Her 12 Year Old was doing WHAT?!?

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
John, Jy and Richard.

Speaker 2 (00:00):
Remember the other day, we took this phone call that
was random, and this woman was telling us about the
stuff she found on her phone or something like that,
and I, oh, yeah, she about her caught her boyfriend
was hooking up with some girls and phone. Yeah, yes, yes,
because in the fact we thought she was listening to
another show cause, but she was listening to us. She
just felt like calling in and saying, I found video

(00:21):
of my boyfriend with a bunch of other women on
my phone. Well, Regina sent me a DM and Virgina
was like, let me tell you what I found.

Speaker 1 (00:29):
Okay. So the actual video footage was like like a
year before COVID and then COVID hit you know, lockdown whatever.
And our daughter at the time was twelve, and I
went through her phone. She got in trouble for something
and my husband was on a fire assignment, so it
was just her and I in her house and I
went to her phone and I happened to find a video.
In mind you, I love my sister, but she's kind

(00:51):
of one of those people who can't let her younger
years go, you know what I mean. And we found
a video on her phone and I swear my heart stopped.
My daughter was twelve at the time, my sister was
in her late forties. My daughter was drinking straight out
a bottle of vodka, smoking a joint with her auntie,

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and then her cousin was there, who was fourteen, and
you know, I saw the video and my heart stopped,
and I was just like, oh my god, and I
had to rewatch it, rewatch it because there was like
my sister was in it, my daughter's drinking, and then
my little other niece is smoking a joint in like,
so twelve, fourteen and my sister who's probably forty eight
at the time, and I literally did not know what

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to do. I have an older brother, he's kind of
a good, really good one in our family, and he
was in law enforcement, and you know, he's either black
or white. I sent him the video because he's like,
I don't believe that, blah blah blah, and he was
just dumbfounded. So, needless to say, after that whole incident,
my husband has always not trusted my sister, and ever

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since then, it has definitely left this dark cloud in
our relationship. Granted, since that, my daughter, you know, she
was like I was only twelve. Blah blah blah. We'll
never get an apology, needless to say, but it's definitely
left the cloud between me and my sister's relationship. Because
we'll never get an apology, I think it'd be more
than a cloud, like I would want to kill my sister.

(02:14):
You weren't trying to throw hands at her.

Speaker 2 (02:16):
So do you allow your niece or your daughter to
be around her aunt anymore?

Speaker 1 (02:21):
My daughter actually doesn't even ever want to be around her.
She's just like, she's like mom, she's a narcissistic person.
She's like all she does is party. She's in her
fifties now, and granted she doesn't drink as much anymore
from what I know, I mean, I don't drink at
all anymore. I quit years ago too, just for health
benefits as well, and especially seeing that. But my daughter

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even now, granted she's in high school and she has
her moments, but she just said no. I remember that feeling.
The next morning, like I woke up, my cousin was
on the couch, like I felt like crap, and I
had to clean up everything and blah blah blah, and
it was just so heartbreaking here and my daughter tell
that aftermath of the story.

Speaker 2 (03:01):
It's like your sister created rue from euphoria, right.

Speaker 1 (03:06):
Yeah, No, well, I mean my daughter's not like rue.
Thank god. I think my sister was more rue. And
it sounds like this than anything, you know. And I mean,
the sad thing is is that she didn't think she
did anything wrong. Like when we confronted her person, she
was like, oh why, She's like, well, she was the
one who wanted to do this. I'm like, she was twelve.
You were the adult. You were the adult you were

(03:28):
supposed to She's like, but they wanted to do this,
this and this. I'm like, you say, no, Yeah, I
was wondering what the excluse was because a lot of
times you hear like they're going to be doing it anyways,
they might as well be doing it with me, and
then I know they're safe. Yeah, but it's not.

Speaker 2 (03:40):
I mean, yeah, she's still twelve, and you.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Never would have known if you wouldn't have snooped. That's fast, Okay,
I've never would And then the thing is my husband
and my husband when when he got back from an
fire assignment, we were talking to her and we asked
her and here he was like, he's all. First off,
he's like, how dumb are you to save the video
footage that you got busted. He's like you need He's like,
you know, so this was to be found. You put this,
you left this on your phone for a reason. It

(04:03):
was met to be found.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Thank you so much for calling in. Yeah, thank you