Unfiltered Sex Conversations

We have some big topics today! We have both been in the midst of some big life changes and that can affect the bedroom. So join us as we chat finding the spark again after life has thrown you some stuff.

There is still time to join us for the August book club chat (late because of above life stuff), We are meeting on Tuesday Sept 8th on Patreon. We are reading "The Dark Lord's Guide to Dating and Other War Crimes" by Tiffany Hunt. S...

Today we are taking about endings, very specifically ones that are happy. Even at our big ages, there are still subjects about sex that it feels like no one really prepares you for. So let's do a little sex ed today. Plus we want your feedback, but you'll need to listen to the episode to find out why.

Book club for August is Tuesday September 1st (yes we realize that is technically not August, but life has been lifeing this month). ...

This episode is one you should share with your group chat. We rapid fire some of our most unusual, weird and normal sex questions. Comment on the episode and let us know your answers our rapid fire sex questions.

August book club is happening soon! We are reading "The Dark Lord's Guide to Dating (and other war crimes)" by Tiffany Hunt. All this happens over on our Patreon so click the link and come join us. Come hang out with us on ...

How many times have you heard the question "Was that good for you?" Did it ever feel like you could give honest feedback to the asker? Join us as we talk building trust, asking for what you want and asking better questions to uplevel your sex life.

Join us August 28th for book club! We are reading "The Dark Lord's Guide to Dating (and other war crimes)" by Tiffany Hunt.

We will be live on Patreon to discuss all the good stuff so hit ...

How amazing is it when you have a partner who likes to say yes to your ideas, yes to your curiosity, yes to your shenanigans, but... What if it feels like that yes, is coming more from a place of not wanting to disappoint you instead of true enthusiasm about what you are doing. We are talking about people pleasing, building trust and creating real emotional intimacy that leads to mind-blowing sex.

July book club is just around the c...

Normally we talk about sex from a heterosexual woman's perspective, but today we thought we might talk about men's experiences. Now before you decide not to listen, we aren't trying to center their experience we just thought this article about men and them having multiple O's was interesting. You can read the article below. So join us for a fun and enlightening conversation and share this with someone important in your life.

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This week we dived headfirst into some Substack goodness! We talk about kink and fantasies, sexual energy, and get really personal. Join our very academic and interesting conversations this week. The articles referenced are all listed below. They are amazing reads and we encourage everyone to check them out!

"The #1 Kinky Thing Women Crave In Bed!" by Dr. Emma Blake

"The Energy That Makes a Man Hard Before You Even Touch Him" by The ...

There are a lot of good and valid reasons as to why you might need to take a break from sex inside your relationship. This is the follow up to our conversation about taking a sex break, so make sure you listen to last week's episode too if you want the full context.

We also answered some really juicy questions on the Patreon this week, so make you join! You get the episodes early, you get them on video and you get questions that are...

What happens when you take sex out of the equation to give yourself some clarity? We are talking about having a deeper connection with your person, finding out if you still like each other even if you aren't still having sex and missing your person.

Don't forget to join us for book club on June 30th. We are reading "In Dreams" by Mila Crawford. Grab a mocktail or cocktail and let's talk about steamy books! Join us on Patreon!

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This week we are revealing the embarrassing sex questions we have been too nervous to ask. We also talk about how we may accidentally create fake emotional compatibility in relationships and what secretly gets us excited.

Join us on June 30th for bookclub! We are reading "In Dreams" by Mila Crawford. We go live on Patreon on the last Tuesday of the month to discuss our spicy read. Head on over to Patreon and join us!

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We aren't even talking about sharing numbers! Sometimes a partner asks how their parts "compare" to past partners and while it can seem like an innocent question it needs to be handle with kindness and sensitivity. So join our very interesting conversation and please drop your thoughts in the comments!

We have a book club! Join us for the June book club, we are reading "In Dreams" by Mila Crawford. We go live over in Patreon on the ...

We have all been a bit naive about what was out there and available when it comes to sex. Sometime we just need the right book, the right movie, the right partner to show us what is possible. This week we are talking all about expanding our sexual horizons.

We have a book club! Join us on the last Tuesday of the month for a lively discussion over spicy, smutty books. There is still time to join on Patreon for May's book "Birthday Gi...

Yes, sex and relationships can have their serious moments but so much of your sex and relationships can be fun too. This week we are diving into the playfulness of sex whether that is discussing morning or evening spicy time, cute nicknames for you know what...and letting your relationship be it's own thing.

We are opening up our bookclub to everyone this May. Join us over on Patreon as we read "Birthday Girl" by Penelope Douglas.

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If there is one thing you can count on us for it's to always say, "Consent is sexy." This week we are talking about kink, consent, doing what you enjoy in bed and naming your partner's privates. We cover so much! Share this with someone who might appreciate these conversations.

Our book club for May is FREE! Normally our bookclub comes with membership to our Patreon, but in May we want everyone to come chat, connect and enjoy a mock...

Have we all named either our own privates or someone else's? Either way, this week we are bravely discussing our thoughts on nicknames, what we think is foreplay (that others might not) and so much more. Make sure to share this with a friend!

Our April book club is Tuesday April 28th on Patreon. We are reading "The Love Lie" by Monica McCallan. Join us for a live discussion, mocktail recipes and so much spicy chat! Come hang out wit...

Intimacy, power dynamics, anatomy, we are really talking about everything this week. Join us for a bit of book chat as well.

We have a book club! Join us the last Tuesday of the month as we read "The Love Lie" by Monica McCallan. Come on over to our Patreon and let's chat.

The weather is starting to warm up and so should your reading. Join our Patreon and get access to The Barely Appropriate Reading Challenge. Join us starting in Jun...

This week we are diving into the fun sex conversations you can have with your person. We're talking about building confidence in the bedroom, what you wish your partner would ask about sex, and what special talents are you bringing to the bedroom. If you have ever been on the fence about joining our Patreon, now is the time! This week's Patreon episode gets real personal and real spicy!

We have a book club! Join us the last Tuesday ...

So who initiates sex in your relationship more, you or your partner? Do you feel intimidated to initiate sex? Listen we understand and feel for you because we have been there too! Join us as we talk who and how to initiate sex, rethinking role play and why you should join us for our next book club.

Interested in talking about spicy books with someone? Join us on Tues April 28th for our next book club meeting. This month we are readi...

Did you know we also host a virtual monthly bookclub? If you love reading spicy, sexy and dark romances then this is the place for you. We talk about what we loved, what turned us on, what we didn't like, nothing is off limits. This is your safe space to share your thoughts on the latest spicy book and we are here for that! Enjoy this replay of our January book club, where we discuss our thoughts on "Hooked" by Emily McIntire.

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