Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter
Join Kail Lowry and Becky Hayter as these two rekindle their friendship and navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious in-betweens of life in their 30s. They’ll dive into the joys and challenges of raising families, staying true to friendships, and keeping up with pop culture - all while embracing the unpredictable mix of karma and chaos that life throws at them. With Kail’s unfiltered outlook and Becky’s infectious humor, Karma & Chaos is a refreshing, real, and relatable take on modern adulthood. New episodes every Tuesday!
Episodes
Kail and Becky are back catching up on everything: Kail’s emotional trip to Texas to reconnect with her dad (and what she learned about old family stories), Becky’s big auntie news, and how becoming “the plug” for comfort buys is a real dopamine sport. Trigger note: brief discussion of suicidal ideation and mental health.
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This week Kail and Becky are covering it all in true Chaos fashion. They hit on topics ranging from a relationship would you rather, TT group chats gone wrong, AI mishaps and so much more! This week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos involve a funeral crasher.....tune in for all the chaos you know and love.
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Kail is back for an unfiltered catch-up that has everything: plastic-surgery recovery real talk, therapy takeaways, kindergarten jitters, and the chaotic debate over whether 47 minutes of attention a day is enough. Kail shares what’s helping with swelling, inflammation, and confidence post-op. We also touch on vitamin K for newborns (do your research!) and why financial literacy matters when life gets… extra. An episode wi...
This week Kail and Becky are reading your comments and some are just plain diabolical. The ladies are also celebrating Becky's recent credit milestone! This week's Is It Karma or Is It Chaos submission leads the ladies to wonder; is it ever okay to judge a mom?
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This week while Kail is healing up Becky is joined by Ty of Cate & Ty Break It Down! They discuss all things parenting from the unique ways families are created, to how parenting can effect your relationship and so much more! Tune in for a heartfelt episode with tons of insight!
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On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky brings on Alessandra while Kail recovers from surgery. They get real about IVF, newborn life, and the messy beauty of building a chosen family. Becky shares the emotional moment baby Bex met his donor plus the challenges of postpartum shifts, parenting in public, and grieving your old life while embracing the new.
From fertility journeys to the chaos of children’s books, this episod...
This week Kail and Becky talk about Salem getaway, newborn updates with Becks, a shocking hernia misdiagnosis, bike-riding mishaps, fertility journeys, and navigating grief over past relationships. Expect unfiltered laughs, heartfelt moments, and a dash of chaos.
To submit a Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos story email us at info@karmachaospodcast.com
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This week Kail and Becky are catching each other up and us. The ladies discuss everything from managing expectations, to financial literacy and how much they are both terrified of Chat GPT but use it frequently.
In this week's Is It Karma Or Is It Chaos a friend's horrific comment has Kail and Becky spiraling and wondering would you wait for your friend to get pregnant?
In this emotional episode of Karma & Chaos, Kail shares the news sparking a raw conversation about abandonment, closure, and complicated family ties. She and Becky explore what it means to seek answers from someone who may never give them and whether showing up is healing or harmful.
Plus, they touch on elopement guest list drama, the Coldplay cheating scandal, and a “Karma or Chaos” bake sale takedown you won’t forget.
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In one of the rawest Karma and Chaos episodes yet, Becky opens up about becoming a mom as a non-birthing parent. From the emotional intensity of watching Leah give birth to grappling with unexpected feelings of disconnection, identity shifts, and grief, Becky shares it all; tears, laughs, and a whole lot of honesty.
Kail and Becky also talk about how nobody prepares you for five outfit changes a day, the first tar poop and ...
In a delirious (and low-key emotional) episode, Kail and Becky tackle the viral 36 Questions to Fall in Love - even though they’re already trauma-bonded. They unpack everything from childhood wounds and love languages to dead dad jokes and embarrassing moments that still haunt them.
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This week gets real. Leah - Becky's wife is dilated - contractions are happening, and somehow we still find time to talk nipple piercings, donor siblings, and whether it’s weird to donate sperm to a lesbian couple you know in real life. Plus, we unpack the parts of grief no one talks about, why breastfeeding broke us, and how monkeys might just be avoiding taxes.
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ENCORE: we are running back one of your favorite episodes! (This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss fiances in a realtionship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about wether or not college is necessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know)
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Kail and Becky are back with hummingbird drama, bisexual awakenings, and a chaotic Pride Month breakdown. They weigh in on Fletcher’s controversial switch-up, the double standards working moms face, and whether bringing a third into your marriage is karma or chaos. From Twitch debates and poly relationships to parenting realness and queer identity, this episode is chaotic...of course.
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This week on Karma and Chaos, labor is looming, crackers are criminal, and someone might be getting a bat tattoo.
Things take a turn (as they always do) when a conversation about induction leads to imaginary attic pets, religious trauma, and why giving a queer couple a prayer book could be a little upsetting. The girls also unpack internalized homophobia, breaking generational cycles, and why Pride is about way more than pa...
In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work.
They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents—like f...
On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail ope...
From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU...
In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat safety, high chair habits, ...
It’s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it means to love someone who isn’...
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