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August 6, 2024 33 mins
In this week’s episode of Old Gays. New Gays. We dive into a series of compelling and often untold stories from the LGBTQ+ community. Joined by the ever-insightful Dan and Frank, the “Old Gays,” we explore the dynamics of how straight men often lead on gay men, with personal anecdotes that shed light on this complex issue. Nick shares his poignant experience of being led on by a straight guy, and how it shaped his understanding of relationships, while Dan and Frank provide level headed context on Nick’s personal story.

We then shift gears to discuss WHY women LOVE gay men. Examining why this might be the case and what it says about attraction and friendship. Ant opens up about his first time with a girl, offering a unique perspective on navigating sexuality, while Frank reflects on similar stories from his younger years. 

Nick’s story takes another twist as he recounts his first breakup with a straight guy, providing insight into the heartache and confusion that can accompany such relationships. Dan and Frank share their wisdom on how such experiences have evolved over time. We also talk about the phenomenon of gays who get girlfriends before coming out, and the emotional and psychological aspects of leading on girls while in the closet. 

Lastly, we address the often overlooked perspective of girlfriends of straight guys discovering their boyfriends are gay and have Grindr. This segment brings in stories and discussions about trust, betrayal, and the journey to self-acceptance for both parties involved, with Dan and Frank adding their seasoned insights on handling these revelations.

Join us for an episode filled with heartfelt stories, honest conversations, and a deeper understanding of the LGBTQ+ experience. Whether you’re navigating similar situations or simply looking to learn more, this episode offers valuable insights and empathy.

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