November 10, 2025 • 14 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Dustin. Good morning, Hey John Jay.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
How's it going, longtime listener?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Oh? Thanks, Dustin? How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I'm awesome, man, I mean mostly, you know, I just
really need some advice because I'm genuinely confused and it's
at the point now where it's just starting to hurt
my feelings. Okay, it's about my boyfriend and I've been
with him for a little over a year now. I
think it's a significant amount of time. And I'm saying
(00:29):
this because he's the first guy I'm fully openly dated,
committed to, and I just really want this to work.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Okay, So how can I help you?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
So it's just that lately I'm realizing because I don't
want this to come off like a small thing, but
it's just I'm realizing, and it's been going on for
a bit, that he just doesn't remember things about me,
and it's things I feel like your partner should know
about you or recognize or remember. Like let me just say,
(01:04):
like I brought him a gift back from Europe and
when his friend asked where he got it, he said
someone else gave it to him.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
That's bad. Hurt by that for sure?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
What else?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yeah, And you know, normally you know, I can just
let that stuff slide, you know, because we're in a
serious relationship. But then the other day I found out
he doesn't even know my middle name.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
After over a year of dating.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
A little over a year, he still does not know
my middle name. Again, that's just a I mean, that's
an obvious word flagged. But to top it off, we
had a dinner reservation and he seld my last name wrong.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
We got a text here that was funny because I
was just perfect timing. This text says, Hey, my son
is two years old next week, and I had to
check how I spelled his name correctly for another kid's
birthday party.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Card her own. Yes, this spell check. He thought he's
spelled his sons the name wrong. That's that happened.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Some people are details. I mean, he might love you
just kind of like have one of those brains that
doesn't operate that.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
That's kind of what I was thinking. I was going
to ask you, is he like a big picture guy, Like,
is he like thinking ten years down the road and
he's not really normally into the details anyways, Because that
what kind of makes sense.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I mean somewhat, But it's just like when you put
these pieces together, and there's there's been more like smaller signs,
and these aren't like isolated incidents that are fure far between.
It's just it's just starting to make me after a year,
I mean a year, and I've tried bringing it up,
(02:44):
inching at it. But if she takes me feel like
I'm not important or member.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Oh, Darren, I think you're just being emotional Dustin.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Oh, maybe you don't even remember Justin's name.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Maybe it's just you.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Maybe it's you.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I think it's you, Dustin. I think it's your whole person.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
So is he going to call me Darren now.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Just a little joke?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
I think you got to talk to him about it
and just be like, are you doing this on purpose?
Or do you not realize you're doing this?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Because these details kind of.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Matter to me. Maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I don't want to be too sensitive about it, but
but I think.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You I mean, it's not one thing, it's a it's
several things at this point, and I don't think you
have to be confrontational about it.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Just be like, hey, do you do you know what's.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Kind of happening here?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
It's kind of like it's it's it's something that I'm
concerned about.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
You're like, out of my three names, you only kind
of have my first name. I don't.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I don't think it's that big of a deal just yet.
That's just my opinion for sure. In fact, we could just.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Put this out real quick eight seven seven ninety three
seven one o four seven.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Let's make Dustin feel better.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Call up and tell us about how your boyfriend, girlfriend
cergtificant other. I mean, even me as a dad, I
get all my kids names, wrongs, wrongs, wrongs, I'll say
three or four names. You have parents do that all
the time, right, So I could see him not getting
things right, and he probably mispelled your name by mistake, rushing,
but I mean, you still bring it up to him.
But we'll just do a quick round. Tell us about
(04:15):
how you're sitting to the other completely messed up something
that was Like every time my wife tells me about
her birthday, it takes a second for me.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I can't it's just not I mean, she knows my
social Security number. Yeah, like I don't know, you forget.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Some people are like that. Some people remember everything. Other
people big picture, they don't think about it. So I'm
going to give him a pass. Yeah, so that's what
I'm saying. Yeah, but still we'll do a round. So
Darren Dustin will hang up. You turn up the radio,
and you listen to what everyone says to make you
feel better.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay, Hey, I appreciate that. Thank you for all your health.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
You got a hold on a second. Oh sorry, what
what are you saying? You just want to what? Sorry?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm happy
I did.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Okay, good hold on eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven
one or four seven. Let's make him feel better. We'll
talk to you next. John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Squabble lot, squabble lop, squabble up, squabble up. Jessica, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
John Jay.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
What's up?
Speaker 7 (05:05):
Hey?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
So I was just calling because I wanted to let
you guys know that I was one of the first
people who lost the thousand dollars and then I asked
for party in the park tickets and I said that
we would dress up in bald caps for this weekend
and we did and everybody loved it. So I send pictures, Yeah,
I it. I send pictures to you guys' instagram of
(05:29):
our bald caps.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
But we went all that we liked.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Spent all the day gluing them down and actually looked bald,
and people were taking pictures of us. It was so fun.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
That was what a great show.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
That was one of my favorite parts about being there,
just seeing everyone with the bald caps on.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
I was like, yes, Piple, what was your favorite part, Jessica,
would you like about the concert?
Speaker 6 (05:49):
It was really fun. I liked everything, but my favorite
part was honestly being dressed up with one of my
best friends that are just having.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
The best time.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
Like she was so down with me to be bald,
and just like we went out to eat at Philibertos
in our bald caps and just it was just fun
to have that experience. So I really appreciate you guys
giving us the tickets and letting us have that time together.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
My sister was with me, and she was walking around
and she goes, she was texting with her daughter, and
her daughter she goes, I'm a Pivot concert and the
daughter goes, are you wearing a bald cap? And my
sister goes, lol, right, she didn't know, and then she goes,
she goes, Elle just asked me if I was wearing
a bald cap, and I see all these people that
are wearing bald caps. Is that a thing? And I'm like, yeah,
what do Why would you say? Is that a thing?
And it's a thousand people here bald cap It's a thing,
(06:33):
a thing, all right, Jessica, thanks for listening and glad
you had a good.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Time playing the park.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Thank you so much. Thanks.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, that was a great event, fantastic event.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Okay, So a little side note again, another behind the
scenes with our radio show. Dylan who answers our Phones,
was in New York over the weekend, and much like
ten thousand flights that got canceled last night, hers did too.
So I believe she's on a plane coming home now.
So we ask for your patients as we answer phones
because we're short some people. So what is everybody here
(07:06):
calling about? I don't know, So let's just see Hi, Taylor, Hi.
Speaker 8 (07:11):
I was calling because I really Dustin's story. I did
not know how to pronounce my husband's last name until
probably about a year and a half until we were dating.
I just kept pronouncing it wrong. He never corrected me,
and I didn't know that the way it was pronounced
until he stated his full name.
Speaker 9 (07:30):
At a group party and I was like, what are
you talking about?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
And I was like, uh, he had it, So how
do you what is your last name?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
How did you say it? And what's the right way
of saying it?
Speaker 8 (07:40):
Yeah, so he's Chinese.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
It's spout Zhou.
Speaker 8 (07:45):
So most people just called him Zao and so I
was like, yeah, j just out No, it's Joe. I
was like, I have to commit now. Yes. I was
like I thought this whole time, like we're gonna get married,
my last name's gonna be Zou and then come to
find out I'm gonna be Taylor. J I was like,
oh my god, I have to reconcile about Taylor.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Joe is very southern.
Speaker 8 (08:07):
Yeah, exactly. It doesn't sound Chinese at all, does not.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
How did he not correct?
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You know?
Speaker 8 (08:14):
I don't know. I guess he just because he's in
the military, they go by last names. That's what everybody
else was calling him too. I'm like, why do you
never correct anyone?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
That's great, Taylor. Thanks for calling you. So you are
married now.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
And you are Taylor show Yes, I am, yep.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Thanks for calling in, thanks for listening.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Yeah, of course today, Hi, Annah, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Hi?
Speaker 10 (08:37):
I was calling about my husband always calls my daughter's
birthday the dogs. He mixes it up with the dog's birthday.
Speaker 11 (08:46):
Her birthday June twenty fourth.
Speaker 10 (08:48):
Every time he does his benefits and everything, he's like,
June twenty fifth. I'm like, that's the dog's birthday twenty one.
Speaker 9 (08:56):
At this point he still does it.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
That's awesome.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
Doesn't mean he doesn't love him, so you definitely don't
want to mess it up on Bill Fitz.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
I think that's good that he knows the dog's birthday.
I don't know any of my dog's birthdays.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
My wife, you got too many dogs that remember.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
Thanks and I have a great day.
Speaker 8 (09:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Bye, Kendall, good morning.
Speaker 9 (09:15):
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (09:16):
What's going on? What do you call him for?
Speaker 9 (09:19):
I was forgetting my wedding anniversary. I was on a
video call with an adoption and social worker for my
daughter for my current husband to adopt her legally, and
I messed up my wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Like how many years you were married, but the date
that you were married, No.
Speaker 9 (09:38):
The date we were married. I said the twenty seventh,
and my husband just looked at me funny, and he
was like, we got married.
Speaker 7 (09:43):
On the twenty night.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
There's a lot of pressure. That was a stressful day.
Speaker 9 (09:49):
Would you care about the church There's a lot happening.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Yeah, thanks Kendall, have a great day. Thanks for listening
you too. By the way, we still have the grand
prize give away to Disneyland. We'll be doing that in
a second. Hi, Lucy, Hi, don't do it.
Speaker 7 (10:02):
Good morning everyone. So I want to share something funny
about me and my husband. I met him like about
twenty years ago, and I didn't like the nickname he
had at the time, so I was like, you know what,
I'm gonna nickname you differently. So I name him Choco.
Speaker 11 (10:18):
Right.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
We even married, you know, we know the family. Everybody
knows him for like, you know, fifteen years or so. Anyways,
just up until a couple of years ago, my uncle
calls me from Mexico. Everybody calls him Choco, right, because
that's the nickname I take for him. Anyway, So my
uncle calls me and he's like, Hey, what is Choco's name?
(10:40):
By the way, because you know, he's been in the
family forever and we have no clue what his actual
name is. I just wanted to say to Dusting, like
it is important for him to talk to his partner
and let him know what bothers him. But it's okay.
I have a little fun with it, you know, like
it's it's you know good.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
That's so funny.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Because like my mom's Mexican, and all my aunts and
uncles they all have nicknames.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
And I have an uncle, uncle Chemale Chemalie.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
His name Chimeli, right, and then I took the longest
time for I said, my mom, I go, eventually go Chimily.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
What does that mean? She was?
Speaker 5 (11:15):
His first name is Jesus. His last name is Maria
he Ma, Hemma, Hamily, Emily Shemily. That's w oh yeah.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Sometimes like we have people that we know and we
only know them by the nickname, so we just like, uh,
become fancy and just throw the last name bright and
like it just grows like that forever. So that's that's
part of being Mexican, right.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Down, Jay, Yes, Lucy, Okay, thanks for calling in, Lucy.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Have a great day, Have a great day.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Justice. What's up? Dog?
Speaker 6 (11:49):
Hi?
Speaker 11 (11:50):
So I failed her? Desson my husband, we've been together
for nine years and even to this day, he will
forget our anniversaries. He forgets my birthday, even if he
knows them, he still forgets or he'll get them wrong
and have to ask me and correct it. But I
(12:10):
kind of think it's like a guy thing. Sometimes they
just don't always remember.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
It's not that we don't love, it's not that we
don't care. It's just that, probably our whole life, somebody's
been remembering that for us, so we don't have to. Yeah,
it just doesn't stick.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
It sounds like, yeah, like I know, because like my husband,
he remembers more than.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
I do, Like maybe.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Calendar, Yeah, fifty fifty.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I have a little bit.
Speaker 5 (12:37):
Problem my boy's birthday because one of them was born
on the fourth. One of them is born on the fifth,
you know, so I get those two screwed up. Then
the youngest one was born and I now know it's July.
But for the longest time, I didn't know if it
was June or July seventeen or eighteen. But I got
it now it's July eighteen.
Speaker 7 (12:54):
That's I'm July too.
Speaker 11 (12:56):
July twentieth, is that a.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
What is that? Cancer? No?
Speaker 11 (13:00):
I don't know, yes, cancer yet.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
All right, Justice, thanks for driving and listening.
Speaker 7 (13:06):
Thank you, you have a good day.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
All right.
Speaker 5 (13:09):
So Dylan, the person who answers. Our phone is not
here because of the government shutdown, which apparently is not
a shutdown anymore.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
Well almost, there's the light at the end of the
tunnel because the Senate actually passed a bipartisan thing that's like, Okay,
we're all going to be done, but then the House
still needs to approve it, and then the President still
needs to sign it. So they did basically want to
get like all the snap benefits back immediately, but according
to like the FAA, flights are still going to continue
to be affected for the next like coming days or
(13:40):
even weeks until they can get everything.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Guys, like ten thousand flights got cat It's a lot
more than I thought we're gonna get canceled, that's for sure.
Speaker 5 (13:47):
And that's where Dylan, our phone screener, is on a
plane somewhere. So Alyssa, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 12 (13:56):
I was calling with the topic with this and I
get it. I mean, if I've been with my husband
for twenty four years, and I think it is the
guy thing. You know, my husband does this often even
after twenty four years, Like he'll ask me something and
he even knows to himself because I bring it up
(14:18):
to him often He's like, I know I already asked
you this, but and then he'll repeat the question, very
common thing, very common things.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
You know.
Speaker 12 (14:26):
They just love the door. And then maybe an hour later,
I know I asked you this, did you lock the door?
And then it will happen another time a lot of times,
I'll just tell him again, I know you you're gonna
ask me this, so I just repeat it, Yes, thanks,
thank you,
Dustin. Good morning, Hey John Jay.
Speaker 2 (00:02):
How's it going, longtime listener?
Speaker 1 (00:04):
Oh? Thanks, Dustin? How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:07):
I'm awesome, man, I mean mostly, you know, I just
really need some advice because I'm genuinely confused and it's
at the point now where it's just starting to hurt
my feelings. Okay, it's about my boyfriend and I've been
with him for a little over a year now. I
think it's a significant amount of time. And I'm saying
(00:29):
this because he's the first guy I'm fully openly dated,
committed to, and I just really want this to work.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Okay, So how can I help you?
Speaker 2 (00:41):
So it's just that lately I'm realizing because I don't
want this to come off like a small thing, but
it's just I'm realizing, and it's been going on for
a bit, that he just doesn't remember things about me,
and it's things I feel like your partner should know
about you or recognize or remember. Like let me just say,
(01:04):
like I brought him a gift back from Europe and
when his friend asked where he got it, he said
someone else gave it to him.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
That's bad. Hurt by that for sure?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
What else?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
Yeah, And you know, normally you know, I can just
let that stuff slide, you know, because we're in a
serious relationship. But then the other day I found out
he doesn't even know my middle name.
Speaker 4 (01:30):
After over a year of dating.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
A little over a year, he still does not know
my middle name. Again, that's just a I mean, that's
an obvious word flagged. But to top it off, we
had a dinner reservation and he seld my last name wrong.
Speaker 5 (01:48):
We got a text here that was funny because I
was just perfect timing. This text says, Hey, my son
is two years old next week, and I had to
check how I spelled his name correctly for another kid's
birthday party.
Speaker 1 (01:58):
Card her own. Yes, this spell check. He thought he's
spelled his sons the name wrong. That's that happened.
Speaker 3 (02:04):
Some people are details. I mean, he might love you
just kind of like have one of those brains that
doesn't operate that.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
That's kind of what I was thinking. I was going
to ask you, is he like a big picture guy, Like,
is he like thinking ten years down the road and
he's not really normally into the details anyways, Because that
what kind of makes sense.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
I mean somewhat, But it's just like when you put
these pieces together, and there's there's been more like smaller signs,
and these aren't like isolated incidents that are fure far between.
It's just it's just starting to make me after a year,
I mean a year, and I've tried bringing it up,
(02:44):
inching at it. But if she takes me feel like
I'm not important or member.
Speaker 5 (02:48):
Oh, Darren, I think you're just being emotional Dustin.
Speaker 3 (02:53):
Oh, maybe you don't even remember Justin's name.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Maybe it's just you.
Speaker 3 (02:58):
Maybe it's you.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
I think it's you, Dustin. I think it's your whole person.
Speaker 2 (03:05):
So is he going to call me Darren now.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Just a little joke?
Speaker 4 (03:09):
I think you got to talk to him about it
and just be like, are you doing this on purpose?
Or do you not realize you're doing this?
Speaker 3 (03:14):
Because these details kind of.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Matter to me. Maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing.
Speaker 2 (03:19):
I don't want to be too sensitive about it, but
but I think.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
You I mean, it's not one thing, it's a it's
several things at this point, and I don't think you
have to be confrontational about it.
Speaker 3 (03:29):
Just be like, hey, do you do you know what's.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
Kind of happening here?
Speaker 4 (03:32):
It's kind of like it's it's it's something that I'm
concerned about.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
You're like, out of my three names, you only kind
of have my first name. I don't.
Speaker 1 (03:40):
I don't think it's that big of a deal just yet.
That's just my opinion for sure. In fact, we could just.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Put this out real quick eight seven seven ninety three
seven one o four seven.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
Let's make Dustin feel better.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Call up and tell us about how your boyfriend, girlfriend
cergtificant other. I mean, even me as a dad, I
get all my kids names, wrongs, wrongs, wrongs, I'll say
three or four names. You have parents do that all
the time, right, So I could see him not getting
things right, and he probably mispelled your name by mistake, rushing,
but I mean, you still bring it up to him.
But we'll just do a quick round. Tell us about
(04:15):
how you're sitting to the other completely messed up something
that was Like every time my wife tells me about
her birthday, it takes a second for me.
Speaker 1 (04:21):
I can't it's just not I mean, she knows my
social Security number. Yeah, like I don't know, you forget.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
Some people are like that. Some people remember everything. Other
people big picture, they don't think about it. So I'm
going to give him a pass. Yeah, so that's what
I'm saying. Yeah, but still we'll do a round. So
Darren Dustin will hang up. You turn up the radio,
and you listen to what everyone says to make you
feel better.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
Okay, Hey, I appreciate that. Thank you for all your health.
Speaker 1 (04:43):
You got a hold on a second. Oh sorry, what
what are you saying? You just want to what? Sorry?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Just wanted to get this off my chest. I'm happy
I did.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Okay, good hold on eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven
one or four seven. Let's make him feel better. We'll
talk to you next. John Jay and Rich.
Speaker 3 (04:55):
Squabble lot, squabble lop, squabble up, squabble up. Jessica, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 6 (05:02):
John Jay.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
What's up?
Speaker 7 (05:05):
Hey?
Speaker 6 (05:06):
So I was just calling because I wanted to let
you guys know that I was one of the first
people who lost the thousand dollars and then I asked
for party in the park tickets and I said that
we would dress up in bald caps for this weekend
and we did and everybody loved it. So I send pictures, Yeah,
I it. I send pictures to you guys' instagram of
(05:29):
our bald caps.
Speaker 8 (05:30):
But we went all that we liked.
Speaker 6 (05:32):
Spent all the day gluing them down and actually looked bald,
and people were taking pictures of us. It was so fun.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
That was what a great show.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
That was one of my favorite parts about being there,
just seeing everyone with the bald caps on.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
I was like, yes, Piple, what was your favorite part, Jessica,
would you like about the concert?
Speaker 6 (05:49):
It was really fun. I liked everything, but my favorite
part was honestly being dressed up with one of my
best friends that are just having.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
The best time.
Speaker 6 (05:56):
Like she was so down with me to be bald,
and just like we went out to eat at Philibertos
in our bald caps and just it was just fun
to have that experience. So I really appreciate you guys
giving us the tickets and letting us have that time together.
Speaker 5 (06:10):
My sister was with me, and she was walking around
and she goes, she was texting with her daughter, and
her daughter she goes, I'm a Pivot concert and the
daughter goes, are you wearing a bald cap? And my
sister goes, lol, right, she didn't know, and then she goes,
she goes, Elle just asked me if I was wearing
a bald cap, and I see all these people that
are wearing bald caps. Is that a thing? And I'm like, yeah,
what do Why would you say? Is that a thing?
And it's a thousand people here bald cap It's a thing,
(06:33):
a thing, all right, Jessica, thanks for listening and glad
you had a good.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Time playing the park.
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Thank you so much. Thanks.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Yeah, that was a great event, fantastic event.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
Okay, So a little side note again, another behind the
scenes with our radio show. Dylan who answers our Phones,
was in New York over the weekend, and much like
ten thousand flights that got canceled last night, hers did too.
So I believe she's on a plane coming home now.
So we ask for your patients as we answer phones
because we're short some people. So what is everybody here
(07:06):
calling about? I don't know, So let's just see Hi, Taylor, Hi.
Speaker 8 (07:11):
I was calling because I really Dustin's story. I did
not know how to pronounce my husband's last name until
probably about a year and a half until we were dating.
I just kept pronouncing it wrong. He never corrected me,
and I didn't know that the way it was pronounced
until he stated his full name.
Speaker 9 (07:30):
At a group party and I was like, what are
you talking about?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
And I was like, uh, he had it, So how
do you what is your last name?
Speaker 1 (07:38):
How did you say it? And what's the right way
of saying it?
Speaker 8 (07:40):
Yeah, so he's Chinese.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
It's spout Zhou.
Speaker 8 (07:45):
So most people just called him Zao and so I
was like, yeah, j just out No, it's Joe. I
was like, I have to commit now. Yes. I was
like I thought this whole time, like we're gonna get married,
my last name's gonna be Zou and then come to
find out I'm gonna be Taylor. J I was like,
oh my god, I have to reconcile about Taylor.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
Joe is very southern.
Speaker 8 (08:07):
Yeah, exactly. It doesn't sound Chinese at all, does not.
Speaker 4 (08:10):
How did he not correct?
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You know?
Speaker 8 (08:14):
I don't know. I guess he just because he's in
the military, they go by last names. That's what everybody
else was calling him too. I'm like, why do you
never correct anyone?
Speaker 1 (08:23):
That's great, Taylor. Thanks for calling you. So you are
married now.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
And you are Taylor show Yes, I am, yep.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
Thanks for calling in, thanks for listening.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
Yeah, of course today, Hi, Annah, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (08:37):
Hi?
Speaker 10 (08:37):
I was calling about my husband always calls my daughter's
birthday the dogs. He mixes it up with the dog's birthday.
Speaker 11 (08:46):
Her birthday June twenty fourth.
Speaker 10 (08:48):
Every time he does his benefits and everything, he's like,
June twenty fifth. I'm like, that's the dog's birthday twenty one.
Speaker 9 (08:56):
At this point he still does it.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
That's awesome.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
Doesn't mean he doesn't love him, so you definitely don't
want to mess it up on Bill Fitz.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
I think that's good that he knows the dog's birthday.
I don't know any of my dog's birthdays.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
My wife, you got too many dogs that remember.
Speaker 1 (09:09):
Thanks and I have a great day.
Speaker 8 (09:11):
Thank you.
Speaker 1 (09:12):
Bye, Kendall, good morning.
Speaker 9 (09:15):
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (09:15):
How are you guys?
Speaker 1 (09:16):
What's going on? What do you call him for?
Speaker 9 (09:19):
I was forgetting my wedding anniversary. I was on a
video call with an adoption and social worker for my
daughter for my current husband to adopt her legally, and
I messed up my wedding anniversary.
Speaker 3 (09:34):
Like how many years you were married, but the date
that you were married, No.
Speaker 9 (09:38):
The date we were married. I said the twenty seventh,
and my husband just looked at me funny, and he
was like, we got married.
Speaker 7 (09:43):
On the twenty night.
Speaker 4 (09:47):
There's a lot of pressure. That was a stressful day.
Speaker 9 (09:49):
Would you care about the church There's a lot happening.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Yeah, thanks Kendall, have a great day. Thanks for listening
you too. By the way, we still have the grand
prize give away to Disneyland. We'll be doing that in
a second. Hi, Lucy, Hi, don't do it.
Speaker 7 (10:02):
Good morning everyone. So I want to share something funny
about me and my husband. I met him like about
twenty years ago, and I didn't like the nickname he
had at the time, so I was like, you know what,
I'm gonna nickname you differently. So I name him Choco.
Speaker 11 (10:18):
Right.
Speaker 7 (10:20):
We even married, you know, we know the family. Everybody
knows him for like, you know, fifteen years or so. Anyways,
just up until a couple of years ago, my uncle
calls me from Mexico. Everybody calls him Choco, right, because
that's the nickname I take for him. Anyway, So my
uncle calls me and he's like, Hey, what is Choco's name?
(10:40):
By the way, because you know, he's been in the
family forever and we have no clue what his actual
name is. I just wanted to say to Dusting, like
it is important for him to talk to his partner
and let him know what bothers him. But it's okay.
I have a little fun with it, you know, like
it's it's you know good.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
That's so funny.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
Because like my mom's Mexican, and all my aunts and
uncles they all have nicknames.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
And I have an uncle, uncle Chemale Chemalie.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
His name Chimeli, right, and then I took the longest
time for I said, my mom, I go, eventually go Chimily.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
What does that mean? She was?
Speaker 5 (11:15):
His first name is Jesus. His last name is Maria
he Ma, Hemma, Hamily, Emily Shemily. That's w oh yeah.
Speaker 7 (11:27):
Sometimes like we have people that we know and we
only know them by the nickname, so we just like, uh,
become fancy and just throw the last name bright and
like it just grows like that forever. So that's that's
part of being Mexican, right.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Down, Jay, Yes, Lucy, Okay, thanks for calling in, Lucy.
Speaker 3 (11:43):
Have a great day, Have a great day.
Speaker 1 (11:47):
Justice. What's up? Dog?
Speaker 6 (11:49):
Hi?
Speaker 11 (11:50):
So I failed her? Desson my husband, we've been together
for nine years and even to this day, he will
forget our anniversaries. He forgets my birthday, even if he
knows them, he still forgets or he'll get them wrong
and have to ask me and correct it. But I
(12:10):
kind of think it's like a guy thing. Sometimes they
just don't always remember.
Speaker 3 (12:15):
It's not that we don't love, it's not that we
don't care. It's just that, probably our whole life, somebody's
been remembering that for us, so we don't have to. Yeah,
it just doesn't stick.
Speaker 4 (12:24):
It sounds like, yeah, like I know, because like my husband,
he remembers more than.
Speaker 1 (12:28):
I do, Like maybe.
Speaker 2 (12:33):
Calendar, Yeah, fifty fifty.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
I have a little bit.
Speaker 5 (12:37):
Problem my boy's birthday because one of them was born
on the fourth. One of them is born on the fifth,
you know, so I get those two screwed up. Then
the youngest one was born and I now know it's July.
But for the longest time, I didn't know if it
was June or July seventeen or eighteen. But I got
it now it's July eighteen.
Speaker 7 (12:54):
That's I'm July too.
Speaker 11 (12:56):
July twentieth, is that a.
Speaker 1 (12:58):
What is that? Cancer? No?
Speaker 11 (13:00):
I don't know, yes, cancer yet.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
All right, Justice, thanks for driving and listening.
Speaker 7 (13:06):
Thank you, you have a good day.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
All right.
Speaker 5 (13:09):
So Dylan, the person who answers. Our phone is not
here because of the government shutdown, which apparently is not
a shutdown anymore.
Speaker 4 (13:18):
Well almost, there's the light at the end of the
tunnel because the Senate actually passed a bipartisan thing that's like, Okay,
we're all going to be done, but then the House
still needs to approve it, and then the President still
needs to sign it. So they did basically want to
get like all the snap benefits back immediately, but according
to like the FAA, flights are still going to continue
to be affected for the next like coming days or
(13:40):
even weeks until they can get everything.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
Guys, like ten thousand flights got cat It's a lot
more than I thought we're gonna get canceled, that's for sure.
Speaker 5 (13:47):
And that's where Dylan, our phone screener, is on a
plane somewhere. So Alyssa, good morning, Good morning.
Speaker 12 (13:56):
I was calling with the topic with this and I
get it. I mean, if I've been with my husband
for twenty four years, and I think it is the
guy thing. You know, my husband does this often even
after twenty four years, Like he'll ask me something and
he even knows to himself because I bring it up
(14:18):
to him often He's like, I know I already asked
you this, but and then he'll repeat the question, very
common thing, very common things.
Speaker 4 (14:26):
You know.
Speaker 12 (14:26):
They just love the door. And then maybe an hour later,
I know I asked you this, did you lock the door?
And then it will happen another time a lot of times,
I'll just tell him again, I know you you're gonna
ask me this, so I just repeat it, Yes, thanks,
thank you,
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