Tatum opens the episode reflecting on her recent midterm fatigue and decision to take a mental health day. She thanks listeners for their patience and reminds them that the podcast is a ministry, not a job. This space is about service — not clout, income, or obligation.
“Part of taking what God entrusts to us seriously is knowing when we don’t have it to give — and honoring that.”
[1:56] Listener Q&A Introduction
After receiving dozens of thoughtful questions from her audience, Tatum shares that she’ll be answering them over two upcoming episodes. She also hints at bringing back past guests whose lives and testimonies have evolved since their first appearance.
[3:02] Question 1: Why Does It Feel Like Everyone Else Is Getting Blessed But Me?
A listener in her 30s shares feelings of discouragement watching others get married, have children, and advance in their careers while she continues to wait on God.
Scripture Focus: Philippians 4:10–13 (NLT)
“I have learned how to be content with whatever I have… for I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.”
Highlights:
- [4:26] Paul’s contentment wasn’t rooted in circumstances, but in Christ.
- [6:02] The enemy often exploits waiting seasons to sow doubt and comparison.
- [7:29] Protect your vulnerabilities — unfollow triggers, set digital boundaries.
- [9:18] Learn to desire the Giver more than the gift.
- [10:11] Tatum shares how she met her husband in God’s timing, not her own.
- [13:18] Create “safeguards of contentment” through prayer, scripture, and boundaries.
Key Takeaway:
True peace in waiting comes when your fulfillment is anchored in God’s presence, not His performance.
[15:23] Question 2: How Do I Set Boundaries as a Mom Starting a Business?
A listener asks for guidance on balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship without losing focus on God’s purpose.
Highlights:
- [16:30] The first boundary to establish is with yourself.
- [17:05] Balance is a myth — pursue harmony through alignment with God.
- [18:30] Tatum’s 3 personal boundaries:
- Stay connected to the Vine (John 15).
- Keep priorities in divine order.
- Do every assignment with excellence.
- [21:07] Boundaries are about stewardship, not restriction.
Spiritual Insight:
“Your ambition should never come at the expense of your assignment at home.”
[22:22] Bonus Segment: God-Led Business Strategy
Tatum shifts into strategist mode, walking listeners through how to build a business from the ground up with divine order and practicality.
Highlights:
- [23:28] Start with a clear business plan — use SBA.gov templates.
- [24:31] Validate your idea before marketing it.
- [25:47] Businesses fail when they don’t solve real problems.
- [26:30] Marketing is a byproduct of strategy, not the starting point.
Takeaway:
Build from the blueprint God gives you — not the algorithm’s trends.
[27:00] Question 3: How Did You Stay Focused When People Doubted You?
A listener who recently quit her 9–5 asks how to stay steadfast when others question her calling.
Highlights:
- [28:01] Tatum recalls the doubtful reactions when she left her job to start Anchored Media.
- [28:48] How she turned fear into fuel by focusing on work, not validation.
- [29:58] The importance of a supportive community of faith-driven entrepreneurs.
- [31:09] Stay quiet about your progress — let the fruit speak.
Key Takeaway:
“When God gives you the vision, He’ll also give you the proof — but you have to build first.”
[32:32] Question 4: Preparing for Motherhood as a Married Entrepreneur
A listener asks how to spiritually and practically prepare for motherhood while running a business.
Highlights:
- [33:48] Create a relationship bucket list — enjoy your marriage before kids.
- [36:02] Build rhythms of connection (weekly date nights, intentional check-ins).
- [36:41] Individual and joint therapy before kids is an act of preparation, not repair.
- [38:07] Men need emotional support too — they carry provision pressure.
- [39:29] Protect your marriage from being consumed by parenthood.
- [40:46] Create a “Happy List” for postpartum joy and mental health support.
- [42:59] Audit your business:
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