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January 10, 2025 13 mins

What to do if you have phone anxiety. 

Jodi's Hollywood Outsider

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to part two of today's Murphy, Sam and Jody
Daily Show podcast.

Speaker 2 (00:07):
When you hear the words phone anxiety, I mean to me,
I guess I think in our time and our culture,
the first thing that jumps to my mind would be, oh, where,
I can't live without it. I can't be without it
this device.

Speaker 1 (00:19):
Oh yeah, right, exactly, your phone's at home, you're in
the car.

Speaker 2 (00:22):
That's not what phone anxiety actually is. The opposite, right,
I guess.

Speaker 1 (00:27):
It's on it all the time.

Speaker 2 (00:29):
It's a certain group of people, and it's young people
who are very anxious about making a phone call.

Speaker 1 (00:37):
Actually making a voice call.

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Speaking to someone on the phone. Now, what's so funny
about that? For me, it was the greatest day in
my life when I was able to get a phone
in my room when I was a teenager and you know,
talk to my boyfriend all night or whatever I was,
or have private conversations instead of having them in the
kitchen with.

Speaker 3 (00:58):
The long cord.

Speaker 2 (00:59):
Ye, Dad would walk in and I would try to
hide in the pantry, you know, so he wouldn't hear
what I was saying to my friends.

Speaker 1 (01:05):
And so back in the days of the home phone.

Speaker 3 (01:08):
Right, So fast forward to today.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
Yes, there are plenty of younger people who have had
these devices in their hands their whole lives.

Speaker 3 (01:16):
And it's which are called phones, but they.

Speaker 2 (01:19):
Don't use them that way and so they're not schooled
in the art of having a conversation or.

Speaker 1 (01:25):
It's just not a comfort zone thing. And if you're
used to texting.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
Anytime I've told our girls that you call somebody, they're like, wait.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Would that anxiety be the same for FaceTime? I guess
it would be when you're calling a stranger.

Speaker 3 (01:37):
It is always when you're calling a stranger, you know.

Speaker 1 (01:38):
I mean, so like when I was a kid, I
can remember my phone anxiety was whenever it was a
girl I wanted to ask out for the first time,
I couldn't. I couldn't dial the phone.

Speaker 2 (01:49):
Yeah, those are a whole other issue involved with that,
but yes, it was the phone. So I bring it
up because there are some gen zers who can now
take a college course in this. Nottingham College in England
has added phone confidence to its curriculum.

Speaker 1 (02:06):
That's cool.

Speaker 3 (02:06):
Yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
Teachers run them through drills that mimic typical phone scenarios.

Speaker 3 (02:13):
Let's say you need to.

Speaker 1 (02:14):
Call when it rains and say hello.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
This is a good life skill. It's not funny, it's
a good life skill.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
What if you have to call someone about something very
important for your pharmacy or something.

Speaker 1 (02:27):
Oh yes, absolutely, if you're intimidated, if it's something that, yeah,
you reach out to somebody that you perceive is bigger
than you are, more sanitative.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
If you have children, it's something to be aware of
to work on.

Speaker 1 (02:37):
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(04:01):
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Speaker 3 (04:11):
On police and security, you're.

Speaker 5 (04:14):
Up to date.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Three things to know today. Have you guys heard of
body dysmorphia?

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Is that when you have a dysmorphia is a fancy
word a distorted view.

Speaker 4 (04:27):
Of your own body.

Speaker 3 (04:28):
Exactly do you google that?

Speaker 4 (04:30):
Now?

Speaker 1 (04:31):
It is you know that I took a shot, I mean,
dysmorphia is one of those words I guess I've heard before,
but I don't hear it enough to really connect a
note of there.

Speaker 2 (04:40):
There's a new term called video conferencing dysmorphia that a
lot of us are feeling because of spending time on
video conferences, on zooms, on teams, and when you see
your face and you don't look like you thought you looked.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
Guess what it's prompting.

Speaker 2 (04:56):
A bigger It's creating surgery, a bigger demand for cosmetic surgeries.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
I've got to read this up here. Okay, sorry.

Speaker 3 (05:06):
Dysmorphia.

Speaker 1 (05:06):
Dysmorphia it's abnormality in the shape or size of a
specified part of the body.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah, but it says, well, this is about our perception
of it. I feel like this is a term I've
been hearing about forever, and I feel like, you know, okay,
I first thought it was more like women have body dysmorphia,
like you feel you look horrible in your bathing suit
when you actually look normal in your bathing suit or whatever.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
You know, He's not just women.

Speaker 1 (05:33):
Right, MAO Clinic says, it's it's the body body dysmorphic.
This order that you're talking about is a health condition
where you obsess about, you know, certain things that you
perceive as defects, right, and other people may not even
see them, you know.

Speaker 3 (05:46):
Right.

Speaker 2 (05:47):
It's such a weird, you know area of you know,
discussion because none of us see ourselves clearly, and we
do kind of assume the worst. I hope you don't obsess.
I understand it. I have felt in the last year
of my life, and my girlfriends know it. I don't
think you know it or believe it, Murphy, but I

(06:08):
know that my face is changing because life it's supposed to,
and I know that, but I.

Speaker 3 (06:13):
Don't like it.

Speaker 5 (06:14):
You know.

Speaker 2 (06:14):
It's like I can see minimal changes and then the
kinds that are expected. I feel like it's falling, you know.
It's like deeper creases and things like that. Not something
that you would notice.

Speaker 4 (06:25):
Mine is my left eye.

Speaker 6 (06:27):
Oh, I feel like it's like a lazy eye or
it's short because when I take selfies it's sound.

Speaker 4 (06:33):
I try to open up the left.

Speaker 6 (06:34):
Eye more and then I go too far and I
look like I'm surprised.

Speaker 2 (06:40):
Understand that's you though no one else sees it that way,
and if they were to, so what But you know.

Speaker 1 (06:46):
The good news about the you know, the video calls
like you're talking about. At least you can use filters
and other things. Now, most of the programs you use
you can soften. You can you know, and put a
cat face on you.

Speaker 2 (06:56):
If you want to sell out to the plastic surgeons, Murph,
you put a filter on it.

Speaker 1 (07:01):
Coming up, Jody has another Hollywood outsider coming.

Speaker 2 (07:04):
Up next, though more of your thrift finds rolling in
and Grateful Friday continues. Jump in and join us eight
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Speaker 1 (07:18):
Never miss a call Murphy, Sam and Jody twenty four
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Speaker 5 (07:24):
Hi, my name is Angelo Organ. I was calling to
say that I'm grateful for the power of DNA. My husband,
in the course of three weeks starting right before Christmas,
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(07:45):
our new family. So we just wanted to tell you
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a good day.

Speaker 4 (07:52):
Gad bless mind us.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Thank you for leaving the voicemail.

Speaker 3 (07:55):
Let's say a lot of instant family. That's a lot
of new people at one time.

Speaker 1 (08:00):
Yeah, twenty three and me has done a lot of that,
you know, or the other DNA test, you know.

Speaker 2 (08:03):
Twenty three and meter has done a lot of things information.

Speaker 3 (08:08):
That people thought was a secret a lot.

Speaker 1 (08:09):
Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 3 (08:11):
We don't have to go there though.

Speaker 2 (08:12):
Okay, so from our Instagram and Facebook pages, Elizabeth sent
this in the best thing I found thrifting was a
Duney and Burke Satchel purse. I know what you're talking about.

Speaker 4 (08:23):
You It's just a lot of and Burke's one of
those fantas, of course you do.

Speaker 3 (08:27):
It's a brand.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
Have you ever touched one Batchel purse?

Speaker 3 (08:34):
It was authentic.

Speaker 2 (08:35):
I looked up the original price, which was around two
hundred and fifty dollars. That's a lower or mid level
brand really as far as the price goes.

Speaker 3 (08:42):
Yeah, yeah, no, I'm just it's a fact. It's just
a fact. You know what a Louis costs thousands? The
purse was in great You know what Louis is Murphy?

Speaker 1 (08:54):
Ye as Louis Vauton. I actually do know that one.
Thank you score one for the Murphy.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
Let me go back the price was I'm sorry, it
was authentic. I looked it up.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
The original price was around two hundred and fifty dollars.
The purse was in great condition except for some ink
marks on the inside, and it was only a couple
of seasons old. I purchased the purse four three dollars
and ninety nine cents.

Speaker 3 (09:16):
Wo man, that feels so good.

Speaker 4 (09:20):
It's funny to me how purses have a handbag? Handbagsk you, well,
handbags have a season.

Speaker 3 (09:27):
Of course they do, based on the way.

Speaker 4 (09:29):
Men's wallets are just men's wallets.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
And when they come out to me, it doesn't matter
if it's the bag you want to rock, it's the bag.

Speaker 3 (09:36):
Yeah, want to rock, Elizabeth, Thank you for that. Keep
it coming anytime on Instagram and Facebook.

Speaker 1 (09:41):
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Before January is over, We're going to have a pair
of documentaries about Sean Diddy. Comb's no kidding, some dueling
documentaries really, but I mean, if you're interested and you
can't quite understand this story, this one is like true
crime meets celebrity. So it's going to These documentaries are
going to be big. The first one is called The
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(10:10):
and then we have one called The Fall of Diddy,
which will be streaming January twenty seventh on Max.

Speaker 3 (10:16):
And so they put those together.

Speaker 2 (10:18):
You know, you also pay attention to who's bringing you
the documentary to decide, hmmm, how.

Speaker 4 (10:22):
How quickly they slapped it together?

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Well, number credible, so Max they don't slap things together.
I would say Peacock doesn't really either. So it's going
to be involved.

Speaker 6 (10:33):
One Cock is the one too where they talk to
former bodyguards and.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
All kinds of people, people who've been at the parties.
The one on Max will premiere on Max after it
premieres on Investigation Discovery.

Speaker 3 (10:44):
But that's not all.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Later this year, we think the Spring fifty cent is
producing that documentary and he's been doing He was doing
that and working on that before the world knew that
there was even a problem. It is, and it's it's
going to be on Netflix. He's already signed that deal.
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(11:06):
a hard story to understand. There's going to be a
ton on it if you can stand to watch it.

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Now she's the top artist.

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Ariana Grande said she's going to focus more on her acting,
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We got the second part of Wicked coming on later
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Oh my gosh, I can see it.

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did that, and it'd have to be done perfectly, And
I'm interested.

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You know, she looks like her I know already, and
we know she can act. She was acting in our
lives before we heard her sing a note, remember that
it was like a show or something.

Speaker 4 (12:43):
Yeah, that was kind of acting. Yeah, she had that
high pitched voice.

Speaker 3 (12:46):
From still she's been on a set. You learn things there.

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She's got chops and look what she's doing with Wicked,
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He said, he met the colonel years ago a few times.

Speaker 6 (13:29):
It's called The Colonel and the King, and it's about
both of them and their relationship, and it's coming out
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