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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Thanks for hanging out with us and subscribing to the Murphy,
(00:02):
Sam and Jody Podcast. Here are some of our favorite
moments from recently and we'll be back with you after
summer vacation. Monday, July fourteenth.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Welcome to the second half of today's Murphy, Sam and
Jody Podcast.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Shouting out and celebrating my cousins this week because we
were talking about my cousin Crystal earlier throwing an Alan
Rickman themed birthday party her sixteen year old daughter, but
her sister Candice, we celebrated her and her daughter with
special needs, Hope on our Facebook and Instagram pages this
week because Hope is now eighteen years old and went
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to prom the other night, and you are loving that dress,
and rightly so. She looks like an angel in that thing.
And I just had to sell that picture when she
sent it, When Candace sent it to everybody in the family,
every single person, we all just were like because it
just means so much, because Hope is a girl, a
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child who's now eighteen years old, who will always sort
of be a child. She has special needs.
Speaker 3 (01:03):
She's not nonverbal, she's nonverbal. She eats with a G tube.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
I mean and it's been an incredible, long, beautiful road
for Canvas and Hope and the whole family. She has
an older brother, James, who's very involved too. But when
she sent that picture to us, well, first she sent
me a picture of just the dress, yeah, and I
was like, oh my gosh, later I'm going to get
a picture of Hope in the dress.
Speaker 3 (01:29):
We sure did, so I had to share that.
Speaker 1 (01:31):
With you, just because it's been such a long road
and it's so much harder than anyone can know, just
life with a child with special needs. You know, Hope
has to eat every four hours with her gtube, so
no matter what is going on, imagine having to stop
and do something like that, feed your child that way
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every four hours, no matter what you're doing.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
I've only experienced, and she will always be fully dependent
on somebody else.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
She will.
Speaker 1 (01:59):
So that's why it's you know, when you have a
child with needs like that, you celebrate little things. Little
things are huge. And then seeing your prom is huge
anyway for any child. And she went to sen your
prom the other night.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah, and the fact that she got to actually enjoy
that yeah to dress, So it's really it is just
so sweet, the joy you can see the joy.
Speaker 1 (02:21):
In her face celebrating Candace to being a mom that
I'm just in awe of.
Speaker 3 (02:26):
But my keep the wow this week is My wows
are from you.
Speaker 1 (02:29):
On our Facebook and social pages, Brandy sent this, I've
always admired the siblings of special needs children, their heart
for their sibling carries, and on how they treat other children,
not just special needs children, Michelle said. Prime example of
how the lady makes the dress. I'm guessing she was
the prettiest bell at the ball. Candace became a warrior
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the second Hope was born and it has paid off.
That is true, Michelle. Just look at the smile on
her daughter's face. Hope she had a most magical experience
she did. If you want to see the pick is
of course on our Instagram and Facebook pages.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Three things to note Today returns to it's normal time
when we get back from vacation. In the meantime, here's
a little flashback.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
If you have an idea of something crazy cool that
you'd like to do at your own wedding, by all means,
do it because it is your wedding. Coolest things you've
ever seen at weddings, the most memorable we want to
hear about them, so bring it.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Hey, Tom, how are you doing?
Speaker 4 (03:31):
Oh? Not that he's coolest thing on a wedding. I
went to a wedding. They had a guy hand rolling cigars.
They gave out cigars, everyone had the way ye, And
then they went out after the after dinner, and the
guy smoked cigars with his daughter that he had handed
out when she was born.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
Okay, wait, oh, he hand rolled cigars, but they also.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Smoked, Yeah, saved cigars that he had handed out when
when she was born. Okay, so he had saved him
and had a couple of the bluffed over. He and
his daughter smoked the cigars, but he had a guy
hand rolling cigars so that everybody at the wedding could.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Join them as a gift.
Speaker 1 (04:15):
Okay, so he's just a cigar aficionado and that was a.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Part of it all. It was very cool, kidding. That
is very cool. Thank you. I'll never forget hearing this, Thank.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
You, Tom. I just I guess for me, it's like
if if you've held a cigar that long as it's
still good not stale. I'm not in a cigar a cigar.
Don't you have to keep cigars in a humidifier or crazy.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
Wait a second, it's infants humidifier, cigars humidor.
Speaker 3 (04:46):
Yes, I think that you have to keep them that way.
Speaker 1 (04:48):
But if you keep them that way, apparently they're a
sort of forever situation, right you can't they must be.
Speaker 3 (04:57):
I don't really know either.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
I've always assumed that a cigar would make me sick,
So I've never.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
You never smoked one or even taken a couple of puffs.
Speaker 1 (05:07):
No, I've always been intrigued, you know, at the smell
and that just the whole it's a vibe, right, thank you,
that's the word.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
Murphy has never either, have you?
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Oh yeah, I have. I did for it, not since
you and I've known each other, but you know, I'm
gonna I tried to when it was kind of like
a thing and becoming trendy at one point, you know,
with the cigar bars and all that, and that was
a long time ago.
Speaker 3 (05:32):
How did it go over?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
It was fine as long as you didn't inhale it,
which is a mistake most people make the first time
they have a.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Cigar, you know, So did it make you sick?
Speaker 4 (05:41):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:41):
The cigar didn't, The alcohol did have? So long since
quit that as you know, you.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Know, it's nice to have an artist in the family,
and it shows up in ways you just you can't expect,
and it's lovely. So if you have someone in your
family who's very artistic, no, it's going to show up.
Speaker 3 (06:00):
If you please, let me tell the story. Please let
me tell the story. What Phoebe did for you the
other night.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Oh, I don't have any problem with that. You know,
this is before my big debut on stage and I
wasn't home for this.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
I was so sad you have missed this.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
But Phoebe told me, and then Murphy later at night
in bed, is like, did Phoebe tell you what she
and I did today? So Murphy had to shoot some
a couple of little videos like you know, just like
on your devices, right, selfie videos for work stone.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
There were for a professional purpose, so it couldn't be
just any old selfie, right, right.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
So I was not home and Phoebe was at the house,
and did you ask her?
Speaker 3 (06:37):
Did she offer?
Speaker 2 (06:38):
No? I asked her. Okay, I wanted to say, hey,
Phoebe looks I don't like the circles under my eyes,
you know, do you have any makeup? Mom's makeup? I'm
sure it is, probably because you know, you're a porcelain
skinned person, Joe to your makeup is a little wider
than my fans, and I'm olive skin. So I asked
her if she had some, you know, and she said no,
she said, but let's go see what moms.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
She took Murphy to my vanity where all my stuff
is cosmetics and whatnot and all the mirrors and what
did she do?
Speaker 3 (07:08):
Tell Sam?
Speaker 2 (07:09):
So she took So what's in the jar with the
little squirty thing on.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
The top, That that's foundation.
Speaker 2 (07:13):
Foundation. So Phoebe took foundation.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
And she perfectly matched my skin.
Speaker 2 (07:16):
Yeah. And then and then the palette thing.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
What's that called a palette? A makeup palette of the
eyeshadow like a Morphy palette. Yeah, okay, it's a Morphi
eyeshadow palette.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Yeah. And so she picked the shat eye shadow palette
that and she squirted some of the foundation in her
hand and just kept darkening it until it matched my skin.
And then once it was done, then she just patted
me out of the eyes. And I mean to tell you,
I couldn't tell the difference. I'm like, wow, I just you.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Know, she's an artist.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
It was a perfect It was better than I got
in one of the stories one time going not that
I go shopping make up all the time.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
You know, you did for other video purposes, get some
concealer wants and oh he loved that experience because the
young lady who helped him and all that.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
But well, I mean, she was a ballet dancer from
the Ukraine.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
It was a good help you, I know anyway, of course.
But it's so funny that if you live with someone
who's an artist, ask for their help, because they will
help you in ways they just literally create. They don't
see roadblocks. She didn't see a roadblock of there's no
concealer here to match your skin.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
And when I tell you that she was done, it
was less than five minutes, I could not believe it.
I mean, it was that best to keep it on
all day.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
Yeah, for you online at Murphysamonjody dot com our three
ingredient homemade lemonade recipe.
Speaker 5 (08:38):
Got a little help for you if you need to
change up your bedtime routine to help you fall asleep
a little better. And Murphy, I know what you're going
to say. These have been around, These have been around
for years and I know you take part in or
you listen to these. A lot is audio books.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
I know.
Speaker 5 (08:52):
Yeah, I've never listened to an audiobook before. I always
do my own reading. Really, yeah, have you ever listened
to one?
Speaker 3 (08:58):
I have long ago when they were new, Like yes.
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I mean to me, they're a great companion books sometimes
if you're driving, or sometimes it's a convenient way to
read quote unquote a book, you know, when you don't
have the time to Actually, I've worked through one. Apparently.
Speaker 5 (09:13):
I've got some Amazon plan that lets me get a
free audio book a month. Nice and it popped up
last month and I was like, well, it's when you're
giving one of those opportunities, it's like what am I
going to use it on?
Speaker 2 (09:23):
What am I going to? Which one's the best?
Speaker 3 (09:25):
Correct?
Speaker 5 (09:26):
And so I went with Born to Run the Bruce
Springsteen autobiography.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
Before long, I began to feel the empowerment the instrument
and my work were bringing me. I had a secret
there was something I could do something.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
So it's his voice soothing and putting you to sleep
as what it.
Speaker 5 (09:43):
Is it actually is, and I actually liked hearing it
coming straight from him reading it.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
To me in correct if it's a biography or a memoir.
There is something special about it being the person who
wrote it.
Speaker 2 (09:55):
And I do listen to it in the car.
Speaker 5 (09:56):
I've listened to it on the way to work and
on the way home, because it's it's like a regular book.
Once you get into it, it takes over.
Speaker 3 (10:03):
Sure, if we want to, you got to have it.
Speaker 5 (10:06):
But it what I've found is if I put down
the phone and I, you know, get rid of TV,
and I go to that at night to fall asleep,
I put my headphones on and you know, for like
a half hour before going to bed, that's what I
listen to and it chills you out, and you know,
for me, it educates me musically.
Speaker 2 (10:23):
Sure, so you're retaining the book even though you're going
to sleep.
Speaker 5 (10:26):
Yeah, because oh I don't fall asleep to it. I
listen to it and it's like, okay, when he takes
a break for a chapter, I'm gonna take a break
here because I'm getting a little sleepy, my worriesleep.
Speaker 1 (10:38):
I fall asleep, and then six chapters before I wake
up in the middle of the night going wait, I
missed somebody.
Speaker 2 (10:43):
I missed Born in the USA.
Speaker 1 (10:44):
Wait that Yeah, it is a cool option if you've
never done. And I think it's fun too. Also, if
there's something you've ever want to reread, instead of re
reading it, listen to it the second time around.
Speaker 5 (10:55):
And by the way, I'm finished, Bruce, I'm onto my
second book, so I need some recommendations.
Speaker 4 (11:02):
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Speaker 2 (11:03):
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Speaker 3 (11:05):
I think this is a big story.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Madonna working on her very own Netflix series. She's teamed
up with the director Sean Levy, you may know his
name from Deadpool and Wolverine and other big projects.
Speaker 3 (11:22):
This would be a limited series based on her life.
Speaker 1 (11:26):
It's not related to the other big project, the movie
that's been delayed in development over at Universal.
Speaker 2 (11:32):
So that's still in the work.
Speaker 3 (11:33):
That's still in the.
Speaker 1 (11:34):
Works now, and that is set to star actress Julia Garner.
You may remember her from Ozark. I want you to
stop lining and tell me why Ben He's dead.
Speaker 3 (11:45):
She's so good.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
She was handpicked by Madonna to play her at least
in the early you know, ages and stages of her
life and career.
Speaker 3 (11:53):
That movie is on hold for now.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Nobody knows why she kicked off a world tour but
the word is they're just getting started from the ground
up on this Netflix series, which would be limited, which
would be we don't know what part of her life
it would cover. Seems to me you could do season one,
season two, and on and on. There were so many
seasons right. The nineties stuff, the blonde ambition stuff was incredible.
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I thought that that was when she was riding the
most high. Anyway, The word is if actress Julia Garner's
schedule allows, she will also play her in the Netflix series.
She has a relationships there too, So that's exciting news.
Speaker 3 (12:34):
Social media connect love having you along.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Jump in so many different ways to do that, Murphy
Samonjody dot Com, Instagram, Facebook, TikTok.
Speaker 3 (12:42):
We love hearing even YouTube.
Speaker 5 (12:43):
You can even text us eight seven seven three one
zero four MSJ.
Speaker 1 (12:47):
Yes, if so many things rolling in based on stuff
we've been talking about. Kylie sent most memorable, most memorable
thing from a wedding my brother and future sister in
law coming up in May are going to do a
T shirt toss instead of a bouquet or garter toss.
Speaker 2 (13:05):
Oh that's cute. Are they gonna have T shirts for everybody?
Speaker 3 (13:08):
It must be a bunch of them.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
Yeah, it would be kind of hard if one person
got a T shirt.
Speaker 2 (13:14):
Would be really that'd be bad, right, Grandma didn't get that.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
It already used to be that way.
Speaker 5 (13:20):
Here's a suggestion to kick it up even further. T
shirt Cannon, I knew you.
Speaker 3 (13:24):
Were going to say that in a small reception.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Might want to check with the venue to make sure
they're good with that. Grandma may not want to catch that.
Speaker 3 (13:31):
One might get knocked over.
Speaker 1 (13:33):
Yeah, okay, this is an email Lalania.
Speaker 3 (13:36):
I love her name.
Speaker 1 (13:37):
I've been through I've been through a rough month and
a half due to a job situation and haven't been
able to hear you guys every day. But starting next Monday,
things will be back, going back up in my life.
I just want to say I've missed listening to you guys.
Thanks for what you do. That's so sweet.
Speaker 2 (13:53):
Thank You's very sweet. Thank you.
Speaker 1 (13:54):
Shout out that you can always take us along on
the podcast too and listen anytime that way and you
listen on your schedule that way.
Speaker 2 (14:02):
Also, glad that things have worked out for you.
Speaker 1 (14:04):
Elena Richard sent this in heard you guys talking about
a chick that was bullying that was you Sam not
a girl.
Speaker 2 (14:14):
An actual chick.
Speaker 5 (14:15):
Yeah. Yeah, he's got five little baby chicks and one
of them is a bully to the other four.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Okay, Richard said this, she's establishing the peck order, of
which she is at the top of the peck order.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
Not the pack.
Speaker 2 (14:29):
Wait a second, Wait a second, is that where the
word pecking order came from?
Speaker 3 (14:33):
Funny that you say that.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
Richard goes on to say, and now you know where
that's saying comes from. Now if modern terms, she would
be called an alpha female. But now, back in the
day or whatever, Yeah, farmers used to say the establishing
pecking order.
Speaker 3 (14:49):
Right.
Speaker 2 (14:49):
You know, I've heard the pecking order a bazillion times.
I had no idea how to do with chickens.
Speaker 3 (14:53):
There you go. I got to let will know that
one exactly.
Speaker 2 (14:56):
Thank you, so you can establish the pecking order.
Speaker 3 (14:58):
Yeah, I love having you. Lung on