Unshaken

🎙️ Episode 24: God in the little things: Finding His kindness in everyday moments

Have you ever caught yourself rushing through life, only to realize you almost missed God’s kindness in the ordinary?

In this episode, Tony and Kristy share the moments where God broke through the noise, squirrels that dissolved anger, a rainbow that whispered “it’s gonna be okay,” slow drivers that became holy interruptions, and the steady presence of...

🎙️ Episode 23: Just do something: Simple ways to start in disability ministry

What if the call wasn’t to have it all figured out, but simply to start?

In this solo episode, Tony shares the story of how disability ministry came crashing into his life through an unexpected video, a sleepless night, and a Spirit-filled conviction that wouldn’t let him walk away. From that first “yes” to FCA’s All-Abilities ministry to the soccer league...

🎙️ Episode 22: When growth hurts: Finding God’s presence in the ache of change

What do you do when the very growth you’ve prayed for leaves you grieving what you’ve had to leave behind?

In this solo episode, Kristy opens her heart about the bittersweet ache of transition. From sending a daughter off to college, to letting go of familiar seasons at work and ministry, she names what many of us feel but rarely say out loud: growth is g...

🎙️ Episode 21: Midnight lies: How to fight at 2 a.m.

What do you do when your mind won’t stop racing in the middle of the night?

In this solo episode, Tony invites you into a quiet, late-night conversation for anyone who has found themselves awake at 2 a.m., battling fear, anxiety, or spiritual heaviness. Recorded in the stillness of the night, this episode walks with you through the lies that often surface in those moments, and the...

🎙️ Episode 20: Who is my neighbor? Loving the person you’d rather avoid

What if the person God is asking you to love... is the one you’re secretly hoping He’ll overlook?

This episode started with a meme, and turned into a conviction. Kristy and Tony talk honestly about the people we draw lines around: the ones who mock us, overlook our kids, cut us off in traffic, or vote in ways we can’t stomach. It’s raw, reflective, and rooted in...

🎙️ Episode 19: Small victories matter more than you think

What if the progress you’re overlooking is exactly what God wants to celebrate?

In this episode, Tony and Kristy dive into the quiet moments of progress that often go unnoticed, but carry more spiritual weight than we realize. From one-bag cleanups to sticker charts to Zechariah 4:10, this is a conversation about honoring the journey, not just the finish line.

It’s not just ab...

🎙️ Episode 18: Overcoming fear: How to trust God when the world feels unsafe

What do you do when fear shows up before you can catch your breath?

In this honest, grounded episode, Tony and Kristy open up about the kind of fear that doesn’t always look like panic, but still weighs heavy. From everyday overwhelm to deep spiritual anxiety, they unpack the moments when the world feels unsafe and trusting God doesn’t come easy.

They don’t ...

🎙️ Episode 17: Sacred rhythms for chaotic days

What if the secret to surviving your days isn’t more coffee, but a rhythm built on grace?

In this episode, Kristy and Tony share what real-life routines look like in a home shaped by disability, caregiving, and constant change. From forgotten keys and airport pat-downs to “lunches of snacks” and iPhone calendars, this isn’t a list of tips, it’s a conversation full of laughter, grace, an...

🎙️ Episode 16: Holding both: Healing, acceptance, and the faith that carries us

What do you do when healing doesn’t come, and acceptance still feels out of reach?

In this episode, Tony and Kristy open up about grief, disability, unanswered prayer, and the quiet places where faith is formed. From a deeply personal story of miscarriage to growing up with cerebral palsy, they share how God has met them in the tension, not always with a...

🎙️ Episode 15: You’re not behind: What we’ve learned about life and faith

What does faithfulness look like when you’re tired? When you’re unsure? When life hasn’t followed the timeline you thought it would?

In this episode, we slow down and reflect on some of the biggest life lessons we’ve learned so far, about love, obedience, community, calling, and God’s timing. It’s not a highlight reel. It’s a window into what shaped us.

We talk...

🎙️ Episode 14: Courage to try new things: Trusting God when obedience feels risky

Trusting God sounds simple, until obedience asks for something that feels impossible to let go.

In this episode, Kristy shares a powerful story from her sociology classroom about farmers who refuse life-changing improvements, not because they don’t want better, but because the risk feels too dangerous. That story becomes the foundation for a conversati...

🎙️ Episode 13: When your person is down: How to stay steady

What do you do when your person is not okay, and nothing you say seems to help? How do you stay present, grounded, and hopeful when the weight keeps falling on you?

In this episode, Tony and Kristy open up about the quiet, exhausting work of carrying each other through hard seasons, especially when one of you is shut down or running on empty. Whether it’s depression, ADHD, ...

🎙️ Episode 12: Stop planning and start doing: Authenticity over polish

Are you stuck in the planning phase? Overthinking every detail, trying to get everything perfect before you move forward?

In this solo episode, Tony opens up about a last-minute shift in plans, a surprise moment at a disability family retreat, and the lesson God keeps pressing on his heart: ministry is not about being polished, it’s about being present. Through p...

🎙️ Episode 11: Your grandmother’s prayers still protect you: Why Titus 2 still matters

There’s a kind of strength that doesn’t get shared on social media. The kind that’s passed from woman to woman, in kitchens, in quiet prayers, in the way you fold a towel or speak a name in intercession.

In this episode, Kristy reflects on the women who shaped her, some family, some chosen, and the legacy they passed on without even realizing it. ...

🎙️ Episode 10: The power of yet: Growth mindset and grace

Sometimes we get stuck in “I can’t.” We look at our marriage, our kids, our faith, or even our own body, and feel the weight of everything we aren’t. But what if the truth isn’t that we can’t… just that we can’t yet?

In this episode, we unpack what it means to hold a growth mindset that’s rooted in grace, not hustle, not pressure. Just grace. Through stories from our own marr...

🎙️ Episode 9: After 22: The fight for dignity doesn’t stop

What happens when the services run out, but the needs don’t?

In this episode, Tony sits down with longtime community partner Jackie, founder of Angels Bridging Gaps. Together, they talk about what happens when a young adult with a disability turns 22, and the school support ends. From inaccessible waitlists to broken funding models, Jackie shares hard-earned wisdom on what f...

🎙️ Episode 8: Presume competence: For anyone who’s been underestimated

What if the person you thought didn’t understand, actually did?
What if they were listening the whole time, just waiting for you to believe they could?

In this deeply personal solo episode, Kristy shares what it means to truly presume competence, especially in students who don’t speak the way we expect. As the director of her school, she could have stayed beh...

🎙️ Episode 7: Are you worthy of the one you’re praying for?

What if the question isn’t just who you’re praying for, but who you’re becoming in the process?

In this raw and reflective solo episode, Tony opens up about the hard lessons he’s learned as a husband, a leader, and a man called to love with Christ-like care. From dating mistakes to spiritual growth, he unpacks Ephesians 5:21–33, not as a lecture, but as a confession and a c...

🎙️ Episode 6: John 9: Born for more

What if the very things you see as mistakes, accidents, or disadvantages… are the very things God crafted on purpose?

In this deeply personal solo episode, Tony shares his testimony of being born prematurely, growing up with cerebral palsy, and battling feelings of being an accident. Through his encounter with John 9, everything changed. What started as pain, anger, and misunderstanding was refram...