Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter

Karma & Chaos with Kail Lowry & Becky Hayter

Join Kail Lowry and Becky Hayter as these two rekindle their friendship and navigate the highs, lows, and hilarious in-betweens of life in their 30s. They’ll dive into the joys and challenges of raising families, staying true to friendships, and keeping up with pop culture - all while embracing the unpredictable mix of karma and chaos that life throws at them. With Kail’s unfiltered outlook and Becky’s infectious humor, Karma & Chaos is a refreshing, real, and relatable take on modern adulthood. New episodes every Tuesday!

Episodes

June 10, 2025 60 mins

In this episode of Karma and Chaos, Kail and Becky dive into everything from hummingbird feeders to airline etiquette and co-parenting struggles. Becky shares an updates on baby prep, microdosing for mental clarity, and navigating moral dilemmas at work.


They also unpack a messy listener story about daycare drama, unresolved feelings for an ex, and the fine line between fate and chaos. Expect unexpected tangents—like f...

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On this episode of Karma and Chaos, Becky and Kail ask the age-old question: Can straight women and men really be just friends? What starts as a tan-line roast turns into a layered discussion on emotional cheating, polyamory, gender roles, and raising emotionally intelligent sons. Becky reflects on her recent trip to Mexico, witnessing healthy male friendships, and the importance of representation for queer youth. Kail ope...

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May 27, 2025 64 mins

From hummingbirds to heated opinions on grilling, Kail and Becky are deep in their lesbian merch and even deeper in conversation this week. They talk everything from syncing periods and sleeping in separate bedrooms to stamp collections, skincare routines & Botox confessions. Becky opens up about her emotional pregnancy journey, her podcast For the Hayters, and finding beauty in raw, real stories; including grief, NICU...

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May 20, 2025 63 mins

In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Karma & Chaos Kail and Becky dive into everything from sleep paralysis and period drama to botched home renovations and parenting fails. Kail reveals her upcoming facelift plans and opens up about frustrations with contractor scams, while Becky shares an unfiltered update on her IVF journey and unexpected health concerns. The duo also debates car seat safety, high chair habits, ...

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May 13, 2025 57 mins

It’s a full circle moment on Karma and Chaos as Kail and Becky finally reconnect after weeks of life doing the absolute most. From baby showers and birthdays to therapy breakthroughs and botox, this episode has everything. Kail opens up about postpartum friendship shifts, feeling overwhelmed hosting her baby shower, and how raising a kid with her sister feels surreal. Becky dives into what it means to love someone who isn’...

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May 6, 2025 57 mins

Becky’s in town and chaos ensues; in the camper, at the mall, and on the Harley. From prom suit adventures with Isaac and a Cheesecake Factory feast, to biker gang names, nesting mode, and conversations about love, loss, and legacies—this episode is peak Karma & Chaos. Plus, the duo gets personal about relationships, parenting styles, baby prep, digital memories, and their thoughts on saying “I’m proud of you.” If you’...

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April 29, 2025 50 mins

In this chaotic and hilarious episode, Kail and Becky dive into wild listener questions, deep confessions, and totally unhinged scenarios. From debating if bald people need hairnets at restaurants to choosing between cheetoh dust or honey fingers, nothing is off-limits. They reveal their funniest truth-serum confessions; including fart mishaps, shitting in the woods, and awkward moments during sex. The conversation takes a...

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April 28, 2025 40 secs

Hey Karmaroos, it’s Becky!

I am SO excited to share that For The Hayters is officially back next week with Season 3 - dropping Monday, May 5th.

This season is raw, real, and honestly… some of the most powerful conversations I’ve ever had. We’re talking about postpartum depression, fertility, illness, heartbreak, healing, and what it means to start over.

So if you’re into deep, unfiltered stories that hit you right in the gut—...

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April 22, 2025 55 mins

This week Kail and Becky go from grammar gripes to gut-wrenching truths in the span of a single conversation. What starts as a debate over phrases like “taken aback” and “try and” quickly spirals the chaos you know and love.

Expect laughter, self-reflection, and maybe a tear or two—because sometimes healing sounds a lot like a conversation between two friends at the edge of a spiral.

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April 15, 2025 62 mins

This week Kail is asking the tough questions right off the bat; how are YOU spicing up your life? Becky is battling the bears in her backyard and Kail can't seem to understand why Becky is so upset, in fact she's quite jealous. The topic of ghosts gets brought up and the only ghosts Kail believes in are the ghosts of exes past. Later in the episode Kail and Becky finally answer one of your Is It Karma or Is It Chaso submis...

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April 8, 2025 54 mins

This week Kail and Becky are coming in HOT with the chaos and maybe some crying. Things may sound a little different since we are mixing things up and recording in a new setting. The ladies show a new side of their relationship this week; their sisterly dynamic sometimes gets a little feisty like when they discuss if matcha tastes like dirt, does Becky have street smarts and of course so much more.


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April 1, 2025 55 mins

This week Kail and Becky are coming to you from NYC. They updated us on the week they spent together. With Becky stepping into mommy duties and Kail expanding her businesses and her driveway there is a ton to catch up on. This week the ladies are joined by a live studio audience making for a really chaotic and fun time. There is plenty of chaos in this episode!


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March 25, 2025 57 mins

This week Kail and Becky are sharing some potentially big life updates. Becky may be convinced to do something she never considered and the Lowry farm just keeps on growing! Becky gives us a look into how baby Becks is cooking and we couldn't be more excited. Join us for all the Karma and the Chaos!

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March 18, 2025 64 mins

This week Kail and Becky discuss Kail's Birthday trip with Elijah; their first time away without the kids. Becky talks about her worries bringing baby Becks into a not so tolerant world diving into how to even begin navigating and proccessing that. Becky asks a question later in the episode that really gets the girls reflecting on their growth.


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Listen in to Adrienne, the founder of WellBe, talk about her path to becoming a patient advocate to empower people in their health journey. What lead her there and her personal life experiences with Lyme Disease.
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This week Kail & Becky explore the complexities of rekindling friendships, particularly in the public eye, and the emotional nuances involved in navigating personal relationships. They discuss the impact of public perception on friendships and how Kail is in quite a unique circumstance in life when it comes to friendships and the question; is it worth it to rekindle a friendship? Later in the episode we hear from Leah ...

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Listen in to hear Christina talk about her journey with finding her purpose in life. She talks about her path that lead to helping others, the decisions that she needed to make to allow her to get there, and the structure behind being a Spiritual Coach.

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This week Kail & Becky are testing their knowledge and seeing if they are indeed smarter than a fifth grader. Later in the episode the ladies discuss fiances in a realtionship and all the different ways couples split them. This leads into a conversation about wether or not college is neccessary and is it really all about WHO you know vs WHAT you know. 

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Listen to Christina talk about her journey with anxiety. She talks about when it started, how it changed her life, and how she takes back control.

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February 25, 2025 61 mins

This week Kail and Becky are reading your comments and some are just plain diabolical. The ladies are also celebrating Becky’s recent credit milestone! This week’s Is It Karma or Is It Chaos submission leads the ladies to wonder; is it ever okay to judge a mom?

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