August 16, 2025 • 29 mins
Do couples who fall asleep in close contact have a deeper connection? Taylor Swift's next tour (rumors!) and Sam's 2 ingredient cheesecakes.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Choty Weekend Show podcast, highlighting
some of our favorite moments from this past week.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Couples who fall asleep in close contact apparently last longer.
It's a new extensive study. They research one hundred and
forty three couples who have been together at least thirteen years. Okay,
why thirteen, I don't know, but they've been together and
apparently they fall asleep in close contact. They don't just
(00:30):
you know, weigh across the bed, no touching.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
That makes sense.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It does close knit. Look, I think that touch has
even if you're having an argument or there's a rift
between you, if you just do the reach out. Murphy knows,
we got the reach out going on. Sometimes even when
things are not great. We just say we've had an
argument about and we're not ready to talk about it.
(00:56):
They're still the reach Outah. Touch is powerful. That's why
they say hug someone for longer than a couple of seconds,
because it releases, you know, all the good hormones.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Yeah, hugs somebody too long, because then it gets creepy
if they're not somebody you know, well.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
You know, I know I'm alone now, but whenever I
had a partner. Yes, the partners I used to like sleeping.
You know, I guess it's spooning or you put your
arm over them and wrap it up. Love that. Yeah
that was my face.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
So yeah. The top three sleep positions for couples who
are in good standing who say to you have long longevity,
spooning face to face, and embracing like being held. Oh yeah,
that's like the lady on the chest.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, I mean I would say that you and I
stay you know, close every now and then. I put
a pillow between this. But that's not because it's between us.
It's because that's that whole rule.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
It's not for argument reason.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Murphy loves a pillow for it almost he loves pillow.
He loves a lot of pillows, and I'm a one
pillow person. So you always even said it. Two nights ago,
you were like, I'm not putting this.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Here, right, I'm like, I know, between us.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I'm good because I do believe in the touch. You know,
at your married it's the you know, there should be
physicality in it, and it's a physical relationship as much
as anything. But when it's time to actually sleep.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah, yeah, right, exactly, are we're done here.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, So it's how you start sleeping in the top
being spooning face to face and embracing.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Got some food dude magic for you here.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
If it works, well, you are the food dude Sam.
The two ingredient cheesecake. Oh yeah, really, sour cream and oreos.
I saw this on TikTok. People are raving about it
on TikTok, but until you try it yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
You don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Well, I could see how because the sour cream brings
the cream madeness, and the oreos are already super sweet
sour cream goes in and cheesecake.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
So yeah, so here I gave you each spoon, so
there's no You take put some of these our cream
on an oreo and then you eat the oreo and
it tastes like a cheesecake. Really, I haven't tried.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
This yet, Okay, I'm a little Murphy.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
No, I mean I like both. It's just just so
Murphy knows. That's a fresh bag of oreos and a
fresh container a sour cream.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Hey, I always checked the date on sour cream. You
know everybody's got a spoon for your sour cream. Go go, Okay,
double dipping. Well, I'm glad you waited for us on
this one.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Soon put it on top. Thank you for sorry.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Yes, just like you know, Oh I have to you
open the No, it's not.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
A murphy Look, it's not. It's not brain surgery. There
you go, howver much you want, however much you want.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Okay, And it's supposed to taste like cheesecake.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah, kind of.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
It does taste like cheesecake. Yeah, straight up. Wow, this
is the first TikTok thing. Wow, me like that.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
That's weird.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeahs like cream or so Friday night when you're watching
TV and bengin.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's it's a quick way to stick some calories.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
It's a really good example for you know, understanding how
things become the way that they are. It makes sense
to me as soon as you said it, because the
creaminess of the sour cream tones down the sweetness of
the oreo. But you taste both.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah, you got the cream cheese, you got the sour.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
And the tartness of the Wow, this is nuts. So
you know it's a good thing. You found something on
TikTok that didn't kill us.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Oh this is what would kill you.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Though.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
He also brought me something Cheetos, flaming hot, fiery skulls.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
And I can sit here and watch you those.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
You can have sour cream after.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
I'll do another sour cream and Oreo cheesecake.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
With all the groups getting back together because school is
back for so so many and all the little hands
touching all the things, and we learn and what was
it earlier this week? That news report that makes sense?
It's one of those no does. It's a good reminder
from the CDC that it's even more important to wash
your hands in hot weather more often and more thoroughly
(05:12):
because bacteria thriving warm temperatures, germs thrive and grow. Palms
just did they just grow? It's it's a rich environment
for a germ and something nasty. Okay, Not that you
don't have to do that during the cold weather.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You do, yeah, you do.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
But also the things that you're touching may be more
prone to be carrying things, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
So it's yeah, and everybody's outside swimming pools all that
kind of stuff. Correct, And to me, when you head
back to school, man, all those little hands so and
it's so cool to me actually that the first line
of defence that we all have from getting sick is
washing your hands, and we all have the ability to
do that, but do we get so busy do we
not do it properly? You guys, remember what the time
(05:54):
frame is for washing?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Twenty seconds?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yes, Murphy ding ding d thank you? Did you remember that?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I was going to say two minutes? Don't you have
to do that too? A minute times two minutes?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Well do you wash your hands for two minutes?
Speaker 3 (06:09):
So now I washed my hands for twenty seconds.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Look, when I first heard that report, I remember going
to the bathroom and washing my hands, and I started counting,
and what I normally would do was like ten. That
made me sack.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I think it's probably most people, so the proper.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Way, kids, if you're listening, and it's adults too, it's
always going back to the basics, right, that help us
the most in life. To effectively wash your hands, according
to the CDC, you wet them with clean running water,
You apply the soap, you lather for twenty seconds, make
sure you get between the fingers, all over the hands,
and even dare we say, under the nails, Wrench thoroughly
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and then dry.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I think nine times out of ten we're moving so fast.
I don't think of it as a process like that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Either it's something you do without thinking.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Actually, yeah, but then I also won't touch things on
the way out. I won't touch the faucet. I'll use
the handtel for that. And I'll from the door with
a towel too, Yeah, because that's the that is the
funny part of it. If you wash your hands, you're
picking up even more stuff when you walk out of
the doors.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And for those who love hand sanitizer, like Murphy dust
I do, the CDC recommends using an alcohol based hand
sanitizer that has at least sixty percent alcohol.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Oh, they dropped the number a little bit. I've always
looked for seventy percent or more.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Good rightly, So to join this conversation anytime. Eight seven
seven three one zero four MSJ.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
It's going on, Mike.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You just talk about washing your hands. I'm a science teacher,
and I just wanted to also say it's best to
start with warm water because warm water opens the pores.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
H ah, you speaking my language.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Tell me more. Really, if I'm getting into a really
hot bath, does that mean I'm doing better things for
my skin?
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Actually, it doesn't need to be too hot, but yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Okay, now you talk love it okay, so do you
also agree should that we should wet our hands first,
then put soap.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
That is correct, because yes, and and and get it
with warm water so that you could open up the pores.
And then when you went your hands after your ransom
turn into cold water and that actually helps close the pores.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
It doesn't sound as lovely, but okay.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yes, this is getting complicated.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
So what unit are you on right now with school?
What are you teaching right now?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
In fifth grade? In fifth grade we're talking about plants,
talking about the biosphere, and then in sixth grade we
are talking about drock cycle with volcanoes and earthquakes.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Oh yes, I am so glad you called. I love
hearing from you about this and anything. Might call us anytime, Okay.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I sure will. I sure would love to show love you.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Thank you, Mike. We appreciate that. Become our science guy totally.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I always wash my hands with warm water, honestly, not
trying to be science girl, but it feels good. It
feels better to wash with warm It's like having a
blanket over you for well, for your.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Hands, not a comforting. I agree with that.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
So I'm glad to know that it's good, but sad
to hear that you're supposed to end cold. It's not
as well rough for you feel is good? Does it
feel as good?
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Thanks again, Mike. We certainly trust the perspective of a
science teacher.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Any day, Join us anytime.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Text or call us eight seven seven three one zero
four ms J.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Love having you along that way. Also online on social media,
we asked you to create a hashtag from something you
frequently say as a mother. These hashtags are fantastic. They're
rolling in Jamie's's hashtag bra Yeah. Is that something you
would say as a parent, Sam.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
But all the kids yeah? Brah bruh.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Joni says hashtag act accordingly to our character, not theirs,
meaning that's something that she says as a mother. Ashley says,
hashtag chill dude, Emily hashtag what did you say? Laura?
Hashtag where are your pants? And then she toddler boys?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Oh good? Was her husband or her kids?
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Actually, I've been surprised at how many pants comments there
are from boy moms on here. Apparently boys don't like
to wear pants?
Speaker 3 (10:33):
What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (10:35):
There's a lot of hashtag comments of get your hands
out of your pants is from Leslie. Hashtag where are
your pants? From Jennifer, I mean put your pants on?
From Nicole.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah, Sam not Sammy and Will so much. But Parker
and Jackson used to walk around and underwear.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Yeah, I mean, look, I get it. It's really comfortable,
but you don't want I'm doing that at daycare or
a kindergarten.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Well no, this was in the house when it's like,
come on, we're leave it. Where's your pants? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Okay, so hashtag where's your pants? It's something Murphy. Do
you know the thing that I feel like besides just
I love you, I love you more and all those
are very I feel like something I have said a lot.
My hashtag is not on here from any other mom yet.
It's growing the list, but mine would be please charge
your phone hashtag please charge your device. They don't, but whatever,
(11:26):
they still don't listen. Kimberly hashtag I'm not their mom,
I'm your mom, and she says it's when you know
their friends were doing things they weren't allowed to do.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Right.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
I have twin boys and they are a hoot. That's
from Kimberly. Casey says hashtag stop fighting hashtag, leave each
other alone hashtag put some deodauran on. Yeah, it's funny.
We love hearing from moms. Whatever your most common things are.
(11:59):
But any parent hashtag is welcome, keep it coming. What
is it that you've always heard about the middle child?
Speaker 1 (12:09):
The middle child syndrome? Is like the middle child gets overlooked,
is what I've heard. Okay, and I know I have
I have a younger brother who was the middle child, correct,
and so.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
What's the stereotype is what I'm asking If they're the.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Ones getting into trouble or right, I mean he sometimes.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
For my stuff you've told. Yeah, the middle child, the
one who is like the negotiat or the peacekeeper.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Oh that's sweet. I don't know. I'm asking because I
I know that there's a middle child thing, stereotype or whatever,
but I know nothing of it. Yeah, I have a
brother who's older than me and I'm the baby.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Well, and I think that's what what I've heard or experienced. Well,
I'm not experienced. I think the stereotype comes from that
third child being the baby, which, of course, you know,
the baby gets attention just by default because.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
They are oftentimes the clown of the family. And all
that oftentimes and then the older child you know where
they fit. You kind of know what the also stereotype though, Well.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
We carry the brunt of responsibility, and you know that's why.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
Are you You're both the oldest, right?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
Of course? Can't you tell?
Speaker 2 (13:16):
I'm the baby in my family? But I will say
maybe I was sort of a clown and got all
the babying.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
It's good.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
But I don't think my brother, who was older than me,
necessarily fits the older child mold either.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, so, yeah, you're right, everybody's a little bit different.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
I bring this in because I loved it yesterday. In
Three Things to Know, one of the quick stories we
touched on was that yesterday was National Middle Child Day
and all the things that psychologists have determined over the
years of studying the middle child traits. They tend to
be very independent and self motivated because who's looking out
for him?
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Right?
Speaker 2 (13:49):
They tend to be very successful. Half of us presidents
were middle children. Oh, I didn't know that they handle
They're usually better under pressure. I thought, I don't know
where that comes from or why. And middle children are
also they tend to be very artistic and very creative.
But to me, It's like, the reason we even bring
this back up is, if you are a middle child
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and you're hearing this, do not let the world tell
you who you are. You will figure that out in time.
And it does not have to be based on your
birth order.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
It doesn't right.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Absolutely, you grew.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Up and you leave home, You're not going to be
living with your siblings anymore. So b be you.
Speaker 5 (14:30):
Sam's got Music News Rotti by brick House Nutrition.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Well, now that we know everything there is to know
about Life of a Showgirl. Taylor Swift's album number twelve,
October third, Just in case you missed it, By the way,
you see all the time Square billboards were lit up with.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
The album ent Yes, all the brands that jumped about
on board.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Yeah, so fun. There is a rumor now that there
are she's and talks for a mini residency at the
Sphere in Las Vegas. Whoa now with a new album.
Obviously she's going to put on a whole new world tour,
but they're saying that this thing is going to be
like a mini residency before she launches the tour. Sure,
so I guess so she can work out some of
the kinks. And they said it's going to be like
(15:12):
cabaret showgirl type show. Why not?
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Why not do it in Vegas? You saw all those
album covers. They're also gorgeous. In fact, expect showgirls all Halloween.
I'm just pointing it out, just shouting.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
It out all the dancers next time.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
All the medazzled stuff is going to sell out, and
I'm sure the glittery orange stuff is already gone from
craft stores.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
Let you know, if we find out anything about this
fear thing.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
This weekend we have the Big Band Together Texas Flood
Relief benefit concert put on by Miranda Lambert, A lot
of folks, Ronnie Dunn, Lyle Love, It's going to be there.
Lucas Nelson, by the way, I check Willie doesn't have
any dates this weekend, so maybe maybe maybe he'll be
there that long. Matthew McConaughey and Dennis Quaid are going
to be just making appearances to say hi, that's all right,
(15:58):
all right. One person who's not going to be there
that originally was supposed to be there is Kelly Clarkson.
Everything that's going on with her ex passing away and
you know, having to handle family business right now, she
probably wants.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
I mean, for all you know, it's her kids going Mommy,
please don't go. Yeah, like you just you never know.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
And also too, we found out Mirima Lambert announced earlier
this week that because ticket sales basically there's no tickets
left and people still want to see it, They're going
to live stream at Sunday, but that's when the concert
is Sunday evening. It's going to be on her YouTube
channel and her Facebook channel as well. You want to
see it there. And from over in South Korea, the
Supreme Court there has shot down a copyright claim over
(16:39):
this song.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Oh lordy a copyright claim over baby Sharks.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Yes, there's a guy named Johnny only here in the
States who said, hey, I recorded this song four years
before it became a hit. Here's his version.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Oh woay, make that stop too?
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Oh wow? Anyway he lost a.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
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Speaker 2 (17:07):
A lot of comments also rolling in on social media
based on that podcast we did, and you can always
catch up, by the way, on podcast when it's convenient
for you the whole show, you know, after the show,
just search Murphy, Sam and Jody anywhere you listen. Comments
rolling in about the podcast about women going bear faced
for first dates makeup, no makeup, and it's more and
(17:30):
more trending, and we asked would you do it? And
we had a whole podcast on it. Ronda said, I
had a job for twenty three years and could not
wear any makeup or nail polish. It's actually freeing was
hard at first, but everyone gets to see your true beauty.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
That's true.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Awesome. The comments rolling in, like I don't wear it anyway,
or blowing my mind. Elaine says, I don't wear any
makeup anymore, so it wouldn't be a problem for me.
Nice Mary. I'm always bear face, so yes, Rebecca, I always,
but I always wear sunscreen. I found a tinted sunscreen
and primer that I like. When I don't wear anything,
(18:09):
I get asked if I'm sick because I'm so pale.
I'm also a redhead. Pale is what we do. Yeah,
that's what Rebecca said.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I tend to.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I love to call it porcelain skin myself, right, jad
he does.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
What's the average time for putting on makeup?
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Every woman does?
Speaker 3 (18:28):
Yeah? But I mean, like you, how long does it take?
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Five minutes?
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Right? Don't you think I put makeup in here? I
put it on every day in here. Have you ever
timed me? I should run a timer. I think I'm
six or seven minutes at the most.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Now.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
For a special occasion, that's different, but on the daily
you get that down. That's one reason women get in
habits where you wear the same sort of makeup your
whole life, and you can be making mistakes with that
as you age, because you're doing the same thing you
did when you were in your thirties, and that doesn't
always work as well on an aging face. But that's
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also another reason that a lot of women, as you
get older, you get more confident and you're like, I
don't want it at all. Yeah, Or I'll just wear primer,
or I'll just wear a tinted moisturizer.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Sometimes just lashes and you know mess Cara that sort
of thing. I've seen that too.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Yeah, I have to don't do it me, Jeanette says,
Oh my gosh, No, I wasn't worrying a few minutes
ago about not wearing eye makeup because I have an
eye doctor's appointment. I definitely wouldn't want to go on
a first date without makeup. We love hearing from you anytime,
keep it coming. Worst opening lines to use in a
(19:41):
dating app. Okay, it never really occurred to me that
you communicate. I've never been on a dating app, Murphy.
We've been married for.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
So long, Yeah we have.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
We've been married for so long before dating app.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Not before dating apps. But I've never been on one. Yeah, okay,
so when you when you may not.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Rec I'm just kidding.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Let's change topic.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
You might enjoy this. You might enjoy this information. Then,
So I never put two and two together that you
are communicating back at once someone. Once you're matched with someone,
you start getting to know each other, and that's in
the form of writing back and forth, texting messaging. So
apparently the worst ones are short and boring and full
(20:24):
of typos. Look out for grammar, it says a lot.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Are they the bad ones? Cheesy too?
Speaker 2 (20:30):
You We're gonna get there. They say nothing screams laziness,
like just hey, hi. You need to be more interesting
than that.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
At least include their name, right right?
Speaker 1 (20:40):
You mean, like just the word hey and nothing else.
Some people are doing just saying.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
That's a weak way.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
It's just apostrophe.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
It's generic it's generic. Yes, I agree, going straight for
you're hot is not a great idea. It's objectifying right away.
It's inappropriate for our first few messages. Yeah, don't ask
the question why are you on here? Because that seems judging.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
You know what you're gonna get back?
Speaker 2 (21:08):
Have you done that before? No? No, no, no, So
let's go straight to what you should do. Apparently this
is according to the experts, show genuine interest in the person,
be thoughtful, be flirty while personalizing it, not just using
the name. But hey, so you are into parasailing, tell
me about it, you know, like, get right to it
(21:29):
and don't be generic. Generic is boring, Yes it is.
And it's I guess easy to do that on an
app because you're just.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
But there's thousands of people on there. You got to
stick out, Yeah, you do.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
So the word is ask questions based on what you've
seen on their profile, what they've shared, Lean into your
playful side, show your personality hopefully jokes say.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Like star Wars, I love Star Wars.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Try to match their energy level. I bet it's a
hard thing to do and never thought about it.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
Start type it and you go delete delete the leaky.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Delete, delete the leak, don't be generic, be yourself, and
pay attention to grammar. It says a lot.
Speaker 5 (22:09):
Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
We read and see every single comment, question, every message,
So we're hearing from you a lot right now, Teachers
and parents back to school time. Tracy sent this as
a former teacher and now a teacher's assistant. I believe
the most important thing parents can do is realize when
teachers have to discuss something negative about your child, they
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are also upset because they love your children too. Listen
with an open mind and ask about ways that they
can help their child. That's a beautiful thing to say.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
It is.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Look, it's the most natural thing in the plant on
the planet to be at your child's defense, right, I mean,
it just is. So I'm sure they see that every
single day. Anita says. I wanted to the teachers to
know that if they needed to call me regarding something
unpleasant about my children's grades or behavior, I believed them.
As a teacher myself, I knew that teachers do not
(23:06):
choose to make parent phone calls just for fun. Yeah,
but that's true.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Plus with you know when your kid comes home and says, yeah, well,
miss so and so it's like, okay, right, let's get
both sides of this.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
And your child needs that safe space though too, to vent.
So listen, there's so much going on. There's so much
psychology going on with all this.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
In that case.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
I mean, look, they're in school to learn. That becomes
a teaching moment, right.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
So I can remember first grade, and I remember just
adoring my first grade teacher, and how when you look back,
how important that teacher is because that's the parent of
the room. You saw the adult as a parent figure,
and I certainly did. I love that lady so much.
Christa sent this as an elementary school nurse. Please, teachers
(23:58):
and parents, don't assume I know a child has something
medical going on. I can't advocate for them if I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Yeah, when to think about how many students to see
every day?
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Right, Also, chris As sends that because that means you
know that she has come up against that. Right, that's
another job that is so important at the school. School
nurses keep it coming, you know, any comment, any question,
any thought that we can share here for you at
back to school time, we'll do it. Murphy, I know
(24:30):
you love a little business story. So here's a big
business story. Bath and Bodyworks set to open six hundred
new stores, but Kiosk stores on college campuses, in the bookstores.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
So smart, Yes, that really is very smart.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
It is because's gen Z shoppers love Bath and body Works.
It's like their number one. It's one of their number
one top brands that they want and will buy if
confronted with it.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
So every year it's on Mattie's Christmas list. When I
ask the kids' lists, I always get three or four candles,
some lotions, and it's.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
All bathrooms, bodywork, right, And they're gonna start with and
it'll be for this coming twenty twenty five, twenty six
school years, well this school year, Yeah, they're gonna start
going in, rolling in there favorites like body creams, lotions,
the mist, the Wallflower diffusers, hand sanitizers that's a big one,
lipcare going in and the three wig candles most popular,
sense are the ones they're going to start with the
(25:29):
ladies and gents, so that means champagne, toast, mahogany, teak wood.
And as far as for the sense of the rooms,
clean house vibes is a high one, really high on
the left.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
That's really cool. And you know, you can always tell
when somebody's using hand sanitizer from Bathroom body Works because
it smells good.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
Totally walking into I walked into one the other day.
Taylor's birthday was yesterday. Of course she got some Bathroom
body Works from us as part of her whole big gift.
And you walk in there, it's just an onslaught of
like I walk in there going, you know, I'm looking
for in the stars, in the star and then the
first thing you hit is all the new stuff, and
it was Halloween stuff. Ghoul friend smells incredible. There's one
(26:09):
called vampire Blood candles and the sprays and the lotions
and you're like, wait, I'm completely They even said, hey,
can I help you. I'm like, I'm confused now about
what i want.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
I'm surprised there are no more business, no other businesses
that use their little model for you buy six and
then that's where you unlock all the discounts, because it's
really smart. You're going to walk out with a hall.
You're not just going to buy one or two. You know,
I have a rewards account, of course you do, yeah,
and I get a reward like probably.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Once a month, it's worth it then sixteen.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Dollars maximum reward every month, so it handles a regular price.
You can get them. Look and by the way, speaking
of mahogany teakwood, there is also like an ultra mahogany
teak wood.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Even better spoken like a bath and body works dad.
Speaker 5 (26:55):
Right there, social media connect.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
We do love hearing from you, and we do read
and see every message that rolls in. And with all
this back to school talk, because back to school time
is here. We talk a lot about teachers and parents
and those communications and the kids and all the things
that go along with it. But someone at school who's
very very important. Is the school nurse so important? Yeah,
(27:24):
when you think about that whole dynamic. When a child
goes to a school nurse, sometimes it's not just the
fever or the cough or that cut themselves in the playground.
They're also being cared for emotionally. Believe it. Believe it.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
You never know.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Also, what if you don't know your school nurse yet
and you have to go to the nurse if you're
a kid, you could be meeting the most compassionate person,
or you could be meeting what's that.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
You just never know, really.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
Yes, yes, yes, you never had a school nurse that
was less than gentle Murphy.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
All of my school nurses, they never had a school nurse.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
You never had a school nurse. What happened if somebody
got sick?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Okay, rub some dirt on it, you suck it up.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Really.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
One of my best friends, her name is Melanie. She
is a school nurse. She loves what she does, what
she does for a living, but it is about the
kids for her. She calls them my kids. She always says,
my kid and I have a kid, and I'm going
to the hospital this afternoon because one of my kids. Yeah,
they do. So, let's see regarding that from Shelby to Murphy,
(28:40):
Samonjody dot Com was hearing you talk about what goes
on during back to school. I'm a cafe manager at
the school. Please let all of us know us know,
meaning in the cafeteria, about allergies as soon as possible.
It takes us some time to get substitute food items
for allergies. We were saying, make sure the school nurses
know about your kids' conditions, or they can't have this,
(29:03):
or they can't have that. Also, I'm not sure about
what where other schools do it, but we need kids
to have their badges on them at all times. That's
from Shelby. Keep it coming, Let's talk about all of this.
Murphy Salmon, Jody dot com
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Choty Weekend Show podcast, highlighting
some of our favorite moments from this past week.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Couples who fall asleep in close contact apparently last longer.
It's a new extensive study. They research one hundred and
forty three couples who have been together at least thirteen years. Okay,
why thirteen, I don't know, but they've been together and
apparently they fall asleep in close contact. They don't just
(00:30):
you know, weigh across the bed, no touching.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
That makes sense.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
It does close knit. Look, I think that touch has
even if you're having an argument or there's a rift
between you, if you just do the reach out. Murphy knows,
we got the reach out going on. Sometimes even when
things are not great. We just say we've had an
argument about and we're not ready to talk about it.
(00:56):
They're still the reach Outah. Touch is powerful. That's why
they say hug someone for longer than a couple of seconds,
because it releases, you know, all the good hormones.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Yeah, hugs somebody too long, because then it gets creepy
if they're not somebody you know, well.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
You know, I know I'm alone now, but whenever I
had a partner. Yes, the partners I used to like sleeping.
You know, I guess it's spooning or you put your
arm over them and wrap it up. Love that. Yeah
that was my face.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
So yeah. The top three sleep positions for couples who
are in good standing who say to you have long longevity,
spooning face to face, and embracing like being held. Oh yeah,
that's like the lady on the chest.
Speaker 1 (01:43):
Yeah, I mean I would say that you and I
stay you know, close every now and then. I put
a pillow between this. But that's not because it's between us.
It's because that's that whole rule.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
It's not for argument reason.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
Murphy loves a pillow for it almost he loves pillow.
He loves a lot of pillows, and I'm a one
pillow person. So you always even said it. Two nights ago,
you were like, I'm not putting this.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
Here, right, I'm like, I know, between us.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
I'm good because I do believe in the touch. You know,
at your married it's the you know, there should be
physicality in it, and it's a physical relationship as much
as anything. But when it's time to actually sleep.
Speaker 1 (02:19):
Yeah, yeah, right, exactly, are we're done here.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Okay, So it's how you start sleeping in the top
being spooning face to face and embracing.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
Got some food dude magic for you here.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
If it works, well, you are the food dude Sam.
The two ingredient cheesecake. Oh yeah, really, sour cream and oreos.
I saw this on TikTok. People are raving about it
on TikTok, but until you try it yourself.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
You don't know.
Speaker 2 (02:47):
Well, I could see how because the sour cream brings
the cream madeness, and the oreos are already super sweet
sour cream goes in and cheesecake.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
So yeah, so here I gave you each spoon, so
there's no You take put some of these our cream
on an oreo and then you eat the oreo and
it tastes like a cheesecake. Really, I haven't tried.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
This yet, Okay, I'm a little Murphy.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
No, I mean I like both. It's just just so
Murphy knows. That's a fresh bag of oreos and a
fresh container a sour cream.
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Hey, I always checked the date on sour cream. You
know everybody's got a spoon for your sour cream. Go go, Okay,
double dipping. Well, I'm glad you waited for us on
this one.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
Soon put it on top. Thank you for sorry.
Speaker 3 (03:28):
Yes, just like you know, Oh I have to you
open the No, it's not.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
A murphy Look, it's not. It's not brain surgery. There
you go, howver much you want, however much you want.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Okay, And it's supposed to taste like cheesecake.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
Yeah, kind of.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
It does taste like cheesecake. Yeah, straight up. Wow, this
is the first TikTok thing. Wow, me like that.
Speaker 1 (03:56):
That's weird.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
Yeahs like cream or so Friday night when you're watching
TV and bengin.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
That's it's a quick way to stick some calories.
Speaker 2 (04:06):
It's a really good example for you know, understanding how
things become the way that they are. It makes sense
to me as soon as you said it, because the
creaminess of the sour cream tones down the sweetness of
the oreo. But you taste both.
Speaker 3 (04:19):
Yeah, you got the cream cheese, you got the sour.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
And the tartness of the Wow, this is nuts. So
you know it's a good thing. You found something on
TikTok that didn't kill us.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
That's good.
Speaker 2 (04:33):
Oh this is what would kill you.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Though.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
He also brought me something Cheetos, flaming hot, fiery skulls.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
And I can sit here and watch you those.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
You can have sour cream after.
Speaker 1 (04:45):
I'll do another sour cream and Oreo cheesecake.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
With all the groups getting back together because school is
back for so so many and all the little hands
touching all the things, and we learn and what was
it earlier this week? That news report that makes sense?
It's one of those no does. It's a good reminder
from the CDC that it's even more important to wash
your hands in hot weather more often and more thoroughly
(05:12):
because bacteria thriving warm temperatures, germs thrive and grow. Palms
just did they just grow? It's it's a rich environment
for a germ and something nasty. Okay, Not that you
don't have to do that during the cold weather.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You do, yeah, you do.
Speaker 1 (05:27):
But also the things that you're touching may be more
prone to be carrying things, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:32):
So it's yeah, and everybody's outside swimming pools all that
kind of stuff. Correct, And to me, when you head
back to school, man, all those little hands so and
it's so cool to me actually that the first line
of defence that we all have from getting sick is
washing your hands, and we all have the ability to
do that, but do we get so busy do we
not do it properly? You guys, remember what the time
(05:54):
frame is for washing?
Speaker 1 (05:55):
Twenty seconds?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Yes, Murphy ding ding d thank you? Did you remember that?
Speaker 3 (06:01):
I was going to say two minutes? Don't you have
to do that too? A minute times two minutes?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Well do you wash your hands for two minutes?
Speaker 3 (06:09):
So now I washed my hands for twenty seconds.
Speaker 2 (06:12):
Look, when I first heard that report, I remember going
to the bathroom and washing my hands, and I started counting,
and what I normally would do was like ten. That
made me sack.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
I think it's probably most people, so the proper.
Speaker 2 (06:22):
Way, kids, if you're listening, and it's adults too, it's
always going back to the basics, right, that help us
the most in life. To effectively wash your hands, according
to the CDC, you wet them with clean running water,
You apply the soap, you lather for twenty seconds, make
sure you get between the fingers, all over the hands,
and even dare we say, under the nails, Wrench thoroughly
(06:45):
and then dry.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
I think nine times out of ten we're moving so fast.
I don't think of it as a process like that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Either it's something you do without thinking.
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Actually, yeah, but then I also won't touch things on
the way out. I won't touch the faucet. I'll use
the handtel for that. And I'll from the door with
a towel too, Yeah, because that's the that is the
funny part of it. If you wash your hands, you're
picking up even more stuff when you walk out of
the doors.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And for those who love hand sanitizer, like Murphy dust
I do, the CDC recommends using an alcohol based hand
sanitizer that has at least sixty percent alcohol.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Oh, they dropped the number a little bit. I've always
looked for seventy percent or more.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Good rightly, So to join this conversation anytime. Eight seven
seven three one zero four MSJ.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
It's going on, Mike.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
You just talk about washing your hands. I'm a science teacher,
and I just wanted to also say it's best to
start with warm water because warm water opens the pores.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
H ah, you speaking my language.
Speaker 3 (07:46):
I love it.
Speaker 2 (07:47):
Tell me more. Really, if I'm getting into a really
hot bath, does that mean I'm doing better things for
my skin?
Speaker 4 (07:56):
Actually, it doesn't need to be too hot, but yes, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:00):
Okay, now you talk love it okay, so do you
also agree should that we should wet our hands first,
then put soap.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
That is correct, because yes, and and and get it
with warm water so that you could open up the pores.
And then when you went your hands after your ransom
turn into cold water and that actually helps close the pores.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
It doesn't sound as lovely, but okay.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
Yes, this is getting complicated.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
So what unit are you on right now with school?
What are you teaching right now?
Speaker 4 (08:34):
In fifth grade? In fifth grade we're talking about plants,
talking about the biosphere, and then in sixth grade we
are talking about drock cycle with volcanoes and earthquakes.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Oh yes, I am so glad you called. I love
hearing from you about this and anything. Might call us anytime, Okay.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
I sure will. I sure would love to show love you.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Thank you, Mike. We appreciate that. Become our science guy totally.
Speaker 2 (09:00):
I always wash my hands with warm water, honestly, not
trying to be science girl, but it feels good. It
feels better to wash with warm It's like having a
blanket over you for well, for your.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
Hands, not a comforting. I agree with that.
Speaker 2 (09:14):
So I'm glad to know that it's good, but sad
to hear that you're supposed to end cold. It's not
as well rough for you feel is good? Does it
feel as good?
Speaker 1 (09:22):
Thanks again, Mike. We certainly trust the perspective of a
science teacher.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
Any day, Join us anytime.
Speaker 5 (09:31):
Text or call us eight seven seven three one zero
four ms J.
Speaker 2 (09:36):
Love having you along that way. Also online on social media,
we asked you to create a hashtag from something you
frequently say as a mother. These hashtags are fantastic. They're
rolling in Jamie's's hashtag bra Yeah. Is that something you
would say as a parent, Sam.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
But all the kids yeah? Brah bruh.
Speaker 2 (10:00):
Joni says hashtag act accordingly to our character, not theirs,
meaning that's something that she says as a mother. Ashley says,
hashtag chill dude, Emily hashtag what did you say? Laura?
Hashtag where are your pants? And then she toddler boys?
Speaker 3 (10:23):
Oh good? Was her husband or her kids?
Speaker 2 (10:25):
Actually, I've been surprised at how many pants comments there
are from boy moms on here. Apparently boys don't like
to wear pants?
Speaker 3 (10:33):
What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (10:35):
There's a lot of hashtag comments of get your hands
out of your pants is from Leslie. Hashtag where are
your pants? From Jennifer, I mean put your pants on?
From Nicole.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
Yeah, Sam not Sammy and Will so much. But Parker
and Jackson used to walk around and underwear.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Yeah, I mean, look, I get it. It's really comfortable,
but you don't want I'm doing that at daycare or
a kindergarten.
Speaker 3 (10:57):
Well no, this was in the house when it's like,
come on, we're leave it. Where's your pants? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (11:02):
Okay, so hashtag where's your pants? It's something Murphy. Do
you know the thing that I feel like besides just
I love you, I love you more and all those
are very I feel like something I have said a lot.
My hashtag is not on here from any other mom yet.
It's growing the list, but mine would be please charge
your phone hashtag please charge your device. They don't, but whatever,
(11:26):
they still don't listen. Kimberly hashtag I'm not their mom,
I'm your mom, and she says it's when you know
their friends were doing things they weren't allowed to do.
Speaker 3 (11:37):
Right.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
I have twin boys and they are a hoot. That's
from Kimberly. Casey says hashtag stop fighting hashtag, leave each
other alone hashtag put some deodauran on. Yeah, it's funny.
We love hearing from moms. Whatever your most common things are.
(11:59):
But any parent hashtag is welcome, keep it coming. What
is it that you've always heard about the middle child?
Speaker 1 (12:09):
The middle child syndrome? Is like the middle child gets overlooked,
is what I've heard. Okay, and I know I have
I have a younger brother who was the middle child, correct,
and so.
Speaker 2 (12:20):
What's the stereotype is what I'm asking If they're the.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
Ones getting into trouble or right, I mean he sometimes.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
For my stuff you've told. Yeah, the middle child, the
one who is like the negotiat or the peacekeeper.
Speaker 2 (12:34):
Oh that's sweet. I don't know. I'm asking because I
I know that there's a middle child thing, stereotype or whatever,
but I know nothing of it. Yeah, I have a
brother who's older than me and I'm the baby.
Speaker 1 (12:46):
Well, and I think that's what what I've heard or experienced. Well,
I'm not experienced. I think the stereotype comes from that
third child being the baby, which, of course, you know,
the baby gets attention just by default because.
Speaker 2 (12:59):
They are oftentimes the clown of the family. And all
that oftentimes and then the older child you know where
they fit. You kind of know what the also stereotype though, Well.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
We carry the brunt of responsibility, and you know that's why.
Speaker 2 (13:11):
Are you You're both the oldest, right?
Speaker 3 (13:14):
Of course? Can't you tell?
Speaker 2 (13:16):
I'm the baby in my family? But I will say
maybe I was sort of a clown and got all
the babying.
Speaker 3 (13:23):
It's good.
Speaker 2 (13:23):
But I don't think my brother, who was older than me,
necessarily fits the older child mold either.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
Yeah, so, yeah, you're right, everybody's a little bit different.
Speaker 2 (13:30):
I bring this in because I loved it yesterday. In
Three Things to Know, one of the quick stories we
touched on was that yesterday was National Middle Child Day
and all the things that psychologists have determined over the
years of studying the middle child traits. They tend to
be very independent and self motivated because who's looking out
for him?
Speaker 3 (13:48):
Right?
Speaker 2 (13:49):
They tend to be very successful. Half of us presidents
were middle children. Oh, I didn't know that they handle
They're usually better under pressure. I thought, I don't know
where that comes from or why. And middle children are
also they tend to be very artistic and very creative.
But to me, It's like, the reason we even bring
this back up is, if you are a middle child
(14:11):
and you're hearing this, do not let the world tell
you who you are. You will figure that out in time.
And it does not have to be based on your
birth order.
Speaker 3 (14:20):
It doesn't right.
Speaker 1 (14:21):
Absolutely, you grew.
Speaker 2 (14:22):
Up and you leave home, You're not going to be
living with your siblings anymore. So b be you.
Speaker 5 (14:30):
Sam's got Music News Rotti by brick House Nutrition.
Speaker 3 (14:34):
Well, now that we know everything there is to know
about Life of a Showgirl. Taylor Swift's album number twelve,
October third, Just in case you missed it, By the way,
you see all the time Square billboards were lit up with.
Speaker 2 (14:46):
The album ent Yes, all the brands that jumped about
on board.
Speaker 3 (14:51):
Yeah, so fun. There is a rumor now that there
are she's and talks for a mini residency at the
Sphere in Las Vegas. Whoa now with a new album.
Obviously she's going to put on a whole new world tour,
but they're saying that this thing is going to be
like a mini residency before she launches the tour. Sure,
so I guess so she can work out some of
the kinks. And they said it's going to be like
(15:12):
cabaret showgirl type show. Why not?
Speaker 2 (15:15):
Why not do it in Vegas? You saw all those
album covers. They're also gorgeous. In fact, expect showgirls all Halloween.
I'm just pointing it out, just shouting.
Speaker 3 (15:25):
It out all the dancers next time.
Speaker 2 (15:27):
All the medazzled stuff is going to sell out, and
I'm sure the glittery orange stuff is already gone from
craft stores.
Speaker 3 (15:33):
Let you know, if we find out anything about this
fear thing.
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Uh.
Speaker 3 (15:36):
This weekend we have the Big Band Together Texas Flood
Relief benefit concert put on by Miranda Lambert, A lot
of folks, Ronnie Dunn, Lyle Love, It's going to be there.
Lucas Nelson, by the way, I check Willie doesn't have
any dates this weekend, so maybe maybe maybe he'll be
there that long. Matthew McConaughey and Dennis Quaid are going
to be just making appearances to say hi, that's all right,
(15:58):
all right. One person who's not going to be there
that originally was supposed to be there is Kelly Clarkson.
Everything that's going on with her ex passing away and
you know, having to handle family business right now, she
probably wants.
Speaker 2 (16:12):
I mean, for all you know, it's her kids going Mommy,
please don't go. Yeah, like you just you never know.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
And also too, we found out Mirima Lambert announced earlier
this week that because ticket sales basically there's no tickets
left and people still want to see it, They're going
to live stream at Sunday, but that's when the concert
is Sunday evening. It's going to be on her YouTube
channel and her Facebook channel as well. You want to
see it there. And from over in South Korea, the
Supreme Court there has shot down a copyright claim over
(16:39):
this song.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
Oh lordy a copyright claim over baby Sharks.
Speaker 3 (16:44):
Yes, there's a guy named Johnny only here in the
States who said, hey, I recorded this song four years
before it became a hit. Here's his version.
Speaker 2 (16:54):
Oh woay, make that stop too?
Speaker 3 (16:58):
Oh wow? Anyway he lost a.
Speaker 5 (17:03):
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Speaker 2 (17:07):
A lot of comments also rolling in on social media
based on that podcast we did, and you can always
catch up, by the way, on podcast when it's convenient
for you the whole show, you know, after the show,
just search Murphy, Sam and Jody anywhere you listen. Comments
rolling in about the podcast about women going bear faced
for first dates makeup, no makeup, and it's more and
(17:30):
more trending, and we asked would you do it? And
we had a whole podcast on it. Ronda said, I
had a job for twenty three years and could not
wear any makeup or nail polish. It's actually freeing was
hard at first, but everyone gets to see your true beauty.
Speaker 3 (17:45):
That's true.
Speaker 2 (17:46):
Awesome. The comments rolling in, like I don't wear it anyway,
or blowing my mind. Elaine says, I don't wear any
makeup anymore, so it wouldn't be a problem for me.
Nice Mary. I'm always bear face, so yes, Rebecca, I always,
but I always wear sunscreen. I found a tinted sunscreen
and primer that I like. When I don't wear anything,
(18:09):
I get asked if I'm sick because I'm so pale.
I'm also a redhead. Pale is what we do. Yeah,
that's what Rebecca said.
Speaker 3 (18:18):
I tend to.
Speaker 1 (18:18):
I love to call it porcelain skin myself, right, jad
he does.
Speaker 3 (18:24):
What's the average time for putting on makeup?
Speaker 2 (18:27):
Every woman does?
Speaker 3 (18:28):
Yeah? But I mean, like you, how long does it take?
Speaker 2 (18:30):
Five minutes?
Speaker 3 (18:31):
Okay?
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Right? Don't you think I put makeup in here? I
put it on every day in here. Have you ever
timed me? I should run a timer. I think I'm
six or seven minutes at the most.
Speaker 3 (18:41):
Now.
Speaker 2 (18:41):
For a special occasion, that's different, but on the daily
you get that down. That's one reason women get in
habits where you wear the same sort of makeup your
whole life, and you can be making mistakes with that
as you age, because you're doing the same thing you
did when you were in your thirties, and that doesn't
always work as well on an aging face. But that's
(19:05):
also another reason that a lot of women, as you
get older, you get more confident and you're like, I
don't want it at all. Yeah, Or I'll just wear primer,
or I'll just wear a tinted moisturizer.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
Sometimes just lashes and you know mess Cara that sort
of thing. I've seen that too.
Speaker 2 (19:19):
Yeah, I have to don't do it me, Jeanette says,
Oh my gosh, No, I wasn't worrying a few minutes
ago about not wearing eye makeup because I have an
eye doctor's appointment. I definitely wouldn't want to go on
a first date without makeup. We love hearing from you anytime,
keep it coming. Worst opening lines to use in a
(19:41):
dating app. Okay, it never really occurred to me that
you communicate. I've never been on a dating app, Murphy.
We've been married for.
Speaker 3 (19:48):
So long, Yeah we have.
Speaker 1 (19:50):
We've been married for so long before dating app.
Speaker 2 (19:53):
Not before dating apps. But I've never been on one. Yeah, okay,
so when you when you may not.
Speaker 1 (19:58):
Rec I'm just kidding.
Speaker 3 (20:01):
Let's change topic.
Speaker 2 (20:02):
You might enjoy this. You might enjoy this information. Then,
So I never put two and two together that you
are communicating back at once someone. Once you're matched with someone,
you start getting to know each other, and that's in
the form of writing back and forth, texting messaging. So
apparently the worst ones are short and boring and full
(20:24):
of typos. Look out for grammar, it says a lot.
Speaker 3 (20:27):
Are they the bad ones? Cheesy too?
Speaker 2 (20:30):
You We're gonna get there. They say nothing screams laziness,
like just hey, hi. You need to be more interesting
than that.
Speaker 3 (20:37):
At least include their name, right right?
Speaker 1 (20:40):
You mean, like just the word hey and nothing else.
Some people are doing just saying.
Speaker 2 (20:43):
That's a weak way.
Speaker 3 (20:44):
It's just apostrophe.
Speaker 2 (20:48):
It's generic it's generic. Yes, I agree, going straight for
you're hot is not a great idea. It's objectifying right away.
It's inappropriate for our first few messages. Yeah, don't ask
the question why are you on here? Because that seems judging.
Speaker 3 (21:05):
You know what you're gonna get back?
Speaker 2 (21:08):
Have you done that before? No? No, no, no, So
let's go straight to what you should do. Apparently this
is according to the experts, show genuine interest in the person,
be thoughtful, be flirty while personalizing it, not just using
the name. But hey, so you are into parasailing, tell
me about it, you know, like, get right to it
(21:29):
and don't be generic. Generic is boring, Yes it is.
And it's I guess easy to do that on an
app because you're just.
Speaker 3 (21:36):
But there's thousands of people on there. You got to
stick out, Yeah, you do.
Speaker 2 (21:40):
So the word is ask questions based on what you've
seen on their profile, what they've shared, Lean into your
playful side, show your personality hopefully jokes say.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
Like star Wars, I love Star Wars.
Speaker 2 (21:53):
Try to match their energy level. I bet it's a
hard thing to do and never thought about it.
Speaker 3 (21:59):
Start type it and you go delete delete the leaky.
Speaker 2 (22:03):
Delete, delete the leak, don't be generic, be yourself, and
pay attention to grammar. It says a lot.
Speaker 5 (22:09):
Follow us on Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
We read and see every single comment, question, every message,
So we're hearing from you a lot right now, Teachers
and parents back to school time. Tracy sent this as
a former teacher and now a teacher's assistant. I believe
the most important thing parents can do is realize when
teachers have to discuss something negative about your child, they
(22:35):
are also upset because they love your children too. Listen
with an open mind and ask about ways that they
can help their child. That's a beautiful thing to say.
Speaker 3 (22:44):
It is.
Speaker 2 (22:44):
Look, it's the most natural thing in the plant on
the planet to be at your child's defense, right, I mean,
it just is. So I'm sure they see that every
single day. Anita says. I wanted to the teachers to
know that if they needed to call me regarding something
unpleasant about my children's grades or behavior, I believed them.
As a teacher myself, I knew that teachers do not
(23:06):
choose to make parent phone calls just for fun. Yeah,
but that's true.
Speaker 3 (23:13):
Plus with you know when your kid comes home and says, yeah, well,
miss so and so it's like, okay, right, let's get
both sides of this.
Speaker 2 (23:21):
And your child needs that safe space though too, to vent.
So listen, there's so much going on. There's so much
psychology going on with all this.
Speaker 3 (23:31):
In that case.
Speaker 1 (23:31):
I mean, look, they're in school to learn. That becomes
a teaching moment, right.
Speaker 2 (23:34):
So I can remember first grade, and I remember just
adoring my first grade teacher, and how when you look back,
how important that teacher is because that's the parent of
the room. You saw the adult as a parent figure,
and I certainly did. I love that lady so much.
Christa sent this as an elementary school nurse. Please, teachers
(23:58):
and parents, don't assume I know a child has something
medical going on. I can't advocate for them if I
don't know.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
Yeah, when to think about how many students to see
every day?
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Right, Also, chris As sends that because that means you
know that she has come up against that. Right, that's
another job that is so important at the school. School
nurses keep it coming, you know, any comment, any question,
any thought that we can share here for you at
back to school time, we'll do it. Murphy, I know
(24:30):
you love a little business story. So here's a big
business story. Bath and Bodyworks set to open six hundred
new stores, but Kiosk stores on college campuses, in the bookstores.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
So smart, Yes, that really is very smart.
Speaker 2 (24:46):
It is because's gen Z shoppers love Bath and body Works.
It's like their number one. It's one of their number
one top brands that they want and will buy if
confronted with it.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
So every year it's on Mattie's Christmas list. When I
ask the kids' lists, I always get three or four candles,
some lotions, and it's.
Speaker 2 (25:07):
All bathrooms, bodywork, right, And they're gonna start with and
it'll be for this coming twenty twenty five, twenty six
school years, well this school year, Yeah, they're gonna start
going in, rolling in there favorites like body creams, lotions,
the mist, the Wallflower diffusers, hand sanitizers that's a big one,
lipcare going in and the three wig candles most popular,
sense are the ones they're going to start with the
(25:29):
ladies and gents, so that means champagne, toast, mahogany, teak wood.
And as far as for the sense of the rooms,
clean house vibes is a high one, really high on
the left.
Speaker 1 (25:39):
That's really cool. And you know, you can always tell
when somebody's using hand sanitizer from Bathroom body Works because
it smells good.
Speaker 2 (25:45):
Totally walking into I walked into one the other day.
Taylor's birthday was yesterday. Of course she got some Bathroom
body Works from us as part of her whole big gift.
And you walk in there, it's just an onslaught of
like I walk in there going, you know, I'm looking
for in the stars, in the star and then the
first thing you hit is all the new stuff, and
it was Halloween stuff. Ghoul friend smells incredible. There's one
(26:09):
called vampire Blood candles and the sprays and the lotions
and you're like, wait, I'm completely They even said, hey,
can I help you. I'm like, I'm confused now about
what i want.
Speaker 1 (26:19):
I'm surprised there are no more business, no other businesses
that use their little model for you buy six and
then that's where you unlock all the discounts, because it's
really smart. You're going to walk out with a hall.
You're not just going to buy one or two. You know,
I have a rewards account, of course you do, yeah,
and I get a reward like probably.
Speaker 2 (26:37):
Once a month, it's worth it then sixteen.
Speaker 3 (26:39):
Dollars maximum reward every month, so it handles a regular price.
You can get them. Look and by the way, speaking
of mahogany teakwood, there is also like an ultra mahogany
teak wood.
Speaker 2 (26:51):
Even better spoken like a bath and body works dad.
Speaker 5 (26:55):
Right there, social media connect.
Speaker 2 (26:59):
We do love hearing from you, and we do read
and see every message that rolls in. And with all
this back to school talk, because back to school time
is here. We talk a lot about teachers and parents
and those communications and the kids and all the things
that go along with it. But someone at school who's
very very important. Is the school nurse so important? Yeah,
(27:24):
when you think about that whole dynamic. When a child
goes to a school nurse, sometimes it's not just the
fever or the cough or that cut themselves in the playground.
They're also being cared for emotionally. Believe it. Believe it.
Speaker 3 (27:43):
You never know.
Speaker 2 (27:44):
Also, what if you don't know your school nurse yet
and you have to go to the nurse if you're
a kid, you could be meeting the most compassionate person,
or you could be meeting what's that.
Speaker 5 (27:57):
You just never know, really.
Speaker 2 (27:59):
Yes, yes, yes, you never had a school nurse that
was less than gentle Murphy.
Speaker 1 (28:05):
All of my school nurses, they never had a school nurse.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
You never had a school nurse. What happened if somebody
got sick?
Speaker 3 (28:12):
Okay, rub some dirt on it, you suck it up.
Speaker 1 (28:15):
Really.
Speaker 2 (28:18):
One of my best friends, her name is Melanie. She
is a school nurse. She loves what she does, what
she does for a living, but it is about the
kids for her. She calls them my kids. She always says,
my kid and I have a kid, and I'm going
to the hospital this afternoon because one of my kids. Yeah,
they do. So, let's see regarding that from Shelby to Murphy,
(28:40):
Samonjody dot Com was hearing you talk about what goes
on during back to school. I'm a cafe manager at
the school. Please let all of us know us know,
meaning in the cafeteria, about allergies as soon as possible.
It takes us some time to get substitute food items
for allergies. We were saying, make sure the school nurses
know about your kids' conditions, or they can't have this,
(29:03):
or they can't have that. Also, I'm not sure about
what where other schools do it, but we need kids
to have their badges on them at all times. That's
from Shelby. Keep it coming, Let's talk about all of this.
Murphy Salmon, Jody dot com
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