46: Rules of Engagement, Hot Takes, and A Sister Rivalry with Lucette Brown

Ever been caught in sibling competition over life milestones?

In this episode, Christa Innis and Lucette Brown dive into one listener’s wild tale of wedding conflicts. They cover topics such as handling toxic relationships, sibling rivalry, and balancing personal happiness with family expectations. The episode also includes unpopular opinions on wedding traditions, a humorous take on wedding speeches gone wrong, and the pressures of planning events. The episode ends with a rapid-fire Q&A about event planning and a heartfelt discussion on maintaining supportive family relationships.

Join Christa and Lucette Brown as they unpack jealousy, toxicity, and the importance of support in family dynamics—plus, discover how to survive wedding chaos without losing your sanity.

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Must-Hear Insights and Key Moments

• Engagement Jealousy – Listener feels overlooked as her sister gets proposed to first despite being “less established.”
• Diamond Drama – Comparison of a real diamond versus an Etsy ring sparks tension and hurt feelings.
• Dress Appointment Feuds – Fat-phobic comments create conflict between sisters during bridesmaid dress shopping.
• Wedding Route Differences – One sister chooses Vegas elopement while the other plans a traditional wedding, escalating rivalry.
• Maid of Honor Dispute – Listener isn’t chosen as sister’s maid of honor, highlighting boundary and favoritism issues.
• Family Dynamics & Toxicity – Pent-up anger and competition reveal deeper familial struggles.
• Lesson in Support – Christa and Lucette discuss the importance of healthy boundaries and emotional support.
• Wedding Speech Nightmares – Confessions of inappropriate, cringe-worthy wedding speeches illustrate common wedding missteps.

Words of Wisdom: Standout Quotes from This Episode

• “Everyone has different boxes to check, don't compare your journey to theirs.” - Lucette Brown
• “Your feelings are always valid, but toxicity isn’t excusable just because it’s family.”  - Lucette Brown
• “Let them be, sometimes you can’t force people into your bubble.” - Lucette Brown
• “If you’re unhappy with someone, either hash it out or step back.” - Lucette Brown
• “Just because someone’s your sister doesn’t mean they get a free pass to hurt you.” - Lucette Brown
• “If they can’t handle celebrating each other, just be guests at the wedding.” - Christa Innis
• “Pent-up anger doesn’t mix well with a bridal party; it's a recipe for disaster.” - Christa Innis
• “It’s not about the diamond or the dress, it's about who makes you feel supported.” - Christa Innis
• “Don’t hold resentment on your wedding day. Life’s too short for that.” - Christa Innis
• “Sometimes, cutting ties temporarily is the healthiest choice for both sides.” - Christa Innis
• “Not inviting toxic family members is self-care, not drama.” - Christa Innis

About Lucette

Lucette Brown is a marketing professional with over 15 years of experience in the industry, focusing on digital and interactive channels. She has worked with senior staff members to achieve record sales, company growth, and strategic objectives. Lucette has extensive experience in wedding and event planning, which she translates into creative content through her TikTok and Instagram account. She also has training from Second City and iO Theater in Chicago, where she developed her storytelling skills. Currently based in Australia, Lucette continues to work in marketing and create content about the wedding and events industry.


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*This conversation is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Please seek a licensed professional