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Episodes
September 22, 2026 • 49 mins
Grapefruiting! It's a new sex act involving fruit! Can *any* word be verbed? Apparently!
A woman wonders how anyone can successfully fake an orgasm, when the physical contractions should be noticeably felt.
On the Magnum, Dan brings on a guest to definitively answer the question you all have: How long must you wait to masturbate after you've had a heart attack? Dr. Eugene Fan is a cardiologist with nothing but good news for ...
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September 18, 2026 • 17 mins
No words exchanged. He lying in a hotel bed. She enters and just watches. It was their first and only date.
Rachel’s story proves that scheduled sex most certainly CAN be hot.
Hear her story, get turned on.
If YOU have a delicious tale to tell, write it down and send it in to Q@Savage.Love.
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September 15, 2026 • 45 mins
Bummer! A man had just met with a male-female couple who wanted him to take part in a kinky three-way. But when he confessed that he sometimes has trouble coming, they cancelled. Can he train himself to blow a load? Need he?
Speaking of loads, a woman credits her beautiful, supple skin to the facial treatments her husband obligingly administers. Can this be true? Any dermatologists care to weigh in?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with...
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September 11, 2026 • 19 mins
Meet Tom who went on a very special vacation with his girlfriend.
Packing checklist:
Kink outfits
Consent Form
Waste bag
How did it go? You'll find out.
Send us your stories, your wonderful stories!
Q@Savage.Love
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September 8, 2026 • 57 mins
A man has been together with his boyfriend for 10 years. The caller works long hard hours and values peace and quiet when he comes home. But his boyfriend works from home all day and pounces on his husband, wanting to chat and interact. Dan was in a similar situation, but don't tell Dan's husband how he dealt with it.
A divorced woman with children has been dating a man. Both are in open relationships, and he wears a wedding ring...
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September 4, 2026 • 16 mins
Cat started a sex toy company, so she had to come out as kinky to friends and family. What she didn’t expect was the stampede of her mother’s boomer friends asking for product…
Do you have a story of something you tried that was like, so embarrassing??!!Let us hear it: Q@Savage.Love
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September 1, 2026 • 53 mins
Any military lawyers in the house? A gay man and his boyfriend, both serving active duty, want to open their relationship. But infidelity is forbidden by military law. How risky would this be?
Now that chastity play its all the rage, should we assume that a key necklace means something deeply kinky? And if so, should we knowingly wink when we see one?
Sex/science nerds rejoice! Our Magnum guest this week is Distinguished Research...
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August 28, 2026 • 18 mins
Hey Everybody! Meet Jay- a pan, poly furry who, along with 15 other queer furries, met up for a "kink tasting, orgy event."
What goes on at kink cabin? We won't say here, but please know that an inflatable horse costume was involved.
Also, Dan brings a much needed Marxist interrogation to the story.
If you have a tale to share, write it up and send it in to Q@Savage.Love
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August 25, 2026 • 51 mins
A gay, married couple journeyed to Montreal to enjoy the services of a tantric masseur. And they REALLY enjoyed him. But did this open Pandora's box? How can they continue to have earth-shattering, mind-blowing sex when it's back to the hum-drum two of them?
A caller wonders if folks who enjoy adult baby play actually... well, actually shit themselves. The answer comes from Dan's guest, Fancy of the InTheNook podcast. The show cha...
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August 21, 2026 • 17 mins
After 22 years of marriage, well, it was just time.
Hear Trix’s story about writing, filming and performing in her “queer adoring gang bang” story.
And how she feels about the possibility of her kids stumbling across it one day.
How have YOU kept your marriage fresh? Tell us a story at Q@Savage.Love
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August 18, 2026 • 59 mins
As this is a wholesome, family-focused show, we bookend the episode with parenting questions. First, a woman's 5 year-old nephew wants to wear a padlock around his neck. He saw this on a stranger in a grocery store and thought it looked cool. Should they let him?
And last, when your five year old asks "What is sex?" What should you say?
Our guest is the incomparable Jane Don't! The break out star of Season 18 of Ru Paul's drag ...
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August 14, 2026 • 20 mins
Jade is normally a sub with her husband. But when she inserted the sounding rod into his urethra, did she really feel submissive? Really?
It’s a journey…
Tell us all about your novel erotic transgressions.Q@Savage.Love
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August 13, 2026 • 45 mins
Sex & Politics #46
Can we really change?
Welcome to Sex & Politics!For this bonus episode, Dan chatted with Benoit Denizet-Lewis, an associate professor at Emerson College, a longtime contributing writer for The New York Times Magazine, and the author, most recently, of “You’ve Changed: The Promise and Price of Self-Transformation.” He and Dan talked about the various ways people can change- how prison...
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August 11, 2026 • 51 mins
A woman in her 60s has a husband who is into feet. She's planning to get a professional foot massage. Can he come along and watch if he promises to hide his boner?
A woman has a boyfriend who provides financial security and perfectly fine sex. But she finds him so very dull. Is a comfortable but boring relationship enough?
On the Magnum, meet comedian, filmmaker and avowed cuck queen Edy Modica. She and Dan talk about her brill...
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August 7, 2026 • 15 mins
What’s it like for a trans man at a gay leather convention?Listen and you will find out…
Tell us about your brave excursion.
Write about your experience and send it to Dan: Q@Savage.Love
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August 4, 2026 • 52 mins
Her friend's new girlfriend stinks to high heaven. Is this intentional? Is it a kink? What would be the polite way to ask her to wash up?
A woman with super-high libido is trying to convince her husband to have a three-way with another woman. But he doesn't wanna. How can she convince him to do the thing that many straight men would kill for?
On the Magnum, a woman is being drawn in to more and more extreme porn. Now she needs t...
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July 31, 2026 • 16 mins
“He had a kiddy pool set up by the time we were there…”
Meet Abe, who finally got to *immerse* himself in the world of gunge.You haven’t heard of gunge, you say? Simply press play.
If you had a sexual experience that called for a LOT of logistics, write about it and send us the details toQ@Savage.Love.
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July 28, 2026 • 52 mins
An intersex man had his urethra operated on when he was a toddler. Now he wants to try sounding but his doctors advise against it. He is suspicious of doctors after his non-consensual surgeries. Should he ignore them and pursue his pleasure?
A 66 year-old woman loves to give blow jobs to her lucky husband. But sometimes she gets a bit too enthusiastic and ends up with bruises on her lip. Will people see them and know how she got...
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July 24, 2026 • 18 mins
Monica is a tried and true, old school Magnum sub. With Dan’s advice in her head, she applied to join a “foot night” where men pay to play…with women’s feet.
Did Monica have a good time?What did she wear?And exactly how much money did she make?
All is revealed.
If you have an experience you enjoyed or endured, write about it, and send it to us at Q@Savage.Love.
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July 21, 2026 • 53 mins
Ouch! A woman has been fisting her boyfriend to both of their delight. But guess what hurts: Her hand! How can she get in there comfortably?
A woman is trying to convince both her conspiracy-minded friend and her wife that ultra rich people are not really eating babies. Because...they aren't...right?
On the Magnum, Dan chats with Stephen Dubner - host of Freakonomics Radio. His new show, Better in Person, explores how conversat...
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