thought this day would never come for the three
of us to be in the room together and get
that they're two happily married, ready to launch a show.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
Beautiful child in the phone. I'm seeing videos out.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Yeah, she's she's she's showing more of him than me
these days.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Oh baby, already, don't don't start with your don't stop,
don't stop down.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
For anybody, for him? Come on, Hi, guys, how's everybody feeling?
You want a promo? Tom We got champagne because I
hear this is the end of your promo? Run for
your show tomorrow? Are you allowed to have she in paying?
Are you still knock this down? I'm still pumping.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Is that the only reason?
Speaker 1 (01:06):
Yes, Okay, I'm just wondering.
Speaker 2 (01:11):
I could have been a gotcha?
Speaker 1 (01:15):
Okay if she can't. If a woman can't drink, people.
Speaker 5 (01:21):
Even drink, you know that, Like I know what.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Was going on whenever, whenever, If I'm having any with
my girlfriends and somebody says they're not drinking today, everybody's like.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
She'd be like, I'm on anybody anyway, So what's happening? Show?
New show tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (01:44):
Yes, I think this is my first time in the
presence of you two as husband and wife.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
By the way, I kind of love this.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
It things different in like, I don't know, were you
different as boyfriend and girlfriend than you are as husban
She don't shut.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
The door in the bathroom no more. She just goes. Now.
It's just like, yeah, is that?
Speaker 1 (02:13):
But what about you? You close the door? No, he
does not close the door the door.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
It's like, hey, she got to see what come along
with it?
Speaker 3 (02:23):
You know, Well.
Speaker 1 (02:24):
There any surprises?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Are there any surprises about marriage that have popped up
for you guys that you didn't expect because you were
been in a relationship before, you've been in a relationship now,
but then marriage happens.
Speaker 6 (02:38):
And that.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
Surprises. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (02:42):
A pleasant surprise is that his temper has cooled down
a lot, really really has, Like he's he communicates yeah,
like ten years or fifteen years ago.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Zero one thousand, you know, there's no coming down.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
You think marriage had something to do with that, or
you think he's just him growing growing up.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
I think it was definitely time and maturing. And I
feel like when both of us have a mutual common
respect for each other, we know, you know.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Are you like comfortable now is that what it is?
Are you like settled into.
Speaker 7 (03:19):
This like, well, no, obviously that's her view, and I
appreciate it, No, because I understand.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
But my.
Speaker 7 (03:31):
Temper calm down a lot because she's a lot more
if I could say anything, understanding of other people's.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Considerate more, she's way more considerate.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
She's way more considerate of.
Speaker 1 (03:46):
So young was a little bit about her own world.
Speaker 3 (03:54):
No patient guy.
Speaker 7 (03:56):
That was.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
How that works together.
Speaker 7 (04:01):
Definitely, because we know, like at the end of the day,
don't it's not that big of a deal, you know
what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
And so what he's mad, he'll be over it. So
what she's mad, she'll get over it.
Speaker 2 (04:13):
In all fairness, I've had I've had a couple of
conversations with Ashanti my podcast, but we got to talk
about you.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
And you weren't even around.
Speaker 3 (04:23):
Yeah, No, I wasn't there.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
So so I got her side of the spinning the block,
the being open to think she thought never in her life?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
Did you think never in my life?
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Yeah? I pretty much. I said the l too.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
So you know, holding grudges is that your thing?
Speaker 7 (04:42):
That's our magic trick, you know what I mean? Like, definitely,
because we definitely feel like a lot. If we already are,
we don't trust. So when we trust and we go
in full steam like to kind of break that is.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
But what I learned is that.
Speaker 7 (05:01):
The positives way outweighed the negatives, you know what I mean.
And what you thought you needed to to be married
or to be in a relationship that was going to
carry you over the threshold, I didn't. Those things weren't
as big as what I was already getting.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Because sometimes with the things that you.
Speaker 7 (05:19):
Get, you overlook them because you're already getting them, so
you kind of you kind of expected, you know, So
you carry that into different relationships and now you're in
one where you just want to be You learned that
I just want to be appreciated at the end of
the day.
Speaker 3 (05:35):
You know what I mean. You can do this, you
can do that, but at the.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
No, I'm just saying, just want to feel loved as
a man.
Speaker 7 (05:44):
Because we don't always get heard, and then when we
when we do talk, the only time we are being
heard is when we are on a thousand.
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Now you're listening to.
Speaker 7 (05:56):
Don't anybody now, I got your attention.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
Now I'm listening.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
So how do you get her attention. Now as an
evolved Now.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
I can I can tell her, we can we can talk,
we can talk.
Speaker 7 (06:08):
I can say, oh, you know, I feel a certain
way about that, and I wasn't as great as communicated feelings. Yeah,
because I mean, you know the way that I grew
up my feelings. When you're always the new kid, your
opinion don't matter, dismissed. It's always somebody else's opinion that's
(06:30):
over yours, whether it's watching TV, whether it's where you're
gonna eat, whether it's where you're gonna boom boom boom.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
And then you get to be older and.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
You're like, yo, I don't have to take this ship anymore.
Speaker 3 (06:40):
I want to eat this, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (06:42):
And you you take that into other relationships, but unwarranted.
I'm letting certain things out on her that that that
she doesn't deserve.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
You know what I mean. So you learn how to
balance that ship?
Speaker 1 (06:54):
So much evolution here, guys, Yo, what are we going
to see on this show?
Speaker 2 (06:58):
Because you a lot, but you also don't share a
lot of everything, right.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
You got to keep the balance.
Speaker 3 (07:07):
Yeah, how would you do that?
Speaker 2 (07:08):
So I wonder on the show how much we're going
to say, like, I mean, obviously you got how wild
does it get? Like what's the realest moment?
Speaker 1 (07:20):
I mean, everything is real, that's the thing.
Speaker 5 (07:22):
Like we have real lives, we have real careers. I'm
really a new mom, we're really newly wets that just
got married and had a child, you know.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What I mean. So it's a lot. I felt like
we had.
Speaker 5 (07:33):
To find time for the cameras, you know what I'm saying,
because we are doing so many other things outside of that,
and I'm kind of just going along, you know what
I'm saying, Like this is a journey, you know what
I mean. So I feel like just us being organically
and authentically ourselves, we're navigating through that in real time.
Speaker 1 (07:52):
And there's people in your house with cameras.
Speaker 3 (07:54):
Yeah they're yeah, they're there. Then they're not there. Then
they might be there. Do you think they're there?
Speaker 4 (07:59):
They're in the car.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
I saw you on the camera on the i G Live.
Speaker 2 (08:03):
Well she was in the bed, Yeah she was. She was.
Speaker 1 (08:13):
Breastfeeding.
Speaker 5 (08:14):
Come from because you know we were in Miami. I
know we was in Miami, but we came from eating.
He definitely had a Yeah.
Speaker 7 (08:22):
No, we went to the where do we go the
Salt Dude. But we went to the Salt Dude restaurant.
Speaker 3 (08:33):
We ate and we drank.
Speaker 4 (08:36):
Well, I drank dank, and she doesn't drink, so I
got to drink her drink.
Speaker 1 (08:41):
You been drinking. I never drank ever, No, I don't drink.
Look so high you went up there, definitely have sick before.
I've never been drunk in your life. You have never
been drunk.
Speaker 3 (08:57):
Never.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
You've never seen her drunk?
Speaker 3 (08:59):
No, not not not drunk, No, never drunk. Never drunk.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
Can you imagine me drunk?
Speaker 2 (09:05):
I mean when yes, actually and a bikini and like
the Barbados. Yes, first your first and our first stint,
her first stint and I first drunk.
Speaker 3 (09:18):
No, that not the alcohol.
Speaker 7 (09:20):
But she's enrolled in the car with me or been
in the room before were contact. The second hand smoke
has probably had her a little over there, like.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
That's wa you ready to write?
Speaker 4 (09:35):
You want to put on the beat?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
I love that.
Speaker 2 (09:39):
How do you compare You're back in the day, boyfriend
Nelly versus your husband Nelly.
Speaker 4 (09:46):
That a lot more stamina, probably, No, I was.
Speaker 5 (09:50):
Just getting ready to say a lot more energy.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
We were just doing a lot.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
I was young, baby, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
You know what I mean? Amount of time? Oh you
mean younger? Now I can tell you know.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
When she was on the podcast, she said that she
had forgot how it went down, and she was very
pleased to be reminded.
Speaker 4 (10:19):
But see that was before we were living together every day.
Speaker 3 (10:21):
See you, it's amazing. It's different. Yeah, because then you
could save up.
Speaker 7 (10:26):
But when you live together, it's kind of like, Yo,
I got a meeting in the morning, you.
Speaker 3 (10:33):
Know what I'm saying, Like, so yo, we keep it
spontaneous though, I pop up on that cracking man.
Speaker 1 (10:43):
Yeah, I'm trying to figure out. Sorry, ma, last.
Speaker 7 (10:48):
Night, listen that last night of this morning, the bathroom
is very inspirational.
Speaker 1 (10:54):
That's why that's where you get inspiration.
Speaker 4 (10:57):
You got inspiration in the shower real fast.
Speaker 2 (11:00):
Yeah, we would have been real late bornerline regret asking
the question, I'm be honest, you're not gonna see that
in the show.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
You won't see that in the show.
Speaker 6 (11:09):
And yeah, yeah, all right, girlfriend of shanty back in
the day, young Nelly, girlfriend of shanty versus thrown Nelly
white a shanty.
Speaker 3 (11:23):
What is the difference? Oh no, she just tells me
what to do more.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
She does.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
She does.
Speaker 4 (11:29):
It's okay, you like she says it from a good place.
Don't you like it?
Speaker 1 (11:33):
You kind of like it?
Speaker 3 (11:34):
I mean, I'm not gonna say I like it.
Speaker 1 (11:36):
I understand you accept that.
Speaker 3 (11:38):
I understand it. I understand, babe.
Speaker 7 (11:40):
Don't put that right there, sit there right, don't move bag,
don't eat that here, try this, don't eat that.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
No, don't order that.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
D can't.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
No, don't order that.
Speaker 7 (11:49):
And then she got this goddamn app on her phone.
Let me tell you about this app.
Speaker 4 (11:53):
She got an app on this phone that I'm going
to freaking destroy it.
Speaker 1 (11:57):
I don't know. I think that you wait that you
could want.
Speaker 3 (12:03):
You can go to hell with that. That's what need
to say.
Speaker 7 (12:07):
Listen, it is the worst thing that happened to anything
that tastes good.
Speaker 2 (12:11):
No, it is, by the way, by the way, it's
not only for food. It'll tell you the shampool much.
Speaker 5 (12:18):
Products, the worst thing, water everything.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
I want you to be around for a long time.
So that's like, I'm gonna be around cartinogens and it's my.
Speaker 3 (12:28):
System needs it.
Speaker 4 (12:30):
You never know, my sister, that might might be what
I'm running off of.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Look at me. Whatever I'm doing is working?
Speaker 5 (12:43):
Oh my god, oh man, well we needed to work forever.
Speaker 7 (12:48):
Well whatever you that app then took out, that's what
the energy, that's what it is probably in them.
Speaker 3 (12:54):
Damn doritos.
Speaker 7 (12:54):
I can't no more give me my doritos, but probably
for three more folks is terrible.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
But it is so bad, you know what, you know,
it's so funny. We do this thing.
Speaker 2 (13:08):
Here is the in real life questionnaire and now both
Nelly and Ashanti filled it out and they have all
their little.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Answers which we'll go through.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
But then there's one question on the questionnaire that says,
who is your celebrity crush? Nelly says not available, and
A that's what that means, right and not applicable either way.
Speaker 1 (13:27):
By the way, by the way, also not available.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
Right.
Speaker 2 (13:33):
Then you go over to Ashanti's page who is your
celebrity crush? I write nothing and it says n A no.
Speaker 3 (13:43):
We both said, Nelly.
Speaker 7 (14:03):
Your body that was give me a I got it girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (14:12):
When they did that, yo, get that.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
I like this, like this makes me so happy for both.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I like you both happy and together so much more.
When when than when you were the Civil War?
Speaker 1 (14:26):
The Civil War, I liked this so much better. One
time we did an interview.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
I don't know if I told you this or he
told you this, and you said something he didn't like,
and you know who.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Got a call.
Speaker 3 (14:39):
You're gonna sit there and you're not going to challenge
the question. I thought we were straight.
Speaker 1 (14:46):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (14:47):
I knew you first.
Speaker 1 (14:48):
I was like, all right, you know you first knew
you first?
Speaker 2 (14:55):
Yes, yes, maybe I knew you first, Okay, all right,
yes ninety eight ninety oh, all right, thank you.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
I didn't think you said anything too bad. Probably did.
Speaker 2 (15:07):
It wasn't bad, but that's what it wasn't. That wasn't
the temper to me, it was a sign of that
he still cared about what you said, because I felt
like your feelings was a little bit hurt about what
she said.
Speaker 7 (15:19):
Well, yeah, I don't like narratives because then listen again
and it's it's like, yo, I'm a dickhead. I get that,
especially your younger version. But it wasn't all Nellie's fault.
Everything was getting put on Nelly.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Oh, I got it, and you were fighting for your
rights out here.
Speaker 1 (15:38):
It's just getting put on Nellie.
Speaker 4 (15:40):
And that just wasn't the case, and it was just like,
come on.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You're fighting for your rights.
Speaker 3 (15:44):
Yeah, and I'm like, you're not.
Speaker 7 (15:45):
Gonna dig a little more hands, You're just gonna let
that go.
Speaker 3 (15:49):
You're not You're you're a great.
Speaker 4 (15:51):
Journalist, great, you know how to do this interview ship.
Speaker 7 (15:54):
You just let that slide like that, like she yeah,
because my baby get away with bad nyes and smiling
and everybody backs the fuck off, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (16:07):
I might have been I might have been guilty of
that going hit a bad for me, but this is.
Speaker 1 (16:11):
A much better virtue. So you know, I don't have
to get a call for me to want to be
all right. We have a little game that we pull.
Speaker 2 (16:18):
First of all, let's let's get to show the shows
tomorrow night, right, like the yeah peacock very excited tours songs.
Speaker 3 (16:28):
Yeah, we're a party at tour.
Speaker 7 (16:29):
We start the US leg now and spend the block
new song out right now.
Speaker 2 (16:34):
I mean, you guys are like you, that's the perfect
song for you, because you guys are like the poster
children of spind the block.
Speaker 3 (16:40):
Yeah. It worked, it worked.
Speaker 2 (16:42):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
I mean we don't suggest for everybody.
Speaker 1 (16:46):
Ain't everybody, but we don't.
Speaker 7 (16:47):
Discourage for everybody. You know what I'm saying, Just don't
be afraid. If that's something that you want to try,
go for it, you know what I'm saying. But I'm
not here to give no relationship advice.
Speaker 2 (16:56):
No, so well, you're doing well, you could give relationship advice.
There's some young guy out there who hasn't gotten to
the place where you are now where you could have
somebody tell you what I tell you what to do.
Speaker 1 (17:11):
Suggest what you should eat, and you take it the
way you do.
Speaker 2 (17:14):
I'm just saying, you're involved, you could give relationship You
are qualified.
Speaker 1 (17:18):
To give relationship advicece Man. For young guy.
Speaker 2 (17:22):
Maybe five ten years younger, and he was thinking about
spending the block, what do you tell him.
Speaker 3 (17:26):
Five ten years young? I don't know.
Speaker 7 (17:28):
I would Well, first of all, I would listen to
him to see if that's what he wants to truly
engage in. But then again, you know, you gotta hear
the relationship. Everybody's relationship is not probably going to be
with as much time and as much energy invested as
we did in the beginning. You know what I'm saying,
Like some people may think spend the block is somebody
(17:49):
that they dated, right, and yeah, you know what I'm saying, like, well,
I don't want to go back you will you never
really shouldn't if he gave you that black eye. I
don't think you should be going back to anybody else
putting their hands on you. You know what I mean,
Like abusic, a toxic, cosic, condescending, demeaning. Somebody was not
(18:11):
trying to prop you up. Somebody's disrespectful. There's a difference
between having a relationship and not seeing eye to eye
on certain things. And there's a difference between somebody that's
generally trying to keep you down or demean you are control.
Speaker 4 (18:26):
You know what I'm saying, Like that was never us.
Speaker 7 (18:29):
What was us was just trying to learn each other
a little bit more and understanding who we are because
this business was still creating her and it was still
creating me, you know what I mean. So that was
playing a huge role because she was she's she's an
alpha in her business. I'm an alpha in my business.
So now you got alphas colliding and I'm used to
(18:51):
getting what I want, She's used to getting what she wants,
and now we got to learn to get what we want.
And you know what I'm saying. And again that goes
back with having that bad herself. You know what, we
had way more good times than we had bad times.
It was just when the bad times came, the young
Nelly and the youngest Shanty was bulling.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
You know, we were bulling and it would blow up
to something unnecessarily, you know, so.
Speaker 1 (19:16):
And you learn how to manage that part.
Speaker 7 (19:18):
He ain't no sense in doing all that. It's not
it's never that bad. Yeah, it's just never that bad.
Speaker 3 (19:23):
Like how bad could it really? Is it really that bad?
Is it really that bad?
Speaker 7 (19:27):
Is it that bad to where you don't want to
be seen with each other again? You don't want to say.
Speaker 1 (19:33):
The way Mom got so many little comments.
Speaker 5 (19:35):
Back there, the whole peanut gallery.
Speaker 1 (19:38):
You know, I'm gonna get hurt in that chair one day.
Speaker 3 (19:41):
Oh my god, what is working on? Well?
Speaker 1 (19:44):
How long?
Speaker 4 (19:45):
How long is the anniversary coming up? How long?
Speaker 1 (19:48):
Oh yeah?
Speaker 4 (19:49):
How long is your and anniversary?
Speaker 1 (19:52):
Fifty years?
Speaker 3 (19:53):
I mean she can have comments. Let me tell you something.
She got thee she can comment on that.
Speaker 1 (20:01):
Yeah, what a blessing. Definitely I'm putting Mom in the chair.
Anybody who stays mad for learn you're reading the book too.
Oh so she's going to be in the chair. I
guess she's gonna be in the We're gonna need that,
(20:22):
all right.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
So Tour Music Spinning the Blog reality show.
Speaker 1 (20:28):
We have a little segment on this.
Speaker 2 (20:31):
We've never done this with a couple. This is very exciting.
We have a segment on the show that young Ivy
does with me. Here is called check it or Let
It Slide.
Speaker 1 (20:41):
This is our couple's version of.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
Check it or slide. I I'm excited. You want to
do something, I'll do something.
Speaker 1 (20:50):
Yes, go ahead, we go get you go With the
first one.
Speaker 8 (20:53):
They compliment your friend a little too hard, like, damn,
you look good.
Speaker 1 (20:58):
What do you mean to make you? Somebody else complimented him.
Speaker 2 (21:04):
No, complimented your friends, or she complimented his friend a
little too hard.
Speaker 3 (21:10):
Okay, well, first, it depends on the friend. It depends
on the friend.
Speaker 7 (21:17):
If it's one of my friends that I know she's
being nice.
Speaker 3 (21:24):
If I know it's one of my friends that she's.
Speaker 4 (21:25):
Like epath, I gotta let slide be like, oh my,
that was nice.
Speaker 3 (21:32):
You boosted the morale, you know.
Speaker 1 (21:35):
If it's the handsome football play, don't.
Speaker 3 (21:37):
Do no ship like.
Speaker 4 (21:41):
She's never gonna do that. She's never gonna she knows,
she knows.
Speaker 1 (21:44):
Do you check this or do you let it slide? Yeah?
You know that's not gonna happen. Now, it could be
Oh that's a nice dress. That's it. We got a
bell here, got a bell here? Check and check? Okay.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Your partner posts a throwback of themselves from the era
that they were single, and the caption says I was outside.
Speaker 1 (22:15):
Do you check it or let it slide?
Speaker 3 (22:20):
I mean, I think this has happened.
Speaker 7 (22:25):
I think this is this is maybe has happened. Maybe
not the exact caption, but it's definitely been a picture
to this insinuated that this was a time, was head
a time?
Speaker 1 (22:43):
So did you check it or did you let it slide?
Speaker 3 (22:46):
I let it slide.
Speaker 4 (22:47):
I let it slide slide in a comment, or but
I let it slide.
Speaker 3 (22:51):
I let it slide again. I mean, what can you do?
You know what I'm saying? What can you do? What
can you do?
Speaker 1 (22:57):
Do you have anything for that?
Speaker 4 (22:58):
Or what you just wanted to pass?
Speaker 5 (22:59):
So next one, I know who controls his Instagram, So
I just check.
Speaker 1 (23:10):
So that's a check.
Speaker 8 (23:11):
Check.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
You got one? Ivy go all right, go.
Speaker 8 (23:16):
Your partner publicly ranks their top five R and B
singers and you're not on it.
Speaker 3 (23:23):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (23:27):
Check that ship. So that means we're checking.
Speaker 3 (23:34):
It, check.
Speaker 4 (23:36):
Checking.
Speaker 1 (23:37):
Is that for both sides? Top five rappers?
Speaker 7 (23:39):
And it's not about it's it's what rappers may make
the list.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
It's more about listen a list.
Speaker 1 (23:51):
Out and you ain't on it.
Speaker 7 (23:52):
No, no, no, no no, because you know, you know how
I see certain things.
Speaker 3 (23:55):
I'm gonna bring my bread.
Speaker 7 (23:57):
You ain't gotta give me my flowers to get my bag,
bring my flowers to the gray. I don't care about
none of that. To a certain degree.
Speaker 4 (24:02):
If it's a rapper who I think she may like on.
Speaker 3 (24:05):
That list, then it's like, oh yeah, for real.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
If I have a shanty on my show and you're
not here and I say so, who are.
Speaker 1 (24:13):
Your top five rappers?
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Like that's not you know, I'll tell you trip off
it like that.
Speaker 1 (24:19):
I don't you let it slide like that like that
Like that, it's.
Speaker 7 (24:26):
Like, now if it was ya, who was the top
five that had the biggest impact in mute rappers that
have had the biggest impact on the If.
Speaker 1 (24:35):
I'm not something like he says, it.
Speaker 3 (24:37):
It's impact. I know what my impact was.
Speaker 1 (24:40):
It depends on the category exactly.
Speaker 7 (24:42):
I'm not worried about lyricists. I didn't do nothing like that.
But he's just saying it exactly.
Speaker 1 (24:47):
Like I know how I.
Speaker 7 (24:48):
Changed the game and how a lot of people were
singing after Nelly.
Speaker 3 (24:52):
I know the records.
Speaker 1 (24:58):
I know what you let's talking ship, but from New York.
Speaker 3 (25:12):
From New York, what I'm saying, rather, it is different here.
Speaker 1 (25:15):
It's like gang banging in l A.
Speaker 3 (25:17):
It's different. Don't show another culture, you know, all right?
Speaker 1 (25:22):
I like that you talk. I like to see you
talk your ship.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
Now you deserve to.
Speaker 1 (25:26):
Talk your ship. Impact impact.
Speaker 2 (25:29):
Your partner is texting during a deep conversation and says
I was listening.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
Do you check it or do you let it slide?
You can't leave.
Speaker 3 (25:50):
That's a way of life. That is that is boy, listen.
Speaker 1 (25:56):
That was given guilty.
Speaker 2 (25:57):
I feel like I feel like we should move to
the next question.
Speaker 1 (26:01):
Quick, to the next one, Go to the next time.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
I try to check it, but it seems to keep happening.
Speaker 1 (26:11):
Oh, I gotta go one.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
Your partner answers your phone without asking check it or
let it slide?
Speaker 1 (26:19):
I don't care.
Speaker 7 (26:20):
Yeah, I say, you gotta let it slide out. You
go check it, which you're scared of. I mean, this
is gonna be like you didn't want me to answer
to who was you expected? You know what I'm saying
like that, that's gonna go bad. So we let it slide.
No big deal in our house.
Speaker 1 (26:37):
Have to Okay, you got one more, You get one more.
I'll get one more.
Speaker 3 (26:41):
Girlfriend. I think you better check it.
Speaker 4 (26:43):
If you're married, you have to let it slide.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
That's what that's one number.
Speaker 2 (26:47):
Mm hmm.
Speaker 1 (26:48):
Oh, come on, alright, I got one. You ready. She
gave you a little thing, you got your look at y'all?
All right? She laid your babyheads down for your.
Speaker 8 (27:06):
Partner, makes a joke about how their ex used to
do something better.
Speaker 3 (27:10):
M Yeah, you better check that.
Speaker 6 (27:13):
Ship.
Speaker 1 (27:13):
Mom is definitely checking it. Everybody should check that one thing.
Speaker 3 (27:18):
I don't think I'm brave enough to say.
Speaker 4 (27:20):
No ship like that.
Speaker 3 (27:22):
You gotta be brave.
Speaker 7 (27:25):
You're trying to split up.
Speaker 1 (27:28):
You don't want to be here, you don't want to
you trying to get out of there.
Speaker 2 (27:32):
On that.
Speaker 1 (27:33):
You should check yourself.
Speaker 4 (27:34):
If you say that to.
Speaker 7 (27:35):
Your partner, your bags already packed before you say it.
Speaker 2 (27:42):
Okay, your partner uses your favorite inside joke with someone else.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
Do we like that one?
Speaker 1 (27:50):
I could give you a better one. So you guys
have an.
Speaker 2 (27:55):
Inside joke and you're in the room and your partnership
is the inside joke with someone else, with someone else?
Speaker 3 (28:02):
I think I think it depends who it is. Yeah,
I think it depends.
Speaker 1 (28:06):
On Oh no, that this is a better one.
Speaker 3 (28:07):
Okay, oh god.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Okay, And for our final and for our final, check
it or let it slide? No, Lana Shanti, your partner
receives an award and they forget to thank you in
their award speech.
Speaker 1 (28:22):
Do you check it?
Speaker 3 (28:24):
Am I?
Speaker 1 (28:24):
Let it slide?
Speaker 3 (28:25):
Am I there? Am I at the awards show.
Speaker 7 (28:28):
I'm going up there, Kanye, I'm also Kanye Kyte.
Speaker 3 (28:40):
Bring that back kind of years ago. I'm sorry, do
that again?
Speaker 7 (28:47):
Go ahead, tell him what it is because yeah, yeah,
we know you messed up.
Speaker 3 (28:56):
That's all right, mama, You know that that was amazing.
Speaker 5 (29:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (29:06):
Absolutely, you can't wait to see the show tomorrow. Tell
everybody what they need to know. Tell them tomorrow for
the show tomorrow stream on Peacock.
Speaker 3 (29:22):
Yeah, man, shout out to Peacock.
Speaker 1 (29:23):
We belong together all eight episode and the tour.
Speaker 7 (29:30):
Tour US is starting the next couple of weeks. Spin
the blockings out right now. We got Apple Bombs back.
Speaker 3 (29:37):
To thank all the ladies that's out there supporting doing
that thing. Definitely a record coming out.
Speaker 5 (29:44):
Called you up, very excited about that, called me up.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
Yes.
Speaker 7 (29:55):
After he called me up, he called you first, right, Yes,
And I'm gonna do the remix called FaceTime.
Speaker 4 (30:10):
I'm gonna do the remake.
Speaker 1 (30:11):
Whatever you did, it worked, well done, sir done. Leave
a shot to everybody.
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