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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I saw this article.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
These are the ten signs someone might be lying to you.
They might be lying to you lying bastards. Do you
guys have any Can you tell when someone's lying to you?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Yes, When you ask them a question, they take off
running or.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
They like look away.
Speaker 5 (00:18):
Is a big one too much or too little?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Too oh, so there's no, there's no uh, there's no
middle place.
Speaker 5 (00:24):
There is if there's too much eye contact, or there's
like not enough shifted guys.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Too many fillow words, if every sentence starts with or
you know, basically, that's a sign they're lying. A forced smile,
a forced lifeless smile, could be a sign they're fibbing.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
What's that thing you're doing right now?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Tapping barrier rituals things like crossed arms or headshakes can
signal defensiveness and be a subconscious tell so, oh yeah
like this, Oh really no, I.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
Didn't do that, you know what, Like that's it's actually
a very comfortable way to stand, you know, sometimes so
you don't know what to do with your arms, but.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
Your arms folded.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
But like when you're talking to someone, it is like
the body language in there. So like every once in
a while, I'll be standing that way, and I'm like, oh,
across my arms.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I don't want them to feel like I'm.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Not fidget I undo my arms because I heard like,
you can't let good energy in when your arms are closed.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Oh that's good. I just don't cross my arms because
all I see is my dad making us run sidelines
when we have he said, are you waiting for the bus?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Get on the line. Here's the trauma over compensation.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
A liar might puff up or act overly confident with
trying to get away with something.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah, I've heard too many details when you ask what
happens is a big thing too. It's like they're trying
to make the story, so you hear a lot of
the extra surperfluous details. So just saying yes or no.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I dancing when you speak of eye contact is called
I dancing. If their eyes are all over the room,
it could be a sign of panic.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
What about like where they can't sit still or they're
like tapping or moving fidgety.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
That's fidgety. It's actually fidgeting, is what it called.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Unfortunately, this means all elementary school children are liars.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Y the poker face.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Some people remain completely still while lying to avoid giving
anything away. Voice changes. Listen for a higher pitch or
breathless tone. Usually this is caused by stress, long pauses.
Liars may stall or repeat your requestion to buy time.
I direction this is the number one thing I directly. Apparently,
if a person looks to the right a lot, it
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means they're making stuff up.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
If they look to the left, they're trying to remember.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Well, that's a lot to pay attention to. You're trying
to bust somebody. I'm like, okay, they're looking to their right,
my left, my left, their right, that's a lot.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Like that show poker Face that we watched John Jay,
the one with Natasha Lyons, Like she basically solves these
crimes because she is a human lie detector and so
all of these things are things that she picks up
on and she'll be like, yep, they're lying and it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
This is all according to body language expert Judy James.
So those are the ten signs someone might be lying
to you. So now we want to hear from you.
Eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven, one or four seven
tell us the lie, the big lie, someone like.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You you caught them lying, the biggest lie.
Speaker 7 (03:06):
You ever caught some money?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah? Right, yeah, that's good. Yeah, eight nine seven. What's
your story?
Speaker 8 (03:16):
So I had a friend come over. It's about a
year and a half ago, and she she knocks on
my door, opened the door. She is, you know, not smiling,
like she knew what normally is. She comes in and
she says, somebody posted me in this Facebook group. Are
you familiar with the Facebook group? Are we dating the
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same guy?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Are you asking us that? Or is that what she said?
Speaker 8 (03:40):
He is, yeah, I'm asking you that.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Oh yeah, we're familiar.
Speaker 8 (03:43):
Yeah, okay, well the women are guys don't know about
what the ladies are.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (03:48):
So she comes in, she's like, yeah, somebody posted you
in this group? Are we dating the same guy? And
that was the first red flag because that was one
of the times where I knew he was the only
person that I was talking to. So I'm like, that's
a red flag? Who would post me in that group?
So then she goes into it and she's like, well
I didn't react or respond or comment because I was like, ah,
(04:11):
you know whatever. So I'm like, wait, that's red flag
number two. So she keeps going on who is this
and that and blah, blah bah. I'm like, yo, I
don't know what you're talking about. So I asked her
to send me a screenshot of the post so I
can I can see it. She sends me a screenshot,
and this is when I catch her in the lie
because at that time, well, now Facebook has it to
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where you can switch from anonymous comment to actually using
your profile, and that's something that is like a business
owner like I run a social media management company. So
Facebook allowed us to do that if we ran through
different pages. Sometimes I'm running up to ten fifteen pages
at a time, so I have to be able to
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switch through each profile easily. So that but allows you
to go through your different profiles where they just opened
that up to the public not too long ago. So
when she sent me the screenshot, the spot where the
anonymous post was, it was placed in the Facebook settings
to where it was the person that actually posted it
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versus somebody that was just reading the comment or reading
the post and wanted to comment anonymously. So when I
sent her that, I'm like, hey, look, I know you
posted this. You could tell me the truth, like what's
going on? And long story short, she tried to like
pretty much lie and manipulate me into, you know, this
whole Facebook world that you know, some people get really
(05:42):
twisted with social media and they get drawn into it.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Was she trying to set you up so that you'd
admit something even though you weren't anything.
Speaker 8 (05:52):
I have no idea because the one thing is like,
when you know you're not doing something and somebody's blaming you, Mike,
the first thought is you're the one that doing something.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I can totally under Yeah, I can see why you're
frustrated completely, but like, as a female, I would one
hundred percent do that to someone I was dating. Why
if I thought so st I don't know, because I
want it, Like maybe if I maybe feel like maybe
you're being a little shady, or maybe I want to
maybe find some dirt on you from before. Maybe you're
hiding your past, you're not communicating. I might go on
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the local Facebook group and be like, who dated him?
And tell me everything I've Even my now fiance I
was like, could he what would what would happen if
I took your picture and posted this? He was like,
why would you do that? Just because I want to?
Because I want to see what will happen.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I want to.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Ruffle some feathers. So I get while you're upset, but like,
I totally would do that.
Speaker 8 (06:40):
Well, the thing is is we were only talking about
like two to three months, and what I learned is
she went from one relationship to the next. Well we
weren't like a thing thing, but we would have been.
What I learned was when you move out of that
and you don't heal, you end up bleeding on the
person that didn't cut. That was deep.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Dang dude, that's a real deep version of hurt people.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Hurt people.
Speaker 8 (07:07):
Hurt people hurt people. So when you're sitting there blaming
me for something. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not
the perfect guy. I've done my dirt, but this was
one of those moments where I knew it was only hurt.
And I'm giving her that because here's the crazy thing.
She's a psychologist, a licensed psychologist.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Oh yeah, but all the all the people that help
people are got a little bit crazy because that's why
they went'te the other phrase help people help people.
Speaker 8 (07:35):
Yeah, man, So yeah, that's that's my story right there. Man.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
That's a good one. Man.
Speaker 8 (07:40):
You got to stay away from the ones that you
know think you doing something when you haven't given them
a reason to even think that way.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, I'm glad you got out of the cliff.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
You probably wouldn't be able to call us today if
you were still in that relationship.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Had we I'll tie it up. Thank that your life.
Speaker 8 (07:53):
Yeah, she was a little she was a little nutty.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yeah yeah, Clive, thanks for calling it man, Thanks for
your patience.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Hey man, not probably have a good Haley.
Speaker 9 (08:10):
No, I caught somebody in a lie. I actually was
married with two kids. He was in the military. We
lived in Germany. He started acting like super sketch and
I was like, hey, something's.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
A little off with you, and he's like.
Speaker 9 (08:24):
No, like you're crazy, you're crazy, like you've just been
really tired whatever. So fast forward, my two year old
has his phone in his hand and I decided I'm
going to go through it just to see he cheated
on me with a stripper. Yeah, he with a stripper,
and then he like literally was trying to like date
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her and everything. And when I saw the photo, it
was literally a photo of our living room and there
was like, you know, the FaceTime, so it has her
picture and it literally has our rope who remote his desk,
his computer and I'm like, what is this and he's
like that it's not mine and I'm like, that is
literally your setup and he's like, no, that's not mine,
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and I go, that's our remote and he's.
Speaker 8 (09:06):
Like no, no.
Speaker 9 (09:07):
So I he was gaslighting me so much to the
extent that I went on to Facebook and there's like
army spouse pages and so I went on there and
I put her little picture and I said, does anybody
know this girl? And so I ended up getting a
Facebook message saying hey, I heard you were looking for me.
(09:27):
So yeah, So I ended up talking to her. She
is like a Romanian girl.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
She was super sweet.
Speaker 9 (09:38):
But she called me on the phone. We talked about it.
She sent me screenshots of my husband saying, hey, I
moved to Germany. I really wanted to start fresh, literally
saying all this stuff, not saying hey, I'm married, i
have two kids, and I'm a pos.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
So was a stripper? Did she actually come to your house?
Is that why the pictures are there? She's stripped in
your house?
Speaker 1 (09:59):
No?
Speaker 9 (09:59):
No, no, no no. She was on like they were calling, they
were facetiming while me and my kids were asleep in
a different room.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
A man that's great, so is he your ex husband?
Speaker 9 (10:10):
Technically are still married, but I've been in Arizona back
for two years. I left him. It turned into a
whole like domestic dispute thing.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
I took my kids out out.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Wow. Well, Hailey, thanks for sharing that start with us.
That's a big.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
One Romanian strippers, Guys, I'm telling you we've talked about
this before, Alexill what happened to you?
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Lexi?
Speaker 6 (10:32):
Heay there. So I don't have a lie that I
caught anybody in because I feel like people know better
than to lie to me. But when you guys were
talking about the show pull face. If you're ever interested
in something that's very real. On YouTube, they have a
channel called the Behavior Chanel, and it is four of
the top body language experts in the world and they analyze.
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They break down whether it's a botty cam or interviews
or you know, anything like that, interrogations and they read
body language and they talk a lot about how people
will deviate from their baseline, which is why like the
woman before she thought something this up to their husband
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because you've changed his behavior, like you guys said, the
change in the pitch, blinking a lot, staring, but I'm
one of the most interesting ones is now. I feel
like whenever unfortunately, you know, God forbid. When children go
missing and they interview the parents, you can really tell
which parents are guilty and which parents are not guilty,
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just because the innocent parents are wearing their kids on
a T shirt. They are begging people like she's four
foot five. You know, she's so sweet, she has curly hair.
Please if everyone just stood outside their door, you know today,
if you looked in the car next to you, somebody
should know something like it's a call to action. They're
begging you. They look sleep deprived, they are desperate. You
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can read the grief on their face. Whereas parents that
are guilty, they don't really want to talk. They're like, yeah,
you know, everything's really been done. We don't really need
any more help here that help people though, they're like
honestly though, like when you pay puntimp's actually scary to see.
They're like, you know, we've done everything we can. We've
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looked everywhere, We've exhausted all of our efforts. You know,
they don't reach out for more help. They don't want
to do interviews. They look well rested or anxious. Uh
and it's really it's sad to see because I feel
like now whenever I see it in the news, I
can tell like, oh, this person's going to be arrested.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
So now you're a body expert, body language expert because
you've watched so much certified Think. What's the name of
that show again on YouTube?
Speaker 6 (12:49):
It's called the Behavior Panel.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Behavior Everybody's sus because everybody, hey, you catch lie?
Speaker 7 (12:56):
Hey, Hey, yeah, good morning guys. I want to call
in first of all, because that woman, she was right
her ex it's lazy getting with the neighbor. I caught
my axent a lie because he also got with my neighbor.
He worked from home. I would leave in the morning
and I would come back and all of a sudden,
there's these dishes that I've never made that are in
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my fridge. Coming to find out, yeah, going to find out.
She would walk upstairs to my boyfriend when I would
leave and say, oh, I need sugar, Oh I need mustard,
I need this, I need that, and then she'd bring
up lust or whatever she cooked and they would eat
it together, and then he would keep the left over.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
What it's terrible And when you confront him about that,
how does he try.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
To worm out of it.
Speaker 7 (13:41):
He didn't actually, but he didn't say that nothing was
that anything was going on woman than tuition. I believe
it's always right. So I left coming to find out.
A couple months later, they started going out on dates.
I don't think they're together, but yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
So what do you think she was making it mustard
and sugar?
Speaker 7 (14:00):
I don't know. I think she was coming up with
excuses just to I didn't try any of it. I
just I was that's not my my cups that you know.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
It's just it's also weird, a little oblivious to her
hitting on him and the fact that she he was
keeping the leftovers in his fridge, I mean a.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
Little bit, but like don't they don't. They always say that,
like the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
So it was like, why cooking for a man that's
not yours?
Speaker 3 (14:24):
I do not. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (14:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Maybe a lot of people who like to cook will
do that, but meat, I'm never cooking for anyone that
isn't my man.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
All thanks for you, have a great day. Ye, those
are some crazy lives.
Speaker 4 (14:36):
That's crazy
I saw this article.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
These are the ten signs someone might be lying to you.
They might be lying to you lying bastards. Do you
guys have any Can you tell when someone's lying to you?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Yes, When you ask them a question, they take off
running or.
Speaker 4 (00:15):
They like look away.
Speaker 5 (00:18):
Is a big one too much or too little?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Too oh, so there's no, there's no uh, there's no
middle place.
Speaker 5 (00:24):
There is if there's too much eye contact, or there's
like not enough shifted guys.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Too many fillow words, if every sentence starts with or
you know, basically, that's a sign they're lying. A forced smile,
a forced lifeless smile, could be a sign they're fibbing.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
What's that thing you're doing right now?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (00:49):
Tapping barrier rituals things like crossed arms or headshakes can
signal defensiveness and be a subconscious tell so, oh yeah
like this, Oh really no, I.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
Didn't do that, you know what, Like that's it's actually
a very comfortable way to stand, you know, sometimes so
you don't know what to do with your arms, but.
Speaker 6 (01:07):
Your arms folded.
Speaker 5 (01:08):
But like when you're talking to someone, it is like
the body language in there. So like every once in
a while, I'll be standing that way, and I'm like, oh,
across my arms.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I don't want them to feel like I'm.
Speaker 2 (01:16):
Not fidget I undo my arms because I heard like,
you can't let good energy in when your arms are closed.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Oh that's good. I just don't cross my arms because
all I see is my dad making us run sidelines
when we have he said, are you waiting for the bus?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
Get on the line. Here's the trauma over compensation.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
A liar might puff up or act overly confident with
trying to get away with something.
Speaker 3 (01:35):
Yeah, I've heard too many details when you ask what
happens is a big thing too. It's like they're trying
to make the story, so you hear a lot of
the extra surperfluous details. So just saying yes or no.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
I dancing when you speak of eye contact is called
I dancing. If their eyes are all over the room,
it could be a sign of panic.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
What about like where they can't sit still or they're
like tapping or moving fidgety.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
That's fidgety. It's actually fidgeting, is what it called.
Speaker 2 (02:00):
Unfortunately, this means all elementary school children are liars.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Y the poker face.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Some people remain completely still while lying to avoid giving
anything away. Voice changes. Listen for a higher pitch or
breathless tone. Usually this is caused by stress, long pauses.
Liars may stall or repeat your requestion to buy time.
I direction this is the number one thing I directly. Apparently,
if a person looks to the right a lot, it
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means they're making stuff up.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
If they look to the left, they're trying to remember.
Speaker 3 (02:28):
Well, that's a lot to pay attention to. You're trying
to bust somebody. I'm like, okay, they're looking to their right,
my left, my left, their right, that's a lot.
Speaker 5 (02:34):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (02:35):
Like that show poker Face that we watched John Jay,
the one with Natasha Lyons, Like she basically solves these
crimes because she is a human lie detector and so
all of these things are things that she picks up
on and she'll be like, yep, they're lying and it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
This is all according to body language expert Judy James.
So those are the ten signs someone might be lying
to you. So now we want to hear from you.
Eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven, one or four seven
tell us the lie, the big lie, someone like.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You you caught them lying, the biggest lie.
Speaker 7 (03:06):
You ever caught some money?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
Yeah? Right, yeah, that's good. Yeah, eight nine seven. What's
your story?
Speaker 8 (03:16):
So I had a friend come over. It's about a
year and a half ago, and she she knocks on
my door, opened the door. She is, you know, not smiling,
like she knew what normally is. She comes in and
she says, somebody posted me in this Facebook group. Are
you familiar with the Facebook group? Are we dating the
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same guy?
Speaker 1 (03:39):
Are you asking us that? Or is that what she said?
Speaker 8 (03:40):
He is, yeah, I'm asking you that.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Oh yeah, we're familiar.
Speaker 8 (03:43):
Yeah, okay, well the women are guys don't know about
what the ladies are.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (03:48):
So she comes in, she's like, yeah, somebody posted you
in this group? Are we dating the same guy? And
that was the first red flag because that was one
of the times where I knew he was the only
person that I was talking to. So I'm like, that's
a red flag? Who would post me in that group?
So then she goes into it and she's like, well
I didn't react or respond or comment because I was like, ah,
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you know whatever. So I'm like, wait, that's red flag
number two. So she keeps going on who is this
and that and blah, blah bah. I'm like, yo, I
don't know what you're talking about. So I asked her
to send me a screenshot of the post so I
can I can see it. She sends me a screenshot,
and this is when I catch her in the lie
because at that time, well, now Facebook has it to
(04:36):
where you can switch from anonymous comment to actually using
your profile, and that's something that is like a business
owner like I run a social media management company. So
Facebook allowed us to do that if we ran through
different pages. Sometimes I'm running up to ten fifteen pages
at a time, so I have to be able to
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switch through each profile easily. So that but allows you
to go through your different profiles where they just opened
that up to the public not too long ago. So
when she sent me the screenshot, the spot where the
anonymous post was, it was placed in the Facebook settings
to where it was the person that actually posted it
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versus somebody that was just reading the comment or reading
the post and wanted to comment anonymously. So when I
sent her that, I'm like, hey, look, I know you
posted this. You could tell me the truth, like what's
going on? And long story short, she tried to like
pretty much lie and manipulate me into, you know, this
whole Facebook world that you know, some people get really
(05:42):
twisted with social media and they get drawn into it.
Speaker 3 (05:46):
Was she trying to set you up so that you'd
admit something even though you weren't anything.
Speaker 8 (05:52):
I have no idea because the one thing is like,
when you know you're not doing something and somebody's blaming you, Mike,
the first thought is you're the one that doing something.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
I can totally under Yeah, I can see why you're
frustrated completely, but like, as a female, I would one
hundred percent do that to someone I was dating. Why
if I thought so st I don't know, because I
want it, Like maybe if I maybe feel like maybe
you're being a little shady, or maybe I want to
maybe find some dirt on you from before. Maybe you're
hiding your past, you're not communicating. I might go on
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the local Facebook group and be like, who dated him?
And tell me everything I've Even my now fiance I
was like, could he what would what would happen if
I took your picture and posted this? He was like,
why would you do that? Just because I want to?
Because I want to see what will happen.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
I want to.
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Ruffle some feathers. So I get while you're upset, but like,
I totally would do that.
Speaker 8 (06:40):
Well, the thing is is we were only talking about
like two to three months, and what I learned is
she went from one relationship to the next. Well we
weren't like a thing thing, but we would have been.
What I learned was when you move out of that
and you don't heal, you end up bleeding on the
person that didn't cut. That was deep.
Speaker 2 (07:01):
Dang dude, that's a real deep version of hurt people.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
Hurt people.
Speaker 8 (07:07):
Hurt people hurt people. So when you're sitting there blaming
me for something. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not
the perfect guy. I've done my dirt, but this was
one of those moments where I knew it was only hurt.
And I'm giving her that because here's the crazy thing.
She's a psychologist, a licensed psychologist.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
Oh yeah, but all the all the people that help
people are got a little bit crazy because that's why
they went'te the other phrase help people help people.
Speaker 8 (07:35):
Yeah, man, So yeah, that's that's my story right there. Man.
Speaker 1 (07:38):
That's a good one. Man.
Speaker 8 (07:40):
You got to stay away from the ones that you
know think you doing something when you haven't given them
a reason to even think that way.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, I'm glad you got out of the cliff.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
You probably wouldn't be able to call us today if
you were still in that relationship.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
Had we I'll tie it up. Thank that your life.
Speaker 8 (07:53):
Yeah, she was a little she was a little nutty.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
Yeah yeah, Clive, thanks for calling it man, Thanks for
your patience.
Speaker 3 (07:59):
Hey man, not probably have a good Haley.
Speaker 9 (08:10):
No, I caught somebody in a lie. I actually was
married with two kids. He was in the military. We
lived in Germany. He started acting like super sketch and
I was like, hey, something's.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
A little off with you, and he's like.
Speaker 9 (08:24):
No, like you're crazy, you're crazy, like you've just been
really tired whatever. So fast forward, my two year old
has his phone in his hand and I decided I'm
going to go through it just to see he cheated
on me with a stripper. Yeah, he with a stripper,
and then he like literally was trying to like date
(08:44):
her and everything. And when I saw the photo, it
was literally a photo of our living room and there
was like, you know, the FaceTime, so it has her
picture and it literally has our rope who remote his desk,
his computer and I'm like, what is this and he's
like that it's not mine and I'm like, that is
literally your setup and he's like, no, that's not mine,
(09:04):
and I go, that's our remote and he's.
Speaker 8 (09:06):
Like no, no.
Speaker 9 (09:07):
So I he was gaslighting me so much to the
extent that I went on to Facebook and there's like
army spouse pages and so I went on there and
I put her little picture and I said, does anybody
know this girl? And so I ended up getting a
Facebook message saying hey, I heard you were looking for me.
(09:27):
So yeah, So I ended up talking to her. She
is like a Romanian girl.
Speaker 6 (09:36):
She was super sweet.
Speaker 9 (09:38):
But she called me on the phone. We talked about it.
She sent me screenshots of my husband saying, hey, I
moved to Germany. I really wanted to start fresh, literally
saying all this stuff, not saying hey, I'm married, i
have two kids, and I'm a pos.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
So was a stripper? Did she actually come to your house?
Is that why the pictures are there? She's stripped in
your house?
Speaker 1 (09:59):
No?
Speaker 9 (09:59):
No, no, no no. She was on like they were calling, they
were facetiming while me and my kids were asleep in
a different room.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
A man that's great, so is he your ex husband?
Speaker 9 (10:10):
Technically are still married, but I've been in Arizona back
for two years. I left him. It turned into a
whole like domestic dispute thing.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
I took my kids out out.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Wow. Well, Hailey, thanks for sharing that start with us.
That's a big.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
One Romanian strippers, Guys, I'm telling you we've talked about
this before, Alexill what happened to you?
Speaker 1 (10:30):
Lexi?
Speaker 6 (10:32):
Heay there. So I don't have a lie that I
caught anybody in because I feel like people know better
than to lie to me. But when you guys were
talking about the show pull face. If you're ever interested
in something that's very real. On YouTube, they have a
channel called the Behavior Chanel, and it is four of
the top body language experts in the world and they analyze.
(10:56):
They break down whether it's a botty cam or interviews
or you know, anything like that, interrogations and they read
body language and they talk a lot about how people
will deviate from their baseline, which is why like the
woman before she thought something this up to their husband
(11:17):
because you've changed his behavior, like you guys said, the
change in the pitch, blinking a lot, staring, but I'm
one of the most interesting ones is now. I feel
like whenever unfortunately, you know, God forbid. When children go
missing and they interview the parents, you can really tell
which parents are guilty and which parents are not guilty,
(11:37):
just because the innocent parents are wearing their kids on
a T shirt. They are begging people like she's four
foot five. You know, she's so sweet, she has curly hair.
Please if everyone just stood outside their door, you know today,
if you looked in the car next to you, somebody
should know something like it's a call to action. They're
begging you. They look sleep deprived, they are desperate. You
(12:00):
can read the grief on their face. Whereas parents that
are guilty, they don't really want to talk. They're like, yeah,
you know, everything's really been done. We don't really need
any more help here that help people though, they're like
honestly though, like when you pay puntimp's actually scary to see.
They're like, you know, we've done everything we can. We've
(12:22):
looked everywhere, We've exhausted all of our efforts. You know,
they don't reach out for more help. They don't want
to do interviews. They look well rested or anxious. Uh
and it's really it's sad to see because I feel
like now whenever I see it in the news, I
can tell like, oh, this person's going to be arrested.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
So now you're a body expert, body language expert because
you've watched so much certified Think. What's the name of
that show again on YouTube?
Speaker 6 (12:49):
It's called the Behavior Panel.
Speaker 3 (12:50):
Behavior Everybody's sus because everybody, hey, you catch lie?
Speaker 7 (12:56):
Hey, Hey, yeah, good morning guys. I want to call
in first of all, because that woman, she was right
her ex it's lazy getting with the neighbor. I caught
my axent a lie because he also got with my neighbor.
He worked from home. I would leave in the morning
and I would come back and all of a sudden,
there's these dishes that I've never made that are in
(13:17):
my fridge. Coming to find out, yeah, going to find out.
She would walk upstairs to my boyfriend when I would
leave and say, oh, I need sugar, Oh I need mustard,
I need this, I need that, and then she'd bring
up lust or whatever she cooked and they would eat
it together, and then he would keep the left over.
Speaker 3 (13:35):
What it's terrible And when you confront him about that,
how does he try.
Speaker 1 (13:39):
To worm out of it.
Speaker 7 (13:41):
He didn't actually, but he didn't say that nothing was
that anything was going on woman than tuition. I believe
it's always right. So I left coming to find out.
A couple months later, they started going out on dates.
I don't think they're together, but yeah.
Speaker 1 (13:56):
So what do you think she was making it mustard
and sugar?
Speaker 7 (14:00):
I don't know. I think she was coming up with
excuses just to I didn't try any of it. I
just I was that's not my my cups that you know.
Speaker 2 (14:08):
It's just it's also weird, a little oblivious to her
hitting on him and the fact that she he was
keeping the leftovers in his fridge, I mean a.
Speaker 4 (14:15):
Little bit, but like don't they don't. They always say that,
like the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
So it was like, why cooking for a man that's
not yours?
Speaker 3 (14:24):
I do not. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (14:25):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
Maybe a lot of people who like to cook will
do that, but meat, I'm never cooking for anyone that
isn't my man.
Speaker 1 (14:30):
All thanks for you, have a great day. Ye, those
are some crazy lives.
Speaker 4 (14:36):
That's crazy
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