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Speaker 1 (00:00):
If this world were man, it was supposed to be
the start of a beautiful relationship, but somebody screwed it
all up.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Second Date update right now with John.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Jay and Rich and John Jay Rich we do second
Dight Update every Tuesday, and sometimes we have to do
emergency second ate updates or whatever. And Samantha apparently, did
you shoot an email to Peyton there was something going
on in your world where you needed a second ad update?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Right?
Speaker 3 (00:21):
I did?
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Yeah, what's the story?
Speaker 4 (00:24):
So I just got out of a really long bad relationship,
and a few weeks ago I went on my first date.
I met him onth tender and everything went great. We
went back to this house, we had drinks, we you know,
did things, and everything was awesome. The next morning came around,
(00:46):
he took me home. We texted from then on out
for a week straight, like all day long, he would
call me. Everything was fine. And then I go to
go out with my sister for birthday. So I get
a little bit drunk and he is like off on
a trip with his buddies, writing akvs or whatever, and
(01:08):
but he's still texting me. So I ended up like
drunk texting him that night while he was sleeping, probably
like I don't know, ten or twelve texts and pictures,
and I was like, hey, you know, call me. I
want to talk to you. I think I said at
one point there's a bar full of people here and
I just want your attention. And so the next morning
(01:32):
he never texted me or called me, and I think
I like texted him and said, hey, I'm really sorry,
I was really drunk whatever, and I just got nothing.
He ghosted me.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
What kind of you said?
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Just cute one, you know, just cute selfie's from the bar?
Speaker 2 (01:52):
How was it? Like?
Speaker 5 (01:53):
Yeah? I said, you guys like you said you hooked up? Right? Yeah?
Was there chemistry? Like? Was it like you know what
I mean? Maybe he was was.
Speaker 2 (02:01):
Okay, I've ever had Did you spend the night?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I did?
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (02:06):
And then the next morning dang okay.
Speaker 1 (02:09):
So then if you're him, he's with the guy's at
ATV and he's getting these texted and you said I
need your attention.
Speaker 2 (02:14):
I think that could you know this this is.
Speaker 1 (02:15):
One of those things where we we we should call
him because it probably could be cleared up. When he
hears the tone like the way you told it to us,
it sounds almost adorable. Yeah, but if you're him and
you get a tax and it's like all caps it
says I need your attention, I'd be like, dang.
Speaker 6 (02:32):
Maybe he didn't have service, like you know, if he's
on ATVs and stuff, he could be out of the dunes,
which sometimes like service really sucks out.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
There, but then they come in. Yeah, how long has
it been? Said?
Speaker 5 (02:43):
How long has it been since you drunk texted him?
Like since he ghosted you?
Speaker 4 (02:49):
How long has it been?
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Yeah, Like, when's the last time you heard from him?
Speaker 4 (02:53):
It's been like a week?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Okay, we have his number, So do you care if
you call him?
Speaker 5 (03:00):
No?
Speaker 4 (03:00):
Yeah, I'm good.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
Do you know how this works? Right? You stay quiet?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yep?
Speaker 2 (03:04):
I mean could he be married? Did you go to
his house to your house?
Speaker 5 (03:07):
I did?
Speaker 4 (03:08):
Yeah? I know I went to his house.
Speaker 2 (03:09):
Yeah all right.
Speaker 4 (03:12):
He did make me leave though, when his baby mama
came to pick up his his kid.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Wait, so his kid was at the house. Yeah wait? Wait?
How old was kid? Six? Okay?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
So he went back to his house and the kid
was in the room sleeping. Yeah okay, did was there
a babysitter?
Speaker 4 (03:33):
Yeah of course? Yeah.
Speaker 2 (03:34):
Okay, so then he's like baby mama is coming. You
gotta go. Yeah, but he drove you.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
Home, yep.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
And I even texted him after he dropped me off
and I was like, Hey, this might be really uncool
of me or whatever, but I like you and I
hope you feel the same. But if you don't, let
me know you were tool for games. And he said
I feel the same. He said absolutely. I'm like, he
had my name down in his phone at my sam like, see,
we're going so good, and I just don't I don't
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know what I.
Speaker 5 (04:04):
Him, because yeah, I want to know real quick.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
Okay, tell you what there is. He did text me
when I texted him at the bar, I said, you suck.
There's so many people at this bar and I just
want your attention. And he said from the last text
I ever got from him, he said, if you want
their attention, go get it.
Speaker 2 (04:23):
Yeah, because you broke, you suck.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
So because she's making you're reading it making it seem
like these guys are hitting on me and you're not
giving me attention.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
So I almost call them up. And it's not even
like a second date. I play. We call them up.
We need to we need to clear some things. Yeah,
you hear something I think there's something miscommunication. The tone
in the text is read wrong.
Speaker 5 (04:42):
I'm excited about that.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
Yeah, all right, so so you stay quiet real quick.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
Hey, Samantha, yep, yep.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Hello, Hey Derek. Hey, this is John, Jay and Rich.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
We do a radio show, and we want to see
if we get talked to you about clearing up some
miscommunication if we can on our radio show.
Speaker 3 (05:16):
Okay, in regards to what well.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
It's in regards to a person in our life, in
your life, and we feel that some texts were read
wrong and so on. You know, we could talk to
you about it on the air because we think it's
there's two really good people involved, but something just kind
of misinterpreted.
Speaker 2 (05:31):
If we could.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Do what now.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
Text messages?
Speaker 1 (05:40):
We can we talk to you on our show about
some text messages.
Speaker 4 (05:44):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Sure, I guess I appreciate that. Thank you very much. Okay,
So here's the.
Speaker 1 (05:48):
Deal we're calling about.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Samantha.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Okay, Okay, she told us everything and I when when
she read us the text messages she said, and we
feel that maybe the tone was read improperly because she
really likes you.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
She told us the whole story.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
So can we get your point of view on your
date with Samantha because you ghosted her and we just
wanted to follow up.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Well dah like super quick. There was drama and I
don't want no damn drama.
Speaker 6 (06:20):
I get it thought drama because we feel like we
feel like the text messages could have come across as
like stage five clinger maybe to you, but when she
said them in her tone, we felt like it was
it was she was trying to be like cute, see
and flirty with you, Like she's.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
In the bar with all these people and she's like, hey,
I want your attention, and I as soon as she
said that to me, I was like, oh, bro, He's like, Okay,
if all these guys are hitting on you, go be
with them.
Speaker 2 (06:43):
But I don't think that's what she meant.
Speaker 3 (06:45):
Yeah, but still right, So, oh, she's in the bar
every night, pretty close to every night, you know what
I mean? Like that's I'm not looking for that. I mean,
I'm not looking for a bunch of drama. And I
don't want somebody that's always in the bar, you know
what I'm saying?
Speaker 5 (07:02):
That makes sense? What have you talked to her about that? Like,
you know, like it seems like you guys like each
other liked each other enough, so like, would that be Hey,
you're in the bars all the time, I'm not really
looking for that. Maybe we can hang out and have
a night in.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Well, No, so I only met her one time.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Right, so it's a little too much. You don't have
to think about it. Okay, So would you be willing
to see her again?
Speaker 4 (07:26):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Huh?
Speaker 3 (07:26):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Well, could we patch her through to talk to you?
Speaker 3 (07:30):
No, I'm not work?
Speaker 2 (07:32):
Oh you at work? Okay? Okay, all right, Well we
just know that.
Speaker 6 (07:35):
I think if you were to communicate that with her,
I feel like she'd be totally open to be like,
I don't need the bars.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Don Jay and Rich Bro, you want to say what's up?
Speaker 2 (07:45):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (07:46):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Hey, listen, here's what we're gonna do. We're gonna hang
out with you. You go back door, but we're gonna
tell her to reach out to you.
Speaker 2 (07:57):
Is that okay?
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Sure?
Speaker 3 (07:58):
Whatever? Whatever makes you so good?
Speaker 2 (08:00):
All right?
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Brother?
Speaker 2 (08:01):
All right?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
Okay, did you guys send me a damn T shirt
or something?
Speaker 2 (08:04):
Yeah? You got it. We'll sell you. I love that
T shirt? All right? All right, all right, brother, hold on,
thanks man? Thanks yet? All right, Samantha yeah, did you
hear all that?
Speaker 4 (08:18):
I did heard every word?
Speaker 2 (08:20):
So you didn't tell you at the bar every night.
Speaker 4 (08:22):
I'm not at the fool bar every night. Hello, I'm
so sorry. I am not. I am not at the
bar every night. It was literally my sister's birthday, right, Okay,
I think I went to the bar one other time
that he knew of. Do you know where he's doing that? Well,
he had seen my birthday? Was the time before that?
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Well, I'm going to sell you this. I like him, Yeah, so.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
Obviously, So why don't you wait to like a half
hour or something and see if he texts you? And
if he does it, why don't you shoot him in
textgo and hey, I talked to John Jay Rich.
Speaker 5 (08:58):
I even think a half hours too soon. I think
you got to wait it out at least till half
the day.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
Yeah, I think they should wait till maybe like later,
when you're working.
Speaker 2 (09:05):
Yeah, but let him know that you talk to us, Okay,
like smiley faces, watch your tone what I said.
Speaker 4 (09:14):
I really wanted to say something. I wanted to jump in.
Speaker 2 (09:16):
That's okay, r you did. He's working. He didn't want
to stay away from drama.
Speaker 5 (09:21):
I get it now, and like now you now you know,
and so now when you text him and you're just like, hey,
I talked to John Jay and Rich. I totally understand
why you feel the way you do. I really like you.
Speaker 2 (09:29):
I thought we had some.
Speaker 5 (09:29):
Great chemistry and what I want to work on it.
I want to see where this goes.
Speaker 6 (09:33):
Let's try to be careful about like making him think
you're too serious exactly text me. I talked to John
Jay and Rich like, you know, like there's a total miscommunication.
I'm not trying to be drama. Like I'm not out
at the club every night. It's like my sister's birthday
and you know that warrants a trip to celebrate. But like,
hopefully we can hang again because I feel like we
had some great chemistry.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
Can you come over for Easter brunch?
Speaker 1 (09:56):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 2 (09:57):
My family? Baby?
Speaker 5 (10:00):
All right, let's do the church.
Speaker 2 (10:02):
Yeah, alright, keep us posted.
Speaker 4 (10:04):
Okay, all right, well, thank you so much. It wasn't
a no, right no, that was good assim later today, okay, bye,
all right, thanks bite