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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Welcome to the Murphy Salmon Jody after the show podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I always said this was a day I wouldn't want
to come to work, that I would need the day
off if this ever happened, And I read about it
last night while I was trying to go to sleep.
Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban have separated after nineteen years
of marriage. We did it in the Hollywood Outsider today
and you have, you know, really come through online about it.
Everybody's got a lot of feelings about it. Yeah, you know,
(00:24):
I'm so sad. I don't know these people. We don't
know what their life is really like together. Of course,
when you go into any relationship, there was the possibility
that it may not work out. But the world felt
differently about Nicole and Keith.
Speaker 3 (00:37):
Did the world feel differently or did Jody feel differently?
Speaker 2 (00:40):
Well? Well, I really like them both separately. I really
love her. She's a favorite to watch. I think she's
just captivating and talented. And he also very captivating, very talented,
very special. So when they got together and they both
had the whole Australian history and the thing.
Speaker 1 (00:56):
You know, well, two there are a couple of things
going there. One of them is that. You know, she
helped him, you know, get through his sobriet well to
be sober again.
Speaker 2 (01:05):
She staged an intervention literally like three months after they
got married.
Speaker 1 (01:09):
Right and so so yeah, I know the story is
really special to you. But the way that they represented
themselves too, him always calling her baby doll, I mean
in any sort of power baby girl, at any sort
of Yeah. See, Jenny pays attention. But you know, but
every event that they were together, he was always doting
on her, yes, and she was really doing the same thing.
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So when you see that, it's like, wow, that's really nice,
the public display of affection for so many years.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
But the fact remains that nobody can know what actually
is happening in a marriage except those two people. It
doesn't matter what the world sees or what is shared.
A relationship is between two people and two people. These
two people weren't together a lot, especially recently in the
last five years. She is working a ton. You know,
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she kicked her career into a high gear. I think
when their children, they have two daughters, their children got
older and she was able to you know, you know,
it allowed her the time to do it, and she
chose to do it. Like foot on the gear of
the career, and he as well.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
He's always gone, well, she was doing movies and Netflix
shows at the same time, right, working, Yeah, and he's touring.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
Yeah, and that's it's life on the road. You don't know.
They might remain friends, you know, it might have been
that they broke down from inside whatever. But the word is,
and we mentioned this in The Outsider today, that he's
the one that apparently called it off and she's the
one who was trying to make it work. Murphy, he
didn't catch that today the Outsider. Yeah, that's what's that's
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what's being said to from sources close to both of them.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
I'm surprised to hear that and that No, no, no,
I didn't think i'mbout to say it was her. I
just thought it wound up kind of becoming who knows,
you know, the mutual thing is like this, okay, this
clear is not work anymore. So for him to be
the one too.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
That's the word. That's a rumor also though we really
don't know, but that's the word sources close to them.
It's no surprise to Keith Urban's camp. They haven't been together,
they haven't been living together. For months. The last time
they were spotted together was in like June.
Speaker 3 (03:18):
Yeah. See, that's the funny thing about these. Whenever you
have the big celebrity breakups, it's to you it's like
all of a sudden, the bomb dropped, and it's like
they've been separated from months.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
I don't think it's ever all of a sudden between anybody,
or all of a sudden whatever you.
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Say, well, I mean when the news comes out.
Speaker 2 (03:33):
Just like yeah, yeah, so I want to get to
some of your comments. I posted that I needed the
day off, you know, to deal with this. Shelley said same.
There goes all my hope. They have been my favorite
famous power couple. They were goals as far as I'm concerned.
Devastated in all caps. Yeah, mary Anne. I wasn't sure
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whether this was true. I haven't heard it anywhere else.
This was last night though, when I posted it, because
this is when it started showing up.
Speaker 1 (04:05):
I heard oh no, oh, my god, and I was
word of like, did something happen to a family member? No.
I was surprised too. I was like, yeah, I.
Speaker 2 (04:16):
Made a joke years ago to y'all if like, if
they ever separate, I'm gonna have to take the day
off obviously, I'm here.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
It's funny, Mary, because I had a moment too when
I came across it on Twitter yesterday. It was I
was like, oh, this can't be true. And I saw
two or three other tmz. Yeah, man, I gotta let
Jody know. And it's like, no, if there's one, Jody
probably already knows.
Speaker 2 (04:36):
That right bbe sent Jody. I immediately thought of you
when I heard this news. Oh you're so sweet, Kimberly.
How did this happen? I just want to cry, Holly.
I honestly thought they would be forever. This is on
our Facebook and Instagram pages. Tammy, Oh wow, I hadn't
heard this. Wonder why they seemed so in love they did.
(04:59):
They may still love it each other. You know, a
marriage breaking down and people deciding not to live under
the same roof or you share their lives does not
mean there's not love there. Sometimes love is forever. You
could love somebody forever but not live with them. You
could love somebody and they not be right for you, you know.
And maybe that's a weird thing to say, but I
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think it needs to be said. They may die loving
each other, but they doesn't mean that they will he
a country song there, give it to Keith. Yeah, look,
she inspired a lot of his music. I oh, there
are albums where there are songs that are just owe
to Nicole for sure. For a fact. You know, I
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really am a fan of both of them. When she
does anything, I'll watch it, and when he That's why
I was so excited when they got together, because I
had just discovered him like wow, and I would listen
to his music and when he met her, he would
write song. There's a lot of songs about her. So anyway,
he's got the tattoo. I hope he keeps it.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
If you see that getting lasered off you, of.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Course, it says nicoll I wonder what you could turn
that into. Can you get creative? Glinda said, I saw
it and I thought it was spamed. I hoped it
was spam. Celeste, how can they do this to us? Marianne,
is it really true? I'm crushed to hear this. I
thought they were forever, Lisa said, I never understood that relationship.
(06:29):
Aw yeah, I was just happy because it seemed like
here's what, here's another thing. It seemed like, remember, this
is my imagination but she was married to Trump Tom
Cruise and she got out from under that. She was
unhappy she got out from under that, and she dated
a little bit. She dated Lenny Kravitz quickly, but then
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she was introduced to Keith. His story is that she
floated into the room, like when she was walked into
the room. He was like fascinated and wouldn't we all be?
But they connected over their Australian, you know, heritage, and
they started dating and it was just they couldn't look
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at any at anybody but each other for a very
long time. And you can believe all of that. That
doesn't mean that it was going to last. And nineteen
years of marriage is a long time. They have that
and in some respects a lot of people see it
as it's so sad, But they did have a successful
marriage for nineteen years and they have two beautiful children.
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You know, we don't know the story. We may never
know the story about what really happened. I'm just telling you.
I'm reading between the lines. I've read between them, I've
heard the songs. And Murphy made a comment last night
to me and some there are some comments here about
her movie Roles and the choices that she has made,
maybe that's been hard for him.
Speaker 1 (07:58):
Well, what I was saying is that, and I I
don't know, because I'm not an actor and actress. In fact,
it would be very difficult for you know, for me.
But you know, if your spouse is also an actor,
actress or whatever, and they're in a movie that has
intimate scenes and obviously they're you know, they're they're fake scenes,
but you know, but nonetheless, the portrayal of that is
probably difficult to watch. And unless you're another actor, actress
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or whatever. And I'm not saying that that is the
thing that God, even if.
Speaker 2 (08:23):
You do that on set, it's hard to see someone
else do it on set, right, And so she and
she does have some she does choose some very physical
and even racy roles, and but that's to me, that's
her choice, that's her art. He knew that when he
married her, because she had been doing that for years before.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I mean, that may not be it at all. It
could be a sobriety thing for him. There could be
some things that are challenging his sobriety. Ever, know, you know,
I you know, they're going to keep what they should
keep privately between them. But if it's something that's helpful,
If if it really is a sobriety thing, I think
Keith Urban would come forward and say something about it. Yeah,
you know, just because it's cathartic.
Speaker 2 (09:06):
Well about to be watching him on that show it's
called The Road.
Speaker 3 (09:10):
I believe that with him and Bliss Shelton. Yeah, it's
one of those competition shows where a bunch of opening act,
unknown artists that are going to open for Keith Urban
every night, and they get voted off every time until
there's one final winner.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
Yeah, Cynthia said, sending prayers and loved to Nicole and
Keith and the family. They are going through a tough
period and that hopefully they can make it through. Maybe
their love will bring them back together. Like I said,
I think that's it's very possible that there's still love there.
It doesn't mean that they're going to make it. Bier
Get said, is it confirmed? I think it's confirmed when
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all media outlets are saying it.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Yeah. The problem with the way it gets posted in
media is the headlines look very different than the actual article. Yeah,
because it's overstated, you know, the New York Post not
that that's you know, Oh no, it says Keith Urban
revealed how he nearly blew up marriage Nicole Kidman one
year before the split. You know, the thing is that
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the article, as I see it only really talks about
his sobriety at the beginning and how she really stuck
through it, you know, with him, But it doesn't say
anything about.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
You know, think about it if you were there's no
way to know, like we've said this, but think about
if you were never with somebody because you're always on
the road. They were always traveling. They live like no
mads almost right, they're all there. But when they do
come back together, they it's probably it could be awkward.
You know, there's a getting familiar period and maybe things
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it take a while to get comfortable again, and then
they're gone again.
Speaker 3 (10:47):
And you have to do that over and over.
Speaker 2 (10:49):
Right, that's over difficult.
Speaker 1 (10:51):
You know.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
Proximity is very important to our relationship. Beth says, I know,
I'm so sad. Becky sent the oh no, the like
a jeff a no.
Speaker 1 (11:02):
So that post article is saying the same thing about
it doesn't go into detail, but that he initiated the
you know, the split. But they were also the ones
that reported that same thing about him getting up in
the middle of an interview. That was where that came.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
That's recently, Yeah, where he just.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Stopped an interview abruptly talking about the movie with Zach Effron.
Speaker 2 (11:22):
No, No, I think the I think maybe the Baby
Girl movie. Ironically it's called Baby Girl.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
They were asking him about her.
Speaker 2 (11:28):
I think I think they were.
Speaker 1 (11:30):
It actually is, Yeah, a family affair. It was the
twenty twenty four movie. It was Zach Efron. Yeah, they
asked after they asked about the wife's intimate scenes with
zach Efron, and.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
So well, you know, you're asking about something that he
might be dealing with or maybe painful for him.
Speaker 1 (11:43):
Or maybe you want what I'm talking about or not.
Speaker 2 (11:45):
Just that maybe he wanted his interview to be about
his career and his work. You just never know. We
don't know these people.
Speaker 3 (11:52):
It may have been a predetermined off limits So Nicole,
we're here to talk about the music, Yeah, and my
show or whatever.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Christy sent this. They've been living apart for months, just
came out and announced it. A source close to them
said that their relationship ran its course. Yeah. You just
never know. But I didn't mean to scream to loud
last night, I was trying to relax and picked I
had not been on my device all night. I had
gone for a long walk, you know, it, took a
(12:22):
nice shower, did my skincare routine, get in the bed,
and I'm like, what it is?
Speaker 1 (12:29):
It is really interesting how we become so invested in
celebrities that we admire, like and you know that we feel,
you know, connected to well in some way.
Speaker 2 (12:38):
I've always been joky about that that I would not
be able to show up to work if they you know,
if they broke up. But I you know me, any
relationship can break down. It really can. If you get
into any relationship, a marriage, a work relationship, a friendship,
you have to go into it knowing this might not
work out. You have zero guarantees in life. It's sad.
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But anyway, thank you for commenting on and sharing your
thoughts because they're still coming in on our Facebook and
Instagram page. And you know what, I will say this,
I'm still going to be a fan of both of them.
I really do enjoy him. I think he's just different enough.
He's got his own Like as soon as you hear
his voice, you know it's him. He's got his own
riffs as.
Speaker 3 (13:22):
Well, his own guitar style style.
Speaker 2 (13:25):
And her anything she does I really enjoy. Sometimes she'll
do something quirky, like when she played Lucille Ball recently
and I was like, WHOA, she pulled that offut nobody
thought she could pull. She's a very driven person. You know,
she doesn't have to work as much as she does,
but she wants to do it. I think that's cool
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